How You Know He’s A Husband?

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  • @LisaCPerry
    @LisaCPerry 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    Basically a man who exercise self control in all areas of life with emotional maturity is a viable candidate for marriage.

  • @PrettyDreadie
    @PrettyDreadie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    When I hear “Hey hey Tony Gaskins here” I know he bout to drop that heat 🔥 😅

    • @adrianaleon5753
      @adrianaleon5753 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same 😂🎯

    • @PrettyDreadie
      @PrettyDreadie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@adrianaleon5753 okaaaayyy !!! 😂

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True 😆

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sooo every video then? 😂😂 because he says this every video haha

    • @PrettyDreadie
      @PrettyDreadie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@EsiriE pretty much haha 😂

  • @meagon177
    @meagon177 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +449

    Point Blank Peri-yod.

    • @deenafleming4385
      @deenafleming4385 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      😂

    • @EiaWea
      @EiaWea 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Realness111
      @Realness111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂

    • @deaudrey85
      @deaudrey85 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BossAnjeil
      @BossAnjeil 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @kkandbeyond
    @kkandbeyond 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Dishonest money dwindles away, but he who gathers money little by little makes it grow.
    Proverbs 13:11

  • @PCF09
    @PCF09 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +191

    Facts on facts on facts. My dad has been smoking over 50 yrs and was diagnosed with lung cancer 2 yrs ago. He can get around with a walker but now my mom has to take care of him and do everything he cant do. He still smokes, his mind is bad, and he always upset about small things. I vowed to myself at a young age to never marry a man that smokes.

    • @PCF09
      @PCF09 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@Darling_Youcancallme but smoking and putting anything harmful in your body voluntarily speeds up the process and makes it worse. We have a history of cancer my grandfather - his father and one of his brothers died of cancer and aother brother caught his early. So knowing the history why add fuel to the fire.

    • @la6136
      @la6136 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Darling_Youcancallme A large percent of people who get lung cancer never smoked. The air is polluted with toxins we can not avoid unless you get very good air filters and stay indoors

    • @PCF09
      @PCF09 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Darling_Youcancallme Thanks...health issues that you can't help or is beyond your control is understandable but doing things that are harmful when you dont have to is not. One of my cousins died of lung cancer as well but she wasnt a smoker her husband was sadly.

    • @truh_von_tay
      @truh_von_tay 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good for you mamas. My mom smoked cigs so I share your sentiments. She stopped then picked back up after an incident with my stepdad but I believe she has stopped again.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You got that right they have serious issues with OCD..
      My ex-husband was a smoker and everything came around WHEN he would be smoking. He basically planned when he would smoke and what he would do while smoking 😮
      He talked about quitting but then he knew he would have to give up coffee because coffee was associated with his first cigarette of the day.😢
      I don't even know where my ex is now🤷🏼‍♀️
      I haven't talked to him in like 2 and 1/2 years. He was having problems with his throat and I was concerned. The last time I talked to him he also spoke with my daughter, his stepdaughter. And we haven't heard from him since. I don't even know if he's still alive😢
      Cigarettes are evil and my daughter nearly wasn't able to quit smoking, but she was determined to be pleasing to God. And she knew that she needed to quit that addiction in order to successfully please God.
      Some people may not understand why it would be displeasing to God. But there are some scriptures if someone needs me to bring them out.😊
      Sincerely TAMI 🙋🏼💞😇~⚔️ PROVERBS 27:17⚔️

  • @eskimosog
    @eskimosog 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    Self Control (no addictive personality)
    Work (working, consitently working)
    Emotional intelegence, good temper (not having pride that would not allow to serve a wife)
    And MOST important: Fear and respect God (being humble, admitting that he is not a God and that he is not in control of everything)

    • @onlyHEknowsme
      @onlyHEknowsme 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      And fears and respects God

    • @eskimosog
      @eskimosog 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@onlyHEknowsme the most important one!! how did I miss this!? adding to the list

    • @ry2yb
      @ry2yb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks!

    • @merlinsvdd
      @merlinsvdd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I dealt with a person who did the opposite of those things. Fuh. Thank goodness, i am out of his life.

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    Definitely want a man of GOD🙏🏾🙏🏾Lord please…❤I’m a Christian as well…living it not just talking!

    • @sanaimcclain
      @sanaimcclain 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Amen!

    • @dear_mscaines
      @dear_mscaines 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I had a man of God but his heart wasn’t in it like it should’ve been with God. Be sure to pray for someone healed! 🙏🏽

    • @Ms.Sipp40
      @Ms.Sipp40 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dear_mscaines all of them ain’t real! Agree!❤️

  • @alaysiavenable9993
    @alaysiavenable9993 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    He is a husband when he loves God more than he loves you or himself. He will always follow and lead according to God word in righteousness.

  • @BetterLoveMovement
    @BetterLoveMovement 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +329

    MOST of today’s “modern” men are NOT husband material.😑

    • @red_edj
      @red_edj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      💯

    • @Sunshann
      @Sunshann 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      They’ve never seen a husband

    • @cjbarber1138
      @cjbarber1138 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Are Most of today’s modern women wife material 🤔
      No shade, just asking…

    • @BetterLoveMovement
      @BetterLoveMovement 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cjbarber1138 Honestly, NO. Women need female mentors who can teach them how to BE wives and present themselves as such to receive their husband. That is what MY platform is all about. Women's standards need to RISE, for THEMSELVES and for the men they entertain.

    • @kristalliiite6408
      @kristalliiite6408 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Don't have a scarcity mindset because all you need is one.

  • @wandak1889
    @wandak1889 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Amen! I’ve been sober for almost 6 years. It completely got out of control and I had to check in to rehab and got GOD involved. Once I stand on my faith it’s a blessing every moment not to pick up a bottle. To all my brothers and sisters who are struggling please allow GOD in your life and you shall overcome!

    • @beverleyreid563
      @beverleyreid563 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Good for you.

    • @cuteblue2212
      @cuteblue2212 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.~ proverbs16:9
      Good on you brother!

  • @pat4502
    @pat4502 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Hey this make me realize I need to work on myself first…bcuz I like to drink…gotta be the change I want to see

  • @theyoMi
    @theyoMi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    TG you are absolutely SPOT ON! I dated a 48yo man a couple of years ago. No kids, had never been married (that was kind of suspect to me), made good money, and a great career. He was super generous with his funds. And even with all that, he drank like an ocean and smoked weed like a chimney. I gave it 6 months...NO THANK YOU!

  • @aliciashh7369
    @aliciashh7369 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    "Addictive" behaviors demonstrates "a lack of self control".

  • @Jay-v7y8x
    @Jay-v7y8x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    My ex husband had most of the traits Tony described. He eventually quit smoking cigarettes and marijuana. However, he continued to drink alcohol. The damage was done and he passed away at a young age after a 1 year battle with lung cancer. Tony is speaking the truth.

    • @ckezzy5011
      @ckezzy5011 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How old was he? Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾

    • @Jay-v7y8x
      @Jay-v7y8x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ckezzy5011 He was 61 years old.

  • @MersayW
    @MersayW 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I am currently going through a divorce now; this man has no self control and he curses like a sailor. I have already found me a place and I am moving on and never looking back.

    • @Jay-v7y8x
      @Jay-v7y8x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I don’t know your situation. I bet you’re making the right decision to move on.

  • @behindthescenesreviews6858
    @behindthescenesreviews6858 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Unfortunately I have never seen a Husband and I’m 35 years old…this type of man seems to be Rare🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Healerslightnlove
      @Healerslightnlove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m 51 and haven’t seen this as of yet. Just hold on, our husband coming❤😊

    • @sphinxkitty4951
      @sphinxkitty4951 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hang in there sister. I’m 29 and finally met my husband. He’s coming

  • @glowupwithdayday9033
    @glowupwithdayday9033 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Yes I love that he said "God sanctifies marriage🙌🏽🙌🏽"

  • @kat64470
    @kat64470 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    My dearly departed husband had cirrhosis of the liver. I married him not knowing he was a drunk. He’d put liquor in big gulp cups and his drink was vodka and I couldn’t smell it. I wasn’t used to it and totally missed it. I truly thought he was a casual drinker on special occasions. I miss him. But self control is a must.

  • @Kaye.Nicole
    @Kaye.Nicole 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    "No, you have an under development failure to launch man" 😂 so true. Unfortunately, some of us learn this lesson the hard way.

    • @yamimngomezulu8402
      @yamimngomezulu8402 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😹😹😹😹😹dude! As for ‘failure to launch!’

    • @merlinsvdd
      @merlinsvdd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes. Thank you, Tony.

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Tony told no lies. My ex was a wild drunk. I had to run for the hills!

    • @stephaniescott5757
      @stephaniescott5757 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m glad you did! God will send you someone that’s right for me

  • @atonoflove992
    @atonoflove992 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Any man outside of the will of GOD, not bearing the fruit of righteousness is NOT an option. I will NEVER again settle.

  • @dancerdancer313
    @dancerdancer313 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This is solid! Thanks for this information! 🙏🏽
    Tony, you should consider creating "The Tony Gaskins Academy For Men" to teach men how to be men and leaders. Men severely lack positive influences and mentors. Then these men get married and can't lead their family nor be a functioning husband. Single men need you even more. You can have your academy open to local men to enroll, plus men can enroll internationally for the online aspect of the academy. Just an idea.
    Men also need to be taught how to interact with women in a proper, respectful, non-aggressive manner. NO MEANS NO! Men shouldn't be forcing themselves on women nor forcing them to do things they don't want to do. A woman or young lady rejecting a man's romantic advances doesn't give him the right to end her life. A 19 year old girl in New York was recently stabbed to death by a man she rejected at a bodega. Of course there's the horrendous Miya Marcano story out of Florida that happened in 2021. There's too many stories like this.

  • @Jazz.Ministry
    @Jazz.Ministry 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Done got me a degenerate” 😂😂😂 Tony is funny and don’t even be trying to be funny this was the realest 15 minute video 🔥😆💯

  • @SistahJay27
    @SistahJay27 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I thank God for you Tony.
    You’re the realist out here frfr I appreciate you saying that about that dinner time. My food is always cold after serving my kids first, some folks need to grow up. If anything, we all sit down to eat as a family and we eat together. Point, blank, periodt! ❤

  • @Doctor.Dentista
    @Doctor.Dentista 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Right out the gate, no self-control ✅ I married a people pleaser, shopaholic male with a porn addiction. He’s a very “nice” guy, but no self control and no boundaries. Marriage was miserable

  • @NyahHarper
    @NyahHarper 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Temperament/patience, emotional intelligence, fear and reverence for God, good decision making, self control

  • @FernGray
    @FernGray 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    “Then you know, okay, I got me a degenerate..” lord-T have mercy I’m choking TG! 😅

    • @womenofGod52
      @womenofGod52 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @cuteblue2212
      @cuteblue2212 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😀

  • @ElleJae-b9q
    @ElleJae-b9q 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    The most accurate thing I’ve heard in a moment. Emotional Intelligence

  • @alonzoteamerjr
    @alonzoteamerjr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had to come back a watch again. Love this message and still learning. Thank you Tony keep up the good work.

  • @onehappichic7099
    @onehappichic7099 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m learning to prioritize emotional intelligence now that I’m older. It’s vital in a relationship. Thanks Tony for dropping these gems 💎

  • @deezsugah
    @deezsugah 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Facts! How they treat themselves will be the tone of how they treat you!

  • @mscustomerservice
    @mscustomerservice 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes, we do have to get these relationships together and keep them going!!! Thanks for all you do Tony!! 👍🏽✅💯

  • @FernGray
    @FernGray 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “You got an underdeveloped, failure to launch man…” I’m done TG !!!

  • @lightl287
    @lightl287 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    🎉I wish my husband would be so emotionally intelligent as Tony 🤩🍀 Truly Husband Qualities 😍👏👏👏
    Lots of Blessings to you and your damily, Sir🙏🍀💗🍀💜🍀💚🤗

    • @melaniegriffin78
      @melaniegriffin78 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dont compare your husband with another man. Pray for him. As the old saying goes " comparison is the thief of joy".

  • @DDW58
    @DDW58 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Simple but powerful. Thank you Jesus for this lesson today. Continue to Bless this Man and his family.

  • @shaunaf2811
    @shaunaf2811 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Great message. Thank you for always sharing with us. Grateful to say these are things that I look for. Even more grateful to say that the man I am engaged to aligns perfectly to this guidance 🙏🏽 🙌🏽 ❤

  • @halliadams5987
    @halliadams5987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks Tony!
    Great information. I wish I had known this 30 years ago! 🙄

  • @vinadouglas119
    @vinadouglas119 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Keep teaching TG ❤ Facts

  • @endureross7431
    @endureross7431 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Self control took out 50% - 70% 😅

    • @nikkiwilds6598
      @nikkiwilds6598 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dang!!

    • @keelane2575
      @keelane2575 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ‼️🤣🙏🏾

  • @amaragrace94
    @amaragrace94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Ideally he would have seen good examples from dad/uncle/grandpa/other father figure, but if not he should have sought out older and wiser married male mentors in his church community/fellowship. Regardless he should be learning what a man and husband is from the Word of our Lord. Look for loving actions (1 Corinthians 13). Look for the fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5: 22-23). He knows that he will never be perfect in God or his wife's eyes, that we will always fall short, but that he will always be honest and humble in facing those issues that come up. A man ready to be a husband, always seeks to understand his wife (by listening and observing), giving grace, as he is given. He is a good communicator and has good conflict resolution.
    A husband vs Your husband is another distinction to look into.

  • @Thethingaboutthisis
    @Thethingaboutthisis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I thank you much, for making this video. And even more for capturing vital things in the timeframe that you did. Be blessed.

  • @chivonnestephens
    @chivonnestephens 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You spoke nothin but truth. Thank you

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Oh I been listening real bad!
    Not putting up w no 🥷🏽💩 point blank period!

    • @lakajhapruitt4806
      @lakajhapruitt4806 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 I know that’s right. The emoji’s here crack me up.

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank you for this video. I’ve noticed that many of the negative podcasts/channels are cover for being: a male chauvinist. Period. Please note: I do not consume this content. Rather, I hear about it by way of Tony’s videos.
    Certainly, not husband material.

  • @Themelissaeppingermorningshow
    @Themelissaeppingermorningshow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excellent teaching sir! This is sound Biblical truth!

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I needed this checklist. Thanks, Tony🙏🏾❤❤.

  • @MissPetrina1
    @MissPetrina1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Truths all the way. Listen up ladies! 🙏🏾

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Amen these very good points concerning being watching out for husband material my number on my list that's he a man fear God if he do that everything will fall in line Thanks Tony Gaston for this very encouraging message God bless you and your family

  • @kkandbeyond
    @kkandbeyond 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I needed this this morning. Thank you.

  • @ashleycbla
    @ashleycbla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’m saving videos like these for my daughter. Thanks

  • @tashuasimon4749
    @tashuasimon4749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely dropping jewels Tony!! You have a lot of wisdom God bless you and your family.

  • @kyongsaunders7877
    @kyongsaunders7877 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ayyyeee Bet on Me. I needed tha Thank you Virtous woman of God
    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @KayisLove777
    @KayisLove777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ty Tony ❤️🥰💯 I need to learn everything I need to know … God’s way is best… I’m cleaning myself up… healing getting educated & working on me first… Kwana is tired of the same & changes start with me….

  • @WalkingHaiku
    @WalkingHaiku 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Sir, you have a pastor in you god bless

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    No excuses! Under developed! No real maturity! Lord help us….cause wheew…

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Underdeveloped is so deep I can’t even 😭

  • @SimpleTruth818
    @SimpleTruth818 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Some will run errands without rebuttal and still lie, cheat, smoke, drink, etc. He must be Born- Again.

  • @browngoddess5340
    @browngoddess5340 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Question: Do you think its possible for us to attract a man without a vice and if not what vice is more acceptable?

  • @tonyasherrod9042
    @tonyasherrod9042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Tony ,can you speak on retired man or woman dating a female or male who is working.

  • @tammaramencias495
    @tammaramencias495 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ooowee that “under developed failure to launch man” my goodness. That part.

  • @TanEbear
    @TanEbear 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is awesome and so timely. I'm at a place where I needed to develop my self control cause I see how my life would be better. I def see how looking for that trait is essential

  • @BlessedByBella
    @BlessedByBella 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Now you know “ok, yeah. Got me a degenerate” 😭😭😂

  • @sinceresinclair
    @sinceresinclair 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You had me at self control ❤ that’s the one.

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big thank you for your advice on the relationship ❤. Frfr❤

  • @MirandaLee312
    @MirandaLee312 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Tony we love these videos.

  • @connectedconversationscoun283
    @connectedconversationscoun283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That ending lol. “You got you a degenerate”…😅

  • @77sunflowers
    @77sunflowers 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    What about pornography, so many men think it's alright to watch it... But I believe it's cheating, because they are imagining themselves having sex with a stranger... It hurts me so much....

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Simple...leave..duh

    • @la6136
      @la6136 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You are right. This is the biggest flaw with the majority of men. They do not want to give it up and make 1000 excuses to keep watching.

    • @1Tim2_5
      @1Tim2_5 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      .....that is included in lack of self control.....fear of the LORD.....

    • @driaannbull
      @driaannbull 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He's talked about pornography in recent videos and reels. And yea, it fall under some of the umbrellas mentioned.

    • @caramignon3626
      @caramignon3626 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really 😂😂😂

  • @susanma3483
    @susanma3483 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for sharing Tony. Appreciate the advice.

  • @LDolar
    @LDolar 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Insightful 💯❤️

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Living Godly every day yes Lord a leader self control

  • @dancefitnesswithmikadya
    @dancefitnesswithmikadya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You couldn’t be more right Tony. WOW! If you could just teach THIS class to these “wanna-be-men.” Jesus did & gave it ALL for HIS bride Even as we were heathens HE STILL submitted to the Father❤ Peri YOD☺️Self control is a fruit of the Spirit. Tysm for providing this wisdom to the masses!

  • @Nightingale671
    @Nightingale671 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Tony 🙏

  • @nickieh.2838
    @nickieh.2838 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good advice!!

  • @tubegen11
    @tubegen11 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Tony this is a golden nugget ! ❤

  • @Pr3ttyannahchanel
    @Pr3ttyannahchanel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re the father I never had ❤💯🗣️

  • @caseyj5597
    @caseyj5597 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    A underdeveloped, failure to launch man! 🙄🤦. That's an excellent way to sum it up Tony

  • @dorrisevans2265
    @dorrisevans2265 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's real talk. God guard our hearts and minds. Blessings to everyone. In Jesus name. Amen 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🛐😇✝️🥰💕

  • @riffkart329
    @riffkart329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Tony

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing

  • @Yakhanna
    @Yakhanna 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching your videos as a refresher....ivec been single... just met a man and a little rusty 😅

  • @slicingitupwithselena2234
    @slicingitupwithselena2234 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You speaking truth 🗣️

  • @abigailalexander2508
    @abigailalexander2508 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are teaching!!!

  • @Changeyourmindset407
    @Changeyourmindset407 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tony, what do you think about a man who has been chasing a woman for 9 years but he is 35, does not have his own place, only had one appointment with his BM for four months? The woman has placed him in the friend zone but he keeps trying although she has blocked him twice before. He has bad credit and owes back child support.

    • @MsButterscotch13
      @MsButterscotch13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nothing is there since you blocked him; you ain't interested. If you are going to give him a chance tell him to get his shyt together & what he has to do to appeal to you.

  • @JoJouknow
    @JoJouknow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Love his accent.❤ Thx

  • @donnanavarro9693
    @donnanavarro9693 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Tony, that’s a good book title failure to launch! 😊

  • @alexnasrinnoelani
    @alexnasrinnoelani 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🏼yes! Excellent video thanks so true and so supportive for me staying away from the degenerates I’ve been in love with.

  • @damarish.torres145
    @damarish.torres145 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I took notes on this whole video. ⭐️

  • @qmtcop
    @qmtcop 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Teach brother!

  • @katiawilliams8710
    @katiawilliams8710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this.

  • @themultifacetedmom
    @themultifacetedmom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My ex husband had a very addictive personality, i didnt take it seriously before marriage but now i know how it escalates. It turned into a fill blown weed addiction, porn and gambling addiction.

  • @Whitneyjliving
    @Whitneyjliving 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everything you said is 100%!

  • @byebye967
    @byebye967 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This man is a good man an period

  • @MzHoustonLovely
    @MzHoustonLovely 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if he’s a good man but you’re concerned about his member size. We haven’t been intimate but I know,😉. Like way below average. More concerned with if we have a boy, wouldn’t want him to have the same issue. Can you make a video on this? Overall good man, in church every Sunday. Supportive of my dreams. Romantic. That issue & the fact he doesn’t come off as a Alpha male & a little over weight be he fast for long times. He’s been wanting to marry me for a long time, but I’m alwaysfind a way out since I’m concerned about those things plus his family health issues.

  • @2hotcoko
    @2hotcoko 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BEAUTIFUL!!!

    • @2hotcoko
      @2hotcoko 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Without those things… You’ve got an under-developed, failure to launch man… point blank peri-yod.😂

  • @aliviablount
    @aliviablount 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This makes a lot of sense. I think that a buffer period is important but I will say that some men have a high tolerance for bullshit and fronts so they are able to pretend as though these character traits apply to them when they do not.

  • @theassignment2071
    @theassignment2071 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man I wish I would have known these things before getting pregnant and becoming a single mom😢

  • @tenaforreal5742
    @tenaforreal5742 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LoveIt!🎉🎯💝

  • @ysmithriley
    @ysmithriley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    And how you know he's NOT YOUR HUSBAND!

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ..based on redflags my dear lol

    • @davidharris7769
      @davidharris7769 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He will be the opposite of everything that was said😁

    • @VS-yi8eo
      @VS-yi8eo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She didn’t say “A” husband, she said YOUR husband

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@VS-yi8eo LHMJ, how are such simple comments misunderstood? Thanks! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davidharris7769 Yep, that's EXACTLY what I said. 😊

  • @pangvidal
    @pangvidal 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TRUTH!!!!

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tony, do you think that a man could be engaging in some of these behaviors but when he meets the woman for him he can snap himself out of it and get right so that he can be with the woman?

    • @marlonjones5302
      @marlonjones5302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yep. The guy has to want to, but I stopped smoking cigs because of my girlfriend. She didn't mind or bug me about it, but I just wanted to smell nice for her! But she is a very kind, patient, and nurturing woman.... I probably would not have changed for the other women that I was dating....

    • @amandaslay6045
      @amandaslay6045 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm a believer that only God can change people so nope I don't believe the right woman will help him, plus who would want to be that mans solution. that is a lot of pressure

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Listen! Hardly Initiated ain’t got nothing on you sir! I stopped watching their podcast. I saw when you were on there and have seen guests there after I’m not impressed by them….

    • @Ms.Sipp40
      @Ms.Sipp40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Beautiful___452 oh I been saw Tony I was saying their other guests don’t add up to Tony and you’re correct because on several occasions since Tony has been on they’ve both admitted to being dogs! They used Tony to drive more viewers to their podcast but they’re not genuine I can tell that by their guests. I don’t care for them anymore. Definitely toxic!

    • @amib6887
      @amib6887 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Ms.Sipp40 most definitely noticed from when he was on there. The first time wasn’t so bad , but the second time oh no..