It's like you have the confidence to literally make friends with random strangers, but after you make them like you and all, you kinda don't wanna see or have contact with them ever again.
Omgggg frrrrr it’s like your battery rapidly dying and then by the time it’s really low you just feel super irritated and I know for myself I just stop talking and start daydreaming sometimes
I hate when that happens. One minute you're totally fine, and the other you just want to go home and eat ice cream instead of being in a loud room with a bunch of people.
@@lyte3339 I've had people complain to me because of that, saying I don't talk much, I don't smile often, when I remember that I smiled more than usual and remember myself smiling most of the time? I guess our times are relative, maybe when they see me I've drained my energy and am daydreaming or just staring blankly.
Ambivert things: being so energetic and likable at a party. Everybody likes being around you. Then, you happily recover from the massive loss of energy by not speaking to a human soul for another week and being yourself writing in a journal, with the blinds closed, and a cup of tea.
Oh god so painful. And once you’ve started you can’t stop. And as you get more nervous and stressed out you start to talk about your most embarrassing experiences and you always regret it.
I was happy watching DSMP alone, but also sad at the same time. I eventualy got outside and got outside, people realised i still existed now i just am constanly like: "okay so I want to call but i just finished ranboos 7 hour vod of LIS and want to watch the vod for epidones 4 and 5. OH GOD WHAT DO I CHOOSE-" (i swear that wasent last night- lol) end up being so indesisive that either they call me first, no way in hell do i hqve the confadence to decline, space out for a hour qnd watch yt, or sometimes i just choose. But if theyask, i eathey say "sure" or that "sorry I'm busy qwq"
I have no problem with asking for extra ketchup and speaking in front of 200 people, but I kinda enjoyed the lockdown because I could stay at home with my cats and away from people lol
Exactly, well captured! How I'm glad someone is like me. I either can't go outside of home to buy bread and I can starve for days (literally, only toilet paper makes me finally go out), or I feel so much enthusiasm and courage that I want to change world and I can do whatever it takes.
* makes a funny instagram story * * hovers thumb over the share with everyone or share with close friends* . . . * hits the close friends button * . . . * deletes all close friends from the list *
Does anybody else feel so alone when they arent talking with someone but if someone starts a conversation with you you just want them to go away? Or am i just crazy
I end up talking to myself about my problems. I'm like my own therapist because when I talk to myself, I pretend that there's someone in front of me who is listening.
@@theresachacon1122 Omg, so true. I don't know why but I pretend that someone is near me and listening. I think I'm going crazy.but u know, it helps sometimes)
So true, when I've used up my energy, I'm an introvert and then when I'm home for more than couple of days I'm an extrovert and be losing my mind for external stimulus.
Ambivert situation: when you are extroverted with a person and introverted with other person and then they are in the same room with you and all you think is "FUCK WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO???"
EASY! I got this, let the extrovert lead and then step in to make the introvert feel seen and heard. Social mediation for the mf win! Also tap in and save introvert when too drained. And make things interesting when extrovert is getting bored and wanting more feedback.
Me (An Ambivert) : I really miss my friends. My Brother : Then how about you go hang out with them? Invite them to go out or something. Me : I’d rather just stay home though. Him : Then invite them over. Me : Maybe later. I don’t want to clean up the house right now. I just kinda wanna sleep but I do really want to get a drink. Him : Then get a drink.. Me : I don’t really feel like it though. I do really miss my friends. Him : Then go hang out with them, Me : I just wanna stay home though. Him : Your so f--ing indecisive. I’m done.
I have SO many drunk notes on my phone with this sentiment to remind my ass I can do the social with strangers (but like friendly ones not like danger strangers)
I feel that 100% I’ll sign up for a camp or a thing with friends, be excited for it when I schedule it, be terrified of it when the day comes, and then if I force myself to go to it I end up enjoying it afterward
I say things like "I'm actually quite introverted don't get used to this" when I'm being really confident and loud, and then other times, when someone says "awe you're so quiet," I feel the irrational need to clarify that I'm actually active sometimes just not now.
Being an ambivert and having a friend who is also an ambivert: Friend: Wanna hang out tomorrow? Me: sure *tomorrow* Me: Hey, I'm not really feeling it, let's reschedule for next week Friend: ok *next week* Friend: Hey, I'm not really feeling it, let's reschedule for next week Me: ok *rinse and repeat for 3 months until energy levels sync up and finally see each other*
You have to get some form of spontaneity in there. Call your friend as soon as you feel up to doing something, and if they feel up to it too, go for it. With plans, it's often the problem that you've just missed your window and then have to wait way too long.
Being an ambivert is such an odd experience bc like, one day I'll be the loudest and most talkative person in my friend group (and I mean like crazy extraverted), and then the next I could just decide to be completely mute and hide from everyone/be really introspective all day...I think they all think I'm actually insane or something but I'm just like "nah just don't like people today" lmAo
Introvert Extrovert Ambivert Omnivert I am an extrovert/omnivert because I am mostly extrovert You obviously know what the first 2 are so I will tell you what do the other 2 mean Ambivert is someone is who is both introvert and extrovert at the same time Omnivert is someone who feels different at different times
Am I the only one that always has that moment of doubt right before a party like, _"but what if it's terrible-_ *no it'll be fun!* _but I only know 2 people-_ *yeah! I can make new friends! yay, friends-* _wait but before that they're new people to meet, I can't do that._ *no, I definitely can and will!* _but it's scary-_ you know what, let's just stick by my friends or by the food."
These are my exact thoughts before a party, I will add things like "Maybe, I'll meet the love of my life today!! Unless, nobody considers me attractive enough... that's okay I can talk to the person I'm attracted to, right? Or maybe they'll ignore me which is okay, because in that case I could eat food like a pig and nobody's opinion will matter to me"
I hate being an Ambivert, its like, one second I am extroverted and inviting people over to my place, and the next I'm introverted and saying, "This was a grave mistake..."
I hate when I'm out with my friends having fun and then I'll sit there like man I wish I was home and then my mood just goes down from there then I have to cover it up with a fake smile🙃
Deals with yourself are basically your life if you are an ambivert. Maybe that would be where the indecision comes from? Or is because you don't want to have the limits of certainty? Maybe fear of not respecting yourself? Idk it gets more complex the more I think about it..
Is it "I'm so socially awkward that I have no friends but I want genuine friendships but friendships are super exhausting to manage so I'll just stay in my shell until someone finds me or I actively will bother everyone" kind of thing? yes? no? okay.
GubbaNubNubDooRahKah I think I'm more introverted than extroverted but it's still kinda a thing in between, I'd be super flustered in present of strangers but would talk endlessly if they're friends? Am I introverted or not, idk?
You forgot when you're at the mall with friends and everyone wants to go to different stores so you guys decide to separate for just a few moments. And you're like super cool with going to your store alone and then when it's time to check out what you got at the cash register you start panicking cause there is no one with you.
I enjoy being an ambivert but you know to whom it sucks? My friends. I'm the most indecisive person in my group when it comes to social situations and it gives them a hard time because sometimes i have my "outgoing" phase and i'd be rocking it. Other times i go "hermit" phase and they don't even hear from me for weeks while i'm just keeping myself company
Fr tho. I'm the same as you and I'm also concerned about them. But you know what? In the end it's the occasion to see which of your friends really know and care about you. In my case, when my BF ask me if I want to go out and I say I'm not in the mood today she is just going to tell me it's ok and move on with it. On the other end, I have other friends who are always stressing me out, sending tons of messages and calling me, out of nowhere, to go out and when I tell them I don't feel like it, they react badly like they don't understand why. I mean, as an ambivert we don't need resons to feel like today is the right or the wrong day. We're just like that. So if your circle isn't ready to accept it maybe you're not the problem in the equation imo.
GOD I WAS SO WORRIED I WAS THE ONLY ONE. I can be so fucking loud but then I just wanna be quiet and think. And it's like.. I'm not always the same ik it's not a big deal but really it is. Like, it's a big deal sometimes technically but like there are far bigger issues. And yeah.
I do the same thing. My girlfriend has learned to have to get used to it a bit. As there are times I am really outgoing, have a ton of energy and am really random, but there are also times when I see her that I’m really quiet and want to keep to myself. I’m really thankful she deals with me.
Ambivert me: *Makes and is excited for plans* Ambivert me on the day I am supposed to do those plans: I regret every decision I have ever made up this point that has resulted in me making these plans. Please rain, so I don't have to go.
and there are only two options: it either rains and you don't go and then regret it or it doesn't rain and you go there with minus level of enthusiasm and it turns out to be the time of your life
My friends and I haven't hanged out in a while and I really miss themmmmmm, but also when we were constantly hanging out I couldn't deal with the pressure of being social every other day
Me one day: got really social, got to hang out w friends, went swimming. Got the urge to meet people so I activated my Tinder account, downloaded more apps to meet people, went on omegle, played some online games to meet people. Cuz I just really wanted to meet new people I just get the urge and then do it. Me the next day: why the heck did I download so many new apps, I don’t have the energy to to be consistent. I just want to watch netflix all day. Just be home and not talk to anyone. Starts deleting the apps and inactive my Tinder account. Cuz I do not have the energy to keep up w this all and I just don’t wanna talk to people today.
Being an ambivert is one day being the most outgoing person in the room, and the next the person that doesn't want to be in the room anymore. Oh yeah and let's not forget being overlooked by practically everyone
literally, I’m like “LET’S MEET UP AND DO FUN THINGS” and then when they ask me what date a while later after my extravert episode, I’m like 👀 “next year sounds great”
Damn, I didn't know this was a thing I just thought I was weird. "Yeah I'm an introvert but I don't cringe at my choppy speech and awkwardness and I often yearn for the presence of other people." "Well aren't you just one big swiss army knife."
Being an ambivert is like: Me: I'm lonely so I'm going to meet new people! Can't be that hard, I love talking! *an opportunity to meet new people appears* Me: Nooooooooooo I'm so scaaaared what if they hate meeeeeee
@@siberiasian Yes, extraversion is influenced by social anxiety. Often ambiverts are extraverted people suppressed in their extraversion by social anxiety.
For me it used to be more like: "I'm lonely so I'm going to meet new people!" *after 2 or 3 hours of socializing* "Okay, enough of that. Time to return to my cave and watch You Tube the rest of the evening."
Being an ambivert is basically only being able to make a decision while being in the moment but like having an internal battle before actually deciding.
Me: Why don’t people just leave me alone. I need to be by myself with my thoughts. Stop DMing me, stop inviting me to places, stop asking me for advice!! Also me during quarantine: *freaking out and having a meltdown because I need friends, the gym, the park and cafes*
“Oh yeah we’ll totally hang out over summer” *During summer you only exit the house to get groceries and books. (Help this has been me the past 3 summers).
Just go and see your friends then ! You will be okay, the only problem is to just gather the motivation to do it... BUT JUST DO IT CAUSE IT WILL BE FINE AND YOU WILL PROBABLY END HAPPIER THAT IF YOU STAYED THE WHOLE DAY ALONE !! (just don't do it every day...)
I didn't even know ambiverts existed until today when I took a personality quiz and the amount of extroversion i had was in middle which was ambivert. The description does make sense though. When I am in a big group of people or people I don't care to talk to my social energy dies fast but when I am with people I care about I get super invested in what they are saying and sometimes I even interesting and intellectual conversations that aren't just "yeah" "idk" "huh" "hmm" "mmm" "ok" "cool" "that's nice" "uh"
Some of the clips are just examples of psychopathic symptoms but it really does bring into question as to what really determines introversion, extroversion, and ambiversion in a person, as changing time period when assessing for the trait tends to cause different results.
I do find that a much better explanation, since I don't actually believe in ambiverts being a thing, you either have a preference towards extroversion or introversion. and social anxiety ≠ introversion
Extroverts = get energy from being with people Introverts = get energy from being alone Ambiverts = Can do both really depends tbh Thats the only real difference between them but it does make you more or less likely to hang out depending on which you are bc like engry baby
i thought i was an ambivert but honestly i'm literally always up to hang with friends so i'm wondering if i'm an extrovert or an ambivert that's more extroverted 😂
abby jones I went and ordered my food at subway alone and the dude at the counter legitimately said “are you ok?” cause I apparently didn’t hide my pure fear very well🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg me when asking for extra soysause at panda Express (plz exuse my dumb spelling...I don't have a reason for it....I just can't spell to save my life.)
Lmao- after watching the introvert and extrovert video feeling the I " relate" and "people what-" at the same time i finally landed to this ambivert video where it hits you hard
Imma just say it, basically everyone's an ambivert, what matters is whether you're closer to one side than the other. Are you a dom introvert or a sub extrovert, in the absence of extroverts I will act like one, and some of my friends act like introverts only in the face of stronger extroverts. True intros are pretty antisocial and true extros probably have fans instead of friends. I hate to say it but, _"it's a spectrum"_
That makes too much sense. I think I'm introverted, but if there's an awkward tension where nobody is talking I'll get weirdly extroverted, to the point where I accidentally overcompensate and I immediately regret saying anything.
You had me hooked at 1:05 with the delegating of the phone & in-person socializing burdens. You had my thumbs up click at 1:14 with the plans hinging on "if I sleep."
Me being the Ambivert that I am: “I miss my friends” Me: “but I don’t wanna leave my house...” Also me: “but I don’t want anybody in my house” Me again: “meh oh well. I don’t miss them anymore.” YES ME: “or do I?” Me at a school activity without my friends: “it sure is lonely here. I’ll go talk to someone! I’m an extrovert right? This should be easy!” Me: *plans everything* Also me: *actually talks to someone* My brain: “GET OUT! This is very uncomfortable. Didn’t you have a plan? Maybe you’re an introvert. Ever think of that?” My brain in class: “don’t pick me DONT pick me. They’ll judge me. Their opinions don’t matter though. WHAT IF I GET IT WRONG? I’m not used to these situations” Me later in class: *raises hand* My brain: “PICK ME! I’ve done this so many times WHY WONT YOU PICK ME. You act like I don’t want to be picked”
At some point I was so visibly uncomfortable that all my teachers got the message that I'll raise my hand if I got something to say. But my fricking science teacher this year hasn't-
Friend: you wanna go to that party tonight? Me: ask me again 10 minutes before you leave, 'cause if I say yes now there's still time for me to regret it later.
Sorry for that new apartment echo lol. This was fun! Thank you to my wonderful friends on Insta for all your ambivert suggestions 😊
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TheGamerGodj444 yessss please
I require skyrim content
Please make a movie.
I've been exposed.
*bold of you to assume ambiverts can make up their mind in time to say anything at all*
I was gonna like but it was at 69 so I waited
felt that
So true...
i made it 696 😌
This
Priest" Do you accept to marry this woman?"
*Flips coin*
"Yes."
plot twist: it actually landed on no but he still said yes
@@makisekurisu2824 Aww that's kind of romantic
*coin lands on the edge*
Uhhhh... I'll go with whatever she answers.
*marry
708th like. Had to tell the world because its an even number. Have a great day/night!
It's like you have the confidence to literally make friends with random strangers, but after you make them like you and all, you kinda don't wanna see or have contact with them ever again.
OMG YES
ME!(depending on the person tho but mostly yes)
Omg true😅
ME RIGHT NOW
I hate that feature about me
“Why does no one talk to me I’m so lonely”
*someone texts me*
“Why is everyone trynna talk to me”
Eternal mood
Couldn’t have said it better myself
Ikr
Me me me
Meeeee! I'm like I'm so lonely but then my cousin texts me 3 days in a row and I want to throw my phone at the wall
Being ambivert is like inviting everyone to your party and then hide from people in other rooms
yoooo, that's insane
Have actually probably done this.
Why have I already done this a couple of times, I feel attacked
Роман Леухин Nah you separate the good ones from the bad and you smoke some weed in the next room over
Me a little bit idk it depends
*Me* : _I need a boyfriend, someone to chat and laugh with.._
*Also me when a cute guy likes me* : _I have no time and energy for this_
hahahahhaha
Exactly AND he wants to meet almost every day I only want to meet ppl once or twice a month.
Q^Q _you flexing huh pUnK?!_
(Its joke im sorry im zorry...)
O. My god, that's it
This is too real though
it’s the worst when you’re with people and you can literally feel your energy level lowering
Omgggg frrrrr it’s like your battery rapidly dying and then by the time it’s really low you just feel super irritated and I know for myself I just stop talking and start daydreaming sometimes
I hate when that happens. One minute you're totally fine, and the other you just want to go home and eat ice cream instead of being in a loud room with a bunch of people.
Yesssssss
@@lyte3339 OMG !! ARE WE RELATED?! LMAO !! You explained everything so right !😂
@@lyte3339 I've had people complain to me because of that, saying I don't talk much, I don't smile often, when I remember that I smiled more than usual and remember myself smiling most of the time? I guess our times are relative, maybe when they see me I've drained my energy and am daydreaming or just staring blankly.
“do you consider yourself an introvert?”
“um, well yes, but actually no.”
Me to lol
I'm "Do you consider yourself an extrovert?" "Um well yes but actually no".
Yesn’t
yes'nt
Non'tn't
Being an ambivert is like a swing between "I love people" and "I hate people"
Hm I meh people Ive got no love nor hate of ppl, ppl are just ppl to me.
Yup
Lol yup
But most of the time it’s “I hate people”
But introverts don't hate people. And extravetrs don't have to love people.
Ambiverts really out here flipping coins to see if they are going to be social or sleep all day.
I literally do it all the time haha
Actually true
Fr i make important life decisions that way
I let my gut make my decisions for me, I would never let a coin decide my fate.
Literally did this today
"So we meeting tommorow?"
"yeah for sure"
*lies and deceit*
I’ve been on both sides of this situation
sanders sides fans: *did someone say deceit*
@@thefandomfish3071 ikr
TheFandomFish *janus’ music starts playing*
TheFandomFish I was thinking Michael Reeves
Ambivert things: being so energetic and likable at a party. Everybody likes being around you. Then, you happily recover from the massive loss of energy by not speaking to a human soul for another week and being yourself writing in a journal, with the blinds closed, and a cup of tea.
This describes me to a T.
Yes
The worst part is being expected to get in touch with the many new friends you made and you just kind of feel like ghosting them for a while instead.
Where the gaming or tv show watching- or is that me just being on the more introverted side of the ambivert spectrum
oh my god so true
Me: yeah let's hang out this summer and have fun
Also me: doesnt text anyone to.make plans and hides in room
Me the next day: S u d d e n E n e r g y
Hahaha 😂 this^
I knOww and when you do somthing to get rid of energy YOU HAVE MORE ENRGY???? .... (thats what happens to me)
Felt that
So... Komi-San?
TRUE
Being an ambivert is wanting to go out and do a bunch of things but only if someone else asks you to go with them.
I hate how true this is xD
Crap XD
Is that hobi in his dior outfit? Hell yeahhhhhh
seavey Honoret Yoongi’s my bias but hobi in Dior makes me feel things
So true
another thing: when silence is too awkward and you feel like you have to start a small talk and while you small talk you regret your choice
YES ! That is SOO true ^^
I desperately wish it wasn't relatable 😭
I learned and adapt and don't start convos now lmao
Eating at the table with family i havent seen in forever. They always tell me to be quiet so they can enjoy their food in silence 🤣
Oh god so painful. And once you’ve started you can’t stop. And as you get more nervous and stressed out you start to talk about your most embarrassing experiences and you always regret it.
Family: thinks you're introverted
Friends: Thinks you're extroverted
Truth
This is the other way around for me but I can relate
R E V E R S E
My family thought I was extroverted until I told them I wasn’t like this in front of my friends lol!
@@nedaiviahisrael1894 Same! My dad tried to tell me I was extroverted and I was like do you even know who I am 😂.
Me in quarantine: "I'm so loooooonely!!!!!!"
Me after a Zoom call: *flops on bed* "Why do I talk to people?"
Sadie McC Way to read my mail...
HOW DO ALL THESE COMMENTS KNOW ME
I can relate to this so much 😭
EXACTLY 😭😭😭😭
This is so relatable😭😭
Quarantine: haha u stay home
Extroverts: NOO
Introverts: ayyy
Ambiverts: uhhhhhhhh
I’m ambiverted lol and quarantine had me both “WAHHHHHHHH I WANT FRIIIIEEEEENDS” and “Oh cool, lotsa me time”
I was happy watching DSMP alone, but also sad at the same time.
I eventualy got outside and got outside, people realised i still existed
now i just am constanly like: "okay so I want to call but i just finished ranboos 7 hour vod of LIS and want to watch the vod for epidones 4 and 5. OH GOD WHAT DO I CHOOSE-" (i swear that wasent last night- lol) end up being so indesisive that either they call me first, no way in hell do i hqve the confadence to decline, space out for a hour qnd watch yt, or sometimes i just choose. But if theyask, i eathey say "sure" or that "sorry I'm busy qwq"
I’m like ok I will stay at home as long as I have my phone to decide if I want to socialize or not
Yayyyyy
His impressions of people in awkward situations are so accurate
makes you think huh
Who are you in the way of being correct
Definitely lol
He’s literally impersonating me
I guess he’s had a lot of practice.
I love how ambiverts can relate to the introverts, extroverts and ambiverts video.
Yeeeeeeep
We've got that power
Yess
Isn’t that literally the premise of being an ambivert?
Yap
The thing about "if the other person's energy is high I'll lower mine, and if their energy is low I'll raise mine" is SO ACCURATE
“I thought I was extroverted
*...but then I remembered I’m too afraid to ask for extra ketchup at McDonald’s.”*
Shy extrovert
i do not deserve to be called out like this
I have no problem with asking for extra ketchup and speaking in front of 200 people, but I kinda enjoyed the lockdown because I could stay at home with my cats and away from people lol
Nah bro, that's just gen z energy.
IKR IT’S SO RELATABLE 🤣
ambiverts either feel like they wanna hide under a blanket and be unknown or they want to take on the entire world before lunch.
Mine feels like hide under a blanket and be known or go naked in a conservative church and not be noticed.
Sounds like mania.
The most relatable analogy I've seen in a while actually
My everyday
Exactly, well captured! How I'm glad someone is like me. I either can't go outside of home to buy bread and I can starve for days (literally, only toilet paper makes me finally go out), or I feel so much enthusiasm and courage that I want to change world and I can do whatever it takes.
Ambivert: * writes tweet *
. . . * _save to drafts_ *
Writes comment. Reads it. Erases it.
@@waireads2712 ummm
* makes a funny instagram story *
* hovers thumb over the share with everyone or share with close friends*
. . . * hits the close friends button *
. . . * deletes all close friends from the list *
YES. Write anything. Say anything. DO ANYTHING. ...*save to drafts*.
I like crowds until I'm in that crowd
facts
Yesssssss
I hate crowds fr people make me feel uncomfortable uneasy and anxious
@@g.i.r.l. whenever im surrounded by people i just wanna hide from everyone lol
*yes*
Okay another thing we say is, ”Im an extroverted introvert”
I did this before I knew what ambivert was
Animal Lover Ya me too 😂
I say the opposite ;d
Same!
I say I am secretly introvert.
Does anybody else feel so alone when they arent talking with someone but if someone starts a conversation with you you just want them to go away? Or am i just crazy
Me, it's not a crazy thing
I end up talking to myself about my problems. I'm like my own therapist because when I talk to myself, I pretend that there's someone in front of me who is listening.
@@theresachacon1122 Omg, so true. I don't know why but I pretend that someone is near me and listening. I think I'm going crazy.but u know, it helps sometimes)
Because we want A LOT of friends who are not make small talk all the time, and we want they match us
Oh I thought I was the only one!!
Introvert: Balancing on one foot
Extrovert: Balancing on another foot
Ambivert: Standing on both feet
Yeah really
*flying😁
*balancing on both
So basically English folks
Well said my friend.
the “i think im an introvert” and then “i think im an extrovert” is SOOOO TRUE, finally a video where it sums up who i am
Yeah same
Alien Nene I’m like 25 percent extrovert.... and like 75 percent introvert.....
ngl I'm not sure if I'm an ambivert or an introvert with fomo
So true, when I've used up my energy, I'm an introvert and then when I'm home for more than couple of days I'm an extrovert and be losing my mind for external stimulus.
Anisa Tajy YES EXACTLY OMH
Ambivert situation: when you are extroverted with a person and introverted with other person and then they are in the same room with you and all you think is "FUCK WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO???"
PLSS THIS IS SO TRUE
Omg
EASY! I got this, let the extrovert lead and then step in to make the introvert feel seen and heard. Social mediation for the mf win!
Also tap in and save introvert when too drained.
And make things interesting when extrovert is getting bored and wanting more feedback.
true but I'm extoveted with my mum and introverted with my dad...
OMG
Me (An Ambivert) : I really miss my friends.
My Brother : Then how about you go hang out with them? Invite them to go out or something.
Me : I’d rather just stay home though.
Him : Then invite them over.
Me : Maybe later. I don’t want to clean up the house right now. I just kinda wanna sleep but I do really want to get a drink.
Him : Then get a drink..
Me : I don’t really feel like it though. I do really miss my friends.
Him : Then go hang out with them,
Me : I just wanna stay home though.
Him : Your so f--ing indecisive. I’m done.
My brother called me that the other day, glad to know someone else faces this problem too.
Ngl now that I'm finding this out it really makes sense.
I'm in this comment and i dont like it
OMG yes. I be like i miss my friends. And they wanna call and im like nope
i feel called out
Everyone thinks you’re the extrovert friend but you’re *not*
👏👏👏
I have disappointed so many in this way.
*YES*
Ikrrr
Especially when you fail to show up at the party
"I thought I was extroverted, but then I remembered I'm too afraid to ask for extra ketchup at McDonald's"
That hurt
Yeah this one really hurts
@@muhammadharith4001 🤣
"I am fun! And what I have to say is interesting." Yes
Every time, h e h
Y e a h
I have SO many drunk notes on my phone with this sentiment to remind my ass I can do the social with strangers (but like friendly ones not like danger strangers)
The story of my life...XD
Yep that hit me like a truck 🤣
I dead-ass don't know if I'm an ambivert, or an introvert that wants to be an extrovert but is too socially anxious
That sums up my life
Veyron XY well luckily i am very well-fitting at my corner of the spectrum
This comment said it all for me
This. This is me. You're not alone :')
BröthEr
Im bipolar, bisexual, indecisive, and ambiverted. I don't think I've made a single decision in my life
Dis you decide on breakfast?
I also don't think i have, as someone who has no clue they're sexuality or gender and only has theories but can't decide if the theories are corect
Don't call me out like that!
when you’re a libra on top of all of it as well 💀
I DIED laughing at the "I'll order it but YOU have to get it at the door" because I literally regularly say this to my housemates! 😂😂😂
I'll answer the phone at work but I dread making calls 😂😂😂
It sounds like a sweet deal to me, phone calls are the bane of my existence 😂
True lololol it's just too much doing THE CALL also THE FACE OFF to take the orders (':
I'm similar, lol. "I'll pay for it, but you talk to the people and give them the order!"
Lol I’m the opposite, “If you call them I’ll go pick up the package”
Me before a call: I should have never agreed to this! What was I thinking?
Me after the call: That was so much fun. Let's do it again!
I feel that 100% I’ll sign up for a camp or a thing with friends, be excited for it when I schedule it, be terrified of it when the day comes, and then if I force myself to go to it I end up enjoying it afterward
plsss YESS FR THO
Me exactly!! it’s not even funny 😂
THIS IS THE ONE
🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I say things like "I'm actually quite introverted don't get used to this" when I'm being really confident and loud, and then other times, when someone says "awe you're so quiet," I feel the irrational need to clarify that I'm actually active sometimes just not now.
yes
the story of my life
faccctttsss
Being an ambivert and having a friend who is also an ambivert:
Friend: Wanna hang out tomorrow?
Me: sure
*tomorrow*
Me: Hey, I'm not really feeling it, let's reschedule for next week
Friend: ok
*next week*
Friend: Hey, I'm not really feeling it, let's reschedule for next week
Me: ok
*rinse and repeat for 3 months until energy levels sync up and finally see each other*
You have to get some form of spontaneity in there. Call your friend as soon as you feel up to doing something, and if they feel up to it too, go for it. With plans, it's often the problem that you've just missed your window and then have to wait way too long.
@@notAshildr my comment was only meant to be comedic and relatable. I actually get to hang out with them quite often 🙃
Thats me but after my friend reschedules I cry bc my friend doesn't wanna hang out with me when I want to 😭
So true😂😂
damn, that's crazy
"LETS GO ON A ROAD TRIP AND NEVER COME BACK BUT MAYBE COME BACK BECAUSE SAYING THIS I REALIZE THAT I MIGHT GET ANXIOUS AND WANT TO GO HOME" -me
10/10 have said this b4 lol
I feel very seen
@tornikei i mean some do but not all do
tornikei i was literally talking about myself and i have social anxiety as an ambivert lmao
never have i been so offended by something so true
Being an ambivert is such an odd experience bc like, one day I'll be the loudest and most talkative person in my friend group (and I mean like crazy extraverted), and then the next I could just decide to be completely mute and hide from everyone/be really introspective all day...I think they all think I'm actually insane or something but I'm just like "nah just don't like people today" lmAo
Introvert
Extrovert
Ambivert
Omnivert
I am an extrovert/omnivert because I am mostly extrovert
You obviously know what the first 2 are so I will tell you what do the other 2 mean
Ambivert is someone is who is both introvert and
extrovert at the same time
Omnivert is someone who feels different at different times
Am I the only one that always has that moment of doubt right before a party like, _"but what if it's terrible-_ *no it'll be fun!* _but I only know 2 people-_ *yeah! I can make new friends! yay, friends-* _wait but before that they're new people to meet, I can't do that._ *no, I definitely can and will!* _but it's scary-_ you know what, let's just stick by my friends or by the food."
These are my exact thoughts before a party, I will add things like "Maybe, I'll meet the love of my life today!! Unless, nobody considers me attractive enough... that's okay I can talk to the person I'm attracted to, right? Or maybe they'll ignore me which is okay, because in that case I could eat food like a pig and nobody's opinion will matter to me"
All the time! and then I'll go there, and the people I know know other places and I'll be alone and then *REGRET*
I don't even get invited to parties-
I don't know if thats a good thing or a bad thing lmao
omg... that's totally me ;;;
i also debate whether i should cancel ten minutes before the event starts, and if i go, stay in the car to hype myself up
I hate being an Ambivert, its like, one second I am extroverted and inviting people over to my place, and the next I'm introverted and saying, "This was a grave mistake..."
LEGIT--
Same
I hate when I'm out with my friends having fun and then I'll sit there like man I wish I was home and then my mood just goes down from there then I have to cover it up with a fake smile🙃
Same it's like i want to invite people to party at my house but then when they do i become awkward and incapable of becoming a host.
3:30 "I am fun! And what I have to say is interesting!"
I ' M N O T T H E O N L Y O N E!
Me irl
What I have to say is interesting...so interesting...ppls eyes glaze over while I'm speaking...lol
the making deals with people “if you do this, i’ll do this” is sooooo real
haha
Oh. I do that!
Guess that means I’m an ambivert. Also because I literally connected with almost everything in this video
It really is
Deals with yourself are basically your life if you are an ambivert. Maybe that would be where the indecision comes from? Or is because you don't want to have the limits of certainty? Maybe fear of not respecting yourself? Idk it gets more complex the more I think about it..
Btw, you're awesome
TH-cam: there are four comments
Me: can I see them?
*no*
😂
TH-cam drinking again?
@@rozelynne534 Is it drinking Corona?! 😆That was a bad joke I'm sorry lol
@@quit5349 theres not even a punchline
@@quit5349 literally the worst attempt at someone trying to be funny
Literally. I love crowds and people IN THEORY. Then when in the situation, I'm excited and dying inside at the same time.
Is anyone else introverted but can siphon energy when ur with like that ONE person that u just vibe with and suddenly ur the most social person ever
Tasha Chan yes
Yes we must feed off them
I mean
That literally is introversion
Yeah
YASSS Its like I cant generate my own social energy- I need someone else xD
My friend: wanna hang out?
Me: I don't mind
My friend: its up to you
Me: o h f u-
bruh
I usually just do an uno reverse card and insist on them to choose
I always have to force myself to go out but once I do I'm pretty outgoing and have a great time.
"SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO" That is a question
“I like crowds!”
My social anxiety went 📈 when I just heard the c word.
Timestamp?
2:47
@tornikei social anxiety has introverts
If you rearrange c word by switching the w and r and then connect the c to rowd it becomes crowd.
I like crowds and am socially anxious - as long as they aren't too loosely packed as I feel I am unseen/can blend in completely :)
Is it "I'm so socially awkward that I have no friends but I want genuine friendships but friendships are super exhausting to manage so I'll just stay in my shell until someone finds me or I actively will bother everyone" kind of thing? yes? no? okay.
Yessssss exactly and then feeling lonely because sometimes no one reach out to you ahahaha
This comment sounds more introvert to me
GubbaNubNubDooRahKah I think I'm more introverted than extroverted but it's still kinda a thing in between, I'd be super flustered in present of strangers but would talk endlessly if they're friends? Am I introverted or not, idk?
This is 100% correct. Ambivert approved & verified.
😂 my social life in a nutshell.
This is mad relatable, I feel personally attacked.
love this comment!!!!
You forgot when you're at the mall with friends and everyone wants to go to different stores so you guys decide to separate for just a few moments. And you're like super cool with going to your store alone and then when it's time to check out what you got at the cash register you start panicking cause there is no one with you.
so specific but you captured that brilliantly.
This is why i dont like going to stores alone and when i fo i just fake all the social interaction, fake it tell you make it
@@Graenolf I also tried to not use commas so that inherent fear could be recognized.
excuse me can u stop accurately describing me pls when u barely know me its scaring me
Self-service checkout is a lifesaver
I enjoy being an ambivert but you know to whom it sucks? My friends. I'm the most indecisive person in my group when it comes to social situations and it gives them a hard time because sometimes i have my "outgoing" phase and i'd be rocking it. Other times i go "hermit" phase and they don't even hear from me for weeks while i'm just keeping myself company
Fr tho. I'm the same as you and I'm also concerned about them. But you know what? In the end it's the occasion to see which of your friends really know and care about you.
In my case, when my BF ask me if I want to go out and I say I'm not in the mood today she is just going to tell me it's ok and move on with it.
On the other end, I have other friends who are always stressing me out, sending tons of messages and calling me, out of nowhere, to go out and when I tell them I don't feel like it, they react badly like they don't understand why.
I mean, as an ambivert we don't need resons to feel like today is the right or the wrong day. We're just like that. So if your circle isn't ready to accept it maybe you're not the problem in the equation imo.
GOD I WAS SO WORRIED I WAS THE ONLY ONE. I can be so fucking loud but then I just wanna be quiet and think. And it's like.. I'm not always the same ik it's not a big deal but really it is. Like, it's a big deal sometimes technically but like there are far bigger issues. And yeah.
Dude i do this EXACT thing sometimes
same
I do the same thing. My girlfriend has learned to have to get used to it a bit. As there are times I am really outgoing, have a ton of energy and am really random, but there are also times when I see her that I’m really quiet and want to keep to myself. I’m really thankful she deals with me.
3:07 if it's for me, I can never ask for more ketchup. But if my friend clearly wants more but doesn't want to ask I can suddenly do it.
Ambivert me: *Makes and is excited for plans*
Ambivert me on the day I am supposed to do those plans: I regret every decision I have ever made up this point that has resulted in me making these plans. Please rain, so I don't have to go.
and there are only two options: it either rains and you don't go and then regret it or it doesn't rain and you go there with minus level of enthusiasm and it turns out to be the time of your life
Omg it's so true ...
@@nortchee yep! Pretty much
_im in this post and I don't like it_
@@crappyaccount it's okay 😊
Ambroverts in the comments:
*Now should i comment or see other comments*
lol
ha same
Or reply? Oh the choices!
Lmfaoo
Why you calling me out like that dawg...
2:33 is an actual series of words that comes out of my mouth at LEAST three times a week. hit the nail on the head LOL
I want to see this dude become a successful actor
Me too. He really is talented
He looks so good on camera. Hollywood would have a field day with him. They make money, he makes money, win win.
me: *agrees to hang and is rly excited*
*hangout day arrives*
“i hope they forget”👀👀
I think my friends and I do this
I feel very swindled
My friends and I haven't hanged out in a while and I really miss themmmmmm, but also when we were constantly hanging out I couldn't deal with the pressure of being social every other day
Me one day: got really social, got to hang out w friends, went swimming. Got the urge to meet people so I activated my Tinder account, downloaded more apps to meet people, went on omegle, played some online games to meet people. Cuz I just really wanted to meet new people I just get the urge and then do it.
Me the next day: why the heck did I download so many new apps, I don’t have the energy to to be consistent. I just want to watch netflix all day. Just be home and not talk to anyone. Starts deleting the apps and inactive my Tinder account. Cuz I do not have the energy to keep up w this all and I just don’t wanna talk to people today.
omnivert
I felt that voice crack on the "I thought I was extroverted but then I remembered I'm too afraid to ask for extra ketchup at McDonalds"
Me: just found what an ambivert is and feel low key attacked and identified...
WELCOME TO THE AMBIVERTS SAD WORLD :'D
It’s sad... like he said we make up over half the population and no one gives a shit about us...
@Rach Me too 😂
@@blueberrymuffin_144 Whats The webcite?
It just means you're normal
i thought i was an introvert until i found my current group of friends, they say i'm the extrovert one because i'm not afraid of phone ordering
Being an ambivert is one day being the most outgoing person in the room, and the next the person that doesn't want to be in the room anymore.
Oh yeah and let's not forget being overlooked by practically everyone
I'm switching between this every 2hours 🤣
this is so me
I relate so much with being overlooked. Like, no one gives a damn if I exist or not:((
Being overlooked is the worst, and sometimes it makes me unsure if I should even bother talking or keep going for making a relationship.
Yes this is me. 🤣🤣🤣
"no one talks to me :("
*Ppl sends texts*
"JESUS CHRIST STOP TEXTING UHH"
*UNDERRATED. COMMENT.*
🤣
Omg I totally get that I mean would it be so hard to just text me
Lmao yes
Truth
Brilliant, the diffrence bewtween ambiverts and introverts so clear! You're nailing it!
"I am fun and what I have to say is interesting."
oh god, I felt that one
My life: constantly making plans with people because I'm so excited then hoping that they cancel on me
literally, I’m like “LET’S MEET UP AND DO FUN THINGS” and then when they ask me what date a while later after my extravert episode, I’m like 👀 “next year sounds great”
Damn, I didn't know this was a thing I just thought I was weird.
"Yeah I'm an introvert but I don't cringe at my choppy speech and awkwardness and I often yearn for the presence of other people."
"Well aren't you just one big swiss army knife."
I just found out I'm amphibian apparently.
Edit: ambovert*
Your comment isnt edited.....
edit: ambivert*
@@Person-ed2ys LMFAO HAHAHA
Bossman Fucktheworld edit2: ambivert
*sad gill noises*
The most indecisive people, very true
I feel that
Imagine a Gemini ambivert.
i was about to say yeah but now that i think about it nahhhh
@@flamethatsings-witchcraft5893 *oh no*
“I’ll order it and you’ll go and get it when it arrives” that’s me.
Being an ambivert is like:
Me: I'm lonely so I'm going to meet new people! Can't be that hard, I love talking!
*an opportunity to meet new people appears*
Me: Nooooooooooo I'm so scaaaared what if they hate meeeeeee
I know this feeling T T . Same shit happens to me *everytime
Literally me.
But this is social anxiety, not being ambivert. Nothing wrong with that, though
@@siberiasian Yes, extraversion is influenced by social anxiety. Often ambiverts are extraverted people suppressed in their extraversion by social anxiety.
For me it used to be more like:
"I'm lonely so I'm going to meet new people!"
*after 2 or 3 hours of socializing*
"Okay, enough of that. Time to return to my cave and watch You Tube the rest of the evening."
The sponsorship ad blended in way too well I was like “damn I’m an ambivert n I don’t remember saying this”
Being an ambivert is basically only being able to make a decision while being in the moment but like having an internal battle before actually deciding.
I feel so seen with this comment 😂😂😂
Me: Why don’t people just leave me alone. I need to be by myself with my thoughts. Stop DMing me, stop inviting me to places, stop asking me for advice!!
Also me during quarantine: *freaking out and having a meltdown because I need friends, the gym, the park and cafes*
literally me!
same dude
Ikrrrr
“Oh yeah we’ll totally hang out over summer”
*During summer you only exit the house to get groceries and books. (Help this has been me the past 3 summers).
You need to seek help then
Just go and see your friends then ! You will be okay, the only problem is to just gather the motivation to do it... BUT JUST DO IT CAUSE IT WILL BE FINE AND YOU WILL PROBABLY END HAPPIER THAT IF YOU STAYED THE WHOLE DAY ALONE !! (just don't do it every day...)
Any good books I read all mine
I didn't even know ambiverts existed until today when I took a personality quiz and the amount of extroversion i had was in middle which was ambivert. The description does make sense though. When I am in a big group of people or people I don't care to talk to my social energy dies fast but when I am with people I care about I get super invested in what they are saying and sometimes I even interesting and intellectual conversations that aren't just "yeah" "idk" "huh" "hmm" "mmm" "ok" "cool" "that's nice" "uh"
u forgot about when an ambivert goes from just vibin’ in their room comfortably to yelling at their friends “we ride at dawn” to the nearest taco bell
if this aint me
So when are we getting a video for: Things barrels would say
*creaky wood intensifies*
*KAKOOM*
next time on dragon ball z
This video made me realise that I am in fact very introverted and just keep telling myself that I'm an ambivert.
This should be named: getting called out for 5 minutes
Some of the clips are just examples of psychopathic symptoms but it really does bring into question as to what really determines introversion, extroversion, and ambiversion in a person, as changing time period when assessing for the trait tends to cause different results.
“Haha, yeah, I’d love to go out. Except I’m busy on that day, and the next...8.”
Ambiverts are just extroverts with social anxiety
*CHANGE MY MIND*
Hhhhhhhmmmmmm
You know
Maybe you're right and my life was a lie
I’m not gonna change your mind
Yesssss
I do find that a much better explanation, since I don't actually believe in ambiverts being a thing, you either have a preference towards extroversion or introversion.
and social anxiety ≠ introversion
"This makes us very powerful, and... also very indecisive."
Does it though? Does it? Hmm.
:P
I always thought I was an introvert cause I identify more with them than extroverts but I think I've found myself in this video.
I didnt know ambiverts existed i would just call myself an extravert with social anxiety but nah this makes more sence XD
I’m 100% an ambivert. I always thought I was introverted but I don’t have social anxiety or anything. Also I like being in s group of people too.
@@Demosly I don't think I'm 100% ambivert cause I have all the traits of an introvert but I'm able to be social when I try or when I'm in the mood.
Extroverts = get energy from being with people
Introverts = get energy from being alone
Ambiverts = Can do both really depends tbh
Thats the only real difference between them but it does make you more or less likely to hang out depending on which you are bc like engry baby
i thought i was an ambivert but honestly i'm literally always up to hang with friends so i'm wondering if i'm an extrovert or an ambivert that's more extroverted 😂
the extra ketchup thing at mcdonald's is SO true for me.
abby jones I went and ordered my food at subway alone and the dude at the counter legitimately said “are you ok?” cause I apparently didn’t hide my pure fear very well🤣🤣🤣🤣
i dont get it. cant you just squirt out some at the dispenser thing. takes no confrontation >.> solves my problem
Omg me when asking for extra soysause at panda Express (plz exuse my dumb spelling...I don't have a reason for it....I just can't spell to save my life.)
Lmao- after watching the introvert and extrovert video feeling the I " relate" and "people what-" at the same time
i finally landed to this ambivert video where it hits you hard
Me in my home: High Energy
Me outside: Low Energy
I hate when that happens
Same!
Imma just say it, basically everyone's an ambivert, what matters is whether you're closer to one side than the other. Are you a dom introvert or a sub extrovert, in the absence of extroverts I will act like one, and some of my friends act like introverts only in the face of stronger extroverts. True intros are pretty antisocial and true extros probably have fans instead of friends. I hate to say it but, _"it's a spectrum"_
i know these words in these sequences technically make sense but seeing the term “dom introvert” made me enter the first stage of grief
True. I’m a real extrovert around chill people and a real introvert around loud people. I think I’m dom introvert though
That makes too much sense. I think I'm introverted, but if there's an awkward tension where nobody is talking I'll get weirdly extroverted, to the point where I accidentally overcompensate and I immediately regret saying anything.
Same. Sometimes I talk the most, sometimes I talk the least
I don't understand why you hate to say it is a spectrum, because it is a spectrum.
You had me hooked at 1:05 with the delegating of the phone & in-person socializing burdens. You had my thumbs up click at 1:14 with the plans hinging on "if I sleep."
Me being the Ambivert that I am: “I miss my friends”
Me: “but I don’t wanna leave my house...”
Also me: “but I don’t want anybody in my house”
Me again: “meh oh well. I don’t miss them anymore.”
YES ME: “or do I?”
Me at a school activity without my friends: “it sure is lonely here. I’ll go talk to someone! I’m an extrovert right? This should be easy!”
Me: *plans everything*
Also me: *actually talks to someone*
My brain: “GET OUT! This is very uncomfortable. Didn’t you have a plan? Maybe you’re an introvert. Ever think of that?”
My brain in class: “don’t pick me DONT pick me. They’ll judge me. Their opinions don’t matter though. WHAT IF I GET IT WRONG? I’m not used to these situations”
Me later in class: *raises hand*
My brain: “PICK ME! I’ve done this so many times WHY WONT YOU PICK ME. You act like I don’t want to be picked”
At some point I was so visibly uncomfortable that all my teachers got the message that I'll raise my hand if I got something to say.
But my fricking science teacher this year hasn't-
Ok, this one called me on another level
Me: Here let me show you my favourite song
Also me: Omg what if they don't like it
THIS
The accuracy is IMPECCABLE. Thanks for this...
"this makes us powerful
and also indecisive"
bruh if this aint me, who am I?
Friend: you wanna go to that party tonight?
Me: ask me again 10 minutes before you leave, 'cause if I say yes now there's still time for me to regret it later.