Best video ever. As usual, you just hit the nail. Colonial primitive mentality with most African men in marriages is a call for concern, as at the end of the day the children of the marriage suffers with the nonsense ideas of replacing and saying there are more women, than men. Mine is nothing but a German Headmaster 👌🏾 Some Mother- in- laws are are also VIRUSES busy collapsing marriages all over the world. Blessing make a video teaching men how to draw boundaries between mother in laws & other families members in their marriages. Are mother- in- laws supposed to visit their son occasionally or are supposed to stay permanently in their son's house and help split the home. There are marital crisis that could have been resolved if the couple were leaving by themselves, without a third party. Am very sensitive about this topic because I know how we African women are suffering in marriages in the hand of abusive controlling manipulative , Narcissistic, uncivilized primitive African men. We need women like Blessing CEO to advocate for African women suffering in hand of ancient mentality men. In such marriages, the African man is the HEADMASTER and the poor wife is the pupil. More is need to teach and educate some village men, on how to stay with wives in healthy conditions in this modern time Courage my CEO!!!.
Oh.My.God.For the first time am getting the reality about marriage!Leave alone these women seminars putting ALL the burden to the woman!!noo its not fair at all.THANK YOU!!!
Blessing CEO I am lover of your post you have been so wonderful and also an inspiration to many.. buh this topic of yours is contradicting with nature itself... PROVERBS 14 VS 1 says A wise woman builds her home buh a foolish one pulls it down.... Please instead of laying blames I think there are other ways of making peace to reign in our various homes... So many things on my little mind..
Pls tell them, once an African lady start earning more than their husbands most of them start exhibiting one kind of domineering ego, wanting to control their home and have the final say, forgetting that submission and respect is the key😍
MY DEAR, MAN CONTROLS MONEY AND MONEY CONTROLS WOMEN, AND THAT'S WHY MANY OF THEM LACK RESPECT IF THEY ARE MAKING THE MONEY, ONLY FEW OF THEM STILL HAVE RESPECT FOR THEIR HUSBANDS WHILE MAKING MONEY MORE THAN THEM, AND I WILL ALWAYS APPRECIATE THEM.
Tnx dear ... I keep on wondering why is always about women to keep and please their husband and home .....it should balance one person can do it when the two comes together it will bring maximum happinesses ....it only Africans that women suffer a lot in marriage oo hmm come see here these women in fact does natin for their husbands and home but their stil happy...
@@obilonkechi9194 hmmm it is we'll my sister ....no where balance ...jxt take ur gym and heal the ryt will be there okay ... don't give up on love...when u meet the ryt u don't have to put much effort the little will make he will surely appreciate
I think it is the other way around she is correct partly! Last time I checked in reality men are taught to do everything for a lady and in return she gives him peace of mind so if that were true y has study proved that men chances of dying early increases when the marry vs if they're single compared to women, some men even carry but work family and the woman's family problems, The only time I see women putting serious effort in a relationship is if the man is rich and she wants to get married to him. If a man can give a woman a life she never had y can't she do her part to in assisting the man in maintaining the home? As u said it is 50 50 but women are Even complaining for the little their doing.
The Man as a foundation and the woman build a home on a man the foundation. And if the woman she is foolish she will distroy a home that she did build on the man The husband.
Dear sister, good day. You speak alot, about men, how a man is a foundation and the woman build on the faundatiom which is a man! As you said! Have you never see a building or house on a solid foundation and the top a (house ) crashed only the foundation stayed.??and you speak so well about 🙏about a woman's a emotional human being! That means everything that a woman does is by emotion! According to what she feels! Can you please tell us the public if you can ? What do you mean by the man to be the foundation!? Or your statement that you have made on your TH-cam channel, it is also according to what you feels as woman about marriage and you made a video?? Because feeling are not fact and not real! Thank you dear sister.
U got brains 🧠 in ur head. U really thinkg. Using ur brass ball very efficiently..! Mch Respect..!! U efficiently thinkg beyond d veil..!!! It means u re wise, pure n undefiled..! Wch country..? Love ur presentation n argument. Very educative, informative n tot provoking. I av saved u 4 future reference & u av earned ur pay as an unbiased onlooker by ur logical inference, opinion n perspective..! A super amazing traits combination 4 a lady if dt is.
As you stated marriage is 50,50. Please don’t belittle woman. Saying we’re the weaker vessels, because it doesn’t make any sense. In the context you used it. There certain attributes man have that woman don’t have and vise versa. In marriage both individually much committed 100% to making it work. A woman being “the weaker vessel” have no context to why marriages with ungodly man who doesn’t seek Christ to lead him fails.
Madam Okoro, kindly allow me to respond to this as a man. Kindly let me know what you think about my response. First of all, you have to understand that women are different and men also are different. Also recognize that we live in a different era...There are women that do not accept apologies even if they are the ones that offended you and will not apologize themselves even if they did you wrong...Secondly, There are women that take complements, kind words as weakness. When you try to complement them, serenade them or treat them like queens, they respond by treating like trash or feel you are beneath them. There are women that cannot appreciate what a man does for them . They never say thank you. As a human being, how can you feel encouraged to work hard for someone that does not appreciate you or what you do? Madam Okoro, realize that, we are living in an era where women feel entitled, are arrogant, think men are replaceable and do not respect boundaries.. Yes women are weak like you have said but they still want to hang out with their single friends that are still in the dating scene sampling men whenever they find an opportunity and when you object, she would call you insecure and needy while flirting with other men...In conclusion, your advice is great but may not apply in all situations.
I agree with what you said except about the married women mingling/hanging out with single women thing. Please let's stop this mentality. That someone is not married doesn't mean they are evil and out to pollute married women. You too was once single so I don't think you would like for someone to treat you like the ills in society because of lack of a ring. whether married or not people who are polluted are not because of that title. So we need to all watch the kind of people we mix with. This applies to the things you have mentioned. I have met alot of women and men like that myself. Those kind of humans come as male and female. One just need to prayerful and observant before making the decision to get married. Though no one is perfect
False teaching from a false teacher. You don't understand what it means the woman keeping the relationship. It's not that the man will stop providing for the home or he will stop playing his role.
Jesus is our foundation, marriage will work when 2 people want it to work. You have spoken well but you expect mee to agree to your advice and unlearn my mother own, I see why she is still married and you are not
That is a horrible thing to say. I don't think you are in any position to speak about someone you don't know. You haven't walked in her shoes so you don't have any right to say that. The fact that your mum is still in her marriage means your father who is the foundation is solid. Meaning even if she tried,no matter what she does, If your dad doesn't want her around if she stays it will be a miserable experience. But for blessing it seem the foundation was not strong so no matter what she did nothing worked until she got burnt out and left. It is the reality since men are the head. That She is not in her husband house like your mother doesn't mean she can't know this fact. She learned it obviously from personal experience. To me, I think she is the best person to give such advice. She might have given it her all but the man was not cooperative.What she said is a thing of common sense. There is nothing a person can do for a man who has made up his mind. It takes two people's effort to make a marriage work if one person keeps doing it they will eventually get burnt down. So the idea women build their home is truly a lie since the man is the head. I believe the head solidify the home to strengthen the woman's effort and prevent their home from crumbling. It takes two not one. Your mum can be wrong sometimes, blessing can be wrong sometimes even I can be wrong sometimes because at the end of the day we are all humans. But what she said is fact. We Africans have Learned to take our parents words as gospel without questioning forgetting they are just humans and can't be right all the time
Blessing you are smart, intelligent and correct. You are doing your research very well 👏. Keep it up 💯.
Blessing God bless you ooo! True talk ,men are full of pride.
A woman with logic is very rare nowadays and oh so attractive.
Best video ever. As usual, you just hit the nail. Colonial primitive mentality with most African men in marriages is a call for concern, as at the end of the day the children of the marriage suffers with the nonsense ideas of replacing and saying there are more women, than men. Mine is nothing but a German Headmaster 👌🏾
Some Mother- in- laws are are also VIRUSES busy collapsing marriages all over the world.
Blessing make a video teaching men how to draw boundaries between mother in laws & other families members in their marriages.
Are mother- in- laws supposed to visit their son occasionally or are supposed to stay permanently in their son's house and help split the home. There are marital crisis that could have been resolved if the couple were leaving by themselves, without a third party.
Am very sensitive about this topic because I know how we African women are suffering in marriages in the hand of abusive controlling manipulative , Narcissistic, uncivilized primitive African men. We need women like Blessing CEO to advocate for African women suffering in hand of ancient mentality men.
In such marriages, the African man is the HEADMASTER and the poor wife is the pupil.
More is need to teach and educate some village men, on how to stay with wives in healthy conditions in this modern time
Courage my CEO!!!.
You nailed it
Dear Sister you spoke well truly, wishing you more blessings
Thank you very much ma'am, you're so exquisite 💕💕💕
Oh.My.God.For the first time am getting the reality about marriage!Leave alone these women seminars putting ALL the burden to the woman!!noo its not fair at all.THANK YOU!!!
Great advice sis thank u very much 👍🏽🙏🏼
As a young lady if u see some women marriages ,u do not even want to marry ( because they are wives and husbands at the same time) O.M.G
So sad😥
Yes you are right
You are intelligent blessing. Religion set in when we want to manipulate and satisfy out greediness.
I love those glasses (frame) on you. So smart and exquisite. Blessings to You.
BlessingCEO you’re a blessing
biblical heirachy is Jesus -> Man -> woman .... if a man's foundation is in christ all is settled cos he himself will be a solid foundation
Marriage is what you give is what you get meaning 50 50 and with respect from the two .Please keep it on
In my society, it is told that woman are like local bus or train or vehicles. One goes, another comes immediately...
Thank you 😊
I'm a married man and I do help my wife in all the things in the house and yet she is not please with that.
What of financial aspect?
Do sex her well too?
Check out these two things.
@@agomking7258 good questions
Never stop
Just continue
Ask her y theres something u are not doing right
You’re becoming too nice, they don’t like nice men, they perceive you to be weak
We both holding up together
Honestly you're master planner. Respect kisses
You are very correct ma you have spoken the truth
Blessing CEO I am lover of your post you have been so wonderful and also an inspiration to many..
buh this topic of yours is contradicting with nature itself...
PROVERBS 14 VS 1 says A wise woman builds her home buh a foolish one pulls it down....
Please instead of laying blames I think there are other ways of making peace to reign in our various homes...
So many things on my little mind..
Much love thanks you are right
i really love u🇬🇭
God bless you my beautiful sister ❤
Blessing that's my husband for u o he has that mentality that is only a woman that needs to build her home
Great talk he who has 👂 hear🇺🇸
Weldon ❤
I am a victim oh, and will never want to again, good bye to marriage., God bless you my sister, and keep u strong
Goodluck 2u
God bless you for me my sister I love I love so so much dear
Pls tell them, once an African lady start earning more than their husbands most of them start exhibiting one kind of domineering ego, wanting to control their home and have the final say, forgetting that submission and respect is the key😍
MY DEAR, MAN CONTROLS MONEY AND MONEY CONTROLS WOMEN, AND THAT'S WHY MANY OF THEM LACK RESPECT IF THEY ARE MAKING THE MONEY, ONLY FEW OF THEM STILL HAVE RESPECT FOR THEIR HUSBANDS WHILE MAKING MONEY MORE THAN THEM, AND I WILL ALWAYS APPRECIATE THEM.
You are very correct. That's what someone like us are suffering. She wants the man to become the woman back it up with insult, abuse, etc
I feel like they should ban broke men like you from social media,you are nauseating
I love you too
Very smart lady
You are damn right ma
Tnx dear ...
I keep on wondering why is always about women to keep and please their husband and home .....it should balance one person can do it when the two comes together it will bring maximum happinesses ....it only Africans that women suffer a lot in marriage oo hmm come see here these women in fact does natin for their husbands and home but their stil happy...
My dear very true, i am a victim, and never want to try been in a relationship again, so scaring.
@@obilonkechi9194 hmmm it is we'll my sister ....no where balance ...jxt take ur gym and heal the ryt will be there okay ... don't give up on love...when u meet the ryt u don't have to put much effort the little will make he will surely appreciate
Thanks dear, I just wouldn't want to again, so happy been alone, and having peace of mind.
@@obilonkechi9194 nne m take it easy biko kwa
I think it is the other way around she is correct partly! Last time I checked in reality men are taught to do everything for a lady and in return she gives him peace of mind so if that were true y has study proved that men chances of dying early increases when the marry vs if they're single compared to women, some men even carry but work family and the woman's family problems,
The only time I see women putting serious effort in a relationship is if the man is rich and she wants to get married to him. If a man can give a woman a life she never had y can't she do her part to in assisting the man in maintaining the home? As u said it is 50 50 but women are Even complaining for the little their doing.
I'm watching all...
Women hold the marriage
But they have now became feminist and equality, so why do I have to put effort? Since she now want to be a man and be equal with me?
What is your workout routine?how do you stay in gr8 shape
So so true
The Man as a foundation and the woman build a home on a man the foundation. And if the woman she is foolish she will distroy a home that she did build on the man The husband.
You get brain @Blessing
Thx
Great talk he who has 👂 hear.🇺🇸
The Bible says there one and not two anymore they have to make things work together that is the reality.
Dear sister, good day.
You speak alot, about men, how a man is a foundation and the woman build on the faundatiom which is a man! As you said! Have you never see a building or house on a solid foundation and the top a (house ) crashed only the foundation stayed.??and you speak so well about 🙏about a woman's a emotional human being! That means everything that a woman does is by emotion! According to what she feels! Can you please tell us the public if you can ? What do you mean by the man to be the foundation!? Or your statement that you have made on your TH-cam channel, it is also according to what you feels as woman about marriage and you made a video?? Because feeling are not fact and not real!
Thank you dear sister.
U got brains 🧠 in ur head. U really thinkg. Using ur brass ball very efficiently..! Mch Respect..!! U efficiently thinkg beyond d veil..!!!
It means u re wise, pure n undefiled..! Wch country..? Love ur presentation n argument. Very educative, informative n tot provoking. I av saved u 4 future reference & u av earned ur pay as an unbiased onlooker by ur logical inference, opinion n perspective..! A super amazing traits combination 4 a lady if dt is.
Why would a woman cheat on a perfectly good man, what’s missing in her marriage that would make her cheat??
Nothing is missing in her marriage. She chose to cheat because she wanted to cheat.
@@blacksilverchair3315 facts‼️
you got this one wrong, go and study again
Yes my love
As you stated marriage is 50,50. Please don’t belittle woman. Saying we’re the weaker vessels, because it doesn’t make any sense. In the context you used it. There certain attributes man have that woman don’t have and vise versa. In marriage both individually much committed 100% to making it work. A woman being “the weaker vessel” have no context to why marriages with ungodly man who doesn’t seek Christ to lead him fails.
Madam Okoro, kindly allow me to respond to this as a man. Kindly let me know what you think about my response. First of all, you have to understand that women are different and men also are different. Also recognize that we live in a different era...There are women that do not accept apologies even if they are the ones that offended you and will not apologize themselves even if they did you wrong...Secondly, There are women that take complements, kind words as weakness. When you try to complement them, serenade them or treat them like queens, they respond by treating like trash or feel you are beneath them. There are women that cannot appreciate what a man does for them . They never say thank you. As a human being, how can you feel encouraged to work hard for someone that does not appreciate you or what you do? Madam Okoro, realize that, we are living in an era where women feel entitled, are arrogant, think men are replaceable and do not respect boundaries.. Yes women are weak like you have said but they still want to hang out with their single friends that are still in the dating scene sampling men whenever they find an opportunity and when you object, she would call you insecure and needy while flirting with other men...In conclusion, your advice is great but may not apply in all situations.
I agree with what you said except about the married women mingling/hanging out with single women thing. Please let's stop this mentality. That someone is not married doesn't mean they are evil and out to pollute married women. You too was once single so I don't think you would like for someone to treat you like the ills in society because of lack of a ring. whether married or not people who are polluted are not because of that title. So we need to all watch the kind of people we mix with. This applies to the things you have mentioned. I have met alot of women and men like that myself. Those kind of humans come as male and female. One just need to prayerful and observant before making the decision to get married. Though no one is perfect
My love
Infact am in love with you already.😘
False teaching from a false teacher. You don't understand what it means the woman keeping the relationship. It's not that the man will stop providing for the home or he will stop playing his role.
1.
Crap
Are you married?
Jesus is our foundation, marriage will work when 2 people want it to work.
You have spoken well but you expect mee to agree to your advice and unlearn my mother own, I see why she is still married and you are not
That is a horrible thing to say. I don't think you are in any position to speak about someone you don't know. You haven't walked in her shoes so you don't have any right to say that. The fact that your mum is still in her marriage means your father who is the foundation is solid. Meaning even if she tried,no matter what she does, If your dad doesn't want her around if she stays it will be a miserable experience. But for blessing it seem the foundation was not strong so no matter what she did nothing worked until she got burnt out and left. It is the reality since men are the head. That She is not in her husband house like your mother doesn't mean she can't know this fact. She learned it obviously from personal experience. To me, I think she is the best person to give such advice. She might have given it her all but the man was not cooperative.What she said is a thing of common sense. There is nothing a person can do for a man who has made up his mind. It takes two people's effort to make a marriage work if one person keeps doing it they will eventually get burnt down. So the idea women build their home is truly a lie since the man is the head. I believe the head solidify the home to strengthen the woman's effort and prevent their home from crumbling. It takes two not one. Your mum can be wrong sometimes, blessing can be wrong sometimes even I can be wrong sometimes because at the end of the day we are all humans. But what she said is fact. We Africans have Learned to take our parents words as gospel without questioning forgetting they are just humans and can't be right all the time