My baby died as I watched. Instead of consoling me, my father in law demanded that I eat her body!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- Monica has been married for over 20 years. Her marriage was tough not because of her husband but her father and mother in law. At one time, they burnt her house demanding that she goes back to parents...she wasn't the perfect wife for her husband.
At one time, Monica lost her one year old baby. She died at around 8am in their house. The father-in-law forbid villagers from entering Monica's homestead to condole with her or even remove the body. He stood at the gate with a panga waiting for anyone to dare. Monica stayed with the body the whole day and the whole night..all this happened in the presence of the area's sub-chief.
Two days after the burial of her child, Monica's dog was lying outside her home. Her mother-in-law came, cut the dog into two and buried it in Monica's daughter fresh grave!
This is part one of Monica's painful journey with her laws....this is her story.
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Thank you for your continued support. To watch part 2 of this story, click at this link: th-cam.com/video/Jq6TuqpuU-8/w-d-xo.html
Please let's educate women. It's ok to leave matrimonial home. There is no need for such abuse
Your husband did not protect you even though he loved you. He should have put his foot down or move away to some other place. Wish you well.
My thoughts, but remember some men don't know how to remove themselves from the rules of their parents. Again, having no money, but anyway, this lady should have left that home the moment she noticed the toxicity.
It’s seems like the husband was raised up in a very toxic household where both parents were aggressively abusive and mentally unstable it could be he also needed a lot of help and support but had nowhere to run too. Most of this children are very lost in life and don’t know when is too much/enough. The woman could have left this family immediately after losing her first child nothing could justify her stay nothing!
I can't tolerate toxic inlaws,nefa
Monica umeshukwa vizuri sana
Kagoni be carrying serviettes for the emotional ones like me to wipe our tears❤
Servittes And also a glass of water they really help
I like the love between this lady and the husband.
Ghai fafa 😢😢😢in-laws wengine ni fire 🔥 I love my parents for they embrace our wives no matter the tribe. I am 💯 our wives can testify what am saying.
Huyu anafanya pressure ipande kwani lazima ukae please ladies run for your life if it doesn't work do not force it
Nguvu zingine watu hutoa wapi za kuvumilia above and beyond hey 🙆🙆
Ai Ady mm ninge endaga kitambo,ingine n ka kurogwa
Pia singevumilia hayoo yotee aiiii,too much.
@@kobifm there is no trophy for suffering can never be me ,Its only better suffer for your own things that you can be able figure them out
Mtoto alivunjwa mguu, naukabaki????? Aki women, please love your children more than your marriages.
I wonder what she was staying for. You don't force to stay kwa wenyewe
Before they do all that, they send you spirit of confusion so that every time they do those evil things you'll not understand anything because you're blind folded.
Absolutely. Hio ni foolishness 😢
You can't understand if you haven't been there.
surely she has been strong all through... but the most importantly is that the husband stood up with her..... I love it
I will never have negative energy for such marriages singular forever.
😂😂😂 wauga singular?😂
Woooo another day to cry with a stranger 😢😢😢 why are people so evil? What if it was their daughter being treated like this 😢 me icant.
The world is Wicked and Immoral!
Yaani wachawi uroga mtu na ucha yao iki fail wanaita yule walikua wamemtupia hiyo uchawi mchawi😢😢😢..
Watu wa wivu wanfaa kukufa hata maandiko inasema mchawi asiishi
Why go through all this in the name of marriage???
Haii you wonder
She has no problem with the husband. Sema tu ahame atoke huko.
I also wander 😢
You cant understand unless you are given that grace.
Ya pili, hajakosana na mume wake.
Marriage is not the way to heaven! Don’t die for it!
This is the last wisdom of the year,preach it to these girls Judy
Monica your new hairstyle looks good on you ❤❤ ...... Usiweke dreddy Tena. Zinazeesha watu sana. 😊😊
I wanted to comment like that she does look very pretty 😍
@@Lia-zw9ge she looks like a young girl now .
Ata wig inazeesha mtu
@@Gorgeousij sana , na vile madem wanazipenda 😂🤣😂🤣
@@Truthfulmen_women
They look horrible but you just tell them they look nice😃
Weh when I tell you cried watching this story, I really did😢😢 This lady is a good person because all through the story, you can hear how neighbors were trying to help her. My take on this story is that it's okay to cut off toxic relatives. Njeri and her husband should have moved out of that household when the baby died. They should've gone and started a new life in a different county, Kenya is a big country. Another thing is that those inlaws were going to church, which goes to show that going to church doesn't necessarily mean that the person is binding by the religious beliefs. Weh, this was not an easy story to watch, and I comend Kagoni for how she conducted the interview tondu weh, ti kuhuthu😢😢😢😢
Hii kitunguu ni ya Tanzania 😭😭😭😭😭
Kali sana
@@bilharwambui2035 wee kuna watu na shetani mwenyewe
So sad so many years but still in pain, she need therapy. The work of her hands is blessed.
Kaba ungiorire na mwana handú hagúikara múcii wa ngoma!!Kai mícii ingí ihanaga atia
Let's be honest! Most of the inlaws are like witches, but God will always fight our battles because their intentions are always bad to the wives of their sons
@naomi wanjiku u r very right have seen it with my own eyes
Purpose ya kuvumilia ni nini kwani mwanaume ni mumoja haii kuvumilia ingine hufanya watu kuteswa Zaidi
Very true
Kai múthuri ateciragia tondú ndiraigua akiaria kana agúkue múthiii nake..Kana orie aciare ake thina wiha
I was shocked at 1hr 07min kuskia ati in law anaenda kanisani🤦🤦kumbe wachawi waliachwa makanisa jameni
What the heck ? This must be a sad story 😢... I can't understand it tho I wish it had English subtitles
Very sad story😢
@catherinewanjiku6913 its probably a good job that I can't understand it
This is depressing to watch😢😢why would you subject yourself to such psychological trauma, there are somethings which should never be tolerated 😢😢 at least you should have moved to another place far away from the toxic inlaws I know it might not have been easy but again mental health is very important..God how do one heal from such experiences😢😢 this will take years of therapy for those wounds to even start healing 😭😭
Kagabwa nikwa ngoma
Very sad painful story 😢 but sometimes ukiona in-laws hawakupedi be strong and go far from them.
Ukae hapo uzae uwaongezee uzao Wa uovu. No way!
I cannot watch enough of this. This lady is very wise. Very selfless. May God bless her abundantly ❤
My Mam has gone through alot, but Njeri has seen it all. Ngai ni kama movie aki😢
Weeeh hii jina njeri aki the hell my mum pass through my dad's family 😭😭 that woman is strong Aki
Waaa am shocked but in kikiyu community such things do happen don't know why pole sana Njeri you are a strong woman
Kuri andu ngoma maa...inlaws shida yenu inakuanga nni....Nkt!can't wait for part 2
Aaai
Si uhame huko
GOD WILL bless you in other areas
😢😢heri kuishi bila wazazi kuliko wachawi kama hao..mi siwezi pea wachawi kama hao nafasi
😭😭😭😭Ngai this is too painful even her voice talk
Ruru ni rugano gutari mundu unginyita! Hayiaya
Haiya hii ni vioja mahamakani
Pole sana for the pain
I don't have words to describe her inlaws .....😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I once made this prayer that l don't want to get married to a man who has parents l wanted nothing to do with mom and dad inlaws
Hii ni Afro cinema
Woi na kanisa inanyamazia story za parents inlaw. Na ukiskia wakiomba maombi refu kama .... nkt. Shindwe 😢😢😢😢 Mungu tupatie nguvu
This looks like a drama, Njeri you are made of steel, I've no words, but there's God in heaven.
...hata kama ni couple goals no one should go through this to stay in a marriage. Even her husband had no peace from his own family. I'd rather leave if that gives their son some better life.
Some men are lazy idlers, imagine they were willing to kill her in exchange for meat....irio CIA NDA???😢😢
Huyo father in Law must have been possessed by evil spirits
Mental illness.
She is such a lovely story teller... Very loveable !! Can't wait for part 2...
Oooiye 😭😭😭micii ni ndogo, mugikuyu ndahititie😭😭sad story 😏😏😏🤔🤔🤔
Hi may Godbless u monica ...mke mtulivu... in laws were satani^s in hell 😭...hii ndunia... ata uwe nani... one day utaenda tu ! Where are they.. 2 day?
Khai kumbe atakua arrested,😢😢😢😢 Mungu wangu yuu,
Mimi hizi vita nackiaga tu bt sijai jipata kwa noma kama hizi
What the f is this?? I've heard of crazy mil but this fil is absolutely insane😡😡.watu kama Hawa huondokewa kabisa
Hii story inanikasirisha juu one mbona the husband hangemtoa hapo wakakomboe nyumba for the sake of peace and why go through all this in the name of marriage women I am soo fortunate my hubby stood by me
People go through a lot! Or it's alot go through people?
Ati, the mother was going to church hypocrisy of the high level.Njeri, you are strong woman
She's beautiful,i like her smile in the midst of pain, she's is blessed
Ati njera 🙆🙆🙆 mugaga ngoma ndari andu ao ,aya mari ao.
What a painful story ... Another day to cry with a stranger 😢
Very painful story but God above all
This is so painfull for real😢
My Goodness....what kind of inlaws surely...such deep hatred is not normal...May God restore you Njeri in double measure and the tears you have cried may the Lord wipe away and Give you Joy....
Ngai! Kwani Leo hakunanga metha ya kagoni na venye nilikua nimewait part 2 😢
This poor woman was married into a demonic family, pole Mama GOD has got you😢😢😢
Hi Njeri don't you love yourself,pray God to give you wisdom and knowledge. Why push yourself because of marringe,That marrige will not take you to heaven he will make a way for you.Thanks Kangoni.
😢the pain of pinching ur child... Those parents were practicing witchcraft... But prayers work wonders
my question is always why?! is marriage really this important, why would anyone go through all this because of marriage why? is it a must?! why?!
Those inlaws are real devils. Bona njuguna nayeye alikuwa anamuacha na anajua wazazi wake!! Aaah!!!!
Woi pole. Sometimes it's better to leave such a home and go in peace instead of going through such pain
Pole sana. Although I dont understand why allow yourself to suffer that much yet you had your parents where you were born.
She is not alone many in-laws r devils claiming to b in church n church leaders I went thru almost the same but had to run away for my own peace of mind n health without even my Ex their sons assurance. When things go south use your legs n run far far away from such toxic inlaws
Hii ni movie andu makinyaga atya guku Jehova Ngai ndukanareke ngue mokoini ma in laws
Uyu mucii no macira twa wana ugicagi uria wina aciari aya ni muingi muno
Kagoni…I hope u welcome constructive criticism…avoid putting words in the guest’s mouth
Wah mm numepitia but awaniweziwakinifanya vibaya hio ubaya inawarudia
Very painful story,so sorry Njeri may God give you peace
Are some people normal, you are in such a toxic home and you still stay there with such witches of inlaws? Not even a postmortem??
Why not move with your husband to a far away place, rent a small place, do kibaruas and live in peace? You are young and hard working, there is no reason to live in such a toxic environment. If the husband does not want to move, leave him, move far away. Marriage is not life. 😢
Sometimes a woman is doomed when she is voiceless. God have mercy
@@rwariahe It’s all psychological, where she believes she is voiceless, but she has a choice to stay or move. She can go back to her parents home if the man won’t move.
Even if you move, their words will impact your marriage. To the gals watch out. The small small things they do and say in your presence or absence, if they elicit uneasy feeling run away coz you won't like result.
If your husband is a mama's boy he will not let you move. He believes in her.
😅😮😅😅 1:11:32
Hau ha mutumia kumbuthurwo ni Father hangenetie 😂😂😂 he handu ngwiyuritie kai Father a kanitha iyo atari na authority,no niangenia.
As much as amepitia God truly loves her,
Hi Kagoni, this story you have unearthed can dissect our societal ills in multiple levels. probably you don't understand what you have given the society to reflect on. This story can be looked at different angles, such as social, economic, political, academic and poor management of health resources. If you have not written a book, this is your first one. All these is happening in the circles of great institutions, vs St Francis Girls around the corner, Mary Hill along the highway, and of course the ancient Kagabwa church. This woman is suffering, she is alone in this ordeal ( societal decay), If we can identify, the family, individual, community and health assessment missed for 20 years, we can benefit the community at large.
Gatundu and Muranga!!! This is such a societal decay that happens alot. Hawa ni wazazi wachawi, but I blame this lady. Alikaa alirudi huku kufanya nini?
I Hear Stories Of In-Laws n Wonder.
If Only I Could Bring My Mum-in-Law Back, Woii I Just Keep Her Beautiful Memories, Keep To Rip. Monica, I Sympathize With You Anyway.
Mwali wa nyina na muthuri wakwa akua datwariruo borothi ni inlow na brother ciake,,micii ni ndogo
Andú amwe maa mahana daimono .Ngai ndarí itheru megútúra na thína.
Hiii stroi nimewatch three times aki we need to something for this lady
Atumia mukoragwo na gathina GA akiri kana nikii kihiko Kia maithori hugeenda kwenu haii !!
Nindonetio magerio Kuria ndahikite ... No Maya nimakira 😢😢😢 wuuuuui... Part two please.... I'm crying 😢😢 with you Njeri 😢
Wah so sad aki mama your very strong mama😢😢😢
Why do people always make the comments section about the interviewer if you really don't like a certain way she chooses to be or looks that's on you it's so uncalled for and unnecessary
@Kagoni
Honestly l can't withstand such atí níguo njítwo mútumia ngatha.
NEVER!!
Apana.
Ill leave very early in the morning.
I know! The proverbs 31 woman 😂
This is so shocking. People can be really evil. So sorry Njeri
Pole saana njeri tuko wengi but mungu ni mwema kila saa anatupigania na ako na mpango mwema juu yetu...
Hugs Njeri.. you're a strong woman.... I like such kind of stories that flow smoothly.. 😊
Same to me .
Mbona uyo bibi mwingine wa kijana wa uko hakuwa anaulizwa?
Was it a must to stay in the same compound with father in law those inlaws we're witch
Tondu nomuhaka uikare uhiki-ini ucio, tiga urimu njeri.
Question of the day. Marriage is not life. Why even stay near the in laws.
Onanie nigui juragia nonginya wiikare, kai kihiko gikii kariiki
Dungimura uguo ma
Wueeh wagutika Uria gurikite tondu wueeh kuri andu omiriria urimu tena Ari na guoko Kwa wira ageweka biashara kwenye alikua anekomboa saa ii agekua mbali
Njeri ni wale wa ukibisha na mi nikuachie mungu basi jua yako..... 🎶🎶🎶🎶 Amen🙏🙏🙏
Asking a hundred times what you were doing in such a home?
Nani ametoka tiktok kama mimi. Haki pole sana mami😢
Mimi😢😢😢
Part 2 please nategea tondu ma wee kwi maundu na hi😢😢
Great Content. Learn't alot..
I do not speak kikuyu but I understand,this is the most painful interview I have heard this year😢
But why surely all this suffering in the name of marriage.
Kaiwari na aciari aguruki ona wari na hinya nake muthuriguo ndaguteithagia
Wallahi kupats inlwas wanakupenda ni nadra sana
Pole sana mum
What kind of father in law is this? Kai athuuri wagurukire?
Very painful n sad story ur strong woman cz me ningeenda kitambo.thanks to your hubby for standing with u
This man was controlled by the parents
It seems so😢