Let's get real. There is no such thing as someone realizing they lost you. They simply will push their feelings aside to avoid shame or make you out to be the bad guy, but they will never see you as a lost. On the flip side, they will always look for you in other people. Go figure.
My ex girlfriend DA broke up with me about 6 or 7 weeks ago. She made vague excuses to break up with me. She wouldn't really tell me what she was dealing with. But I knew she was going through something mentally. Then 2 or 3 weeks ago she makes a post online praising some guy to make me jealous and attempt to get angry reaction out me. I didn't respond. She has confessed to people that she was a bad girlfriend to me. I doubt she would ever try to come back because mostly she knows I would reject her and use the vague excuses as a reason not to reach out.
Wow this is similar to my situation. I felt my ex posted things with another girl to get a reaction out of me. After discarding me, I just don’t understand the point of why he would do that…haven’t u done enough damage ..no mercy ..I don’t get it
@@GesuHeche-fv4hx Right. I believe my ex tried to get an angry reaction out of me to justify her breaking up with me as a the right decision. I will give her that. She will have to iive her bad decisions for the rest of her life.
As da in recovery, 5 years +, I never looked back, when relationship was over, or contact any of my ex. I think you are talking about fa, leaning on dissmisive side or narc...I never had healty relationship, no helty person would participate 🤷♀️ we are emotionaly closed, very logical.I never cheated,..., have friends, I am a good mother...still have a lot of fears, but with therapy, thriving. If you are thinking of taking back your ex...advice...if he is taking therapy, is good comunicstor, didnt cheat, or lie, can tske acountability, then you try, but it had to be their decition an effort at the begining ❤
Equal give and take.. we teach people how to treat us . Which is sad because they would much rather go elsewhere rather work things. It all vines across as a cat and mouse game
As she said towards the end of video. Due to everyone and every situation being different these labels are loose and not meant to fit and perfectly describe a person. They just generally describe behavior that could happen. Im sure there are DAs that dont look back
I've thought about it. What am i going to do? Tell her dad she cheated on me? I'll get an AVO on me accused of stalking. As painful as it is, walk away. Find a new life, and that's what I'm doing.
Let's get real. There is no such thing as someone realizing they lost you. They simply will push their feelings aside to avoid shame or make you out to be the bad guy, but they will never see you as a lost. On the flip side, they will always look for you in other people. Go figure.
Women do it.
My ex girlfriend DA broke up with me about 6 or 7 weeks ago. She made vague excuses to break up with me. She wouldn't really tell me what she was dealing with. But I knew she was going through something mentally. Then 2 or 3 weeks ago she makes a post online praising some guy to make me jealous and attempt to get angry reaction out me. I didn't respond. She has confessed to people that she was a bad girlfriend to me. I doubt she would ever try to come back because mostly she knows I would reject her and use the vague excuses as a reason not to reach out.
Wow this is similar to my situation. I felt my ex posted things with another girl to get a reaction out of me. After discarding me, I just don’t understand the point of why he would do that…haven’t u done enough damage ..no mercy ..I don’t get it
@@GesuHeche-fv4hx Right. I believe my ex tried to get an angry reaction out of me to justify her breaking up with me as a the right decision. I will give her that. She will have to iive her bad decisions for the rest of her life.
As da in recovery, 5 years +, I never looked back, when relationship was over, or contact any of my ex. I think you are talking about fa, leaning on dissmisive side or narc...I never had healty relationship, no helty person would participate 🤷♀️ we are emotionaly closed, very logical.I never cheated,..., have friends, I am a good mother...still have a lot of fears, but with therapy, thriving. If you are thinking of taking back your ex...advice...if he is taking therapy, is good comunicstor, didnt cheat, or lie, can tske acountability, then you try, but it had to be their decition an effort at the begining ❤
Equal give and take.. we teach people how to treat us . Which is sad because they would much rather go elsewhere rather work things. It all vines across as a cat and mouse game
What about the dismissive avoidant type that never looks back? I know many DAs that say so, do they still fit as passive or are a different type?
As she said towards the end of video. Due to everyone and every situation being different these labels are loose and not meant to fit and perfectly describe a person. They just generally describe behavior that could happen. Im sure there are DAs that dont look back
Protip: move on
And the dumper escapes punishment again.
@marguskiis7711 As the person always dumped, this is advice I'm giving myself for next time.
@@lythsian maybe you should punish the dumper next time someway?
I've thought about it. What am i going to do? Tell her dad she cheated on me? I'll get an AVO on me accused of stalking. As painful as it is, walk away. Find a new life, and that's what I'm doing.
Is it applicable with bipolar disorder?
Will my gay ex ever talk to me again he is a dismissive avoidant and told me he wants nothing to do with me ?