How to be Good with Women - Loving Yourself Isn't Lip Service | Inside FEARLESS #42

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  • Being or becoming good with women without loving and taking care of yourself and your life is doing it the (very) hard, and unhealthy way.
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    FEARLESS founder Brian Begin talks to advanced clients about the importance of loving yourself and your daily life in relation to getting good with girls, dating, sex, and relationships.
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ความคิดเห็น • 27

  • @benjames863
    @benjames863 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's funny. If you run from tension, it will chase you. But if you chase tension, it will run from you.

  • @David-ib8ek
    @David-ib8ek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "There can't be a want otherwise there has to be by law of polarity be a lack" Boom!

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad this connected for you. Hope we meet you at an event!

  • @GoldJacketLuke
    @GoldJacketLuke 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent video! This topic of "self-love" has been on my mind a lot lately.

  • @thebeautifullestone3893
    @thebeautifullestone3893 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this youtube channel. These videos always open my eyes and inspire me.

  • @silvianrusso8854
    @silvianrusso8854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    listen this help me so much especially how to be grounding method . thank you

  • @Trace7173
    @Trace7173 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice!.. Cool Sun Records shirt too

  • @kaizen1720
    @kaizen1720 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a powerful exercise. Thanks!

  • @AndBigJuicy
    @AndBigJuicy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The topic About tension.
    Reminded me a Lot about the book "antifragile".
    Have you ever read it?

  • @marcojarufe1841
    @marcojarufe1841 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    By far your best video!

  • @einarabelc5
    @einarabelc5 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing is, most people struggle with this at one level or another for different reasons. If they didn't we would have a very different world today.

  • @piersonkeating2671
    @piersonkeating2671 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you elaborate on "Tension"? I think I know what you mean by it, but I want to be sure. Are you referring to "things you know you need to do"? Sometimes we know what we need to do but don't do it for whatever reason (avoiding, etc.). Another term for this is "Resistance", which can be synonymous with tension...

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're on the right track. Everything has some level of tension in it-tension can be physical or emotional or both. Lifting weights puts tension on your muscles. Taking out the trash requires you to step into the usually low but often avoided emotional tension of doing that chore...and the physical element of the tension of getting off your couch. Conversation and connection has tons of tension in it. Eye contact has a ton of tension in it-and that can feel good or bad depending on your relationship to tension (do you enjoy it or void it in general), how you feel about yourself in that moment, how you feel about her, etc...when you break eye contact, you're breaking the tension. That can be bad or good.

    • @timjones2610
      @timjones2610 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This tension concept is bullshit he's using to brainwashing mfs. It's all bullshit.

  • @nycnow811
    @nycnow811 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn, this shit hit me hard.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here's another one a team member wrote: www.thefearlessman.com/when-loving-yourself-isnt-really-loving-yourself/

  • @Ted1775
    @Ted1775 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great vid.
    Does wanting to have a cool woman and girlfriend in my life also imply that I am "needy" or desperate?

    • @user-xe6ke2lj5c
      @user-xe6ke2lj5c 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is my question too.

    • @DrkCoat
      @DrkCoat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know this queastion was asked 2 years ago but I'll attempt to answer anyway. If you want to go out and find the women you want is fine. As long as if your not relying on her to make you happy. For example people say "i want to find my other half". That is a load of shit. You be happy about your life no matter what. Zan Perrion says this best in his book when he says "the woman is not your journey, you take her with you on the journey" (I can't remember the exact words he said but the message I remember) if you genuinely feel attracted to a woman go talk to her and speak your truth.

  • @garage13
    @garage13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    close your eyes and it sounds like Matt Damon

  • @timjones2610
    @timjones2610 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is not wanting to do something not a option? Why is it just avoidance in your view? There's a difference in not wanting to and avoidance.

  • @timjones2610
    @timjones2610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As long as I have money and weed, I can enjoy anything.

  • @mrvaskokurko
    @mrvaskokurko 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That type of shirt looks good on you. That color... not so much.