Destroying our lives through lazy or fantasy thinking | Conor Neill | Leadership
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- Destroying our lives through lazy or fantasy thinking
“I hate my job” - what parts exactly?
Life is richer than black and white
Solve the solveable problems
Design thinking… curiosity take time to get the question correct - what exactly do you like and what exactly do you not like?
Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water
Constraints - choose them - where you want to live, what types of problems you want to work on, meaning,
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
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Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
What is Persuasion?
* What does it take to move people to action?
* What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
* How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.
Where do I begin?
The Complete Guide to Personal Habits: 158 Positive Reflections in 7 Categories to Be The Best Version of Yourself bit.ly/1Z3baAz
10 Personal Habits of Resilient People bit.ly/2N0PqsQ
14 Things Highly Productive People Do Differently bit.ly/2MXWdU9
Simple Rules for Effective Meetings bit.ly/2N8A2KK
6 Ways to get your Email Ignored bit.ly/2MXWCpD
17 Daily personal habits for a fulfilling life bit.ly/2MXWM0d
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Looking back I've seen where a lack of this led to bad decisions, but from marriage to fatherhood helps to push back on lazy thinking once you accept the challenge. Good one Conor 👏
What a beautiful talk.
Cheers Conor, timely and pragmattic input.
I loved the part on your daughter's story sacrificing job offers. thank you.
Thank you conor, it was a great reflection ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks ! Dear ! Conor Neil for such a Lovely Message , God bless You and Your fly 🙏.
Thank you too!
Great advice! Thanks for sharing!
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks.... it's certainly compelling
Glad you think so!
Thanks Conor ! Great thoughts to think about... again :)
That inspire me that "Freedom is also the ability to choose our constraints"
Dan Sullivan describes 2 types of freedom - freedom from and freedom to... "freedom from" is that you don't "have to" do anything... "freedom to" is the freedom to dedicate and commit yourself to a cause that is important to you
@@ConorNeill Yes, I see the idea :) Thanks for taking that time to answer me ... I must tell that you are my main reference when I want to motivate my audience ! Your simplicity and your humanity is a real inspiration to me ! Thanks again for your generosity ...
I love this! I believe that a perspective of positivity will literally blind you to any negativity!
Positivity is great... except when it means you ignore the signs of decay
@@ConorNeill very true! Thanks!
Yes, :) very true
🙏
@@ConorNeill ;)
Thanks Conor. I’ve noticed the habit of journalling coming up in a a few of your videos. It would be great to have a post on exactly how you structure your thinking through writing. This could be through examples of some of the questions you ask yourself and the process you go through. Just a suggestion and thanks for taking the time to put all this great content out for free.
I have a few old posts and videos on journaling here’s one 3 Benefits of Keeping a Journal
th-cam.com/video/Niou-6HrqVo/w-d-xo.html
Great stuff, Conor. I notice when I'm tired (late afternoons and evenings) or just plain worn out, my thinking gets black and white and is usually very unhelpful.
My classic lazy thinking is falsely believing that because I didn't accomplish all 10 or 15 items on my to-do list, that means I didn't succeed that day.
I try to use my mornings, when I'm sharpest, to do that type of journaling you mentioned, and then I use that clear thinking and momentum to plan my day and take action.
Tiredness and stress really reduce our thinking
Lazy thinking is something I have when I’m tire . Nice view .
You and me both... stress, tiredness, being in a rush... all reduce quality of thinking
Lazy thinking by people you depend on can really mess up your life.
wow... now that is a whole new video in itself!!! good perspective... how to spot when others are living in fantasy thinking... I love it when people say "no" or are conscious about their capacity (skill, time and motivation) to deliver on their promises
How've you Been ?? Im happy to have Seen you in This beautiful nature. Where IS this place ??
You're a Light into Our lives.
Thank you - this is the Montserrat mountain, about 40kms outside Barcelona
Just by reading the title i know I am guilty of it way too much than i could say,
I call it the Walter Mitty effect (~fantasy thinking) good movie tho 😅
I like your name for the effect! good movie ;-) 🎥🎥🎥