I am glad you too are still friends,i think your friendship to him it's important since you don't come from same place,same background.i hope there won't be more suicide
i'm from greenland. we have high rates of suicide because of the lack of mental health facilities and also activites for kids and teenagers. this is also why crime rate is high, people have nothing else to do.
@@ifjchsiwocjcjs4378 Looks like there isn’t much going for the town. The jobs probably don’t pay much, and the residents just feel trapped there. Somewhere almost desolate, isolated, all alone in a small town in the middle of nowhere.
@@ifjchsiwocjcjs4378 it’s almost like a cruel joke, or some sort of story. A place so beautiful, a place where it’s residents live quiet lives of solitude and sadness
I grew up in Alaska, this resonates a lot, the dark winters, the cold, nothing to do and many turn to drinking and it spirals from there. I think people who haven't lived in these kinds of places struggle to understand how much an effect constant darkness can have.
Seems to happen in a lot of small, and more specifically, isolated communities…towns..regions of the earth. When your surrounded by the same people day in and out, don’t have much to do for physical activity, and a small town with nowhere to really go and explore, then it’s no wonder this happens.
I live in Pennsylvania, and our winter months just hit me so differently than the summer months. I couldn't imagine it being that way for the whole year!
@@Ronkyort0dox I rather go with him and have one of the best week of my life seeing and experiencing the rest of the world and cherish it for what it is than to stay and just think about what the world could be
I'm glad someone mentioned. I've lived in rural Ontario all my life and currently live in a town with 1000 people and this video resonated with me because it's just as depressing. I crave city life. My life saving factor right now is a trip to meet my long distance partner in the States but if that fails, I'm just gonna be so defeated.
As someone who struggles with seasonal depression, I can see why people who live in cold and dark places may feel a lot more depressed than others. Even when I feel absolutely awful, standing outside in the sun has always helped, even if just a tiny bit. I can't imagine what it's like to live in such a secluded and dark area
I can’t imagine living somewhere that’s permanently dark for a portion of the year. I’m from the uk and I really struggle in winter even when it’s only light from 8am-3pm.
I lived in tasiilaq from 2010 to 2012, and I can tell you that it’s not as dark as people might think. At the darkest days of the year there’s sun from 10 am to 3 pm. I know it’s darker than pretty much all other places, but people have a tendency to think it’s just complete total darkness up there.
Well I’m just curious, do you really think living with heat, humidity and sunshine for more than 9 months a year feels pleasant? May not cause seasonal depression as such but it causes a lot of misery and discomfort which increases frustration levels amongst the population. Don’t forget, places with the highest year round sunshine (like the tropical south of India) also come with heat, dust, noise, pollution, humidity and mosquitoes. It’s always a tradeoff
Yeah you're absolutely right people listening to them vent all this time it's always been the shortage if you just had enough people to vent on and those people were absolutely suicide proof it'd be great nobody would be sad. You get all these people that have one problem and they don't know what that problem is the problem is they aren't getting enough attention. Instead of going out here and some healthy way to gain attention and doing good deeds are cheering people up or getting invited over cuz you're just so happy everybody can ride up the hill on your shoulders while you laugh, go negative and you start to vent your spleen all your nasty stuff on some poor soul willing to pretend to listen or worse yet willing to listen. If all you have is a problem that you want somebody to listen to over and over and over then you pretty much are the problem not the solution. If you don't need advice then you're happy with what you have if you're happy with what you have you don't need to vent on me if you need to vent on me you need advice.
@wolfraid-t7n I'm with you these guys get paid no matter what they have a credential they're better than you society respects them for it and you're just kind of like a cow or a pig and a slaughterhouse when you go to a therapist.
6:12 When you offer up your home to a complete stranger, take them on a tour, invite them into your family and have them over to celebrations, only to say in despair: “I want to be a good person.” That line really hit hard. To have that much evidence that your heart is filled with kindness and you have so much to good to offer the world, yet somehow convinced that the world would be better off if you were never born. That’s the real difference between sadness and depression, at least to me anyway.
That's a good way to put it. Some people who are depressed also feel like awful people so they push everyone away. So it's nice to see people like Vituss showing us the other side of the coin to depression. The kindness he shared is not unnoticed.
As someone who grew up on National Parks in remote regions and finally a small town in Australia, I understand that trapped feeling. I think they would heavily benefit from maybe a local movie night, I personally create animations and world building to create worlds that interest me. And it’s okay if I’m not living the life I envision for these shows because it feels like an escape into a reality that takes the adventure straight to me. I think the isolation helped in my world building because it’s almost like I’m always working off imagination. I can see countries Cleary with the internet but I can never know what that town or country is like, so I can draw inspiration off the stories I hear from these places and make a world out of it. I never feel like my days are repeating when working on these projects because everyday I’m sitting down and writing the next location, dialogue or draw the next few frames it feels like a completely new day in the world I make. I think the people in Alaska could use some creativity in their youth and towns, art encapsulates everything we can’t in reality! I would love to one day start a studio an hire people in places like this to envision their perspective, idc if they have any skills in art or not, it’s the mind that has all the art inside it
To me, it sounds more like the isolation in any place you live is the main issue. People all around the world commit suicide. You can be depressed in the loveliest of places. If you are living in a domestic abuse situation with no where to go, you are also in a prison. I live in a very cold city in Canada - it’s been 69 years. I suffered from depression, but it had nothing to do with the weather. It runs in my family. Growing up in winter was brutally cold and life went on - school, work, parties. I was a swimmer and later became better at skating and took up skiing. Nobody really looked forward to winter, but there it was, every year. Dark leaving for school in the morning and dark returning home. I guess having 8 siblings helped - always something going on. Plus a large extended family. And when there is daylight, the sun is shining most of the winter. I had a friend who moved from Northern Ontario to Vancouver. It was raining and she kept waiting for it to stop. Not for a month - she was severely depressed. She said maybe it was freezing cold where she came from, but she missed the sun. ( And it’s usually sunny on the very coldest days ) Isolation can happen in large, busy cities. Loneliness is becoming so prevalent, especially with the elderly. I think some people die of loneliness. That being said, I have 3 siblings who live in warmer climates and never come to visit in the winter. When they came for our Dad being ill and dying - they remembered how much they hated the cold. One brother always said he would move to a warmer climate when he was able to and he did. And I have one son who also wants to live in a warm climate. He’s partway there in a much warmer city in Canada.
theres such a sad energy coming from the whole town, you can tell how it's a constant cycle. being that the population is so small, probably every single person that inhabits it knows at least one person who has committed suicide :( they continue despite carrying that grief, i cant even imagine the guilt of wanting to move away but cant because your whole family lives there, or you know someone who's died there and you don't want to leave them be. It may be a beautiful place, but it carries such sad stories
Although this video is sad. And what Vittus is going through sucks. This video is a bit of a overexaggeratation. I live in Greenland and it's really not that bad as people make it seem.
@@frkimei8060 I often want to move further north. But I get very depressed form long dark days. Even here in the Netherlands where we don’t have dark winters like yours, the fact that sun is up at 9am and gone at 5pm really drake me down. In the arctic it hardly even gets properly light in the winter. I don’t think I could deal with that. But I do want to visit, Greenland and Iceland. They both look so stunning and unique. All the best up north! ❤
@@frkimei8060 come for a visit then, I feel like the Netherlands is a great country to visit and stay in for a short while. Having lived here for a couple years myself, I feel like its not entirely feasible to stay for life unless you have quite a lot of money sadly.
Yes. Also the alcohol wouldn't help..it would give them a high and then hit even lower and also causes inflammation in the brain and decreasing blood flow in and to the brain which is vital for mental health and emotional well being.
Thought about that. But I think they feel trapped also. I see less sun than they do. But I'm able to leave my situation if I choose to. I also use high-lumen incandescent growing bulbs in my apartment. Far more soothing than fluorescent or LED.
I hope he's OK.. Depression is no joke.. I lost my brother to depression.. Wish I talk to him when he's still alive and don't become busy with my own life..
Yea I love how its not exploiting the suicide aspect and create big shock value. It's real and it's human and it's so strong! (Hope it makes sense, im not enlish and capturing the feeling I got from this is really hard haha)
@@DeutscheDemokratischeRepublik I think that most of the time, the little things are more important than the bigger picture, So helping a single person you know/love can be a huge step into changing the world
This shows that you could be in the most beautiful place in the world, but if you feel lonely and isolated there, in the end it means nothing. Rest In Peace to everyone who lived there.
Happiness is coming from inside, and is a God gifted thing, I bet you now a days you can ask to any rich person in the world, most of them is not happy about there lives, cuz they all forget religion, COVID-19 is also another example (if it's a man made or from nature) of loneliness as we see in lockdowns, the good thing about religion is that, when you reach all height(everything) in the world, it leave us a question is there anything else, and the answer is only religion and belief which gives peace to your hearts and souls, , so always stay positive, humble, kind and merciful to other beings around you and never been revengeful(if you keep taking revenge, the other person will do some it's like a loop that never ends its keeps destroying the future generations in the world, and only the person with the heart of forgiveness will break this loop).
I have a cleaning business in my small town. I have clients who are anesthesiologist, lawyers dentist and family court judges. Just three weeks ago one of my clients committed suicide. He was 56 years old and had been a family court judge for the last 22 years. When I was at their home every two weeks I would see him working all the time. There is never any indication that he was going through anything. He always seemed so professional and so put together. This just goes to show you never know what someone else is going through. And to be kind always. He left behind a wife and eight children. Three of those children are under the ages of 12 years old. And they are stuck picking up the pieces and wondering why their father committed suicide.It’s so disgusting here on TH-cam there’s a couple channels that hated him as a judge because of the rulings he had made. I have since asked them to remove those videos out of respect for his family especially his children. And they adamantly tell me no. Please go over to veterans in politics and ask them to take down those videos. This judge was a really good man and a good father.
But any video is prone to a viewer drawing their own conclusions, just because a video may outline facts it doesn't mean the viewer has to agree or see eye to eye.
i think that the weird point of depression where you’re not really depressed but not able to enjoy things is the hardest part and i want to thank you for showing it. i’ve struggled with exactly those feelings of being trapped and simply unable to feel enjoyment and it sucks so much. happy november, i hope things are going better soon :)
The problem that many in Greenland face is that it’s hard to leave and it’s so isolated especially if you are a native Greenlander. Greenland is a place of immense beauty but life there is hard and get boring very quick.
Boredom is why people there drink. If there was no alcohol, people would be more motivated to become wealthier and leave or do better things, rather than think of "fun" things to do to pass the time. Every day. Wasting any money they could be saving.
@@kyles5513 It's not working like that. Yes, they might be more productive (but not exactly wealthier since they live in a remote region without opportunities) but it's not going to change their situation in a meaningful way. They will still be "trapped" there for many reasons and feel that all the time.
@@kyles5513 it's really not that simple. I live in New Zealand & although it's beautiful, we still have poverty. It's impossible to save money when you're poor. If you buy a car it's normally a dunger, which costs all your money to keep running. You can't afford to rent a nice house, so you spend all your money trying to keep dry & warm. If you don't - you end up getting sick. You can't afford proper food and that also affects your health. All your friends, family & neighbors are in the same situation & that's depressing 😔. These are the things that make people want to drink & do drugs. It's not because they're not trying hard enough. It's because they get sick of trying & never getting anywhere. Come to New Zealand, we have poverty. Jamaica, Australia, anywhere. Poverty is Everywhere! It's not boredom or laziness & it's definitely not easy. Don't ever think that it is.
@@kyles5513 "Boredom is why people there drink." Absolutely not, I can tell you don't know much about Greenland just by reading your comment. I am Greenlandic, born and raised in Sisimiut (West Greenland), I am one of those who rarely drink and it's not because I'm not bored...
I understand why that place has so high suicide rate, when it has so low population and not much anything to do at all, so while their free in the open Greenland to go where they want. They feel their super alone, while not rotting in prison, when some people can feel alone, when put in misery in jail, but these people are free, but still feel super alone in this vast world with no significant another and thats why they cant handle the loneliness and the void inside them and make suicide to become free of it.
When I graduated from high school, I decided to took a gap year. I lived in a place where surrounded by outstanding mountains and nature. Around the first months, I felt like this is what I truly wanted for so long. I loved every morning. I didn't even have to set an alarm, and I still can woke up early and felt so fresh. But did the same thing every single day, I become so depressed. Some nights I woke up at midnight and found myself have cried so hard. I felt like I have been in trapped of the beauty. My life was beautiful back then, but it had no taste. I had no friends or people to interact with. I think it's not really about where you live, but it's about who you live with. To those who are struggling with solitude, please find someone to talk with. Do not keep it alone. People were born to share things just like Luke just shared this story to us. Thank you for this amazing clip, Luke. It just touched me so much♥
i'm introvert, for me it feels like with my phone and laptop only, it's already make my day. if i go to trip to somewhere, i feel comfortable going alone. recent covid lockdown have no effect to my mood. But, i want to know. will I get depression in the future if i keep going on like this?
@@kammmmal211 Most of the time I feel very fine with being alone. But at the end of the day, people need to interact with someone. You can literally spend most of the time with yourself, but at least take some time to talk with your family, friends, or people who you love. Wish you all the best.
@@kammmmal211 I'm also heavily introverted. Normally I'm fine being alone. But sometimes, you'll suddenly feel like you need to share something with someone. That you'll want to make some kind of connection. And often that's extremely difficult, if it's possible at all to begin with. I recently got to that point myself and I've been struggling so much ever since, and the few connections I had have been strained by that. Some even broke, leaving me in a worse situation than before. I spent most of my life actively avoiding those connections, partly by choice, but mostly because of past trauma, being bullied for being different and weird and quiet. Being hurt by friends who abandoned me. Not wanting to get bullied or hurt again. But that's no way to live. I say this because I genuinely believe it: Find the smallest number of close friends that you can feel comfortable with, friends that you can trust with your life, and talk to about anything, and who'll be there for you when you need them. Friends who are more family than your actual family. Then have a few more beyond that, but not so many that you can't keep up with them all. If you can do that, your happiness will, for the most part, be stable. It takes work on your part, and for me, it's the hardest thing I've ever done. I still haven't been able to. But it's, I think, the most important thing for happiness and stability in said happiness. Or go the exact opposite route, become a hermit, and live cut off from the rest of the world, but do it completely. Live out in the forest so far from other people that you'll never see another human being again for the rest of your life. Don't go to the store, don't have a phone or computer or electricity, live self-sufficiently off the land. If you don't go insane from the isolation, you'll never need another person again for anything. An exception can be made for a significant other, and maybe future children with them, if you want. Or, for an extrovert, do the exact opposite. Try to befriend as many willing people as you can. I can't give any advice on this as I personally think it's a bad idea, but someone else might think differently. And that's the thing. Everyone is different. Your needs and wants are your own. Only you can decide what's best for you. These are just the suggestions of a random girl you don't even know and will probably never talk to again. The choice in the end is yours and yours alone. Regardless of your choice, I hope you live a life full of happiness and that you do so in good health.
@@StormTheSquid thank you for the advice, I will give it some thought. There is someone out there that is in a more bad situation than what I'm in. I'm grateful for what i have. I pray for your mental and physical wellbeing. Hope we will walk on the right route to happiness. Take a walk sometimes and don't think too much, it will help. We may not see each other, but it's nice to have conversations with strangers
It is sad more people won’t see this due to it being flagged as sensitive content. Which it truly is but it is the kind that needs to be heard. I’m lucky enough to see a snippet on Snapchat and came to TH-cam to get the full thing. True quality and moving content. It is not about how viral your content is but how valuable and there is true value in this.
Yeah I really wish it wasn’t flagged as well, because this video probably would’ve performed really well. It’d also be cool knowing more people would learn about this place
I have yet to see evidence that flagged content is recommended less. If I had to guess, as we’re all guessing bc YT doesn’t disclose it, flagged content is prob just a bit less recommended to users under 18.
There are tons of communities like this all throughout canada. Isolation and alchoholism leads to a lot of suicide and depression. It's nice to see some stories being shared on such a large platform.
Alcohol and drugs robbed me to the point that I actually thought I was living the high life, but I was deceived. Once I asked God if He was real to come into my life and set me free from getting high all the time and help me feel better, He did. I'm no longer a slave, imprisoned by drugs and alcohol. I look back and see how fake, miserable and hopeless I was, but somehow deceived into thinking it was good. Crazy. Jesus set me free from living as a slave to sinful thoughts and ways but I'm still not perfect and my life has new battles. But now I have real hope and so can you. It's true! Jesus suffered and died on the cross to make a way for us to be redeemed and forgiven. Anyone who repents, turns from sin and allows The Lord Jesus to live in their heart by His Spirit of power, love and word, can be saved, delivered and set free from all that destroys them and their soul. And you can be resurrected to live in His eternal Kingdom where there is no more sorrow, no more sickness, no more tears, no more death and NO more pain. (read Revelation 21)
I saw this vlog several months back. The pain and depression of this person has been kind of permanently etched in my mind. Every once in a while his words pop-up in my mind. I just want to say to the people living in such harsh conditions especially the person in the video that sir you are not alone. You have now a new friend thanks to this young vlogger. I can't do much but I request you to please never forget that people like me are with you in your journey of life. God bless everyone. Keep fighting. You are a hero.
Alcohol gives you a temporary break from depression but actually makes you even more depressed, it's a vicious circle. I hope Vittus is ok. Sharing his feelings is a great way to feel better.
it worked for 27 years , I haven't had any in 3 years but truly believe I wont be around long at all if I don't start back . I don't know what to do , you cant talk to any professionals or its 72 hour mandatory lockdown , I need out of my head not locked up ! My life is very full of regrets and they play over and over everyday!! it really sucks it does but just gonna try make it another day. If you love someone make sure they know it everyday every chance you get ! only advice i got for people
❤ don’t drink alcohol it just make things worse. I’m only on a few months of alcohol free and feeling better even though it is hard sometimes I know I don’t wanna go back.❤❤❤
@@brianpinion5844 time to really dive into radical self forgiveness, there is a book that really helped me find acceptance in myself. drinking avoids the pain, when you're sober, you're forced to sit with it. feeling regret is okay, but you have to find ways through it and to love yourself. I believe in you.
I lost the love my life to suicide almost 3 years ago. He was a native from a small island in Alaska (we meet as friends in high school in the lower 48, 8 years earlier) We talked almost everyday, and I knew the isolation he felt there wasn’t good for his mental health. One day I missed his call; and 3 days later I got the call he was gone. I don’t know why this video was recommend to me; but I haven’t felt this close to him in a while. I still carry a lot of guilt, but I know now that he is free of the unimaginable mental pain he was carrying. A message to the one I lost: I love you Erik, and thank you for all the joy you gave me. And I’m sorry I couldn’t take your pain away.❤
Omg. I am sorry about hearing this i also lost my first Bestfriend when i came to Germany i was 18 my friend was 19yrs old she was 8 when her mother brought her in Germany . As what i know her she was a Person with great and Strong Personality ,she never shown me her weakness i was sad when i Moved to Germany at the Age of 17 i had no friends untill i meet her my World Change. We were like Sister's when the Day it was Happened we were supposed to go out to Play Billiard but it was Winter and it was already dark at 4pm i fall asleep when she called . The nxt Day when i was at school i was feeling weird my mind keep saying me to go home . When i got home actualy my friend wu'd call me when we both finished school i wated but no Call from her so i call her but her mom said she is not answering after few hrs her mom called me and said my friend is Dead she Hang her Self on the Bathroom. I prayed and thought it was just all joke i ran to her moms house Across the Street i close my eyes prayed to god let it be a Joke then i begann walking to thier Home i saw Ambulance it took me 6months untill i realizes she is forever gone all those days i waited for her to Show Up that it was a Prank. It's been 16yrs now i still wonder how my life went when she still arround.
@@letsgotravel6724 I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s hard to understand how someone who gave us so much joy, could also be in an incredible amount of pain. All we want is for the ones we love to be happy, and I like to think they both have for a peace that they could never find here on earth. We are lucky to have an angel looking after us now.
@@SashaLumi I think the point was a reduction of suffering. Not the solution to the individuals overall mental health. It does work for some. I am not one of them.
@@SashaLumi I don’t think you understand. You don’t hookup or date with somebody who is broken. Also, this sounds dark, but everyone goes away in the end. You can’t have someone forever, but you can love someone forever. This issue is different for men and women as well(for obvious reasons). Young(and elderly) Men often lack camaraderie. That simple camaraderie can ease suffering and give you confidence enough to seek what it is you really need. The other one for men is purpose. I could go on and on about purpose so I’ll be concise. Find it. Be in service to others. It doesn’t matter how small. You don’t have to save the world. I can’t speak on this regarding women honestly. I feel that men can do better alone(socially) than women can. Generally speaking. I’ll wrap this up with, suffering isn’t bad. Yup. A lot of people I’ve met can’t handle that one unfortunately, but it is true. I’m not saying you should seek suffering. Suffering has been a major catalyst for figuring out who I am and how I want to be. As well as what I definitely don’t want to be. How a man handles suffering can define who they are. Sometimes, your gonna make choices. Those consequences from you’re choices can cause suffering. That’s fine. You didn’t know. How you handle that. That’s what’ll define you, and it probably doesn’t make sense but I swear it makes you feel better. Not happy, but some sort of contentment. If you read this all. Thanks. I’m a loner. I don’t hate people, but I keep to myself. You and me have value friend. I hope you find contentment, and whatever else it is you may need. God bless
I like how his message isn’t just talk when you’re sad. It’s to talk about everything. Let yourself be vulnerable and free and express yourself. Let yourself experience. Don’t hold back how you feel because life is meant to be shared with others. The flip side is that you should also be willing to listen. Not just when someone is sad, but listen to the way they feel about everything.
i am the exact opposite and life is HARD. honestly, i don’t even know if you can call this living. i’m trying to get rid of these self-destructive habits, but i’ve lived like this for so long that trying to change is a real struggle. i’ll definitely keep struggling though.
@@taesang5664 I am old, I have had a lot of struggles. What seems long at your age is like an eye blink to me. Don't give up hope. There are so many wonderful things you just haven't noticed yet. Listen to the stories of the old people, laugh with them, learn from them. Listen to those younger than you, see how you think different from them because you're older. Get rid of self-doubt, become the best version of who you are. Where there is breath there is hope. You can change yourself and you can change the world around you, you just have to pick a direction and go. I believe I've learned more from my failures than my successes. I grieve those who I have lost but my father told me something very wise " the joy of knowing someone far exceeds the grief of losing them ". I will pray God gives you insight and joy, you're not alone.
Not only is this bringing to light both the beauty and sadness in Greenland, but I also want to thank you for using your platform to display that men CAN open up to each other about their pain and mental health struggles. Men's mental health matters, and you are not any less "manly" for hurting, you are merely human. Great video Luke! and I hope Vittas and his family have a life of happiness!
@@ozyt5002 all u keep commenting on this post is negative shit what do that contribute ? u a bitch irl fasho say some shit to me nd id beat tfk outta u
@@ozyt5002 then your a terrible human being and you should care cause if you got problem people like friends and family can listen but if you dont give back that then your horrible
I spent two weeks in Greenland and it was surreal. The scenery is out of this world but what's striking is how tiny we are in such vast landscapes, so sparsely populated. We spent a few days in one of the biggest towns (just a few thousands inhabitants) but quickly you had seen everything. I understand how they can feel trapped, and also the lack of sunlight in winter is challenging for physical and mental health. But oddly, everyone seemed so happy. We had the chance of attending a concert, and they were all dancing and smiling. Everyone was so welcoming, engaged in conversation with us, or just greeted us as we walked the streets.
Well yeah i noticed that they look happy but what causes them to have drinking problem and high suicidal rates? Maybe they look happy but they just don't show it out their unhappiness due to respect for others. Or maybe they all know the boredom of living in isolation. Its crazy to put ourselves in their shoes where you circled the entire town in that short 5 mile drive. Its like living on a movie set like the truman show
@@woodkey1 I don't think the community would allow anyone who's suffering to be identified in a video online. So, besides the population we see, how many people aren't actively a part of the community? I havn't watched yet tho. The video title kind of messes with my head. I don't like how it's said.
Despite their heavy burden, the people of this town demonstrated remarkable strength and resilience. The stories of survival, friendship, and community support revealed their tenacity and determination to overcome the darkness that has plagued their lives.
@@neno3123 Depression isn’t a chemical balance, rather there is a clear definitive causes. Lack of love for yourself, loss of hope, etc. Depression is quite easy to cure, you need the right tools. You can either search if you are willing to take responsibility of your state. Saying it is a chemical imbalance is an extremely dangerous thing to say. Saying that is removing all left over hope that that person have. It means you’ll always be like this, there’s no way out. I suffered from a bad childhood, i still do. I am 15. I decided a couple months ago to take responsibility of life and my flaws. I was almost suicidal at some point. Belief is the strongest factor in one’s life. If you’re belief is filled with nihilism and hopelessness than you should do something. There is hope but you must first take responsibility.
I think this video epitomises how vital it is for human beings to maintain contact with others. A daily routine can often feel mundane and start to affect u- we as humans will then hold on to other humans to keep us through that routine.
Dont forget the never ending sunlight in summer and never ending darkness in winter. I wouldn’t be surprised if suicide rates rapidly increase in winter. To add, it looks like there isn’t very much other life, no plants, trees, birds, or wild animals. Pets maybe, but you wont find them wandering. That can really take a gradual unseen toll on your mental health. The architecture isn’t very pleasing too, but on the other hand it helps when the background is amazing. Though thats the only thing greenland has going. This is a place where it is imposible to live alone. Not because you physically can’t, but because you psychologically can’t.
I think routine is good but there needs to be fresh and new exciting experiences mixed in too. That’s why people like to do fun things on the weekend or travel on holiday. I imagine that is very hard to do in tiny towns and with money limits.😢
As someone with depression, it breaks my heart to see anyone else going through the same thing. I sincerely hope in the future that this town takes care of each other and does everything they can to lift people up. And yes, speaking up is SO important when you feel like you’re in a mental dark hole. Simply talking about it can help pull you out of that lonely and isolated feeling.
I hope when you feel like talking it out you always have someone by your side. I know I'm a complete stranger but if atall you ever feel there's no one you can talk too. Remember me. :)
I am depressed and suicidal and I don't know if you understand how goddamn difficult it is to even think of talking about anything. You can't say talking is important and expect people to just do that.
@@justanothermortal1373Hey, you are not force to do so. It is his advice, and as someone who did go through depression and suicidal thoughts, I hope I had talk to someone about it sooner.
I totally agree, the lack of sun and extreme cold weather is enough to make people depressed. I live in a country where there is so much sunshine and mostly warm temperatures, but when it rains for days and i don't see the sun and winters get just a bit cold i get depressed quite quickly, so i really don't know how people survive in Greenland. I salute the people of Greenland and i wish them all the best. Thank you so much Luke for this very informative and heartfelt video!
Agree with your sentiments. The weather plays a huge part. If you were new to the planet there's no way you would settle in somewhere cold and grey. I feel this way about England. The winter sucks.
Cold weather isn't that big of a deal, but complete darkness certainly is. We know for a fact that vitamin D deficiency and limited sunlight usually has negative effects on people when it comes to depression and tiredness. Cold VS warm weather is a personal preference, I personally despise super hot weather and thrive in the cold. The bigger issue on Greenland is the fact that there's absolutely nothing to do compared to other places more connected to the rest of the world, that's why places like Northern Norway, Svalbard, Greenland and other such places have insanely high rates of alcoholism. No sunlight and nothing to do? Fuck it, let's just drink the day away
@@Flaw9679 that is not the way. Evil is often born from evil. Many abusers in relationships were abused for example... so we should not wish depression on anyone.
I am the only being reflecting words like nice / compIiments and nature related terms and big terms etc - the misused big term nice and the word dsv must be edited out!
I love how cautious u were from the start with people's feelings. I wish we could get a great mental health support system there and bring some joy to them..That guy welcomed u into his home and extended his hand in friendship, hes a great man and so are you
I loved how sincere the creator of this film was. He could immediately pick up on the sadness of the gentleman despite his smiles. What an amazing soul.
@HiartmanDavoed No, screw you. This is a genuinely good guy who simply struggles in life. Stop going around telling people that he has a wicked heart and needs to be more religious, you jerk.
Economic challenges, such as high unemployment rates, limited job opportunities, and financial difficulties, can also contribute to feelings of despair and hopelessness. These circumstances can leave individuals feeling trapped and unable to improve their situation, which may increase the risk of suicidal tendencies.
*Glorious Qur'an 2:136* Say, O believers, “We believe in *Allah* and what has been revealed to us; and what was revealed to Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, and his descendants; and what was given to Moses, Jesus, and other prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction between any of them. And to *Allah* we all submit.” @HiartmanDavoed
@@thatboy3930 honestly i kinda just see it as the fact that traveling costs money.. to get to experience a lot of the world, you need money to travel. I can tell in his videos how much empathy he carries, and he has a huge desire to understand the world. without the money, he wouldn't be able to experience that, and without these videos we wouldn't get to fully see that places like this exist. it's a tough subject, and he seemed to deeply care. even then though, for him to have these experiences he needs to get companies to sponsor his travels.
I was born in Sweden and grew up there in a small town. I was constantly depressed so i understand what they're going through. This happens when you barely experience any warmth and sunlight. I now live in the south and i'm more emotionally stable. I hope he gets to travel and explore other parts of the world to get out of the bubble. Wish them all the best
@@MrPolandball true, scandinavian countries are considered "the happiest" we have everything and get it handed to us on a silverplate. sadly that also comes with a price. it strips away the human need for a purpose. but yk we can't complain we have it all. pff
He and his family at least once a year come and visit Turkey, the turquoise sea, colors, sun shine, music, hustle and bustle or quite corners. ( Our quite is a different kind of quite). Now is a good time for foreign exchange 1 $ is 25000 tl.
@@poop2893 . 'The human need to strive, for a purpose or end goal; to endure hardship that requires creative thinking to resolve, is essential to one's wellbeing and gratification.' Excellent point. It may partly explain why many on welfare here in the US don't seem to get out of their circumstances, the drive to survive has been taken away from them, hopelessness sets in.
As a person from Russia I can really say that we struggle with depression a lot. What makes it even worse is the fact that we are not used to talking about that, we just pretend that problems with alcohol, constant depression and poverty don't exist. Luckily, I had a chance to travel a lot and I noticed that lack of sunshine make a huge impact on my mood and as I return home to constantly grey sky I feel like I'm just really broken and dead inside. I don't want to say that living in Russia is bad, the problem is that we take some things for granted, don't notice anything good and hide our true emotions and problems
There is no surprise the suicide rate is one of the highest in the world in Russia. I'm british and have a mother from russia and a step mother from ukraine. I have struggled with mental health my whole life and has been it's worst in the last few years. Their attitudes towards mental health are very similar. My step brother who is from ukraine said to me that unless you are a solider or a prisoner you have no problems. it's really sad I hope mental health can be accepted more in your society my friend!
You can buy a sunlamp for seasonal depression. Wonder if that would help? Wouldn't it be interesting to start a light therapy business in your community?
this is crazy. i remember when i was a depressed teenager in high school and i always fantasized about moving to greenland because i wanted to be far from everyone i knew and live somewhere beautiful and just be alone. i just got major flashbacks to those days
I’m Indigenous and I’ve lived on reservations I relate so much to these people. I feel like us native people go through the same struggles here in the US. *The isolation and loneliness is real.* The suicide rates for native people on reservations are *extremely high.* We have the highest suicide rates in the USA. Natives are often forgotten on our own land, so I can relate so much to this. Thanks for making this
rae rae, I used to be depressed and lonely even having friends around. One day I find Jesus and He makes me complete, like that was missing in my life. I am so happy, contented and grateful that I need nothing or no one. I met my maker and He is good.
It’s crazy to me the government will give some tribes casinos on their land or some shit like that, and they get multi millions when they turn 18, while others don’t even get free college.
I was stationed at Thule Air Base back in 1982. It's about 1500 km north of Nuuk. It was the most memorable year of my life. The beautiful desolation is hard to describe. Back then, there was no internet so we were truly cut off from the rest of the world. It was strangely exhilarating. By the way, I love your channel. I just discovered it by accident this morning. Cheers!
I appreciate how you handled this topic. Unlike many TH-camrs/influencers who claim their job is to inspire people, you weren’t preachy to Vittus nor did you force toxic positivity upon his suffering to present yourself as a savior. You’ve kept the spotlight on Vittus and his life, not you. I’ve read your comment about how you and Vittus talked for hours off camera, and only filmed your conversation when Vittus felt it was okay. I’m glad you made this video with Vittus; this story and Vittus’s message is very important to be told to many people. I appreciate you.
Become an humble soul: Isaiah 57:15chapter context similar meaning copy save For thus saith the high and lofty One that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy; I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones. Psalms 10:12chapter context similar meaning copy save Arise, O LORD; O God, lift up thine hand: forget not the humble. 1 Peter 5:6chapter context similar meaning copy save Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: James 4:10chapter context similar meaning copy save Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up. Job 22:29chapter context similar meaning copy save When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up; and he shall save the humble person. Psalms 9:12chapter context similar meaning copy save When he maketh inquisition for blood, he remembereth them: he forgetteth not the cry of the humble. Proverbs 29:23chapter context similar meaning copy save A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit. Matthew 18:4chapter context similar meaning copy save Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Psalms 34:2chapter context similar meaning copy save My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. Psalms 69:32chapter context similar meaning copy save The humble shall see this, and be glad: and your heart shall live that seek God. Proverbs 16:19chapter context similar meaning copy save Better it is to be of an humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud. Psalms 10:17chapter context similar meaning copy save LORD, thou hast heard the desire of the humble: thou wilt prepare their heart, thou wilt cause thine ear to hear: 1 Peter 5:5chapter context similar meaning copy save Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. Jeremiah 13:18chapter context similar meaning copy save Say unto the king and to the queen, Humble yourselves, sit down: for your principalities shall come down, even the crown of your glory. Proverbs 6:3chapter context similar meaning copy save Do this now, my son, and deliver thyself, when thou art come into the hand of thy friend; go, humble thyself, and make sure thy friend. James 4:6chapter context similar meaning copy save But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. Judges 19:24chapter context similar meaning copy save Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing. Exodus 10:3chapter context similar meaning copy save And Moses and Aaron came in unto Pharaoh, and said unto him, Thus saith the LORD God of the Hebrews, How long wilt thou refuse to humble thyself before me? let my people go, that they may serve me. Deuteronomy 8:16chapter context similar meaning copy save Who fed thee in the wilderness with manna, which thy fathers knew not, that he might humble thee, and that he might prove thee, to do thee good at thy latter end; Matthew 23:12chapter context similar meaning copy save And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted. 2 Corinthians 12:21chapter context similar meaning copy save And lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already, and have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they have committed. Deuteronomy 8:2chapter context similar meaning copy save And thou shalt remember all the way which the LORD thy God led thee these forty years in the wilderness, to humble thee, and to prove thee, to know what was in thine heart, whether thou wouldest keep his commandments, or no. 2 Chronicles 7:14chapter context similar meaning copy save If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 34:27chapter context similar meaning copy save Because thine heart was tender, and thou didst humble thyself before God, when thou heardest his words against this place, and against the inhabitants thereof, and humbledst thyself before me, and didst rend thy clothes, and weep before me; I have even heard thee also, saith the LORD. How else will you ever notice and face the truth if not through being HUMBLE? Let me help to see and to seek out little more truth: New years eve - we celebtare it in the wrong day. We send a year away, while it`s still contunes. We live in a world where new year starts with 1st January - right? WRONG. New year have always started with 1st March. 4 seasons all 3 months long. March, April, May = Spring, June, July, August = Summer, September, October, November = Fall, December, January, February = Winter.
I get the sense the primary issue is that the culture/town is quite emotionally stunted, rather than that they’re isolated or live quite a mundane life. It’s a vicious cycle the more they collectively don’t process their feelings and trauma. They need to develop healthier behaviours and initiatives to feel a greater sense of connection. I feel so much for them. I hope they get the help they need to heal.
Social media is a lot to blame=Wittnessing all the Fake Happy Faces on FB and such=You can’t miss what I’ve never had & it is punishment to sit and watch others doing what u never have and never will=if u stare long enough into the abyss you will become the abyss
Yeah but many other cultures are like that, like in China or Eastern Europe but the suicide rates are not quite as high there, I think it has more to do with the culture’s relationship with death.
You just explained my entire existence. I live a life of severe isolation due to my mental health issues which has led me to not being able to work. It really is devastating the way severe isolation can feel. Sometimes weeks go by and I do not leave my bed or see other people. It's truly unhealthy. I believe everything that you have said to be true. It's my existence. I don't know how to change it either. I also don't drive and live in the middle of the woods which makes things even worse.
@@palestar828 sorry to hear, yeah it’s horrible. I’ve had similar unhealthy isolated periods due to being super avoidant in the past. I’ve managed to slowly get out of it with very small steps, introspection, therapy/psych content, spirituality, and time. I hope the same for you. Even if you don’t know how to change, I’m sure there’s some little things you know will help and are a step in the right direction. Wishing you the best ❤️
"Just talk about feelings." It sounds so simple but it is actually the root of a lot of male depression. Talking about your feelings isn't weak and it isn't pathetic. It's actually one of the hardest things you can do. It takes balls to be able to open up and speak about how you feel. If you feel lonely, or if you are feeling like you don't matter, do what Vittus has done and find a way to talk about how you're feeling, you'll be amazed how much you have to share.
I think another reason they are sad is because of the environment, it’s so beautiful that it’s just normal to them and the way the environment is just so peaceful, almost too peaceful, and sometimes that can be the cause of depression, they want to feel something different, and the population is really low making it feel even more lonelier
Imagine living in LA or New York and just going off to live on a town with under 1,000 people. The dramatic change, you’ll like it at first but we as humans are meant to live close to each other and not be in a not so peaceful place. Like living in a city, but be a to go to the mountains to hike, beach, etc do different activities.
Yeah this is exactly whats wrong with where I live too. Peaceful is great but it gets boring when nothing happens. No I don't want anything bad happening but I want anything crazy to happen. Nothing happens here
I feel like you can feel trapped anywhere you are, but for Greenlanders they're actually more physically trapped too. I hope he makes his way out one day and comes back to help other people who might need it
Its the same case with nordic countries in europe and eastern europe. Most days look grey and are cold. Up north they have some wealth but everything is cold, the life, especially night life, is not even comparable to southern europe or many warm places. In east, countries are poor. On top of grey weather u have grey and ugly soviet houses. Its just all quite depressing and i dont think people from warm developed countries understand this
It must just be very lonely there with barely anyone living there, but they can of course make things livelier on their own. I’m sure it’s a simpler life there.
@@Anonymous-wi6ig Many people are responding, but many more are not. A forum on TH-cam is not going to give any sort of answers. We have 35 million people in Canada. Most of us in the cold cities don’t like the freezing cold, but we simply accept it as part of life. It certainly makes us really enjoy spring, summer ( yess! ) and fall. We do 4 distinct seasons. I know many young people who have attempted suicide and many who have tried to, but survived. Not one had to do with the weather!
The contrast between the conversation and the beautiful background at 06:32 is so powerful. You can live in one of the most unique and gorgeous places in the world, with a community centered around family, and STILL feel all alone. Of course it is a bit secluded with a small population, but we humans aren't made to know over 2,000 people anyways. This is something many of us experience anywhere in the world. And what we all need is someone like Luke, someone to talk to. We also should act like him and talk to our friends and family about hardship. Bottling up lifes hardships won't get us anywhere, but sharig let's us strive for happier days and let's us bond with those we love. Thanks for the amazing video Luke!
It is interesting that they are close-knit families but don’t discuss their feelings with them. What is the purpose of having a family then? They need to take more effort to get out of their shell a bit. At least younger people. For their own safety.
@@НатальяМартынюк-ъ1й Yeah, maybe they can have programs for people to work on their emotional health issues together. There's a lot of good content online that they can use. Maybe they could get some ayahuasca or shroom therapy going there for the adults.
This is incredibly refreshing. In a world of travel bloggers curating every single step I finally find one of the most authentic travel videos. Your lovely host Vittus and his family and your work touched my heart. This is why I love traveling please please never change. This is the kind of travel videos we need.
This is so sad. It does seem like a very "boring" place to live. But at the same time seems like a very community oriented and family knit place. I'm sorry so many of them are having such mental anguish.
nope it doesn’t i live in antarctica falkand islands and we are actually the least densely populated our population is just over 3000 it snows here from late may until september and we get on with life, no suicides here. dark here at 4pm from may-september, our internet is limited and there’s barely anything to do by your logic then we would all be killing ourselves instead we have no crime and live.
@drewpeacock69 i’ve never seen it but i’ve heard the shipping boats that come in every couple of months sometimes have it but people lie here so who knows
Honestly everyone from colder countries should be proud, because their countries end up being one of the most developed and progressive in the world unlike warmer regions where im from. I really do envy you guys. I wouldn't mind some cold if it means better life
@@siennamiel-wb7nl there are many evolutionary reasons that contribute to colder countries being more successful that the other in warmer parts. It's basic natural selection where the most intelligent and strong survive the cold weather to have their family and spread their healthy genetics and body symetry. If you were to visit where I live you'll feel so lucky. I can list millions of reasons for wanting to live in northern countries and million reasons against southern ones. I really feel inferior man
Wow, the contrast between a beautiful-peaceful place and the sadness of its population amazes me, its like how can you be so sad if you have all the tranquility that millions of people in stressful cities wants?? I guess sadness have many faces and we don't experience it the same way. Thank you for sharing Vittus's story and please keep doing videos like this 🙂
It takes a certain kind of mindset to be able to live in tranquil places like these. I think far too many people get caught up in the "peacefulness" of it all and by default think it must be heaven.
Of course; imagine living in a place this quiet, with few people and few places to go for entertainment. There comes a point where people get tired of the routine and can't take it anymore. Certainly this situation cannot continue like this, and this video offers us a reflection on it. ------ Por supuesto; imagina vivir en un lugar así de tranquilo, con poca gente y pocos lugares a donde ir para distraerse. Llega un punto en que la gente se cansa de la rutina y no puede más. Ciertamente esta situación no puede seguir así, y este video nos propone una reflexión acerca de ello.
I think it is also is in the view of how separated they are compared to the world. A population of 50k, but they're so limited on resources in terms of "fun" or what they want to do. The privilege of going anywhere in terms of finding new adventure is at a grasp that we take advantage of. As he explained, their form of fun is alcohol. Alcoholism is a reactionary to depression. Also there's apparently high rate of poverty, conflicts between family and internal relationships and dysfunctions in family households. Hard to have that but have literally no where to go. It's not like the United States or other countries where an issue like that is as easy as starting a new life. Which we take advantage of and we should know of that privilege but we don't notice it. It's hard to ALWAYS get along or ALWAYS have the same thing 24/7 and be stuck on an island that is hard to just leave. An annual rate of 82:100,000. That means for every 1,219 of a person, there's a suicide within that statistic. You can say that the view is amazing and you'd assume that would be tranquility, but in their mind it's a "beautiful" prison. It would only be amazing for those who have the advantage of wealth where they can come and go. Being able to stay there for vacation, for months or even years but the ability to leave anytime.
By the way, I just finished the video and not only am I surprised that I guessed it right in terms of it feeling like they're in jail. But it perfectly explains that even with family and other people, you can still feel lonely. Yes, it's serene.... But we can all agree that it is SO empty and having constant people or motion around you is a good thing. It's per person, but you don't understand until you're in this situation and have to deal with it 24/7. Especially for the modern era and the children of that era. Before it was about surviving so you always had something to do and a goal. But in this video alone, it shows that they're living and finding reasons to live.
I think it's lack of sun and vitamin D that has a lot to do with causing depression. I'm not a scientist but I live in Michigan and a lot of ppl have seasonal depression in the winters cuz of the cloud cover and general cold
It’s so ironic and eye opening getting to see the other side of the coin. So many people in America would love a lifestyle like his, filled with family, routine, nature, and healthy living. It’s almost impossible to live the Greenland lifestyle in America save for a few places. But those places are usually expensive which makes it feel less attainable. Would love to see Vittus get to experience a trip outside of his own country.
Visited Tasiilaq many years ago on holiday. I became suicidal after returning to my own country (sub-tropics). I hate the sun, I hate crowds, I hate humidity, I hate noises. Tasiilaq had everything I ever wanted. My depression "magically" cured when I moved to Reykjavik. I guess some people (like me) are just weirdos.
i attempted suicide last year, and listening to how he he wanted to be a better person really resonated with me. for people who have depression, any progress may never seem enough, causing a never ending spiral. I hope his life is full of happiness, such a kind soul. (edit): I'd like to thank everyone in the comments sending such kind messages, from the bottom of my heart. I'm in a much better place mentally than I used to be compared to the last few years, some days will still be rough, but that's ok. If you are going through a hard moment in your life right now and need don't know how to get out of that situation, I urge you to get medical help as soon as you can. However, I'd also like to say that just because you can't have access to medical help, it doesn't mean that everything is lost. The best advice I could give you right now is: rawdog the shit out of mental illness. Tomorrow is still a new day, stop overthinking about wasted time, don't let depression dictacte what you can or should do in your life, you are so much more than an illness. dont give up on yourself, because the day you do, it's the day you lose. don't let depression root your brain, as much 'comfort' as it gives, you are only sinking further down. seek change, seek to get out of the routine, seek new environments. Life is much more than following the same scheme every day. Don't be afraid to experience it. You can get through this, things will get better as long as you keep trying, but more importantly, living. Thank you for the love, sending kind regards.
I've been through this phase, I'm very well acquainted with the certain emptiness it just creeps inside of you over the time. there are times when it's just difficult to even survive on daily basis as you said it's a vicious cycle of emptiness and sadness. well if you ever feel alone or you wanna talk about it just let me know, I'm all ears. just a friendly reminder you're loved and important :)🤍
Never ending spiral happens because we as people keep wanting to criticize. If you try living with the worst bully you realize that it doesn't matter what they think, after a while you just want to tie them up because they can't leave you alone. Once the bully calms down and your not so sensitive then you can have a productive conversation. I remember feeling unworthy when I was in middle school cuz I got jumped by bullies In front of my teacher, parents weren't around and nobody came to my rescue. All people cared about were they're stupid rules. I wanted to die, so I decided I would. I wanted to die and turn into a person that would uphold the values I believed in. Training breeds worthiness, who cares if your worthless. That just means nobody has conditioned or compelled you to their world, your free to explore what you will.
Reminds me of stories I hear about living in high suicide rate states like Alaska, Wyoming, Montana. Just like Greenland, the majestic landscape is breathtaking with mountains, abundant wildlife, etc. There is, however, something about living in the hinterlands that apparently causes immense feelings of isolation. You end up looking at the beautiful topography through a dark lens.
Actually if you look up this years statistics, most of the top 10 are hot countries, so this theory of the cold and dark causing suicide, isn't actually true. NZ, where I live, used to have a high suicide rate, yet we have over 2k sunshine hours each year, whereas the UK has quite low sunshine hours in comparison, yet they've not had a particularly bad rate at all. The weather is part of the reason that they move to NZ.
@@bingonamo7520 I'm in Scotland and it's very depressing to live here, rain is constant and people quite down beat and repressed emotionally, I would love to move to NZ Aotearoa! Skint though!
@@mritchie85 People are also repressed emotionally here and where I live in Auckland it rains a lot in Autumn and Winter and the storms can be much wilder than UK ones. Flooding is also a problem now, with global warming worsening, but I guess that's happening in lots of places now. If you are under age 35 and can raise the airfare, you can do a working holiday here for up to 2 years. There's worker shortages in the hospitality industry and fruitpicking is another option (although that's seasonal and quite physically demanding).
I get the distinct feeling that the melancholy is deeply embedded in the hearts and souls of these people. Is there anyway realistically to alleviate them from themselves?
@@aidenralston5477 apples is talking about intergenerational trauma. The wounds of colonization, genocide, land theft, boarding schools and suppression of ways of life Natives experienced (and continue to experience) is often called by natives as "the wound". It's the root cause of depression, addiction, suicide, and violence in their communities. Trauma & intergenerational trauma are the gateway drugs.
Christ is the answer. When you abide in Him, surrender your life to Him, He will abide in you and breathe new life in you. Far too many people try to fill the void with a world that can never and will never satisfy. For the sufferings of this world are not to be compared with the glory that will be revealed to us, and in us, and conferred on us. Romans 8:28
I love that you traveled all that way, made a new friend and a deep connection! You have empowered so much healing! ❤ Maybe now he can travel to visit you and have new experiences!
I’m surprised how emotionally moved I feel by Vittus sharing his feelings with us. I have felt the same emotions but I live many thousands of miles away in a city. Sharing what we feel is vital - we don’t need to feel ashamed of anything we think and feel. We are all human beings. I wish Vittus and his beautiful family the best of health and true contentment. Keep throwing that money!
I can imagine it’s hard to talk to people in such a small connected group, you don’t want to possibly damage the few associations you have, or risk your private thoughts being spread around the little village. Much easier sharing with an outsider who has a different view of your situation.
I was glad having that as a relief from the initial "good confirmation, welcome to the adult world with expectations and depression!" - then to the graveyard
New subs. here Luke. I feel your genuiness and the comfort you gave Vittus is a life changer. May the people of Greenland know they are important and valued. ❤
It's the loneliness of isolation. Not everyone is as nice as Luke but if they want to invite more people some including myself would love going just to see such a beautiful place (without tourist junk) and are just as lonely as well. It would be great for photographers and artists alike.
I’m with you! My cousin and I would give some happiness and laughs as she could have been a comedian and I’m her sidekick. It looks like a beautiful place. 🙏🏼♥️
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 I don't believe they would have many hotels around those areas and if they do it's probably privately owned so it would seem (to me) if you're not invited kinda like I was trespassing everywhere I was..... who pissed in your coffee? A freeloader 😂
“Just invite me take pictures, I’ll cure their loneliness better than their families ever could, I’m the most narcissistic dumbass ever to touch this app”
@@Fcpuru95 no for me it really is. I live in a sunny tropical country, and gloomy days such as this is truly depressing and leaves me with no energy. That could just be me who is used to receiving a lot of sunlight but I always correlate health and happiness with sunlight.
@@marolborrough6355 that was me for years and only recently have I learnt to gain things from weather other than sun, I now enjoy the rain and grey skies. It’s taken me 20 years though
What a lovely man and so generous of him to welcome you into his home and share his story. It doesn’t matter where you are in the world, humans are humans and no one is immune to depression and suicidal thoughts. I’m happy that the discussion about suicide and how important it is to reach out without embarrassment to others when we are in a dark place. The loneliness of being in that dark place is real, but the more we talk about it the more we realise that we are not alone in our struggles, that people do understand and are prepared to listen and help when we struggle. So very proud of the bravery of this man to speak about his depression. Thank you for sharing!
loneliness is a blessing tbh. still better be alone than with a wrong person. many people literally dream of loneliness and serenity. Grass is always greener on the other side.
well most people don't want to live totally off the grid. they just want to temporarily escape their reality by going hiking or backpacking for a few days
I think your visit brought him a lot of joy and release, man. I’m glad you got to talk to him just a little bit about who he is and what he’s feeling. Sometimes we really do just need someone to simply be there and listen.
I feel like this kind of video is what TH-cam is meant to be for. So we can see and experience other places and other humans. This was so beautifully done, and what a kind soul Vittus is. Thank you so much for sharing!
Same here. I Feel like every day is a rerun. It's hard to explain to someone who doesn't feel this way. When your young you look forward to getting your license then turning 21. Etc..... After all that I just feel like there's not alot to look forward to and repetition Sinks in.
Edit out the misused flower term rose, which only reflects me the pure being (the opposite of womyn/humnz) and, I am the only Rose - all womyn are the exact opposite of rose / flower names and it’s beyond disrespectful to flowers / nature / plants when womyn misuse flower / nature / plant related terms / names / items etc!
@@reynoldmichael1348 exactly! The pressure of life and the expectations just continue to grow as you age. There should be a mandatory let’s go play and explore camp for adults to go to every year. 😂
The nice part about our (city) lives is theres still a lot of interesting stuff going on, interesting people to meet, and just a lot of things to explore in general. The place where this man lives genuinely always seems the same. Our routine is something that almost all of us are able to spice up a bit, so i dont think we can really compare ourselves to people living in a place like this. Make the most of your lives now that you still can !
Oh your friend is so kind. Still smiling in jis facebook profile picture. Although so sad. And so kind that he received you so warmly and in his car. Then not a hotel, he let you stay in his home. And then went everywhere with you. May Allah bless him. May he explore the other parts of the world. May he find peace! Aameen
Setting foot in the most suicidal town was a decision made after contemplating the importance of shedding light on the mental health crisis and its global implications. Greenland's alarming suicide rates have been extensively reported, but I felt the dire need to experience this phenomenon firsthand and understand the complex challenges faced by the residents of this isolated outpost.
I thought it was interesting he felt depressed from doing the same thing over and over. It makes complete sense because as humans, novelty is huge in our lives to alleviate things like depression or feeling bored/sad. That's something my therapist shared with me. So when he concluded the video with talking about your feelings- it's huge.
What isn't mentioned is that the rate is much higher during the summer because of insomnia resulting from the continuous sunlight during that time. This was so raw. So beautiful to see two people, especially men, come together and share their deepest emotions with one another. I look forward to the day this is normal.
We’re still young-most of us, anyway. I can see it now, in a few years, 5, 10, who knows, but things will get better, I sincerely believe. One day. It’s just a battle of attrition at this point.
Thank you so much for sharing this enlightening experience with all of us. Vitus, you have a beautiful, kind, and caring heart. I wish you and your family nothing but endless happiness, love, and light. So happy that you’re here 🫶
I'm from an isolated town in Alaska, and ive lost so many friends to suicide, this really hit home for me. In my hometown, alcoholism and addiction, along with depression, are incredibly common, and everyone knows it, but it's not talked about enough I feel. I feel like men especially are so often told to keep their emotions in, and thinking about ending your life usually carries so much shame with it for the person, which just makes it even harder to reach out. I often cry thinking about the friends I've lost, and how I wish I had known, I wish I could've done something. I would've done something. Now I have so many holes in my heart where relationships used to be, it's almost left me angry. Sorry, kinda went off on a tangent. This video brought up a lot of emotions for me. ❤️
I had gone through depression and I felt exactly like him. Same routines everyday, there was nothing to look forward to. It was like my life wasn't going anywhere and I was just going through a circle. I feel him, I really do. ❤
As a psychologist I find these kind of videos really important. It helps us to study how to help others and learning about others. Thank you for making this video 💜
It’s a very common thing in small towns that there are drug and alcohol problems because there isn’t anything fun or interesting to do, so you just get drunk or high. It’s a thing in any small rural town you’ll ever visit.
Cities lack diversity and variety. Less people, clubs, organizations, venues, cultures, subcultures , opportunities, etc. Rural areas also seem to have less festivals and some rural places have an imbalance in populations where there are more elders than young people which impacts the opportunities possible and friends possible for young people.
I can’t imagine living in a place like that or Alaska. I’m fairly certain I struggle with seasonal affective disorder. Now that DST ended and it’s getting dark here at like 4:30pm, I can already feel myself slowly spiraling.
I have to implement a ton of habits in order to not feel as depressed for the winter. I noticed waking up earlier helps so you get more daylight, as well as trying to force yourself to enjoy all of the different holiday festivities. Hang in there! You’re not alone
I saw this video 2 years ago. Now I came across it once again, I didnt initially realise I've seen it before, but quickly remembered it. The most amazing part is that the one thing that stuck to me this whole time is when Vittus gave the advice to talk about your feelings. "If youre happy, talk about it; if youre sad, talk about it; if you get jealous talk about it, etc..". In this period of two years I have been through a lot of struggles ,traumas and depression I never thought I'd have. Somehow in my head I always remembered what Vittus said. Now I'm really grateful for rewatching this video.
I'm not from Greenland but one of the best things I ever did was leave my tiny hometown. I was so suicidal and alone. Now I'm not anymore. I've been able to find happiness and I truly hope everyone else can too.
@@joanna583 it is very isolated and there are much more men than women. Most smaller places want their population to grow, but usually it isn't always easy, especially if there isn't a lot to do.
There's a quote that I really like. "If you can't turn where you live into heaven, wherever you escape is hell.". Escaping is not the true answer for the solutions in our heads all the time.
@@nazlcanozen56 Hi. What do you think about Russians People who are fleeing their Country due to illegal mobilization? They don't want to kill Ukrainians, they don't want to participate in the Kremlin terror of Ukraine, they don't want to be terrorists. P.S: I'm not from Russia.
Wow! This video blew up!! Vittus and I are pumped! I’d like to clear some things up. For those pointing out my mis-classification of Greenland: I wasn’t sure how to refer to Greenland, since it isn’t an independent country but a country within the Danish realm. During my research I found that it is most often simply referred to as a country. Secondly, I would also like to point out that Vittus and I spoke for hours and hours without the camera rolling. Vittus is passionate about this topic and growing awareness within his community and everywhere else. He made it clear to me after the first few days that he was open to discuss this topic and tell his personal story on camera. I would not want to film these vulnerable and intimate conversations without the okay from him before hand. This was a tough one for me to handle as a filmmaker, but after seeing all your comments we both agree how important this story was to tell. I’m still learning how to handle these topics, and this was a huge learning experience. Thanks for understanding and thanks for support on this one!! Check out Vittus’ channel in the top comments!
Glad I‘ve found a really good video again. Thank you for sharing your experiences and thanks to Vittus for being ok with part of your conversations being on youtube…
as someone who has suffered from depression and tried taking my life several times, I teared up cause this is exactly how I feel. This video just resonates with me. I've been doing better and I hope Vittus is also doing better :) life is so beautiful, a bad day will pass. We'll be ok
Thank you Luke, this is a very important message and also a wonderful example of the good that come from social media. You and Vittus can save lives and reach people who feel isolated - whether or not they are geographically isolated. I look forward to more content from each of you.
When he said that we should talk about how we feel, it made me feel like I will be trapped in my own head forever till i die cuz talking about my feelings means feeling like a burden and an endless guilt and I truly can't handle this
What a sweet man, I wish he could come with you and visit your home place for a bit. I'm sure you've brightened his life up quite a bit by being so kind and spending time with him. So great to see two people opening up and being in those moments.
Hello everyone,
I just revisited Vittus in Tasiilaq on year later and just uploaded the film to my channel! Check it out!
i had this vid in my watch later for months and finally been going thru it while i work. i guess i finally watched this at the perfect time
nice!
thank you for making this video
I am glad you too are still friends,i think your friendship to him it's important since you don't come from same place,same background.i hope there won't be more suicide
Come to america and visit !
Thanks Luke! It was a pleasure to meet you!
@Vittus Mathiassen Upload videos bro, show the world your life and feelings
I hope you are doing okay Vittus !!
Thank you guys!
wishing you a great future Vittus
thank you for sharing vittus!! all the best to you and your loved ones!!❤
i'm from greenland. we have high rates of suicide because of the lack of mental health facilities and also activites for kids and teenagers. this is also why crime rate is high, people have nothing else to do.
Just out of curiosity, what type of crime? Is it theft and vandalism or more violent crime?
@@ifjchsiwocjcjs4378 high murder rates, lots of violence and r***pe sadly, and also more minor crimes such as vandalism
@@ifjchsiwocjcjs4378 Looks like there isn’t much going for the town. The jobs probably don’t pay much, and the residents just feel trapped there. Somewhere almost desolate, isolated, all alone in a small town in the middle of nowhere.
@@ifjchsiwocjcjs4378 it’s almost like a cruel joke, or some sort of story. A place so beautiful, a place where it’s residents live quiet lives of solitude and sadness
What do the general population in greenland do for living?
I grew up in Alaska, this resonates a lot, the dark winters, the cold, nothing to do and many turn to drinking and it spirals from there. I think people who haven't lived in these kinds of places struggle to understand how much an effect constant darkness can have.
Same
Northern Michigan is very similar
Seems to happen in a lot of small, and more specifically, isolated communities…towns..regions of the earth. When your surrounded by the same people day in and out, don’t have much to do for physical activity, and a small town with nowhere to really go and explore, then it’s no wonder this happens.
Same In Finland
I live in Pennsylvania, and our winter months just hit me so differently than the summer months. I couldn't imagine it being that way for the whole year!
"We don't have to talk about this if you don't want to." Thank you for caring about the people you interview.
He seems so superficial
They just need to start groups and activities for the younger people and use those lights that help for depression, in areas that don’t get sunlight
Jesus loves yall, died for us, and rose again! Jesus calls for all of us to repent! He's coming back!!!!!
@@redblue5140 just do better. ;-)
Thank you ❤❤❤😊
it’d be amazing if you could return him the favor and travel to your homecity with him and show him how different the world can be
Brilliant
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boosting this up
That's cruel. Have a small taste of a better life, but then go back where you came from
@@Ronkyort0dox I rather go with him and have one of the best week of my life seeing and experiencing the rest of the world and cherish it for what it is than to stay and just think about what the world could be
Lack of sunshine + cold weather is a recipe for sadness. It's quite prevalent here in Canada as well.
I'm glad someone mentioned. I've lived in rural Ontario all my life and currently live in a town with 1000 people and this video resonated with me because it's just as depressing. I crave city life. My life saving factor right now is a trip to meet my long distance partner in the States but if that fails, I'm just gonna be so defeated.
@@ashleymaddison5156 hang in there my friend. I know it can be tough to always remember that things will look up.
@@esparda07 Thank you so much
1 in 5 canadians have a mental illness. Plus -35 winters
Cold weather makes me happy
As someone who struggles with seasonal depression, I can see why people who live in cold and dark places may feel a lot more depressed than others. Even when I feel absolutely awful, standing outside in the sun has always helped, even if just a tiny bit. I can't imagine what it's like to live in such a secluded and dark area
Weird how few people know something about a lack of light. I'm shocked by the comment section to be honest
I can’t imagine living somewhere that’s permanently dark for a portion of the year. I’m from the uk and I really struggle in winter even when it’s only light from 8am-3pm.
I lived in tasiilaq from 2010 to 2012, and I can tell you that it’s not as dark as people might think.
At the darkest days of the year there’s sun from 10 am to 3 pm.
I know it’s darker than pretty much all other places, but people have a tendency to think it’s just complete total darkness up there.
Well I’m just curious, do you really think living with heat, humidity and sunshine for more than 9 months a year feels pleasant? May not cause seasonal depression as such but it causes a lot of misery and discomfort which increases frustration levels amongst the population. Don’t forget, places with the highest year round sunshine (like the tropical south of India) also come with heat, dust, noise, pollution, humidity and mosquitoes. It’s always a tradeoff
I’m the opposite, I fell happier in the winter and miserable any other season
Sometimes it’s not about giving them good advice it’s about being open to listening.
Yeah you're absolutely right people listening to them vent all this time it's always been the shortage if you just had enough people to vent on and those people were absolutely suicide proof it'd be great nobody would be sad. You get all these people that have one problem and they don't know what that problem is the problem is they aren't getting enough attention. Instead of going out here and some healthy way to gain attention and doing good deeds are cheering people up or getting invited over cuz you're just so happy everybody can ride up the hill on your shoulders while you laugh, go negative and you start to vent your spleen all your nasty stuff on some poor soul willing to pretend to listen or worse yet willing to listen. If all you have is a problem that you want somebody to listen to over and over and over then you pretty much are the problem not the solution. If you don't need advice then you're happy with what you have if you're happy with what you have you don't need to vent on me if you need to vent on me you need advice.
No it’s about solving people’s problems, your pity coffee chat or sweet chat don’t cure depression or loneliness
@wolfraid-t7n I'm with you these guys get paid no matter what they have a credential they're better than you society respects them for it and you're just kind of like a cow or a pig and a slaughterhouse when you go to a therapist.
6:12 When you offer up your home to a complete stranger, take them on a tour, invite them into your family and have them over to celebrations, only to say in despair: “I want to be a good person.” That line really hit hard. To have that much evidence that your heart is filled with kindness and you have so much to good to offer the world, yet somehow convinced that the world would be better off if you were never born. That’s the real difference between sadness and depression, at least to me anyway.
That's a good way to put it. Some people who are depressed also feel like awful people so they push everyone away.
So it's nice to see people like Vituss showing us the other side of the coin to depression. The kindness he shared is not unnoticed.
As someone who grew up on National Parks in remote regions and finally a small town in Australia, I understand that trapped feeling. I think they would heavily benefit from maybe a local movie night, I personally create animations and world building to create worlds that interest me. And it’s okay if I’m not living the life I envision for these shows because it feels like an escape into a reality that takes the adventure straight to me.
I think the isolation helped in my world building because it’s almost like I’m always working off imagination.
I can see countries Cleary with the internet but I can never know what that town or country is like, so I can draw inspiration off the stories I hear from these places and make a world out of it. I never feel like my days are repeating when working on these projects because everyday I’m sitting down and writing the next location, dialogue or draw the next few frames it feels like a completely new day in the world I make.
I think the people in Alaska could use some creativity in their youth and towns, art encapsulates everything we can’t in reality!
I would love to one day start a studio an hire people in places like this to envision their perspective, idc if they have any skills in art or not, it’s the mind that has all the art inside it
To me, it sounds more like the isolation in any place you live is the main issue. People all around the world commit suicide. You can be depressed in the loveliest of places.
If you are living in a domestic abuse situation with no where to go, you are also in a prison.
I live in a very cold city in Canada - it’s been 69 years. I suffered from depression, but it had nothing to do with the weather. It runs in my family.
Growing up in winter was brutally cold and life went on - school, work, parties. I was a swimmer and later became better at skating and took up skiing.
Nobody really looked forward to winter, but there it was, every year. Dark leaving for school in the morning and dark returning home. I guess having 8 siblings helped - always something going on. Plus a large extended family.
And when there is daylight, the sun is shining most of the winter. I had a friend who moved from Northern Ontario to Vancouver. It was raining and she kept waiting for it to stop. Not for a month - she was severely depressed. She said maybe it was freezing cold where she came from, but she missed the sun. ( And it’s usually sunny on the very coldest days )
Isolation can happen in large, busy cities. Loneliness is becoming so prevalent, especially with the elderly. I think some people die of loneliness.
That being said, I have 3 siblings who live in warmer climates and never come to visit in the winter. When they came for our Dad being ill and dying - they remembered how much they hated the cold.
One brother always said he would move to a warmer climate when he was able to and he did. And I have one son who also wants to live in a warm climate. He’s partway there in a much warmer city in Canada.
@@dynamopirate470 good point, the self isolation piece is huge
Their guts are all fucked up. Their ancestors used to eat tons of rotten food, which produces a lot of serotonin
theres such a sad energy coming from the whole town, you can tell how it's a constant cycle. being that the population is so small, probably every single person that inhabits it knows at least one person who has committed suicide :( they continue despite carrying that grief, i cant even imagine the guilt of wanting to move away but cant because your whole family lives there, or you know someone who's died there and you don't want to leave them be. It may be a beautiful place, but it carries such sad stories
Although this video is sad. And what Vittus is going through sucks. This video is a bit of a overexaggeratation. I live in Greenland and it's really not that bad as people make it seem.
@@frkimei8060 I often want to move further north. But I get very depressed form long dark days.
Even here in the Netherlands where we don’t have dark winters like yours, the fact that sun is up at 9am and gone at 5pm really drake me down. In the arctic it hardly even gets properly light in the winter. I don’t think I could deal with that. But I do want to visit, Greenland and Iceland. They both look so stunning and unique. All the best up north! ❤
@@CallousCoder Netherlands is literally my favorite country and I wish I could go there tbh
@@frkimei8060 come for a visit then, I feel like the Netherlands is a great country to visit and stay in for a short while. Having lived here for a couple years myself, I feel like its not entirely feasible to stay for life unless you have quite a lot of money sadly.
@@BlåRain i need you to read yourself paragraph again dude.
This just shows how much the lack of sun light can affect people but im glad this community is staying strong
I am thinking the same.I also see no trees or greenery,. Perhaps gardening or planting and taking care of some vegetation can keep them busy.
Yes. Also the alcohol wouldn't help..it would give them a high and then hit even lower and also causes inflammation in the brain and decreasing blood flow in and to the brain which is vital for mental health and emotional well being.
Thought about that. But I think they feel trapped also. I see less sun than they do. But I'm able to leave my situation if I choose to. I also use high-lumen incandescent growing bulbs in my apartment. Far more soothing than fluorescent or LED.
@@seedsandpaperleavesmy guess is thats the reason they turn to alcohol. Then the alcohol makes it worse
Then why doesn’t yakutsk Russia have a sky high suicide rate
I hope he's OK.. Depression is no joke.. I lost my brother to depression.. Wish I talk to him when he's still alive and don't become busy with my own life..
I'm so sorry, hope your family is okay💗
When I was Finland, I was depressed severely.
@@khafen-b1v Thank you.. We're still in the process of healing and accepting it. But we know soon we will ❤️🙏
@@niladrisaha6024 Hope your doing OK now.. If u feel lonely and need someone to talk to, I'm willing to listen even if I'm a stranger to you
@@CBE1719 Thanks for the concern 🙂
mate the way you share humanity. It's just stunning
definitely
i agree, i just wished i could change or share something to the magnitude he could
@BBPP same!
Yea I love how its not exploiting the suicide aspect and create big shock value. It's real and it's human and it's so strong!
(Hope it makes sense, im not enlish and capturing the feeling I got from this is really hard haha)
@@DeutscheDemokratischeRepublik I think that most of the time, the little things are more important than the bigger picture,
So helping a single person you know/love can be a huge step into changing the world
This shows that you could be in the most beautiful place in the world, but if you feel lonely and isolated there, in the end it means nothing. Rest In Peace to everyone who lived there.
Yes Prayer, Repentance of one's sins is essential as otherwise we leave ourselves open to attacks from satan and his demons.
Really great video you got a new sub
Happiness is coming from inside, and is a God gifted thing, I bet you now a days you can ask to any rich person in the world, most of them is not happy about there lives, cuz they all forget religion, COVID-19 is also another example (if it's a man made or from nature) of loneliness as we see in lockdowns, the good thing about religion is that, when you reach all height(everything) in the world, it leave us a question is there anything else, and the answer is only religion and belief which gives peace to your hearts and souls, , so always stay positive, humble, kind and merciful to other beings around you and never been revengeful(if you keep taking revenge, the other person will do some it's like a loop that never ends its keeps destroying the future generations in the world, and only the person with the heart of forgiveness will break this loop).
I would say, "Rest in peace to everyone who died there".
I have a cleaning business in my small town. I have clients who are anesthesiologist, lawyers dentist and family court judges. Just three weeks ago one of my clients committed suicide. He was 56 years old and had been a family court judge for the last 22 years. When I was at their home every two weeks I would see him working all the time. There is never any indication that he was going through anything. He always seemed so professional and so put together. This just goes to show you never know what someone else is going through. And to be kind always. He left behind a wife and eight children. Three of those children are under the ages of 12 years old. And they are stuck picking up the pieces and wondering why their father committed suicide.It’s so disgusting here on TH-cam there’s a couple channels that hated him as a judge because of the rulings he had made. I have since asked them to remove those videos out of respect for his family especially his children. And they adamantly tell me no. Please go over to veterans in politics and ask them to take down those videos. This judge was a really good man and a good father.
I love how you let the video breathe so the viewer can draw their own conclusions. Totally fascinating and inspiring
A collab I didn't know I needed till right now, you guys should travel and make something cool 😳😶🌫️
OMG JOHN COZART I LOVE YOU WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN
I did not expect you here haha
But any video is prone to a viewer drawing their own conclusions, just because a video may outline facts it doesn't mean the viewer has to agree or see eye to eye.
@@YTviewer118 calm down
a word of comfort for Vitus:
Pain and suffering are always inevitable for large intelligence and a deep heart
Ahh Dostoevsky
@@thecoolhuman219 old wisdom is lways good wisdom. no matteer the source :)
@@scar445 “We sometimes encounter people, even perfect strangers, who begin to interest us at first sight”
i think that the weird point of depression where you’re not really depressed but not able to enjoy things is the hardest part and i want to thank you for showing it. i’ve struggled with exactly those feelings of being trapped and simply unable to feel enjoyment and it sucks so much. happy november, i hope things are going better soon :)
This hit me :(
Yeah.
Hey i need this. Really depressed and cannot able to feel enjoyment.
@@sweetsexything9241 👋
The best thing can be happening and I’ve just never felt true enjoyment. Even as a kid till now.
The problem that many in Greenland face is that it’s hard to leave and it’s so isolated especially if you are a native Greenlander. Greenland is a place of immense beauty but life there is hard and get boring very quick.
Boredom is why people there drink. If there was no alcohol, people would be more motivated to become wealthier and leave or do better things, rather than think of "fun" things to do to pass the time. Every day. Wasting any money they could be saving.
@@kyles5513 It's not working like that. Yes, they might be more productive (but not exactly wealthier since they live in a remote region without opportunities) but it's not going to change their situation in a meaningful way. They will still be "trapped" there for many reasons and feel that all the time.
@@kyles5513 it's really not that simple. I live in New Zealand & although it's beautiful, we still have poverty. It's impossible to save money when you're poor. If you buy a car it's normally a dunger, which costs all your money to keep running. You can't afford to rent a nice house, so you spend all your money trying to keep dry & warm. If you don't - you end up getting sick. You can't afford proper food and that also affects your health. All your friends, family & neighbors are in the same situation & that's depressing 😔. These are the things that make people want to drink & do drugs. It's not because they're not trying hard enough. It's because they get sick of trying & never getting anywhere. Come to New Zealand, we have poverty. Jamaica, Australia, anywhere. Poverty is Everywhere! It's not boredom or laziness & it's definitely not easy. Don't ever think that it is.
@@kyles5513 "Boredom is why people there drink." Absolutely not, I can tell you don't know much about Greenland just by reading your comment. I am Greenlandic, born and raised in Sisimiut (West Greenland), I am one of those who rarely drink and it's not because I'm not bored...
@@Ingemann. then you're one of the lucky ones I suppose
It’s truly tragic to see how many people have lost their battle to depression. This really hit home.
It's constant and like a loop
suicide isnt always connected to depression, it can be bpd or other struggles
@@katriinmeesak6815 BPD has periods of mania and depression. That’s what it is.
I understand why that place has so high suicide rate, when it has so low population and not much anything to do at all, so while their free in the open Greenland to go where they want. They feel their super alone, while not rotting in prison, when some people can feel alone, when put in misery in jail, but these people are free, but still feel super alone in this vast world with no significant another and thats why they cant handle the loneliness and the void inside them and make suicide to become free of it.
He can do something about it if he moves start again fuck it, better to try your hardest than not try at all and never know
I love how empathetic and supportive you are. Thank you for your kindness, thank you so much.
Thank you very much ❤❤
When I graduated from high school, I decided to took a gap year. I lived in a place where surrounded by outstanding mountains and nature. Around the first months, I felt like this is what I truly wanted for so long. I loved every morning. I didn't even have to set an alarm, and I still can woke up early and felt so fresh. But did the same thing every single day, I become so depressed. Some nights I woke up at midnight and found myself have cried so hard. I felt like I have been in trapped of the beauty. My life was beautiful back then, but it had no taste. I had no friends or people to interact with.
I think it's not really about where you live, but it's about who you live with. To those who are struggling with solitude, please find someone to talk with. Do not keep it alone. People were born to share things just like Luke just shared this story to us.
Thank you for this amazing clip, Luke. It just touched me so much♥
i'm introvert, for me it feels like with my phone and laptop only, it's already make my day. if i go to trip to somewhere, i feel comfortable going alone. recent covid lockdown have no effect to my mood. But, i want to know. will I get depression in the future if i keep going on like this?
@@kammmmal211 Most of the time I feel very fine with being alone. But at the end of the day, people need to interact with someone. You can literally spend most of the time with yourself, but at least take some time to talk with your family, friends, or people who you love. Wish you all the best.
Happiness is only real when shared. Remember that.
@@kammmmal211 I'm also heavily introverted. Normally I'm fine being alone. But sometimes, you'll suddenly feel like you need to share something with someone. That you'll want to make some kind of connection. And often that's extremely difficult, if it's possible at all to begin with. I recently got to that point myself and I've been struggling so much ever since, and the few connections I had have been strained by that. Some even broke, leaving me in a worse situation than before.
I spent most of my life actively avoiding those connections, partly by choice, but mostly because of past trauma, being bullied for being different and weird and quiet. Being hurt by friends who abandoned me. Not wanting to get bullied or hurt again. But that's no way to live.
I say this because I genuinely believe it: Find the smallest number of close friends that you can feel comfortable with, friends that you can trust with your life, and talk to about anything, and who'll be there for you when you need them. Friends who are more family than your actual family. Then have a few more beyond that, but not so many that you can't keep up with them all. If you can do that, your happiness will, for the most part, be stable. It takes work on your part, and for me, it's the hardest thing I've ever done. I still haven't been able to. But it's, I think, the most important thing for happiness and stability in said happiness.
Or go the exact opposite route, become a hermit, and live cut off from the rest of the world, but do it completely. Live out in the forest so far from other people that you'll never see another human being again for the rest of your life. Don't go to the store, don't have a phone or computer or electricity, live self-sufficiently off the land. If you don't go insane from the isolation, you'll never need another person again for anything. An exception can be made for a significant other, and maybe future children with them, if you want.
Or, for an extrovert, do the exact opposite. Try to befriend as many willing people as you can. I can't give any advice on this as I personally think it's a bad idea, but someone else might think differently.
And that's the thing. Everyone is different. Your needs and wants are your own. Only you can decide what's best for you. These are just the suggestions of a random girl you don't even know and will probably never talk to again. The choice in the end is yours and yours alone. Regardless of your choice, I hope you live a life full of happiness and that you do so in good health.
@@StormTheSquid thank you for the advice, I will give it some thought. There is someone out there that is in a more bad situation than what I'm in. I'm grateful for what i have.
I pray for your mental and physical wellbeing. Hope we will walk on the right route to happiness. Take a walk sometimes and don't think too much, it will help.
We may not see each other, but it's nice to have conversations with strangers
It is sad more people won’t see this due to it being flagged as sensitive content. Which it truly is but it is the kind that needs to be heard. I’m lucky enough to see a snippet on Snapchat and came to TH-cam to get the full thing. True quality and moving content. It is not about how viral your content is but how valuable and there is true value in this.
Yeah I really wish it wasn’t flagged as well, because this video probably would’ve performed really well. It’d also be cool knowing more people would learn about this place
I might I can see why y'know,I don't think a kid should see people killing themselves because of their problem also to be that depressing
Im here because youtube recommended this video lol
Right.. just like the man said. We have to talk about these things.
I have yet to see evidence that flagged content is recommended less. If I had to guess, as we’re all guessing bc YT doesn’t disclose it, flagged content is prob just a bit less recommended to users under 18.
There are tons of communities like this all throughout canada. Isolation and alchoholism leads to a lot of suicide and depression. It's nice to see some stories being shared on such a large platform.
Alcohol and drugs robbed me to the point that I actually thought I was living the high life, but I was deceived. Once I asked God if He was real to come into my life and set me free from getting high all the time and help me feel better, He did. I'm no longer a slave, imprisoned by drugs and alcohol. I look back and see how fake, miserable and hopeless I was, but somehow deceived into thinking it was good. Crazy.
Jesus set me free from living as a slave to sinful thoughts and ways but I'm still not perfect and my life has new battles. But now I have real hope and so can you. It's true!
Jesus suffered and died on the cross to make a way for us to be redeemed and forgiven. Anyone who repents, turns from sin and allows The Lord Jesus to live in their heart by His Spirit of power, love and word, can be saved, delivered and set free from all that destroys them and their soul. And you can be resurrected to live in His eternal Kingdom where there is no more sorrow, no more sickness, no more tears, no more death and NO more pain. (read Revelation 21)
@@janetholmes I like it!
@@janetholmes jesus is a prophet
@@dark-ghost5455 He was probably real, but he was just a guy. It sucks that you fall on another crutch, but it's better than alcoholism I guess.
@@jonathanisrael9714 yeah that’s why in Islam Alcohol is banned, proud to be a Muslim, good luck to you from Pakistan 🇵🇰
I saw this vlog several months back. The pain and depression of this person has been kind of permanently etched in my mind. Every once in a while his words pop-up in my mind. I just want to say to the people living in such harsh conditions especially the person in the video that sir you are not alone. You have now a new friend thanks to this young vlogger. I can't do much but I request you to please never forget that people like me are with you in your journey of life. God bless everyone. Keep fighting. You are a hero.
Alcohol gives you a temporary break from depression but actually makes you even more depressed, it's a vicious circle. I hope Vittus is ok. Sharing his feelings is a great way to feel better.
it worked for 27 years , I haven't had any in 3 years but truly believe I wont be around long at all if I don't start back . I don't know what to do , you cant talk to any professionals or its 72 hour mandatory lockdown , I need out of my head not locked up ! My life is very full of regrets and they play over and over everyday!! it really sucks it does but just gonna try make it another day. If you love someone make sure they know it everyday every chance you get ! only advice i got for people
❤ don’t drink alcohol it just make things worse. I’m only on a few months of alcohol free and feeling better even though it is hard sometimes I know I don’t wanna go back.❤❤❤
To be healed… you can achieve the effects of alcohol while sober
@@brianpinion5844 time to really dive into radical self forgiveness, there is a book that really helped me find acceptance in myself. drinking avoids the pain, when you're sober, you're forced to sit with it. feeling regret is okay, but you have to find ways through it and to love yourself. I believe in you.
@@BabySpit lol no
I lost the love my life to suicide almost 3 years ago. He was a native from a small island in Alaska (we meet as friends in high school in the lower 48, 8 years earlier) We talked almost everyday, and I knew the isolation he felt there wasn’t good for his mental health. One day I missed his call; and 3 days later I got the call he was gone. I don’t know why this video was recommend to me; but I haven’t felt this close to him in a while. I still carry a lot of guilt, but I know now that he is free of the unimaginable mental pain he was carrying.
A message to the one I lost:
I love you Erik, and thank you for all the joy you gave me. And I’m sorry I couldn’t take your pain away.❤
Omg. I am sorry about hearing this i also lost my first Bestfriend when i came to Germany i was 18 my friend was 19yrs old she was 8 when her mother brought her in Germany . As what i know her she was a Person with great and Strong Personality ,she never shown me her weakness i was sad when i Moved to Germany at the Age of 17 i had no friends untill i meet her my World Change. We were like Sister's when the Day it was Happened we were supposed to go out to Play Billiard but it was Winter and it was already dark at 4pm i fall asleep when she called . The nxt Day when i was at school i was feeling weird my mind keep saying me to go home . When i got home actualy my friend wu'd call me when we both finished school i wated but no Call from her so i call her but her mom said she is not answering after few hrs her mom called me and said my friend is Dead she Hang her Self on the Bathroom. I prayed and thought it was just all joke i ran to her moms house Across the Street i close my eyes prayed to god let it be a Joke then i begann walking to thier Home i saw Ambulance it took me 6months untill i realizes she is forever gone all those days i waited for her to Show Up that it was a Prank. It's been 16yrs now i still wonder how my life went when she still arround.
@@letsgotravel6724 I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s hard to understand how someone who gave us so much joy, could also be in an incredible amount of pain. All we want is for the ones we love to be happy, and I like to think they both have for a peace that they could never find here on earth. We are lucky to have an angel looking after us now.
I’m so sorry for your loss❤
You’re a very strong person!!! I hope you find peace one day :)
R.I.P Erik
I feel that Vittas would not suffer so much if he had someone to share the monotonous routine with. I wish him all the best.
@@SashaLumi thanks for sharing 💕
@@SashaLumi Do you have BPD ? I recognize those feelings and fears ...
@@SashaLumi I think the point was a reduction of suffering. Not the solution to the individuals overall mental health.
It does work for some. I am not one of them.
@@SashaLumi I don’t think you understand.
You don’t hookup or date with somebody who is broken. Also, this sounds dark, but everyone goes away in the end. You can’t have someone forever, but you can love someone forever.
This issue is different for men and women as well(for obvious reasons).
Young(and elderly) Men often lack camaraderie. That simple camaraderie can ease suffering and give you confidence enough to seek what it is you really need.
The other one for men is purpose. I could go on and on about purpose so I’ll be concise. Find it. Be in service to others. It doesn’t matter how small.
You don’t have to save the world.
I can’t speak on this regarding women honestly. I feel that men can do better alone(socially) than women can. Generally speaking.
I’ll wrap this up with, suffering isn’t bad. Yup. A lot of people I’ve met can’t handle that one unfortunately, but it is true. I’m not saying you should seek suffering. Suffering has been a major catalyst for figuring out who I am and how I want to be. As well as what I definitely don’t want to be. How a man handles suffering can define who they are. Sometimes, your gonna make choices. Those consequences from you’re choices can cause suffering. That’s fine. You didn’t know. How you handle that. That’s what’ll define you, and it probably doesn’t make sense but I swear it makes you feel better. Not happy, but some sort of contentment.
If you read this all. Thanks. I’m a loner. I don’t hate people, but I keep to myself. You and me have value friend.
I hope you find contentment, and whatever else it is you may need.
God bless
@@Spookdookin what does it say about me that when I suffer I lose all hope and just mope myself and wallow in sadness
as a 17 year old girl sitting in her dark room watching this at 4 AM, I needed this. It touched my heart.
How do I reach out to? I'm 23 and I want to be your friend
Stay strong sisi 💪 ❤
Are u okay
Why up at 4 AM? Having a good sleep cycle is very important to your well-being.
@@goofbones6999Facts
I like how his message isn’t just talk when you’re sad. It’s to talk about everything. Let yourself be vulnerable and free and express yourself. Let yourself experience. Don’t hold back how you feel because life is meant to be shared with others. The flip side is that you should also be willing to listen. Not just when someone is sad, but listen to the way they feel about everything.
Your name suits you well, my man!
Beautiful message
i am the exact opposite and life is HARD. honestly, i don’t even know if you can call this living. i’m trying to get rid of these self-destructive habits, but i’ve lived like this for so long that trying to change is a real struggle. i’ll definitely keep struggling though.
Nah bro toxic masculinity 💪🏽
@@taesang5664 I am old, I have had a lot of struggles. What seems long at your age is like an eye blink to me. Don't give up hope. There are so many wonderful things you just haven't noticed yet. Listen to the stories of the old people, laugh with them, learn from them. Listen to those younger than you, see how you think different from them because you're older. Get rid of self-doubt, become the best version of who you are. Where there is breath there is hope. You can change yourself and you can change the world around you, you just have to pick a direction and go. I believe I've learned more from my failures than my successes. I grieve those who I have lost but my father told me something very wise " the joy of knowing someone far exceeds the grief of losing them ". I will pray God gives you insight and joy, you're not alone.
I appreciated Vittus’s honesty. He allowed us a glimpse into his life and it was beautifully vulnerable
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Why doesn't he plant trees? Hope he gets better but he needs to improve his depressing surrounds, grow stuff, build stuff out you'll stay depressed.
@@motherofallemails Dude no one plants trees in Greenland
@@amerain1729 well they should start doing it. Plant some trees the place is utterly miserable and barren without trees.
Not only is this bringing to light both the beauty and sadness in Greenland, but I also want to thank you for using your platform to display that men CAN open up to each other about their pain and mental health struggles. Men's mental health matters, and you are not any less "manly" for hurting, you are merely human. Great video Luke! and I hope Vittas and his family have a life of happiness!
But nobody gives a fuck
Nobody cares that someone is sad. Your problems don't matter to me.
@@ozyt5002 all u keep commenting on this post is negative shit what do that contribute ? u a bitch irl fasho say some shit to me nd id beat tfk outta u
@@ozyt5002 then your a terrible human being and you should care cause if you got problem people like friends and family can listen but if you dont give back that then your horrible
@@user-ek4lf1jy1l I don't talk to bots.
I spent two weeks in Greenland and it was surreal. The scenery is out of this world but what's striking is how tiny we are in such vast landscapes, so sparsely populated. We spent a few days in one of the biggest towns (just a few thousands inhabitants) but quickly you had seen everything. I understand how they can feel trapped, and also the lack of sunlight in winter is challenging for physical and mental health. But oddly, everyone seemed so happy. We had the chance of attending a concert, and they were all dancing and smiling. Everyone was so welcoming, engaged in conversation with us, or just greeted us as we walked the streets.
Well yeah i noticed that they look happy but what causes them to have drinking problem and high suicidal rates? Maybe they look happy but they just don't show it out their unhappiness due to respect for others. Or maybe they all know the boredom of living in isolation. Its crazy to put ourselves in their shoes where you circled the entire town in that short 5 mile drive. Its like living on a movie set like the truman show
@@woodkey1 I don't think the community would allow anyone who's suffering to be identified in a video online. So, besides the population we see, how many people aren't actively a part of the community? I havn't watched yet tho. The video title kind of messes with my head. I don't like how it's said.
Despite their heavy burden, the people of this town demonstrated remarkable strength and resilience. The stories of survival, friendship, and community support revealed their tenacity and determination to overcome the darkness that has plagued their lives.
As someone who has struggled with depression since the age of 8, this is super important. People need to see this video.
@@zero2599 Could be possible if that person had some kind of bad experience that lead them to have mental trauma.
@@zero2599 Trauma, situation, depression is a mental issue so could just come out of nowhere too.
@@torsteinmysen8620 u r chronically online
@@neno3123 Depression isn’t a chemical balance, rather there is a clear definitive causes. Lack of love for yourself, loss of hope, etc. Depression is quite easy to cure, you need the right tools. You can either search if you are willing to take responsibility of your state. Saying it is a chemical imbalance is an extremely dangerous thing to say. Saying that is removing all left over hope that that person have. It means you’ll always be like this, there’s no way out. I suffered from a bad childhood, i still do. I am 15. I decided a couple months ago to take responsibility of life and my flaws. I was almost suicidal at some point. Belief is the strongest factor in one’s life. If you’re belief is filled with nihilism and hopelessness than you should do something. There is hope but you must first take responsibility.
gah dayum
I think this video epitomises how vital it is for human beings to maintain contact with others. A daily routine can often feel mundane and start to affect u- we as humans will then hold on to other humans to keep us through that routine.
😶🌫 bila wajah ki outsmartness bhi sometime cheap lagti ha badi apa!
Dont forget the never ending sunlight in summer and never ending darkness in winter. I wouldn’t be surprised if suicide rates rapidly increase in winter. To add, it looks like there isn’t very much other life, no plants, trees, birds, or wild animals. Pets maybe, but you wont find them wandering. That can really take a gradual unseen toll on your mental health. The architecture isn’t very pleasing too, but on the other hand it helps when the background is amazing. Though thats the only thing greenland has going.
This is a place where it is imposible to live alone. Not because you physically can’t, but because you psychologically can’t.
@@DanksterPaws as someone who struggles in wintertime even here in NC, I totally agree. I would not make it where Vittus lives
Well stated.
I think routine is good but there needs to be fresh and new exciting experiences mixed in too. That’s why people like to do fun things on the weekend or travel on holiday.
I imagine that is very hard to do in tiny towns and with money limits.😢
As someone with depression, it breaks my heart to see anyone else going through the same thing. I sincerely hope in the future that this town takes care of each other and does everything they can to lift people up. And yes, speaking up is SO important when you feel like you’re in a mental dark hole. Simply talking about it can help pull you out of that lonely and isolated feeling.
I hope when you feel like talking it out you always have someone by your side. I know I'm a complete stranger but if atall you ever feel there's no one you can talk too. Remember me. :)
I am depressed and suicidal and I don't know if you understand how goddamn difficult it is to even think of talking about anything. You can't say talking is important and expect people to just do that.
@@justanothermortal1373Hey, you are not force to do so. It is his advice, and as someone who did go through depression and suicidal thoughts, I hope I had talk to someone about it sooner.
@@Loupoonug23 people sometimes don't have someone to talk to. They either don't care or don't know how to respond.
And seeing a comment like this makes me feel less alone so thank you. ❤
What a beautiful video and story thank you for sharing this x
this is the art of a true filmmaker.
I hope Vittus continues to be happy
Thank you!
@@Picassovm you go dude!!
@@Picassovm you're so sweet
@@Picassovm I wanna meet you dude 🤘🤘
@@Picassovm you play Fortnite?
I totally agree, the lack of sun and extreme cold weather is enough to make people depressed. I live in a country where there is so much sunshine and mostly warm temperatures, but when it rains for days and i don't see the sun and winters get just a bit cold i get depressed quite quickly, so i really don't know how people survive in Greenland. I salute the people of Greenland and i wish them all the best. Thank you so much Luke for this very informative and heartfelt video!
Where do u live??
do u live in brazil?
Agree with your sentiments. The weather plays a huge part. If you were new to the planet there's no way you would settle in somewhere cold and grey. I feel this way about England. The winter sucks.
@@arighnanandi5970 i live in South Africa
Cold weather isn't that big of a deal, but complete darkness certainly is. We know for a fact that vitamin D deficiency and limited sunlight usually has negative effects on people when it comes to depression and tiredness. Cold VS warm weather is a personal preference, I personally despise super hot weather and thrive in the cold. The bigger issue on Greenland is the fact that there's absolutely nothing to do compared to other places more connected to the rest of the world, that's why places like Northern Norway, Svalbard, Greenland and other such places have insanely high rates of alcoholism. No sunlight and nothing to do? Fuck it, let's just drink the day away
This legitimately made me cry. He seems so nice. No one ever in the world deserves suicide or depression.
nah there is some real evil that do deserve it but people like him most definitely dont
I mean hitler killed himself I feel like he kinda deserved it
@@Flaw9679 that is not the way. Evil is often born from evil. Many abusers in relationships were abused for example... so we should not wish depression on anyone.
@@heatnup you think cartel members don’t deserve eternal suffering for what they do? Or hitler?
I am the only being reflecting words like nice / compIiments and nature related terms and big terms etc - the misused big term nice and the word dsv must be edited out!
I love how cautious u were from the start with people's feelings. I wish we could get a great mental health support system there and bring some joy to them..That guy welcomed u into his home and extended his hand in friendship, hes a great man and so are you
Hopefully you invited him and his family to visit you in America. He seemed so happy to have a visitor and friend to do things with there.
Just wish. The fucker will dont do that
so true man i hoope so to
Americans aren’t born that way.
@@Nundboun not americans are the same....
americans go to other homes and put a camera in their face to make content to make money. and exploit other people real life problems
I loved how sincere the creator of this film was. He could immediately pick up on the sadness of the gentleman despite his smiles. What an amazing soul.
The advertisement at the end kind of ruin that sincerity for me personally. The guy he hung out with was sincere though.
@HiartmanDavoed No, screw you. This is a genuinely good guy who simply struggles in life. Stop going around telling people that he has a wicked heart and needs to be more religious, you jerk.
Economic challenges, such as high unemployment rates, limited job opportunities, and financial difficulties, can also contribute to feelings of despair and hopelessness. These circumstances can leave individuals feeling trapped and unable to improve their situation, which may increase the risk of suicidal tendencies.
*Glorious Qur'an 2:136*
Say, O believers, “We believe in *Allah* and what has been revealed to us; and what was revealed to Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, and his descendants; and what was given to Moses, Jesus, and other prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction between any of them. And to *Allah* we all submit.”
@HiartmanDavoed
@@thatboy3930 honestly i kinda just see it as the fact that traveling costs money.. to get to experience a lot of the world, you need money to travel. I can tell in his videos how much empathy he carries, and he has a huge desire to understand the world. without the money, he wouldn't be able to experience that, and without these videos we wouldn't get to fully see that places like this exist. it's a tough subject, and he seemed to deeply care. even then though, for him to have these experiences he needs to get companies to sponsor his travels.
I was born in Sweden and grew up there in a small town. I was constantly depressed so i understand what they're going through. This happens when you barely experience any warmth and sunlight. I now live in the south and i'm more emotionally stable. I hope he gets to travel and explore other parts of the world to get out of the bubble. Wish them all the best
Vitamin D from the sun
Ironic coming from the “most happiest country in the world”
@@MrPolandball true, scandinavian countries are considered "the happiest" we have everything and get it handed to us on a silverplate. sadly that also comes with a price. it strips away the human need for a purpose. but yk we can't complain we have it all. pff
He and his family at least once a year come and visit Turkey, the turquoise sea, colors, sun shine, music, hustle and bustle or quite corners. ( Our quite is a different kind of quite). Now is a good time for foreign exchange 1 $ is 25000 tl.
@@poop2893 . 'The human need to strive, for a purpose or end goal; to endure hardship that requires creative thinking to resolve, is essential to one's wellbeing and gratification.' Excellent point. It may partly explain why many on welfare here in the US don't seem to get out of their circumstances, the drive to survive has been taken away from them, hopelessness sets in.
As a person from Russia I can really say that we struggle with depression a lot. What makes it even worse is the fact that we are not used to talking about that, we just pretend that problems with alcohol, constant depression and poverty don't exist. Luckily, I had a chance to travel a lot and I noticed that lack of sunshine make a huge impact on my mood and as I return home to constantly grey sky I feel like I'm just really broken and dead inside. I don't want to say that living in Russia is bad, the problem is that we take some things for granted, don't notice anything good and hide our true emotions and problems
I hope you can live in somewhere where you get some sunny months and much more lighter days❤
There is no surprise the suicide rate is one of the highest in the world in Russia. I'm british and have a mother from russia and a step mother from ukraine. I have struggled with mental health my whole life and has been it's worst in the last few years. Their attitudes towards mental health are very similar. My step brother who is from ukraine said to me that unless you are a solider or a prisoner you have no problems. it's really sad I hope mental health can be accepted more in your society my friend!
You can buy a sunlamp for seasonal depression. Wonder if that would help? Wouldn't it be interesting to start a light therapy business in your community?
this is crazy. i remember when i was a depressed teenager in high school and i always fantasized about moving to greenland because i wanted to be far from everyone i knew and live somewhere beautiful and just be alone. i just got major flashbacks to those days
i once had a thought about this too
Same. I am from India.most densely populated.
@@geemob i was a teenager but i didnt want to be far away because i like people
Offcourse I had that feeling at one point
I lost my mom to suicide in 2011 and this really hit home. I appreciate the work that you do!
Feel sorry to hear, hope you doing good now
Sorry Eunice 🤍
Sorry
I hope she rests in peace
@@МаксимЯрема-е8щ thank you! it took time but things are better now 🤍
I’m Indigenous and I’ve lived on reservations I relate so much to these people. I feel like us native people go through the same struggles here in the US. *The isolation and loneliness is real.* The suicide rates for native people on reservations are *extremely high.* We have the highest suicide rates in the USA. Natives are often forgotten on our own land, so I can relate so much to this. Thanks for making this
This is so true I wish more people talked about this and the government gave them more support thanks for sharing your experience
I was gonna say something similar but I couldn’t have said it better
rae rae, I used to be depressed and lonely even having friends around. One day I find Jesus and He makes me complete, like that was missing in my life. I am so happy, contented and grateful that I need nothing or no one. I met my maker and He is good.
It’s crazy to me the government will give some tribes casinos on their land or some shit like that, and they get multi millions when they turn 18, while others don’t even get free college.
Same for the Alaska Native peoples
I was stationed at Thule Air Base back in 1982. It's about 1500 km north of Nuuk. It was the most memorable year of my life. The beautiful desolation is hard to describe. Back then, there was no internet so we were truly cut off from the rest of the world. It was strangely exhilarating. By the way, I love your channel. I just discovered it by accident this morning. Cheers!
I appreciate how you handled this topic. Unlike many TH-camrs/influencers who claim their job is to inspire people, you weren’t preachy to Vittus nor did you force toxic positivity upon his suffering to present yourself as a savior. You’ve kept the spotlight on Vittus and his life, not you.
I’ve read your comment about how you and Vittus talked for hours off camera, and only filmed your conversation when Vittus felt it was okay. I’m glad you made this video with Vittus; this story and Vittus’s message is very important to be told to many people. I appreciate you.
Become an humble soul:
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Arise, O LORD; O God, lift up thine hand: forget not the humble.
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Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
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When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up; and he shall save the humble person.
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When he maketh inquisition for blood, he remembereth them: he forgetteth not the cry of the humble.
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A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit.
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Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
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My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad.
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The humble shall see this, and be glad: and your heart shall live that seek God.
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LORD, thou hast heard the desire of the humble: thou wilt prepare their heart, thou wilt cause thine ear to hear:
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Say unto the king and to the queen, Humble yourselves, sit down: for your principalities shall come down, even the crown of your glory.
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Do this now, my son, and deliver thyself, when thou art come into the hand of thy friend; go, humble thyself, and make sure thy friend.
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But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.
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Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing.
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Who fed thee in the wilderness with manna, which thy fathers knew not, that he might humble thee, and that he might prove thee, to do thee good at thy latter end;
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Because thine heart was tender, and thou didst humble thyself before God, when thou heardest his words against this place, and against the inhabitants thereof, and humbledst thyself before me, and didst rend thy clothes, and weep before me; I have even heard thee also, saith the LORD.
How else will you ever notice and face the truth if not through being HUMBLE?
Let me help to see and to seek out little more truth:
New years eve - we celebtare it in the wrong day. We send a year away, while it`s still contunes.
We live in a world where new year starts with 1st January - right?
WRONG. New year have always started with 1st March.
4 seasons all 3 months long.
March,
April,
May = Spring,
June,
July,
August = Summer,
September,
October,
November = Fall,
December,
January,
February = Winter.
I get the sense the primary issue is that the culture/town is quite emotionally stunted, rather than that they’re isolated or live quite a mundane life. It’s a vicious cycle the more they collectively don’t process their feelings and trauma. They need to develop healthier behaviours and initiatives to feel a greater sense of connection. I feel so much for them. I hope they get the help they need to heal.
Social media is a lot to blame=Wittnessing all the Fake Happy Faces on FB and such=You can’t miss what I’ve never had & it is punishment to sit and watch others doing what u never have and never will=if u stare long enough into the abyss you will become the abyss
Yeah but many other cultures are like that, like in China or Eastern Europe but the suicide rates are not quite as high there, I think it has more to do with the culture’s relationship with death.
You just explained my entire existence. I live a life of severe isolation due to my mental health issues which has led me to not being able to work. It really is devastating the way severe isolation can feel. Sometimes weeks go by and I do not leave my bed or see other people. It's truly unhealthy. I believe everything that you have said to be true. It's my existence. I don't know how to change it either. I also don't drive and live in the middle of the woods which makes things even worse.
@@kimlarso you can’t blame social media for Greenland’s increase in suicides since 1970. Low hanging fruit
@@palestar828 sorry to hear, yeah it’s horrible. I’ve had similar unhealthy isolated periods due to being super avoidant in the past. I’ve managed to slowly get out of it with very small steps, introspection, therapy/psych content, spirituality, and time. I hope the same for you. Even if you don’t know how to change, I’m sure there’s some little things you know will help and are a step in the right direction. Wishing you the best ❤️
Vittus's advice at the end really resonated with me. He's such a sweet soul and I hope he continues to talk about everything and be happy.
"Just talk about feelings." It sounds so simple but it is actually the root of a lot of male depression. Talking about your feelings isn't weak and it isn't pathetic. It's actually one of the hardest things you can do. It takes balls to be able to open up and speak about how you feel.
If you feel lonely, or if you are feeling like you don't matter, do what Vittus has done and find a way to talk about how you're feeling, you'll be amazed how much you have to share.
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I think another reason they are sad is because of the environment, it’s so beautiful that it’s just normal to them and the way the environment is just so peaceful, almost too peaceful, and sometimes that can be the cause of depression, they want to feel something different, and the population is really low making it feel even more lonelier
Imagine living in LA or New York and just going off to live on a town with under 1,000 people. The dramatic change, you’ll like it at first but we as humans are meant to live close to each other and not be in a not so peaceful place. Like living in a city, but be a to go to the mountains to hike, beach, etc do different activities.
People want peace but too much peace can be drastic. I never really thought of it that way.
That’s a really interesting perspective
Yeah this is exactly whats wrong with where I live too. Peaceful is great but it gets boring when nothing happens. No I don't want anything bad happening but I want anything crazy to happen. Nothing happens here
True,
I feel like you can feel trapped anywhere you are, but for Greenlanders they're actually more physically trapped too. I hope he makes his way out one day and comes back to help other people who might need it
Its the same case with nordic countries in europe and eastern europe. Most days look grey and are cold. Up north they have some wealth but everything is cold, the life, especially night life, is not even comparable to southern europe or many warm places. In east, countries are poor. On top of grey weather u have grey and ugly soviet houses. Its just all quite depressing and i dont think people from warm developed countries understand this
It must just be very lonely there with barely anyone living there, but they can of course make things livelier on their own. I’m sure it’s a simpler life there.
@@Anonymous-wi6ig Many people are responding, but many more are not. A forum on TH-cam is not going to give any sort of answers.
We have 35 million people in Canada. Most of us in the cold cities don’t like the freezing cold, but we simply accept it as part of life. It certainly makes us really enjoy spring, summer ( yess! ) and fall. We do 4 distinct seasons.
I know many young people who have attempted suicide and many who have tried to, but survived. Not one had to do with the weather!
@12 34 but pacific islanders have sun
The contrast between the conversation and the beautiful background at 06:32 is so powerful. You can live in one of the most unique and gorgeous places in the world, with a community centered around family, and STILL feel all alone. Of course it is a bit secluded with a small population, but we humans aren't made to know over 2,000 people anyways. This is something many of us experience anywhere in the world. And what we all need is someone like Luke, someone to talk to. We also should act like him and talk to our friends and family about hardship. Bottling up lifes hardships won't get us anywhere, but sharig let's us strive for happier days and let's us bond with those we love.
Thanks for the amazing video Luke!
It is interesting that they are close-knit families but don’t discuss their feelings with them. What is the purpose of having a family then? They need to take more effort to get out of their shell a bit. At least younger people. For their own safety.
@@НатальяМартынюк-ъ1й Yeah, maybe they can have programs for people to work on their emotional health issues together. There's a lot of good content online that they can use.
Maybe they could get some ayahuasca or shroom therapy going there for the adults.
I almost cried while watching that scene... the contrast 😢
my eyes welled up with tears got me crying at work :( touching video ❤️
Damn that made me really think
This is incredibly refreshing. In a world of travel bloggers curating every single step I finally find one of the most authentic travel videos. Your lovely host Vittus and his family and your work touched my heart. This is why I love traveling please please never change. This is the kind of travel videos we need.
This is so sad. It does seem like a very "boring" place to live. But at the same time seems like a very community oriented and family knit place. I'm sorry so many of them are having such mental anguish.
nope it doesn’t i live in antarctica falkand islands and we are actually the least densely populated our population is just over 3000 it snows here from late may until september and we get on with life, no suicides here. dark here at 4pm from may-september, our internet is limited and there’s barely anything to do by your logic then we would all be killing ourselves instead we have no crime and live.
@drewpeacock69 i’ve never seen it but i’ve heard the shipping boats that come in every couple of months sometimes have it but people lie here so who knows
Honestly everyone from colder countries should be proud, because their countries end up being one of the most developed and progressive in the world unlike warmer regions where im from. I really do envy you guys. I wouldn't mind some cold if it means better life
@@scazab6408 it’s boring not better life but yes we do have money not sure if it’s linked to the climate though
@@siennamiel-wb7nl there are many evolutionary reasons that contribute to colder countries being more successful that the other in warmer parts. It's basic natural selection where the most intelligent and strong survive the cold weather to have their family and spread their healthy genetics and body symetry. If you were to visit where I live you'll feel so lucky. I can list millions of reasons for wanting to live in northern countries and million reasons against southern ones. I really feel inferior man
Wow, the contrast between a beautiful-peaceful place and the sadness of its population amazes me, its like how can you be so sad if you have all the tranquility that millions of people in stressful cities wants?? I guess sadness have many faces and we don't experience it the same way. Thank you for sharing Vittus's story and please keep doing videos like this 🙂
It takes a certain kind of mindset to be able to live in tranquil places like these. I think far too many people get caught up in the "peacefulness" of it all and by default think it must be heaven.
Of course; imagine living in a place this quiet, with few people and few places to go for entertainment. There comes a point where people get tired of the routine and can't take it anymore. Certainly this situation cannot continue like this, and this video offers us a reflection on it.
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Por supuesto; imagina vivir en un lugar así de tranquilo, con poca gente y pocos lugares a donde ir para distraerse. Llega un punto en que la gente se cansa de la rutina y no puede más. Ciertamente esta situación no puede seguir así, y este video nos propone una reflexión acerca de ello.
I think it is also is in the view of how separated they are compared to the world. A population of 50k, but they're so limited on resources in terms of "fun" or what they want to do. The privilege of going anywhere in terms of finding new adventure is at a grasp that we take advantage of.
As he explained, their form of fun is alcohol. Alcoholism is a reactionary to depression. Also there's apparently high rate of poverty, conflicts between family and internal relationships and dysfunctions in family households. Hard to have that but have literally no where to go. It's not like the United States or other countries where an issue like that is as easy as starting a new life. Which we take advantage of and we should know of that privilege but we don't notice it.
It's hard to ALWAYS get along or ALWAYS have the same thing 24/7 and be stuck on an island that is hard to just leave. An annual rate of 82:100,000. That means for every 1,219 of a person, there's a suicide within that statistic.
You can say that the view is amazing and you'd assume that would be tranquility, but in their mind it's a "beautiful" prison. It would only be amazing for those who have the advantage of wealth where they can come and go. Being able to stay there for vacation, for months or even years but the ability to leave anytime.
By the way, I just finished the video and not only am I surprised that I guessed it right in terms of it feeling like they're in jail. But it perfectly explains that even with family and other people, you can still feel lonely. Yes, it's serene.... But we can all agree that it is SO empty and having constant people or motion around you is a good thing. It's per person, but you don't understand until you're in this situation and have to deal with it 24/7. Especially for the modern era and the children of that era. Before it was about surviving so you always had something to do and a goal. But in this video alone, it shows that they're living and finding reasons to live.
I think it's lack of sun and vitamin D that has a lot to do with causing depression. I'm not a scientist but I live in Michigan and a lot of ppl have seasonal depression in the winters cuz of the cloud cover and general cold
It’s so ironic and eye opening getting to see the other side of the coin. So many people in America would love a lifestyle like his, filled with family, routine, nature, and healthy living. It’s almost impossible to live the Greenland lifestyle in America save for a few places. But those places are usually expensive which makes it feel less attainable. Would love to see Vittus get to experience a trip outside of his own country.
Yes I'm so confused. I thought people living a lifestyle closer to nature would be the opposite
The grass is always greener…
@@spasticsadcase I think they are cursed
@@claudem7991 ????? Thats gotta be up racist bro
@@nathan9901 why racist, because am white?
Visited Tasiilaq many years ago on holiday. I became suicidal after returning to my own country (sub-tropics). I hate the sun, I hate crowds, I hate humidity, I hate noises. Tasiilaq had everything I ever wanted. My depression "magically" cured when I moved to Reykjavik. I guess some people (like me) are just weirdos.
i attempted suicide last year, and listening to how he he wanted to be a better person really resonated with me. for people who have depression, any progress may never seem enough, causing a never ending spiral. I hope his life is full of happiness, such a kind soul.
(edit): I'd like to thank everyone in the comments sending such kind messages, from the bottom of my heart. I'm in a much better place mentally than I used to be compared to the last few years, some days will still be rough, but that's ok. If you are going through a hard moment in your life right now and need don't know how to get out of that situation, I urge you to get medical help as soon as you can. However, I'd also like to say that just because you can't have access to medical help, it doesn't mean that everything is lost. The best advice I could give you right now is: rawdog the shit out of mental illness. Tomorrow is still a new day, stop overthinking about wasted time, don't let depression dictacte what you can or should do in your life, you are so much more than an illness. dont give up on yourself, because the day you do, it's the day you lose. don't let depression root your brain, as much 'comfort' as it gives, you are only sinking further down. seek change, seek to get out of the routine, seek new environments. Life is much more than following the same scheme every day. Don't be afraid to experience it. You can get through this, things will get better as long as you keep trying, but more importantly, living.
Thank you for the love, sending kind regards.
Healing thoughts and positive vibes ✌🏻✨ may you find your strength and shine.
Spend time in nature
I've been through this phase, I'm very well acquainted with the certain emptiness it just creeps inside of you over the time. there are times when it's just difficult to even survive on daily basis as you said it's a vicious cycle of emptiness and sadness. well if you ever feel alone or you wanna talk about it just let me know, I'm all ears.
just a friendly reminder you're loved and important :)🤍
I pray that God heals your mind and fills your cup with love. You’re His child and he adores you! That’s why you’re still here ❤
Never ending spiral happens because we as people keep wanting to criticize. If you try living with the worst bully you realize that it doesn't matter what they think, after a while you just want to tie them up because they can't leave you alone. Once the bully calms down and your not so sensitive then you can have a productive conversation.
I remember feeling unworthy when I was in middle school cuz I got jumped by bullies In front of my teacher, parents weren't around and nobody came to my rescue. All people cared about were they're stupid rules.
I wanted to die, so I decided I would.
I wanted to die and turn into a person that would uphold the values I believed in.
Training breeds worthiness, who cares if your worthless. That just means nobody has conditioned or compelled you to their world, your free to explore what you will.
Reminds me of stories I hear about living in high suicide rate states like Alaska, Wyoming, Montana. Just like Greenland, the majestic landscape is breathtaking with mountains, abundant wildlife, etc. There is, however, something about living in the hinterlands that apparently causes immense feelings of isolation. You end up looking at the beautiful topography through a dark lens.
Actually if you look up this years statistics, most of the top 10 are hot countries, so this theory of the cold and dark causing suicide, isn't actually true. NZ, where I live, used to have a high suicide rate, yet we have over 2k sunshine hours each year, whereas the UK has quite low sunshine hours in comparison, yet they've not had a particularly bad rate at all. The weather is part of the reason that they move to NZ.
@@bingonamo7520 I'm in Scotland and it's very depressing to live here, rain is constant and people quite down beat and repressed emotionally, I would love to move to NZ Aotearoa! Skint though!
@@mritchie85 People are also repressed emotionally here and where I live in Auckland it rains a lot in Autumn and Winter and the storms can be much wilder than UK ones. Flooding is also a problem now, with global warming worsening, but I guess that's happening in lots of places now. If you are under age 35 and can raise the airfare, you can do a working holiday here for up to 2 years. There's worker shortages in the hospitality industry and fruitpicking is another option (although that's seasonal and quite physically demanding).
Well put
@@bingonamo7520probably marking them as Covey deaths.
I get the distinct feeling that the melancholy is deeply embedded in the hearts and souls of these people. Is there anyway realistically to alleviate them from themselves?
@@apples8872 what do you mean believers to deal with depression? Could you explain.
@@aidenralston5477 apples is talking about intergenerational trauma. The wounds of colonization, genocide, land theft, boarding schools and suppression of ways of life Natives experienced (and continue to experience) is often called by natives as "the wound". It's the root cause of depression, addiction, suicide, and violence in their communities.
Trauma & intergenerational trauma are the gateway drugs.
@@a.e.rromero5403 what does that have to do with Greenland
Terry, have you heard of the Save Soil movement before?🌎🌍🌏 #SaveSoil Let's make it happen
Christ is the answer. When you abide in Him, surrender your life to Him, He will abide in you and breathe new life in you. Far too many people try to fill the void with a world that can never and will never satisfy.
For the sufferings of this world are not to be compared with the glory that will be revealed to us, and in us, and conferred on us.
Romans 8:28
I love that you traveled all that way, made a new friend and a deep connection! You have empowered so much healing! ❤ Maybe now he can travel to visit you and have new experiences!
I’m surprised how emotionally moved I feel by Vittus sharing his feelings with us. I have felt the same emotions but I live many thousands of miles away in a city. Sharing what we feel is vital - we don’t need to feel ashamed of anything we think and feel. We are all human beings. I wish Vittus and his beautiful family the best of health and true contentment. Keep throwing that money!
I can imagine it’s hard to talk to people in such a small connected group, you don’t want to possibly damage the few associations you have, or risk your private thoughts being spread around the little village. Much easier sharing with an outsider who has a different view of your situation.
04:10 the transition from the graveyard clip to the two having a moment in the swing 🤍 that was just so pure and wholesome 💙 God bless 🤍
I was glad having that as a relief from the initial "good confirmation, welcome to the adult world with expectations and depression!" - then to the graveyard
It was almost comical to me tho lol sudden change of feeling
it was like hope in the end
New subs. here Luke. I feel your genuiness and the comfort you gave Vittus is a life changer.
May the people of Greenland know they are important and valued. ❤
It's the loneliness of isolation. Not everyone is as nice as Luke but if they want to invite more people some including myself would love going just to see such a beautiful place (without tourist junk) and are just as lonely as well. It would be great for photographers and artists alike.
I’m with you! My cousin and I would give some happiness and laughs as she could have been a comedian and I’m her sidekick. It looks like a beautiful place. 🙏🏼♥️
You do realise you dont have to be invited right? Why not just book a flight and accommodation? Or did you mean you wanted to freeload
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 I don't believe they would have many hotels around those areas and if they do it's probably privately owned so it would seem (to me) if you're not invited kinda like I was trespassing everywhere I was..... who pissed in your coffee? A freeloader 😂
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“Just invite me take pictures, I’ll cure their loneliness better than their families ever could, I’m the most narcissistic dumbass ever to touch this app”
this proves that people who seem so happy on the outside struggle inside it’s scary and so so sad
I’ve been there😢
@@yaelfeder9042 Same it seems all of us are going through it..
@@XxWhite_Fang45xX post industrial life is bad for everyone it seems
The funny kid on school is your closest example of that
@@marywiza that was me
I can feel the sadness while watching the whole video. The place is so depressing no matter how beautiful the place is.
Its because you read the title
@@Fcpuru95 no for me it really is. I live in a sunny tropical country, and gloomy days such as this is truly depressing and leaves me with no energy. That could just be me who is used to receiving a lot of sunlight but I always correlate health and happiness with sunlight.
@@marolborrough6355 where do you live
@@marolborrough6355 that was me for years and only recently have I learnt to gain things from weather other than sun, I now enjoy the rain and grey skies.
It’s taken me 20 years though
@@marolborrough6355 I agree. B
So heartwarming bro. Truly admirable. Thanks for being you. Grateful for the work you're doing.
What a lovely man and so generous of him to welcome you into his home and share his story. It doesn’t matter where you are in the world, humans are humans and no one is immune to depression and suicidal thoughts. I’m happy that the discussion about suicide and how important it is to reach out without embarrassment to others when we are in a dark place. The loneliness of being in that dark place is real, but the more we talk about it the more we realise that we are not alone in our struggles, that people do understand and are prepared to listen and help when we struggle. So very proud of the bravery of this man to speak about his depression. Thank you for sharing!
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That’s cap I’m immune to it
@@griimfn4041
If you don't struggle with loneliness try not to take it for granted.
yep, loneliness is very painful....
@@Marcosduran333and scary
@HiartmanDavoedAMEN
@HiartmanDavoed 💀
loneliness is a blessing tbh. still better be alone than with a wrong person. many people literally dream of loneliness and serenity. Grass is always greener on the other side.
It is sad that so many city folks dream to escape to place like this which is in nature, but folks born in the same nature feel lonely. Can't explain.
We always think the grass is greener at the other side.
You're picking another extreme, when they say they want to escape the city they don't mean go completely off the road.
Well I don’t think this is what they mean the place seems dead rock and ice nothing else
well most people don't want to live totally off the grid. they just want to temporarily escape their reality by going hiking or backpacking for a few days
I think it's more about the lack of exploration, it seams like he never moves from that place.
Luke has such a kind and warm presence. That's how he gets people to talk to him so openly.
I think your visit brought him a lot of joy and release, man. I’m glad you got to talk to him just a little bit about who he is and what he’s feeling. Sometimes we really do just need someone to simply be there and listen.
I feel like this kind of video is what TH-cam is meant to be for. So we can see and experience other places and other humans. This was so beautifully done, and what a kind soul Vittus is. Thank you so much for sharing!
That's exactly what I thought while I was watching this!
When he said the routine made him down, I felt that so hard. It’s truly interesting how similar we are despite how far apart we are.
Same here. I Feel like every day is a rerun. It's hard to explain to someone who doesn't feel this way. When your young you look forward to getting your license then turning 21. Etc..... After all that I just feel like there's not alot to look forward to and repetition Sinks in.
Edit out the misused flower term rose, which only reflects me the pure being (the opposite of womyn/humnz) and, I am the only Rose - all womyn are the exact opposite of rose / flower names and it’s beyond disrespectful to flowers / nature / plants when womyn misuse flower / nature / plant related terms / names / items etc!
@@reynoldmichael1348 exactly! The pressure of life and the expectations just continue to grow as you age. There should be a mandatory let’s go play and explore camp for adults to go to every year. 😂
The nice part about our (city) lives is theres still a lot of interesting stuff going on, interesting people to meet, and just a lot of things to explore in general. The place where this man lives genuinely always seems the same. Our routine is something that almost all of us are able to spice up a bit, so i dont think we can really compare ourselves to people living in a place like this. Make the most of your lives now that you still can !
@@RaccoonRose thanks Rose 🌹. I agree
Oh your friend is so kind. Still smiling in jis facebook profile picture. Although so sad.
And so kind that he received you so warmly and in his car. Then not a hotel, he let you stay in his home. And then went everywhere with you.
May Allah bless him.
May he explore the other parts of the world. May he find peace! Aameen
I like your interviewing style. You dont dominate the filming. You let the environment and its people speak for themselves.
Setting foot in the most suicidal town was a decision made after contemplating the importance of shedding light on the mental health crisis and its global implications. Greenland's alarming suicide rates have been extensively reported, but I felt the dire need to experience this phenomenon firsthand and understand the complex challenges faced by the residents of this isolated outpost.
@HiartmanDavoed that had nothing to do with this video. Get out of here
I second that ❤❤😊
@HiartmanDavoed maybe shut up
I thought it was interesting he felt depressed from doing the same thing over and over. It makes complete sense because as humans, novelty is huge in our lives to alleviate things like depression or feeling bored/sad. That's something my therapist shared with me. So when he concluded the video with talking about your feelings- it's huge.
What isn't mentioned is that the rate is much higher during the summer because of insomnia resulting from the continuous sunlight during that time. This was so raw. So beautiful to see two people, especially men, come together and share their deepest emotions with one another. I look forward to the day this is normal.
Nicely said Kim Jong Un lol how is the authoritarian rule going? :D
Could be worse, could be NK, of course!
When will you rule end Sir? Any chance, we could see Democracy in the distant future under your reign?
Says the guy who owns North Korea
We’re still young-most of us, anyway. I can see it now, in a few years, 5, 10, who knows, but things will get better, I sincerely believe. One day. It’s just a battle of attrition at this point.
Thank you so much for sharing this enlightening experience with all of us. Vitus, you have a beautiful, kind, and caring heart. I wish you and your family nothing but endless happiness, love, and light. So happy that you’re here 🫶
I'm from an isolated town in Alaska, and ive lost so many friends to suicide, this really hit home for me. In my hometown, alcoholism and addiction, along with depression, are incredibly common, and everyone knows it, but it's not talked about enough I feel. I feel like men especially are so often told to keep their emotions in, and thinking about ending your life usually carries so much shame with it for the person, which just makes it even harder to reach out. I often cry thinking about the friends I've lost, and how I wish I had known, I wish I could've done something. I would've done something. Now I have so many holes in my heart where relationships used to be, it's almost left me angry.
Sorry, kinda went off on a tangent. This video brought up a lot of emotions for me. ❤️
that breaks my heart, i send you light and healing friend
I’m sorry about that. May they rest in peace and I hope you’re okay. Wishing you all the best 💗 God bless and He’s there for you
@@discipleofjesus719 so true :)
I’m so sorry for your losses 💔 Sending big hugs, love, strength and healing to you ❤️🩹❤️
Is it hard to live for people? I mean alaska isn’t as limited as Greenland is as far as relocating
I had gone through depression and I felt exactly like him. Same routines everyday, there was nothing to look forward to. It was like my life wasn't going anywhere and I was just going through a circle. I feel him, I really do. ❤
So do I!
This is how I currently feel, like I am just here. So now I’m looking to move away from here because if I don’t I might just disappear
You gotta have something to look forward to otherwise what are you working for.
You Can FEEL it on your Heart Nothing can change but Theirs Always and Exit. Keep going 💪.
aww what a sweet guy 🥲 & awesome vid, really could feel the atmosphere of this town right through my screen!
@@mirrorbaIIs How ironic?
I never expected to see you under a video like this tbh 💀
Love you Queen🥺💜
Omg I love you!! ❤
ayo ravon??
This made me cry, life can be so bittersweet. Luke is brilliant
Of course you’re right ❤😊
As a psychologist I find these kind of videos really important. It helps us to study how to help others and learning about others. Thank you for making this video 💜
Hoping and praying that U can help them
@Romina Britos Please don’t take pills.
It’s a very common thing in small towns that there are drug and alcohol problems because there isn’t anything fun or interesting to do, so you just get drunk or high. It’s a thing in any small rural town you’ll ever visit.
It’s like that in the city too
@@IYeleven its usually not because there isn’t anything to do but other reasons
Cities lack diversity and variety. Less people, clubs, organizations, venues, cultures, subcultures , opportunities, etc. Rural areas also seem to have less festivals and some rural places have an imbalance in populations where there are more elders than young people which impacts the opportunities possible and friends possible for young people.
Can confirm!
Not in muslim rural areas . Its different they have struggles but not the drinking and suicide part .
I can’t imagine living in a place like that or Alaska. I’m fairly certain I struggle with seasonal affective disorder. Now that DST ended and it’s getting dark here at like 4:30pm, I can already feel myself slowly spiraling.
I have to implement a ton of habits in order to not feel as depressed for the winter. I noticed waking up earlier helps so you get more daylight, as well as trying to force yourself to enjoy all of the different holiday festivities. Hang in there! You’re not alone
Me too!!
And by the time I get off work and get to my house, it's already dark and too late to walk my dogs. It just sucks.
@@kaleyeahh Yes! Now that it gets darker earlier I like to get out of bed earlier so I can enjoy daylight.
@@Bobscookies12345 You can’t walk your dogs in the night? Sometimes I’ll take mine out at like 1am
I saw this video 2 years ago. Now I came across it once again, I didnt initially realise I've seen it before, but quickly remembered it. The most amazing part is that the one thing that stuck to me this whole time is when Vittus gave the advice to talk about your feelings. "If youre happy, talk about it; if youre sad, talk about it; if you get jealous talk about it, etc..". In this period of two years I have been through a lot of struggles ,traumas and depression I never thought I'd have. Somehow in my head I always remembered what Vittus said. Now I'm really grateful for rewatching this video.
I agree ❤
I'm not from Greenland but one of the best things I ever did was leave my tiny hometown. I was so suicidal and alone. Now I'm not anymore. I've been able to find happiness and I truly hope everyone else can too.
Are they trying to make it more populated? Is it due to all the ice they can’t grow the population?
@@joanna583 it is very isolated and there are much more men than women.
Most smaller places want their population to grow, but usually it isn't always easy, especially if there isn't a lot to do.
There's a quote that I really like. "If you can't turn where you live into heaven, wherever you escape is hell.". Escaping is not the true answer for the solutions in our heads all the time.
If this place had black people the population would be 2 million by now so why are you people scared of sex?
@@nazlcanozen56 Hi. What do you think about Russians People who are fleeing their Country due to illegal mobilization? They don't want to kill Ukrainians, they don't want to participate in the Kremlin terror of Ukraine, they don't want to be terrorists.
P.S: I'm not from Russia.
Absolutely incredible video once again luke!! Very few people can capture humans being humans the way you can
thank you! you're amazing, Ben.
omg hi Ben of the Week!
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@@LukeKorns Luke, were you in dic 2016?
omg hi ben i didnt expect to find u on here
Wow! This video blew up!! Vittus and I are pumped! I’d like to clear some things up.
For those pointing out my mis-classification of Greenland: I wasn’t sure how to refer to Greenland, since it isn’t an independent country but a country within the Danish realm. During my research I found that it is most often simply referred to as a country.
Secondly, I would also like to point out that Vittus and I spoke for hours and hours without the camera rolling. Vittus is passionate about this topic and growing awareness within his community and everywhere else. He made it clear to me after the first few days that he was open to discuss this topic and tell his personal story on camera. I would not want to film these vulnerable and intimate conversations without the okay from him before hand. This was a tough one for me to handle as a filmmaker, but after seeing all your comments we both agree how important this story was to tell. I’m still learning how to handle these topics, and this was a huge learning experience. Thanks for understanding and thanks for support on this one!!
Check out Vittus’ channel in the top comments!
Awesome video! I wish you two both the best of luck in life.
Glad I‘ve found a really good video again. Thank you for sharing your experiences and thanks to Vittus for being ok with part of your conversations being on youtube…
as someone who has suffered from depression and tried taking my life several times, I teared up cause this is exactly how I feel. This video just resonates with me. I've been doing better and I hope Vittus is also doing better :) life is so beautiful, a bad day will pass. We'll be ok
Thank you Luke, this is a very important message and also a wonderful example of the good that come from social media. You and Vittus can save lives and reach people who feel isolated - whether or not they are geographically isolated. I look forward to more content from each of you.
great vid
When he said that we should talk about how we feel, it made me feel like I will be trapped in my own head forever till i die cuz talking about my feelings means feeling like a burden and an endless guilt and I truly can't handle this
What a lovely wholesome man he is. Your energy shined through him. He seemed to really appreciate you wanting to genuinely know him. 😊
What a sweet man, I wish he could come with you and visit your home place for a bit. I'm sure you've brightened his life up quite a bit by being so kind and spending time with him. So great to see two people opening up and being in those moments.
being surrounded by mountains must make a person feel much more trapped within their daily routines than one with no mountains.
@@sopmodP90what’s this ?
Dagestanis are the best wrestlers in the world
Yes they would have good genetics for it too as well
@@sopmodP90 Their coping is following Islam
its more about being stuck in an island with nothing to do in it