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  • @abundantgrace5611
    @abundantgrace5611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I could relate to today's episode... Am 28 yrs, lost both my parents by age of 12, physical abused by brother, had to date and sleep with men just to run away from situation at home.....damn we are a broken generation, Lord have Mercy and Help us 🙌🏾.

  • @thokodilebo8098
    @thokodilebo8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Telling that guy that you will not leave him no what was indeed the first mistake you made in that relationship my sister. The very same mistake I made with the father of my 2 girls as an orphan. We broke up 7 years back and life is so showing him flames. Karma never miss it's way hey. It will locate you no matter what like it located him. I pray so hard for God to bless him cos he's becoming a predator in my life and blames me for all his bad luck cos God is blessed me non stop. I did it, you did through Jesus who strengthened us. Blessed be His Holy Name. Im pround of you ntombi.

  • @lesegomakwela1874
    @lesegomakwela1874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hey Milani, proud to see you doing big things girl. I grew up with her and went to the same school. I'm happy to see how big she has succeeded. And yup she was a poet back in the days💯💕

  • @michelenkala7375
    @michelenkala7375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I can listen to you the whole day. You are indeed a blessing to many people.

  • @milaniinalim3357
    @milaniinalim3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Officially reached 100k!!! 💃🏽❤️🙏🏾🎊🎉🍾🥂

  • @TitaT
    @TitaT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    even though the man was a cheater, he has the potential of being a good man. looked like he didn't love her but he didn't react violently and leave her on the streets. he instead respected her decision. I'm glad she found the strength to leave a loveless relationship, I hope a lot of people find the strength too

  • @phelisatyali579
    @phelisatyali579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Powerful heading for your book title. It's so catchy for anyone to wanna find out what is it all about. May God heal you and open many more doors. All those dreams can never be dead. You're still young and the industry is huge for anyone whose hungry for success 🌹🙏

  • @thandiwejambawa7827
    @thandiwejambawa7827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That man was like a handbrake in your life. Thank God you put down the handbrake and your life is moving.

  • @lulubearbear699
    @lulubearbear699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Some men prey on vulnerable women who don’t have good support structures( especially family) they abuse you because they know you don’t have anywhere to run to a mistake we do as women we look for solutions in people/ boyfriends

  • @ikakhoza81
    @ikakhoza81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Taking care of an ill parent is no easy task. Thank uou for doing it. I've noticed a theme here. Many women have been hurt emotionally or physically. What can we do to protect our women? Are there helplines for women who have been through #IHBTTM. I'm happy this young lady was able to turn her life around. May she continue to heal and succeed in everything she does.

  • @tshepokubjane4637
    @tshepokubjane4637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hallelujah my Sister, may Jehovah be glorified in Jesus Mighty Name, thank you for your powerful testimony🙏🏾💜🌺

  • @makunguhope4775
    @makunguhope4775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some of the words said in this testimony...
    I needed to hear tonight, thank you

  • @banenyanaramashala7656
    @banenyanaramashala7656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, your story is so encouraging 💞❤️❤️❤️❤️Thank you for sharing

  • @xichavoveronicatheka7047
    @xichavoveronicatheka7047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pain is so evil, but above it all we rise 🙌..

  • @valentineledwaba6903
    @valentineledwaba6903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless and continue to give you courage my sister..

  • @yolisamrso9827
    @yolisamrso9827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    100k subscribers congratulations 🎊🎁🎉🎂

  • @therealkamogelom
    @therealkamogelom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ncoooh sis🥰🥰 I knew you looked familiar I have seen you quite a number of times at church, your amazing may God continue to strengthen you.

  • @wisanibaloyi6049
    @wisanibaloyi6049 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your 100k subscribers 💐💐💐💐🎉🎉🎉continue giving us this stories

  • @videofirstime
    @videofirstime ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your testimony stay encouraged

  • @pimpom6763
    @pimpom6763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    she sounds intelligent... smart woman.

    • @lilmiss_kay1026
      @lilmiss_kay1026 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/UB8n6p1feJk/w-d-xo.html

  • @sontofakude8649
    @sontofakude8649 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very brave young woman💃🏾you go girl👊🏽👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @nemaembenimuofhe7480
    @nemaembenimuofhe7480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like the fact that he listened to u n leave. INSTEAD of killing☹️☹️ u when u wanted out

  • @nonoechibs2775
    @nonoechibs2775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Turning the pain into power 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @tshegofatsomodiba5946
    @tshegofatsomodiba5946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Powerful, Gods touch upon our lives is remarkable ! Romans 8 vs 18 indeed .

  • @zanelemkhize9079
    @zanelemkhize9079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wise words my darling thanks 😊

  • @thokozilenhlapo6503
    @thokozilenhlapo6503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To 100K 😍🎉💃🍾

  • @beautybylee-sa1806
    @beautybylee-sa1806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A courageous woman indeed. I so wish TV producers can locate you and make your dream come true in Jesus name.

  • @unscriptednoluthando1890
    @unscriptednoluthando1890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Please add your guests social media links so we can be part of the online community. Please guys.

  • @chaks4466
    @chaks4466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations on 100k subscribers 🥳

  • @khanyilecordelia7801
    @khanyilecordelia7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello to your mom side you done well God bless you for that.

  • @LehlogonoloChuene
    @LehlogonoloChuene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    your story took me back to 2007 when I was just 16 also and had to take care of my dying mother, the only breadwinner, but how hard t was to see that, I also prayed the same prayer as you...seeing your mother losing life everything and you can not do anything about her pain is heart breaking. May you find a healing sesi, I felt as if I was watching my younger self, especially how u grew up. God bless

    • @tessmokoka6827
      @tessmokoka6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Prayed the same prayer and I feel so guilty sometimes, it feels like I doubted my faith but the pain and sleepless nights my mom went through were unbearable. Watching this and finding a comment like this just made me feel better and find comfort that she's in a better place.

    • @LehlogonoloChuene
      @LehlogonoloChuene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tessmokoka6827 don't feel bad sesi, such prayers are coming from a good place and it was just all to say Let your will be done dear Lord, think of how much you have prayed so she get healing...but God decided to do what he felt was best. They are in a better place and are ur guardian angels. Heal Sesi

    • @tessmokoka6827
      @tessmokoka6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Lehlogonolo Chuene Thank you sis ❤❤

  • @carolkhumalo7466
    @carolkhumalo7466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Go girl u a very smart a wish a my friend that a can talk to, im gona look for your book

  • @Auntie134
    @Auntie134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can relate to her story, its not easy taking care of your sick parent while going to school.

  • @buhleevodia4553
    @buhleevodia4553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you n proud of you...I've been there ,for decision u took I'm so proud of n prise god

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn😭😭😭 I’m so sorry about your mom🤗

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful poet

  • @thandokhumalo4
    @thandokhumalo4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watched this twice n this women’s story is inspiring ❤️...where can we find these fast food to support the food look appetizing 👌

  • @rosem9835
    @rosem9835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for telling your story you encouraged us. You such A great storyteller please start a youtube channel or something where you can showcase that skill.

  • @ThuliNgwenya
    @ThuliNgwenya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I NEEDTO GET YOUR BOOK, I CAN RELATE. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TESTIMONY. I CAN DO IT, THE GLORY GOES TO JEHOVAH

  • @refilweraseroka9961
    @refilweraseroka9961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The crying was break through. Cuz u always had God there with you. U gave birth

  • @thumijordaan3598
    @thumijordaan3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations 🍾🍷🍹❤👍

  • @victoriakgabi7383
    @victoriakgabi7383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a powerful and inspirational message from a young lady who started from zero and pains today she is got a break through by the power of God. 🤔🤔🤔🙏🙏🙏

  • @khosi256
    @khosi256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I dnt knw why, bt I love her so much

  • @elizabethmikitayi1892
    @elizabethmikitayi1892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry Mum. Happy mother's day to you

  • @SecondChanceswithSophiaV
    @SecondChanceswithSophiaV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The new name/abbreviation had me a bit confused, but I love it #IHBTTM Thank you for your consistency and inspiring stories

  • @ikakhoza81
    @ikakhoza81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Will get a copy.

  • @brianncube3365
    @brianncube3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Courageous indeed

  • @nomvulairene4177
    @nomvulairene4177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First 4 minutes m with u dear 😭😭😭

  • @OnEarthasitisinHeaven610
    @OnEarthasitisinHeaven610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where can we get the book?

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She sounds like a pastor, hallelujah

  • @siphelelexulu3884
    @siphelelexulu3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I get the book dear?

  • @lisiasRakkel
    @lisiasRakkel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow , im currently going thorough the same thing . I stay with my boyfriend of 7 years , a father of my 2 sons 4 years and 3months . During mg 1st pregnancy he was cheating on me but i was just stick to him because I was running from hatred from home ... everyone hates me , talk bad about me , accuse me . When I run from home I started distancing my self from all of my family members even thro they call me i ignore them even the cousins . I just wanted to leave my life without then , I didnot need them . Both my parents are late . I just wanted to start my family and live where ever I find my self . So as my child turns 3 years old he s started cheating again . He moved out and start living at another lady s place .I did not know what to do life goes on but he use to come at his place whenever he wants so I fell pregnant again , his cheating became worse . My whole pregnancy he was cheating on me. Few months before I gave birth he came back and i gave birth 2 Feb 2021 ...as im typing this he already moved out with someone else . I'm here with my 4 years and 3months sons crying day and night I not working . . I dont know how what to do .

    • @elihlepillay1221
      @elihlepillay1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      plz plz leave sisi. im so sorry for what ur going thru and i can never say i understand, im so sorry.

    • @neomphuthi4581
      @neomphuthi4581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eish even I am going through that, but I knew I would leave first time he cheats. Cheating on someone pregnant is vile and no one deserves a man like that in their lives. He even flaunted his new girlfriend and called me with her while I'm 9 months pregnant. I trust Karma to do its job.

    • @ashleytusha5492
      @ashleytusha5492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honey Jesus is still in the business of restoration.I have 2 girls 9 and 5,their father at the time cheated on me ,beat me. I cried myself to sleep every night,hoping I would wake up and it was all dream. I had no job,no money,I was scared to leave ,had no where to go because I was an orphan.But when I finally said enough is enough, For 6 months I saved up money and moved out with my girls (4years and 4 months) as he was on holiday with his new bae who was pregnant at the time.God came through big,it is 5 years now but am living an amazing life,God blessed with me with aloving God fearing husband and an amazing career. Some days will be harder than others but trust God for there is victory at the end of every storm with Christ.I will be praying for you too.love you.

    • @mphorejakong4652
      @mphorejakong4652 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i am confused guys, why are we normalising vat and sits whilst we are not married, how can we then complain when the devils plays around our house and blame everything accept living for the Lord?

  • @nomvulairene4177
    @nomvulairene4177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @HannahM479
    @HannahM479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i would like to write a book, please assist

  • @hlayisanitracy54
    @hlayisanitracy54 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hobyana and am Hobyane......u look like my aunt.
    I am touched abt ur past situation coz am going through that now.....my biggest mistake is to tell my husband dat de first person who is going to gv me a bbe won't leave him no matter coz I dnt want my child go through step father life or have kids wit different fathers, now we have a son together, he changed he even told me that he don't owe me any explanation dat where he goes ,wat tym will come back, dis days he even call his bbe mama in front of me anytym. I am so depressed. When I think of going home am having dat mentality what people will say,will turn to be a laughing stock coz I was raised well, and lot of parents used to gv example of me dat ,I am a gud child coz I didn't gt a child in de early age,I just gave birth to my son dis year and am 27 yrs. And am scared to raise dis child alone. He no longer respect me at all or care,he think money it's every in relationship. I really need ur book.

    • @leefortunate5764
      @leefortunate5764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your dignity comes first be financially independent and leave people will always have an opinion, that’s how loyal people contract the virus, choose you.

    • @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414
      @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May God give you the strength and resources to walk away and start afresh! You are still young!! There’s still hope !! Sending love and light ❤️

  • @nombusomaureenmkhize3586
    @nombusomaureenmkhize3586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭

  • @siphiwebiyela3316
    @siphiwebiyela3316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where can i get the book?

    • @SuperRoyalk
      @SuperRoyalk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Siphiwe Biyela, did you get the book?

  • @khethiwegumede9150
    @khethiwegumede9150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭😭😭🇿🇦

  • @doremi131
    @doremi131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To the host. Please help your speakers. This is the 2nd one I hear saying she was a "widower". It is WIDOW for a lady and widower for a man.

    • @Imogene_Joyce
      @Imogene_Joyce 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Couldn’t u just over look that and receive the message or hear what she said? Why must you be like that tog?

    • @kamvagetyengana805
      @kamvagetyengana805 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really now🙄🙄🙄...

    • @doremi131
      @doremi131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Imogene_Joyce
      1. I am a South African correcting MY OWN.
      2. And I said PLEASE.
      3. I heard and received her message.
      4. How does your correcting me yourself make you less of o tog. Piss man!

    • @namisazulu1372
      @namisazulu1372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's black people for you. Whites people don't maliciously correct your grammar in English but trust "better blacks" to come through.

    • @kamvagetyengana805
      @kamvagetyengana805 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@namisazulu1372 and like we owe noone good english... whereevr you go they'll understand what you tryna say...jus like we understood everything she said.

  • @eugeniamanana9424
    @eugeniamanana9424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is vat 'n sit worth all the emotional pain. Living with a man that you are not married to is a sin before God and disrespect to family hence the bad ending

    • @sleepmaster3461
      @sleepmaster3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOUDER

    • @moreblessings326
      @moreblessings326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I also agree with you that it’s a sin but l think she did it and endured the pain because she was running away from pain she was enduring with her family.because of all this pain she was carrying coupled with desperation she couldn’t do things the right way.No one was accepting her even her brother

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thot u are a man....

    • @perculiarwarmth462
      @perculiarwarmth462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is a mean comment... God bless

    • @dikolizaskk5847
      @dikolizaskk5847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perculiarwarmth462 what's wrong with looking like a man....and people commenting about it....to me she looks like a man maybe like her father

    • @perculiarwarmth462
      @perculiarwarmth462 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dikolizaskk5847 😂😂😂😂🙈

    • @kholomologadi8437
      @kholomologadi8437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      U should have kept that to Yourself aaaii you guys are mean man!

    • @dikolizaskk5847
      @dikolizaskk5847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kholomologadi8437 why should I be subscribing to videos and commenting then...