This hits hard today because my sweet partner of 22 years needs to be euthanized. I am struggling. I have had horses all my life and lost 3, and it never gets easier. But this one is really hard for the reasons you raised - knowing when it's time. Thank you for sharing, because I needed to hear out loud all the things I have been keeping to myself.
Three years ago my lovely mare had to be euthanized. We fought founder for two months and it got so bad that her bone was coming out the bottom of her hoof, so we knew it was time. We scheduled for a Friday and gave her four days of time with her bestie, being out on the grass, and painkillers. About thirty minutes before the vet came on Friday, she laid down in the field and stayed there. I think she knew it was time and was telling us she was ready to go. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do, but it would’ve been far more cruel to make her suffer for no reason. Thank you for taking such good care of Yoshi and not holding on to him past his time. I’ve seen so many pet owners who basically have zombie pets with no quality of life that they are keeping alive and it makes me so sad. When you take stewardship of an animal, that also means possibly having to make that tough decision when the time comes and doing what is best for them.
Thank you for staying with Yoshi. Having his human herd members with him in the last moments was a gift. To respond to your comment request on things I learned - the day I had to put my first animal down was awful and, honestly, I waited too long. I felt a lot of guilt afterwards; the reasons I didn't do anything sooner were selfish. What I learned from it was to ask a lot of questions with the vet about the situation and the realistic prognosis. I didn't ask questions other than "what can you do to make her better?"
Thank you for posting this. I have an older dog that we keep discussing if its time. One day he seems like he is ok and then somedays its not so good... Its so hard. There is alot of talk about it being too late but you dont want to be early either but you are 100% right... I have only asked my vet what can we do to help him.... I have not asked that hard question yet. We have an appt coming up in a week and I will definitely be asking that (or should I say Im going to ask my husband to ask that).
I'm so sorry about Yoshi. The barn I ride at just lost one of our most beloved horses to colic. Woody was my very dear friend and we've all been shocked and heart broken because it was so sudden. So, I very much appreciate this video at this time.
It’s never an easy decision when we have to put a beloved animal to its final sleep. Our animals almost always, barring a serious accident, tell us that they are failing but we must always be attuned to them as sometimes the signs are quite small or hidden. I’m so sorry you had to take that step with dear Yoshi as it’s so emotionally painful but it was the right decision. Thank you for sharing, it will certainly help those who may not have taken this particular journey yet. Good luck and safe travels.
100%, topcatwarrior. I am almost 80, have had many many animals and had to make this decision many times. Always hard but you attune yourself, as you said, and you come to know it's a right decision. They live forever in your memory, as all loved ones do. And you both have been graced with each other's presence while they were here.
I've only ever seen my family dog and a few pet mice put down, and I really admire your strength in sharing so many details about your experience. Doing everything you can to find a solution before accepting that it's their time to go is an intensely personal process. And it's hard to go on to accept that that will be your experience with all of the animals you plan to keep. The biggest thing that comforts me is knowing that I had just as big of an impact on my animals' lives as they did on mine. Those chapters may be closed, but they're full of love. The grief is proof that you gave them your all.
In February 2023 had to put my first horse who was my heart horse down then in October my mom passed suddenly....hard year.....still crying....thank you for sharing this, in tears but yes people need to know, thank you.
So very sorry about Yoshi. We lost our dear horse 'Listo' in May to colic. He was the sweetest horse we've ever had and it was just heartbreaking. Time does heal but he will be dearly missed for the rest of our lives.
We put one of our horses down last fall. She was nearly 30 and not able to keep on weight. The vet said she likely would survive the winter (maybe) if we fed her supplements, good hay, etc. for the winter. However, the vet also said something I'll never forget, "better a week early than a day late". She commented that the last thing we'd want to see is the horse slipping on the ice in January and breaking a leg, laying on the ice and snow for hours until the vet could get there, etc. So, we made the choice to put her down in October, when she was standing in the sun, grazing on green grass. Life doesn't get much better for a horse...then she just went to sleep. I'm not sure we could have lived with ourselves if we had waited and then something traumatic happened in mid-winter. I have no regrets, but miss her.
Putting a pet down is one of the hardest decisions we make (as pet/horse owners); Not an easy decision but one at times we need to make for their wellbeing and quality of life; you did the right thing and may Yoshi be running free in heaven; and I do believe that our animals tell us when it is time
I’m in the process making the decision right now. My girl is 36 years old and has gone blind. I’ve worked with her to be able to go I.in And out of the barn/stall without being scared. It’s getting harder for her. It is such an emotional time right now. Thank you so much for your video - it has helped me.
Thank you for sharing your sad experience with Yoshi. Its a hard decision we have to make for our horse's welfare. My 26 year old horse has bone on bone arthritis in a hind fetlock. It can be frustrating managing pain and watching the slow deterioration of muscle tone and mass when he's very well fed. I consider putting him down because I see he's in pain and has some trouble getting around, and then feel guilty thinking I'm just doing it for myself because of all vet bills, boarding, and time his care takes from my life. He's a good pasture mate for my other horse so for now he has a useful and peaceful life. Typically he's bright eyed and alert but upon looking at his x-rays my vet said he qualified for euthanasia. When the pain is unmanageable and he "checks out" from life will be the time to make arrangements. Your discussion helped me sort a lot of my feelings. Thank you again for sharing.
This sounds like a really difficult decision and thing to manage. And I totally understand the guilt you talk about here, freeing up finances, etc. I like to think that there is no way the decision should be easy, as it shows just how incredibly you value your horse. Blessings ❤️
Thank you Carmella for sharing your experience. So sorry you lost your pony. In the past 3 years I lost my sweet little 19 year pony Truffles to colic and my dear 15 year old Connemara to cancer. I should have let my Connemara go sooner. I have a 21 year old Welsh Cob D left of my little herd. Your talk has helped me with my own pain and also with the reality of the future with my older horse. Thank you
I had all the same questions during and after putting down my dog and two cats over the years. This brought back the emotions of that day. 🥲 I miss my babies and like to picture them running around and playing or lying in the sun. I hope I'll see them again in Heaven one day.
Thanks for this video. It’s good for people to hear signs and things to consider before and after euthanasia. I tried to follow these same steps with my soul mate, unfortunately thing’s didn’t go as planned. The vet was early so I wasn’t able to spend that special time with him. My husband wasn’t there for support, so my poor vet had to deal with this hysterical person, then my burial guy had plans change and I had to wait until the next day for burial😭 It all worked out but no matter what the circumstance is, you’re never completely prepared. It’s a process that everyone deals with differently, but like you said, it should always be in the best interest of the animal 🐴
I had to put my cat down. She had cancer, a type not suitable treatment. So glad I stayed with her while she was being euthanised. I was a nurse knew how unpleasant this type of cancer is for humans so get some comfort from knowing saved her misery and pain. You have done a truly good thing talking about little Yoshi, your honesty will help many other horses and their human friends.
my childhood horse was just diagnosed with cancer and this thought has been on my mind. he still has some time left and has his full appitite and personality, but knowing i might have to do this is heart breaking. thank you for sharing information on when to know its time.
Sorry about losing Yoshi. The symptoms you describe sound like the symptoms of the horse of another TH-camrs with horses had. It's one of Elphick Event Ponies horses. They're located in England. He had a problem with his neck and could be in severe pain, and could become explosive from it. Meg did a whole segment on it and they were able to name the disease.Again, I'm sorry yuhad to go through this, and I think it's good you've talked about it. Its something we all deal with eventually.
I thought the same thing too, although with Meg’s horse Ari they think he injured himself playing in the paddock. I think he’s still around, he just can’t be ridden anymore.
Terrific video. Dealing with a lot of grief right now. Agree with you so much about grief not being talked about enough. It’s so good to talk about this stuff.
Thank you for sharing your story & your pain. You were with him till the end. It is hard to make this decision but we have to do the best by our friend. You helped him cross his horse rainbow 🌈
I’m convinced that every prospective horse owner should see this video before getting into horses. We almost always wait too long to put our beloved companions down. It should be about them, not us.
I’m sorry about loosing Yoshi ❤️ I’m glad you’re doing well and just thinking about the good memories! My family had to put down our 12 year old dog in April and I am still going through the grieving period so I know what you went through. Loosing any animal you love is so difficult ❤️
Thank you for sharing this process. I've only had to put our beloved lab down and knowing the steps is helpful. I miss seeing Yoshi on your videos. You gave him your best and he knew love and kindness with you and your husband.
I was crying while watching this video. It never gets easier, even though knowing what needs to be done is helpful. You just have to go thru the pain, but it is like trying to go thru a brick wall sometimes.... I agree with you, we have a sacred responsibility towards our animals (it is a "mayordomía" in Spanish, I can't think of the word in English right now) and we have to decide when it is the best time for them to let them go. It's so hard! 🥲 Edit: Stewardship! That's the word I couldn't come up with before.
Rest in peace Yoshi ❤. I am so sad 😢. The best thing to do if you want to put down a human or an animal is you should be ready, and think of the good things you did for your human or an animal, be with them in the last moment, enjoy with them in the last moment, keep their memories safely even in your mind or in physical and always believe in god. Sorry for your loss 😢!
oh my god this title scared me so much - i knew about yoshi, but since it's been so long, i saw the title and i thought you meant you had to put down tucker or ruark
Just earlier this year in March I lost my Belgian named Brielle to sand colic and a twisted colon. I thought I was prepared to euthanize her, but when the time came I couldn’t bring myself to do it. She ended up passing on and it was the saddest moment in my life. I should have let her go sooner but I wanted to cling onto what little hope I had. She made such a huge impact on my life in the short six months I spent with her and I miss her every day.
On July 9, we had to put our 31 year old Arabian down. We owned him 29 years. He was just fine until the morning of; he went down and couldn’t get back up. His body was shutting down. He’s my second horse loss. I lost my first horse in 2015 to old age as well. It hurts for sure and is a grief unlike others.
It is a horrible decision to have to make. I've just been to check on my 26 yo mare, who has really begun to look her age these past few months, just like her mother did about 18 months before she passed away. Do I put her through another winter, bearing in mind she loathes rugs and stables so may struggle, or should I just pick one last 'good' day in the autumn, before the weather turns bad? I'll see how she goes and make my decision accordingly for her welfare, but for me, the worst part is the aftermath, when you have to dispose of the body.
I love how you talk about the Bible and God with your animals. It's such a huge piece in our outlook. Animals are a slice of heaven on earth, and the gift they give us is so strong but so short.
Im not tough enough for that part of owning animals, feels like im losing family when one of my animals die. Probably wont get anymore, its buying a ticket to the worst day in your life someone told me, they were right.
It's always hard to take the decision to put your friend to sleep. But when the time comes that there is no hope, it's the best solution. What i don't understand is that in the states they did'nt knew what he had. Are there not good clinics?🤔
Question for you , I have a 26year old gelding he had a horrible problem with wind sucking …. Did yoshi ever exhibit cribbing or wind sucking during your time with him? Because my gelding exhibits similar pain strikes
Another option for people with large horses, if you live close enough to a university large animal hospital..... How I learned this... I lost a mare to very unusual circumstances. Due to the nature of her disease state, my vet wanted me to get a necropsy. I live a few hours from MSU. They have a crematorium there. We were able to euthanize my mare, inside of a trailer WITHOUT DIVIDERS, and haul her to MSU, where they unloaded her, and did the necropsy. And I was offered a choice of a single horse cremation, for around $1000, or a mass cremation, along with other horses, cows, sheep, etc, for only $250. Total cost of necropsy, including a bunch of tests on tissues, and cremation was only $400, because I allowed my horses body to be used to teach veterinary students, when the necropsy was done. We do not have rendering service in our area. So there isn't anybody who can pick a horse up. And I didn't want her to end up in dog food, with the euthanasia drugs in her (yes that's what happens when a service picks your horse up) So this option worked well under the circumstances. And the loss of my mare, had one positive outcome. MSU is a teaching hospital. Equine veterinary students were able to learn from her highly unusual case.
There is a reason why it is referred to as "last act of kindness". The animal will be pain free and that is what most of us want. It is cycle of life. We had a 3 strike and your out rule while I was growing out.. Just remember it is done for the sake of the animal, but ours.
Carnella, here is a Bible verse that confirms your statement about being your animal"s caretaker. Proverbs 12:10 (NKJV)A righteous man regards the life of his animal... *We are indeed called to take good care of our animals.
If you were in the position of a supporting person, not the owner of the animal, as someone who has been through the process, what would you recommend I could do to make the whole process more pleasant for the owner? I'm a professional horse hauler so there are times when I transport a horse to the clinic, where they decide it has to be put down, or when they call me to an emergency cases that don't have happy ending… I never had to decide to put down any animal so just saying "you've done correct decision, he's in a better place now" feels really blunt as I have no idea what it must feel like to be in this situation. The logistics aspect of this is something I know really well, I've been through multiple "horse emergency" courses and then, you know… I've hauled some horses to their forever sleep so I'm asking more about the social part of this… Some of the roads back home have been really tough, clients crying in my car and stuff and I just felt so powerless…
Something I’ve learned, especially from working in ministry, is it’s ok to show emotions in those hard times. Oftentimes, we want to be strong for the person going through the trauma, but sharing the emotion is what can comfort them. There’s a scripture that says mourn with those who mourn and rejoice with those who rejoice. Obviously, don’t force yourself to cry, but letting yourself be vulnerable in those situations can make a world of difference to the people you are helping. Also, let the person direct your interaction. Some people want to talk about it, even if they are crying. They want you to ask questions and recount memories. Others will want to sit in silence. You can maybe ask if they want music or something to listen to rather than talking. I appreciate you and your heart to make the process easier for these people!
@@CarmellaAbel Thank you! It'll definitely need some practise, getting vulnerable around strangers while staying somewhat professional (I'm still responsible for the safety of the transport so I can't really get carried away by emotions), but I can see how, over the years, it has changed everything between my friends and me so I can imagine it'll work in this scenario as well… And thanks for sharing this story with us, everything that prepares the owner for the final decision can mean a huge difference in a welfare of their beloved animals…
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23 years later my heart still hurts from having to put my beautiful boy down. I know your pain.
This hits hard today because my sweet partner of 22 years needs to be euthanized. I am struggling. I have had horses all my life and lost 3, and it never gets easier. But this one is really hard for the reasons you raised - knowing when it's time. Thank you for sharing, because I needed to hear out loud all the things I have been keeping to myself.
Three years ago my lovely mare had to be euthanized. We fought founder for two months and it got so bad that her bone was coming out the bottom of her hoof, so we knew it was time. We scheduled for a Friday and gave her four days of time with her bestie, being out on the grass, and painkillers. About thirty minutes before the vet came on Friday, she laid down in the field and stayed there. I think she knew it was time and was telling us she was ready to go. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do, but it would’ve been far more cruel to make her suffer for no reason. Thank you for taking such good care of Yoshi and not holding on to him past his time. I’ve seen so many pet owners who basically have zombie pets with no quality of life that they are keeping alive and it makes me so sad. When you take stewardship of an animal, that also means possibly having to make that tough decision when the time comes and doing what is best for them.
Thank you for staying with Yoshi. Having his human herd members with him in the last moments was a gift.
To respond to your comment request on things I learned - the day I had to put my first animal down was awful and, honestly, I waited too long. I felt a lot of guilt afterwards; the reasons I didn't do anything sooner were selfish. What I learned from it was to ask a lot of questions with the vet about the situation and the realistic prognosis. I didn't ask questions other than "what can you do to make her better?"
This is good advice; asking the hard questions is hard do sometimes as well!
Thank you for posting this. I have an older dog that we keep discussing if its time. One day he seems like he is ok and then somedays its not so good... Its so hard. There is alot of talk about it being too late but you dont want to be early either but you are 100% right... I have only asked my vet what can we do to help him.... I have not asked that hard question yet. We have an appt coming up in a week and I will definitely be asking that (or should I say Im going to ask my husband to ask that).
I'm so sorry about Yoshi. The barn I ride at just lost one of our most beloved horses to colic. Woody was my very dear friend and we've all been shocked and heart broken because it was so sudden. So, I very much appreciate this video at this time.
I'm sorry for your loss. A similar thing happened at our barn. Praying for you and Woody ❤
@emmerolsen6260 thank you 🧡
It’s never an easy decision when we have to put a beloved animal to its final sleep. Our animals almost always, barring a serious accident, tell us that they are failing but we must always be attuned to them as sometimes the signs are quite small or hidden. I’m so sorry you had to take that step with dear Yoshi as it’s so emotionally painful but it was the right decision. Thank you for sharing, it will certainly help those who may not have taken this particular journey yet. Good luck and safe travels.
100%, topcatwarrior. I am almost 80, have had many many animals and had to make this decision many times. Always hard but you attune yourself, as you said, and you come to know it's a right decision. They live forever in your memory, as all loved ones do. And you both have been graced with each other's presence while they were here.
I had to put a horse down last week, that's why I haven't watched your videos lately, it was just too painful , time will heal the pain. 🙏✌️
Praying that your heart will be comforted ❤️ and your memory be filled with the good times
I've only ever seen my family dog and a few pet mice put down, and I really admire your strength in sharing so many details about your experience. Doing everything you can to find a solution before accepting that it's their time to go is an intensely personal process. And it's hard to go on to accept that that will be your experience with all of the animals you plan to keep.
The biggest thing that comforts me is knowing that I had just as big of an impact on my animals' lives as they did on mine. Those chapters may be closed, but they're full of love. The grief is proof that you gave them your all.
My most sincere condolences to you.
Had best mare in the world & put her down at 29yrs.. barely can talk about it .. 18 years later.
I know this grief. We had to do the same thing with our dog. I loved that little guy so much. I miss him every day. ❤
In February 2023 had to put my first horse who was my heart horse down then in October my mom passed suddenly....hard year.....still crying....thank you for sharing this, in tears but yes people need to know, thank you.
Oh no, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you went through. Praying for you and your family ❤
So very sorry about Yoshi. We lost our dear horse 'Listo' in May to colic. He was the sweetest horse we've ever had and it was just heartbreaking. Time does heal but he will be dearly missed for the rest of our lives.
We put one of our horses down last fall. She was nearly 30 and not able to keep on weight. The vet said she likely would survive the winter (maybe) if we fed her supplements, good hay, etc. for the winter. However, the vet also said something I'll never forget, "better a week early than a day late". She commented that the last thing we'd want to see is the horse slipping on the ice in January and breaking a leg, laying on the ice and snow for hours until the vet could get there, etc. So, we made the choice to put her down in October, when she was standing in the sun, grazing on green grass. Life doesn't get much better for a horse...then she just went to sleep. I'm not sure we could have lived with ourselves if we had waited and then something traumatic happened in mid-winter. I have no regrets, but miss her.
What a beautiful story ❤️ I appreciate you and your vet’s approach. This demonstrates to me how much you cared for your horse ❤️
Putting a pet down is one of the hardest decisions we make (as pet/horse owners); Not an easy decision but one at times we need to make for their wellbeing and quality of life; you did the right thing and may Yoshi be running free in heaven; and I do believe that our animals tell us when it is time
I’m in the process making the decision right now. My girl is 36 years old and has gone blind. I’ve worked with her to be able to go I.in And out of the barn/stall without being scared. It’s getting harder for her. It is such an emotional time right now. Thank you so much for your video - it has helped me.
Thank you for sharing your sad experience with Yoshi. Its a hard decision we have to make for our horse's welfare. My 26 year old horse has bone on bone arthritis in a hind fetlock. It can be frustrating managing pain and watching the slow deterioration of muscle tone and mass when he's very well fed. I consider putting him down because I see he's in pain and has some trouble getting around, and then feel guilty thinking I'm just doing it for myself because of all vet bills, boarding, and time his care takes from my life. He's a good pasture mate for my other horse so for now he has a useful and peaceful life. Typically he's bright eyed and alert but upon looking at his x-rays my vet said he qualified for euthanasia. When the pain is unmanageable and he "checks out" from life will be the time to make arrangements. Your discussion helped me sort a lot of my feelings. Thank you again for sharing.
This sounds like a really difficult decision and thing to manage. And I totally understand the guilt you talk about here, freeing up finances, etc. I like to think that there is no way the decision should be easy, as it shows just how incredibly you value your horse. Blessings ❤️
I love your videos. Im so sorry about your dear horse yoshi, we could tell he was so loved and happy in your care. RIP yoshi 💔
Bless you for sharing this invaluable information with us.
Thank you Carmella for sharing your experience. So sorry you lost your pony. In the past 3 years I lost my sweet little 19 year pony Truffles to colic and my dear 15 year old Connemara to cancer. I should have let my Connemara go sooner. I have a 21 year old Welsh Cob D left of my little herd. Your talk has helped me with my own pain and also with the reality of the future with my older horse. Thank you
I just got a horse a few months ago and your channel has helped me so much thank you!!!😊😊
That is so exciting, congrats!
I had all the same questions during and after putting down my dog and two cats over the years. This brought back the emotions of that day. 🥲 I miss my babies and like to picture them running around and playing or lying in the sun. I hope I'll see them again in Heaven one day.
I’m so sorry 🙏❤️ I agree with you on dealing with grief as well as the logistics of what you have to do in this situation. Great conversation!❤️
Thanks for this video. It’s good for people to hear signs and things to consider before and after euthanasia. I tried to follow these same steps with my soul mate, unfortunately thing’s didn’t go as planned. The vet was early so I wasn’t able to spend that special time with him. My husband wasn’t there for support, so my poor vet had to deal with this hysterical person, then my burial guy had plans change and I had to wait until the next day for burial😭 It all worked out but no matter what the circumstance is, you’re never completely prepared. It’s a process that everyone deals with differently, but like you said, it should always be in the best interest of the animal 🐴
This came out just at the right time I had to euthanize my horse exactly a week ago today. So extremely difficult but it was the kindest thing for him
I had to put my cat down. She had cancer, a type not suitable treatment. So glad I stayed with her while she was being euthanised.
I was a nurse knew how unpleasant this type of cancer is for humans so get some comfort from knowing saved her misery and pain.
You have done a truly good thing talking about little Yoshi, your honesty will help many other horses and their human friends.
I’ve never had to do this with a horse (yet) but I have with a dog, it’s been 4 years and I still miss him every day!! ❤ R.I.P Rocky pup
I’m so sorry. I don’t think there is love quite like a horses. We’ve had to put down 2 it never gets easier. Praying for you guys.
my childhood horse was just diagnosed with cancer and this thought has been on my mind. he still has some time left and has his full appitite and personality, but knowing i might have to do this is heart breaking. thank you for sharing information on when to know its time.
❤Lots of love coming your way❤
Sorry about losing Yoshi. The symptoms you describe sound like the symptoms of the horse of another TH-camrs with horses had. It's one of Elphick Event Ponies horses. They're located in England. He had a problem with his neck and could be in severe pain, and could become explosive from it. Meg did a whole segment on it and they were able to name the disease.Again, I'm sorry yuhad to go through this, and I think it's good you've talked about it. Its something we all deal with eventually.
I saw that video too! We got him x-rayed and it wasn’t the same thing; I think Yoshi’s had to do with a neurological problem
I thought the same thing too, although with Meg’s horse Ari they think he injured himself playing in the paddock. I think he’s still around, he just can’t be ridden anymore.
Terrific video. Dealing with a lot of grief right now. Agree with you so much about grief not being talked about enough. It’s so good to talk about this stuff.
He had a good life but I’m so, so sorry! As a child I witnessed my pony Henry take his last breath. Forget closer; there is no getting over it. 😢
Thank you for sharing your story & your pain. You were with him till the end. It is hard to make this decision but we have to do the best by our friend. You helped him cross his horse rainbow 🌈
I’m convinced that every prospective horse owner should see this video before getting into horses. We almost always wait too long to put our beloved companions down.
It should be about them, not us.
I’m sorry about loosing Yoshi ❤️ I’m glad you’re doing well and just thinking about the good memories! My family had to put down our 12 year old dog in April and I am still going through the grieving period so I know what you went through. Loosing any animal you love is so difficult ❤️
I have so much respect to you for making this video. I am happy to be on this journey with you and Collin
Sorry for your loss
Thank you for sharing this process. I've only had to put our beloved lab down and knowing the steps is helpful. I miss seeing Yoshi on your videos. You gave him your best and he knew love and kindness with you and your husband.
Thank you for sharing.🐴
So sorry😢. Very brave of you to share this important info with us, thank you.
I was crying while watching this video. It never gets easier, even though knowing what needs to be done is helpful. You just have to go thru the pain, but it is like trying to go thru a brick wall sometimes.... I agree with you, we have a sacred responsibility towards our animals (it is a "mayordomía" in Spanish, I can't think of the word in English right now) and we have to decide when it is the best time for them to let them go. It's so hard! 🥲 Edit: Stewardship! That's the word I couldn't come up with before.
Rest in peace Yoshi ❤. I am so sad 😢. The best thing to do if you want to put down a human or an animal is you should be ready, and think of the good things you did for your human or an animal, be with them in the last moment, enjoy with them in the last moment, keep their memories safely even in your mind or in physical and always believe in god. Sorry for your loss 😢!
aweee. Im so sorry:( we will miss Yoshi.
I am so very sorry for you and your boyfriend. I know too much what it's like to lose an animal. I cry with you, I cry for you.
Thank you for this video. You were so good to him- you gave him such a good home. RIP Yoshi, he lives still in your heart. ❤
And thank you for all your videos, they help me so much!
Great discussion on a difficult topic. Much needed!
I'm sorry to hear that, Carmella. v.v It's never easy to say goodbye to our loving animal companions.
oh my god this title scared me so much - i knew about yoshi, but since it's been so long, i saw the title and i thought you meant you had to put down tucker or ruark
I’m so sorry 😢 my heart is with you at this time of loss.
Just earlier this year in March I lost my Belgian named Brielle to sand colic and a twisted colon. I thought I was prepared to euthanize her, but when the time came I couldn’t bring myself to do it. She ended up passing on and it was the saddest moment in my life. I should have let her go sooner but I wanted to cling onto what little hope I had. She made such a huge impact on my life in the short six months I spent with her and I miss her every day.
On July 9, we had to put our 31 year old Arabian down. We owned him 29 years. He was just fine until the morning of; he went down and couldn’t get back up. His body was shutting down. He’s my second horse loss. I lost my first horse in 2015 to old age as well. It hurts for sure and is a grief unlike others.
16:48 If your beloved animal friends aren't waiting in heaven to greet you, then is it really heaven? ❤
Im so sorry! ❤️
It is a horrible decision to have to make. I've just been to check on my 26 yo mare, who has really begun to look her age these past few months, just like her mother did about 18 months before she passed away. Do I put her through another winter, bearing in mind she loathes rugs and stables so may struggle, or should I just pick one last 'good' day in the autumn, before the weather turns bad? I'll see how she goes and make my decision accordingly for her welfare, but for me, the worst part is the aftermath, when you have to dispose of the body.
I love how you talk about the Bible and God with your animals. It's such a huge piece in our outlook. Animals are a slice of heaven on earth, and the gift they give us is so strong but so short.
Awww, thank you for sharing! I know it had to be hard.
I am so sorry 😢
Im not tough enough for that part of owning animals, feels like im losing family when one of my animals die. Probably wont get anymore, its buying a ticket to the worst day in your life someone told me, they were right.
It's always hard to take the decision to put your friend to sleep. But when the time comes that there is no hope, it's the best solution.
What i don't understand is that in the states they did'nt knew what he had. Are there not good clinics?🤔
Would it have been possible to bury Yoshi somewhere in a field on your property. Is that legal? Did you ever consider it?
This is so sad 😢😢😢
Question for you , I have a 26year old gelding he had a horrible problem with wind sucking …. Did yoshi ever exhibit cribbing or wind sucking during your time with him? Because my gelding exhibits similar pain strikes
Hello! No he never did that, and I’m not too familiar with wind sucking to know of any causes. But I hope you find the root of the problem!
Did you made his last video?
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your talk is interesting ⚘❤
I used to have this horse her name was Gaza she was 23-24 when she died I rented her from the place that I would ride her it was very sad😢😢
Another option for people with large horses, if you live close enough to a university large animal hospital.....
How I learned this...
I lost a mare to very unusual circumstances. Due to the nature of her disease state, my vet wanted me to get a necropsy.
I live a few hours from MSU. They have a crematorium there.
We were able to euthanize my mare, inside of a trailer WITHOUT DIVIDERS, and haul her to MSU, where they unloaded her, and did the necropsy. And I was offered a choice of a single horse cremation, for around $1000, or a mass cremation, along with other horses, cows, sheep, etc, for only $250. Total cost of necropsy, including a bunch of tests on tissues, and cremation was only $400, because I allowed my horses body to be used to teach veterinary students, when the necropsy was done.
We do not have rendering service in our area. So there isn't anybody who can pick a horse up. And I didn't want her to end up in dog food, with the euthanasia drugs in her (yes that's what happens when a service picks your horse up)
So this option worked well under the circumstances.
And the loss of my mare, had one positive outcome.
MSU is a teaching hospital. Equine veterinary students were able to learn from her highly unusual case.
Whyd he get put down! 😢
There is a reason why it is referred to as "last act of kindness". The animal will be pain free and that is what most of us want. It is cycle of life. We had a 3 strike and your out rule while I was growing out..
Just remember it is done for the sake of the animal, but ours.
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My heart horse died because of cancer ♋️
how did you know he was in pain?
Oh I just heard you explain.
Carnella, here is a Bible verse that confirms your statement about being your animal"s caretaker.
Proverbs 12:10 (NKJV)A righteous man regards the life of his animal...
*We are indeed called to take good care of our animals.
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If you were in the position of a supporting person, not the owner of the animal, as someone who has been through the process, what would you recommend I could do to make the whole process more pleasant for the owner? I'm a professional horse hauler so there are times when I transport a horse to the clinic, where they decide it has to be put down, or when they call me to an emergency cases that don't have happy ending… I never had to decide to put down any animal so just saying "you've done correct decision, he's in a better place now" feels really blunt as I have no idea what it must feel like to be in this situation. The logistics aspect of this is something I know really well, I've been through multiple "horse emergency" courses and then, you know… I've hauled some horses to their forever sleep so I'm asking more about the social part of this… Some of the roads back home have been really tough, clients crying in my car and stuff and I just felt so powerless…
Something I’ve learned, especially from working in ministry, is it’s ok to show emotions in those hard times. Oftentimes, we want to be strong for the person going through the trauma, but sharing the emotion is what can comfort them. There’s a scripture that says mourn with those who mourn and rejoice with those who rejoice. Obviously, don’t force yourself to cry, but letting yourself be vulnerable in those situations can make a world of difference to the people you are helping. Also, let the person direct your interaction. Some people want to talk about it, even if they are crying. They want you to ask questions and recount memories. Others will want to sit in silence. You can maybe ask if they want music or something to listen to rather than talking. I appreciate you and your heart to make the process easier for these people!
@@CarmellaAbel Thank you! It'll definitely need some practise, getting vulnerable around strangers while staying somewhat professional (I'm still responsible for the safety of the transport so I can't really get carried away by emotions), but I can see how, over the years, it has changed everything between my friends and me so I can imagine it'll work in this scenario as well… And thanks for sharing this story with us, everything that prepares the owner for the final decision can mean a huge difference in a welfare of their beloved animals…
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Do you have school certificate
Do you have school certificate