Met a man that kept referencing the Bible and was sweet at first. As soon as I told him I was going to wait, he started saying things to make me feel insecure. I stopped talking to him. They wear a mask and pretend to be good men until you show them you are waiting and not giving in.
@blazeme5389…yes I met a very nice, I thought, 67 year old man who seemed to be so nice, after 4 mos he tried kissing me and I told him I wanted to wait, he asked why. Ugggh I should have left him alone then. I continued to date him but as I got to know him more, he was not accountable for his gaslighting and the concerns I shared with him. He wanted me to accept him as he was he said…I just couldn’t because you are not accepting my concerns and holding himself accountable. I decided after a year and half to stop dating him but now I’m the bad guy for doing so.
Wolve in sheep clothing smh lol a person true character will come if ladies wait having patience will benefit you in a big way unless he can pretend for so long
Girl this sounds like my story. He talked about God too and told me he wanted to go to my church. He never came and when I wouldn't do what he wanted , he told me that I was not right for him then left. These men truly are fake, but they are losing good women!
Same. Such was the reason why I chose to stay inside; then worked, when I came of age. My mother would always try to push me outside but never nurtured the gift that God gave me. Now, in my 40's God is my parent.
Ladies I am only halfway thru the video, so forgive me if its already been mentioned-but heres a down to earth practical warning. -It means NOTHING if a man introduces you to his family. I have noticed women think a wedding ring is pending at this time. Its not.
Facts, because the whole family will be in on the mess meeting different women all the time and the women in the family start mess as well.🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Yep, was in my 40’s when I realized I had been a victim of men’s games when I had been true and loving to men. I learned the hard way that I was being used and emotionally abused. It hurt me to the core when I sat down and looked over my life and at the men that had I encountered over those years! It was heartbreaking but I’ve been on a healing journey and have been celibate for the past 5 years! It’s really sad to see how men mess over women!
The greatest test you can put on a man's CHARACTER is to reserve sexual access!! Bishop is always spot on! Ladies, we can't be afraid to implement this, especially those of us who are believing God for our husbands. Bishop is giving out the gems, don't drop them!!
They don’t hear you. Feminism told women they can behave like men without consequences. Giving away their most precious gift to undeserving men. Look at where we are now.
@@devinesent7696 tell me more... I don't believe in using sex as a weapon because that's definitely not beneficial nor mature however, abstaining from sexual intercourse, especially early on in a relationship will help weed out the men who are pursuing you just for sex. You know what I mean?
Last bout of celibacy was for 6 years. Just me and Jesus. Glazed by 40, biw 42 and niw back out here. Honestly sick of waiting not knowing if God has called me to marriage and family. And 40s hormones, and wanting to be touched by a man again, the new start of a relationship, the settling in of a relationship, the sharing life and ups and downs with a person...I miss that but men are not offering it so for right now I am settling for less than I want but like Al Green said, I so tired of being alone. I love and live for Jesus. He made us physical beings with a need for touch, companionship and all the things... he also made the clitoris and orgasms to which I want to experience at this time.
That's why it's so important to have a relationship with God, and God said he will give his Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit wakes you in the middle of the night and let you know the real deal of what's going on with somebody he's done that for me so many times and never misses a beat. Always right on target, so stay connected with the Holy Spirit.
Learned this the hard way ladies! He went to church, read his Bible, and displayed the fruits of the spirit. All just to hang up the "act" after marriage. At the end of the marriage he admitted that he didn't believe in God. I felt so bamboozled. ☠️
The games are in full force this tax season already. I overheard an older guy tell a younger one how to hook a woman just to get a portion of her money. He even suggested a book to teach game. I immediately started reading it so I would know how to counter any possible attacks. It’s horrible how vigilant women have to be when single.
@amynkwut592 it's playing like their godly, oh baby, this and oh baby that, using the I love you phrase, or just anything that the man thinks will get the woman.
I now understand how the game is played. It took many years to learn the difference between grown men and grown boys! I was married to a grown boy for 25 years!! Never again...!!!
"Grown Men Don't Protect Grown Men; Grown Men Protects Women and Children"! So many men in today's society have lost their way and purpose but I will direct my son's in the way that Mr. Blakes advises. Amen and Thank God for you!
Same here! … However it just made me go harder at the gym, get healthier, stronger, wiser & more glowing than I already am. He was just upset bc he was out of shape, chubby w a bad attitude. In 3 wks, I never showed him any affection. I realized he was smoothly toxic. I could look at him & tell … even his convo was off. He actually made me laugh when I realized he had ghosted me. He did me a favor. Ik there’s nothing seriously wrong w how I look. I saw thru his game & he didn’t expect that. It was his insecurities the whole time. His reasoning for lack of time was that he was going to the gym before & after work … aka as 2 a day’s. Imagine that! 🙄😉 He liked & wanted what he saw, but knew I wasn’t a fool & wouldn’t be easy. My mind, body & spirit was too conditioned for that nonsense!!! 💯❤️💯 I work out in the sauna at 180*+ for 2hrs & for at least 3-4 times wk 💪🏽 He was nothing compared to that. Stay blessed all my fellow single ladies! 🙏🏽
Appreciate your insight. I had to finally block my own brother, he's 62 and I'm 61. I told my dad that he would call, and I had never heard such sorry excuses for needing money and if I told him No, he would cuss me out, call me outside my name, totally violent attitude, my dad said, cut him off, He's Playing you. Wow, my dad actually told me that. I've been dealing with verbal abuse from my dad as well. I often would wonder why I allowed my own brother to do the same. It took me a very long time to finally stop allowing men to abuse me. I finally got sick and tired of allowing men to take advantage of me and demanded respect. It took a while. I finally broke that curse thanks to your teachings.
Pastor Blakes, I've been single and celibate since 2020 when I discarded a narcissistic ex. I have been on 3 dates in that time. Soon as they find out I've been celibate the last few years and haven't really been dating....they disappear quick. I love that process of elimination. These men all all pass thier 50's and I can clearly discern they'll end up mentally and spiritually broken and looking for a nurse in the next few years. Im good. I have my peace and serenity.
Watching this episode strengthened my mind as a woman who comes across men playing games. I am abstaining from sex until marriage. He also will not be able to have any skin to skin contact with any of my private parts. Until I'm married, there will be no nudity, amongst other things (no phone sex, no video sex). I have found you have to have many boundaries if you want to make it to marriage without having any form of sex.
Bishop thank you!! There was a person, who claimed he loved and cared about me. I withheld intimacy and he blocked me 😇!!! He turned out to be the Clown with a Crown and Actor!! Pretended to be a Kingdom man too! I love God and myself more than giving my temple to a loser!! I am 57 years old and married to my purpose. If it is The Lord’s plan I will be married one day.. Bishop keep teaching us and caring. My father was killed in 2021 he was a great dad, but never felt any man was good enough for me. Daddy was so protective and never talked to me about men to this extent. Thank you Bishop, we love and appreciate you🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️!
Great words as usual Bishop. I felt myself getting triggered while listening to this. I am folding laundry as I'm listening and a woman came up to me to ask who I was listening to. She said he's speaking great words and asked for your information.
Thank you very much for educating me Pastor against these devil’s workers. I am now very alert. Once I sense that a “man-child” is grooming me to treat him as the “Prize, trophy, Princess of the partnership Aka Feminine men HA! I jet myself out of there…. HE IS NOT SENT BY MY HEAVENLY-FATHER~
Thank you for this message! I’m divorced from a marriage of 17yrs and just recently got out of a 9 year relationship. I feel so broken. I am focusing on my relationship with God, trying to rebuild broken trust. I am fighting daily to learn how to love myself. I’m just in pain right now and it really sucks. I will keep taking it one day at a time. I really appreciate all of your messages…🙏🏾🙏🏾
I thank God for my mother. She was a force in itself. She made a lot of mistakes in her life and she was determined not to allow her daughters to fall in those same traps. Of course there will always be one or two that will fail to listen. I chose to listen. I owe the life I now live to God working through my mother. She helped me avoid a lot of problems and heartache .
Ill be 4.0. in October and i have realised that its not as easy as it were when I was younger because I have become more discerning, wise and certain about what I want. That's fine, i'll rather be single and wait than do the same mistakes I made in my 20s and early 30s. I have been using the waiting season to know God more and to discover who I am - my hobbies, my strengths and weaknesses and it takes my mind away from the singleness. Im convinced that Psalm 68:6 will be made manifest in my life in God's time. Courage to all the ladies leading chaste lives and trusting God, he will surely come true for you 🙏 ❤
Some of us has been abused, messed up, misunderstood, used and traumatise by men, not knowing the Love of a Father Man of God, you will open our eyes and Spirit to seek Healing and Transformation. Knowledge is Power. God 🙏🙏🙏👍 Bless You
What you are doing for our queens is impactful, i sometimes share these truths with my church sisters, thank you Bishop, your legacy is stamped in the halls of heaven.
Thought I found someone that cared about me. Literally called me everyday and talked for hours. Was sweet and gentle with me. Come to find out I got a phone call from his WIFE of 15 years.
I told you before Pastor Blake's, that I have a Male friend here in Atlanta that has 27 children and he claims a 28th one that is not his. He disappeared for 2 weeks but I'm a discerning person and I knew he was sick. GOD placed it on my heart. Well I woke up to a text this morning from 1 of his baby mother's who stated that he's had 2 strokes and she was wondering what is up with he and I. She stated that all the cars are in her name and that he moved in with her last year when his house caught on fire. She stated she's been with him 23 years...poor chick...23 years and 20 children who aren't hers. She's stuck on delusion. Smh.
Thank you Bishop Blakes for showing love to us women in need of wisdom, discernment, and healing. I check for your updates daily on YT, I need Father-daughter talks.
💕Thank you Paster Blakes for allowing God to use you to deliver this much needed wisdom to all of Gods children. I truly needed this an I’m married 23 years 💕🙏🏽👍🏽
I just want to say Thank you R.C Blakes. You really helped me in such a major way ❤although I had a father growing up he never taught me anything. Never really cared. So Thank you. ❤
I didn’t learn of you until last Friday for some reason you came up on my feed. And all weekend I’ve been watching your videos and sharing to everyone I know. Watching you cause me to make a decision to leave my marriage
I got into an argument with someone online because he was joking about being excited to teach his son how to manipulate women when he grows up. I was disgusted. This must stop.
Games men play with women, includes the father. He makes you believe if you're not 'pretty enough' for some unambiguous man, you're not enough. If you don't earn for the family, you don't get to be fed. You have to give him your money. You have to fend for yourself and only that's how you can keep a relationship.
Lord it would've been such a blessing to me had Pastor Blake's been my mentor starting at my teenage years!! I use to always be looking for mentors in women who were older than me not realizing that they were giving poor advice because they didn't know what they thought they knew.
Such a powerful message, even after all these years. Thank you for sharing these insights and experiences. You and Tony Gaskins are some of the only men trying to teach and help women to wait on the Lord. We have no clue the wicked spiritual principalities and powers that we're up against as women who are seeking to love and to be loved. This is why God, our Savior Jesus Christ must be prioritzed above all.
Just like the men that got mad at Steve Harvey when he wrote his book.... I'm listening to you trust me....all the men I know from dad/ co-workers/ cousins won't tell you how they really are...but keep watching them and see how they treat other women and their girlfriend/ spouse.... I'll keep watching your channel love it and learning so much....thank you!! What a blessing
Absolutely 💯. Thank you Pastor RC Blake. This is much needed in our culture right now. So many woman have not had these teachings in there childhood by they’re Fathers or Mothers.
Pastor Blakes I'm a different religion, but your advice and insight to men and men who do not behave like real men more like little damaged boys. It is a great thing you're doing to protect women. Especially young innocent women. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
Bishop you are doing the LORDS WORK!!! You talk to us as a Father should have… I soooo appreciate you I was married for a long time and navigating these new dating waters requires new knowledge as well as discernment I’m so grateful for you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
You have shown me so much about why I have been sleep walking through my life. As often as I have opportunity, I share your books and messages with younger women in my life. God Bless you!
Thank you. We really need more conversations like this. TEACH US! We are losing our black families. Black Women are walking round unprotected. Growing up I had more friends with both parents in the home. My son generation…. Not so 😢. Value in people need to be restored. Our homes and hearts are broken.
This was so helpful. Ended this cycle after 3 years rollercoaster that was going in no direction while he kept on selling me that he was very committed to me.
You cant help but get great food from a surprise gracious feast where its prepared with you in mind, so thanks Pastor Blakes! The pop-up was awesome, Thank You! Cant wait for tonight! Bless you & 1st Lady Lady!
I truly enjoyed this message… men might think they are going to get another notch under their belt but this wisdom has given me another notch under mines 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
The best thing that could have happened to me was coming across your video on IG during the pandemic in 2020. I have been sticking beside you ever since Bishop! ❤
Thank you so much for this video.❤🙏🏻 my uncle also.told me to keep your legs closed and your eyes open. And I have since this day. I don't cate what people think or say I'm the one living this life not them and when I meet my creator I have to give an account for my life not anyone else.
Thank you so much for this! After being in & out of toxic relationships most of my life, I finally get it! I’m healing, in therapy & getting close to God every day! This is so spot on in today’s times. It’s very sad, but true. 🙏🙏🕊️
They don't want someone their age range because they know the game, and they want someone younger so they can take care of them when they get sick and worn out
I broke up with a 65 yo telling me he needed 3 years to know if he wanted me as a wife. Boy bye. Mind you I am 39 and he sold a dream at the beginning. I believe him 3 months in (he was consistent) and when he thought I was hooked flipped it. I am smarter than that
Thank you Bishop! Any extra time you give outside of our usual Monday time is Greatly appreciated. We understand Monday already takes a lot of time from Lady Lisa and your other responsibilities. Thank you!🙏🏾
You remind me so much of my dad. I was blessed to have had an amazing father that taught me “The Game” he used to say he taught me to well😂 that’s why I’m still single. He has since passed away but his wisdom still lives with me🙏🏾🙏🏾Keep up the good work❤️
I am a Bisexual Italian-American woman, not raised in the Church. Finding your TH-cam channel was a unique choice for me, but a total blessing. Your words lift us up and we become closer to God through your voice and teachings. Thank you for helping me navigate out of years of abuse and toxicity into being a HEALTHY and HIGH VALUE QUEEN. I could cry I’m so grateful. 🤍
Always a great class, when Poppa Blakes teaches. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 It’s not in vain @ all. We’re listening- and applying. I’m waiting. Learning the “game” has been an immense privilege.
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And This Is Why So Many Men Are Dying Alone In Nursing Homes All Because Of Games!!
They put themselves there
True 👏
Yep
Absolutely, reaping what they have sown ‼️
Yes…they put themselves there!😆😆
It seems like finding a husband takes years and years.
It does require self work and patience, but he will come when you are not looking, so be ready😊
AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@NIKKIMarie119💯💯💯
@KM-oy5yh Yeah lot's of discernment so focus on God, our family, ourselves, and our community
I agree it is taking years
Met a man that kept referencing the Bible and was sweet at first. As soon as I told him I was going to wait, he started saying things to make me feel insecure. I stopped talking to him. They wear a mask and pretend to be good men until you show them you are waiting and not giving in.
I want a man that chooses Spirit not his flesh
Yes these men wear a mask and then put on a front then play you.
@blazeme5389…yes I met a very nice, I thought, 67 year old man who seemed to be so nice, after 4 mos he tried kissing me and I told him I wanted to wait, he asked why. Ugggh I should have left him alone then. I continued to date him but as I got to know him more, he was not accountable for his gaslighting and the concerns I shared with him. He wanted me to accept him as he was he said…I just couldn’t because you are not accepting my concerns and holding himself accountable. I decided after a year and half to stop dating him but now I’m the bad guy for doing so.
Wolve in sheep clothing smh lol a person true character will come if ladies wait having patience will benefit you in a big way unless he can pretend for so long
Girl this sounds like my story. He talked about God too and told me he wanted to go to my church. He never came and when I wouldn't do what he wanted , he told me that I was not right for him then left. These men truly are fake, but they are losing good women!
This gentleman is the very father every girl should have in her life.
Absolutely so, Thank you Bishop and First Lady🥰
I knew all the tactics of boys as a teenager but the mistake I made was thinking that they stop all that when they become men. How wrong I was.
Some are grown men, but some are just grown boys
Same. Such was the reason why I chose to stay inside; then worked, when I came of age. My mother would always try to push me outside but never nurtured the gift that God gave me. Now, in my 40's God is my parent.
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 smart -
Men are little boys no matter how old they are🤨🤨🤨!!!!
Same here. Never knew they played games to the grave. Just sad.
Ladies I am only halfway thru the video, so forgive me if its already been mentioned-but heres a down to earth practical warning. -It means NOTHING if a man introduces you to his family. I have noticed women think a wedding ring is pending at this time. Its not.
Oh I know that. I learned that from my uncle's and male cousins.
Yup the family be in on it too
It has meant nothing for years now. Family members lie for men.
Facts, because the whole family will be in on the mess meeting different women all the time and the women in the family start mess as well.🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I agree
Yep, was in my 40’s when I realized I had been a victim of men’s games when I had been true and loving to men. I learned the hard way that I was being used and emotionally abused. It hurt me to the core when I sat down and looked over my life and at the men that had I encountered over those years! It was heartbreaking but I’ve been on a healing journey and have been celibate for the past 5 years! It’s really sad to see how men mess over women!
Hallelujah praise God u and me both
I agree.
It's very sad and immature
When you get out of victim mentality and start taking responsibility for the choices you made in life, you will be set free.
😢😢😢
Yes!! "❤Grown men protect women and children, not other grown men"
Women control access to sex. Men control access to relationship/ marriage. A fact lost on many.
PREACH!!!! These men out here destroying my sisters with the games, lies, and deception.
Hope she wakes up and saves herself asap.
They’re destroying themselves. We know when a man is no good. We just stay in that situation hoping it’ll get better somehow. Just living in fantasy.
Stop giving men more power than they deserve by playing the victim
The greatest test you can put on a man's CHARACTER is to reserve sexual access!! Bishop is always spot on! Ladies, we can't be afraid to implement this, especially those of us who are believing God for our husbands. Bishop is giving out the gems, don't drop them!!
Right because you're having sex for him not you and deep down inside you feel like crap.
They don’t hear you. Feminism told women they can behave like men without consequences. Giving away their most precious gift to undeserving men. Look at where we are now.
Withholding sex or using it as a weapon does not work with a lot of these men
@@devinesent7696 tell me more... I don't believe in using sex as a weapon because that's definitely not beneficial nor mature however, abstaining from sexual intercourse, especially early on in a relationship will help weed out the men who are pursuing you just for sex. You know what I mean?
Last bout of celibacy was for 6 years. Just me and Jesus. Glazed by 40, biw 42 and niw back out here. Honestly sick of waiting not knowing if God has called me to marriage and family. And 40s hormones, and wanting to be touched by a man again, the new start of a relationship, the settling in of a relationship, the sharing life and ups and downs with a person...I miss that but men are not offering it so for right now I am settling for less than I want but like Al Green said, I so tired of being alone. I love and live for Jesus. He made us physical beings with a need for touch, companionship and all the things... he also made the clitoris and orgasms to which I want to experience at this time.
So true! It takes a man to teach women the games men play. Thank you for taking the time out to teach us.
At a certain age, you know better. Desperation and fear of not having a man is in play.
That's why it's so important to have a relationship with God, and God said he will give his Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit wakes you in the middle of the night and let you know the real deal of what's going on with somebody he's done that for me so many times and never misses a beat. Always right on target, so stay connected with the Holy Spirit.
Learned this the hard way ladies! He went to church, read his Bible, and displayed the fruits of the spirit. All just to hang up the "act" after marriage.
At the end of the marriage he admitted that he didn't believe in God. I felt so bamboozled. ☠️
Sounds like he backslid
What!!😮
Demon sent from the pits of hell to delay your purpose.
My God!
Sounds like a man who just faked it all to have you… that’s crazy
The games are in full force this tax season already. I overheard an older guy tell a younger one how to hook a woman just to get a portion of her money. He even suggested a book to teach game. I immediately started reading it so I would know how to counter any possible attacks. It’s horrible how vigilant women have to be when single.
Please can you share the book title?
@@amynkwut592 it was probably “the game” by Neil Strauss or “mystery method” authored by a PUA who calls himself mystery
They are literally teaching this stuff.
What’s the name of the book?
@amynkwut592 it's playing like their godly, oh baby, this and oh baby that, using the I love you phrase, or just anything that the man thinks will get the woman.
I now understand how the game is played. It took many years to learn the difference between grown men and grown boys! I was married to a grown boy for 25 years!! Never again...!!!
I married one also, took me many years to learn the hard way and God's grace to learn he wasn't the man i thought he was.
"Grown Men Don't Protect Grown Men; Grown Men Protects Women and Children"! So many men in today's society have lost their way and purpose but I will direct my son's in the way that Mr. Blakes advises. Amen and Thank God for you!
I love when Pastor RC pops up with a new video!! Thank you!
Me too!!!!!
I agree!
Right; checked earlier. Said oh I guess ima have to wait…😊
ABSOLUTELY 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Great analogy on games men play using board games and amusement rides
Thank you Pastor RC for this,i denied him access to my body and he left. I ended up blaming myself. I am glad there is nothing wrong with me.
Same here! … However it just made me go harder at the gym, get healthier, stronger, wiser & more glowing than I already am. He was just upset bc he was out of shape, chubby w a bad attitude. In 3 wks, I never showed him any affection. I realized he was smoothly toxic. I could look at him & tell … even his convo was off. He actually made me laugh when I realized he had ghosted me. He did me a favor. Ik there’s nothing seriously wrong w how I look. I saw thru his game & he didn’t expect that. It was his insecurities the whole time. His reasoning for lack of time was that he was going to the gym before & after work … aka as 2 a day’s. Imagine that! 🙄😉 He liked & wanted what he saw, but knew I wasn’t a fool & wouldn’t be easy. My mind, body & spirit was too conditioned for that nonsense!!! 💯❤️💯 I work out in the sauna at 180*+ for 2hrs & for at least 3-4 times wk 💪🏽 He was nothing compared to that. Stay blessed all my fellow single ladies! 🙏🏽
That’s the lie they want you to believe
There is nothing wrong with you, you are just SMART
I bet you feel relieved....sad but relieved,not victimized
Appreciate your insight. I had to finally block my own brother, he's 62 and I'm 61. I told my dad that he would call, and I had never heard such sorry excuses for needing money and if I told him No, he would cuss me out, call me outside my name, totally violent attitude, my dad said, cut him off, He's Playing you. Wow, my dad actually told me that. I've been dealing with verbal abuse from my dad as well. I often would wonder why I allowed my own brother to do the same. It took me a very long time to finally stop allowing men to abuse me. I finally got sick and tired of allowing men to take advantage of me and demanded respect. It took a while. I finally broke that curse thanks to your teachings.
" Sounds like a pimp to me" 😂 I say this to men and it upsets them, but that's exactly what it is, pimping...smh
I married a pimp was a show instead of why did I get married. 😂
Woman of GOD we have to just wait and let GOD be the matchmaker.
Yes
Pastor Blakes, I've been single and celibate since 2020 when I discarded a narcissistic ex. I have been on 3 dates in that time. Soon as they find out I've been celibate the last few years and haven't really been dating....they disappear quick. I love that process of elimination. These men all all pass thier 50's and I can clearly discern they'll end up mentally and spiritually broken and looking for a nurse in the next few years. Im good. I have my peace and serenity.
Watching this episode strengthened my mind as a woman who comes across men playing games. I am abstaining from sex until marriage. He also will not be able to have any skin to skin contact with any of my private parts. Until I'm married, there will be no nudity, amongst other things (no phone sex, no video sex). I have found you have to have many boundaries if you want to make it to marriage without having any form of sex.
Me too. Super easy and super safe. I vote for the B4 movement
Bishop thank you!! There was a person, who claimed he loved and cared about me. I withheld intimacy and he blocked me 😇!!! He turned out to be the Clown with a Crown and Actor!! Pretended to be a Kingdom man too! I love God and myself more than giving my temple to a loser!! I am 57 years old and married to my purpose. If it is The Lord’s plan I will be married one day.. Bishop keep teaching us and caring. My father was killed in 2021 he was a great dad, but never felt any man was good enough for me. Daddy was so protective and never talked to me about men to this extent. Thank you Bishop, we love and appreciate you🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️!
He definitly is a clown🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡!!! I really don't want to be bothered with these clowns at all wolves in sheeps clothing!!!
EXCELLENT TEACHING BISHOP!!! RESERVE SEXUAL ACCESS!!!!!! TO MY BODY PERIOD!! LOVE THIS!! TEST & CHECK HIM OUT FIRST!!!!
French muslim woman right there listening to this masterpiece. Knowledge remains knowledge. Thank you so much for your guidance. Totally appreciated.
Great words as usual Bishop. I felt myself getting triggered while listening to this. I am folding laundry as I'm listening and a woman came up to me to ask who I was listening to. She said he's speaking great words and asked for your information.
RC is the real deal
He is always on point to me.
I take a lot of inventory on my experiences listening to him
Thank you very much for educating me Pastor against these devil’s workers. I am now very alert. Once I sense that a “man-child” is grooming me to treat him as the “Prize, trophy, Princess of the partnership Aka Feminine men HA! I jet myself out of there…. HE IS NOT SENT BY MY HEAVENLY-FATHER~
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Run Forrest Run🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Found myself rewatching this video. 🙏🙏💜
Thank you for this message! I’m divorced from a marriage of 17yrs and just recently got out of a 9 year relationship. I feel so broken. I am focusing on my relationship with God, trying to rebuild broken trust. I am fighting daily to learn how to love myself. I’m just in pain right now and it really sucks. I will keep taking it one day at a time. I really appreciate all of your messages…🙏🏾🙏🏾
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I thank God for my mother. She was a force in itself. She made a lot of mistakes in her life and she was determined not to allow her daughters to fall in those same traps. Of course there will always be one or two that will fail to listen. I chose to listen. I owe the life I now live to God working through my mother. She helped me avoid a lot of problems and heartache .
Ill be 4.0. in October and i have realised that its not as easy as it were when I was younger because I have become more discerning, wise and certain about what I want. That's fine, i'll rather be single and wait than do the same mistakes I made in my 20s and early 30s.
I have been using the waiting season to know God more and to discover who I am - my hobbies, my strengths and weaknesses and it takes my mind away from the singleness.
Im convinced that Psalm 68:6 will be made manifest in my life in God's time.
Courage to all the ladies leading chaste lives and trusting God, he will surely come true for you 🙏 ❤
@rcblakesjr on behalf of all women I can’t thank you enough for your contribution ❤
I got plenty!! Don’t you dare 🛑 coming in here with this 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Truth!! I appreciate you for it!! GOD bless you SHALOM!!
Some of us has been abused, messed up, misunderstood, used and traumatise by men, not knowing the Love of a Father
Man of God, you will open our eyes and Spirit to seek Healing and Transformation. Knowledge is Power. God 🙏🙏🙏👍 Bless You
What you are doing for our queens is impactful, i sometimes share these truths with my church sisters, thank you Bishop, your legacy is stamped in the halls of heaven.
Your teachings are always spot on. I learn so much. No more unhealthiness and broken consciousness for me...
Test His Character!! Come on RC BLAKES this is WISDOM.
I love when you say.. well praise the Lord!!!! Then move on like that didn't just snatched some souls! Lol
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Thought I found someone that cared about me. Literally called me everyday and talked for hours. Was sweet and gentle with me. Come to find out I got a phone call from his WIFE of 15 years.
Wow 😮
Smh …wow
Ive a lot of gratitude for this. I feel protected
I told you before Pastor Blake's, that I have a Male friend here in Atlanta that has 27 children and he claims a 28th one that is not his. He disappeared for 2 weeks but I'm a discerning person and
I knew he was sick. GOD placed it on my heart. Well I woke up to a text this morning from 1 of his baby mother's who stated that he's had 2 strokes and she was wondering what is up with he and I. She stated that all the cars are in her name and that he moved in with her last year when his house caught on fire. She stated she's been with him 23 years...poor chick...23 years and 20 children who aren't hers. She's stuck on delusion. Smh.
Wow, that sounds stressful.
He has 27 children??? 😮
Thank you Bishop Blakes for showing love to us women in need of wisdom, discernment, and healing. I check for your updates daily on YT, I need Father-daughter talks.
Please don't stop teaching.😍☺
Never a waste of time. This is what we have needed for centuries. Thank God for leading you in this direction. 🎉
i don’t play games . i believe in equal balance . situations happen and nobody is perfect . it’s about coming together and working together.
💕Thank you Paster Blakes for allowing God to use you to deliver this much needed wisdom to all of Gods children. I truly needed this an I’m married 23 years 💕🙏🏽👍🏽
Me too. Married 21 yrs.
I just want to say Thank you R.C Blakes. You really helped me in such a major way ❤although I had a father growing up he never taught me anything. Never really cared. So Thank you. ❤
"If lions could talk, I would love for a safe lion to tell me what to look out for" . Thank you pastor!!!
I didn’t learn of you until last Friday for some reason you came up on my feed. And all weekend I’ve been watching your videos and sharing to everyone I know. Watching you cause me to make a decision to leave my marriage
He’s the best. 😍
WOW 😳
Glad you found him. He's a healer
Why are you divorcing your husband?
I’ve been in a toxic relationship and like you said it’s called the game of life by some men.
It's never to late to learn a lesson. I did enjoy this commentary. Thank you.😊
I got into an argument with someone online because he was joking about being excited to teach his son how to manipulate women when he grows up. I was disgusted. This must stop.
What will he do if God sent him a daughter?
Games men play with women, includes the father. He makes you believe if you're not 'pretty enough' for some unambiguous man, you're not enough. If you don't earn for the family, you don't get to be fed. You have to give him your money. You have to fend for yourself and only that's how you can keep a relationship.
Lord it would've been such a blessing to me had Pastor Blake's been my mentor starting at my teenage years!! I use to always be looking for mentors in women who were older than me not realizing that they were giving poor advice because they didn't know what they thought they knew.
I wished I had this book when I was 14 years old.
My life has changed since finding this page! I’m so grateful! Thank you and Lisa!
Such a powerful message, even after all these years. Thank you for sharing these insights and experiences. You and Tony Gaskins are some of the only men trying to teach and help women to wait on the Lord. We have no clue the wicked spiritual principalities and powers that we're up against as women who are seeking to love and to be loved. This is why God, our Savior Jesus Christ must be prioritzed above all.
Wonderful love of Godly man
I truly enjoy you sharing your wisdom about men, about life and spiritual wisdom!
God bless you Pastor Blakes!
Just like the men that got mad at Steve Harvey when he wrote his book.... I'm listening to you trust me....all the men I know from dad/ co-workers/ cousins won't tell you how they really are...but keep watching them and see how they treat other women and their girlfriend/ spouse.... I'll keep watching your channel love it and learning so much....thank you!! What a blessing
Absolutely 💯. Thank you Pastor RC Blake. This is much needed in our culture right now. So many woman have not had these teachings in there childhood by they’re Fathers or Mothers.
Just ordered the book. Thank you Bishop! God bless you and your lovely wife and entire family.
I need work to get out of the mess that keeps me in this dark place.
Pastor Blakes I'm a different religion, but your advice and insight to men and men who do not behave like real men more like little damaged boys. It is a great thing you're doing to protect women. Especially young innocent women. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
Bishop you are doing the LORDS WORK!!! You talk to us as a Father should have… I soooo appreciate you I was married for a long time and navigating these new dating waters requires new knowledge as well as discernment I’m so grateful for you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
Yikes, so many relationships today are a dang mess. Grateful to RC for educating us on the dangers out there.
Amen as always
Teach Bishop Blakes!! Thanks 🙏🏾 you so very much!!
You have shown me so much about why I have been sleep walking through my life. As often as I have opportunity, I share your books and messages with younger women in my life. God Bless you!
Thank you!
Thank you. We really need more conversations like this. TEACH US! We are losing our black families. Black Women are walking round unprotected. Growing up I had more friends with both parents in the home. My son generation…. Not so 😢. Value in people need to be restored. Our homes and hearts are broken.
This was so helpful. Ended this cycle after 3 years rollercoaster that was going in no direction while he kept on selling me that he was very committed to me.
But the roller coaster cycle and his energy spoke volumes from all his gaslighting.
Waited 4 years over some jive ass, smooth talking nigga. Thank God I didn't let him have the cookie.
This is a great book. I feel hopeless about love because of these men out here.
I really needed this. Tired of crying
Dismantle soul ties. No more crying over damaged men.
Thank you so much for your kindness 🎉
You cant help but get great food from a surprise gracious feast where its prepared with you in mind, so thanks Pastor Blakes!
The pop-up was awesome, Thank You! Cant wait for tonight! Bless you & 1st Lady Lady!
I truly enjoyed this message… men might think they are going to get another notch under their belt but this wisdom has given me another notch under mines 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
The best thing that could have happened to me was coming across your video on IG during the pandemic in 2020. I have been sticking beside you ever since Bishop! ❤
Bishop, I just want you to know. I love your teachings, and they never get old.
I learn a lot when I listen Bishop
Love your videos so much
Thank you so much for this video.❤🙏🏻 my uncle also.told me to keep your legs closed and your eyes open. And I have since this day. I don't cate what people think or say I'm the one living this life not them and when I meet my creator I have to give an account for my life not anyone else.
Thanks again I'm in my late 50s and just got off roller coaster ride
I totally enjoyed this message.
Thank you for the fatherly advice. I surely didn’t get it from my own.
thank you RB... always appreciate your blunt insight. Really appreciate you!!!!
He is like my guide book....always have the ideal topic and responses to real issues
Thank you Rev!
Wonder food. I'm 58 and have found myself experiencing this heart break unexpectedly. Thank you
Thank you so much for this! After being in & out of toxic relationships most of my life, I finally get it! I’m healing, in therapy & getting close to God every day! This is so spot on in today’s times. It’s very sad, but true. 🙏🙏🕊️
We need more of this type of teaching. Excellent!!🙌🏾✨️ Bishop RC... God bless you!🙏🏾❤️
This is allllllllll true. I just broke up with a 64 years playing gamessss still. Im 45. Moving on glad i found out early the foolish in his game. 😮
They don't want someone their age range because they know the game, and they want someone younger so they can take care of them when they get sick and worn out
you don't want to become his nurse and a purse
I broke up with a 65 yo telling me he needed 3 years to know if he wanted me as a wife. Boy bye. Mind you I am 39 and he sold a dream at the beginning. I believe him 3 months in (he was consistent) and when he thought I was hooked flipped it. I am smarter than that
Thank you Bishop! Any extra time you give outside of our usual Monday time is Greatly appreciated. We understand Monday already takes a lot of time from Lady Lisa and your other responsibilities. Thank you!🙏🏾
You remind me so much of my dad. I was blessed to have had an amazing father that taught me “The Game” he used to say he taught me to well😂 that’s why I’m still single. He has since passed away but his wisdom still lives with me🙏🏾🙏🏾Keep up the good work❤️
I am a Bisexual Italian-American woman, not raised in the Church. Finding your TH-cam channel was a unique choice for me, but a total blessing. Your words lift us up and we become closer to God through your voice and teachings. Thank you for helping me navigate out of years of abuse and toxicity into being a HEALTHY and HIGH VALUE QUEEN. I could cry I’m so grateful. 🤍
Being bi-sexual is a choice ~ when God truly comes into your heart, HE will never lead you down a path of confusion.
Always a great class, when Poppa Blakes teaches. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It’s not in vain @ all. We’re listening- and applying.
I’m waiting. Learning the “game” has been an immense privilege.
I'm new to your station and I have to say thank 🙏 for this message
Glory be to God, thank you vessel of God and spiritual father to all women who have been living below the veil of consciousness 🙏🏾