These ideas are really thoughtful and meaningful- thank you! ❤ I am decluttering one holiday tradition this year. It’s a $5.00 mystery gift-exchange game that always happens with my dad’s side of the family. This always stresses me out because you have to get something that will be appropriate for any age, which is a nearly impossible task…Even if you bought something that all people need and regularly buy (like a toothbrush), it probably won’t be the exact kind they like to use, and/or they will likely complain that it’s a boring gift. 😒 Also, I always end up with something I do not need nor want, so I just give it away or end up having to donate it…which usually offends the person who bought the item, and/or people call me “picky” or say I’m “too good for it” or something like that…😑 So I’m just not going to participate in it this year! 😌 I’m sure people will also have something to say about my decision to not participate (“I guess you’re just too good for it”), but I don’t care, and I don’t even owe an explanation! 🥳
This is a nice reminder to everyone of what to keep a check on and what categories to look through when considering decluttering. Reminding ourselves of the mental and virtual decluttering as well as the physical is essential. Great well reasoned and delivered video, Lia.
thank you for reminding us to let go sentences that can limit us, from others ideas or self sabotage, time to let go this, yes, thank you !!! :) 🥰 to train our mind to go towards our dreams, yes, thank you for your boost energy 😍
i am working to declutter my fears, mental beliefs that limit me from my dream and daring to do it :) so i remind myself each time this negative not useful ideas come up that they are not real, :) and i train my brain since few months :) so i feel ready to create with no pressure what i feel and make me happy :) (no more of : i should because mental logical external reason :)
thank you for such a good video! some things I am decluttering before 2023 include: wall decor I don't like, old text messages, storage containers for my room that I don't use, and old books!
Hello Lia ! What a great video ! You achieve to go around every aspects of life, congratulations 😀 I don't wash declutter videos anymore because it's usually always the same but you give yours an other dimension ! And I'm still blown away by your english speaking skills ☺️ I appreciate each and every video you create, have a great day and I wish you all the best 🌿💐
This was very timely for me. I'm always focused on the clothes but I have stacks of books I inherited years ago that I have never read. Its just too much. Time to pass them on.
When you talk about the things in the "to do list" you talk adout doing them and be done with it. But another option is to actually let go of those things. In my case I use to fix the staff that is broken, but some times those things just pile up. And I have to get rid of the thigs that I know I won't do, same with home projects and things like that. When you honestly know that you are not going to do it, is important to let it go and not having all that things in the to do list. Saludos from Argentina 💜
My mom keeps telling me that my buzzcut doesn't suit me every time I visit her. It's not holding me back, obviously, because I have already cut my hair 🤣 But it kinda weighs on me. I do really enjoy my appearance, no matter what hairstyle I have. So, I guess, I just have to embrace the fact that my closest person isn't comfortable with how I look anymore 😅 If someone is reading this, I would like to have a piece of advice on the situation. Sounds silly, I know, but it is as it is 🤣 I feel so much pressure when I visit my mom, though I've been living in another city for 7 years already. P.S. Thank you for the video, Lia! It's extremely helpful 🥰
Ah, this. I was once guilty of reactively telling my son that I didn’t think his long fohawk hairstyle suited him. He told me that he really liked the look and was (rightfully) hurt by the criticism. I needed to hear that. So the truth is ~ your mom doesn’t have to like your look, you do. But make sure to tell her exactly what you said here. It’s not silly. It is important for her to know that she’s hurt your feelings and now you feel you’ve let her down somehow. Moms can have tunnel vision when it comes to their kids, but the love is (usually!) unconditional. Be yourself. Your mom doesn’t see you all of the time now, so in her mind, you still look the way she remembers you. Send her lots of photos so that she can see who you are now on a regular basis. It will help her to reset the mental image of the amazing and happy daughter she loves.
I wish my friends would stop trying to convince me I need a microwave. I have no need for microwave, when I have use of an oven. They want the microwave for me. Yet I don't need it for myself. I have an oven. Hello!
I'll like to declutter My Fantasy Self and just be me 😁
I’d like to declutter myself and just be my fantasy. 😂😂
@@jessiemarie3147 That's a solution too! 😆
That is what I am doing. My theme for 2023 is “back to the basics”
Oh God YES... the number if clothes I've hoarded for yeeears because Maybe One Day I will wake up and be that fantasy movie version of myself.... smh
Thank you! This really got me going 😅
These ideas are really thoughtful and meaningful- thank you! ❤
I am decluttering one holiday tradition this year. It’s a $5.00 mystery gift-exchange game that always happens with my dad’s side of the family. This always stresses me out because you have to get something that will be appropriate for any age, which is a nearly impossible task…Even if you bought something that all people need and regularly buy (like a toothbrush), it probably won’t be the exact kind they like to use, and/or they will likely complain that it’s a boring gift. 😒 Also, I always end up with something I do not need nor want, so I just give it away or end up having to donate it…which usually offends the person who bought the item, and/or people call me “picky” or say I’m “too good for it” or something like that…😑
So I’m just not going to participate in it this year! 😌 I’m sure people will also have something to say about my decision to not participate (“I guess you’re just too good for it”), but I don’t care, and I don’t even owe an explanation! 🥳
This is a nice reminder to everyone of what to keep a check on and what categories to look through when considering decluttering. Reminding ourselves of the mental and virtual decluttering as well as the physical is essential. Great well reasoned and delivered video, Lia.
i finally got rid of the clothes and shoes i hated so kuch today i feel such a relief
I just watched your video shaving your hair and I think the growth has been beautiful, I will definitely do it myself now
Thanks also for declutter advise on mental things like restrictions etc. So good!! 💗🙏🏼
thank you for reminding us to let go sentences that can limit us, from others ideas or self sabotage, time to let go this, yes, thank you !!! :) 🥰 to train our mind to go towards our dreams, yes, thank you for your boost energy 😍
🎉 thank you for this video! It gave me the courage to finally put a video on my channel. Here's to 2023!
keep reassuring me in my decluttering journey like this and i'll literally fall in love with you.
i am working to declutter my fears, mental beliefs that limit me from my dream and daring to do it :) so i remind myself each time this negative not useful ideas come up that they are not real, :) and i train my brain since few months :) so i feel ready to create with no pressure what i feel and make me happy :) (no more of : i should because mental logical external reason :)
thank you for such a good video! some things I am decluttering before 2023 include: wall decor I don't like, old text messages, storage containers for my room that I don't use, and old books!
This one was sooo good, Lia! Thank you so much! I will come back to it when I do my yearly review and planning for 2023.
👍 perfect Video. And by the way I like your hair 👌😍 Greetings from South Africa 😘🙋🏻♀️
You can also give food you will not use to Food Banks for people who can not afford to buy food in England.
Hello Lia ! What a great video ! You achieve to go around every aspects of life, congratulations 😀 I don't wash declutter videos anymore because it's usually always the same but you give yours an other dimension ! And I'm still blown away by your english speaking skills ☺️ I appreciate each and every video you create, have a great day and I wish you all the best 🌿💐
This was very timely for me. I'm always focused on the clothes but I have stacks of books I inherited years ago that I have never read. Its just too much. Time to pass them on.
very useful and great as always!!! Thanks!!!
When you talk about the things in the "to do list" you talk adout doing them and be done with it. But another option is to actually let go of those things. In my case I use to fix the staff that is broken, but some times those things just pile up. And I have to get rid of the thigs that I know I won't do, same with home projects and things like that. When you honestly know that you are not going to do it, is important to let it go and not having all that things in the to do list.
Saludos from Argentina 💜
Very good points! I agree! ... Puuh so much work to do 🤪🤣😅
Step by step 🐢. . .
I decluttered my daughters playroom. I was actually embarrassed at the excess tbh. I donated lots.
Really great video and has reminded me and give me a kick up the bum to get rid! Merry Christmas Lia & Family xxx
Excellent. Thankyou :)
100% agree!
I bought my books with good money, so i’m gonna treat these books as my decorative items 😂
Decorative, but still usefull
You can always put a hairclip of hairband in your hair.😊
My mom keeps telling me that my buzzcut doesn't suit me every time I visit her. It's not holding me back, obviously, because I have already cut my hair 🤣 But it kinda weighs on me. I do really enjoy my appearance, no matter what hairstyle I have. So, I guess, I just have to embrace the fact that my closest person isn't comfortable with how I look anymore 😅 If someone is reading this, I would like to have a piece of advice on the situation. Sounds silly, I know, but it is as it is 🤣 I feel so much pressure when I visit my mom, though I've been living in another city for 7 years already.
P.S. Thank you for the video, Lia! It's extremely helpful 🥰
Be you always Aelyn xxx
Ah, this. I was once guilty of reactively telling my son that I didn’t think his long fohawk hairstyle suited him. He told me that he really liked the look and was (rightfully) hurt by the criticism. I needed to hear that. So the truth is ~ your mom doesn’t have to like your look, you do. But make sure to tell her exactly what you said here. It’s not silly. It is important for her to know that she’s hurt your feelings and now you feel you’ve let her down somehow. Moms can have tunnel vision when it comes to their kids, but the love is (usually!) unconditional. Be yourself. Your mom doesn’t see you all of the time now, so in her mind, you still look the way she remembers you. Send her lots of photos so that she can see who you are now on a regular basis. It will help her to reset the mental image of the amazing and happy daughter she loves.
I wish my friends would stop trying to convince me I need a microwave. I have no need for microwave, when I have use of an oven.
They want the microwave for me. Yet I don't need it for myself. I have an oven. Hello!
I hate the morning, I get up as late as possible. Early rising just makes the day overly long and painstaking just to get to mid-day.
I love the morning. It's the only people-free time of the day. My brain works better and there's nobody around to distract me.
yes I have my ex's clothing! I need to mail it back.
我爸妈超喜欢囤吃的，然后我一定要定期清理，每次都会发现很多已经过期的😮
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好的哦
Hi! 🤗🌟
此刻正在整理书的我🎉
Item #1: the microwave. It takes up so much space and it sends out unhealthy radio waves. Bye! 👋