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I came to that bottom line regarding my job or any job / career. There isn’t one job or relationship or whatever that will be the “ right fit” because it’s not “ the other” ~ it’s Me. I am the X factor. That’s why I am moving forward again with the daily practice, reading Anna’s book and Ketamine Therapy. Adhd + Cptsd and downstream issues for decades- gonna take more than writing and meditation. Thanks Anna! 🙂✌🏻
To have the capacity to communicate with different point of views, staying calm, curious, asking questions is a real good feeling. I'm a beginner but succeed to have a taste of it 🙌 i want more 😊
Thank you for that letter, i also believe that it's not because i was hurt that gives me the right to hurt 🤕, for me it would mean be like my abusers and i know i need healing and education to have the capacity to be a good partner 🎉 To keep being empathetic like you, with your story is a strength ❤ you can be proud about 🎉🎉🎉❤
The tunement points that stood out to me the most were giving unsolicited advice and curiosity. its been a real adjustment getting into the habit of changing these. People with trauma literally can have their own culture where these tendencies are absolutely normal, but there's a whole new world out there where it's much easier to breathe.
For Marilyn... yes, children are first priority... their stability and sanity. At the same time, my own father was like this... always friendly and sociable towards others, and neglectful towards my mom and us kids. IF my mom could have taken us away and provided happiness and stability as a single mom, that would have been worth my parents divorcing. My parents finally divorced after we all married and were out of the house. Neither my mom or dad ever grew or progressed personally... so together or divorced they were bad for each other and bad for us kids. Marilyn deserves human validation and interaction from her husband. She can stay for the kids, but will have to do all growing and life development on her own, for herself and her children. Difficult and sad situation, but Marilyn can do all she can to create a fulfilling life separate from her husband. I'm realizing I know of 3 women who have husbands they have zero connection with, and they focus on their kids, friends, and themselves.
I wanted this list for myself. Thank you. ......Attachment styles: secure, anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, disorganized attached.
I practice the daily practice and felt a change at the first try 🎉 Anna suggestion is to try it for a week and you'll know it, you'll feel it, no need to believe, try for free and may be.... I wish it works for you as it works for me. I'm 54, handicapped by my cptsd and i come back to life, in six months more changes happens and i go up more than down 🎉 It's not magic, but feels like for me, because nothing helped me and with the daily practice i can slowly add other things that helps me and i love to do. I come from the rock bottom and it works for me, it's saves my life, my body was giving up.....😢
How wonderful! Thank you for sharing! Hope your comment will encourage others to try the Daily Practice. Keep up the great work on your healing! Nika@TeamFairy
I remember getting a lot of unsolicited advice after having my first baby. So hard because I didn't have my family around to help me out. It took me months before realizing that I didn't have to consider other's advice.
Thank you for continuing to share your helpful content and insights. The portion in which you talked about attunement, and not projecting your busyness or physical fatigue on others, and how doing so can cause people to not contact you or invite you in the future. That makes a lot of sense, and is definitely something I am guilty of and will work on improving in the future.
Please start selling your fairy mug ❤ going to keep asking 😮🎉ps you will have 1million followers soon…how much you have done for so many…thank you Anna ❤australia ❤❤❤ I’ve just thought you should sell fairy pens as well sorry to be off topic 😮
Hello, Anna. First of all, thank you (and the team) for these compilations. This couldn't have come at a better time. I'd like to ask: I'm from a country where we don't have anything similar to the 12-step program. Is it possible to find information or resources related to it if you don't reside in the US?
I get very triggered when I want to leave a party or event, or I turn down an invitation politely and people turn attention on me and say, “oh come on! You need to stay!” Or “you will have fun you will see!” Its like feeling trapped and I begin to panic. I dont know what to do.
Have an excuse ready. “I need to make a phone call 📞 “. “I need to get up early “. @ I need to take out my dog. 🐶 “ I once used the first excuse 😅and the controlling narcissist asked me to make the phone call there. 😅 I don’t hang out with these people anymore.
One good tool to help with getting regulated is the Daily Practice. When we heal, it is much easier to handle social situations when they get uncomfortable. You can learn the Daily Practice for free here: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice Nika@TeamFairy
My ex had doting parents. Indian family. At 20 both parents killed in a plane crash. He’s anxious avoidant. Like an earthquake. Attentive and slightly anxious and then bam out of nowhere paranoid avoidant. Manipulative. So painful for me.
*Take my free Daily Practice course: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice
*Join my Membership and access my private online community: bit.ly/CCF-Membership
*Visit my website at crappychildhoodfairy.com
*Order my new book RE-REGULATED here: bit.ly/3XiLsj2
*Have a question for me to answer on TH-cam? Write me here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters
After following your page, I realised I'm done fostering men with toxic trauma
Ooof Amen!
I came to that bottom line regarding my job or any job / career. There isn’t one job or relationship or whatever that will be the “ right fit” because it’s not “ the other” ~ it’s Me. I am the X factor. That’s why I am moving forward again with the daily practice, reading Anna’s book and Ketamine Therapy. Adhd + Cptsd and downstream issues for decades- gonna take more than writing and meditation. Thanks Anna! 🙂✌🏻
It’s the same for me exact same.. can’t work for nobody at all
To have the capacity to communicate with different point of views, staying calm, curious, asking questions is a real good feeling.
I'm a beginner but succeed to have a taste of it 🙌 i want more 😊
I am amazed at your continued development and sense of peace and joy at sharing these ideas. It has blessed me today!
I thought I was helping by giving unsolicited advice 😅 I wish I could turn back time.
Thank you for that letter, i also believe that it's not because i was hurt that gives me the right to hurt 🤕, for me it would mean be like my abusers and i know i need healing and education to have the capacity to be a good partner 🎉
To keep being empathetic like you, with your story is a strength ❤ you can be proud about 🎉🎉🎉❤
The tunement points that stood out to me the most were giving unsolicited advice and curiosity. its been a real adjustment getting into the habit of changing these.
People with trauma literally can have their own culture where these tendencies are absolutely normal, but there's a whole new world out there where it's much easier to breathe.
For Marilyn... yes, children are first priority... their stability and sanity. At the same time, my own father was like this... always friendly and sociable towards others, and neglectful towards my mom and us kids. IF my mom could have taken us away and provided happiness and stability as a single mom, that would have been worth my parents divorcing. My parents finally divorced after we all married and were out of the house. Neither my mom or dad ever grew or progressed personally... so together or divorced they were bad for each other and bad for us kids.
Marilyn deserves human validation and interaction from her husband. She can stay for the kids, but will have to do all growing and life development on her own, for herself and her children. Difficult and sad situation, but Marilyn can do all she can to create a fulfilling life separate from her husband. I'm realizing I know of 3 women who have husbands they have zero connection with, and they focus on their kids, friends, and themselves.
I wanted this list for myself. Thank you.
......Attachment styles: secure, anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, disorganized attached.
I practice the daily practice and felt a change at the first try 🎉
Anna suggestion is to try it for a week and you'll know it, you'll feel it, no need to believe, try for free and may be.... I wish it works for you as it works for me.
I'm 54, handicapped by my cptsd and i come back to life, in six months more changes happens and i go up more than down 🎉
It's not magic, but feels like for me, because nothing helped me and with the daily practice i can slowly add other things that helps me and i love to do.
I come from the rock bottom and it works for me, it's saves my life, my body was giving up.....😢
How wonderful! Thank you for sharing! Hope your comment will encourage others to try the Daily Practice. Keep up the great work on your healing!
Nika@TeamFairy
I remember getting a lot of unsolicited advice after having my first baby. So hard because I didn't have my family around to help me out. It took me months before realizing that I didn't have to consider other's advice.
Thank you Anna to be aware of "confusion", check if i'm in denying???
The loss of curiosity is the death of wisdom.....
Thank you for continuing to share your helpful content and insights. The portion in which you talked about attunement, and not projecting your busyness or physical fatigue on others, and how doing so can cause people to not contact you or invite you in the future. That makes a lot of sense, and is definitely something I am guilty of and will work on improving in the future.
Please start selling your fairy mug ❤ going to keep asking 😮🎉ps you will have 1million followers soon…how much you have done for so many…thank you Anna ❤australia ❤❤❤ I’ve just thought you should sell fairy pens as well sorry to be off topic 😮
I heard people talk about very high and very down, it's the first time i feel that way
Good sign those who told that did heal 😊🎉
Download that one
Thank you Anna 🧚♀️ Love those videos a lot of inspiration 😮 wow have to stop watching, my heart beats fast ❤
Anna is right, we have amazing power we ignore ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Don't be an opinion bully. I like this!❤
Hello, Anna. First of all, thank you (and the team) for these compilations. This couldn't have come at a better time. I'd like to ask: I'm from a country where we don't have anything similar to the 12-step program. Is it possible to find information or resources related to it if you don't reside in the US?
I get very triggered when I want to leave a party or event, or I turn down an invitation politely and people turn attention on me and say, “oh come on! You need to stay!” Or “you will have fun you will see!” Its like feeling trapped and I begin to panic. I dont know what to do.
Have an excuse ready. “I need to make a phone call 📞 “. “I need to get up early “. @ I need to take out my dog. 🐶 “
I once used the first excuse 😅and the controlling narcissist asked me to make the phone call there. 😅
I don’t hang out with these people anymore.
Your trigger or feeling trapped is your inner child. When you ignore her/him, he/she gets louder. Listen 👂 and honor him/her. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ Thank you!
@ 🙏🌻❤️🙏🌻❤️🌻❤️💚🌻❤️😻😻😻😘😘😘😘
You got this!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
One good tool to help with getting regulated is the Daily Practice. When we heal, it is much easier to handle social situations when they get uncomfortable. You can learn the Daily Practice for free here: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice
Nika@TeamFairy
My ex had doting parents. Indian family. At 20 both parents killed in a plane crash. He’s anxious avoidant. Like an earthquake. Attentive and slightly anxious and then bam out of nowhere paranoid avoidant. Manipulative. So painful for me.
This sounds hard, but we're glad you are here.
Nika@TeamFairy
Gossip... Run
Anna sais "no" with all her body 😅, never date someone who in a relationship!!! So true 🥰🙏
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904k subs 🎉🎉🎉 almost 😅 there!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you fairy I have seen this in myself
Thanks for sharing