Hello you beauties. Get a free list of my 100 favourite books - chriswillx.com/books/ Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 Stop Caring About Other People’s Opinions 08:00 How To Have Difficult Conversations 15:28 The Heavy Burden of Unmade Decisions 24:46 Overcoming the Fear of What Other People Think 33:00 In Life You Must Choose Your Regrets 42:18 Work as Hard as You Can at One Thing & See What Happens 54:09 Become a Hero By Using Your Pain 58:42 Success is the Only Revenge 1:11:02 You’ve Already Achieved Goals You Said Would Make You Happy 1:24:13 Nobody Will Hate on You for Doing Worse Than Them 1:36:22 Hold Yourself to a Higher Standard Than Anyone Else Does 1:48:56 How to Remember Everything You Learn 1:59:07 You Don’t Have to Feel Good About it, Just Keep Going 2:05:23 Judge Yourself By Your Actions Not Your Thoughts 2:18:59 Success Comes From Doing The Things Others Won’t Do 2:25:09 The Ultimate Productivity System 2:35:07 A Hack For Knowing Who You Should Take Advice From 2:43:55 Why Cynicism Is A Loser’s Strategy 2:49:10 Learning Isn’t a Spectator Sport 2:51:28 Where to Find Alex
21:42 You just changed my life, truly, i’ve been on a self development journey for more than 6 years now. Ironing out stuff. These discussions about decision-making finally made me understand the real law of attraction. How to move through this world most efficiently. Every decision is an opportunity to not let fear win. The quicker you make decisions out of love that need to be made. The quicker you reach your full potential.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@gaylosbernandez579 When you do the work, the things you learn and the person you become stay with you, regardless if you reach the success criteria of that task. So it's not a wasted work, you are now better because of that work, even the if it was a fail by some external criteria.
Beautifully staggering atm. These two are the templates of what I hope humans are like and if not aspire to be in the our future. There are currently not enough strong but sensitive leaders in our communities. These guys rock.
@@lastnamefirst650 Alex is also a liar, he takes roids and so does his wife I guess when you base youe decisions on "everyone who objects will be dead" you just follow your own morals, and Alex has bad morals
Alex just feels unreal. He’s wealthy, humble, compassionate, philosophical, attentive, generous and funny. He’s like a swole Buddha that decided to become a CEO and wear crocs. You just can’t make this up.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 ⏳ Focus on living life for yourself, as in three generations, everyone who knew you will be forgotten. 01:37 🤔 Learn to think from first principles and not be bound by societal norms or others' expectations. 04:15 🔥 Avoid following the crowd; most people's decisions lead to unfulfilling lives. 06:23 ⏳ The more you act on your decisions, the quicker you can make significant changes in your life. 08:17 🗣️ Unmade decisions are often the source of stress; confronting difficult conversations can lead to growth. 12:02 🚗 Making decisions earlier can save you time and prevent you from staying in a state of complacency. 16:51 💡 Unmade decisions feel heavy due to fear, but naming the fear and the person involved can empower you to take action. 18:43 ⏳ Anxiety cost: Unmade decisions waste valuable time and attention, emphasizing the importance of taking action promptly. 19:25 🕐 Procrastination and anxiety can be reduced by taking immediate action on tasks or decisions. 20:33 ⏳ Speed of decision-making can significantly impact how quickly you achieve your goals and overcome anxiety. 22:54 💡 Fear of failure, insecurity, and the fear of being "not enough" often drive high achievers to succeed. 25:03 🤷♂️ Cynicism can be a defense mechanism to avoid facing the pain of failure and the judgment of others. 26:16 🃏 Everyone has advantages and disadvantages; it's essential to play the hand you've been dealt. 29:44 🤝 Understanding others' experiences and hardships can lead to forgiveness and empathy. 30:54 🙏 Regrets are an inevitable part of life, but choosing which regrets you can live with can guide decision-making. 35:10 🧀 In decision-making, consider running away from what you fear (regret) rather than chasing what you desire. 38:38 🌟 Building confidence is not about shouting affirmations but about proving your worth through undeniable evidence. 39:09 📘 Measure your success by your efforts and the work you put in, not just the outcomes. 40:19 🗣️ Prioritize and dedicate substantial effort to tasks to ensure you've done everything in your control to succeed. 42:25 🌟 The more you commit to a single pursuit, the more you realize your capabilities and unlock mastery. 44:43 💪 Turn pro in your chosen endeavor, applying dedication and a pro athlete's mindset to achieve excellence. 45:11 💡 The difference between nervousness and excitement is your level of preparation. 49:13 💡 Your ability to say "no" becomes crucial as you become more successful; focus on the one thing that matters most. 52:31 🚀 As you gain more success, your opportunities increase, making it even more important to prioritize and say "no" to most. 56:17 🔥 Use insufficiency, resentment, or difficult experiences as potent fuel to drive your actions and success. 57:25 🪓 Twisting the knife: Be specific about your pain and understand what truly hurts you, as it's often what contains elements of truth that bother you. 58:38 🌟 Success is the only revenge: Focus on your goals and achievements to overshadow doubters and naysayers, rather than trying to prove them wrong individually. 59:22 💪 Use challenges as opportunities: Transform negative experiences into strengths. Overcoming adversity can lead to unique skills and resilience. 01:01:54 🚀 Embrace the journey: Find joy in the pursuit of your goals rather than solely focusing on achieving them. The process of striving can be more fulfilling than reaching the destination. 01:05:08 🎖️ Be grateful for your challenges: Reflect on past difficulties as opportunities for growth and character development, as they contribute to who you are today. 01:06:23 🛣️ Define your own game: Don't just try to win at someone else's game; determine what game you want to play and set your own rules and goals. 01:09:40 🤔 Happiness in the pursuit: Realize that happiness often comes from actively working toward your goals, not just achieving them. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination. 01:15:53 🌄 Create your character through challenges: Imagine the person you want to become and embrace the hardships and struggles that will shape your character along the way. 01:16:50 🙏 Gratitude for the mundane: Cultivate gratitude by imagining how your future self would cherish the simple joys and health you currently have. 01:17:32 🌟 Finding gratitude and presence in everyday moments is a powerful way to combat feeling stuck in routines. 01:18:00 🧘 Presence and gratitude can be intertwined, with small daily moments opening you up to awareness. 01:18:56 🥋 Conor McGregor emphasized the importance of being present in his fights, allowing him to excel. 01:19:48 🌼 Mindfulness can be as simple as savoring a sip of coffee or a view out of the window, stringing together these moments. 01:21:12 🌄 Moments where you perceive your peripheral vision can naturally lead you to the present. 01:26:29 🚀 Success often brings haters because you remind them of the dreams they gave up on. 01:29:43 🌟 Haters and criticism can be indicators that you're on the right path to success. 01:35:21 💪 Every worthwhile goal has a cost, and it's the difficulty that makes it worth pursuing. 01:36:48 🙅 Self-love can involve rejecting the notion of self-acceptance and striving for the person you want to become. 01:37:28 🧠 Self-love means believing in yourself more than anyone else does and holding yourself to a higher standard. 01:39:09 🤔 Reject the idea of self-acceptance as settling for who you are; instead, accept your current state but strive for improvement. 01:40:09 💪 Embrace the discrepancy between your current self and the person you want to be, and focus on taking steps to bridge that gap. 01:45:41 🧭 Feeling lost or going through hard times often indicates you're on the right path to success, not the wrong one. 01:50:47 🧘♂️ To overcome negative emotions like sadness or impatience, operationalize them by identifying the root causes and working on solutions. 01:55:26 📝 A mediocre plan consistently followed is more effective than a perfect plan never executed; the key is sticking to the plan. 01:56:22 🌟 Alex emphasizes the importance of consistency and setting a new, higher bar for oneself after achieving success. 01:56:47 🧬 Alex acknowledges that everyone faces unique challenges, but he encourages individuals to focus on what they want to achieve rather than seeking sympathy for their difficulties. 01:57:30 🤔 Alex challenges the "must be nice" mindset, suggesting that success isn't about circumstances but about one's determination and actions. 01:59:10 💪 Alex emphasizes the importance of persevering even when you don't feel good about it and how hard work pays off in the long run. 02:00:55 🌱 Alex highlights that the work itself changes and molds you, and it's not just about the outcomes. 02:03:27 🏆 Alex shares his realization that work is never wasted because you become the output of the work, not just the outcome. 02:05:36 🤯 Alex suggests that judging yourself based on your actions, not just your thoughts, can lead to self-improvement. 02:06:58 🕰️ Alex discusses the value of patience and how it can be developed through consistent action, even when you don't feel patient. 02:10:36 🙌 Alex and the host emphasize the importance of sharing honest, unromanticized stories of personal growth and challenges to help others navigate their journeys. 02:15:43 🚀 Having a "must be easy" mindset is a sign of a victim mindset; it removes agency and power from your life. 02:17:07 ⏳ Life is like a protracted training montage; the lack of certainty makes it worthwhile. 02:18:48 🤔 Pursuing a goal with uncertainty is what makes it meaningful; guaranteed success would be unfulfilling. 02:19:04 💪 To be more successful than most, be willing to do what most people aren't willing to do. 02:20:26 🔄 Consistency is a powerful virtue; being consistent is often the key to success. 02:23:46 🕰️ The moment you begin working is when your productivity increases; starting is the perfect condition. 02:28:57 💪 There are no shortcuts; hard work is the path to success. 02:30:13 🌟 Don't compromise on your standards; even if others praise your work, you'll know if you could have done better. 02:33:22 📅 Aim for your average Tuesday to reflect how you want most of your life to be, focusing on meaningful work, exercise, and spending time with loved ones. 02:35:12 🚫 Don't waste time justifying your actions to people who have a life you don't want. Live your life the way you want. 02:36:14 🙅♂️ Don't let others' inability to make a logical argument affect you. Accept their rejection and move on. 02:39:42 🎭 "Punking the game" means refusing to play by others' rules in a game you didn't agree to, which can be both destructive and constructive. 02:41:20 💰 The cynics may seem right in the short term, but the optimists often achieve long-term success. Embrace the tension between paranoia in the present and faith in the future. 02:45:06🚀 Don't be swayed by people who consistently underestimate your potential. They're often wrong, except for the one time it truly matters. 02:49:30 📚 Learning is about changing behavior in response to new conditions. Intelligence is the rate of learning, not an inherent attribute. 02:51:50 📖 Check out Alex Hormozi's books "100 Million Dollar Offers" and "100 Million Dollar Leads" for practical business insights.
It bothers me to no end how some people would rather use filler words that make you sound less articulate than actually deal with silence to think out a response.
I definitely agree it is a bad habit to respond immediately if one does not have his answer but if you get good at formulating yourself quickly on the spot is a good skill to have, you won't always have the time to think through a question. Though being uncomfortable with silence and scrambling for words is not a good habit(I do this more than I would like to admit) and having anxiety over what sounds best and what to say isn't that much better. I think for most people don't worry too much about what is the right approach when communicating but rather just practice, reflect and try different things out, once you get good at something it just happens if you think about what you are doing you will fuck up. If you have ever wondered why someone can play a guitar and sing at the same time or how Micheal Jackson can flow across the floor, there is literally no secret, at least nothing that can be put into words that will magically make you an expert. So just get out of your head and do stuff, and watch the universe unfold. One of the most complex things we do is walking and that just happens, despite all the tiny motions involved and the varying surfaces we roam across. Sorry for going on a tangent, just hope I can reach a younger me, goddamn we waste so much time.... Like shia Labeouf says: " JUST DO IT!" Lol
I'm 48 and I keep reminding myself how lucky we are to have such easy and comfortable access completely free to absolutely phenomenal wisdom. I remember times when I had to sift through books in the library just to find something useful. One episode like this can be life-changing for the person who takes it seriously and starts applying at least something out of this. Thank you Chris and Alex so much. You both are such great contributors to society. I've been on a 'subscribing' diet lately trying to be extremely picky about subs but this 3-hour marathon of value-bombs definitely got me on board.
He is, and he sounds like he knows everything and is always right on everything. He is not. He shits like everyone else, he will die like everyone else. God he is not.
This literally this moment became the most meaningful podcast/video I’ve experienced. I’m 56. I’m still learning. I’m in awe of how this came together and what I’ve walked away with and will hold close to my heart. Just thank you so much.
Watching this for the 7th time now. Always coming back to it when I lose the will to continue. Chris, Alex, you have no idea how many lives you're saving. Thank you!
I hope that the 8th time you watch is to reflect how far you’ve come, not when you’ve lost the will to continue. 🤘🏻🙂 May you be well, blessed and surrounded by love.
Thank you for this podcast! I have been feeling lost and now I know where to go. I know that the things I'm avoiding need to be done. That I should be living the life I want to live. That I should make sure everyday I take a step in the direction to the destination that seems unreal, until it's reality.
So happy for this updated interview. Alex is quickly becoming the GOAT. He put on a masterclass in sales a few days ago. Truly one of the brightest minds in business.
About having kids… I just have to tie two parts of this video together, it helped my own understanding and maybe it’ll help others as well. You said “choose your regrets” and I like that. It’s one of the “parts that stood out to me the most” for me. You also said “don’t let kids hold you back” and I like that as well. Here’s the thing though… for anyone that has kids that aren’t in full time school yet… we will always choose to regret missing out on a business (or any other) opportunity rather than missing out on our kids in those few precious years. “You gave up on your dreams because of me?” Damn right I did because you became my new dream. At least a big pause on them anyway.
@@dan-cj1rr interesting take you have. Perhaps you don’t like receiving a tonne of value….for free. The people going through his free trainings and new book (like me) are not phased by the unique approach to his launch, in-fact, it’s impressive as there’s few people on the planet that could actually pull that off in the manner that he did it.
@@dan-cj1rr godd u gotta be world class level dense to take that from his presentation. He made something educational which he wanted us to share with as many people as possible because that’s what his goal is, he wants to make business education accessible for everyone. He literally made everything available for free and asked us to share it. If anyone wanted to buy the limited edition books to get his company’s hat in return (as token of gratitude from his end) we could buy it and share it with our friends. People literally go crazy to buy stupid merch from all sorts of scammy TH-camrs and out of them all you thought of accusing him 🤦🏻♂️, you lead a sad life my friend.
Always put your finances in good care to ensure that your income rises. Wealthy people achieve there financial goals and acquire riches by seeking help from finance pro(s) but many claim to have achieved success themselves.
I operate a wide range of investments and have achieved massive growth in my finances with the help of my financial professional, making my financial goal a reality.
I love how this ancient wisdom existing there for thousands of years gets so much admiration from people. Probably we really need this kind of guys that can articulate it properly.
Is it weird that almost every episode feels like ultra premium content? Is Chris the new Oprah? Like everything Oprah thought she was, that’s Chris. He’s the real deal.
Oprah was always about the entertainment and the spectacle. She's very good at it. So I think you're onto something here because I think the real need for the deeper stuff was just untapped. And this is where Chris is just purely better at it. No need for a larger than life personality.
I feel so extremely lucky to have recognized that it didn’t matter what other people thought about me at such a young age. I was about 10 or 11 years old when I started to live how i wanted to live. My school, hobbies, friends, how I dressed, what I said, or my relationship with family was all based on what I wanted snd what I liked and never based on other peoples opinion. I didn’t need outside validation or approval. I didn’t need everyone to like me either. This outlook has allowed me to truly live the life that I wanted to be who I truly was.. I consider myself successful and at peace snd it had nothing to do with money or illusions. ..something that sadly most people will never experience. The side effect of this mentality however is that I’m not close with family and I don’t have many friends because people do not like it when you don’t conform to their expectations and make decisions based on what you want and not what they want you to want for them. No regrets. I’ve lived a great life.
"The heaviest things in life aren't iron and gold, but unmade decisions. The reason you are stressed is that you have decisions to make and you're not making them." - Alex Hormozi 15:28 Interesting quote.
Ive been obsessed to his content and the results of it are evident to everyone the fact that am 19 in Kenya is so fascinating to find someone ive never met impacting me in such a way
A session for life! U guys smashed this one.. 💯🔥 "Nothing is goin to be worthwhile that doesn't come with an associated amount of discomfort" In this day&age that quote hits hard.
I'm reading your comment as I'm turning down French fries at a restaurant. It sucks eating healthy sometimes, lol, but if you ain't got health you ain't got nothing.
I think the concept of having to choose one's regrets and the fact that shame only exists in the shadows are two truths that really got me thinking! Incredible episode!
I have bought both of Alex's books! Love all the wisdom available today. I gotta say it's easy to get trapped in scrolling for too long. I decided to delete all the social apps off my phone and just use TH-cam on my laptop and it's really helped my productivity!
I listed to this podcast almost every day for a month while working through the plans and gusto to further live and change my life paradigm almost a year ago when you first posted it, starting my own company reselling products … it’s been tough, but absolutely worth it! I listened to it again this afternoon while getting errands done and it helped me walk in the door, and literally do the next one after putting my keys down; frankly face the “fear” I’ve been holding onto for 7 years and launch my first piece of creative work. Thank you for taking all that time to pull this list together and for having Alex on to discuss. You’ve helped change the trajectory of my next 50 years - your time was well spent. ❤
Chris and Alex have such a genuine rapport, and that’s very much reflected in the quality of their conversation. Thanks for taking us along for the ride fellas.
This episode has my heart. The vulnerability from the two of you combined with the anectodes, and the results of your heart work, made me...emotional and inspired. I've been listening while I work on my clients and i have about 20 minutes left in this episode, but wanted to say thank you to Chris for the amazing guests you find, and Alex for sleeping in that gym, under the garage, while those kids the same age as you were partying all night and the cars were driving over your head. You both deserve such great things.
Single parenting is relentless triple shifts for 10-20 years. Much love you guys. I get inspired every time I listen to you. So much gold in this conversation. Thank you.
1:07:20 one of the best rants on TH-cam. This resonated with me deeply. Chris explains something that only a few in my life have managed to understand or feel, but almost none experienced. And the ending is just amazing.
This was a great interview and I am re-listening again to it today on Spotify. I rarely come on TH-cam and for this episode I decided to pop in and leave a comment to say that this was exactly what I needed for the season of life that I am currently in.
21:42 You just changed my life, truly, i’ve been on a self development journey for more than 6 years now. Ironing out stuff. These discussions about decision-making finally made me understand the real law of attraction. How to move through this world most efficiently. Every decision is an opportunity to not let fear win. The quicker you make decisions out of love that need to be made. The quicker you reach your full potential.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I absolutely love the pause that Alex takes before he replies to gather his thoughts. I’ve never seen that before but it is so brilliant. Most people want to seem like they have the answers and start talking immediately filled with “uh’s and um’s”. Such a master at getting his point across. 👏🏽
Excellent conversation. Chris just nails these interviews. Loved the section about choosing your regrets. I am pretty pumped after watching this whole thing. I just started my business on 11th August. The motivator for me was that in July I was regretting not starting it 3 years ago and I realised I would rather try and fail than regret not starting it again 3 years from now.
Dude that’s crazy I’m reading this and this is my 3rd time listening. First time I can actually interpret the knowledge of nearly everything they’re talking about.
For me the same, and it's amazing how every time I listen to it there are new nuances and information that I can capture, alex is a real guide! Keep Building!
I had to pause for a second at 1:17. I have the same system of realization that I developed myself. It is so powerful. Wow. Nobody talks about it, and here it is, Alex. I fit with your thinking in so many ways you can't even imagine.
I love this one. I feel this interview/conversation will be a good one to last for decades and decades improving the lives of humans again and again. Love you guys and thanks for sharing your wisdom
I don’t think any podcast has connected with me more. Thank you both for mentioning how sad and lonely it can be on the way to the top. Not enough influencers mention just how hard the hardships of self improvement are, and you two both did an amazing job putting my feelings into words. Keep up the good work!
This pod helped give me the courage to leave my businesses and partnerships that weren't performing, to decide to do just 1 thing and I am so grateful I made that decision.
Chris, thanks to your line of questioning that is relatable and empathetic. I felt deeply that you respected my time. Hope this brings a smile to your face. You deserve more love and subscribers! ❤
@ChrisWillx & @Hormozi this is the best podcast that I have ever watched. So many 'breathe easy' moments from the clarity of your examples, scenarios and ideas. And I am so much older than both of you guys! The high paced banter between both of you is exciting like a high paced tennis match or maybe ping pong! Thank you for having this conversation and sharing it. It is now on my 'Reference Playlist' as I'll come back to it! A few exercise are coming for me, writing a list of pains and how to use them! Take care and lots of success to both of you!
I'm in my 50' and I find the conversation between these two young men so refreshing. The transparent honesty, and the drive for success they conveyed was a really good conversation.
I'm a mom of two young kids. I homeschool, I cook from scratch as much as possible, garden and raise chickens so they can eat well. I run my side hustle in the early mornings and late nights. I frequently think "I can't do all of this" or "I can't do what Alex is doing because I have children" And then I remember I don't have to do things the way he is doing them to still find value in his lessons. And even though my progress feels slow, and my task list overwhelming, my young children are temporary. They are the priority, BUT I can still slowly lay the foundation, brick-by-brick, of what I want to do and be afterwards
Your missing the point all he is talking about you can utilize and are based on all your actions. You can apply this wisdom to any task and way of life begin now.
This really inspired me... ive been in the stage of my life where im not old enough to panic, but not young enough to be careless and im lost, disorganized, undisciplined, and hopeless. Despite knowing the problem im failing to execute and this gave me a variety of perspective. The way you word things like not knowing why you arnt doing something or turning emotions objective helped my thought center and i started talking real steps while listening. Keep up the good work 👍
2 days of listening, 4 pages of notes (double-sided). Chris and Alex should congratulate themselves for having the best podcast episode of the year! Looking forward to more!
Chris and Alex. Thank you. This episode is like a bible chapter. I keep listening to it entirely because is full of wisdom, power and concrete things to put into practice and inspire to punch the fear and be who we want to be. Which is not easy most times. Thank you.
Never has a podcast improved my life so quickly. Alex inspired me to have a difficult conversation with my girlfriend and now things are much better between us. It's also inspiring to think about making decisions sooner rather than later.
I cant help but say . Your podcast is getting better and better than ever before. You will certainly rule in this area man. Thank so much you for making this valuable contents .
This video is just what I needed .This resonates with everything I'm experiencing as a new mom, new business owner, and new content creator. This conversation has been incredibly inspiring in many ways. Thank you! It's just the extra push I needed☺.
Thank you both, your comments of subject of hate and success, so much resonates with me and it is so comforting to hear " hate comes with success and it is projection of who they are and has nothing to do with you". someone speaking of my heart and what I experienced.
I love this interview.. I love Chris's vulnerability with feeling alone and like the "weird" one.. I relate and its nice to be reminded you aren't alone, and you are also walking the path of greatness by doing the exact opposite of 90% of the population. This interview is inspiring! The Universe invests in those who invest in themselves.
This is pure gold. I have Alex’s books, too. So much wisdom from this lovely man and his beautiful wife. Thank you for the gift of this generous conversation and for the humility you both share it in.
This was an excellent conversation between friends who have really great insight and information. It is nice to see Alex in more of a realistic relaxed state of being. His conversation and Dave Ramsey with him have been my favorites recently. Chris I am new to your channel and I look forward to listening to more your content.
“Fame doesn’t change you, it change everyone around you”, but I’ve always felt the sentiment that fame and power reveals you was more true, perhaps fame also reveals those around you. It’s less that people change, but that as your circumstances change, people reveal more of who they are.
So great to hear this! I’ve been in the situation where a huge huge group, community of friends pushed back. I saw it and I kept doing what was best for me. Although, it’s nice to see that they are excepting me for who I have grown into. And the ones that don’t, it doesn’t matter to me anymore. Life is really good and getting better and better and better.
I'm only 20 min in and theres already been, for me, a couple of profound observations / reframings of reality. I think I might clip some of this and set it as my morning alarm !
Thanks for adding the parenting part and us using it as a reason to not do what we want. I caught myself doing that for the last few months and reframed a great question for myself that has helped. "if my daughter brought home a partner with my current habits/lifestyle would I be proud" I changed the narrative to doing what I need for myself as I am the one showing her how to be herself and how to look for a life partner in the future
In the same response, I have also focused more on work life balance, 85 year old me will be happy to know my daughter has travelled the world and still chooses to come have lunch with me every week/month because of the time I invested into her from a young age. My goal is to have her join me for all my activities so she can learn and see me following my goals/passions and spending some great quality time together
I really appreciate you guys, i think it's sad that more people aren't benefiting from the content, but hopefully you continue to grow. In a world lacking in inspirational male role models you are the person filling a gap in my life i thought i may not find. I can't wait to see your live show in Manchester. All the best Chris, you're smashing it 🙌
I’ve watched this over the past month while I ate or was on a lunch break. This was probably one of the best ways I’ve spent 3 hours. I hope everyone makes it to the end, because this is a gem
@@lau-guerreirowhat gives you the impression he can’t accept himself? I wouldn’t say he’s enlightened and he wouldn’t either he’s just learning and sharing as he does
@@zaydevans2077 he had a whole section on how he thought self-acceptance was wrong. Did you listen to it? He's still stuck in having to be better. He can't just be as he is.
I am a 56 year old retired nurse recently widowed. I have been watching Alex and Layla’s teaching videos, among others, for the past 5 months. I am you at 85 Mr. Hormozi. I am grateful for these 3 hours. The conversation was light yet insightful. Thank you. I know I’m not the target audience but I wanted you to know that your knowledge is appreciated at every moment of your life. I’m taking the red pill, finally.
I enjoyed the energy between you both so DAMN MUCH I wanna listen to this over and over again. Thank you for this. I wish I could print out the transcript for this and reread it everyday just to recapture the energy and of course, the gold.
Brilliant, enough said. I don't want EITHER of your lives... yeah that part where everyone comes at you when you have achieved and put yourself out there part. This conversation IS GOLD FOR ANYONE who wants to change anything, that's the genius of this interview. Bravo guys and thank you.
This was absolutely awesome!! I like the fact it dropped after his presentation this Sunday because I stayed up to watch it (2am here in Sydney, Australia) and he obviously crushed it - and watching back at his prep and discussing the mindset after the fact is pretty special! You talked of being present, and honestly I felt so present just watching this, so incredibly engaged, so thank you for making it happen. I did take a pause to go and search for Modern Wisdom's 1st episode, and can confirm progress has been made brother haha killin it! Love Alex and his open teaching and appreciate your ability to ask sound questions, as well as adding your own reflections to the guests input. There was SO much to take on from this episode. Fuckin epic! Cheers!!
I love this man's perspectives so much. I've experienced that same thing of 'people want you to do well but never better than them'. I purchased both of his books and I'm excited to read them and implement these ideas in my own life.
I love Chris's passion at 1:51:00 about us never being more blessed than we are now. I could feel him boiling up over this concept. His conviction is so huge.
I'm 33 and divorced, recently moved across the country have had a rough last few years full of a lot of loss and little gain. Thank you both for providing me the push through the mental threshold towards being better. I have been stagnate, indecisive, and clouded for too long. You have provided a broader and logical perspective on a lot of my personal issues and short comings. Also I have been watching Alex's channel for a while and landed on your channel back when you talked with Eric Weinstein, finding this was absolute mental gold. Greatly appreciate the guests and your inquires. You have very passionate and genuine way of speaking that is refreshing.
Hi, a stranger here from the UK... Im 34, divorced at 31 (or 32 I cant remember). Im replying because your comment resonated, stagnation and indecision were peak for me a few years ago. Im glad you found this content useful... give yourself a pat on the back, your looking for a way forward and you have found it. Good for you :). I cannot believe how far I come from reading & watching content from people I respect. I hope this does not come across as patronising, I truly mean it to support. A Stranger
Hello you beauties. Get a free list of my 100 favourite books - chriswillx.com/books/ Here’s the timestamps:
00:00 Stop Caring About Other People’s Opinions
08:00 How To Have Difficult Conversations
15:28 The Heavy Burden of Unmade Decisions
24:46 Overcoming the Fear of What Other People Think
33:00 In Life You Must Choose Your Regrets
42:18 Work as Hard as You Can at One Thing & See What Happens
54:09 Become a Hero By Using Your Pain
58:42 Success is the Only Revenge
1:11:02 You’ve Already Achieved Goals You Said Would Make You Happy
1:24:13 Nobody Will Hate on You for Doing Worse Than Them
1:36:22 Hold Yourself to a Higher Standard Than Anyone Else Does
1:48:56 How to Remember Everything You Learn
1:59:07 You Don’t Have to Feel Good About it, Just Keep Going
2:05:23 Judge Yourself By Your Actions Not Your Thoughts
2:18:59 Success Comes From Doing The Things Others Won’t Do
2:25:09 The Ultimate Productivity System
2:35:07 A Hack For Knowing Who You Should Take Advice From
2:43:55 Why Cynicism Is A Loser’s Strategy
2:49:10 Learning Isn’t a Spectator Sport
2:51:28 Where to Find Alex
thats only 20 timestamps 🤔
Thank you
21:42 You just changed my life, truly, i’ve been on a self development journey for more than 6 years now. Ironing out stuff. These discussions about decision-making finally made me understand the real law of attraction. How to move through this world most efficiently. Every decision is an opportunity to not let fear win. The quicker you make decisions out of love that need to be made. The quicker you reach your full potential.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Game Changers that are Selfless Servants! My people! Thanks brothers. 👊🏼💪🏼🚀
Chris talk way more than Alex. Disappointing in some waysm id rather have Alex explain his own thoughts.
“No work is wasted because I am the output of the work, not the outcome”. That was so good.
“I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over”. Such a powerful message
Can someone explain in dumb?
@@gaylosbernandez579 When you do the work, the things you learn and the person you become stay with you, regardless if you reach the success criteria of that task. So it's not a wasted work, you are now better because of that work, even the if it was a fail by some external criteria.
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@@YoungKriegerperfect, couldn’t say it better myself
The amount of wisdom in this podcast between these two people who are still in their thirties is absolutely staggering. Amazing content.
Alex is 29
@@curiousclicksofficialAlex is 33 as of late august dude. He’s said it multiple times on different podcasts
Beautifully staggering atm.
These two are the templates of what I hope humans are like and if not aspire to be in the our future.
There are currently not enough strong but sensitive leaders in our communities. These guys rock.
for a recap: google "succes quotes"
@@lastnamefirst650 Alex is also a liar, he takes roids and so does his wife
I guess when you base youe decisions on "everyone who objects will be dead" you just follow your own morals, and Alex has bad morals
Alex just feels unreal. He’s wealthy, humble, compassionate, philosophical, attentive, generous and funny. He’s like a swole Buddha that decided to become a CEO and wear crocs. You just can’t make this up.
That’s the best description of Alex I’ve heard.
This is a perfect description, I 100% agree with you.😄
You literally CANT MAKE IT UP 😂😂😂
You forget muscular
A swole buddah 😂😂 that’s so accurate tho hahah
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 ⏳ Focus on living life for yourself, as in three generations, everyone who knew you will be forgotten.
01:37 🤔 Learn to think from first principles and not be bound by societal norms or others' expectations.
04:15 🔥 Avoid following the crowd; most people's decisions lead to unfulfilling lives.
06:23 ⏳ The more you act on your decisions, the quicker you can make significant changes in your life.
08:17 🗣️ Unmade decisions are often the source of stress; confronting difficult conversations can lead to growth.
12:02 🚗 Making decisions earlier can save you time and prevent you from staying in a state of complacency.
16:51 💡 Unmade decisions feel heavy due to fear, but naming the fear and the person involved can empower you to take action.
18:43 ⏳ Anxiety cost: Unmade decisions waste valuable time and attention, emphasizing the importance of taking action promptly.
19:25 🕐 Procrastination and anxiety can be reduced by taking immediate action on tasks or decisions.
20:33 ⏳ Speed of decision-making can significantly impact how quickly you achieve your goals and overcome anxiety.
22:54 💡 Fear of failure, insecurity, and the fear of being "not enough" often drive high achievers to succeed.
25:03 🤷♂️ Cynicism can be a defense mechanism to avoid facing the pain of failure and the judgment of others.
26:16 🃏 Everyone has advantages and disadvantages; it's essential to play the hand you've been dealt.
29:44 🤝 Understanding others' experiences and hardships can lead to forgiveness and empathy.
30:54 🙏 Regrets are an inevitable part of life, but choosing which regrets you can live with can guide decision-making.
35:10 🧀 In decision-making, consider running away from what you fear (regret) rather than chasing what you desire.
38:38 🌟 Building confidence is not about shouting affirmations but about proving your worth through undeniable evidence.
39:09 📘 Measure your success by your efforts and the work you put in, not just the outcomes.
40:19 🗣️ Prioritize and dedicate substantial effort to tasks to ensure you've done everything in your control to succeed.
42:25 🌟 The more you commit to a single pursuit, the more you realize your capabilities and unlock mastery.
44:43 💪 Turn pro in your chosen endeavor, applying dedication and a pro athlete's mindset to achieve excellence.
45:11 💡 The difference between nervousness and excitement is your level of preparation.
49:13 💡 Your ability to say "no" becomes crucial as you become more successful; focus on the one thing that matters most.
52:31 🚀 As you gain more success, your opportunities increase, making it even more important to prioritize and say "no" to most.
56:17 🔥 Use insufficiency, resentment, or difficult experiences as potent fuel to drive your actions and success.
57:25 🪓 Twisting the knife: Be specific about your pain and understand what truly hurts you, as it's often what contains elements of truth that bother you.
58:38 🌟 Success is the only revenge: Focus on your goals and achievements to overshadow doubters and naysayers, rather than trying to prove them wrong individually.
59:22 💪 Use challenges as opportunities: Transform negative experiences into strengths. Overcoming adversity can lead to unique skills and resilience.
01:01:54 🚀 Embrace the journey: Find joy in the pursuit of your goals rather than solely focusing on achieving them. The process of striving can be more fulfilling than reaching the destination.
01:05:08 🎖️ Be grateful for your challenges: Reflect on past difficulties as opportunities for growth and character development, as they contribute to who you are today.
01:06:23 🛣️ Define your own game: Don't just try to win at someone else's game; determine what game you want to play and set your own rules and goals.
01:09:40 🤔 Happiness in the pursuit: Realize that happiness often comes from actively working toward your goals, not just achieving them. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination.
01:15:53 🌄 Create your character through challenges: Imagine the person you want to become and embrace the hardships and struggles that will shape your character along the way.
01:16:50 🙏 Gratitude for the mundane: Cultivate gratitude by imagining how your future self would cherish the simple joys and health you currently have.
01:17:32 🌟 Finding gratitude and presence in everyday moments is a powerful way to combat feeling stuck in routines.
01:18:00 🧘 Presence and gratitude can be intertwined, with small daily moments opening you up to awareness.
01:18:56 🥋 Conor McGregor emphasized the importance of being present in his fights, allowing him to excel.
01:19:48 🌼 Mindfulness can be as simple as savoring a sip of coffee or a view out of the window, stringing together these moments.
01:21:12 🌄 Moments where you perceive your peripheral vision can naturally lead you to the present.
01:26:29 🚀 Success often brings haters because you remind them of the dreams they gave up on.
01:29:43 🌟 Haters and criticism can be indicators that you're on the right path to success.
01:35:21 💪 Every worthwhile goal has a cost, and it's the difficulty that makes it worth pursuing.
01:36:48 🙅 Self-love can involve rejecting the notion of self-acceptance and striving for the person you want to become.
01:37:28 🧠 Self-love means believing in yourself more than anyone else does and holding yourself to a higher standard.
01:39:09 🤔 Reject the idea of self-acceptance as settling for who you are; instead, accept your current state but strive for improvement.
01:40:09 💪 Embrace the discrepancy between your current self and the person you want to be, and focus on taking steps to bridge that gap.
01:45:41 🧭 Feeling lost or going through hard times often indicates you're on the right path to success, not the wrong one.
01:50:47 🧘♂️ To overcome negative emotions like sadness or impatience, operationalize them by identifying the root causes and working on solutions.
01:55:26 📝 A mediocre plan consistently followed is more effective than a perfect plan never executed; the key is sticking to the plan.
01:56:22 🌟 Alex emphasizes the importance of consistency and setting a new, higher bar for oneself after achieving success.
01:56:47 🧬 Alex acknowledges that everyone faces unique challenges, but he encourages individuals to focus on what they want to achieve rather than seeking sympathy for their difficulties.
01:57:30 🤔 Alex challenges the "must be nice" mindset, suggesting that success isn't about circumstances but about one's determination and actions.
01:59:10 💪 Alex emphasizes the importance of persevering even when you don't feel good about it and how hard work pays off in the long run.
02:00:55 🌱 Alex highlights that the work itself changes and molds you, and it's not just about the outcomes.
02:03:27 🏆 Alex shares his realization that work is never wasted because you become the output of the work, not just the outcome.
02:05:36 🤯 Alex suggests that judging yourself based on your actions, not just your thoughts, can lead to self-improvement.
02:06:58 🕰️ Alex discusses the value of patience and how it can be developed through consistent action, even when you don't feel patient.
02:10:36 🙌 Alex and the host emphasize the importance of sharing honest, unromanticized stories of personal growth and challenges to help others navigate their journeys.
02:15:43 🚀 Having a "must be easy" mindset is a sign of a victim mindset; it removes agency and power from your life.
02:17:07 ⏳ Life is like a protracted training montage; the lack of certainty makes it worthwhile.
02:18:48 🤔 Pursuing a goal with uncertainty is what makes it meaningful; guaranteed success would be unfulfilling.
02:19:04 💪 To be more successful than most, be willing to do what most people aren't willing to do.
02:20:26 🔄 Consistency is a powerful virtue; being consistent is often the key to success.
02:23:46 🕰️ The moment you begin working is when your productivity increases; starting is the perfect condition.
02:28:57 💪 There are no shortcuts; hard work is the path to success.
02:30:13 🌟 Don't compromise on your standards; even if others praise your work, you'll know if you could have done better.
02:33:22 📅 Aim for your average Tuesday to reflect how you want most of your life to be, focusing on meaningful work, exercise, and spending time with loved ones.
02:35:12 🚫 Don't waste time justifying your actions to people who have a life you don't want. Live your life the way you want.
02:36:14 🙅♂️ Don't let others' inability to make a logical argument affect you. Accept their rejection and move on.
02:39:42 🎭 "Punking the game" means refusing to play by others' rules in a game you didn't agree to, which can be both destructive and constructive.
02:41:20 💰 The cynics may seem right in the short term, but the optimists often achieve long-term success. Embrace the tension between paranoia in the present and faith in the future.
02:45:06🚀 Don't be swayed by people who consistently underestimate your potential. They're often wrong, except for the one time it truly matters.
02:49:30 📚 Learning is about changing behavior in response to new conditions. Intelligence is the rate of learning, not an inherent attribute.
02:51:50 📖 Check out Alex Hormozi's books "100 Million Dollar Offers" and "100 Million Dollar Leads" for practical business insights.
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How does this comment have so few likes?
Great summary! Thanks brother!
@fritzfluss9990 people probably just give up halfway. You have to scroll for ages to get to that like button.
@@rayralf90 Oh the irony
Thanks for writing this!
A man who thinks before he answers. A novelty. There’s hope. Great interview.
It bothers me to no end how some people would rather use filler words that make you sound less articulate than actually deal with silence to think out a response.
Was this statement at a particular time stamp?
@@ItsMistaTeejust throughout the video, he gathers himself before he answers each question
I definitely agree it is a bad habit to respond immediately if one does not have his answer but if you get good at formulating yourself quickly on the spot is a good skill to have, you won't always have the time to think through a question. Though being uncomfortable with silence and scrambling for words is not a good habit(I do this more than I would like to admit) and having anxiety over what sounds best and what to say isn't that much better. I think for most people don't worry too much about what is the right approach when communicating but rather just practice, reflect and try different things out, once you get good at something it just happens if you think about what you are doing you will fuck up. If you have ever wondered why someone can play a guitar and sing at the same time or how Micheal Jackson can flow across the floor, there is literally no secret, at least nothing that can be put into words that will magically make you an expert. So just get out of your head and do stuff, and watch the universe unfold.
One of the most complex things we do is walking and that just happens, despite all the tiny motions involved and the varying surfaces we roam across.
Sorry for going on a tangent, just hope I can reach a younger me, goddamn we waste so much time....
Like shia Labeouf says: " JUST DO IT!" Lol
I noticed the exact same thing. Thoughtful answers are my favorite.
I'm 48 and I keep reminding myself how lucky we are to have such easy and comfortable access completely free to absolutely phenomenal wisdom. I remember times when I had to sift through books in the library just to find something useful. One episode like this can be life-changing for the person who takes it seriously and starts applying at least something out of this. Thank you Chris and Alex so much. You both are such great contributors to society. I've been on a 'subscribing' diet lately trying to be extremely picky about subs but this 3-hour marathon of value-bombs definitely got me on board.
Hormozi is such an articulate speaker, so good at delineating his life events and connecting to audiences.
He is, and he sounds like he knows everything and is always right on everything. He is not.
He shits like everyone else, he will die like everyone else.
God he is not.
Going through a huge life transition right now and I think this is the most valuable bit of conversation that I have heard in a long time. Thanks!
Wish you the best !
Keep at it! 💪🏽🤘🏽
How's life going now G?
How's life going now G?
“In life we must choose our regrets”, I never wanted or even have a tattoo, but I want this on me for life as a reminder
No shit I may get this inked… “Choose your regrets”
I choose to regret getting this tattoo
I would get a tattoo about regrets but I may regret it.
@@MrBoxofplasticI wasn’t gonna get a tattoo, but I thought I might regret not getting one.
I think choose your suffering trumps choose your regret. It encompasses more, it’s a purer truth.
this will be the single most valuable podcasts for generations to come
This literally this moment became the most meaningful podcast/video I’ve experienced. I’m 56. I’m still learning. I’m in awe of how this came together and what I’ve walked away with and will hold close to my heart. Just thank you so much.
Love this comment, I’m 53 and thinking the same as you!
@@Kward1you are not 53! Wow! Share your diet plan? Haha ❤
@@Kward1I'm 51 & I love your comment! Kindest regards, Richard U.K
There is no age cap on growing!!
Nor any age minimum.
Thank goodness!
Keep it up brother! 👍
Watching this for the 7th time now. Always coming back to it when I lose the will to continue. Chris, Alex, you have no idea how many lives you're saving. Thank you!
3rd time here. Good stuff 💪
Keep going Greg, it'll be ok
@@paulrichardson5438 hey man, appreciate that. That's such a simple comment but it makes a huge difference.
I hope that the 8th time you watch is to reflect how far you’ve come, not when you’ve lost the will to continue. 🤘🏻🙂 May you be well, blessed and surrounded by love.
@@JessicaDarling2 this message is so beautiful. thanks for spreading love ❤️
More than a podcast episode, this was two men having a deeply intimate, heartfelt conversation about life itself. I felt this.
Thank you for this podcast! I have been feeling lost and now I know where to go. I know that the things I'm avoiding need to be done. That I should be living the life I want to live. That I should make sure everyday I take a step in the direction to the destination that seems unreal, until it's reality.
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Your content schedule is just crazy right now. I have like 5 of your videos on my watch later list and you just keep positing! You're killing it
Never heard of this guy before. Listened to it on spotify and got immense inspiration that I dont often get from podcasts. This guy is great.
So happy for this updated interview. Alex is quickly becoming the GOAT. He put on a masterclass in sales a few days ago. Truly one of the brightest minds in business.
I’d end your last sentence at “minds.” He’s graduated to that level, at least for me. Business professor, therapist, and life coach all in 1.
seriously though. in a world full of idiots, he sure shines a light on how to live better..
@@shawnhills
About having kids… I just have to tie two parts of this video together, it helped my own understanding and maybe it’ll help others as well. You said “choose your regrets” and I like that. It’s one of the “parts that stood out to me the most” for me. You also said “don’t let kids hold you back” and I like that as well. Here’s the thing though… for anyone that has kids that aren’t in full time school yet… we will always choose to regret missing out on a business (or any other) opportunity rather than missing out on our kids in those few precious years. “You gave up on your dreams because of me?” Damn right I did because you became my new dream. At least a big pause on them anyway.
You should have been interviewed instead of this guy. 100%
His book launch on Saturday was remarkable. So much respect for this man. Phenomenal conversation!
Yes it was man! One of the best ever. Got all the links and ordered the big pack of books to pay It forward
oh yea especially the part where he confirmed that it was a pyramid scheme
@@dan-cj1rr interesting take you have. Perhaps you don’t like receiving a tonne of value….for free. The people going through his free trainings and new book (like me) are not phased by the unique approach to his launch, in-fact, it’s impressive as there’s few people on the planet that could actually pull that off in the manner that he did it.
@@AlexLancuba bro tf u on about, i watched it a little and he started explaining a pyramid scheme lmao
@@dan-cj1rr godd u gotta be world class level dense to take that from his presentation. He made something educational which he wanted us to share with as many people as possible because that’s what his goal is, he wants to make business education accessible for everyone. He literally made everything available for free and asked us to share it.
If anyone wanted to buy the limited edition books to get his company’s hat in return (as token of gratitude from his end) we could buy it and share it with our friends. People literally go crazy to buy stupid merch from all sorts of scammy TH-camrs and out of them all you thought of accusing him 🤦🏻♂️, you lead a sad life my friend.
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Two great humans having an authentic conversation. Sublime.
I love how this ancient wisdom existing there for thousands of years gets so much admiration from people. Probably we really need this kind of guys that can articulate it properly.
Is it weird that almost every episode feels like ultra premium content? Is Chris the new Oprah? Like everything Oprah thought she was, that’s Chris. He’s the real deal.
Oprah was always about the entertainment and the spectacle. She's very good at it. So I think you're onto something here because I think the real need for the deeper stuff was just untapped. And this is where Chris is just purely better at it. No need for a larger than life personality.
For reaaaaal!
If only Chris were a black lesbian.
@@johnsondengdeeper stuff still only interests a smaller audience. But that’s ok. It’s there for those who want to receive it.
Oprah was Oprah, Chris is Chris
I feel so extremely lucky to have recognized that it didn’t matter what other people thought about me at such a young age. I was about 10 or 11 years old when I started to live how i wanted to live. My school, hobbies, friends, how I dressed, what I said, or my relationship with family was all based on what I wanted snd what I liked and never based on other peoples opinion. I didn’t need outside validation or approval. I didn’t need everyone to like me either. This outlook has allowed me to truly live the life that I wanted to be who I truly was.. I consider myself successful and at peace snd it had nothing to do with money or illusions. ..something that sadly most people will never experience.
The side effect of this mentality however is that I’m not close with family and I don’t have many friends because people do not like it when you don’t conform to their expectations and make decisions based on what you want and not what they want you to want for them.
No regrets. I’ve lived a great life.
"The heaviest things in life aren't iron and gold, but unmade decisions. The reason you are stressed is that you have decisions to make and you're not making them." - Alex Hormozi 15:28
Interesting quote.
Ive been obsessed to his content and the results of it are evident to everyone the fact that am 19 in Kenya is so fascinating to find someone ive never met impacting me in such a way
A session for life!
U guys smashed this one.. 💯🔥
"Nothing is goin to be worthwhile that doesn't come with an associated amount of discomfort"
In this day&age that quote hits hard.
I'm reading your comment as I'm turning down French fries at a restaurant. It sucks eating healthy sometimes, lol, but if you ain't got health you ain't got nothing.
I think the concept of having to choose one's regrets and the fact that shame only exists in the shadows are two truths that really got me thinking! Incredible episode!
I have bought both of Alex's books! Love all the wisdom available today. I gotta say it's easy to get trapped in scrolling for too long. I decided to delete all the social apps off my phone and just use TH-cam on my laptop and it's really helped my productivity!
I have to do this
@@Sampsadioz Let me know how it goes!
smart smart...I am consider the same especially as I am going into content creation...my mind can be everywhere and nowhere at once
Ditto and no regrets. When I need to relax my mind now, I do word games (bonus: my vocabulary 👆⬆️
I listed to this podcast almost every day for a month while working through the plans and gusto to further live and change my life paradigm almost a year ago when you first posted it, starting my own company reselling products … it’s been tough, but absolutely worth it!
I listened to it again this afternoon while getting errands done and it helped me walk in the door, and literally do the next one after putting my keys down; frankly face the “fear” I’ve been holding onto for 7 years and launch my first piece of creative work.
Thank you for taking all that time to pull this list together and for having Alex on to discuss.
You’ve helped change the trajectory of my next 50 years - your time was well spent. ❤
Chris and Alex have such a genuine rapport, and that’s very much reflected in the quality of their conversation. Thanks for taking us along for the ride fellas.
That "exactly" while simultaneously pointing at Chris, at about 10:50. Felt that deep in my bones.
This episode has my heart. The vulnerability from the two of you combined with the anectodes, and the results of your heart work, made me...emotional and inspired. I've been listening while I work on my clients and i have about 20 minutes left in this episode, but wanted to say thank you to Chris for the amazing guests you find, and Alex for sleeping in that gym, under the garage, while those kids the same age as you were partying all night and the cars were driving over your head. You both deserve such great things.
Single parenting is relentless triple shifts for 10-20 years. Much love you guys. I get inspired every time I listen to you. So much gold in this conversation. Thank you.
It is truly rare to want to relisten to a three hour podcast immediately after you’re finished
I did that with the Tim Ferris one as well.
Wow feeling the same way 🤯
1:07:20 one of the best rants on TH-cam. This resonated with me deeply. Chris explains something that only a few in my life have managed to understand or feel, but almost none experienced. And the ending is just amazing.
This was a great interview and I am re-listening again to it today on Spotify. I rarely come on TH-cam and for this episode I decided to pop in and leave a comment to say that this was exactly what I needed for the season of life that I am currently in.
21:42 You just changed my life, truly, i’ve been on a self development journey for more than 6 years now. Ironing out stuff. These discussions about decision-making finally made me understand the real law of attraction. How to move through this world most efficiently. Every decision is an opportunity to not let fear win. The quicker you make decisions out of love that need to be made. The quicker you reach your full potential.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I absolutely love the pause that Alex takes before he replies to gather his thoughts. I’ve never seen that before but it is so brilliant. Most people want to seem like they have the answers and start talking immediately filled with “uh’s and um’s”. Such a master at getting his point across. 👏🏽
I was having a really bad day. People got in my head about my goals and staying in my path and this really fired me up. So thank you
At work listening during my 12 hr shift and I’ve enjoyed every bit ! God bless yall
I'm getting so much from this, and a lot of your guys content. Thank you both
Hey sir can you pls help me . I'm not well and I'm at hospital please help me by donating some money😢❤
I learn so much from your content and I see myself growing everyday from it . Thank you and keep up the hard work 💪🏼
Excellent conversation. Chris just nails these interviews. Loved the section about choosing your regrets. I am pretty pumped after watching this whole thing.
I just started my business on 11th August. The motivator for me was that in July I was regretting not starting it 3 years ago and I realised I would rather try and fail than regret not starting it again 3 years from now.
How's your progress so far man?
Watching for my third time through now. Thanks guys.
Same, come back to it every month to check in with myself.
Lol me as well
Dude that’s crazy I’m reading this and this is my 3rd time listening. First time I can actually interpret the knowledge of nearly everything they’re talking about.
For me the same, and it's amazing how every time I listen to it there are new nuances and information that I can capture, alex is a real guide! Keep Building!
Fourth this time, too much sauce in here
The heaviest things are unmade decisions. This was very true for me both in my divorce and leaving a religion.
I had to pause for a second at 1:17. I have the same system of realization that I developed myself. It is so powerful. Wow. Nobody talks about it, and here it is, Alex. I fit with your thinking in so many ways you can't even imagine.
I love this one. I feel this interview/conversation will be a good one to last for decades and decades improving the lives of humans again and again. Love you guys and thanks for sharing your wisdom
On repeat monthly. One of the best interviews with Alex, thank you both for recording this. Following from New Hampshire
I don’t think any podcast has connected with me more. Thank you both for mentioning how sad and lonely it can be on the way to the top. Not enough influencers mention just how hard the hardships of self improvement are, and you two both did an amazing job putting my feelings into words. Keep up the good work!
This pod helped give me the courage to leave my businesses and partnerships that weren't performing, to decide to do just 1 thing and I am so grateful I made that decision.
Still making progress and have no re-watched this twice because there's so much savage wisdom in this.
Chris, thanks to your line of questioning that is relatable and empathetic. I felt deeply that you respected my time. Hope this brings a smile to your face. You deserve more love and subscribers! ❤
@ChrisWillx & @Hormozi this is the best podcast that I have ever watched. So many 'breathe easy' moments from the clarity of your examples, scenarios and ideas. And I am so much older than both of you guys! The high paced banter between both of you is exciting like a high paced tennis match or maybe ping pong! Thank you for having this conversation and sharing it. It is now on my 'Reference Playlist' as I'll come back to it! A few exercise are coming for me, writing a list of pains and how to use them! Take care and lots of success to both of you!
Chris telling Alex "shut up" at 2:26:53 is my absolute favorite. How to be a great Podcaster? Tell your guest to shut up! 😂😂❤ love it!
I'm in my 50' and I find the conversation between these two young men so refreshing.
The transparent honesty, and the drive for success they conveyed was a really good conversation.
This has got to be the most beautiful video podcast set I've ever seen. So clean, warm, and cinematic. Nicely done.
I'm a mom of two young kids. I homeschool, I cook from scratch as much as possible, garden and raise chickens so they can eat well. I run my side hustle in the early mornings and late nights.
I frequently think "I can't do all of this" or "I can't do what Alex is doing because I have children"
And then I remember I don't have to do things the way he is doing them to still find value in his lessons. And even though my progress feels slow, and my task list overwhelming, my young children are temporary. They are the priority, BUT I can still slowly lay the foundation, brick-by-brick, of what I want to do and be afterwards
Your missing the point all he is talking about you can utilize and are based on all your actions. You can apply this wisdom to any task and way of life begin now.
@@annettebicer7555 that's the conclusion my post comes to, friend
This video should be mandatory viewing for all boys aged 13 n older. Every year for the rest of their lives
This is my favourite episode out of any podcast ever...these guys are so far beyond most ppl..like wtf
The amount of free value here is crazy. Great points, great chemistry, great podcast.
This really inspired me... ive been in the stage of my life where im not old enough to panic, but not young enough to be careless and im lost, disorganized, undisciplined, and hopeless. Despite knowing the problem im failing to execute and this gave me a variety of perspective. The way you word things like not knowing why you arnt doing something or turning emotions objective helped my thought center and i started talking real steps while listening. Keep up the good work 👍
2 days of listening, 4 pages of notes (double-sided). Chris and Alex should congratulate themselves for having the best podcast episode of the year! Looking forward to more!
Please can you forward the notes
What's your email?@@Abdul-Rahman-
34:18 “In life, we must choose our regrets” - Douglas Morey
Wow, that’s a bar!
This is my favorite podcast for wisdom. I love your personality and the chemistry between you and Alex is fantastic. Much peace and love, brother.
Chris and Alex. Thank you. This episode is like a bible chapter. I keep listening to it entirely because is full of wisdom, power and concrete things to put into practice and inspire to punch the fear and be who we want to be. Which is not easy most times.
Thank you.
Never has a podcast improved my life so quickly. Alex inspired me to have a difficult conversation with my girlfriend and now things are much better between us. It's also inspiring to think about making decisions sooner rather than later.
Those 3 hours has literally been game changing for me. I have never thought like this. Thank you so much!
I cant help but say . Your podcast is getting better and better than ever before. You will certainly rule in this area man. Thank so much you for making this valuable contents .
not only did I watch it, but I also watched it twice and took notes on new vocabulary to study English in the second time
you guys are fantastic
This video is just what I needed .This resonates with everything I'm experiencing as a new mom, new business owner, and new content creator. This conversation has been incredibly inspiring in many ways. Thank you! It's just the extra push I needed☺.
Hormozis are gifts to humanity
Always a classic when these two talk. Only 10 mins in and pure gems are being dropped
Thank you both, your comments of subject of hate and success, so much resonates with me and it is so comforting to hear " hate comes with success and it is projection of who they are and has nothing to do with you". someone speaking of my heart and what I experienced.
I've been listening to this podcast for while but this has to be the most takeaways I've taken from a single episode. Hormozi is the man, love this 💪
I love this interview.. I love Chris's vulnerability with feeling alone and like the "weird" one.. I relate and its nice to be reminded you aren't alone, and you are also walking the path of greatness by doing the exact opposite of 90% of the population. This interview is inspiring! The Universe invests in those who invest in themselves.
I am going to reflect on my "what is the conversation I fear having right now?". Great prompt.
This is pure gold. I have Alex’s books, too. So much wisdom from this lovely man and his beautiful wife. Thank you for the gift of this generous conversation and for the humility you both share it in.
This was an excellent conversation between friends who have really great insight and information. It is nice to see Alex in more of a realistic relaxed state of being. His conversation and Dave Ramsey with him have been my favorites recently. Chris I am new to your channel and I look forward to listening to more your content.
This whole podcast was absolutely filled with wisdom and it has such a comforting effect... of not feeling so alone
“Fame doesn’t change you, it change everyone around you”, but I’ve always felt the sentiment that fame and power reveals you was more true, perhaps fame also reveals those around you. It’s less that people change, but that as your circumstances change, people reveal more of who they are.
Think I’ve re-watched this everyday for over a week now. I can’t thank you enough. The Mindset I need is setting in stone slowly & permanently 💯
The last podcast with Alex on MW was life changing. I don't say that easily. It really was. So excited for this one!
So great to hear this! I’ve been in the situation where a huge huge group, community of friends pushed back. I saw it and I kept doing what was best for me. Although, it’s nice to see that they are excepting me for who I have grown into. And the ones that don’t, it doesn’t matter to me anymore. Life is really good and getting better and better and better.
I'm only 20 min in and theres already been, for me, a couple of profound observations / reframings of reality. I think I might clip some of this and set it as my morning alarm !
Thanks for adding the parenting part and us using it as a reason to not do what we want. I caught myself doing that for the last few months and reframed a great question for myself that has helped. "if my daughter brought home a partner with my current habits/lifestyle would I be proud" I changed the narrative to doing what I need for myself as I am the one showing her how to be herself and how to look for a life partner in the future
In the same response, I have also focused more on work life balance, 85 year old me will be happy to know my daughter has travelled the world and still chooses to come have lunch with me every week/month because of the time I invested into her from a young age. My goal is to have her join me for all my activities so she can learn and see me following my goals/passions and spending some great quality time together
I really appreciate you guys, i think it's sad that more people aren't benefiting from the content, but hopefully you continue to grow. In a world lacking in inspirational male role models you are the person filling a gap in my life i thought i may not find. I can't wait to see your live show in Manchester. All the best Chris, you're smashing it 🙌
I’ve watched this over the past month while I ate or was on a lunch break. This was probably one of the best ways I’ve spent 3 hours. I hope everyone makes it to the end, because this is a gem
Listening to Hormozi is like becoming enlightened without putting in multiple lives of hard karma work.
He is so far from enlightened! He can't even accept himself - that's kindergarten level!
@@lau-guerreiro If you were as far at him at Kindergarten, then much respect for you.
Karmic work supposedly transfers through incarnations... so maybe you're prepared with some work already.
@@lau-guerreirowhat gives you the impression he can’t accept himself? I wouldn’t say he’s enlightened and he wouldn’t either he’s just learning and sharing as he does
@@zaydevans2077 he had a whole section on how he thought self-acceptance was wrong. Did you listen to it? He's still stuck in having to be better. He can't just be as he is.
I am a 56 year old retired nurse recently widowed.
I have been watching Alex and Layla’s teaching videos, among others, for the past 5 months.
I am you at 85 Mr. Hormozi.
I am grateful for these 3 hours. The conversation was light yet insightful. Thank you. I know I’m not the target audience but I wanted you to know that your knowledge is appreciated at every moment of your life. I’m taking the red pill, finally.
Best episode of this Podcast so far, pops to both Chris and Alex for their great thoughts and conversation!! ❤
No words. Truly wise, smart and GREAT people! Thank You, Chirs and Thank You, Alex!
I enjoyed the energy between you both so DAMN MUCH I wanna listen to this over and over again. Thank you for this. I wish I could print out the transcript for this and reread it everyday just to recapture the energy and of course, the gold.
Great idea. I will do just that, print out a copy of the transcript. 👍
@@mogeauxomg did you do it!? :)
@@selenathesparklycabbage yes. I did. Learning is one way I procrastinate.
Thanks!
Phenomenal ❤ And to think we get this life changing conversation/content for free. What a wonderful world we live in.
Brilliant, enough said. I don't want EITHER of your lives... yeah that part where everyone comes at you when you have achieved and put yourself out there part. This conversation IS GOLD FOR ANYONE who wants to change anything, that's the genius of this interview. Bravo guys and thank you.
This was absolutely awesome!! I like the fact it dropped after his presentation this Sunday because I stayed up to watch it (2am here in Sydney, Australia) and he obviously crushed it - and watching back at his prep and discussing the mindset after the fact is pretty special! You talked of being present, and honestly I felt so present just watching this, so incredibly engaged, so thank you for making it happen. I did take a pause to go and search for Modern Wisdom's 1st episode, and can confirm progress has been made brother haha killin it! Love Alex and his open teaching and appreciate your ability to ask sound questions, as well as adding your own reflections to the guests input. There was SO much to take on from this episode. Fuckin epic! Cheers!!
I love this man's perspectives so much. I've experienced that same thing of 'people want you to do well but never better than them'. I purchased both of his books and I'm excited to read them and implement these ideas in my own life.
I love Chris's passion at 1:51:00 about us never being more blessed than we are now. I could feel him boiling up over this concept. His conviction is so huge.
I'm 33 and divorced, recently moved across the country have had a rough last few years full of a lot of loss and little gain. Thank you both for providing me the push through the mental threshold towards being better. I have been stagnate, indecisive, and clouded for too long. You have provided a broader and logical perspective on a lot of my personal issues and short comings.
Also I have been watching Alex's channel for a while and landed on your channel back when you talked with Eric Weinstein, finding this was absolute mental gold. Greatly appreciate the guests and your inquires. You have very passionate and genuine way of speaking that is refreshing.
Hi, a stranger here from the UK... Im 34, divorced at 31 (or 32 I cant remember). Im replying because your comment resonated, stagnation and indecision were peak for me a few years ago. Im glad you found this content useful... give yourself a pat on the back, your looking for a way forward and you have found it. Good for you :). I cannot believe how far I come from reading & watching content from people I respect. I hope this does not come across as patronising, I truly mean it to support.
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@@scottrobert1790 Much appreciated, Thank You so much for the affirmation.