I was involved with a narcissist that really wanted me back in his life and he hovered me for 15 years. He told me that I am the only one he wants. He was experiencing health issues and he gave up on me and settled for a supply who became his caregiver, servant, taxi driver and mommy. New supply spent less and less time with him and he died alone in his own house. I was addicted to him and I really wanted him but at the same time my selfworth was important to me.
“Addictive to each other” is very true! I am in this narcissistic marriage and I see the addiction very clear on both sides. It’s terrible and I don’t know how to get out. I’ve tried so many times. If I were addicted to heroin I could go to a rehab but I feel like there is no help for this! I wish I could open a place for all of us to go and get healed but we are so far apart all over the world and it’s so complicated because no one understands like we do.
Her and I have been separated since end of October , a 12 year relationship and five years of marriage , she walked out , didn’t hear from in over a month , lawyer is working on it , but the pain , and to realize that yu we’re used and tossed away ,, I put myself in isolation ,, the pain isn’t as bad as it was ,, but it hurts ,, but if yu walk away ,, they only got a piece of yu ,, not all of yu ,,,, it’s not easy ,, but yu can do it , if YOU choose …. Good luck ,, remember yu are not alone ..
😢I’m so sorry if you believe in God the Almighty the most pray please pray Tina I don’t know you but I understand I been no contact 3 mo it’s very hard
My ex cruelly devalued me on a daily basis, withheld affection and intimacy, and discarded me twice - even her kids joined devalued me. When I left, I was accused of discarding her even though she had discarded me only days prior.
addicted to each other, so TRUE. However no way to live in that chaos. After 3 years I couldn't take anymore of the madness and ended the engagement. Thank the LORD for not getting married. Although I am going through a tremendous healing process, I feel a sense of calm and I know I am better. Her expiration date came and I am proud that I ENDED IT!!!
You have arrived at the start. Happy to see you in real life. You just left your shared fantasy. Leave your narc and join us healthy people. Stay strong and go for it! Every day narcless is a day won. Less misery. Thrive by loving yourself. And create bounderies. Bounderies define who you are and who you want to be. Stop, no furter, you are dealing with me. X
This makes sense. I'm codependent & I abandoned him 3 years ago!!!! Ill see him soon in court but he shows up virtually, every month, even tho I have a restraining order!!
Say you're jou full of shit to your narc or say I love you though you're full of shit. There's no difference and your narc knows. So you will be treated like shit.Narcs cannot handle truth.
Narcissists should just date each other and keep the abuse to themselves. They both can get the chaos they want. The ups and downs. The victimization. Oh wait but for it to work the projection of their emotions needs to land and be absorbed by the other person, and they both can’t do that. It would be like two magnets of the same side. Never mind. 😂
My husband of 12 years discarded me and is currently shacked up with the secretary from his work Apparently he was ready for a new toy and despised my stability. He's the devils Spawn. Back in 2015 he cheated on me 14 months after my son passed away. I made a huge mistake by staying. I honestly don't believe I had the strength to leave at that time. Huge error on my part because when he discarded me,it was so very brutal
@killjoyredux8361 he ghosted me and im on 9 days of no contacting him. I still have a divorce to deal with. He left May 13th with an overnight bag. He still has a bunch of shit here but I took his clothes out of my closet and put them in the pole barn
Sadly I’m too old n I can’t barely bother to connect to go deeper within me as I’ve been doing that for my entire life n I’m exhausted of life n I don’t want the guilt over killing myself just because I have nothing left in me to even feed my dogs or go fetch a bucket of water to drink living in the worst conditions that I totally get I put myself in
I was w him for 45 years. Our daughter hated me and was always in competition with her brother. I now see how my x is using my daughter. Could you talk about parental alienation? I don't know if you have knowledge in this area. I watched him use triangulation against me w so many people including both our children who are now adults. Both adult kids have abandoned me. They don't see their dad's manipulation against me. He is cunning- a lot of machavalianism also.
I was involved with a narcissist that really wanted me back in his life and he hovered me for 15 years. He told me that I am the only one he wants. He was experiencing health issues and he gave up on me and settled for a supply who became his caregiver, servant, taxi driver and mommy. New supply spent less and less time with him and he died alone in his own house. I was addicted to him and I really wanted him but at the same time my selfworth was important to me.
“Addictive to each other” is very true! I am in this narcissistic marriage and I see the addiction very clear on both sides. It’s terrible and I don’t know how to get out. I’ve tried so many times. If I were addicted to heroin I could go to a rehab but I feel like there is no help for this! I wish I could open a place for all of us to go and get healed but we are so far apart all over the world and it’s so complicated because no one understands like we do.
Jesus is the way...the truth and the life..
Amen ! ❤️
Her and I have been separated since end of October , a 12 year relationship and five years of marriage , she walked out , didn’t hear from in over a month , lawyer is working on it , but the pain , and to realize that yu we’re used and tossed away ,, I put myself in isolation ,, the pain isn’t as bad as it was ,, but it hurts ,, but if yu walk away ,, they only got a piece of yu ,, not all of yu ,,,, it’s not easy ,, but yu can do it , if YOU choose …. Good luck ,, remember yu are not alone ..
😢I’m so sorry if you believe in God the Almighty the most pray please pray Tina I don’t know you but I understand I been no contact 3 mo it’s very hard
Prayers, lots of prayer ❤️🩹
Imagine a world without narcissists. Literally heaven. Would have saved a lot of people from mental breakdown
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After awhile it s 😂
Not to mention wars. Stalin, Hitler, Pol Pot, Putin and maybe not Trump. If we keep alert.
Make narcissism illegal
My ex cruelly devalued me on a daily basis, withheld affection and intimacy, and discarded me twice - even her kids joined devalued me. When I left, I was accused of discarding her even though she had discarded me only days prior.
No one will ever treat him like i did and he will never find it again
Way to go! Please prosper.
I feel the sane about my wife. Soon to be ex-wife.
That's why they have kids.
addicted to each other, so TRUE. However no way to live in that chaos. After 3 years I couldn't take anymore of the madness and ended the engagement. Thank the LORD for not getting married. Although I am going through a tremendous healing process, I feel a sense of calm and I know I am better. Her expiration date came and I am proud that I ENDED IT!!!
You have arrived at the start. Happy to see you in real life. You just left your shared fantasy. Leave your narc and join us healthy people. Stay strong and go for it! Every day narcless is a day won. Less misery. Thrive by loving yourself. And create bounderies. Bounderies define who you are and who you want to be. Stop, no furter, you are dealing with me. X
This makes sense. I'm codependent & I abandoned him 3 years ago!!!! Ill see him soon in court but he shows up virtually, every month, even tho I have a restraining order!!
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Even if you stroke their ego they know deep down they're lieing to themselves so they know your lieing as well.
Say you're jou full of shit to your narc or say I love you though you're full of shit. There's no difference and your narc knows. So you will be treated like shit.Narcs cannot handle truth.
So True...
Narcissists should just date each other and keep the abuse to themselves. They both can get the chaos they want. The ups and downs. The victimization. Oh wait but for it to work the projection of their emotions needs to land and be absorbed by the other person, and they both can’t do that. It would be like two magnets of the same side. Never mind. 😂
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Sometimes they get it from their Narcissistic family members.
Her mother. Yep
Truth. All his narc brothers...5.
Mines is the malignant narcissist . The worst one.
Stop owning, go for yourself. Let your narc have it. Go.
I was addicted and he was addicted to me , not anymore
My husband of 12 years discarded me and is currently shacked up with the secretary from his work Apparently he was ready for a new toy and despised my stability. He's the devils Spawn.
Back in 2015 he cheated on me 14 months after my son passed away. I made a huge mistake by staying. I honestly don't believe I had the strength to leave at that time. Huge error on my part because when he discarded me,it was so very brutal
Gosh
I hope you're doing OK
@killjoyredux8361 many ups and downs currently. Not fun but nothing much I can do,one foot in front of the other. Ty🙏
@@ladyvirgo013 are you away from him completely? Indeed. It's a marathon not a sprint
@killjoyredux8361 he ghosted me and im on 9 days of no contacting him. I still have a divorce to deal with. He left May 13th with an overnight bag. He still has a bunch of shit here but I took his clothes out of my closet and put them in the pole barn
I was with demons too. Sometimes the monster isn’t under your bed, he’s in it. Long healing process and praying for karma because that is fair.
Thanks ! 👍
BPD also take more than they give. Narcs are easier to spot(in my opinion) Both should not be in relationships
Sadly I’m too old n I can’t barely bother to connect to go deeper within me as I’ve been doing that for my entire life n I’m exhausted of life n I don’t want the guilt over killing myself just because I have nothing left in me to even feed my dogs or go fetch a bucket of water to drink living in the worst conditions that I totally get I put myself in
Gosh I'm so sorry!
But if the narcissist lies about everything they’ve done than I was building his lies up not his truth
I was w him for 45 years. Our daughter hated me and was always in competition with her brother. I now see how my x is using my daughter. Could you talk about parental alienation?
I don't know if you have knowledge in this area. I watched him use triangulation against me w so many people including both our children who are now adults. Both adult kids have abandoned me. They don't see their dad's manipulation against me. He is cunning- a lot of machavalianism also.
I know someone it's a lady that my ex-narc has been cheating with me for years she's in love with him there is nothing he can do wrong in her eyes.
That won't last. Trust me.
Spanish subtitle please bro, thanks