I was a quiet and gentle spirit naturally growing up ….then time after time people hurt me , hit me , or attacked me out of jealousy. Now I am cold and isolate when not at work and keep my guard up , even in my sleep
You dont have to guard yourself. I was very gentle and fairly quiet growing up. I have a narcissist brother and realized lotsa folks in society are. Getting backed into a corner time after time changes a person. But if we spend more time with Jesus alone in prayer. With the one who loves us more than anyone his Holy spirit will animate us when it comes time to interact with others. God bless you. I'm tired of being abused and feel so bad for fighting back the few times I have because it hurt me. I'm tired of people telling me who I am. What I am. What I've done wrong because I think different. But Jesus is truly my comforter. My healer. My love. My peace. My quietness.
I was alike i became vengeful but, I found it again. Go to Jesus, forgive those people, ask for forgiveness, and repent for your sins. It is hard to be mad at others when you realize just how sinful you are yourself.
I’ve been called to be more gentle with people. Something in me told me to go out my way and do research. I’m so glad I came to the right video. You mentioning God and a Bible quote is confirmation for me🙏🏼
Develop your inner beauty. ❤ Father, help us to submit to you from the heart; to show grace to others; and to live in action not speech. Thank You so much, Lord, for Your light. In Jesus name. Amen.
I was a quiet and soft spirit growing up, but life took a turn for the worst and I have been through lots of situations that have hardened me and made me put my guard up. I don’t want to be that way anymore at all. I don’t want jobs that make me tougher or situations that make me that way. I want to be soft and gentle and kind and caring. Have to start to be that towards the people closest to me first.
Coming here as a muslim-everything in this video has been so helpful. I’ve noticed lately that I’ve become less and less gentle toward those I care about in an effort to protect myself, and I haven’t been happy. What you said about submission, accountability, and love are all so true. Sometimes people won’t treat you fairly, but that doesn’t mean you should be any less gentle. Thank you so much
Jesus answered them, “Many good works I have shown you from My Father. For which of those works do you stone Me?” The Jews answered Him, saying, “For a good work we do not stone You, but for BLASPHEMY, and because You, being a Man, MAKE YOURSELF GOD.” - John 10:32-33
Sometimes we forget that God has our back. I need to trust God more. It's so easy to love those who are easy to love. On the other hand, loving someone you struggle with is a forever present challenge.
I needed this reminder today and so long to be the woman God created me to be. Anything else is so exhausting and robs me of peace. Lord cultivate gentleness in me!
Feeling like a doormat happens when other people perceive there is anything different odd or peculiar about me,but the important thing is I'm still me even with an autistic condition and a propensity to speak out about how I feel and someone today overstepped the mark to insult and devalue me.
Thank you for this christian counseling for receiving a gentle and quit spirit! Lord, I bind one to be meek according to your will without being a doormat for abusive people in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding to hell every harsh and loud spirit, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with those lacking a gentle and quiet spirit, in accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:3, 2 corinthians 6:14-18. God bless, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, Yeshua: amen. Annelies Bakker, the Netherlands.
I am here because Holy Spirit revealed to me that I don't have a kind and gentle Spirit and that's why things didn't work out in my last relationship and I have to work on this
Kris, You're beautiful - Blonde or Brunette, "Wonderwoman" 👠 Your inner beauty -Holy Spirit ☄️ is The Most Beautiful 😍 God Bless Thank You for Your Teachings & Thank You "Lord Jesus" 👑 🙏🏼 😍 ❤️
Thank you so much! You described me, but now that I'm a Christian I realize that being single and independent for so long made me develop a hardshess about me.
Amazing sound words! Wonderful how God touches us and opens our eyes! It is true that God is our refuge in times of trouble, and no one can hurt us in Him. whatever happens, is not without His knowledge and His having a plan for it. We simply have to abide in His grace and love.
This was me!!! i am so over being hard and protective in the wrong situations. making huge changes to ourselves so that the world and ourselves can expereince the very best versions of ourselves
I just discovered your channel. I’m used to seeing you blonde but you look beautiful blonde and brunette. As a brunette, you look like an actress but don’t know her name. All your content is so helpful. God Bless You!!🙏🙏
Narcissist ex use to use both these aspects of scripture against me. He was the harsh one. He just wanted me to shut up. I was a door mat. I apologized for his bad behaviour. I wasn’t allowed to make decisions and told to submit.
Amen! Same here! I can be very outspoken, critical and hard. I long to possess a quiet, gentle and peaceful spirit no matter the circumstances or situations. Bc in the "right" situation, walking in those things seems nearly impossible! But I know if I have the most high I can do anything!
Thank you so much for this video. I've always struggled with this very thing. I always want people to hear me out whenever they offend me and I have been working really hard towards this behaviour of mine. most of the times when I do this, I regret it so much. Thanks once again. How can I get one to buy in Ghana please. I'm not familiar with this shipping of things from outside my country.
@Kris Reece: Perfect advice and I'm on board. I do have a question: my husband calls me "hon" and "sweetie" in the same block of time as I have found him again with the porn or in a lie or conspiring behind my back. The gyrations he goes through to maintain innocence while blaming me are mind-bending, then he calls me hon or sweetie like nothing happened. It makes me ill to hear those names from the mouth of a liar and deceiver. I would like to ask him to not call me by those names, but I know he will oblige and feel no loss whatsoever, which will hurt me even more than listening to the pet names. When things otherwise are peaceful (he's hiding his actions better), of course a wife wants to be called sweet names. I have come a long, long, long way with this man. I refuse depression and indulgent anger, I call on the Lord and get through it day by day and pray for my husband, but these pet names have gotten to me. I want to use them to hurt him back, but it's a trap. I am in a conundrum over what to do with this one. Can you please help me.
Talk with your hands more, people who say “look” are likely controlling. What’s the real reason for this video, big sister mentality, or another grace only, faith only proponent. Let’s hear what she says about baptism for salvation as scripture teaches.
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Who’s here in 2024 and trying to learn how to have a kind and quiet spirit!!❤❤
@@EdieCR7 Me!!!🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️
@@EdieCR7 Me too
I was a quiet and gentle spirit naturally growing up ….then time after time people hurt me , hit me , or attacked me out of jealousy. Now I am cold and isolate when not at work and keep my guard up , even in my sleep
Same
You dont have to guard yourself. I was very gentle and fairly quiet growing up. I have a narcissist brother and realized lotsa folks in society are. Getting backed into a corner time after time changes a person. But if we spend more time with Jesus alone in prayer. With the one who loves us more than anyone his Holy spirit will animate us when it comes time to interact with others. God bless you. I'm tired of being abused and feel so bad for fighting back the few times I have because it hurt me. I'm tired of people telling me who I am. What I am. What I've done wrong because I think different. But Jesus is truly my comforter. My healer. My love. My peace. My quietness.
I was alike i became vengeful but, I found it again. Go to Jesus, forgive those people, ask for forgiveness, and repent for your sins. It is hard to be mad at others when you realize just how sinful you are yourself.
Stay encouraged, friend. Don't let anyone steal your joy, and don't let their sins affect your life. Be who God made you to be.
@@brad2548Amen!
I’ve been called to be more gentle with people. Something in me told me to go out my way and do research. I’m so glad I came to the right video. You mentioning God and a Bible quote is confirmation for me🙏🏼
I really like this video because it describes me and the way I think but I really want to learn to stop being so hard and become more gentle
Thanks for watching Lola. It is possible to become more gentle. Be gentle to yourself in the process ;)
Yes same here.
Me too 🥴😭
i want to learn to become less gentle, we all can learn from each other
Do unto others…. Being straight forward about the gospel matters.
Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth.....
1. Submission
2. Grace
3. Love
Develop your inner beauty. ❤ Father, help us to submit to you from the heart; to show grace to others; and to live in action not speech. Thank You so much, Lord, for Your light. In Jesus name. Amen.
Beautiful ❤❤
I was a quiet and soft spirit growing up, but life took a turn for the worst and I have been through lots of situations that have hardened me and made me put my guard up. I don’t want to be that way anymore at all. I don’t want jobs that make me tougher or situations that make me that way. I want to be soft and gentle and kind and caring. Have to start to be that towards the people closest to me first.
Coming here as a muslim-everything in this video has been so helpful. I’ve noticed lately that I’ve become less and less gentle toward those I care about in an effort to protect myself, and I haven’t been happy. What you said about submission, accountability, and love are all so true. Sometimes people won’t treat you fairly, but that doesn’t mean you should be any less gentle. Thank you so much
Amen!
I pray God leads you to Jesus and away from Satan. God bless you
Jesus answered them, “Many good works I have shown you from My Father. For which of those works do you stone Me?”
The Jews answered Him, saying, “For a good work we do not stone You, but for BLASPHEMY, and because You, being a Man, MAKE YOURSELF GOD.” - John 10:32-33
@@relajado-fx5rfJesus is a highly respected prophet in Islam. Be mindful of what you say
@@f.y579 Islam is false
Sometimes we forget that God has our back. I need to trust God more. It's so easy to love those who are easy to love. On the other hand, loving someone you struggle with is a forever present challenge.
Yes, that's true. But you're right, God does always have our back. Thanks for watching!
Great video! Submission to God and trust in His promise of fighting our battles, will help us to be gentle and bold.
I needed this reminder today and so long to be the woman God created me to be. Anything else is so exhausting and robs me of peace. Lord cultivate gentleness in me!
Submission, grace and love. 🙏
Thank you Jesus for blessing me with a Peaceful soul, humble heart and wisdom. I bless everyone especially unbelievers, Amen❤
1 Submission 2 Grace 3 Love 4
"Love is an action, not a feeling."
Submission
Grace
Love
Aim to please God first!!!💜💜💜
Feeling like a doormat happens when other people perceive there is anything different odd or peculiar about me,but the important thing is I'm still me even with an autistic condition and a propensity to speak out about how I feel and someone today overstepped the mark to insult and devalue me.
Same im 14 and deal with spiritual warfare and mental attacks i need help am losing faith
@@DontProvokeDanny how are you doing ? 💞
Such a glorious service you are doing for the Lord Jesus!
Thank you for this christian counseling for receiving a gentle and quit spirit! Lord, I bind one to be meek according to your will without being a doormat for abusive people in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding to hell every harsh and loud spirit, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with those lacking a gentle and quiet spirit, in accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:3, 2 corinthians 6:14-18. God bless, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, Yeshua: amen. Annelies Bakker, the Netherlands.
This has nothing to do with religion. Don't bring it up.
@@GhostOfKotori This is a Christian counselor teaching how to have a gentle and quiet spirit
Thank you Kris. This is David’s wife Cristi. You do a great job explaining this subject of a gentle and quiet spirit!
wow, what you said, "let them off of your wheel and put them on the potter's wheel instead." - that was so helpful.
Thank you for watching Ellie.
I am here because Holy Spirit revealed to me that I don't have a kind and gentle Spirit and that's why things didn't work out in my last relationship and I have to work on this
@@Is-on5tu same, the Lord is so good and forgiving
@@Is-on5tu me and you both
I Need to be this so much. Gentle and Quiet Spirit.
Wow, thanks for being vulnerable and honest. Great stuff!
Kris, You're beautiful - Blonde or Brunette, "Wonderwoman" 👠
Your inner beauty -Holy Spirit ☄️
is The Most Beautiful 😍 God Bless
Thank You for Your Teachings
&
Thank You "Lord Jesus" 👑 🙏🏼 😍 ❤️
Thank you so much! You described me, but now that I'm a Christian I realize that being single and independent for so long made me develop a hardshess about me.
Amen.thank you for your Encourage about the word and kingdom of God Amen.for his love endures forever Amen
Question of my life
Wish I can be this way ❤️ Gentleness is a fruit of the Spirit. I know God put my under harsh authority because he wanted me to be more gentle.
Beautiful
Amazing sound words! Wonderful how God touches us and opens our eyes! It is true that God is our refuge in times of trouble, and no one can hurt us in Him. whatever happens, is not without His knowledge and His having a plan for it. We simply have to abide in His grace and love.
You look lovely with black hair 😊😊
Well said, I'm sharing on my twitter page. Great message.. Abba please help us all in the areas we struggle. 🙏☺
This got me moving forward
So glad to hear that. Thank you for watching!
This was a blessing to hear and receive❤❤❤
It seemed that you are talking about me.. I'm watching this in2020. God bless you Sister
Awesome video Kris! God can change anything if we totally submit to HIM. :)
I like you Mrs Reece. You're doing an outstanding job here😊
Thanx fr such info and how turning everything to God changes to a meek &quiet spiritual woman from anx tormentd soul
I've always been this way but I'm not perfect.❤
I do feel like a doormat when I'm really kind. My genuine self does get taken advantage of.
One minute in and I am already like ouch! True about me though.
Thank you
Good wisdom sister !!!
AMEN!!!!!!! THANK YOU, KRIS! 🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾
We should be gentle . I practice sports , self defence but we should be gentle to others in speech....
Thanks for posting this video 😄
This was me!!! i am so over being hard and protective in the wrong situations. making huge changes to ourselves so that the world and ourselves can expereince the very best versions of ourselves
Thank you for the video..God bless you
I'm quiet, soft-spoken and introverted... but, I get bullied at work 😞
@@Jeb9221 You should have a balance of where you should be peaceful and where you should be bold to protect your mental peace.
Thank you for this video. I appreciate your candor.
I just discovered your channel. I’m used to seeing you blonde but you look beautiful blonde and brunette. As a brunette, you look like an actress but don’t know her name. All your content is so helpful. God Bless You!!🙏🙏
Narcissist ex use to use both these aspects of scripture against me. He was the harsh one. He just wanted me to shut up. I was a door mat. I apologized for his bad behaviour. I wasn’t allowed to make decisions and told to submit.
Thank you so much 💗
Amen! Wise words
This is so helpful and beautifully put..
Thank you for all your videos. So helpful. God bless you!🙏🏽
Thanks for watching Cassandra!
I use to have a gentle spirit then kids, people came in to my life
This is so helpful Kris! Thank you.
So glad to hear that. Thanks for watching Kayla!
What a good explanation ! Loved it
Good teaching; thanks for sharing; God bless!
I also want to change..I can be very harsh. And my husband says I'm too loud I want that quiet and gentle spitit
Amen! Same here! I can be very outspoken, critical and hard. I long to possess a quiet, gentle and peaceful spirit no matter the circumstances or situations. Bc in the "right" situation, walking in those things seems nearly impossible! But I know if I have the most high I can do anything!
Thx this vid really helped
I deal with horrible anger and I'm seeking to change it. Is there anything I can do?
Read the entire bible :)
I am way too extroverted, talkative and loud it drains me I want to be calm quite soothing
Hi. I'm glad to have found this . Do you have your books in audible ?
great speech - great make-up
Thank you so much for this video. I've always struggled with this very thing. I always want people to hear me out whenever they offend me and I have been working really hard towards this behaviour of mine. most of the times when I do this, I regret it so much. Thanks once again. How can I get one to buy in Ghana please. I'm not familiar with this shipping of things from outside my country.
@Kris Reece: Perfect advice and I'm on board. I do have a question: my husband calls me "hon" and "sweetie" in the same block of time as I have found him again with the porn or in a lie or conspiring behind my back. The gyrations he goes through to maintain innocence while blaming me are mind-bending, then he calls me hon or sweetie like nothing happened. It makes me ill to hear those names from the mouth of a liar and deceiver.
I would like to ask him to not call me by those names, but I know he will oblige and feel no loss whatsoever, which will hurt me even more than listening to the pet names. When things otherwise are peaceful (he's hiding his actions better), of course a wife wants to be called sweet names. I have come a long, long, long way with this man. I refuse depression and indulgent anger, I call on the Lord and get through it day by day and pray for my husband, but these pet names have gotten to me. I want to use them to hurt him back, but it's a trap. I am in a conundrum over what to do with this one. Can you please help me.
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How does this apply to step mother/step child relationship?
@0:31 ... how are you so deep into my spirit on this already ?! Haha
What does type A personality mean?
It's so hard to find a mentor to work on this because of the feminist mentality largely out there.
You sound like you could be in the Simpson's lol- AND T Y FOR THE TIPS
Jaw dropping beautiful goddess 💋🍵🍦
Lovely sentiment but you did nothing to answer the question of HOW!
In a nutshell: God rewards the good and punishes the wicked! When was the last time that happened to you?
Hi Kris🧡 could You talk to men also>>>>>In Jesus >>>> Ray D
Why is this video geared toward women? What about men?
Wait what if your a guy
fooling ourselves....
Talk with your hands more, people who say “look” are likely controlling. What’s the real reason for this video, big sister mentality, or another grace only, faith only proponent. Let’s hear what she says about baptism for salvation as scripture teaches.
nice 2meet you🙈guilty💨💖
You look better as a brunette.
Agyipc
Yes because you may only be a woman if you wish to be a gentle spirit... Thumbs down
Please put god stuff in title so is hell bound atheists dont waste our time
Thank you