Family don’t end with blood and it doesn’t start there for some of us Sadly a lot of people have kids even when they shouldn't because society looks down on those who don't have/want kids
My mom raised me as a bascilly a single mom due to my father was n a mental hospital until I was 12. We paid $60 for a 1 bedroom apartment.. She worked a full time job. My sister kept me while she worked. While school was going on my Uncle kept me during the day. The school bus would drop me off & pick me up after school. That was when we lived n the country. My mother had no problems. We had our routine when we moved to Memphis. Grandma kept me than. Sister got married after we moved to Memphis. There is 11 years difference between us. We made it fine
Story 1 says his father left because of his mom's behavior. I could never understand why a Father or Mother leaves their significant other and child behind because they can't handle the behavior of the other person....Like, ummm....did you forget something??? Like your CHILD! If the behavior of your wife or husband is so horrible, how could you leave your young child behind to endure what you as an adult "cannot"???
He probably didn't care about his kid in the first place. But there are some stories where even if one parent is a horrible person. The one that leaves knows that they aren't in a position to where they can get custody of their kid even 50/50. Hell it was one post where a woman had to explain to her daughter why she left her with an abusive father. Point Blank the abusive father had Rich parents who would not going to let her take the grandchild. She had no proof no family to support her no friends that he didn't no before her. And she was already having suicidal thoughts. She quite literally could not stay. Was a pretty sad story
That's what the Law expects and demands of the father to do. If he complains and pushes the courts to much.....He might be forced to pay her court costs. Getting 50/50 custody is very hard to get, and if the ex wife is vindictive she can cause so much trouble. from making false complaints to cps, calling police for a false welfare check. constant calling and deliberate phone calls to spoil the kids fun with dad. ect....... If the woman is high conflict person it's impossible to co-parent with them, you can only parallel parent in those cases and most men haven't heard of that parenting style and abusive female types have complete melt downs if it's even suggested due to lost of POWER and Control over the EX.
She was naive to buy her mom a ticket because she taught her mom if she harasses her long enough she'll cave in and give her something she wants. We teach other people how to treat us and she taught her mom how to manipulate her.
It's a bit better than what she did when she opened the door on her arrival. "Come On In mom, I'm just going to work, Make Yourself Comfortable" When she said That, she became the derriere hole!
I'm American & have 5 grand kids oldest 28 but the last one had a speech problem & my son asked if I minded if she called me Nana. No problem. I did tell them all if they have kids I'd like to be called GG for great gram. But if they want to call me something else ok. If I were OP's neighbor I'd encourage my kids or grands to try & learn from her(long as it's clean, some people only pick up nasty words "It's So Funny") Learning is much more easy when you're young!
Story 2 You should be extremely wary of people becoming friendly and children and she merely spoke her mother tongues your daughter speaks multi lingual and your neighbor is a racist and you should have not worry about this issue and you should tell her your daughter speaks three languages and they are sadly narrow minded and you should tell that woman your daughter goes to a international school because she capable of speaking three languages and travels the world and America is not the centre of the universe
Story 2- I have friends who call their grandfather "Bumps", I don't know why, but I always thought it was cute. This whining woman is just an AH who should grow up. I would avoid her and discourage your daughter from playing at her house and tell her they should play at yours.
S3: I am an animal lover and I have 5 dogs, I love them just the way I love and treat my family. But when I host parties or family gathering, my dogs are off limits for everyone and are kept in their large kennels. I also know that some of them love my dogs and some are not comfortable with animals. I don't entertain even my best friends or family members to go near the kennels, and they respect my decision. Yes, I allow my dogs to be free when just some friends or family are visiting. My dogs are well-trained and a couple of them are really ferocious towards strangers and acquaintances. Those two don't like the company of new people or strangers who aren't familiar to them. The rest 3 follow those two's footsteps.
The OP had her dog upstairs, and it is her decision who to let or not let upstairs, IN HER HOUSE, to see her dog. The woman was way in the wrong because she was told not to go upstairs, but she DID it anyway. No way, no how is OP TA.
Story 3 Opinion 3: If the son and friends had not gone into the room with the dog and puppies, the Karen and Entitled Brat would have very likely gone wandering to see what you might be "hiding" meaning they left the assigned area and "found" the dog and puppies. They deserve rabies, but your dog and pupps do not. If you have a chance to charge them and get a restraining order against them, I suggest you DO IT!
I disagree. The OP was the AH, because she allowed her son and his friends to abandon the rest of the birthday party to go play with a dog that OP KNEW was not good with strangers. This was not the time for such a playdate with the dog. If none of the kids had gone up, I believe that the entitled brat and Karen (and I do agree that they were that) would have remained with the party.
@@Shammai101 and who are you to tell them who they allow in parts of the house at times? They have every right to allow people into parts and disallow others. idgaf who you are, it doesnt matter if it's a party or not. The OPs friends earned the right to go anywhere in the house BECUASE THEY DONT FUCK WITH THE DOG.
@@ItzPubby Of course they have the right. But, it is rude to have the guest of honor leave his guests during a party, and take a select group to do their own thing. And, while the Karen and entitled kid were wrong to disobey the rules, the mother wasn't unaware that this guest might break the rules. It was not the right time. If the party was over and guests were leaving, then yes.
S3 NTA no is a complete answer and ab and his mom need to respect your home. She violated your rules and she doesn't have any chance at all. Good thing you had cameras and never invite those two back with your home. Your son needs to know to never do this again.
14:00 Abuela: A couple from India were staying in Denmark where the husband had a well paying IT job. Their FOUR YEAR OLD SON had cold and fever and came into the parents' room and asked to sleep next to mommy and she agreed. The pre K teacher probed and found out that this was happening for 3 days (but normally the kid slept in his own bed). She INFORMED DANISH CPS. Who jailed the couple and put the FOUR YEAR OLD in foster care. The grandparents had to fly from India and take custody of the child. HOW STUPID IS IT to impose Danish norms on visitors to their country? I don't know what happened later but this sounds excessively stupid, shortsighted and racist Maybe in Denmark even a 4 yo with cold, cough and a 100 deg F fever is forced to sleep alone because the ENTILED FAR LEFT CREEPS SAY SO. But this is NOT the norm in India and I daresay in most countries where common sense and intelligence matter more than wokeness and entitledness! THIS IS THE SAME DENMARK WHERE 18 YEAR OLD BOYS CATCH 40-50 TAME CALDERON DOLPHINS and butcher them in Faeroe Islands as a sign of them becoming adults! This is considered perfectly civilized and acceptable. The dolphins cry like human babies and suffer for 45 minutes each as the boys prolong the agony. WHY THE 18 YEAR OLD BOYS DON'T BECOME MEN SLEEPING WITH EACH OTHER'S MOTHERS IS SOMETHING I cannot understand! Even worse, the meat is gamey and smelly and is apparently thrown away.
Let me get this right, regarding the dog story and one of the commentors, the dog needs a trainer because a child is disobedient and the child's mother is stupid. 🤷♂️
Right? No amount of training the dog is going to equal that woman being trained. The training should have been something that the woman got the first time she stepped out of bounds.
Story1: Change your keys ASAP and put those cctv camera in front of your entry house. Better yet, in future, if you gotten better house, never tell your mom. She sounded like a lunatic who will harm you if she doesn't get her way.
No, to be on the safe side, OP should just move to another state, or better yet, move to another country (e.g., Australia), disconnect his phone number, leave social media, and get a P.O. box, so that, his mother will never be able to find him, or even track him down.
MOTHER HAS & DEFINITELY WILL ALWAYS BE JEALOUS & MAD !!! BECAUSE BABY 🍼 TRAP DIDNT WORK !!!! MOTHER KNEW. O.P. WAS EXTREMELY. SPECIAL FROM 1st. DAY OF LIFE !
Dog story: even if what the Mom was claiming about an untrained dog that poses a risk to people is true, OP took the steps that should have prevented anything happening to Mommy's precious little angel. The kids that OP did let interact with the dog had a proven history of being able to do so without danger. Utterly NTA in any way.
Exactly! What more crazy is people think the OP is a AH. When in fact, it's her house and she can choose whoever has access to whatever part of the house and who doesnt. Literally telling her that she cant allow anyone upstairs during a party (even trusted and experienced people on her dog) is absolutely astonishing. Like, who are you to tell them who they let to other places and who isnt.
@@ItzPubby those people simply hate dogs and can't fathom that many times humans trigger bad interactions with them, since they believe that only great apes have feelings.
Their grandmother story it doesn’t matter how you call them that neighbor needs to keep her nose out of everyone’s business. It’s a culture she is calling them by grandma, but in a different languages, it does not mean her kid is going to start using those names to refer to her grandma
OP wasn't an AH for throwing their mother out, but was stupid for even letting her stay in the first place. What did they expect to happen with her history?
Who is the person at the end of story 2 saying that she has to be careful of unsupervised dogs? The people completely ignored Ops warnings and harassed the dog. It's completely therefore for being idiots and entitled idiots at that. And that last comment? How dare OP allow her own son full range of their house! Some people.. M
Lol @ polish/spanish speaking girl. My kids are learning many languages. My wife and I are both polyglots (I am fluent in English, Japanese, Russian, German and French while she [Pakistani] is fluent in English, Hindi, Urdu, Punjabi, Arabic and Farsi). We have very few issues with this other than when the kids are asking teachers for something and they flip words (like water or certain foods). I am US born, but I think bigotry will be found even in the far reaches of the world. You will not believe how many times I am side-eyed for being white in an unexpected area.
Story 3 Why did this women think she was entitled to enter your home and go into a private area you had told them not to go so her child is a animal abuser and you should not pay and you should tell her that you will show her husband after you told her not to go upstairs and then her son started abusing your dog tell her you have the film of her actions and exactly what occurred, you are sensible to keep your dog away from guests
Last Story: YAY, DOGGO! Maybe the egotistical slattern will pay attention to warnings given, in the future. Also, the ESH commenter at the end should probably think long and hard about their life choices 😆
Ikr? Literally telling people that own the house that they dont have the right to pick and choose who comes and goes in certain places of their house lol
You were told not to go upstairs you were told the dog is not used to strangers you got what’s coming to you when the owner says no the owner says no, as a person, and it can be hard to hear, but you have to respect their decision
I speak 5 languages i don't see color i just expect people treat others the way they want to be treated and I am and American with a 5th grade education so who's the hillbilly here?
Ok wow to the grandparent's story. Now this girl at the age of ten speaks 3 languages my son couldn't even grasp 7th-grade Spanish. I would have asked if her daughter could as well and we all know the answer to that. Very bright and intelligent little girl.
That last comment on story 3 is absolute nonsense. OP triggered nothing. OP told the mom and her son no, so that should have been the end of things. OP is not responsible for the stupidity and entitlement of others. Also, saying that OP was rude in any capacity regarding this is asinine. That commenter can go screw themselves.
Even more crazy that people try and dictate what people allow and disallow places for certain people and not others. She has that right as she owns that damn house. idgaf who you are, but you cant spell out your own rules in someone elses home.
Why are the commenters on these post so stupid? In the dog story, for example, who made them experts in ops dog and in manners? She already stated that the dog was trained and she put the dog away from new people. That was all she was required to do. And if her son wanted to go upstairs that was her business. Stupid people always tests their boundaries and always suprised at the consequences.
You triggered this situation by allowing you son and his friends to go up stairs in his own house??? Aw hell no you told karen and her brat not to go up there, the real issue is with people that don't respect being told no and thinking they can do what they want.
the last comment is just woah, im sorry but if someone says no one is allowed up there but these people, then thats that. It doesnt matter if a situation of "wanting to see the dog" was pushed out there. No means no, igaf what you think. the world isnt black and white and you can choose whoever you want to have access where and wherenot.
In story 2, first OP as an American I will apologize to you and your daughter for the actions of a “Karen”. Women like this are not only stupid but also need a crowd ( thus gossiping about it to the neighbors) to be around because they are cowards. I live in West Virginia, in a small town and many uninformed people believe that we are backwoods, ignorant and inbred people, yet, yet, NO ONE THAT I HAVE EVER HAD CONTACT WITH WOULD EVER BE CAUGHT DEAD ACTING SO STUPID!! Come to the hills OP, some here still speak the language of their heritage. BTW, using words to drive her away and describe her are lost on her. Let her call CPS, they are not nearly as ignorant as she is and she’ll get in trouble for a wrongful complaint.
I would have said no but you want to compensate me cuz I'm going to probably have to take the dog to the vet he's probably going to have to go on Prozac after your son traumatized him. I think he has PTSD from your son.
Story 2: I assume OP did not say twat, but used the c word equivalent. That is just about the most offensive thing you can call an American woman, which other nationalities can't seem to understand. The abuela issue is absurd. That part is insanely nationalistic. CPS would laugh at her.
Story 1: Change the locks. Story 2: neighbor is psychotic, but don't call women tw@t Story 3: other mother is nuts but this should have been a 'no one has contact with the dog' party
So when your drug addiction mom showed up you were kind enough to let her live with you, and she was a pos, I would have called the cops when I found the random guy, no warning, no chances.
Story 2 - NTA - Neighbor is a nutcase! She is just ignorant. Sadly, the kids played well together and this will end their friendship. Story 3 - NTA - OP should have never allowed certain kids to go upstairs, it was rude, of course the other kids would want to be with their friends. The child’s mother was disrespectful by NOT heeding your warnings and giving in to her sons wishes. Why did the child pull a dogs tail? unless a toddler, he should know better!
You have no right to tell someone who and who not to let in their house or parts or their house. The OP's kid and his friends earned that right and knew not to fuck with the dog. No means no. I dgaf who you are, f. off and don't pretend you have the right to tell people who and where they allow people in their own home.
I don't know what bothers me most her reaction to your daughter speaking foreign languages. Not understanding that different names for their grandparents. Myself I'm first-generation American so my kids call me the French version of mom mom my friend's son married a woman from Germany so they called her the German of my mom again another friend's daughter married a man from Ireland heard the version of the Ireland my mom. It's normal and natural. But that she called you over to help bringing her groceries, what because you're not American you're supposed to just be her servant. I mean she could have come and talked to you about this without having you bring in her groceries? The only thing I would say is when it comes to those people, don't reduce yourself down to their level just ignore them and leave it on their doorstep because it is their problem not yours!
Yes mom did wrong but u should have sat down & talked it out. Throwing the guy out was justified but your mom , leaving n a shelter u r sooo wrong. I’d never do that. I don’t have my mother for she’s n heaven & I miss her every day. U r wrong
Now you know why our dad left! Your mother is crazy!! Never let her back in your house again!!
DNA does NOT equal love, nor does it automatically mean FAMILY.
And unfortunately some people don't or refuse to understand that and think blood is all that matters.
Family don’t end with blood and it doesn’t start there for some of us
Sadly a lot of people have kids even when they shouldn't because society looks down on those who don't have/want kids
My mom raised me as a bascilly a single mom due to my father was n a mental hospital until I was 12. We paid $60 for a 1 bedroom apartment.. She worked a full time job. My sister kept me while she worked. While school was going on my Uncle kept me during the day. The school bus would drop me off & pick me up after school. That was when we lived n the country. My mother had no problems. We had our routine when we moved to Memphis. Grandma kept me than. Sister got married after we moved to Memphis. There is 11 years difference between us. We made it fine
Why even allow your mom into your home but then proceed to not feel comfortable around her and avoid her...in your own house....OP wtf
One of my Grandma's was from Sicily and we used the Italian version of Grandma and it didn't mess me or my siblings up at all lol.
Story 1 says his father left because of his mom's behavior. I could never understand why a Father or Mother leaves their significant other and child behind because they can't handle the behavior of the other person....Like, ummm....did you forget something??? Like your CHILD! If the behavior of your wife or husband is so horrible, how could you leave your young child behind to endure what you as an adult "cannot"???
He probably didn't care about his kid in the first place. But there are some stories where even if one parent is a horrible person. The one that leaves knows that they aren't in a position to where they can get custody of their kid even 50/50. Hell it was one post where a woman had to explain to her daughter why she left her with an abusive father. Point Blank the abusive father had Rich parents who would not going to let her take the grandchild. She had no proof no family to support her no friends that he didn't no before her. And she was already having suicidal thoughts. She quite literally could not stay. Was a pretty sad story
That's what the Law expects and demands of the father to do. If he complains and pushes the courts to much.....He might be forced to pay her court costs. Getting 50/50 custody is very hard to get, and if the ex wife is vindictive she can cause so much trouble. from making false complaints to cps, calling police for a false welfare check. constant calling and deliberate phone calls to spoil the kids fun with dad. ect....... If the woman is high conflict person it's impossible to co-parent with them, you can only parallel parent in those cases and most men haven't heard of that parenting style and abusive female types have complete melt downs if it's even suggested due to lost of POWER and Control over the EX.
ITS JUST A EXCUSE 2 START A NEW FAMILY !!!! PUTTING OLD FAMILY BEHIND THEM
real world version of home alone. he checks what he gets in the divorce and oops leaves the child behind
She was naive to buy her mom a ticket because she taught her mom if she harasses her long enough she'll cave in and give her something she wants. We teach other people how to treat us and she taught her mom how to manipulate her.
I agree, but if buying a one way ticket for her mom to leave, that is money well spent, op should now go no contact with her mom.
It's a bit better than what she did when she opened the door on her arrival. "Come On In mom, I'm just going to work, Make Yourself Comfortable" When she said That, she became the derriere hole!
The story with the grandma's name is funny to me. My kids called my grandma crazy old lady. She loved it? I miss her deeply.
Let her call cps. In fact, I’d think about calling them yourself in case she really does follow through, just to get ahead of things.
story one should get her locks changed to be on the safe side as well
Story 1: NOW we know WHY OP's father bailed out of that flaming wreck.
Happy Saturday Everyone from Tacoma Washington!( Stay Safe and warm )
My grandpa was Tato Italian for Grandpa. We love and always lived in America. Forget that lady.
Story #2: Don't you just love stupid people?? I wouldn't waste my time. I would be happy my child is learning about other cultures!!
I'm American & have 5 grand kids oldest 28 but the last one had a speech problem & my son asked if I minded if she called me Nana. No problem. I did tell them all if they have kids I'd like to be called GG for great gram. But if they want to call me something else ok. If I were OP's neighbor I'd encourage my kids or grands to try & learn from her(long as it's clean, some people only pick up nasty words "It's So Funny") Learning is much more easy when you're young!
O.P. DEFINITELY KNEW MOTHER WILL NEVER EVER LOVE 💕 HER !!
Story 2
You should be extremely wary of people becoming friendly and children and she merely spoke her mother tongues your daughter speaks multi lingual and your neighbor is a racist and you should have not worry about this issue and you should tell her your daughter speaks three languages and they are sadly narrow minded and you should tell that woman your daughter goes to a international school because she capable of speaking three languages and travels the world and America is not the centre of the universe
I really enjoy your channel. Have you thought about adding time stamps?
Story 2: Tell me you're a racist without telling me you're a racist. OR Tell me you're a KAREN without telling me you're a KAREN/Heather
Story 2- I have friends who call their grandfather "Bumps", I don't know why, but I always thought it was cute. This whining woman is just an AH who should grow up. I would avoid her and discourage your daughter from playing at her house and tell her they should play at yours.
S3: I am an animal lover and I have 5 dogs, I love them just the way I love and treat my family. But when I host parties or family gathering, my dogs are off limits for everyone and are kept in their large kennels. I also know that some of them love my dogs and some are not comfortable with animals. I don't entertain even my best friends or family members to go near the kennels, and they respect my decision. Yes, I allow my dogs to be free when just some friends or family are visiting. My dogs are well-trained and a couple of them are really ferocious towards strangers and acquaintances. Those two don't like the company of new people or strangers who aren't familiar to them. The rest 3 follow those two's footsteps.
The OP had her dog upstairs, and it is her decision who to let or not let upstairs, IN HER HOUSE, to see her dog. The woman was way in the wrong because she was told not to go upstairs, but she DID it anyway. No way, no how is OP TA.
Story 3 Opinion 3: If the son and friends had not gone into the room with the dog and puppies, the Karen and Entitled Brat would have very likely gone wandering to see what you might be "hiding" meaning they left the assigned area and "found" the dog and puppies.
They deserve rabies, but your dog and pupps do not. If you have a chance to charge them and get a restraining order against them, I suggest you DO IT!
I disagree. The OP was the AH, because she allowed her son and his friends to abandon the rest of the birthday party to go play with a dog that OP KNEW was not good with strangers. This was not the time for such a playdate with the dog. If none of the kids had gone up, I believe that the entitled brat and Karen (and I do agree that they were that) would have remained with the party.
@@Shammai101 and who are you to tell them who they allow in parts of the house at times? They have every right to allow people into parts and disallow others. idgaf who you are, it doesnt matter if it's a party or not. The OPs friends earned the right to go anywhere in the house BECUASE THEY DONT FUCK WITH THE DOG.
@@ItzPubby Of course they have the right. But, it is rude to have the guest of honor leave his guests during a party, and take a select group to do their own thing. And, while the Karen and entitled kid were wrong to disobey the rules, the mother wasn't unaware that this guest might break the rules. It was not the right time. If the party was over and guests were leaving, then yes.
FYI: In American English " Twat" means something completely different from English English. Lol
S3 NTA no is a complete answer and ab and his mom need to respect your home. She violated your rules and she doesn't have any chance at all. Good thing you had cameras and never invite those two back with your home. Your son needs to know to never do this again.
14:00 Abuela: A couple from India were staying in Denmark where the husband had a well paying IT job. Their FOUR YEAR OLD SON had cold and fever and came into the parents' room and asked to sleep next to mommy and she agreed. The pre K teacher probed and found out that this was happening for 3 days (but normally the kid slept in his own bed). She INFORMED DANISH CPS. Who jailed the couple and put the FOUR YEAR OLD in foster care. The grandparents had to fly from India and take custody of the child.
HOW STUPID IS IT to impose Danish norms on visitors to their country? I don't know what happened later but this sounds excessively stupid, shortsighted and racist
Maybe in Denmark even a 4 yo with cold, cough and a 100 deg F fever is forced to sleep alone because the ENTILED FAR LEFT CREEPS SAY SO. But this is NOT the norm in India and I daresay in most countries where common sense and intelligence matter more than wokeness and entitledness!
THIS IS THE SAME DENMARK WHERE 18 YEAR OLD BOYS CATCH 40-50 TAME CALDERON DOLPHINS and butcher them in Faeroe Islands as a sign of them becoming adults! This is considered perfectly civilized and acceptable. The dolphins cry like human babies and suffer for 45 minutes each as the boys prolong the agony. WHY THE 18 YEAR OLD BOYS DON'T BECOME MEN SLEEPING WITH EACH OTHER'S MOTHERS IS SOMETHING I cannot understand! Even worse, the meat is gamey and smelly and is apparently thrown away.
This is the problem with western countries they think we are uncivilized monkeys
What the actual fucking rant was that?
Found the meds yet?
Story 2. That woman is nuts! My kids call my mom Abuelita, my MIL is nana, my great-grandmother is Aja, hubby's great grandmother is Mimi. NTA
dog story. op should still report that woman, she might find a way to retaliate.
Let me get this right, regarding the dog story and one of the commentors, the dog needs a trainer because a child is disobedient and the child's mother is stupid. 🤷♂️
Right? No amount of training the dog is going to equal that woman being trained. The training should have been something that the woman got the first time she stepped out of bounds.
Story1: Change your keys ASAP and put those cctv camera in front of your entry house. Better yet, in future, if you gotten better house, never tell your mom. She sounded like a lunatic who will harm you if she doesn't get her way.
No, to be on the safe side, OP should just move to another state, or better yet, move to another country (e.g., Australia), disconnect his phone number, leave social media, and get a P.O. box, so that, his mother will never be able to find him, or even track him down.
MOTHER HAS & DEFINITELY WILL ALWAYS BE JEALOUS & MAD !!! BECAUSE BABY 🍼 TRAP DIDNT WORK !!!! MOTHER KNEW. O.P. WAS EXTREMELY. SPECIAL FROM 1st. DAY OF LIFE !
Dog story: even if what the Mom was claiming about an untrained dog that poses a risk to people is true, OP took the steps that should have prevented anything happening to Mommy's precious little angel. The kids that OP did let interact with the dog had a proven history of being able to do so without danger. Utterly NTA in any way.
Exactly! What more crazy is people think the OP is a AH. When in fact, it's her house and she can choose whoever has access to whatever part of the house and who doesnt. Literally telling her that she cant allow anyone upstairs during a party (even trusted and experienced people on her dog) is absolutely astonishing. Like, who are you to tell them who they let to other places and who isnt.
@@ItzPubby those people simply hate dogs and can't fathom that many times humans trigger bad interactions with them, since they believe that only great apes have feelings.
You did ALL of This to your self. You did the wrong thing by taking her in. Never let go of some one who hurt you from the past.
Their grandmother story it doesn’t matter how you call them that neighbor needs to keep her nose out of everyone’s business. It’s a culture she is calling them by grandma, but in a different languages, it does not mean her kid is going to start using those names to refer to her grandma
OP wasn't an AH for throwing their mother out, but was stupid for even letting her stay in the first place. What did they expect to happen with her history?
Who is the person at the end of story 2 saying that she has to be careful of unsupervised dogs? The people completely ignored Ops warnings and harassed the dog. It's completely therefore for being idiots and entitled idiots at that.
And that last comment? How dare OP allow her own son full range of their house! Some people.. M
Lol @ polish/spanish speaking girl. My kids are learning many languages. My wife and I are both polyglots (I am fluent in English, Japanese, Russian, German and French while she [Pakistani] is fluent in English, Hindi, Urdu, Punjabi, Arabic and Farsi). We have very few issues with this other than when the kids are asking teachers for something and they flip words (like water or certain foods). I am US born, but I think bigotry will be found even in the far reaches of the world. You will not believe how many times I am side-eyed for being white in an unexpected area.
That is a very impressive collection of languages. Well done to both of you, and your kids. A lot of hard work there.
Story 3
Why did this women think she was entitled to enter your home and go into a private area you had told them not to go so her child is a animal abuser and you should not pay and you should tell her that you will show her husband after you told her not to go upstairs and then her son started abusing your dog tell her you have the film of her actions and exactly what occurred, you are sensible to keep your dog away from guests
Last Story: YAY, DOGGO!
Maybe the egotistical slattern will pay attention to warnings given, in the future.
Also, the ESH commenter at the end should probably think long and hard about their life choices 😆
Ikr? Literally telling people that own the house that they dont have the right to pick and choose who comes and goes in certain places of their house lol
You were told not to go upstairs you were told the dog is not used to strangers you got what’s coming to you when the owner says no the owner says no, as a person, and it can be hard to hear, but you have to respect their decision
Entitled person, told NO. That's all it was.
Story 2: maybe don't call her a twat. Try words like "ignorant" and "bigot" instead!
I speak 5 languages i don't see color i just expect people treat others the way they want to be treated and I am and American with a 5th grade education so who's the hillbilly here?
As an American I find Chilean and Polish to be lovely languages.
My grandchildren call me G-ma
Last: I sincerely hope OP did not call the toxic mom + son again to any get together in her home? Better safe than sorry. And both sound stupid.
Ok wow to the grandparent's story. Now this girl at the age of ten speaks 3 languages my son couldn't even grasp 7th-grade Spanish. I would have asked if her daughter could as well and we all know the answer to that. Very bright and intelligent little girl.
That last comment on story 3 is absolute nonsense. OP triggered nothing. OP told the mom and her son no, so that should have been the end of things. OP is not responsible for the stupidity and entitlement of others. Also, saying that OP was rude in any capacity regarding this is asinine. That commenter can go screw themselves.
Even more crazy that people try and dictate what people allow and disallow places for certain people and not others. She has that right as she owns that damn house. idgaf who you are, but you cant spell out your own rules in someone elses home.
Why are the commenters on these post so stupid? In the dog story, for example, who made them experts in ops dog and in manners? She already stated that the dog was trained and she put the dog away from new people. That was all she was required to do. And if her son wanted to go upstairs that was her business. Stupid people always tests their boundaries and always suprised at the consequences.
You triggered this situation by allowing you son and his friends to go up stairs in his own house??? Aw hell no you told karen and her brat not to go up there, the real issue is with people that don't respect being told no and thinking they can do what they want.
the last comment is just woah, im sorry but if someone says no one is allowed up there but these people, then thats that. It doesnt matter if a situation of "wanting to see the dog" was pushed out there. No means no, igaf what you think. the world isnt black and white and you can choose whoever you want to have access where and wherenot.
Did she repay ?
In story 2, first OP as an American I will apologize to you and your daughter for the actions of a “Karen”. Women like this are not only stupid but also need a crowd ( thus gossiping about it to the neighbors) to be around because they are cowards. I live in West Virginia, in a small town and many uninformed people believe that we are backwoods, ignorant and inbred people, yet, yet, NO ONE THAT I HAVE EVER HAD CONTACT WITH WOULD EVER BE CAUGHT DEAD ACTING SO STUPID!!
Come to the hills OP, some here still speak the language of their heritage. BTW, using words to drive her away and describe her are lost on her. Let her call CPS, they are not nearly as ignorant as she is and she’ll get in trouble for a wrongful complaint.
I would have said no but you want to compensate me cuz I'm going to probably have to take the dog to the vet he's probably going to have to go on Prozac after your son traumatized him. I think he has PTSD from your son.
Story 2: the neighbour is projecting. She is the one trying to brainwash her child and she is the one that cps needs to look into.
Story 2: I assume OP did not say twat, but used the c word equivalent. That is just about the most offensive thing you can call an American woman, which other nationalities can't seem to understand.
The abuela issue is absurd. That part is insanely nationalistic. CPS would laugh at her.
Story 1: Change the locks.
Story 2: neighbor is psychotic, but don't call women tw@t
Story 3: other mother is nuts but this should have been a 'no one has contact with the dog' party
I would have kick me out and this stranger and I would change my locks 🔐 and go no contact story1
So when your drug addiction mom showed up you were kind enough to let her live with you, and she was a pos, I would have called the cops when I found the random guy, no warning, no chances.
Story 2 - NTA - Neighbor is a nutcase! She is just ignorant. Sadly, the kids played well together and this will end their friendship.
Story 3 - NTA - OP should have never allowed certain kids to go upstairs, it was rude, of course the other kids would want to be with their friends. The child’s mother was disrespectful by NOT heeding your warnings and giving in to her sons wishes. Why did the child pull a dogs tail? unless a toddler, he should know better!
You have no right to tell someone who and who not to let in their house or parts or their house. The OP's kid and his friends earned that right and knew not to fuck with the dog. No means no. I dgaf who you are, f. off and don't pretend you have the right to tell people who and where they allow people in their own home.
I don't know what bothers me most her reaction to your daughter speaking foreign languages. Not understanding that different names for their grandparents. Myself I'm first-generation American so my kids call me the French version of mom mom my friend's son married a woman from Germany so they called her the German of my mom again another friend's daughter married a man from Ireland heard the version of the Ireland my mom. It's normal and natural. But that she called you over to help bringing her groceries, what because you're not American you're supposed to just be her servant. I mean she could have come and talked to you about this without having you bring in her groceries? The only thing I would say is when it comes to those people, don't reduce yourself down to their level just ignore them and leave it on their doorstep because it is their problem not yours!
"An American racist". We found the foreign racist XD.
Yes mom did wrong but u should have sat down & talked it out. Throwing the guy out was justified but your mom , leaving n a shelter u r sooo wrong. I’d never do that. I don’t have my mother for she’s n heaven & I miss her every day. U r wrong
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You don't know why he left yet you're writing this story if she didn't want to be a single mother she should have made better choices in life