How to Confront Your Toxic In-Laws

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  • @Debrahaynes1
    @Debrahaynes1 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    I was homeless, did drugs, went into prison, where I got to know God. He changed my life. Now I have a home, a wife and a lovely year old daughter, and a stream of income that gets me $27,000 ObrigadaWeekly. Plus a new identity a child of God. Hallelujah!!

    • @MonicaAnderson-y8g
      @MonicaAnderson-y8g 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What a testimony! I'm glad you got your life back together

    • @MonicaAnderson-y8g
      @MonicaAnderson-y8g 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm curious to know how you earn that much weekly

    • @Debrahaynes1
      @Debrahaynes1 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    • @Debrahaynes1
      @Debrahaynes1 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I Thank God for Bringing Mrs Laura Lee Fair service into my life, I'm happy for God's grace have found me..Amen

    • @AlexCook-k3u
      @AlexCook-k3u 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The miracle of God is flowing Wow I'm just shocked you mentioned Laura Lee Fair, thought I'm the only one trading with her. She's a perfect teacher.

  • @kimdisharoon9563
    @kimdisharoon9563 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    We have in law issues and we did it wrong and now 20yrs later it is still the most stressful time of the year. He does his family and I volunteer at a homeless shelter on Christmas eve. 25th we do breakfast for anyone that shows up. Then I crash from being up 2days.

    • @BonnieNeely-p5m
      @BonnieNeely-p5m 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well understood 😂❤.

  • @cherbears4446
    @cherbears4446 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Awe! Mines opposite I am so happy to cut off and do our own thing

  • @joyfulhomemaker8053
    @joyfulhomemaker8053 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    15:00 YES! The actual adult child to the family there is conflict w, that adult child must be the one to have the conversation w the family.
    I absolutely love my in-laws and we get along great but occasionally things pop up that are or could be conflicting so my husband handles the conversations.
    HOWEVER, I will also add that there have been times where my family is abusive toward me (not using hyperbole or being sarcastic) and he has had to step in and protect me and be the one the confront them. But typically, even w that side, I am the one that deals w them.

  • @JosephRomero-pk9cu
    @JosephRomero-pk9cu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My wife has toxic parents and it took a while because she Philippines, but now she setting healthy boundaries

  • @JosephRomero-pk9cu
    @JosephRomero-pk9cu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Pastor Mark for sharing this

  • @tenbomas9463
    @tenbomas9463 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am a mother of 4. I am the pusher and my husband is the puller. My husband is the head of our home but this is were we differ when it comes to our two sons.

  • @anthonymusso5282
    @anthonymusso5282 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This happen to me, it's hard to watch this video. She left. It was the perfect storm. No father in picture, child trauma, mom herself not in a healthy relationship, she had only girls, her mom was the matriarch and pulled the im sad, im unhappy often. My wife was a rope. I was pulling and her mother was. My wife decided to let go of me

  • @LisaLove1113-p6k
    @LisaLove1113-p6k 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We have been married since 1988.
    My outlaws have been rude nasty and insulting to me for 36 years, they are not Christians. Yes the mother in-law has been the driving force.
    Frankly you are just dumb to treat your daughter in law badly because WE HAVE NOTHING TO WITH THEM BECAUSE OF HER. NOT SMART IRMA ROSE.

  • @JosephRomero-pk9cu
    @JosephRomero-pk9cu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We break the curse of forgetting in Jesus name over Pastor Mark

  • @vanessaverner8480
    @vanessaverner8480 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Again Mark is not a therapist. When he becomes a medically licensed counselor, then he can speak on things having to do with psychology. Is Mark a sociologist? No.

    • @vjrachdouni
      @vjrachdouni 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Beg your pardon? Which part of this specifically do you take issue with to make such a comment like this. Especially, to a Pastor who has been in ministry for over 30 years, a beautiful family, healthy relationships with extended family, a faithful marriage and a blossoming ministry. Lacking a piece of paper doesnt necessary disqualify someone of his ilk from blessing others with the fruits of the word and creating healthy family structures.

    • @vanessaverner8480
      @vanessaverner8480 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ again where is the education in phycology and the license to have the qualifications to speak on these matters.
      1. Mark’s education is in theology
      2. Mark’s job is being a preacher
      3. Two totally different areas in life.
      4. Leave mental healthcare to those professionals. Leave spiritual care to those professionals.
      5. Would you go to the doctor for a brain tumor?

    • @vjrachdouni
      @vjrachdouni 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@vanessaverner8480 he has a sermon series coming directly from scripture that talks healthy family structures. I go to God first with whatever it is going on. Doctors and medical professionals are good, God is great and His Word is life giving and overrules anyone and everyone including a therapist. I encourage you to not be so hell bent on only listening to people who have a certification. Once more, what exactly are you taking issue with from his session? You said psychology and mental health but I'm not clear on what as it relates to the podcast.

  • @jaimereynolds258
    @jaimereynolds258 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why do so many people have issues with in-laws? Weird.

    • @BonnieNeely-p5m
      @BonnieNeely-p5m 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Because some people are controlling a$$ holes who don't know how to mind their own business.

    • @jaimereynolds258
      @jaimereynolds258 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @BonnieNeely-p5m Apparently lol

    • @BonnieNeely-p5m
      @BonnieNeely-p5m 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@jaimereynolds258 I pray you are blessed with a good and loving family. Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

    • @jaimereynolds258
      @jaimereynolds258 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@BonnieNeely-p5m Great family, step family, and in-laws. I got lucky.
      Have a Merry Christmas and happy New Year also ❤️🤗

    • @vanessaverner8480
      @vanessaverner8480 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@BonnieNeely-p5mmost of the world’s cultures are not set up the way Mark is telling people to set up their family. Their way works because of the length of time that the culture has existed.