Thanks for sharing because this needs to be addressed and no one will do it. I have gotten so much revelation about my husband through Mark's teachings and I just discovered this pastor on the internet last night. Thanks
I saw Mark Gungor years ago and it was a fantastic event. But with this, each partner needs to have their own beads to place. Gives the option to both to request the “fun”.
Its truly great, that they allowed Mark to discuss this. Personally though, I wonder why it was refused for TV broadcast. There's already too much fear of sex among the church in general, usually because people worry about losing control over their desires. People like Mark and products like this are a very good remedy...but some will never know about it because they don't have instant access to the Internet.
agreed. though on a positive a church near me plays grungers dvds every so often as a seminar and ive been to a few churches that talk about healthy sex in marriage. ive never seen this host or tv show before but i cant tell if the host is tense because of the topic or if hes always like that. or maybe hes not tense. what do i know lol
Moviefan2k4 the thing is people make the mistake of seeing sex as a sin. Sex is not a sin, it is a gift from God. Also just to be clear sex is a gift, adultery is a sin.
The church needs to realise that sex can't be "prayed away" or "fasted over." I had the horror of being married to someone who had somehow learnt how to curb her desires through prayer.......enough said. The church needs to address these issues and be open about them, if the scandal of divorce and sexual impurity in the church is to subside. Most Christians want to live for Jehovah, yet the physical strain that sexual unfulfilment can bring is a truly heavy tempatation. Very sneaky temptation too
very wise dialog - thanx. i would like to add, that allthough sex is incredible - with the right partner! me and my buddies agree on the following. there is actually one thing that is more important than sex - and that is intimacy. to feel like one and be able to sit still while looking into each others eyes, without talking - is king.
IN 1,000 % AGREEMENT WITH YOU ! INTIMATE ❤HEART ❤ ATTITUDE (ie Kindness, tenderness, love - all 'hands-off') F I R S T ❤ THEN GENUINE BEDROOM INTIMACY BETWEEN A COUPLE IS BOUND TO FLOW - Not too sure about the 'Bead' thing, but could obviously be fun for some couples..... 22/2/24
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Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you . ...
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ..
My husband, mocked me in front of my kids after 19 years of marriage saying that I stll get aroused at that age and I ought to be ashamed of it. How's that for a man wanting to get married for sex? Thankfully for him, I guess, it killed my desire. I was too ashamed to show that I loved him. Then, I got diagnosed with fibroid. So, now, as a result, he has completely kept out of it for four years.
Man, I'm so sorry you had to endure that, Daisy. Your husband's viewpoint is, unfortunately, skewed and not in line with God's teachings on sexual attraction or fulfillment. Do you know why he thinks the way he does? Did he ever tell you?
Guess he got what he wanted. He obviously has some problem. It's a blessing to feel desire as long as you live. You're never too old! He should have felt blessed, and never talk about that in front of the children.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ..
He is so clued up about men, women and sex ...... he's got it all worked out . I love him. ❣️ I'm not religious, I'm spiritual, single now. I can listen to him for hours. I find him very attractive strangely..... plus he has a massive sence of humour which is so important. I'll bet he's a great dad and partner. Id definately go and see him live.💖
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
I wonder why sex and mimic of love is so openly available and excepted on the Television? But, when there is a broadcast of what sex should mean in the Christian community. It's like, say no more, we don't talk about that!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ..
Come from the secular world before my Christianity. I'm one of the abused ones who knows that in that arena men have some pretty twisted expectations as to what women should give.. and how they should perform. Wondering what his stance is on this?
I've read about this, and Bead Method kind of helps in that regard. When a woman hears her husband drop that bead in the bowl, two things happen. 1. The wife understands her husband's want and expectation. 2. She has time to prepare. That preparation can take many forms. Hopefully, a woman would be comfortable with sexual intimacy with her husband, even if she's had issues she's dealt with before of abuse, neglect, or assault. Mark also talks about the fact that everyone's got different sexual baggage, and people need to have open and honest conversations with their spouses about what they've experienced, what they expect, and what they don't want (the "no-go zones") in their sex life with their spouses.
Anyone out there use this within the context of Natural Family Planning? Shout out to my fellow Catholics out there. NFP kind of does this, since days are limited already.
There isn't any other reason. It's the only thing g that separates marriage from all other relationships. You can love and care about someone with out having sex.
In a way not much. You decide how significant your relationships with people will be. Depending on choice they can be very intimate. The current generations believe in fleshly intimacy with a lot of people. For people like them, I do not understand what they could be looking for in a marriage. Because as I understand it, marriage is that ONE relationship with a person that you enjoy the most. That relationship is the one you wish to improve. As Spiritual people who believe in God, marriage is a way of making a pact with that person before God and Man that you will improve that relationship with that person in the long haul. And sex is the way to start that. Sex is the glue that holds marriage together. So I take back my initial statement. Depending on how you value sex and the individual with whom you have sex, sex is not just a physical activity. It is physical, emotional and sometimes spiritual. It is not just in the moment, the emotions that happen during sex and are birthed from the sex need to carry on to the rest of life. One could even say, yes get married for sex! Wait! you think sex is just physical and climax and then that's it?! Dear friend, I know that this has happened to our generation but you too? Is sex such a shallow (I'd say worthless but it has some worth to people who try to think of marriage as "far more than sex") thing to you? Does sex, what God gave to man and woman for them to recognize their significant other, amount to only so much?
Excellent video. Also, just the simple fact that the man has beads he can use and they are there, will make him desire sex less often because of the security. If a woman says "we can have sex whenever you want", he'll want it less often. Mostly because he feels he's not being rejected in that area. We're humans, we want what we cannot have. :)
@Hodon Kain That is not true. My wife and I have sex at least 3 times a day. I'm not in a state where I'm saying to myself, "I have sex whenever I want it". My wife and I have amazing sexual chemistry, and we are always desiring each other.
....provided you actually WANT to have sex with your spouse. If my ex husband dropped a bead in the bowl I’d have probably thrown all the 40 beads away!! My beloved I have now...he doesn’t even need to drop a bead
I think since patriarchic laws took over in the past, that left women in very vulnerable position ( not being allowed to own land, make a living or keep your children with you in case of divorce) having to put up with mens bad behaviour just to survive. And that although improved since then, a lot of bad habits of men towards women still linger. Women are so often still taken for granted by men ( and still putting up with that) and honestly I don't think God created men that way or that Jesus was like that. I think if those bad habits would be addressed that would get women way more excited about sex. Women get excited by emotional connection.
Wow. The idea of the beads is not necessarily bad but the presentation being centered around the idea that men need sex and women should provide that service as a contract of marriage is a HUGE TURNOFF. This is a 2 way street. Many women want and need sex from their husbands who aren't interested. It is not just a one-sided "need". I am sorry that I watched this because it stirs up negative emotions regarding the idea of "marriage" to me. A relationship needs to be centered around communication and showing one another affection in many ways which will organically lead to sexual intimacy.
A relationship needs to be centered around communication and showing one another affection in many ways which will organically lead to sexual intimacy. Many people with no sexual attraction to their partners to begin with and still marry them because of said communication and affection will disagree with what you said that it will organically lead to sexual intimacy. I dont care how well I communicate with my husband or how affectionate he is, if I dont find him hot, I wont have sexual intimacy that is fun and enthusiastic. I will just be going through the motions.
Dr Laura Schlessinger wrote a few great books that can help women understand the POWER they have over their man. Woman Power is great and also The Proper Care and Feeding of marriage. Mark is great and uses a lot of things Dr Laura cover and Dr Gray, and several folks that really understand men and women. But it kills me when women friends of mine complain and whine and even create their own bad relationships. They don't know how much power they have that could solve these problems. And if you give them the book, they get MAD.
Yes it's true...no sex before marriage. No one enters a shop take a clothes and use it then tell the cashier "I'll pay later" .marriage is a covenant between two people who love each other and can take responsible of one another...
If you are not a man, you have NO IDEA how wrong you are. Sex is an essential part of a relationship, especially for a man. ZERO men would agree to marriage if they were told up front that sex was not going to be part of the equation. Why would a man agree to not have sex with anyone else, and in return his wife is also NOT offering him sex? What if a woman was told that her husband has no plans of sharing his income with her? Would you still marry him? What about if he said he has no plans of supporting you emotionally?
@@kayla_battle so if you want sex, then you ONLY want sex?? That is such a dumb assertion. So if a woman expects her man to share his paycheck with her, then it is safe to assume that she "only wants him for his paycheck"?
Sounnds like your man needs to learn some exercises that dont involve weights! So he can last longer and get you where you need to go while driving, so to speak.
The process is reversed. The wife would drop the bead into the bead catcher and then the husband would have 24 hours to complete the when, where and how.
That is because the male spouse gives up too quickly instead of kissing and hugging and touching her to make her feel loved and cherished. He simply makes no effort to create a nice atmosphere, women need that, not a "come to the bedroom". Women feel that is so crude and caveman-like.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you... ..
Hi. Please let me respond to your comment. I am trying to in order to help. I have no desire to try and debate or prove anything to you in my own ability. Paul was covering things that God gave him to cover to God's people. Paul apparently had to have been married before his biblical scene takes place because he was a Pharisee. We do not have Paul's marital information. He does give a hint into his own experience in 1 Corinthians 7. The writings of Paul that are in the Bible are inspired by God. What specific thing to you object to that the Bible teaches that God used Paul to give to us?
Please find me a husband, sooo.... miss sex!!! I totally agree, women need it as well!!! My divorce had nothing to do with sex, I miss fun sex! In a healthy, good way! Lol😂😂😂 It was will never be an argument! Women like it to!
I liked this overall but was a little surprised he said men just get married to have sex. Maybe he isn't interested in having kids but plenty of men are.
maybe you just simply didnt understand what he trully means, go search YT for other his videos, this man really knows what he is talking about - definitely encouraging you to watch as much as you can, it will do good job in your life - cuz i am one of these mans who is interested in kids, but i failed in matter of marriage unfortunately, and trust me - kids are great, but to loose mariagge it almost killed me....never thought about it until it came to my life suddenly...
@Quigle- Dorf nooooo no no, bad answer! Living with the idea that it's just so easy and okay to uproot lives like that is so terribly damaging to everyone (including children if there are some). Work it out, find common ground in God, and be loving and considerate of what the other wants and needs!
probably not good to use around kids. but i bet u could really use anything in place of it. 40 clothes pins (omg...do people still use those? did i just show my age oops) 40 tupperware lids...somethin kids wouldnt be interested in that everyone has. 40 pennies? i cant think of things kids wouldnt eat right now lol
lol you made me laugh. most dont use clothes pins but I know what they are. I was thinking the same thing about have kids around. This guy is very good
Bill BurrFan I think if it's upside down still have sex but she can voice any issues. She has 24 hours to make a time and get into the mood. The man gets 40 beads very 40 days.
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Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
I would not say sex is #1 reason for marriage. Don't think the Bible means that, either. Marriage can still be good, intimate, loving even without sex.
Bahaha "all reasearch show that sex is beneficial. Right. Because most scientists are men. Allow a group of female scientists to do research on sex and see what they come up with 😉
I can honestly say that I have been married for almost 40 years and yes sex is a vital part of marriage. It does make you healthier, helps you mentally and connects with your spouse that you can't and should not do with anyone else. The two become one is very true. Its in the Bible and God ordained so if God says its not good for man or woman to be alone then He means it.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
This "pastor" is very naive. Marriage is a CIVIL contract. It was designed so that property and riches would remain within a family. Folks have been having sex for many thousands of years without conjoining their property. That's the facts. Marriage was created for the purpose of inheritance. Period. Commitment and fidelity to one person is a sacred state of being, but it does not require a civil contract. I have been married for 20 years. I am 63 and my husband is 68. A few years ago I developed physical problems which made me unable to have sex without pain. Did my husband leave me? Cheat? Complain? Nope. That's because sex is NOT the focus of marriage. My husband appreciates 1001 things about me. He wouldn't trade me for any other woman. Our relationship goes far beyond urges. It is genuine loving friendship and companionship, which is much more rare than physical passion. Your partner is not your "need fulfillment machine" til death do us part. Horrible teaching.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.. ...
I'm sorry, but religion has nothing to do with sex. Religion also has nothing to do with a relationship with your wife. I mean organized religion has been teaching us "Christ this" and "God that", but they never want to stop to look at the truths about the world without thinking about worshiping an invisible thing. I'm sorry, but this is highly unethical when it comes to true knowledge by bringing religion (if not, politics) into the mix of anything. Usually this is why people break up is because one of the partners wises up and realizes how dumb one or the other is. And the other refuses to change into thinking about whether they're right or wrong. Even if your religion is correct 100%, it still has nothing to do with sex. Again, this is just one more way of somebody trying to force religion onto people who want to know the real truth. If you want to tell people to not be distracted, don't tell them "From christ". Tell them "From what you like to do in your life". Because you're already forcing your views on the world, people like myself will not want to listen because you're already personalizing the truths into your own theories. (And yes they're theories, I should know because I have some of my own about the bible.) See, people, this religious aspect people keep having is just another way of wasting time be cause you're doing ritualistic things that have no true meaning. If you truly believe in the bible and none of the hocus pocus, you won't be partaking in this whole "christ is god" or "God is there" thing. The bible clearly states that God left Earth so long ago, it isn't funny. And christ was truth, even if the truth was being said by a man, that's what Jesus was. The bible clearly states that Jesus is without form.
This is a pastor, which is why he speaks in what he believes with Christianity. However, no one "forced" you to CHOOSE to watch THIS particular video. In other words, if you choose to watch a pastor, know he's going to speak from his view and belief. If that doesn't aslign with yours, you have the option of finding other sources. You choose what you heard and watched.
First sex is important in a marriage. Intimacy comes with love. I do agree with I do, I do you it with you, I don't it with anyone else, along with so much more, love and intimacy and a bond that is truly beautiful can bring. The problem is so much can be done by an individual within a marriage, that makes it onto a non-marriage. No one wants to talk, think, or hear about it, I must have care written on my face, because I have heard it all. Paul did said a lot, because of the Corinthians Sexual, Immorality, Problems. However after he said they should marry, he said that he said this as a CONCESSION! Now If we refer back to what Jesus words about a CONCESSION made by Moses, we find some important information. ( Matthew 19:8-9 ) Jesus said, “Moses provided a certificate of divorce, and sending away, dealing treacherously with the wife of your youth, a concession was from for hard heartedness, but it is not part of God’s original plan.Jesus said, I’m holding you to the original plan, and holding you liable for adultery if you divorce your faithful wife and then marry someone else. What Father would want to give a chase daughter he loved to a Corinthian with sexual immorality problems that didn’t want to burn! That is exactly why, Marriage is about Love and a Bond intimacy comes naturally with trust and love. Actually you can buy (SEX) no offense, it's disgusting, because this lays a foundation for, mental and moral devastation of so many future children however, it is something that exist in this world. Sadly someone with a debauched vulgar mind can seek, the most innocent people. Moses nor Paul planned on giving out concessions. In fact they probably didn't conceive of ever needing to handle these, problems. If you have a immorality problem get morality, self control, no one can be your release and relief. Love The Bead Idea! Not for the selfish Corinthians.
Thanks for sharing because this needs to be addressed and no one will do it. I have gotten so much revelation about my husband through Mark's teachings and I just discovered this pastor on the internet last night. Thanks
you are welcome My dear male God bless you abundantly
I saw Mark Gungor years ago and it was a fantastic event. But with this, each partner needs to have their own beads to place. Gives the option to both to request the “fun”.
Its truly great, that they allowed Mark to discuss this. Personally though, I wonder why it was refused for TV broadcast. There's already too much fear of sex among the church in general, usually because people worry about losing control over their desires. People like Mark and products like this are a very good remedy...but some will never know about it because they don't have instant access to the Internet.
agreed. though on a positive a church near me plays grungers dvds every so often as a seminar and ive been to a few churches that talk about healthy sex in marriage. ive never seen this host or tv show before but i cant tell if the host is tense because of the topic or if hes always like that. or maybe hes not tense. what do i know lol
Moviefan2k4 the thing is people make the mistake of seeing sex as a sin. Sex is not a sin, it is a gift from God. Also just to be clear sex is a gift, adultery is a sin.
The church needs to realise that sex can't be "prayed away" or "fasted over." I had the horror of being married to someone who had somehow learnt how to curb her desires through prayer.......enough said. The church needs to address these issues and be open about them, if the scandal of divorce and sexual impurity in the church is to subside. Most Christians want to live for Jehovah, yet the physical strain that sexual unfulfilment can bring is a truly heavy tempatation. Very sneaky temptation too
Bill BurrFan as a woman- I love the idea. Of course we can say no.... But this sounds like fun!!!! I may do this with my hubby!
Sarah, I really was hoping you would clarify your statement..
very wise dialog - thanx.
i would like to add, that allthough sex is incredible - with the right partner!
me and my buddies agree on the following. there is actually one thing that is more important than sex - and that is intimacy.
to feel like one and be able to sit still while looking into each others eyes, without talking - is king.
IN 1,000 % AGREEMENT WITH YOU ! INTIMATE ❤HEART ❤ ATTITUDE (ie Kindness, tenderness, love - all 'hands-off')
F I R S T ❤ THEN GENUINE BEDROOM INTIMACY BETWEEN A COUPLE IS BOUND TO FLOW - Not too sure about the 'Bead' thing, but could obviously be fun for some couples..... 22/2/24
Mark Gungor is amazingly funny and he also tells the truth!
I love the sound it makes
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@@markgungor7013 Is this even you?? I see this posted several times, and it sounds like those Nigeria money scams.
Loved that black ensemble he had on. Very sharp.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you . ...
Love this man's message.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
Great wisdom for couples Apostle!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ..
I think just hearing the bead drop might be a turn on sometimes
Yep! Then you're gonna start imagining you hear it dropping all the time. ROFL!
YYUUUUUUUUP.
Wait y'all know from experience or supposition?
Classical Conditioning
Lmaoooo
My husband, mocked me in front of my kids after 19 years of marriage saying that I stll get aroused at that age and I ought to be ashamed of it. How's that for a man wanting to get married for sex? Thankfully for him, I guess, it killed my desire. I was too ashamed to show that I loved him. Then, I got diagnosed with fibroid. So, now, as a result, he has completely kept out of it for four years.
Man, I'm so sorry you had to endure that, Daisy. Your husband's viewpoint is, unfortunately, skewed and not in line with God's teachings on sexual attraction or fulfillment. Do you know why he thinks the way he does? Did he ever tell you?
Guess he got what he wanted. He obviously has some problem. It's a blessing to feel desire as long as you live. You're never too old!
He should have felt blessed, and never talk about that in front of the children.
If you are from India, then I am really not surprised at your husband's thinking. What an asshole.
Nobody decides what's the right amount of desire but us. Own your desire sister. It's yours alone.
Its all in thoughts. Have a higher purpose of life and balance will come into all relationships... live life at self's level...
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ..
I just LOVE Mark! He is so awesome and funny! Anyone else think at times his voice reminds them of Don Knotts?!?! 🤣☺️😍
Can't say I do. He's not my kind of minister. He is funny though, and the bead thing is a cute fun idea.
So if I drop 3 beads into the bowl, is that like saying I want to do it 3 times in a 24 hour period? :)
:))))
No. I means he is greedy and using up his days too fast. One bead equals sex within a 24 hour period.
You are wasting 2
Abraham Walker you are a very smart and wise man!!!
You think it's a pill thing... morning ,noon and night..
My marriage is the reverse in terms of desire. Good advice!
He is so clued up about men, women and sex ...... he's got it all worked out . I love him. ❣️ I'm not religious, I'm spiritual, single now. I can listen to him for hours. I find him very attractive strangely..... plus he has a massive sence of humour which is so important. I'll bet he's a great dad and partner. Id definately go and see him live.💖
will watch "hope springs"
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
Where do you get these?
What about if you want kids, but sex is not the pull?
Cant you girls picture the guy placing half the bag into the cup? 🤣
Men every where would love this idea! What a great idea & a great gift!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
What is the name of the movie he is telling about, any one knows?
Hope springs. Meryl Streep and Tommy lee jones.
Favorite quote from Boy Meets World
Topanga: Cory, why are you so obsessed with sex?
Cory: Because I don’t get any!!!
I wonder why sex and mimic of love is so openly available and excepted on the Television? But, when there is a broadcast of what sex should mean in the Christian community. It's like, say no more, we don't talk about that!
what?
Money.
Thank You sooo much dearest 💐
You’re such an inspiration 🥰
Be Blissful Eternally 🙏🏼😇
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ..
"Vegetables and salads....and fried squirrel brains" 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I was weak
Come from the secular world before my Christianity. I'm one of the abused ones who knows that in that arena men have some pretty twisted expectations as to what women should give.. and how they should perform. Wondering what his stance is on this?
I've read about this, and Bead Method kind of helps in that regard. When a woman hears her husband drop that bead in the bowl, two things happen.
1. The wife understands her husband's want and expectation.
2. She has time to prepare.
That preparation can take many forms. Hopefully, a woman would be comfortable with sexual intimacy with her husband, even if she's had issues she's dealt with before of abuse, neglect, or assault. Mark also talks about the fact that everyone's got different sexual baggage, and people need to have open and honest conversations with their spouses about what they've experienced, what they expect, and what they don't want (the "no-go zones") in their sex life with their spouses.
Anyone out there use this within the context of Natural Family Planning? Shout out to my fellow Catholics out there. NFP kind of does this, since days are limited already.
Check out the Theology of the Body for a beautiful look at God’s design for marriage.
I get it, but I don't know how accurate it is for marriage to only be about sex... What's the point of being married then? Beside sex
Have someone who cares and take care of ...
There isn't any other reason. It's the only thing g that separates marriage from all other relationships. You can love and care about someone with out having sex.
In a way not much. You decide how significant your relationships with people will be. Depending on choice they can be very intimate. The current generations believe in fleshly intimacy with a lot of people. For people like them, I do not understand what they could be looking for in a marriage. Because as I understand it, marriage is that ONE relationship with a person that you enjoy the most. That relationship is the one you wish to improve. As Spiritual people who believe in God, marriage is a way of making a pact with that person before God and Man that you will improve that relationship with that person in the long haul. And sex is the way to start that. Sex is the glue that holds marriage together.
So I take back my initial statement. Depending on how you value sex and the individual with whom you have sex, sex is not just a physical activity. It is physical, emotional and sometimes spiritual. It is not just in the moment, the emotions that happen during sex and are birthed from the sex need to carry on to the rest of life.
One could even say, yes get married for sex! Wait! you think sex is just physical and climax and then that's it?!
Dear friend, I know that this has happened to our generation but you too? Is sex such a shallow (I'd say worthless but it has some worth to people who try to think of marriage as "far more than sex") thing to you? Does sex, what God gave to man and woman for them to recognize their significant other, amount to only so much?
is it me, or is the guy interviewing Mark looking kind of uncomfortable?
Yes, definitely!
😂🤣😂
Excellent video. Also, just the simple fact that the man has beads he can use and they are there, will make him desire sex less often because of the security. If a woman says "we can have sex whenever you want", he'll want it less often. Mostly because he feels he's not being rejected in that area. We're humans, we want what we cannot have. :)
@Hodon Kain
That is not true. My wife and I have sex at least 3 times a day. I'm not in a state where I'm saying to myself, "I have sex whenever I want it". My wife and I have amazing sexual chemistry, and we are always desiring each other.
Can u please let the book translated into German? Bcus i will Let my hubby read it
....provided you actually WANT to have sex with your spouse. If my ex husband dropped a bead in the bowl I’d have probably thrown all the 40 beads away!!
My beloved I have now...he doesn’t even need to drop a bead
lol
I do,
I DO YOU YOU DO ME and nobody else!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMEEEEN!!!!
Best saying ever
I LOVE YOUR COMMENT!!!!!!
Watch 100 times and still laughing 😂
This is an awesome video!
I think since patriarchic laws took over in the past, that left women in very vulnerable position ( not being allowed to own land, make a living or keep your children with you in case of divorce) having to put up with mens bad behaviour just to survive. And that although improved since then, a lot of bad habits of men towards women still linger. Women are so often still taken for granted by men ( and still putting up with that) and honestly I don't think God created men that way or that Jesus was like that. I think if those bad habits would be addressed that would get women way more excited about sex. Women get excited by emotional connection.
Wow. The idea of the beads is not necessarily bad but the presentation being centered around the idea that men need sex and women should provide that service as a contract of marriage is a HUGE TURNOFF. This is a 2 way street. Many women want and need sex from their husbands who aren't interested. It is not just a one-sided "need". I am sorry that I watched this because it stirs up negative emotions regarding the idea of "marriage" to me. A relationship needs to be centered around communication and showing one another affection in many ways which will organically lead to sexual intimacy.
A relationship needs to be centered around communication and showing one another affection in many ways which will organically lead to sexual intimacy.
Many people with no sexual attraction to their partners to begin with and still marry them because of said communication and affection will disagree with what you said that it will organically lead to sexual intimacy.
I dont care how well I communicate with my husband or how affectionate he is, if I dont find him hot, I wont have sexual intimacy that is fun and enthusiastic. I will just be going through the motions.
Yeah sister! And indeed the pastor makes marriage sound rather unattractive.
12:00 VERY IMPORTANT. !!!
If I had seen this in 1988 I might still be married
Dr Laura Schlessinger wrote a few great books that can help women understand the POWER they have over their man. Woman Power is great and also The Proper Care and Feeding of marriage. Mark is great and uses a lot of things Dr Laura cover and Dr Gray, and several folks that really understand men and women. But it kills me when women friends of mine complain and whine and even create their own bad relationships. They don't know how much power they have that could solve these problems. And if you give them the book, they get MAD.
😂, hilarious
thank you for sharing
And then he says don’t have a sex before marriage, hallo ?
Yes it's true...no sex before marriage. No one enters a shop take a clothes and use it then tell the cashier "I'll pay later" .marriage is a covenant between two people who love each other and can take responsible of one another...
1) Sex is a WANT, not a NEED.
2) If sex is a man's #1 reason for marrying, then they SHOULD NOT BE MARRYING.
Sex is an expectation during marriage. If you don’t agree you better let your man know before you marry. No man would agree to celibacy in a marriage.
If you are not a man, you have NO IDEA how wrong you are. Sex is an essential part of a relationship, especially for a man. ZERO men would agree to marriage if they were told up front that sex was not going to be part of the equation. Why would a man agree to not have sex with anyone else, and in return his wife is also NOT offering him sex?
What if a woman was told that her husband has no plans of sharing his income with her? Would you still marry him? What about if he said he has no plans of supporting you emotionally?
If you only want sex....become a porn star
@@kayla_battle so if you want sex, then you ONLY want sex?? That is such a dumb assertion. So if a woman expects her man to share his paycheck with her, then it is safe to assume that she "only wants him for his paycheck"?
I personally know a man..
I want to know how this works when it's the woman with the greater drive.
Mia Brantley Death by snoo snoo.
Sounnds like your man needs to learn some exercises that dont involve weights! So he can last longer and get you where you need to go while driving, so to speak.
He doesn’t get off into theoretical, abstract, hypotheticals.
He said a woman has the option of turning the bowl upside down if she is not in the mood or upside if she is feeling receptive.
The process is reversed. The wife would drop the bead into the bead catcher and then the husband would have 24 hours to complete the when, where and how.
Loosen up, guy in the blue jeans! He said it's biblical!
Haha, ok, this one goes home with me.....
Just proved Mark's point.
right?! especially because he seemed all hesitant and scared to watch it at first
That is because the male spouse gives up too quickly instead of kissing and hugging and touching her to make her feel loved and cherished. He simply makes no effort to create a nice atmosphere, women need that, not a "come to the bedroom". Women feel that is so crude and caveman-like.
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thanks for sharing >(
Oh. Not what i thought it would be...
@@TerriLeeHoeper Thing is, if you're a Christian and don't believe in pre marital sex, then I guess you are marrying to have sex.
Why does he always look to things Paul said? Paul wasnt even married
Hi. Please let me respond to your comment. I am trying to in order to help. I have no desire to try and debate or prove anything to you in my own ability. Paul was covering things that God gave him to cover to God's people. Paul apparently had to have been married before his biblical scene takes place because he was a Pharisee. We do not have Paul's marital information. He does give a hint into his own experience in 1 Corinthians 7. The writings of Paul that are in the Bible are inspired by God. What specific thing to you object to that the Bible teaches that God used Paul to give to us?
Please find me a husband, sooo.... miss sex!!! I totally agree, women need it as well!!! My divorce had nothing to do with sex, I miss fun sex!
In a healthy, good way! Lol😂😂😂
It was will never be an argument! Women like it to!
Hope you found a good man. Or try online dating
I liked this overall but was a little surprised he said men just get married to have sex. Maybe he isn't interested in having kids but plenty of men are.
maybe you just simply didnt understand what he trully means, go search YT for other his videos, this man really knows what he is talking about - definitely encouraging you to watch as much as you can, it will do good job in your life - cuz i am one of these mans who is interested in kids, but i failed in matter of marriage unfortunately, and trust me - kids are great, but to loose mariagge it almost killed me....never thought about it until it came to my life suddenly...
Make a great meal and know how she feels, is the only way to keep hwr coming back for more! A metaphor....
I wish I had a normal husband.
What’s up?
@Quigle- Dorf nooooo no no, bad answer! Living with the idea that it's just so easy and okay to uproot lives like that is so terribly damaging to everyone (including children if there are some). Work it out, find common ground in God, and be loving and considerate of what the other wants and needs!
What if a child accidentally removed it from the bead catcher? ;-p
probably not good to use around kids. but i bet u could really use anything in place of it. 40 clothes pins (omg...do people still use those? did i just show my age oops) 40 tupperware lids...somethin kids wouldnt be interested in that everyone has. 40 pennies? i cant think of things kids wouldnt eat right now lol
lol you made me laugh. most dont use clothes pins but I know what they are. I was thinking the same thing about have kids around.
This guy is very good
Lol 40 clothes hangers hahahaha
Bill BurrFan I think if it's upside down still have sex but she can voice any issues. She has 24 hours to make a time and get into the mood. The man gets 40 beads very 40 days.
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Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
I would not say sex is #1 reason for marriage. Don't think the Bible means that, either.
Marriage can still be good, intimate, loving even without sex.
Bahaha "all reasearch show that sex is beneficial. Right. Because most scientists are men. Allow a group of female scientists to do research on sex and see what they come up with 😉
I can honestly say that I have been married for almost 40 years and yes sex is a vital part of marriage. It does make you healthier, helps you mentally and connects with your spouse that you can't and should not do with anyone else. The two become one is very true. Its in the Bible and God ordained so if God says its not good for man or woman to be alone then He means it.
@@lindadaigle591
God bless you Linda. Wise words needed more than ever.
cool ;)
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you. ...
This "pastor" is very naive. Marriage is a CIVIL contract. It was designed so that property and riches would remain within a family. Folks have been having sex for many thousands of years without conjoining their property. That's the facts. Marriage was created for the purpose of inheritance. Period. Commitment and fidelity to one person is a sacred state of being, but it does not require a civil contract.
I have been married for 20 years. I am 63 and my husband is 68. A few years ago I developed physical problems which made me unable to have sex without pain. Did my husband leave me? Cheat? Complain? Nope. That's because sex is NOT the focus of marriage. My husband appreciates 1001 things about me. He wouldn't trade me for any other woman. Our relationship goes far beyond urges. It is genuine loving friendship and companionship, which is much more rare than physical passion. Your partner is not your "need fulfillment machine" til death do us part. Horrible teaching.
this cup needs to be in the shape of the chalice of Christ...
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family (Matthew 22:39) you shall love your neighbour as your self, (Jeremiah29:11) for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +09159559256) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.. ...
I'm sorry, but religion has nothing to do with sex. Religion also has nothing to do with a relationship with your wife. I mean organized religion has been teaching us "Christ this" and "God that", but they never want to stop to look at the truths about the world without thinking about worshiping an invisible thing. I'm sorry, but this is highly unethical when it comes to true knowledge by bringing religion (if not, politics) into the mix of anything. Usually this is why people break up is because one of the partners wises up and realizes how dumb one or the other is. And the other refuses to change into thinking about whether they're right or wrong.
Even if your religion is correct 100%, it still has nothing to do with sex. Again, this is just one more way of somebody trying to force religion onto people who want to know the real truth. If you want to tell people to not be distracted, don't tell them "From christ". Tell them "From what you like to do in your life". Because you're already forcing your views on the world, people like myself will not want to listen because you're already personalizing the truths into your own theories. (And yes they're theories, I should know because I have some of my own about the bible.)
See, people, this religious aspect people keep having is just another way of wasting time be cause you're doing ritualistic things that have no true meaning. If you truly believe in the bible and none of the hocus pocus, you won't be partaking in this whole "christ is god" or "God is there" thing. The bible clearly states that God left Earth so long ago, it isn't funny. And christ was truth, even if the truth was being said by a man, that's what Jesus was. The bible clearly states that Jesus is without form.
Interesting theories. Inconsistent and unrelated to scripture, but interesting.
Okalani5000 your right. Religion sucks and drys up the bone. Christianity is not a religion thsts why it works.
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Okalani5000 , Tell me who established relationships?
This is a pastor, which is why he speaks in what he believes with Christianity. However, no one "forced" you to CHOOSE to watch THIS particular video. In other words, if you choose to watch a pastor, know he's going to speak from his view and belief. If that doesn't aslign with yours, you have the option of finding other sources. You choose what you heard and watched.
First sex is important in a marriage. Intimacy comes with love. I do agree with I do, I do you it with you, I don't it with anyone else, along with so much more, love and intimacy and a bond that is truly beautiful can bring.
The problem is so much can be done by an individual within a marriage, that makes it onto a non-marriage. No one wants to talk, think, or hear about it, I must have care written on my face, because I have heard it all.
Paul did said a lot, because of the Corinthians Sexual, Immorality, Problems. However after he said they should marry, he said that he said this as a CONCESSION!
Now If we refer back to what Jesus words about a CONCESSION made by Moses, we find some important information.
( Matthew 19:8-9 )
Jesus said, “Moses provided a certificate of divorce, and sending away, dealing treacherously with the wife of your youth, a concession was from for hard heartedness, but it is not part of God’s original plan.Jesus said, I’m holding you to the original plan, and holding you liable for adultery if you divorce your faithful wife and then marry someone else.
What Father would want to give a chase daughter he loved to a Corinthian with sexual immorality problems that didn’t want to burn!
That is exactly why, Marriage is about Love and a Bond intimacy comes naturally with trust and love. Actually you can buy (SEX) no offense, it's disgusting, because this lays a foundation for, mental and moral devastation of so many future children however, it is something that exist in this world. Sadly someone with a debauched vulgar mind can seek, the most innocent people.
Moses nor Paul planned on giving out concessions. In fact they probably didn't conceive of ever needing to handle these, problems. If you have a immorality problem get morality, self control, no one can be your release
and relief.
Love The Bead Idea!
Not for the selfish Corinthians.