I absolutely love this video. I lost my mother at age 35. I'm 56 now. I hope you don't mind that I watch your videos because I need someone wiser than me to guide me. I have no older relatives because my parents were both separated from their families. These are such good questions. And your refections help me so much.
Wendy, I am sorry you list your mother at such an early age. That must still be very difficult for you. I was 60 when I lost mine and I think of her everyday. I am happy I can be of help in any small way. ❤️. Sandra
Oh my God, I lost my mom at a young age and don't have a granny that I could go to so I also look and feel comforted by older women wisdom. I just realized this connection! I feel loved by her just by watching this video.
I just started watching the channel and already consider her a mentor. I have no women older than me to look up to...my mother died in 2012. I really appreciate Sandra’s wisdom and insights. Finding her channel has been a God send.
Wendy, I can certainly relate. I was 32 when my mother passed. I am 73 now and always look for advise from those wiser than myself. It is hard going through those important years without a mother to confide in or ask advise from. On the other hand, I have a 50 year old daughter that doesn't want any advise from me and thinks everthing I say is not worth listening to. She told me when she was 11 years old she never wanted to be like me. So what am I like. I worked hard, I would have done anything for my children, I took them to Church and taught them to be responsible, and moral. I expected the best out of them. I also have a son with whom I am very close. So what can I say.
It's funny how world works. i'm a 17 years old Lithuanian teen that doesn't even live close to USA, but I can listen to a such lovely woman like Sandra😊 I personaly don't remember either of my grandmothers so It's really fufilling and I'm so thankful for your videos.♥️
I’m listening on February 19,2022. I was 36 when my mom passed away at age 61. Since then I have had many “ Moms” that have helped me more than they will ever know. I had 6 aunts that stepped up and guided me along as I raised two girls alone and worked 3 jobs in the medical community. Now that my aunts have passed away I lean toward older II’m my Church. It’s great to be in the midst of such influential ladies. I am enjoying all you videos.
Having older women mentors was wonderful for you. Not every young woman who has lost her mother is so lucky. Maternal guidance is extremely important for young women. Thank you for sharing your thoughts today.
My 95 yr old dad (in good health) would say you are a genius. 😊 This is a great topic. I like the simple approach. And writing down is key. I’m like you...Family, creativity, and for me, genealogy, research and writing. I had to start over several times and did it pretty well. I retired at 60, so I could do more of what I wanted. I’m pleased with my life to date, no regrets, but I love thinking about the unknown amount of time I have left. Many thanks.
Check this out, Sandra... I think she heard you. www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/jun/25/woman-93-arrested-as-a-dying-wish-after-being-good-all-her-life
I can't imagine ever being satisfied with my life. I think if I'm satisfied I'll be dead. I'm working very hard to reconfigure my life around some circumstances I change. I lost my inner self so long ago and I try really hard to leave it in the past because I can't change what happened now. I've certainly recovered parts of it. Some things I can't recover because I'm disabled, so I'm just trying to channel it in another direction. I love your channel and I wish I could just sit down and have coffee with you! Maybe someday...🥰🌻
Julie, Having coffee and a heart-to-heart with you would be wonderful, in the meantime, keep positive and growing, reinventing who you are now at this moment. We should never be satisfied because then we will miss possibilities we never dreamed of. We will miss new discoveries that can only happen by still being curious about life! The past is the past. No going back. ❤️. Sandra
Brilliant questions, Sandra! Your wisdom never ceases to amaze me and you continually inspire me to think, reflect, and grow. You've so beautifully demonstrated by simply being your true self, that no matter our age, we can always be creative, enjoy our life, and have so much to look forward to. Like you, I changed the course of my life at the age of 50 by leaving the world of fashion design (my 30 year career) and returning to University to earn my Masters degree in clinical counseling in order to become a licensed psychotherapist. It's never, ever too late to fully live your life. I love you so much!!! xo
Evie, A giant congratulations on your career path change. Finding a new path later on in life isn’t easy, but just think of the lives you have helped by doing so. I was on the leadership council of the Brain & Behavior Research Foundation ( formerly NARSAD) for many years. I know how important your work is. www.bbrfoundation.org/content/schizophrenia%E2%80%99s-wake-son-laments-father-who-might-have-been. ❤️. Sandra
I turning 65 soon and have suffered 2 great loses this year. You have been a huge part of my learning to deal with this process of getting older and appreciating each and every day. God Bless you Sandra. You and I are very similar in lifestyle and tastes and so you are a wonderful role model. I have recommended you to my cousins and close friends who are my age. Big hug to you ,
Marylou, I am sorry to hear about your losses this year. I was blindsided myself with two within a week of one another. It never gets easy, but just fortifies how important it is to live the best life we can now. Thank you for sharing and I am so happy you are coming along on this journey with me. ❤️. Sandra
dear lady, do you realize just how invaluable your channel has become to me? It's like a therapist program that I have been searching for for years! Your service is making an impact on my life and I truly appreciate what you are doing with your encouragement and Your heart that is rich with love for her audience, I appreciate you so much! thank you And God bless you! It's like having my own therapist to check in with as often as possible to be encouraged. Because you have the character, genuine kindness and concern And the professional experience on how to carry yourself on a public platform via social media film!
Hi sandra lm going to a answer the second question my best thing they l did was to become American citizens lm from venezuela and that day sandra l was so proud of myself l been here for 30 years is being a lot of challenges first languish to learn to speak to write ect went l got here l was 22 years old and now lm 52 years old and watch you l have so much to learn but lm so glad that you have this wonderful channel and interesting topic that make me think and myself and other people too your channel is for me my new book because you explains live with wisdom and l found and you a lot of honest answer about truth live now you become my private friend went l do sit on my Cher l found piece jast listen to you and the other questions s l going to skip for now thankyou sandra and be well
Alex, Thank you for sharing your wonderful story of your journey from Venezuela to America. I am so happy you enjoy my channel and the things I have to say. Thank you, too, for being here. ❤️. Sandra
I know someone who was poor all her life and in her 60’s came into money and she uses it to enhance her family’s life, her friend’s lives, she has become a big tipper and spreads the money around and gives to charities. The money has bought out all the good in her, it s so lovely to see. 😊
Sandra, I found your channel this Sunday morning and added a comment on one of your other videos. I am going through a slump in life and really needed an uplift in spirit. Your videos are the answer to my prayers. I look forward to my new journey. Sending you a big hug from California. Love, Gloria
Good Morning Gloria and welcome. I’m so happy that my discussions may be of some help to you at this point in your life. Please remember our lives are fluid and nothing stays the same or is forever. Today is a chance for change and tomorrow is another day to continue to grow. Thanks for sharing. ❤️. Sandra
Sandra my dear. Please follow your dream to sing. I'm sure your son will be delighted to help you. You are such a very lovely lady and I'm sure I speak for many of your viewers.you are such an inspiration. Some of us do loose ourselves and you have given me a flicker of light. Thank you.
Sandra!!! Thank you so much for this sharing this wonderful message!!! I’m 60 years old, navigating the loss of my beloved mother; our lovely daughter is away at college and thriving; and I am basically like a ship without a rudder…. I CAN reset and thrive!!! ❤🎄
Making this exercise after finding you on youtube yesterday led me waking up from a healing dream of a childhood situation this morning. My inner child was grieving and being comforted from a failure that had changed the course of my life for real. Awsome!
I could this woman talk for hours on end...her facial expressions...and she's not one of these 'perfect' TH-camrs...she's just ...Sandra! I love how she'll sometimes pause a bit...or her eyes will look upward for a bit as she's considering what to say...she's just an absolute DELIGHT.
Very thought provoking Sandra....many many years ago I learned that people come into our lives for one of two reasons...they were either the teacher or they were the student. Today you were our teacher. Hope you are enjoying Nashville. xo patti
Patti, I sincerely believe that there are no accidental meetings in life. We learn some type of lesson from each encounter no matter how brief or extended. It is so nice being near my son and for awhile. My granddaughter here is my youngest and she loves playing with makeup already! Love you. ❤️. Sandra
1. Children 2. 6 siblings Keeping in touch! Lol My bucket list is full I spend two months visiting and catching up with my family. Yes, I am in touch with them. But I love visiting them! Reading is also my love! Anything I can get my hands on.
Raising my 3 children as a single mother. Main caregiver for my mother. Preparing heartwarming meals for my family to enoy nourishing food. Looking forward to the future where the grown up kids are more settled.
I live my life so that I do not care about somebody's judgements. I can even say maybe sometimes smth rudely to smb in order to achieve my goals. But life has put on me thick skin in order to fight for my loved ones and my existence.
Good Morning Sandra,. So much to think about. I enjoyed the video this morning. Took notes and will take time to seek answers. Your love and smile are a comfort to me and Yes; record, I would love a copy of your songs. Enjoy your day!
Oh I do hope you record some music, Sandra!! Great questions to ponder, my friend. Hope all is well with you, and yours. Blessings, and love...MaryEllen
I love you, my lovely Grandma Sandra! Your videos make me feel good whenever I watch them! so so soo grateful that you're alive and making advice videos!!
Hope you make your music! Even a duet with your son! I love opera! My family always said I couldn't sing. I got so fed up that I sang the start of an opera song! They have never said I can't sing since lol! All these hidden talents people have! We need to not waste them! Thank you for a great video! Kx
I am trying to vocalize every day so that by the time I am down in Asheville I just might be able to do it. I’ll be 82 but it’s never too late is it?❤️
My best achievement in life is getting my degree; secondly, being so generous with family not only in material but in time and efforts as well. I can't think of more.
Good morning Sandra, so much food for thought. I will take some time to just sit and contemplate on these deep questions. May you have a healthy and happy day.
I too use my creativity. We're never too old to showcase our abilities, skills and talents. Accepting that age is a time to stop doing... NONSENSE. Now is the age to DO. We are only limited by our thinking 😊😊😊
Those are great questions to ask ourselves. I know that my greatest accomplishment is being a mom to my son. He is my inspiration and a joy in my life. He works for The New York Times.....I would had like to be a dancer. I love to dance.....ILY...MINDY
“And did You accomplish what You set out to, in this lifetime, even so?” “I did” “And what was that?” “To call myself Beloved, To feel myself Beloved on this Earth”
Thank you Lorie. With Covid I have not been able to get down to Nashville, but I hope someday we will be able to go to Nashville and I can be down in my cottage where I can work with my son.❤️
Hi, this is the second video i watch from you it's really helping me. thank you :) i started crying when you said you became an actress at 50. i'm so happy for you! i am 27 now and acting has always been my passion but i have had severe depression since i was 10 and i quit dancing and acting in school at 12 yrs old. In my teenage years i had so much fear that i never pursued my dream, at 16 i thought i was lost, everyone my age knew what they wanted to study but i neglected my own passion so much that i never saw it again as a realistic possibility for myself and until this day i have been feeling lost because nothing else makes me feel full and alive as when i was acting. now after a lot of pain i am working to get out of the traumatics situations and tomorrow i will start my first acting class!! i am so happy, i never thought i could do it. but i am going to. blessings to all.
There is no gift more expensive to your family like all your videos, Sandra. When you leave this world, your family will be able to open any your recorded video and drink wisdom on any topic of life. Thank you for making our lives happier❣
My health is all centre to this now. But i did an Art course. Found i can't draw lol. But i can paint cats mostly. I took my father to court, bad stuff. He got off but he's out of our lives . Away from my Granddaughters. That is all that matters they are safe. Money id try to get some proper health care. I don't want money for fun. Just to help people i love. I admire Ralph Waldo Emerson was an American essayist, lecturer, philosopher, and poet who led the transcendentalist movement of the mid-19th century. I discovered him (an accomplishment ) doing A degree course in Humanities. I could read his quotes, thoughts all day long. I know thier are plenty like him. I just find him mesmerising. Love you miss Sophi collar again. I love your thoughts. xxx❤💖💗🐕🐾🐾
Health is a big one. I understand. I also like the works of Ralph Waldo Emerson. I love his poetry and writings. He has always been a favorite of mine. I hope you win the lottery of good health. That would be my wish for you above all. ❤️. Sandra
@@lifewithsandrahart Awe Thankyou Sandra. And your Daughter. I'd help her if I could, plus some Multiple sclerosis Warriors I've discovered. Yes Ralph their are others. I love Poetry. War poetry written by those from the trenches in ww1. My husband got me hooked. He's a bit of an expert on Wars. Told him he should have been a teacher. He says it is a hobby. And he loves learning. The Only one in our class aged 8 that got excited about homework. (We went to lower school together, He came to my class my knees went to Jelly lol My first & last Love) xxx
Angela, What a wonderful love story. Destiny meant for you two to be together. It doesn’t happen that often, unfortunately. My daughter just got back from working a flight to Manchester and back. All night going and up early the next day for the return. She said her joints were killing her, her feet and legs were swollen. It takes her two days to recover from these trips. She has to have one of her feet operated on in the fall and will be out for at least 3 months. I wish I could magically make her illness go away. I feel so helpless sometimes because, like you, she doesn’t deserve this. Good health is worth more than all the money in the world. ❤️. Sandra
I’m only 19, but I’ve always been a planner. My dream has been to meet as many as I can and learning from each other. I love travel and adventure. I grew up in such a like minded community and I’m itching to get out. Although I’ve realized, that my views are bit rigid and it was surprising to see how many people don’t view life the way I do. It kinda blew my self esteem and I felt inferior for not being more like that person I was with. I’ve slowly come to realize that I have so much to offer to people. My mind is really creative and unique. I may be a bit more childish but I think it’s very refreshing. If I could be anybody, I would be kinder and happier for myself. I am a dreamer and I don’t want to stop that anytime now. I would dress more outwardly and not stick myself in a box. I would eat more and gain more muscle. I would be more blunt about how I enjoy my own company more than being in others. I would start putting myself first and be stop being guilty for choosing myself over everybody. I know my worth and I don’t want to spend my on people who aren’t making me happy like I do.
This is so timely at this point in my life Sandra so thank you for posing these questions. I find myself in my 70's off course over the last few years and so this video has really resonated with me. Hard questions to think about but when you know you have strayed so far from your true self due to circumstances and the people in your life it is hard to find the courage to act when the outcomes are so uncertain and potentially life changing with regards to family dynamics. Especially when whichever way you try to change to be truer to yourself it will be emotionally damaging to others whichever way you choose to go.
Hello again Sandra......you never cease to amaze me with your words of wisdom......my immediate thought of the person I most admire is my grandmother, who was unceasing with her self-less, nurturing love, and then my mother, and then all the significant elders during my youth.....in some ways, I have become part of that spirit.....I have become an artist through and through, giving of my art and music talents, and able to be blessed with a livelihood in doing work that I love.....I've found my "niche".....and can continue throughout my golden years......we absolutely must be thankful and be able to recognize and realize our blessings in order to find contentment and peace......♥️🌻🙏🌌🎶🎵🎹🎨🖼
Thank you so much for sharing thoughts about those women who have inspired you. How wonderful that you have continue using your creativity and sharing them with others. I really appreciate your sharing all of that with us today
The people I love is my family/extended family, going to church and be engage/I enjoyed being able to go to school and be able to be the first in my family to graduated from college. Thus one of my greatest accomplishments is to be able to teach other. One of my downfall is not be a certified elementary teacher, even though I loved , enjoyed and students have learned with my guidance. 🙏
Gladys, being the first college graduate in your family is absolutely a wonderful achievement. I’m sure your parents were proud of you. Teaching it’s a wonderful and giving profession. That you are not certified I understand is a disappointment to you. But you must remember it’s never too late! Thank you so much for sharing❤️
Loved your thoughts today Sandra!! It's amazing that you reinvented yourself at 50!! That's so inspiring! And I'm really going to us these as I adjust to my empty nest! Love you lady!!! xoxoxo!!!
Empty nests are a mixed bag of emotions. Both sadness that a chapter has closed and a sense of freedom in opening another chapter in your life. ❤️. Sandra
Wow Sandra I would have to say my gardens I did have to put on hold when I had kids what gardens I have now would not be possible while raising my children It would of been to stressful and now my kids are older and they see and understand what makes me tick and truth I'm glad i did this way
Of course, a loving mother, you did the right thing. You planted your children in rich soil so that they would be nourished physically, morally and blossom. Now, it’s your other garden to tend to! ❤️. Sandra
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and journey Sandra. This is thought provoking. I do see many of us as not being as concerned as we were before our 60s for being judged. Personally I've overcome quite a lot and accomplished many things throughout my life from education, to careers, raising wonderful children, starting over many times, overcoming a lot, volunteering, traveling, on and on. All by the grace of God My children's accomplishments are their own and am so blessed by them & my grandchildren. If I won the lottery aside from sharing with family it would be donated. There are charities I believe in and would want to give more to and do more for. Are there a few more things I'd like for myself, sure! I know that the fact that I'm still here, that I had any abilities, that I accomplished anything is all due to a God who loves and blesses me. I owe everything to Him. The greatest thing I have done & can do is pray for others. Am grateful even in the midst of my circumstances, health issues etc I look on the beauty of creation and hope in possibilities. As they say is your glass half full or half empty? Am grateful to have a glass. 💝
What a wonderful response. You seem to have not lost your inner self, but are growing leaps and bounds every year. God is grateful when we trust in Him and let go. There is sunshine behind every cloud. That is the truth. Thank you for sharing in such a nice post today. ❤️. Sandra
@@lifewithsandrahartThank you Sandra. Some challenges in my life have been gigantic that only God could get me through, truly. And continue to be is why I appreciate your optimism & sharing to look forward to. When you've lost much you're grateful for all even when you have to roll over to look up. ♥️
Yes, Sandra, do pass it by Emerson on a few tunes to sing! Maybe a duet with him too! Wonderful questions...#4 is the question that took me back some. I might be able to be the real person I truly am and not the person people want me to be.
Dearest Sandra, no words could described my gratitude… the guidance, the advice, the sharing of your knowledge and ways of going through life is a complete lift of our spirits to continue through the paths of life. Whichever road we take , we all have great choices…is all in our hands…no doubt about it. Again , thank you so so much…all the best for you and your loved ones.🌷
Sandra your questions were so thought provoking. I’m proud my teaching career and education. But most of my answers seemed to involve spending time with and helping my 2 grown children. Thanks for sharing! ❤️🌷❤️
I've always thought getting a lot of money, of course Ill buy a house and it is really a nice feeling that I will give money to family and those around me- it's the best feeling ever. It would make me the happiest person ever. I love to give, giving offers happiness to others and it offers more happiness to you. Wow! Will I reach that status one day? I mean I give now but just a little but there are those who need bigger amounts and I stand still just praying for them.
These questions DID dramatically change my life in the sense, that they put all my reality upside down. Because what I deep down desire the most was surprisingly not what is most important to my family. They want me to have success or be "normal" But MY deepest desire and my destiny call is: Be COMPLETELY myself. Always. I am known to stand out and I have been an outsider all through school- until my art school, there I was the one creating a friend group and I realised I'm good at bringing people together around me. But that's not even the point here. The point is: If I could be whatever or whoever I could be without any judgement: I wrote in a heartbeat: I would be a fluffy unicorn! My weirdness or if you ask my friends my uniqueness is very very strong. I mean I one day stumbled upon My Little Pony and that was when I realised that was my destiny! Bringing joy and kindness- THAT level of unconditional love and support that I've only seen with cartoon characters- I need to bring that to life in our real world. I was often told, and I noticed it too tbh that I seem like a cartoon or manga character came to life. And I did my best to hide that all my life basically. I was always "different but careful not to be too different" But my deepest desire is to let go of people's opinions and judgement completely And be me 100%! I wanna wear pastel rainbow coloured clothes! I wanna always have coloured hair! At best multiple colours even! I would if there was no judgement, open my own community, a safe space for anyone who looks for a place to be purely themselves. I would wanna be like an idol. They are very colourful and stand out but they do it proudly! And they do it to show others "you can be unique too! You can be yourself!" I would love to be that kind of support and protective shield for others And I would be proud that My little Pony gave me my purpose in life! Which is such a unique way of finding your destiny! I feel very blessed And responsible to spread all the positivity and love and kindness I saw in those characters Rant over, I'm exhausted haha And scared to post it but HERE I GO
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I am glad to have found your channel. I see this as another type of validation of the work I do with my women's retreats, particularly for this over 50.
Thank you. You forced me to think about what I really want in life. I so appreciate you. You are right we get tired and become robots. Today I am going to start making some changes. 🙏🏼❤️❤️
My greatest accomplishment depends on the stage of the life we are. As a youngster: I wanted to be a dancer and I participated even though I wasn’t the greatest . In my late 20’s was being able to decided . In my 30’s being able to became a mother and run away from the daddy of my children and choosing an education with lots of academic and economic difficulties and being able to accomplished even if I have not earned what I suppose to. But I have no regrets.🙏
this is helpful. Last point about finding sunshine so important because I tend fret about stuff. It's like shifting focus. Challenging when anxiety is active ,bit I have done this and can do it again and again. Thanks again, Sandra
at 84 i have realized that i've lived my purpose in life. i have fulfilled my bucket list. the things i thought i wanted turned out to not being wanted enough to go after. i don't want money. i don't want a more complicated life. if i made that list, all that would be on it would be, did i make a difference in any ones life?
Sue, Thanks so much for that tip. I knew I would be traveling and made several videos ahead of time. I did this video two months ago and have fixed that yellowed part of my hair. It had never done that before. It has always stayed pretty white. Perhaps it was something in our water. I’ll use the baking soda if it does that again. I appreciate the tip. I was so frustrated. ❤️. Sandra
Very intriguing questions to ask ourselves. This should keep me busy for quite some time! The one about our biggest accomplishment - I had to think about that one but when I came to realize the answer it was a sweet memory that I hadn't thought about in a while, and in retrospect I feel it was probably more important than I realized at the time. All the questions are very important food for thought. 🙋
Dearest beautiful Sandra, thank you for your light , wisdom and love 💕 I terribly am missing my adorable 🥰 beautiful prudent mother who passed away two years ago and whom I loved dearly ! I just happen to come across your beautiful videos and and listening to you makes me reflect and encourages me to keep going and to find purpose just like my mother would want me too! You are like a bright candle 🕯 giving hope to me! May God abundantly bless you 🙏 and look forward to more videos for the holidays Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas 🎄 🎁
Such a wise session :) Young people today I don't think they listen to the wisdom of the generation ahead of us that has already lived, experienced and seen it all so to speak. Your wisdom be cherish. I do kind of envy the generation you grew up in even though there were problems all generations or eras do, But if I were to Tell my young self today not to fear things when you grow up, Well she's grown up and full of fear & anxiety, even though I know it's not good. The fear of what's happening in the world and where it's going. Not feeling carefree. And I'm sure a lot of people feel this way so so autumn Linus we thank you so much and look forward to each of your videach of your videos you're wonderful beautiful you have a lot of light and love that shines from you🌌🌝🌅🌠❤️🙏
He Sandra! You always get me thinking deep thoughts! It's great in so many ways! These are great questions. You inspire me more then you'll ever know! Right off the bat you are one of the people I admire. I feel you have so much wisdom and you calm me and always getting me thinking about tomorrow and the years to come! Thank you so much for your wise and inspiring words! Xo
Sue, Your comment honestly makes me feel that what I have to share here matters to some degree. I just realize how important it is to try and live, really live the best life we can, now and not wait. Now is all we know that is certain and we should take advantage of each day. Thank you so much. ❤️. Sandra
I don't think we have to pick our greatest accomplishment because most of us have many accomplishments for different stages of life. It was a big accomplishment to walk into a kindergarten class like a big girl. 💕
Hi Sandra - I just found your channel a couple of weeks ago. I wanted to say, "Thank You". I am 53 years old and have never had a good relationship with my mother. I often feel sad that I do not have someone to get a suggestion or advice from. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.♡
At 31 my mam passes ,my dad awhile after, and I brought my downsydrome sister to live with me,we ve always been close .yeah it's alot of work, my like revolves around her,she has alot of severe health problems. But it's my best accomplishment, not because I think I always know what of doing...but she's happy and that's all I wanted after my parents passed, for her not to be sad
I am watching this on a snowy day in Arkansas in February 2022. I do want to encourage you to make the recording. An aunt of mine played several instruments, being taught by her parents. One of her sons has made several Gospel CD.s. She always wanted to make a record. When she was about 85 several family and friend musicians around her made it happen. She only sold /gave away the CDs to family and friends. For me, the only thing that matters is if it is something I want to accomplish. I hope as I watch your videos, I come across one after you have made a recording. GO GIRL!
Hi Sandra. You are looking great. This was a very interesting, helpful video. Will write down and ponder those question. You are such a blessing Sandra💝
Claudia, These Questions we can ask ourselves at different points in our lives. We may have changed the answers, but they remind us to keep on track for being who we want to be. ❤️. Sandra
Thank you Sandra for some excellent food for thought. I have been struggling with that for awhile now . I can use those questions to unravel that bowl of spaghetti. It would be wonderful for you and your family if you did record some songs. What would you sing? Take care of you. Hugs from Ontario canada. 💓⚘🧚♀️
Hi and thank you so much for spending some time today with me. Life is all is filled with questions and challenges, isn’t it? I’m not too sure what I would saying, probably some standard. Blessings to you in Canada❤️
@@lifewithsandraharthank you so much for sharing the experience of your own change, Sandra! I'll continue to stay on the lookout here. We never know! ❤️ Susan
Hello Ms. Sondra, I know I am a lot younger than you or maybe many of your followers but I really enjoy your topis. To answer one of the questions you asked, If I have no Judgement or fear of people, I would definitely share the gospel of Jesus Christ! I think there will be a day I will do that.
Very interesting, I also accomplished my dream of becoming an actress at 50 . Something I always wanted, took classes for many years. I finally took the step to going to auditions, worked on many different productions and even was a lead in a few stage plays! Now I find I don't really want it anymore, almost like I proved it to myself so time for somethiing else. I just don't know what that something is right now. Trying to understand that that's ok too.
It's 3 years later. Did you eventually get to record a song? New subscriber. I'm loving your content, so much wisdom that you're imparting here. Thank you💗
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I absolutely love this video. I lost my mother at age 35. I'm 56 now. I hope you don't mind that I watch your videos because I need someone wiser than me to guide me. I have no older relatives because my parents were both separated from their families. These are such good questions. And your refections help me so much.
Wendy, I am sorry you list your mother at such an early age. That must still be very difficult for you. I was 60 when I lost mine and I think of her everyday. I am happy I can be of help in any small way. ❤️. Sandra
Oh my God, I lost my mom at a young age and don't have a granny that I could go to so I also look and feel comforted by older women wisdom. I just realized this connection! I feel loved by her just by watching this video.
I just started watching the channel and already consider her a mentor. I have no women older than me to look up to...my mother died in 2012. I really appreciate Sandra’s wisdom and insights. Finding her channel has been a God send.
Yesss exactly how I feel though I'm not close to over 60 I have no close older relatives so this is so comforting to me 💞
Wendy, I can certainly relate. I was 32 when my mother passed. I am 73 now and always look for advise from those wiser than myself. It is hard going through those important years without a mother to confide in or ask advise from. On the other hand, I have a 50 year old daughter that doesn't want any advise from me and thinks everthing I say is not worth listening to. She told me when she was 11 years old she never wanted to be like me. So what am I like. I worked hard, I would have done anything for my children, I took them to Church and taught them to be responsible, and moral. I expected the best out of them. I also have a son with whom I am very close. So what can I say.
It's funny how world works. i'm a 17 years old Lithuanian teen that doesn't even live close to USA, but I can listen to a such lovely woman like Sandra😊 I personaly don't remember either of my grandmothers so It's really fufilling and I'm so thankful for your videos.♥️
I’m listening on February 19,2022. I was 36 when my mom passed away at age 61. Since then I have had many “ Moms” that have helped me more than they will ever know. I had 6 aunts that stepped up and guided me along as I raised two girls alone and worked 3 jobs in the medical community. Now that my aunts have passed away I lean toward older II’m my
Church. It’s great to be in the midst of such influential ladies. I am enjoying all you videos.
Having older women mentors was wonderful for you. Not every young woman who has lost her mother is so lucky. Maternal guidance is extremely important for young women. Thank you for sharing your thoughts today.
Sandra you are a treasure, God Bless you.
My 95 yr old dad (in good health) would say you are a genius. 😊 This is a great topic. I like the simple approach. And writing down is key. I’m like you...Family, creativity, and for me, genealogy, research and writing. I had to start over several times and did it pretty well. I retired at 60, so I could do more of what I wanted. I’m pleased with my life to date, no regrets, but I love thinking about the unknown amount of time I have left. Many thanks.
LOL! I wish! Thanks so much for that. We have to find our passions and act upon them NOW. I’m like you and want to go out with no regrets. ❤️. Sandra
Check this out, Sandra... I think she heard you. www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/jun/25/woman-93-arrested-as-a-dying-wish-after-being-good-all-her-life
I can't imagine ever being satisfied with my life. I think if I'm satisfied I'll be dead. I'm working very hard to reconfigure my life around some circumstances I change. I lost my inner self so long ago and I try really hard to leave it in the past because I can't change what happened now. I've certainly recovered parts of it. Some things I can't recover because I'm disabled, so I'm just trying to channel it in another direction. I love your channel and I wish I could just sit down and have coffee with you! Maybe someday...🥰🌻
Julie, Having coffee and a heart-to-heart with you would be wonderful, in the meantime, keep positive and growing, reinventing who you are now at this moment. We should never be satisfied because then we will miss possibilities we never dreamed of. We will miss new discoveries that can only happen by still being curious about life! The past is the past. No going back. ❤️. Sandra
Brilliant questions, Sandra! Your wisdom never ceases to amaze me and you continually inspire me to think, reflect, and grow. You've so beautifully demonstrated by simply being your true self, that no matter our age, we can always be creative, enjoy our life, and have so much to look forward to. Like you, I changed the course of my life at the age of 50 by leaving the world of fashion design (my 30 year career) and returning to University to earn my Masters degree in clinical counseling in order to become a licensed psychotherapist. It's never, ever too late to fully live your life. I love you so much!!! xo
Evie, A giant congratulations on your career path change. Finding a new path later on in life isn’t easy, but just think of the lives you have helped by doing so. I was on the leadership council of the Brain & Behavior Research Foundation ( formerly NARSAD) for many years. I know how important your work is. www.bbrfoundation.org/content/schizophrenia%E2%80%99s-wake-son-laments-father-who-might-have-been. ❤️. Sandra
Wow! Good for you. That's an achievement!
@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you, Sandra. We have all come here to do important work....in whatever form that takes.
I turning 65 soon and have suffered 2 great loses this year. You have been a huge part of my learning to deal with this process of getting older and appreciating each and every day. God Bless you Sandra. You and I are very similar in lifestyle and tastes and so you are a wonderful role model. I have recommended you to my cousins and close friends who are my age. Big hug to you ,
Marylou, I am sorry to hear about your losses this year. I was blindsided myself with two within a week of one another. It never gets easy, but just fortifies how important it is to live the best life we can now. Thank you for sharing and I am so happy you are coming along on this journey with me. ❤️. Sandra
dear lady, do you realize just how invaluable your channel has become to me? It's like a therapist program that I have been searching for for years!
Your service is making an impact on my life and I truly appreciate what you are doing with your encouragement and Your heart that is rich with love for her audience, I appreciate you so much! thank you And God bless you! It's like having my own therapist to check in with as often as possible to be encouraged. Because you have the character, genuine kindness and concern And the professional experience on how to carry yourself on a public platform via social media film!
Thanks so very much
Hi sandra lm going to a answer the second question my best thing they l did was to become American citizens lm from venezuela and that day sandra l was so proud of myself l been here for 30 years is being a lot of challenges first languish to learn to speak to write ect went l got here l was 22 years old and now lm 52 years old and watch you l have so much to learn but lm so glad that you have this wonderful channel and interesting topic that make me think and myself and other people too your channel is for me my new book because you explains live with wisdom and l found and you a lot of honest answer about truth live now you become my private friend went l do sit on my Cher l found piece jast listen to you and the other questions s l going to skip for now thankyou sandra and be well
Alex, Thank you for sharing your wonderful story of your journey from Venezuela to America. I am so happy you enjoy my channel and the things I have to say. Thank you, too, for being here. ❤️. Sandra
I know someone who was poor all her life and in her 60’s came into money and she uses it to enhance her family’s life, her friend’s lives, she has become a big tipper and spreads the money around and gives to charities. The money has bought out all the good in her, it s so lovely to see. 😊
Sandra, I found your channel this Sunday morning and added a comment on one of your other videos. I am going through a slump in life and really needed an uplift in spirit. Your videos are the answer to my prayers. I look forward to my new journey. Sending you a big hug from California. Love, Gloria
Good Morning Gloria and welcome. I’m so happy that my discussions may be of some help to you at this point in your life. Please remember our lives are fluid and nothing stays the same or is forever. Today is a chance for change and tomorrow is another day to continue to grow. Thanks for sharing. ❤️. Sandra
Sandra my dear. Please follow your dream to sing. I'm sure your son will be delighted to help you. You are such a very lovely lady and I'm sure I speak for many of your viewers.you are such an inspiration. Some of us do loose ourselves and you have given me a flicker of light. Thank you.
Yes I do see her recording an album. She's inspiring & doesn't put limitations on herself. 💕
Mary, That is the one big thing on my bucket list. ❤️. Sandra
Sandra!!! Thank you so much for this sharing this wonderful message!!! I’m 60 years old, navigating the loss of my beloved mother; our lovely daughter is away at college and thriving; and I am basically like a ship without a rudder…. I CAN reset and thrive!!! ❤🎄
Making this exercise after finding you on youtube yesterday led me waking up from a healing dream of a childhood situation this morning. My inner child was grieving and being comforted from a failure that had changed the course of my life for real. Awsome!
I could this woman talk for hours on end...her facial expressions...and she's not one of these 'perfect' TH-camrs...she's just ...Sandra! I love how she'll sometimes pause a bit...or her eyes will look upward for a bit as she's considering what to say...she's just an absolute DELIGHT.
Wow!!! Thank you, Lisa. ❤️. Sandra
Very thought provoking Sandra....many many years ago I learned that people come into our lives for one of two reasons...they were either the teacher or they were the student. Today you were our teacher. Hope you are enjoying Nashville. xo patti
Patti, I sincerely believe that there are no accidental meetings in life. We learn some type of lesson from each encounter no matter how brief or extended. It is so nice being near my son and for awhile. My granddaughter here is my youngest and she loves playing with makeup already! Love you. ❤️. Sandra
1. Children
2. 6 siblings
Keeping in touch! Lol
My bucket list is full
I spend two months visiting and catching up with my family. Yes, I am in touch with them. But I love visiting them!
Reading is also my love! Anything I can get my hands on.
You not only have your bucket list full, but your hands full as well!!! You go Frazzled Haloz! ❤️. Sandra
Raising my 3 children as a single mother. Main caregiver for my mother. Preparing heartwarming meals for my family to enoy nourishing food. Looking forward to the future where the grown up kids are more settled.
I live my life so that I do not care about somebody's judgements. I can even say maybe sometimes smth rudely to smb in order to achieve my goals. But life has put on me thick skin in order to fight for my loved ones and my existence.
Good Morning Sandra,. So much to think about. I enjoyed the video this morning. Took notes and will take time to seek answers. Your love and smile are a comfort to me and Yes; record, I would love a copy of your songs. Enjoy your day!
Kat, Please enjoy your day, too! Thanks for watching today. ❤️. Sandra
Oh I do hope you record some music, Sandra!! Great questions to ponder, my friend. Hope all is well with you, and yours. Blessings, and love...MaryEllen
MaryEllen, If I can get my pipes to work again as good as Jim’s, I’m thinking about it. Thanks for the vote of confidence ❤️. Sandra
Yes! Record music!!
I love you, my lovely Grandma Sandra! Your videos make me feel good whenever I watch them! so so soo grateful that you're alive and making advice videos!!
Hope you make your music! Even a duet with your son! I love opera! My family always said I couldn't sing. I got so fed up that I sang the start of an opera song! They have never said I can't sing since lol! All these hidden talents people have! We need to not waste them! Thank you for a great video! Kx
I am trying to vocalize every day so that by the time I am down in Asheville I just might be able to do it. I’ll be 82 but it’s never too late is it?❤️
You are so sweet🥰I feel so good listening to you....Thank You❣️🙏🏻🧚♂️
Thank YOU for watching and spending some time here. ❤️
I would like to hear this 20 years ago 😇. Thank you so much
My best achievement in life is getting my degree; secondly, being so generous with family not only in material but in time and efforts as well. I can't think of more.
Go for it Sandra..I am sure he'd granted you the wish...Very good questions to think about..
With all the static and noise going around us all the time, sometimes it’s hard to find ourselves, isn’t it? ❤️. Sandra
Sandra, it would be such a joy to hear you sing and to see your paintings....
I love the create a corner of sunshine idea ☀️
Thanks, Arlene.❤️
Women 60+ unite! Great list of important questions for living the best life over sixty and beyond! Thanks for your content, you are appreciated..
Good morning Sandra, so much food for thought. I will take some time to just sit and contemplate on these deep questions. May you have a healthy and happy day.
Lynda, A wonderful day and week ahead for you, also. Something for all of us to contemplate this week. ❤️. Sandra
This is such a precious vidéo! Thank you Sandra!
perennial persistence/"stick-to-it-tiveness" thru it all, is quite thee lifetime accomplishment,Sandra ❤️
It’s true, isn’t it? ❤️. Sandra
I’m not over 60 but loving this videos so much. Love your voice and your wisdom ❤️❤️❤️.
Oh Sandra you just do it you would be Amazing. I’m sure he would love ❤️ to make it happen. I hope you would share you your recording with us
Concetta, I hope I can do it. ❤️
I too use my creativity. We're never too old to showcase our abilities, skills and talents. Accepting that age is a time to stop doing... NONSENSE. Now is the age to DO. We are only limited by our thinking 😊😊😊
Judith, So, So true and so well spoken. I couldn’t have said it better myself! Thank you. ❤️ Sandra
Those are great questions to ask ourselves. I know that my greatest accomplishment is being a mom to my son. He is my inspiration and a joy in my life. He works for The New York Times.....I would had like to be a dancer. I love to dance.....ILY...MINDY
I saw you dance awhile back in a video. You really are good, Mindy. And you do have a handsome son! I completely agree about our children! ❤️. Sandra
“And did You accomplish what You set out to, in this lifetime, even so?”
“I did”
“And what was that?”
“To call myself Beloved,
To feel myself Beloved on this Earth”
Beautiful.❤️
Аwwww😍😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏
If that so - then maybe I'm done❤❤❤
I so look forward to hearing your songs!!
Thank you Lorie. With Covid I have not been able to get down to Nashville, but I hope someday we will be able to go to Nashville and I can be down in my cottage where I can work with my son.❤️
Hi, this is the second video i watch from you it's really helping me. thank you :)
i started crying when you said you became an actress at 50. i'm so happy for you! i am 27 now and acting has always been my passion but i have had severe depression since i was 10 and i quit dancing and acting in school at 12 yrs old.
In my teenage years i had so much fear that i never pursued my dream, at 16 i thought i was lost, everyone my age knew what they wanted to study but i neglected my own passion so much that i never saw it again as a realistic possibility for myself and until this day i have been feeling lost because nothing else makes me feel full and alive as when i was acting.
now after a lot of pain i am working to get out of the traumatics situations and tomorrow i will start my first acting class!! i am so happy, i never thought i could do it. but i am going to. blessings to all.
There is no gift more expensive to your family like all your videos, Sandra. When you leave this world, your family will be able to open any your recorded video and drink wisdom on any topic of life. Thank you for making our lives happier❣
My health is all centre to this now. But i did an Art course. Found i can't draw lol. But i can paint cats mostly.
I took my father to court, bad stuff. He got off but he's out of our lives . Away from my Granddaughters. That is all that matters they are safe. Money id try to get some proper health care. I don't want money for fun. Just to help people i love.
I admire Ralph Waldo Emerson was an American essayist, lecturer, philosopher, and poet who led the transcendentalist movement of the mid-19th century. I discovered him (an accomplishment ) doing A degree course in Humanities. I could read his quotes, thoughts all day long. I know thier are plenty like him. I just find him mesmerising. Love you miss Sophi collar again. I love your thoughts. xxx❤💖💗🐕🐾🐾
Health is a big one. I understand. I also like the works of Ralph Waldo Emerson. I love his poetry and writings. He has always been a favorite of mine. I hope you win the lottery of good health. That would be my wish for you above all. ❤️. Sandra
@@lifewithsandrahart Awe Thankyou Sandra. And your Daughter. I'd help her if I could, plus some Multiple sclerosis Warriors I've discovered. Yes Ralph their are others. I love Poetry. War poetry written by those from the trenches in ww1. My husband got me hooked. He's a bit of an expert on Wars. Told him he should have been a teacher. He says it is a hobby. And he loves learning. The Only one in our class aged 8 that got excited about homework. (We went to lower school together, He came to my class my knees went to Jelly lol My first & last Love) xxx
Angela, What a wonderful love story. Destiny meant for you two to be together. It doesn’t happen that often, unfortunately. My daughter just got back from working a flight to Manchester and back. All night going and up early the next day for the return. She said her joints were killing her, her feet and legs were swollen. It takes her two days to recover from these trips. She has to have one of her feet operated on in the fall and will be out for at least 3 months. I wish I could magically make her illness go away. I feel so helpless sometimes because, like you, she doesn’t deserve this. Good health is worth more than all the money in the world. ❤️. Sandra
I’m only 19, but I’ve always been a planner. My dream has been to meet as many as I can and learning from each other. I love travel and adventure. I grew up in such a like minded community and I’m itching to get out. Although I’ve realized, that my views are bit rigid and it was surprising to see how many people don’t view life the way I do. It kinda blew my self esteem and I felt inferior for not being more like that person I was with. I’ve slowly come to realize that I have so much to offer to people. My mind is really creative and unique. I may be a bit more childish but I think it’s very refreshing.
If I could be anybody, I would be kinder and happier for myself. I am a dreamer and I don’t want to stop that anytime now. I would dress more outwardly and not stick myself in a box. I would eat more and gain more muscle. I would be more blunt about how I enjoy my own company more than being in others. I would start putting myself first and be stop being guilty for choosing myself over everybody. I know my worth and I don’t want to spend my on people who aren’t making me happy like I do.
This is so timely at this point in my life Sandra so thank you for posing these questions. I find myself in my 70's off course over the last few years and so this video has really resonated with me. Hard questions to think about but when you know you have strayed so far from your true self due to circumstances and the people in your life it is hard to find the courage to act when the outcomes are so uncertain and potentially life changing with regards to family dynamics. Especially when whichever way you try to change to be truer to yourself it will be emotionally damaging to others whichever way you choose to go.
Excellent video, Thank you Sandra :) Lori
Thanks for watching! ❤️. Sandra
Hello again Sandra......you never cease to amaze me with your words of wisdom......my immediate thought of the person I most admire is my grandmother, who was unceasing with her self-less, nurturing love, and then my mother, and then all the significant elders during my youth.....in some ways, I have become part of that spirit.....I have become an artist through and through, giving of my art and music talents, and able to be blessed with a livelihood in doing work that I love.....I've found my "niche".....and can continue throughout my golden years......we absolutely must be thankful and be able to recognize and realize our blessings in order to find contentment and peace......♥️🌻🙏🌌🎶🎵🎹🎨🖼
Thank you so much for sharing thoughts about those women who have inspired you. How wonderful that you have continue using your creativity and sharing them with others. I really appreciate your sharing all of that with us today
Another great video sweet one! Sending hugs, love, prayers and kindness...🙏🏻💗🙏🏻💗
Thank so much, Kaye! Have a great day. ❤️. Sandra
The people I love is my family/extended family, going to church and be engage/I enjoyed being able to go to school and be able to be the first in my family to graduated from college. Thus one of my greatest accomplishments is to be able to teach other. One of my downfall is not be a certified elementary teacher, even though I loved , enjoyed and students have learned with my guidance. 🙏
Gladys, being the first college graduate in your family is absolutely a wonderful achievement. I’m sure your parents were proud of you. Teaching it’s a wonderful and giving profession. That you are not certified I understand is a disappointment to you. But you must remember it’s never too late! Thank you so much for sharing❤️
Loved your thoughts today Sandra!! It's amazing that you reinvented yourself at 50!! That's so inspiring! And I'm really going to us these as I adjust to my empty nest! Love you lady!!! xoxoxo!!!
Empty nests are a mixed bag of emotions. Both sadness that a chapter has closed and a sense of freedom in opening another chapter in your life. ❤️. Sandra
Wow Sandra I would have to say my gardens I did have to put on hold when I had kids what gardens I have now would not be possible while raising my children It would of been to stressful and now my kids are older and they see and understand what makes me tick and truth I'm glad i did this way
Of course, a loving mother, you did the right thing. You planted your children in rich soil so that they would be nourished physically, morally and blossom. Now, it’s your other garden to tend to! ❤️. Sandra
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and journey Sandra. This is thought provoking. I do see many of us as not being as concerned as we were before our 60s for being judged.
Personally I've overcome quite a lot and accomplished many things throughout my life from education, to careers, raising wonderful children, starting over many times, overcoming a lot, volunteering, traveling, on and on. All by the grace of God My children's accomplishments are their own and am so blessed by them & my grandchildren.
If I won the lottery aside from sharing with family it would be donated. There are charities I believe in and would want to give more to and do more for. Are there a few more things I'd like for myself, sure!
I know that the fact that I'm still here, that I had any abilities, that I accomplished anything is all due to a God who loves and blesses me. I owe everything to Him.
The greatest thing I have done & can do is pray for others. Am grateful even in the midst of my circumstances, health issues etc I look on the beauty of creation and hope in possibilities.
As they say is your glass half full or half empty? Am grateful to have a glass. 💝
What a wonderful response. You seem to have not lost your inner self, but are growing leaps and bounds every year. God is grateful when we trust in Him and let go. There is sunshine behind every cloud. That is the truth. Thank you for sharing in such a nice post today. ❤️. Sandra
@@lifewithsandrahartThank you Sandra. Some challenges in my life have been gigantic that only God could get me through, truly. And continue to be is why I appreciate your optimism & sharing to look forward to.
When you've lost much you're grateful for all even when you have to roll over to look up. ♥️
D Love of hounds Oh, That is so, so true. 💕
Thank you, Sandra. Some really great things to think about as Hurricane Dorian pays us a visit. You are one Terrific lady.
Judilin, Stay safe. We got lucky in South Beach it looks like. Sandra.
Thank you 😊 you are so interesting to listen to and have so much good advice 💕
Thanks, Lynne. ❤️. Sandra
Yes, Sandra, do pass it by Emerson on a few tunes to sing! Maybe a duet with him too! Wonderful questions...#4 is the question that took me back some. I might be able to be the real person I truly am and not the person people want me to be.
Lucie, We have to live true to ourselves in order to have a fulfilled life. You are right. ❤️. Sandra. PS I am going to ask him.
Dearest Sandra, no words could described my gratitude… the guidance, the advice, the sharing of your knowledge and ways of going through life is a complete lift of our spirits to continue through the paths of life. Whichever road we take , we all have great choices…is all in our hands…no doubt about it. Again , thank you so so much…all the best for you and your loved ones.🌷
Sandra your questions were so thought provoking. I’m proud my teaching career and education. But most of my answers seemed to involve spending time with and helping my 2 grown children. Thanks for sharing! ❤️🌷❤️
Cydney, My children have been my focus for a long time, too. Spending time with them is extremely important to me. ❤️. Sandra
I've always thought getting a lot of money, of course Ill buy a house and it is really a nice feeling that I will give money to family and those around me- it's the best feeling ever. It would make me the happiest person ever. I love to give, giving offers happiness to others and it offers more happiness to you. Wow! Will I reach that status one day? I mean I give now but just a little but there are those who need bigger amounts and I stand still just praying for them.
These questions DID dramatically change my life in the sense, that they put all my reality upside down.
Because what I deep down desire the most was surprisingly not what is most important to my family. They want me to have success or be "normal"
But MY deepest desire and my destiny call is:
Be COMPLETELY myself. Always.
I am known to stand out and I have been an outsider all through school- until my art school, there I was the one creating a friend group and I realised I'm good at bringing people together around me.
But that's not even the point here. The point is:
If I could be whatever or whoever I could be without any judgement:
I wrote in a heartbeat: I would be a fluffy unicorn!
My weirdness or if you ask my friends my uniqueness is very very strong. I mean I one day stumbled upon My Little Pony and that was when I realised that was my destiny! Bringing joy and kindness- THAT level of unconditional love and support that I've only seen with cartoon characters- I need to bring that to life in our real world.
I was often told, and I noticed it too tbh that I seem like a cartoon or manga character came to life.
And I did my best to hide that all my life basically.
I was always "different but careful not to be too different"
But my deepest desire is to let go of people's opinions and judgement completely
And be me 100%!
I wanna wear pastel rainbow coloured clothes! I wanna always have coloured hair! At best multiple colours even!
I would if there was no judgement, open my own community, a safe space for anyone who looks for a place to be purely themselves.
I would wanna be like an idol.
They are very colourful and stand out but they do it proudly! And they do it to show others "you can be unique too! You can be yourself!"
I would love to be that kind of support and protective shield for others
And I would be proud that My little Pony gave me my purpose in life! Which is such a unique way of finding your destiny!
I feel very blessed
And responsible to spread all the positivity and love and kindness I saw in those characters
Rant over, I'm exhausted haha
And scared to post it but HERE I GO
“fuels your mojo”. I love it!
I'm 51. I'm so glad to have found you! I'm instantly a big fan! Thank you for sharing all your stories. So much wisom!
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I am glad to have found your channel. I see this as another type of validation of the work I do with my women's
retreats, particularly for this over 50.
Thank you. You forced me to think about what I really want in life. I so appreciate you. You are right we get tired and become robots. Today I am going to start making some changes. 🙏🏼❤️❤️
My greatest accomplishment depends on the stage of the life we are. As a youngster: I wanted to be a dancer and I participated even though I wasn’t the greatest . In my late 20’s was being able to decided . In my 30’s being able to became a mother and run away from the daddy of my children and choosing an education with lots of academic and economic difficulties and being able to accomplished even if I have not earned what I suppose to. But I have no regrets.🙏
Thank you for sharing your journey.❤️
Such interesting questions Sandra. I love how you make me think. Have a great day my friend ❤ Elle
Elle, The older I get the more I have to ask myself questions to help keep myself on track and help me to not stop growing. ❤️. Sandra
this is helpful. Last point about finding sunshine so important because I tend fret about stuff. It's like shifting focus. Challenging when anxiety is active ,bit I have done this and can do it again and again. Thanks again, Sandra
Michele, I glad this helped a little. ❤️. Sandra
Thank you Sandra...your video is so inspirational!!!xxx
at 84 i have realized that i've lived my purpose in life. i have fulfilled my bucket list.
the things i thought i wanted turned out to not being wanted enough to go after.
i don't want money. i don't want a more complicated life.
if i made that list, all that would be on it would be, did i make a difference in any ones life?
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING US BEAUTIFUL LADY SANDRA🎀🌷💖
Thank you so much
Sandra, have you tried baking soda for the yellowing in your hair? A few tablespoons added to your shampoo twice a month really works♥
Sue, Thanks so much for that tip. I knew I would be traveling and made several videos ahead of time. I did this video two months ago and have fixed that yellowed part of my hair. It had never done that before. It has always stayed pretty white. Perhaps it was something in our water. I’ll use the baking soda if it does that again. I appreciate the tip. I was so frustrated. ❤️. Sandra
@@lifewithsandrahart You're so very welcome. Thank you for the always relevant content presented on your fabulous channel ♥
Its the lighting in the room
Thank you Sandra for your thoughts live is so short so we have to think 🤔 and find answers for --
Thank you, Grace. Have a great day. ❤️ Sandra
Very intriguing questions to ask ourselves. This should keep me busy for quite some time! The one about our biggest accomplishment - I had to think about that one but when I came to realize the answer it was a sweet memory that I hadn't thought about in a while, and in retrospect I feel it was probably more important than I realized at the time. All the questions are very important food for thought. 🙋
I am so happy you got something from this today. They were even thoughtful questions for me. I’m still thinking about my answers. ❤️. Sandra
Dearest beautiful Sandra, thank you for your light , wisdom and love 💕 I terribly am missing my adorable 🥰 beautiful prudent mother who passed away two years ago and whom I loved dearly ! I just happen to come across your beautiful videos and and listening to you makes me reflect and encourages me to keep going and to find purpose just like my mother would want me too! You are like a bright candle 🕯 giving hope to me! May God abundantly bless you 🙏 and look forward to more videos for the holidays Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas 🎄 🎁
I’m so sorry you were missing your mother. After all these years I still miss mine too. Thank you so much for watching today and sharing.❤️
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you
Diana, Thank you for being able to take something from these questions. Have. Ma good day tomorrow. ❤️. Sandra
I love these questions. They do help me to hone into my most important motivators. Thanks.
I’m so happy they helped, Patti. ❤️
Such a wise session :) Young people today I don't think they listen to the wisdom of the generation ahead of us that has already lived, experienced and seen it all so to speak. Your wisdom be cherish. I do kind of envy the generation you grew up in even though there were problems all generations or eras do, But if I were to Tell my young self today not to fear things when you grow up, Well she's grown up and full of fear & anxiety, even though I know it's not good.
The fear of what's happening in the world and where it's going. Not feeling carefree. And I'm sure a lot of people feel this way so so autumn Linus we thank you so much and look forward to each of your videach of your videos you're wonderful beautiful you have a lot of light and love that shines from you🌌🌝🌅🌠❤️🙏
I love this video Sandra. I have been able to satisfy many of my dreams also, and still looking toward other accomplishments.
Shirley. I’m so happy you’ve been able to satisfy your dreams and are not stopping there! There is still much ahead❤️
So inspiring. Love your thinking. ❤❤❤
Thank you, Nancy. ❤️. Sandra
He Sandra! You always get me thinking deep thoughts! It's great in so many ways! These are great questions. You inspire me more then you'll ever know! Right off the bat you are one of the people I admire. I feel you have so much wisdom and you calm me and always getting me thinking about tomorrow and the years to come! Thank you so much for your wise and inspiring words! Xo
Sue, Your comment honestly makes me feel that what I have to share here matters to some degree. I just realize how important it is to try and live, really live the best life we can, now and not wait. Now is all we know that is certain and we should take advantage of each day. Thank you so much. ❤️. Sandra
I don't think we have to pick our greatest accomplishment because most of us have many accomplishments for different stages of life. It was a big accomplishment to walk into a kindergarten class like a big girl. 💕
Hi Sandra - I just found your channel a couple of weeks ago. I wanted to say, "Thank You". I am 53 years old and have never had a good relationship with my mother. I often feel sad that I do not have someone to get a suggestion or advice from. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.♡
Thanks for sharing this with us
Excellent video Sandra!!! Love you💕
You know I do you, too! ❤️. Sandra
At 31 my mam passes ,my dad awhile after, and I brought my downsydrome sister to live with me,we ve always been close .yeah it's alot of work, my like revolves around her,she has alot of severe health problems. But it's my best accomplishment, not because I think I always know what of doing...but she's happy and that's all I wanted after my parents passed, for her not to be sad
Very very important questions.Thank you.It has helped me to thi k over my role.
Madzia, That is a good thing to think about who we are and what we want out of this life. ❤️. Sandra
One of the people I admire is you You are stunning inside & out.
That means so much to me. Thank you ever so much
I am watching this on a snowy day in Arkansas in February 2022.
I do want to encourage you to make the recording. An aunt of mine played several instruments, being taught by her parents. One of her sons has made several Gospel CD.s. She always wanted to make a record. When she was about 85 several family and friend musicians around her made it happen. She only sold /gave away the CDs to family and friends. For me, the only thing that matters is if it is something I want to accomplish. I hope as I watch your videos, I come across one after you have made a recording. GO GIRL!
Thanks so much for your encouragement Peggy . Maybe this summer.😊
Hi Sandra. You are looking great. This was a very interesting, helpful video. Will write down and ponder those question. You are such a blessing Sandra💝
Claudia, These Questions we can ask ourselves at different points in our lives. We may have changed the answers, but they remind us to keep on track for being who we want to be. ❤️. Sandra
You inspire me...do it...your son will be on board...
Thanks for the encouragement! ❤️. Sandra
My corner of sunshine is watching your videos.xxxxxx
Thank you! ❤️. Sandra
Thank you. 🥰 I want to be like you. 😘😘😘
Thank you Sandra for some excellent food for thought. I have been struggling with that for awhile now . I can use those questions to unravel that bowl of spaghetti. It would be wonderful for you and your family if you did record some songs. What would you sing? Take care of you. Hugs from Ontario canada. 💓⚘🧚♀️
Hi and thank you so much for spending some time today with me. Life is all is filled with questions and challenges, isn’t it? I’m not too sure what I would saying, probably some standard. Blessings to you in Canada❤️
What a wonderful, thought-provoking series of questions, Sandra! I wonder if my answers might vary some over time :) Thank you!
They will. Mine have... even since I made this video. I think we should re-evaluate from time to time to find our best paths in life. ❤️. Sandra
@@lifewithsandraharthank you so much for sharing the experience of your own change, Sandra! I'll continue to stay on the lookout here. We never know! ❤️ Susan
Wonderful video !!!
Thanks, Tammy. Food for thought for all of us. ❤️ Sandra
Hello Ms. Sondra, I know I am a lot younger than you or maybe many of your followers but I really enjoy your topis. To answer
one of the questions you asked, If I have no Judgement or fear of people, I would definitely share the gospel of Jesus Christ! I think there will be a day I will do that.
Lady, you nailed it again. 🌻
Joann, I honestly appreciate you and your support in what I am doing on my channel. Thank you so much and I hope you have a great week! ❤️. Sandra
Trusting God and helping others to learn how to do so.
Beautiful❤️
Very interesting, I also accomplished my dream of becoming an actress at 50 . Something I always wanted, took classes for many years. I finally took the step to going to auditions, worked on many different productions and even was a lead in a few stage plays! Now I find I don't really want it anymore, almost like I proved it to myself so time for somethiing else. I just don't know what that something is right now. Trying to understand that that's ok too.
It's 3 years later. Did you eventually get to record a song?
New subscriber. I'm loving your content, so much wisdom that you're imparting here. Thank you💗
Dearest Sandra 💝 thank you for sharing , your wisdom and advise ,😍 best regards ,hugs and kisses 💝💋
Thank you, Maria! ❤️. Sandra
Thank You ❤ God Bless 🙏