Coming out to my best friend

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
  • Former University of Iowa swimmer Mike Nelson tells his best friend he's gay and gets an amazing response.

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  • @yukiiganaci3538
    @yukiiganaci3538 7 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    His teeth are brighter than my future...

    • @PhilVerryChannel
      @PhilVerryChannel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lol

    • @maartken5173
      @maartken5173 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yuki Iganaci same

    • @fawkhamhall8596
      @fawkhamhall8596 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He doesn’t have a British Dentist !

    • @Djdj-kd8ue
      @Djdj-kd8ue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fawkhamhall8596 Probably doesn't need one but every 5-7 years to get new ones

  • @paintur68
    @paintur68 7 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I told one of my best friends that I am gay. He ended the friendship.....slowly. Meh....you keep some...you lose some.

    • @jaydah1998
      @jaydah1998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Their loss... not yours...

    • @yes.8773
      @yes.8773 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ^what the person above just said!!

    • @NoNickname9090
      @NoNickname9090 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This!! I told my best friend I was gay. 5 years later we're arguing and he let's loose that he thinks gay people are an abomination and something he doesn't want to be a part of. That threw me for a loop since our friendship lasted about 8 years and he knew 3 years into our friendship. The fuhk he stay for?

    • @philliprumans753
      @philliprumans753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@NoNickname9090 that is completely horrible that somebody would say that after being your friend for 8 years five of which he's knowing that you're gay. Takes a Pretty Petty person to say that

    • @poppa4178
      @poppa4178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He was never your best friend from the start.

  • @dnguyen253
    @dnguyen253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Me: *crying Hey I'm gay.
    Friend: Do you think I'm hot? If not I find that offensive LOL
    Me: Dude... Seriously...?

    • @missblueberry1033
      @missblueberry1033 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dnguyen253 did this really happen? XD

    • @Anthony_Gx
      @Anthony_Gx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Miss Blueberry a lot of straight guys initially feel the need to announce that they don’t “mind” their friend being gay (so nice of them to allow a friend a love life :p), as long as they don’t “come on to them” or touch them 😒. As if they are so irresistible and every gay person is attracted to every single one from the same gender.
      When you then tell them; don’t worry, you’re not my type. Or stating that you’re not attracted to them.... 🤔 most of them will instantly feel insulted and act all offended saying things like “that’s not nice, why would you say something like that” or “you don’t have to be mean” 🤣
      A lot of guys feel they have to prove in a way that they are definitely straight. And after doing so will eventually flirt or fish for compliments to feed their ego :p

  • @dannysimion
    @dannysimion 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Hahaha. I think it's an indicative of a good friend that he gave you choices other than a girl :)

    • @alexc6342
      @alexc6342 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I know!! Such a great friend

  • @SusanOnTVShows
    @SusanOnTVShows 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    now THAT is a friend.

  • @marvinrosenthal6158
    @marvinrosenthal6158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some friends help make life worth living.

  • @RemmyDuchene
    @RemmyDuchene 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    a llama! Now that's a true friend

  • @GM-gk9dk
    @GM-gk9dk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Your friend seems cOOL dude

  • @jake21I1
    @jake21I1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’ve got a good friend. 🙂

  • @mrbear1302
    @mrbear1302 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Lucky him....because my best friend kicked me to the curb!

    • @chrischen2103
      @chrischen2103 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      mrbear1302 i know the feeling. My best friend acted like he was ok with it but theb i found that he spoke to me less and less cus of it. Fuck him.

    • @jslasher1
      @jslasher1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This happens much too often. Choose your so-called "best friends" wisely.

    • @erick-gd7wo
      @erick-gd7wo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay strong bro

  • @richardlawson4317
    @richardlawson4317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm 66 and have had many coming out experiences over the years since 1970 when I first did it. The most common reaction was "Are you sure?" in a concerned way. Then there is the liberal who says, "That's cool, I couldn't care less!" but doesn't ever want to talk about it, and it visibly uncomfortable when I mention it. Lots of those. But the worst is some guy I really want, and he says, "I'm not like that!" Happened over and over, and I later found out that they all lied.

    • @jaydah1998
      @jaydah1998 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well... at least you know now who'll always be by your side... at least now you know that if they ever came back, you either will or won't let them back into your life but only under certain circumstances... at least now you know who's the freaks (them) and who isn't (you)... in the end you always find out who's always with you, who's always got your back, who's not a freak and will always be there for you forever no matter what

  • @omrabj
    @omrabj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Nice video. I'd like to hear more about the llama option, tho'

  • @CassDunham
    @CassDunham 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    👏👏👏 yay for best friends who love us no matter what!

  • @chandlerc9461
    @chandlerc9461 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    what A friend

  • @charlie9901
    @charlie9901 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great friend you have,. Wishing much happiness and hope you've had beautiful memories these past four years.

  • @chasebennett9904
    @chasebennett9904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You deserve a friend like that. I wish I was the boyfriend. Great varsity record, and congrats on furthering your education. I've been to Iowa City -- nice town!

  • @dean3514
    @dean3514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an old gay guy, your courage makes a difference. My brothers and sisters and others, Come out, Come out where ever you are., when you’re ready.

  • @maximaleenergie4543
    @maximaleenergie4543 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    those teeth 😱❤

  • @zalzalahbuttsaab
    @zalzalahbuttsaab 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If only all coming out stories were as short and sweet as this one x

  • @pgscontinuingjourney
    @pgscontinuingjourney 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unfortunately, in life, you will lose friends and family when you come out and live your truth. I know that for a fact. However, I am at both peace and joy with who and what I truly am as a gay man, living healthy and happy and maintaining everything and everybody I have in my life right now!

  • @Proudout
    @Proudout 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice video. Thanks for sharing it.

  • @LenHealsU
    @LenHealsU 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This story touched my heart.

  • @alexc6342
    @alexc6342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came put to my best friend as lesbian she hugged saying i would be the best wing women another friend he said "I don't care who you date hell you can fuck a tree just please help me with this assignment"

  • @RobertSchantz
    @RobertSchantz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh gurl. You didn't need to come out. I'm sure they knew.

  • @MarcusLeepapi
    @MarcusLeepapi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking very cool.

  • @brianbara3204
    @brianbara3204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bravo to you both!

  • @United326
    @United326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice storey good luck....

  • @ikdl4032
    @ikdl4032 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:25 Nobody got rights in your private life, unless you want so. At least that's how i see the things here.

  • @thanos8107
    @thanos8107 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG YOU'RE LUCKY LIKE WOAH

    • @thanos8107
      @thanos8107 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I AM STILL SHOCKED LIKE WTF WHERE DO I LIVE

  • @Ectw101
    @Ectw101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ,