Unfortunately some people think life is a romcom and he’ll live his wife for her and their have a magical life together when in reality they probably break up in a year.
Apparently, she's the hero becoming friends with both of them knowing they have small children just to make yourself available to her husband. I have no idea how be slut and cheating with a married man makes her the hero... The nerve on this chick...
@@justinebidulopoutchini9774she literally met him and immediately jumped into telling him that she could treat him better than his wife. There was absolutely NO buffer between them meeting and her deciding to chase after the husband. She doesn’t even consider herself a home wrecker, she keeps referencing how she’s “saved” them from bio mom’s abuse. It’s almost horrifying how she’s completely blanked this from their history.
@@AraAra6367 i love that she said that they divorced because they weren’t putting effort in the marriage. Lady, they divorced because you made them lol
So Chase was a deadbeat dad even before the divorce. He constantly showed weaponized incompetence. Wife is nagging too much? Well, of course she will, if the husband is acting like a child and can't act and plan like an adult. She has to take care of 4 kids and an adult, who is supposed to help her, but acts like a child with no responsibility.
This! I saw the red flag immediately and the whole "pregnancy is not an excuse to be mean" thing was such a gross pickme line. It's giving John and Kate plus 8. People calling her a Karen when she's essentially raising 9 kids if you include her husband. And then people wonder why these women are so high strung and tightly wound when they have to carry all the responsibility of raising these people cause their partners won't partner.
As bad as OP is, Chase is just as bad. Even if he was unhappy with his marriage or whatever he still played a part in completely destroying his children’s sense of stability. Men like him give all of us a bad name smfh
@@JustinAdamson270 Cheating on your wife isn't stability either. It is betraying not only the wife but also the kids. We don't know if the two of them argued every day, we only know that they argued sometimes as most couples do. You what does set a healthy example for kids and would have been more stable? Getting an honest divorce with no cheating.
@@i10i60 lol no it happens all the time every day you can tell she blew up over a diaper not being packed and immediately tried sending him to the store instead of doing it herself being the stay at home mom it's not hard to make sure you have supplies for baby changing in the house and the vehicles for mobile use and she got upset she had to do stay at home mom things
I noticed that too. Lol. She shouldn't have been a homewrecker if she didn't wanted to be treated that way. I bet once the novelty wears off Chase Will become lazy again and make her do all the work.
@@adya7958 that's true I want to hear all sides of the story. The op is only looking from the outside in, yes he was a deadbeat dad for cheating on his wife and betraying his children. I just can't believe how OP wonders why the oldest daughter hates her when the answer is obvious.
Ok, there is something seriously wrong with this woman. She can't even get along at work, nothing is ever her fault, I would hate to deal with someone like her.
She’s talking about the eldest daughter being an agent of her mother and here she’s trying to manipulate all the children in her favor. She’s seriously delusional and gross to try and act like she’s the “good” stepmother in this situation who swooped in and saved this guy and his kids. The updates on top of updates without reference to any comments in between (which were undoubtedly tearing her to pieces) is probably the most chilling thing. She really isn’t thinking twice about what she’s done and doesn’t consider herself a homewrecker.
This woman doesn't realize that she befriended a woman, then betrayed her and slept with her husband, and them you ruined their family. She didn't just "hurt her mom". She tore apart her family.
And why shouldn't the eldest one hate her? She broke up her family. And all the whole ruckus about Willow being toxic to Chase, what kind of father stands around when his infant child pooped himself? If anything willow had good reason to be angry at him, even if the way she said it wasnt the best
OP's so delusional, but Chase is a whole bum. If he stopped being lazy and did his part for the house and kids he would've had a happy marriage. Why do men expect to do nothing and complain when their wife 'nags'?
Because women let shit men get away with it? I wish I could get away with being lazy in my relationship, but my woman has too much self respect to let me get away with that. I'd be dropped like a sack of potatoes.
@@mikea491men are grown ups, no one is responsible for them. THEY SHOULDNT BE MONITORED BECAUSE THEYRE FUCKING ADULTS, women aren’t men’s fucking keepers, we’re not your mommy
I have honestly seen both cases happen... Where, like in Chase's case, the male claims superiority to take advantage of their wife and calling her naggy when she complains, or in other cases where the woman claims independence to take advantage of their husbands and claim them lazy when they complain. Shıt people act shıtty, then find any excuse to act like victims.
YES! She's truly terrifying. Chase is happy to be manipulated by some creep who saw him and his children as objects to fulfill her twisted fantasies. She's completely nuts, but she is blowing smoke up his azz and his "needs" are being met, so he doesn't care. He and his family will suffer in ways he can't imagine. They already are.
This is one of the most disturbing OP's I have ever came across. She needs help, truly. Its so scary that people like this exist in the world. This was like a horror film. Lol
26:20 so not only was she petty for making her boytoy leave the in-laws causing the mother leave as well but now she going to violate the custody agreement by? take the children without the mother? and on top of that have her father AND her family (who are strangers to her) scold her? like wtf?
The delusion is strong with this OP. Chase has some choices to make. And if he chooses wrong, he will lose his kids for this this nut job. She's such an AH.
Jane is the MVPs of the story fr, 7 years old and still calling bullshit 😂 Also shout out to Willow and her family for putting up with this crazy at all
Funny how OP is accusing the ex wife of manipulating her children when OP is trying so hard to get the children not to listen to their mom and like her instead. The only thing OP is right about is that these adults should not be arguing or yelling in front of the kids. Outside of that I have no sympathy for a homewrecker.
Arguably though. You can't expect the mom to be calm and rational when she just caught her husband with his mistress. While it is not ideal it is also something that can't be helped.
This OP literally wants to steal Willow's WHOLE family. Not just her husband. Jesus. This chick is a freaking psycho. I've heard some doozies from OPs, but I have never hated one this much. Just freaking WOW. And trying to turn the kids against their mom is disturbing. Chase needs to fix this mess. Op needs to stay in their lane. She needs to have her own kids. 😡😤😤😡
I'm 28 minutes in and I completely understand why "Chase" is still her "boyfriend" and not her husband. I would love to have seen the comments on these. Holy fuck.
Love how she acts like she’s great but notice nothing is ever her fault, she wonders why Willow, Jane and Chases family see right through her martyr BS. She needs to get over herself his oldest daughter will never like or forgive her and she’ll end up convincing and telling younger siblings and they’ll hate her too. Also love how they threaten with court but doesn’t mind playing tricks to do parental alienation such as buying stuff to be more liked. Chase is just as bad happy that Op validates his crappy behaviour and he dug himself a hole, with cheating and still continuing when divorce still hasn’t been finished, and they’re trying to alienate willow. Love how asking for help with her newborn from the father was ‘abusive’ she just saw a chance. The way she talks OP is clearly calculating how everything benefits her.
Poor old OP. She just needs to leave other ppl alone and concentrate on serious therapy for all her mental/emotional issues. She seems to think only she has all the answers to all the problems everywhere and can't seem to help showing everyone the "correct" solution to every issue. Ultimtely she is wrong about everything and leaves a disaster behind her.
I find it is interesting that OP uses the word "inappropriate" for other people's behavior. OP is so insensitive and impatient of her step children's very understandable emotions. She is so full of herself. No wonder she is shunned by the family. She thinks she an expert on childrearing. If the babysitter drinks alcohol, ignores the children and doesn't follow the parents' rules then she needs to be fired and her mom (if a teen) needs to be told.
'AITA for being a homewrecker and expecting the kids of the family I ruined to like me?' and yes, Willow was on point. If OP actually caref about the kids, why would she destroy their family? No sorries, no apologies, no nothing will ever make things better for the kids. OP is just a horrible person trying to play good guy after a massive fck up. Disgusting.
Chase is obviously an idiot, but does he have no self-preservation instincts??? Like just in the beginning of the story, some random ass lady he met at a park, remembered and approached him again days later at a pub to say she'll treat him nicer than his wife??? My dude, how did that not set off any alarm bells? I'd think she's a fucking serial killer, that's so weird!
Okey, is so unbelievably cruel to the oldest daughter to always force her to have a relationship with the woman who ruined her parents marriage. What did they expect? Of course she's going to transform into a big trouble kid if she is always pushed into those horrid and stressful situations!!!
Also in the UK college is 16-18 year olds. These kids are probably having their first jobs and trying to get to grips with the workplace and they're being bullied... Such a psycho
This woman needs to understand that she will never be liked nor accepted by those in the families and friends. She's viewed as nothing but a mistress and a homewrecker.
I'm sorry but how is having an argument about diapers "abuse" like if she was yelling about nonsense it would make sense, but who wants a poopy diapered baby in public? Those things stink, I'd know as whenever my siblings crapped their diapers and I was near them it stunk. The mom had every right to be mad at Chase for forgetting diapers, like how do you forget diapers when taking a baby out? OP is an idiot who clearly has no idea what abuse is, I've dealt with abuse and it is most certainly not arguing over diapers
And she's surprise that the family dislikes her and favors the bio mom, what did she expect? That they'd let her in with open arms after she tore a marriage apart?!
@@mill2712 OP will deserve it, the kid better watch out if she ends up having a boyfriend/husband later on in life and if OP is still around, one slip up and argument and OP will swoop on the guy to save him
@@mill2712I hope so, I also hope the other children grow up and realise what kind of people their father and OP are. Because OP and chase definitely don't deserve a happy family.
Bro I'm NOT cheering for op. I haven't even seen the whole video but the part where chase didn't get the diapers and op said that the wife was being rude was all I needed to know. They delusional ASF and delulu is not the solulu
Wow starting off strong with this one. We are less than a minute in and already have a guy who uses weaponized incompetence, a homewrecker with a hero complex and FOUR stepkids.
She is all over the place! Delusional is not the word. This is disgusting! Op is literally crazy. She is trying to completely become a new mother to these children and doesn't accept the oldest can't stand her. The only the other two do is because they are to young to understand what's happening. WOW! I only heard of women like this in movies!
After making friends with both of them, a week later, when his wife left for the restrooms, OP flirts with Chase and they'd been having an affair behind her back for who knows how long. How does any of this feel like OP was "Protecting the kids' father", at all? Let alone, if there had been no bringing up of spousal abuse at all or that Willow was the abusing spouse? And then goes to Jane, a child, who seems smart for her age, to put the whole situation behind her and even told her that she doesn't need to take care of her mom? Yeah, OP is a terrible, home-wrecking woman. And Chase? If he wasn't happy with his marriage, he should've filed divorce, rather than continue with the affair. So, in the end, both OP and Chase are wrong and are at fault in all of it. I swear, if they try to prevent the kids from being with their mother, even file for full custody, Jane is going to hate them, forever. Even run away, or make accusation to have CPS come to take them away... Honestly, OP needs to back off, stop butting in and give Jane space. Hell, they should allow her mother to have full custody of Jane or to stay with her mom whenever she likes to. Also, you bringing up that you would keep complaining to HR about another worker's BO at work, results them on quitting, how they're not doing their jobs or just about everything else that you don't like going on at your job to constantly complain about everything about them, regardless on how they worked or their appearance not being "professional", thus you unable to work... Guess what? That's all on you. So, in conclusion, OP: Always had, and will always be TA. So DON'T BOTHER ON FORCING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KIDS, ESPECIALLY JANE! You've done more than enough damage to the family, especially the kids. Leave Jane alone.
I remember reading this on Reddit and when OP mentioned the ex was NC with her family, everyone asked how that happens since Ex's family was the ones to chew her and her BF out for what they did when BF & EX first broke up and she danced around it, saying the ex and her parents were never close. To which half the people were like 'Sure Jan.'
Honestly it sound like they had a simple spat from frustation. Which ex wife and exhusband problably just need time themselves as 4 kids is a lot. Op sounds like she stalk the man .and made him hers.
The entitlement is wild. They were gonna put his family in a hostel and move into their house for Christmas? And then when they put their foot down and said no, they got themselves expensive hotel rooms?! They really expected to kick his family our on Christmas and make them stay in a hostel with their kids so they can have the house to themselves? Am i hearing this correctly? And after all this shit she expected Christmas presents from them?! 😂 The delusion is uncanny.
Are we supposed to feel sorry for her? You literally broke up a family…. They will never forgive you. I don’t know why you are trying so hard when they hate you. You are facing your own karma and sadly you’re bringing the boyfriend down with you.
Chase was a bad father and husband pre affair, then this woman cheats with him & for some ungodly reason decided that the next best option is to be in a relationship with him & try placing yourself into their broken family. I mean shit, if you’re gonna be a mistress at least do the smart thing & dip once the divorce papers pop out. That man will not marry you, those children will not love you, save yourself the bullshit & simply work on yourself, improve, stop sleeping with married men, and never speak to him again. Leave the kids alone, leave the BM alone, give it 3 years I bet they’ll get remarried again lol. Cause shit, the ex wife is also clearly vindictive, there’s a certain way to get back at someone & it isn’t by poisoning everyone else’s opinion, it’s by SHOWING you’re better through your actions. It’s a lot more fun to win through straight personality > manipulation. Cause straight up, a well adjusted mother who just got cheated on would not go out of her way to make familial relationships worse- I gaurenter that she’d be happier & winning if she simply said “no, please don’t hold it against her… I just want to move on for the kids” and they’ll naturally hate the mistress.
do not get involve with childed people. how to keep a baby asleep on a plane??? DONT BRING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. parents don't give a crap what they inflict on everyone much less the trophies
When I read the title, I didn't think I'd hate every adult in this story, but I truly do. OP broke a home and is surprised people, especially the eldest, hate her? It's extremely stupid, and this whole post shows that. Chase can't even be bothered to remember diapers for his kid. I feel he isn't getting enough heat from everyone else in this story, despite him being the one who cheated on his wife. Willow has a right to be mad, but actively fighting in front of the kids and getting mad at OP for simply breathing at this point is absurd. At some point, you need to prioritize your children and their happiness, not getting back at your ex's mistress. The fact that she takes her ex to court for simply reprimanding the eldest, even when she ruins things for the other children, is so obnoxious. The only people I really feel for are these children. They're being failed because adults can't be faithful nor put their pride aside for them.
@HeoBaby24 I don't think she's as wrong as OP and Chase, but considering how she acted over a Lego set and a chocolate cake for her kid, I can't say Willow isn't at least wrong for the way she's been reacting to anything OP does for her kids. If Willow was just being petty, that'd be fine, but she's essentially getting mad that OP isn't being a bad stepmother at this point. The constant arguing in front of the children instead of speaking to the cheaters privately post-divorce will never be excusable imo which is where my main problem with her stems from.
This is exactly the comment I was looking for because yeah I think this is a situation where ESH, however if I had to pick who’s the biggest AH that would OP. The ex wife in this situation is the perfect example of the people they choose to settle down with says more about them than it does others sometimes. OP’s boyfriend(Chase was it) is the definition of an incompetent man which makes me question why in the heck did the ex wife marry him or what she even saw in him, especially when she CHOSE TO HAVE 4 KIDS WITH HIM. 4 kids is an insane amount of amount and I don’t think anyone could afford that, the husband is also responsible because he decided this was okay when he literally can’t even do some basic freaking tasks. Yeah the wife is nagging her husband because he’s an incompetent guy, and he really should’ve tried to step up. The wife also has some responsibilities because how in the heck did she marry this guy, this guy’s incompetence is the kind that could lead to one of the children getting hurt or killed, if she’s unable to get him to change his behavior to be a responsible parent she should’ve just divorced him as he’d be more of a liability than help with the children and that’s non negotiable. I don’t understand why people try to pin the blame purely on just the guy here, since the ex wife definitely choose wrong. Plus as was already mentioned the toy situation, like Jesus Christ you don’t have to be friends with the home wrecker but try to keep your children out of this. Everyone really does s**k here and I feel bad for the children as almost no one seems to give a care in the world about them.
I don't believe ANYTHING OP SAYS. First her whole reason to call Willow abusive is based off the fact the Chase is playing Weaponized Incompetent. OP sounds narcissist and psychotic, it's never her fault and throughout all of her posts Willow, Kourtney, Chase's family and Co worker are the Aggressors and OP is the "TRUE VICTIM" and that everyone hates her bc shes a -checks notes- """Pure Hearted Kind Soul Who Has Never Done Anything Wrong To Anyone And I Didn't It's Because They Deserve It For Doing Something I Don't Agree With So Therefore I Must Punish Them""" Complete A$$hole and I hope to God this is fake.
Girl u played in this lady face befriend her and her husband and literally was putting things in his head to break them up and the oldest daughter and them mom caught yall cuddling and u wonder why the mom is bitter and the daughter don’t like you or give u the time of day
I hate how everyone puts the blame on her like chase was in it to he decided to cheat and get with her and destroy his family and everyone is acting like he was manipulated he wasn’t he’s just as guilty as she is.Don’t get me wrong I hate her as much as everybody here
Agreed, they’re both in the wrong, especially Chase as he was married. Everyone’s saying that she destroyed the family, but Chase is the one who did that. Chase is the one who chose to break his wedding vows. Yes op is still in the wrong, but Chase was married, which automatically makes him more in the wrong
The audacity to call the ex wife "BM" 🤡. She wasnt just a bm she was his wife when you ruined her family?
what does BM stand for even?
@@akaonybaby mamma
Or Biological Mom [Mother]
Homewrecker tries to play hero and fails? Shocker.
Then cries and whines about people hating her.
Right!
Am I supposed to believe she's the hero here? I'd hate her if she broke my parents up too is she serious right now?
Unfortunately some people think life is a romcom and he’ll live his wife for her and their have a magical life together when in reality they probably break up in a year.
Apparently, she's the hero becoming friends with both of them knowing they have small children just to make yourself available to her husband. I have no idea how be slut and cheating with a married man makes her the hero... The nerve on this chick...
I don’t think she gets she’s the mistress, not just the « new girlfriend »
@@justinebidulopoutchini9774she literally met him and immediately jumped into telling him that she could treat him better than his wife. There was absolutely NO buffer between them meeting and her deciding to chase after the husband. She doesn’t even consider herself a home wrecker, she keeps referencing how she’s “saved” them from bio mom’s abuse. It’s almost horrifying how she’s completely blanked this from their history.
@@AraAra6367 i love that she said that they divorced because they weren’t putting effort in the marriage. Lady, they divorced because you made them lol
So Chase was a deadbeat dad even before the divorce. He constantly showed weaponized incompetence. Wife is nagging too much? Well, of course she will, if the husband is acting like a child and can't act and plan like an adult. She has to take care of 4 kids and an adult, who is supposed to help her, but acts like a child with no responsibility.
This! I saw the red flag immediately and the whole "pregnancy is not an excuse to be mean" thing was such a gross pickme line.
It's giving John and Kate plus 8. People calling her a Karen when she's essentially raising 9 kids if you include her husband. And then people wonder why these women are so high strung and tightly wound when they have to carry all the responsibility of raising these people cause their partners won't partner.
As bad as OP is, Chase is just as bad. Even if he was unhappy with his marriage or whatever he still played a part in completely destroying his children’s sense of stability. Men like him give all of us a bad name smfh
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Stability isn't having arguing parents everyday
@@JustinAdamson270 Cheating on your wife isn't stability either. It is betraying not only the wife but also the kids.
We don't know if the two of them argued every day, we only know that they argued sometimes as most couples do.
You what does set a healthy example for kids and would have been more stable? Getting an honest divorce with no cheating.
@@i10i60 lol no it happens all the time every day you can tell she blew up over a diaper not being packed and immediately tried sending him to the store instead of doing it herself being the stay at home mom it's not hard to make sure you have supplies for baby changing in the house and the vehicles for mobile use and she got upset she had to do stay at home mom things
@@i10i60 and stability isn't related to your actions or relationship with other people it's about not being petty long enough to put your child first
She wants to be a victim so bad😂. When things don’t go her way she “breaks down”
I noticed that too. Lol. She shouldn't have been a homewrecker if she didn't wanted to be treated that way. I bet once the novelty wears off Chase Will become lazy again and make her do all the work.
She quite literally destroyed a family, stealing the kids and replacing the mom. Am I supposed to see her in a bright light st all?
She's delulu af. I can't imagine being that crazy.
If he was unhappy he should have filed for divorce. Cheating is never the answer.
@@adya7958 that's true I want to hear all sides of the story. The op is only looking from the outside in, yes he was a deadbeat dad for cheating on his wife and betraying his children. I just can't believe how OP wonders why the oldest daughter hates her when the answer is obvious.
after a while I lose track of who is who
There was no 'abuse'- he's just a cowardly pos.
Ok, there is something seriously wrong with this woman. She can't even get along at work, nothing is ever her fault, I would hate to deal with someone like her.
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You know, if Freddy Krueger was to haunt her, he'd need no glove.... he'd just need to lock her in a room and hold her accountable.
@@ManinawigLOOOOOL
She’s talking about the eldest daughter being an agent of her mother and here she’s trying to manipulate all the children in her favor. She’s seriously delusional and gross to try and act like she’s the “good” stepmother in this situation who swooped in and saved this guy and his kids.
The updates on top of updates without reference to any comments in between (which were undoubtedly tearing her to pieces) is probably the most chilling thing. She really isn’t thinking twice about what she’s done and doesn’t consider herself a homewrecker.
This woman doesn't realize that she befriended a woman, then betrayed her and slept with her husband, and them you ruined their family. She didn't just "hurt her mom". She tore apart her family.
op is disgusting as is chase. shes trying to become their mother and is in denial of that fact.
And why shouldn't the eldest one hate her? She broke up her family. And all the whole ruckus about Willow being toxic to Chase, what kind of father stands around when his infant child pooped himself? If anything willow had good reason to be angry at him, even if the way she said it wasnt the best
I am sure that she was tired of his constant weaponized incompetence and didn't have anymore patience to talk to him politely.
Fr he sounds lazy
The op is super narcisist
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Also, their third child. Kinda should've had this shit on lock by the 2nd one at least
The eldest is a menace and I love her for it! You go girl! Lol
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The grandparents are the bomb! Damn. Oh its you. Lol! This chick really thought she was gonna just replace Willow. 😂😂😂
OP's so delusional, but Chase is a whole bum. If he stopped being lazy and did his part for the house and kids he would've had a happy marriage. Why do men expect to do nothing and complain when their wife 'nags'?
Because women let shit men get away with it? I wish I could get away with being lazy in my relationship, but my woman has too much self respect to let me get away with that. I'd be dropped like a sack of potatoes.
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@@mikea491men are grown ups, no one is responsible for them. THEY SHOULDNT BE MONITORED BECAUSE THEYRE FUCKING ADULTS, women aren’t men’s fucking keepers, we’re not your mommy
I have honestly seen both cases happen... Where, like in Chase's case, the male claims superiority to take advantage of their wife and calling her naggy when she complains, or in other cases where the woman claims independence to take advantage of their husbands and claim them lazy when they complain.
Shıt people act shıtty, then find any excuse to act like victims.
@@Maninawigwell when you use a pregnancy as an excuse to be a bitch to your husband don't be surprised when he looks for another woman who doesn't
Does anybody else thinks this OP is PSYCHO
YES! She's truly terrifying. Chase is happy to be manipulated by some creep who saw him and his children as objects to fulfill her twisted fantasies. She's completely nuts, but she is blowing smoke up his azz and his "needs" are being met, so he doesn't care. He and his family will suffer in ways he can't imagine. They already are.
Yep she can’t stand other women being happy so resorts to stealing their men to get one over on them
Yep. Shes finding it difficult keeping everything straight with all the families she is interfering with.
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She is totally a psycho
This is one of the most disturbing OP's I have ever came across. She needs help, truly. Its so scary that people like this exist in the world. This was like a horror film. Lol
26:20
so not only was she petty for making her boytoy leave the in-laws causing the mother leave as well
but now she going to violate the custody agreement by? take the children without the mother?
and on top of that have her father AND her family (who are strangers to her) scold her? like wtf?
THIS is the true meaning of a HOMEWRECKER!!!🤯🤯🤯
The delusion is strong with this OP. Chase has some choices to make. And if he chooses wrong, he will lose his kids for this this nut job. She's such an AH.
It isn't okay for kourtney to destroy the easter egg event but it's okay for the c word to destroy an entire family 😂
Jane is the MVPs of the story fr, 7 years old and still calling bullshit 😂 Also shout out to Willow and her family for putting up with this crazy at all
Story 1: I love the fact that Jane is calling bs!
The eldest daughter is awesome.
I hate this OP so much
I hate OP in solidarity with Jane
Ur not alone LOL I almost wanna find OPs post 2 do nothing other than just leave a comment saying I hate her😂 she's just the worse
@@W0UND3ADdid you found it? I wanna do that too 😅 she is my new enemy
This OP is a JOKE YTA. IM 55 father passed already n I still hate my father's other woman. Haven't seen her in yrs but will always😈
Funny how OP is accusing the ex wife of manipulating her children when OP is trying so hard to get the children not to listen to their mom and like her instead.
The only thing OP is right about is that these adults should not be arguing or yelling in front of the kids.
Outside of that I have no sympathy for a homewrecker.
Arguably though. You can't expect the mom to be calm and rational when she just caught her husband with his mistress. While it is not ideal it is also something that can't be helped.
Biggest evidence is "Some people can't afford nice things, so I'll buy them for you" thing. Like seriously? that's blatant manipulation.
This OP literally wants to steal Willow's WHOLE family. Not just her husband. Jesus. This chick is a freaking psycho. I've heard some doozies from OPs, but I have never hated one this much. Just freaking WOW. And trying to turn the kids against their mom is disturbing. Chase needs to fix this mess. Op needs to stay in their lane. She needs to have her own kids. 😡😤😤😡
I hope to God this op doesn't reproduce 😅 imagine how her kids would grow up with a narcissist like her
She must have found out she's sterile and gone trawling playgrounds for single dads to try to snag some bonus kids on the bargain.
Wouldn't surprise me if she can't and that's why she's trying so hard to be the kid's 'New Mum'.
I'm 28 minutes in and I completely understand why "Chase" is still her "boyfriend" and not her husband.
I would love to have seen the comments on these. Holy fuck.
At least the kids can be excused as being kids. Op? I really do wonder what her end game is here.
When she marries Chase.
Love how she acts like she’s great but notice nothing is ever her fault, she wonders why Willow, Jane and Chases family see right through her martyr BS. She needs to get over herself his oldest daughter will never like or forgive her and she’ll end up convincing and telling younger siblings and they’ll hate her too. Also love how they threaten with court but doesn’t mind playing tricks to do parental alienation such as buying stuff to be more liked.
Chase is just as bad happy that Op validates his crappy behaviour and he dug himself a hole, with cheating and still continuing when divorce still hasn’t been finished, and they’re trying to alienate willow. Love how asking for help with her newborn from the father was ‘abusive’ she just saw a chance. The way she talks OP is clearly calculating how everything benefits her.
Poor old OP. She just needs to leave other ppl alone and concentrate on serious therapy for all her mental/emotional issues. She seems to think only she has all the answers to all the problems everywhere and can't seem to help showing everyone the "correct" solution to every issue. Ultimtely she is wrong about everything and leaves a disaster behind her.
Well, no one must be forced to bond with a harlot.
This home wrecker is concerned that we are worried about junk food….😭😭😭
I find it is interesting that OP uses the word "inappropriate" for other people's behavior. OP is so insensitive and impatient of her step children's very understandable emotions. She is so full of herself. No wonder she is shunned by the family. She thinks she an expert on childrearing. If the babysitter drinks alcohol, ignores the children and doesn't follow the parents' rules then she needs to be fired and her mom (if a teen) needs to be told.
The delulu is strong with this one
The delusional inner thoughts of the "other woman".
Exactly. The wh*re has some saviour complex
She stole the father, lectures the kids about their relationship, and thinks she’s on the right side? Lol
'AITA for being a homewrecker and expecting the kids of the family I ruined to like me?' and yes, Willow was on point. If OP actually caref about the kids, why would she destroy their family? No sorries, no apologies, no nothing will ever make things better for the kids. OP is just a horrible person trying to play good guy after a massive fck up. Disgusting.
Chase is obviously an idiot, but does he have no self-preservation instincts??? Like just in the beginning of the story, some random ass lady he met at a park, remembered and approached him again days later at a pub to say she'll treat him nicer than his wife??? My dude, how did that not set off any alarm bells? I'd think she's a fucking serial killer, that's so weird!
Okey, is so unbelievably cruel to the oldest daughter to always force her to have a relationship with the woman who ruined her parents marriage. What did they expect? Of course she's going to transform into a big trouble kid if she is always pushed into those horrid and stressful situations!!!
That wasn't unfair dismissal. Sounds like they put up with far too much and reached a point where something had to give. No case to be had there.
How much she left out even more stuff still
Also in the UK college is 16-18 year olds. These kids are probably having their first jobs and trying to get to grips with the workplace and they're being bullied... Such a psycho
Op sounds like my father's affair partner... not understanding how or why a child could possibly hold a grudge over their family being broken up
There’s a good one-word description for her, unfortunately community guidelines won’t allow it.
is it... australian?
Yeah, a "cee u next Tuesday"
Is that why I keep getting condescending warning messages for my admittedly assholish bouts of 'spergery? Cuz I do indeed enjoy using that word...
Harlot? Skank? Local bike? There's a lot to choose from.
Personally, I think narcissist fits this OP rather well.
Yeah, they divorced cause the faute too much, but it has NOTHING to do with cheating,right?
Op really comes from delusional happy family.
This woman needs to understand that she will never be liked nor accepted by those in the families and friends.
She's viewed as nothing but a mistress and a homewrecker.
I'm sorry but how is having an argument about diapers "abuse" like if she was yelling about nonsense it would make sense, but who wants a poopy diapered baby in public? Those things stink, I'd know as whenever my siblings crapped their diapers and I was near them it stunk. The mom had every right to be mad at Chase for forgetting diapers, like how do you forget diapers when taking a baby out? OP is an idiot who clearly has no idea what abuse is, I've dealt with abuse and it is most certainly not arguing over diapers
And she's surprise that the family dislikes her and favors the bio mom, what did she expect? That they'd let her in with open arms after she tore a marriage apart?!
given how crazy she is? Probably
Imagine being rattled by a then seven year-old lol 😂
If she's that harsh at 7, her teen years are going to be absolutely brutal for OP.
@@mill2712as it should be 🤣
@@mill2712 OP will deserve it, the kid better watch out if she ends up having a boyfriend/husband later on in life and if OP is still around, one slip up and argument and OP will swoop on the guy to save him
@@mill2712I hope so, I also hope the other children grow up and realise what kind of people their father and OP are. Because OP and chase definitely don't deserve a happy family.
@@mill2712 Oh that would be amazing.
Bro I'm NOT cheering for op. I haven't even seen the whole video but the part where chase didn't get the diapers and op said that the wife was being rude was all I needed to know. They delusional ASF and delulu is not the solulu
" i love learning from my mistakes." Dear you refuse to acknoledge any of your mistakes.
Wow starting off strong with this one. We are less than a minute in and already have a guy who uses weaponized incompetence, a homewrecker with a hero complex and FOUR stepkids.
No way she overheard that argument in the park and came away thinking the wife was the one in the wrong. That's crazy.
She is all over the place! Delusional is not the word. This is disgusting! Op is literally crazy. She is trying to completely become a new mother to these children and doesn't accept the oldest can't stand her. The only the other two do is because they are to young to understand what's happening. WOW! I only heard of women like this in movies!
You will never bond with them. YOU turned them against you when you went after a married man
After making friends with both of them, a week later, when his wife left for the restrooms, OP flirts with Chase and they'd been having an affair behind her back for who knows how long. How does any of this feel like OP was "Protecting the kids' father", at all? Let alone, if there had been no bringing up of spousal abuse at all or that Willow was the abusing spouse? And then goes to Jane, a child, who seems smart for her age, to put the whole situation behind her and even told her that she doesn't need to take care of her mom?
Yeah, OP is a terrible, home-wrecking woman. And Chase? If he wasn't happy with his marriage, he should've filed divorce, rather than continue with the affair. So, in the end, both OP and Chase are wrong and are at fault in all of it.
I swear, if they try to prevent the kids from being with their mother, even file for full custody, Jane is going to hate them, forever. Even run away, or make accusation to have CPS come to take them away... Honestly, OP needs to back off, stop butting in and give Jane space. Hell, they should allow her mother to have full custody of Jane or to stay with her mom whenever she likes to.
Also, you bringing up that you would keep complaining to HR about another worker's BO at work, results them on quitting, how they're not doing their jobs or just about everything else that you don't like going on at your job to constantly complain about everything about them, regardless on how they worked or their appearance not being "professional", thus you unable to work... Guess what? That's all on you.
So, in conclusion, OP: Always had, and will always be TA. So DON'T BOTHER ON FORCING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KIDS, ESPECIALLY JANE! You've done more than enough damage to the family, especially the kids. Leave Jane alone.
I love the eldest. This woman is so manipulative!!!!
OP is a manipulative cow.
Please don’t insult cows😭😭
Omg I feel so bad for Willow .
Jesus Christ in a Montain Bike, this woman is lost in Delululand
I love the eldest daughter so much 😂
This lady is not normal I swear like how she is a victim here 😢😂😂
Homegirl is delusional; not sure why she thought people would embrace her after what she did
What a snake in the grass!
Why do I get the feeling that she tried to write this so everyone would feel sorry for her and is twisting things severely?
Jane is a real one. OP and Chase, rot.
I remember reading this on Reddit and when OP mentioned the ex was NC with her family, everyone asked how that happens since Ex's family was the ones to chew her and her BF out for what they did when BF & EX first broke up and she danced around it, saying the ex and her parents were never close. To which half the people were like 'Sure Jan.'
So she's lying or sum?
Honestly it sound like they had a simple spat from frustation. Which ex wife and exhusband problably just need time themselves as 4 kids is a lot. Op sounds like she stalk the man .and made him hers.
did she got a lot of hate? pls tell me she did😭
i hope this is a massive troll post because if not, OP is actually just an evil villain
Im just going to take a guess like a decade away she will be like, why do my step kids not talk to their father
So op is a home wrecker, and is pious thinking she knows better even though she is childless.
Story 1: I feel bad for Willow; I really love the way that Willow chewed out OP for her parenting! OP has no right! She is such an idiot!
He is definitely going to cheat again
For once, I don't think this cheater is evil, just incredibly dumb and arrogant
I think she's all three.
I think she's all three.
...is OP's name 'Karen'?
Story 1: Good for the ex for shutting down OP!
What part of this meet made him attractive he just sat there converting oxygen into carbon dioxide while his daughter was a mess
Op is delusional💔😱😭 she brake a marriage by sleeping with a married man and thinks she's a hero
This one is so delusional that instead of getting angry, you will start laughing 😂
The entitlement is wild. They were gonna put his family in a hostel and move into their house for Christmas? And then when they put their foot down and said no, they got themselves expensive hotel rooms?!
They really expected to kick his family our on Christmas and make them stay in a hostel with their kids so they can have the house to themselves? Am i hearing this correctly? And after all this shit she expected Christmas presents from them?! 😂 The delusion is uncanny.
Chase sounds like a useless dad. How can you not even be willing to get diapers for your baby who shit itself?
Are we supposed to feel sorry for her? You literally broke up a family…. They will never forgive you. I don’t know why you are trying so hard when they hate you. You are facing your own karma and sadly you’re bringing the boyfriend down with you.
Chase was a bad father and husband pre affair, then this woman cheats with him & for some ungodly reason decided that the next best option is to be in a relationship with him & try placing yourself into their broken family. I mean shit, if you’re gonna be a mistress at least do the smart thing & dip once the divorce papers pop out. That man will not marry you, those children will not love you, save yourself the bullshit & simply work on yourself, improve, stop sleeping with married men, and never speak to him again. Leave the kids alone, leave the BM alone, give it 3 years I bet they’ll get remarried again lol. Cause shit, the ex wife is also clearly vindictive, there’s a certain way to get back at someone & it isn’t by poisoning everyone else’s opinion, it’s by SHOWING you’re better through your actions. It’s a lot more fun to win through straight personality > manipulation. Cause straight up, a well adjusted mother who just got cheated on would not go out of her way to make familial relationships worse- I gaurenter that she’d be happier & winning if she simply said “no, please don’t hold it against her… I just want to move on for the kids” and they’ll naturally hate the mistress.
Story 1: I despise Chase; he is such a moron for not getting the diapers!
This Op's mental gymnastics is so complex im genuinely impressed and in awe
OP is a pick me B.
do not get involve with childed people. how to keep a baby asleep on a plane??? DONT BRING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. parents don't give a crap what they inflict on everyone much less the trophies
I can't stand op and the husband after 30 seconds
When I read the title, I didn't think I'd hate every adult in this story, but I truly do.
OP broke a home and is surprised people, especially the eldest, hate her? It's extremely stupid, and this whole post shows that.
Chase can't even be bothered to remember diapers for his kid. I feel he isn't getting enough heat from everyone else in this story, despite him being the one who cheated on his wife.
Willow has a right to be mad, but actively fighting in front of the kids and getting mad at OP for simply breathing at this point is absurd. At some point, you need to prioritize your children and their happiness, not getting back at your ex's mistress. The fact that she takes her ex to court for simply reprimanding the eldest, even when she ruins things for the other children, is so obnoxious.
The only people I really feel for are these children. They're being failed because adults can't be faithful nor put their pride aside for them.
willow did nothing wrong sure maybe not argue in front the kids but she did nothing wrong
@HeoBaby24 I don't think she's as wrong as OP and Chase, but considering how she acted over a Lego set and a chocolate cake for her kid, I can't say Willow isn't at least wrong for the way she's been reacting to anything OP does for her kids.
If Willow was just being petty, that'd be fine, but she's essentially getting mad that OP isn't being a bad stepmother at this point.
The constant arguing in front of the children instead of speaking to the cheaters privately post-divorce will never be excusable imo which is where my main problem with her stems from.
This is exactly the comment I was looking for because yeah I think this is a situation where ESH, however if I had to pick who’s the biggest AH that would OP.
The ex wife in this situation is the perfect example of the people they choose to settle down with says more about them than it does others sometimes. OP’s boyfriend(Chase was it) is the definition of an incompetent man which makes me question why in the heck did the ex wife marry him or what she even saw in him, especially when she CHOSE TO HAVE 4 KIDS WITH HIM. 4 kids is an insane amount of amount and I don’t think anyone could afford that, the husband is also responsible because he decided this was okay when he literally can’t even do some basic freaking tasks.
Yeah the wife is nagging her husband because he’s an incompetent guy, and he really should’ve tried to step up. The wife also has some responsibilities because how in the heck did she marry this guy, this guy’s incompetence is the kind that could lead to one of the children getting hurt or killed, if she’s unable to get him to change his behavior to be a responsible parent she should’ve just divorced him as he’d be more of a liability than help with the children and that’s non negotiable. I don’t understand why people try to pin the blame purely on just the guy here, since the ex wife definitely choose wrong. Plus as was already mentioned the toy situation, like Jesus Christ you don’t have to be friends with the home wrecker but try to keep your children out of this. Everyone really does s**k here and I feel bad for the children as almost no one seems to give a care in the world about them.
@@mydeardoxy I'm sorry but you really don't believe anything OP says bc everything is screwed to make Willow look bad.
I don't believe ANYTHING OP SAYS.
First her whole reason to call Willow abusive is based off the fact the Chase is playing Weaponized Incompetent. OP sounds narcissist and psychotic, it's never her fault and throughout all of her posts Willow, Kourtney, Chase's family and Co worker are the Aggressors and OP is the "TRUE VICTIM" and that everyone hates her bc shes a
-checks notes-
"""Pure Hearted Kind Soul Who Has Never Done Anything Wrong To Anyone And I Didn't It's Because They Deserve It For Doing Something I Don't Agree With So Therefore I Must Punish Them"""
Complete A$$hole and I hope to God this is fake.
This is fake right? No one can think like this right?
OP picking up guys in the playground 🤦♀️
OP is a TRUE YANDERE
Was the babysitter from Craigslist? A 12 dollar Lego set? How small was it?
Girl u played in this lady face befriend her and her husband and literally was putting things in his head to break them up and the oldest daughter and them mom caught yall cuddling and u wonder why the mom is bitter and the daughter don’t like you or give u the time of day
.... this has to be a troll...
I feel like this girl is low key doing emotional manipulation for the long game. The comment to,” your servant is here” all I could think was PETTY
🎉First time being this early. These stories keep me entertained at work, so thanks for that.
That bonus story made go from funny to straight up hilarious.
I hate how everyone puts the blame on her like chase was in it to he decided to cheat and get with her and destroy his family and everyone is acting like he was manipulated he wasn’t he’s just as guilty as she is.Don’t get me wrong I hate her as much as everybody here
Agreed, they’re both in the wrong, especially Chase as he was married. Everyone’s saying that she destroyed the family, but Chase is the one who did that. Chase is the one who chose to break his wedding vows. Yes op is still in the wrong, but Chase was married, which automatically makes him more in the wrong
She saw a weakness in marriage and exploited it . She’s evil