that wobbly synth bg music sound near the end was a type of uplifting music I've never heard before and is soooo comforting and feel-good w/ this type of content. Hope it shows up more in wholesome movies and media (like at the end of a pixar film about space aliens or smthin)
I'm a 14-year-old, and this is absolutely true for me!! Two years back I was so afraid to go and speak even in gront of my class. Now that my teachers have made me practise, I've gotten used to it and I can speak relatively comfortably now. ❤ from India to Vinh
Do it more, but do it without going into it in negative mode. The way I was talking to myself in my mind about what I was "forcing" myself to do, no wonder I was terrified 😂
I recently found your channel , it's great , I am an introvert and I have to change myself , it's highly needed. I am about to get into Medical college and I have to change myself to get comfortable in the new environment. So let's practice and become courageous 🎉
As an Introvert ive heard the best explanation of our energy not our shyness or anything We introverts save up energies to speak and extroverts get their energy from speaking so it looks like theyre not shy but its because they do it way more than us normally
Thanks. There are shy extroverts (me) and confident introverts. I want to speak, I love people, but I just have social anxiety that blocks my brain from being normal.
Lo tengo que decir en español porque no me podría expresar muy bien en inglés, pero este hombre habla con tanta seguridad de lo que sabe, le he visto en muchos más shorts de TH-cam, me cae muy bien ✨
To face my fear of heights i went to amusement park and rode all the roller coasters for the whole day. Still got fear of heights but it was hella fun :D
We are just lacking practice. What ever you don't use, you will lose. Like muscles. This applies to everything in us physically or spiritually. Even faith can increase or decrease. Keep practicing.
As an introvert, talking less doesn't mean I'm scared of it. I just sit back and listen to people chattering nonstop. And when I have something meaningful to say, I say it.
Let me talk about my own experience,l am a super introverted person and even my last year of high school was home learning due to anxiety and when l got to college oh man the first year was like hell for me, every time l had to do presentations or any team work l got so nervous and felt like fainting LITERALLY, (by the way I am an engineering student and let me tell you we do a LOT of team projects and presentations) by the years l get used to it ( because l had to it once every week or two weaks) it became less and less scary for me and l also learned a lot of tricks that made me more calm and confident while taking to a group of people, now it is my senior year and l am doing a lot better, Thay choose me to be the leader of our graduation project team and l can't be more grateful and proud of how far l came. 😊❤ (English is my third language so excuse my mistakes if there are any😅)
I've heard several times from people with social anxiety that what cured it was getting a customer service job. Start off small and you can end up gradually slipping in more small talk. I am not in the position to get a job like that sadly but part of me wants to just take off a few months to do this.
I think this is very good advice, but there's a huge hole which is taking that first step to be courageous. My personal experience tells me that when facing a situation that you are uncomfortable with, especially when it has to do with people, the best move is to feign the courage. To act as if you're comfortable even when you're not. Interactions like these tends to fall on a positive feedback loop, often leading to you being more comfortable.
I feel Dungeons & Dragons is probably the funnest way to build social courage in a safer environment. Find a group you are comfortable with before you push yourself further beyond what you thought possible. Then, use that out in the wild and see just how much easier it is to talk with people you’ve never met.
for me personally its not about talking with courage or anything, its that i dont fuckin know how to phrase anything when i first meet a person. i know what to say and that i should be polite and respectful etc. but the moment i meet someone for the first time, theres nothing coming out of my mouth, its like as if there a blockage in my brain, keeping me from saying anything and in my head its like: "Just say what you think right now" but all i do is nodding and shaking my head. after like 3-4 weeks, thats when i can finally talk to that specific person i met 3-4 weeks ago and ive tried a shit ton of things to get rid of it, but its like as if my mouth is just gone in that moment.
Do you know what you want to say but just not coming out and you don't know *how* to say it? Or is it rather like you don't have any clue of what to say at all?
It doesn't apply for everyone. I have a specific type of social anxiety that doesn't go away with practice. Practice helps, but doesn't cure. In my case, a lot of times I feel like forgetting everything i had planned to say second before arriving at the spot I have to talk. So my words get scrambled and so my body language. Then people often misjudge me. Even when I'm acting more social than everyone else, my internal anxiety limits my body/language coordination so I feel terrible at planning my next speeches in the spot. I also am terrible at understanding context clues sometimes. And I grew up in a ver social environment and I always try to throw myself on those. I just feel off, as I'm not part of it. But I ok, practice might help for most people.
Respectfully, I disagree. Introversion is not normally driven by fear. Social interactions for introverts are fundamentally different for introverts, and we have a completely different orientation to people we do not know personally. Our social brains are wired differently.
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Become familiar with what you are unfamiliar right now to become more courageous!
I tell my wife all the time "practice being brave."
I'm glad to hear that message being shared
That quote is so muchhhh better than 'try harder & do better next time'
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Amazing message brother! I needed to hear this today. Thank you!
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One of the best channel for developing public speaking skills ❤
After watching some of your videos I was like able to speak 10times better than ever THAnk youuuu😊
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Such a beautiful example
that wobbly synth bg music sound near the end was a type of uplifting music I've never heard before and is soooo comforting and feel-good w/ this type of content. Hope it shows up more in wholesome movies and media (like at the end of a pixar film about space aliens or smthin)
An introvert here, Ive never thought of it like this, he explained it so well❤
I like your style. Your speeches always feel genuine
I really needed to hear this...thank you
So true your words are so magical they instantly relax mind and let my fear go away
Thanks Vinh!!
I'm a 14-year-old, and this is absolutely true for me!! Two years back I was so afraid to go and speak even in gront of my class. Now that my teachers have made me practise, I've gotten used to it and I can speak relatively comfortably now.
❤ from India to Vinh
You’re the best Vinh
Thank you, Vihn 🫶🏼 You are so right! 💯
In a sales job this is the best advice
This guy is brilliant, thank you ❤
You gave a very good example to understand about how to start doing something for which we are afraid of. Kudos 👏
Do it more, but do it without going into it in negative mode.
The way I was talking to myself in my mind about what I was "forcing" myself to do, no wonder I was terrified 😂
I recently found your channel , it's great , I am an introvert and I have to change myself , it's highly needed.
I am about to get into Medical college and I have to change myself to get comfortable in the new environment. So let's practice and become courageous 🎉
Thanks Vinh, your words heal my wound of giving up as an online trainer
The strength is in the stretch!
Thanks for teaching me more bro, I appreciate you
Words of wisdom. Thank you 🙏🏻
As an Introvert ive heard the best explanation of our energy not our shyness or anything
We introverts save up energies to speak and extroverts get their energy from speaking so it looks like theyre not shy but its because they do it way more than us normally
Thanks. There are shy extroverts (me) and confident introverts. I want to speak, I love people, but I just have social anxiety that blocks my brain from being normal.
Thank you ! ❤
Great channel Sir. Much success and prosperity to you.
Thank you for this encouraging message!! Needed to hear that
How simple as a concept how enlightening. Thank you!
amazing advice 🦔❄
True, 😅 i was or still an introvert but having to talk more often with my new classmates do help me more confident to talk more😊
I guess this is the last straw for me, I need to practice to be courageous
Thank you for the pushing words Vinh
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It was what I needed to hear
Thank you, you are helping so many with this single video, please keep it up❤
Such a beautiful piece
Thank you so much Vinh Giang, I really appreciate the work you do and I'll work to one day preside over one of your presentations
Thanks for saying this❤
Thank you for being you 💕💕💕
This is the signal. Thanks, Vinh. ❤
I love your videos they really have helped so much. Thank you
Brother has very different definition
It's not about courage, it's just that we are happy living in solitude
💯🎉We are capable of so much more than we know… trust in yourself
So true I tried this at uni and it worked!
Love ur advices 🥰🥰
Lo tengo que decir en español porque no me podría expresar muy bien en inglés, pero este hombre habla con tanta seguridad de lo que sabe, le he visto en muchos más shorts de TH-cam, me cae muy bien ✨
This is a content that worth it❤
Thank you! So helpful!
To face my fear of heights i went to amusement park and rode all the roller coasters for the whole day.
Still got fear of heights but it was hella fun :D
Thanks for sharing! :)
I love this
You're amazing.
Love this!
Exactly ! Me now and before 3 years soo different story with my attitude and conversation ! THE COURAGE must be familiar with it, needs time
Thank you dai 🙏
We are just lacking practice. What ever you don't use, you will lose. Like muscles. This applies to everything in us physically or spiritually. Even faith can increase or decrease. Keep practicing.
Thank you so much
Great advice
thank you 😊
Thank you for this
I like the way your lips move when you talk and also what you speak
Thank you ❤
Me who speaks to himself 24/7 on random topics and shits his pants when talking in front of people 😭😭🙏
It is the same thing with patience. Has to be practiced like all virtues.
Thank u ❤
Thanks Vin🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥
As an introvert, talking less doesn't mean I'm scared of it.
I just sit back and listen to people chattering nonstop. And when I have something meaningful to say, I say it.
Let me talk about my own experience,l am a super introverted person and even my last year of high school was home learning due to anxiety and when l got to college oh man the first year was like hell for me, every time l had to do presentations or any team work l got so nervous and felt like fainting LITERALLY, (by the way I am an engineering student and let me tell you we do a LOT of team projects and presentations)
by the years l get used to it ( because l had to it once every week or two weaks) it became less and less scary for me and l also learned a lot of tricks that made me more calm and confident while taking to a group of people, now it is my senior year and l am doing a lot better, Thay choose me to be the leader of our graduation project team and l can't be more grateful and proud of how far l came. 😊❤
(English is my third language so excuse my mistakes if there are any😅)
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Practice Courage - Vinh
thanks bro it really work
I've heard several times from people with social anxiety that what cured it was getting a customer service job. Start off small and you can end up gradually slipping in more small talk.
I am not in the position to get a job like that sadly but part of me wants to just take off a few months to do this.
"Callus the mind" - David Goggins
When I do it more often it stresses me more often but every other talk is not easier than the previous. I tried it many times .
I would love to u see u one day bro,u amazing
thank you
I think this is very good advice, but there's a huge hole which is taking that first step to be courageous.
My personal experience tells me that when facing a situation that you are uncomfortable with, especially when it has to do with people, the best move is to feign the courage. To act as if you're comfortable even when you're not. Interactions like these tends to fall on a positive feedback loop, often leading to you being more comfortable.
I will not be cleaning windows on skyscrapers, thank you.
Good insight...
This advice also works for someone with anxiety 😁
can't agree more
become familiar with unfamiliar things, and you will become more courageous
Vinh Giang 🎉
I feel Dungeons & Dragons is probably the funnest way to build social courage in a safer environment. Find a group you are comfortable with before you push yourself further beyond what you thought possible. Then, use that out in the wild and see just how much easier it is to talk with people you’ve never met.
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for me personally its not about talking with courage or anything, its that i dont fuckin know how to phrase anything when i first meet a person.
i know what to say and that i should be polite and respectful etc. but the moment i meet someone for the first time, theres nothing coming out of my mouth, its like as if there a blockage in my brain, keeping me from saying anything and in my head its like: "Just say what you think right now" but all i do is nodding and shaking my head.
after like 3-4 weeks, thats when i can finally talk to that specific person i met 3-4 weeks ago and ive tried a shit ton of things to get rid of it, but its like as if my mouth is just gone in that moment.
Do you know what you want to say but just not coming out and you don't know *how* to say it? Or is it rather like you don't have any clue of what to say at all?
Join sales department indeed
Exactly 👍
Thanks sire
It doesn't apply for everyone. I have a specific type of social anxiety that doesn't go away with practice. Practice helps, but doesn't cure. In my case, a lot of times I feel like forgetting everything i had planned to say second before arriving at the spot I have to talk. So my words get scrambled and so my body language. Then people often misjudge me. Even when I'm acting more social than everyone else, my internal anxiety limits my body/language coordination so I feel terrible at planning my next speeches in the spot. I also am terrible at understanding context clues sometimes. And I grew up in a ver social environment and I always try to throw myself on those. I just feel off, as I'm not part of it. But I ok, practice might help for most people.
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Respectfully, I disagree. Introversion is not normally driven by fear. Social interactions for introverts are fundamentally different for introverts, and we have a completely different orientation to people we do not know personally. Our social brains are wired differently.
And failing is a normal thing. Just keep on going.
I have never know Courage can be trained and practiced.