Give Men This Type of Pain & They'll Get Addicted to You

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  • @marah3298
    @marah3298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +584

    “Whatever you cannot predict, you respect.” Thank you, Father Alex.

    • @linlino1980
      @linlino1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      So Everybody have to Respect Aquarians cause they are UNPREDICTABLE😂😂😂👌

    • @92christinam
      @92christinam ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Geminis too🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @tiffi271
      @tiffi271 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hmmm not for me. Unpredictability makes feel annoyed, then I leave annoying things alone.

  • @BlackPearlMona369
    @BlackPearlMona369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +811

    Inflicting pain then give pleasure afterwards....Pain: Being not available sometimes, cancellin dates, speaking about other men(no cheating), etc. Pleasure: invitation to dinner, invitation to vacations, etc... Thanks Alex this approach is base on psychology... But I wonder if this will work on a balanced person who has had a healthy childhood! I think it works more on traumatized guys!

    • @melaniejackson2704
      @melaniejackson2704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Your advice works on dysfunctional and traumatised humans but not healthy functional people.... healthy, functional& balanced people don't play games and use effective communication as adults

    • @fromkimwithlove
      @fromkimwithlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      He doesn't call himself the "toxic" dating coach for no reason!!!

    • @rahmasamir909
      @rahmasamir909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Most people are sick hahahahah it will work

    • @thatosegopolo9072
      @thatosegopolo9072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      True Meem Aly in broken people this can become trauma bond

    • @nohazamarouny
      @nohazamarouny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes for sure

  • @sherrysargent6800
    @sherrysargent6800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    I once dated a guy who told me I was predictable. His coworkers had crushes on me. Imagine his surprise when I started dating one and friended the other. He didn't predict that!!!! Bahahaha!!!😆
    Ahhh.... Good times!😆

  • @leaannmaldonado9435
    @leaannmaldonado9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Yep……they always come back. If they go silent, I let them have the silence.

  • @itsHappening-ry2ef
    @itsHappening-ry2ef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Ladies stop 🛑 being nice to these dudes ❗️ he’s telling the truth ‼️

  • @Mynameisdarkxxo
    @Mynameisdarkxxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    “You could actually learn a lot from what people do to you.” - Father Alex 2022

    • @vivavidadela
      @vivavidadela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly because how the hell did I get emotionally attached to someone I didn’t even liked🤔

  • @brenrob1965
    @brenrob1965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    Boys only want love if it's torture. Don't say I didn't say I didn't warn ya. -Taylor Swift

    • @Ash-qm2xl
      @Ash-qm2xl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ohmygawd now ik what taylor meant

    • @thegodweardotcom6252
      @thegodweardotcom6252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But women don't want the torture,😭😭

    • @vanillakiss8701
      @vanillakiss8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I get it and in the worst cases it includes destroying your own body and childbirth 🙄

    • @ari-jv
      @ari-jv ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Taylor is a narcissist

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 ปีที่แล้ว

      For real

  • @iknowwhatsup2880
    @iknowwhatsup2880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    If you just behave naturally and be a bit more independent -- less needy I don't see this as toxic. It's healthy. Have your own life outside the relationship. This applies to everything. Balance!

  • @akonobearica7645
    @akonobearica7645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    My boyfriend cheated on me i found out & i cheated back but he can't forget mine,he cries anytime he remembers i took revenge

    • @DD_MENEN
      @DD_MENEN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      🤣🤣🤣 it's the crying for me

    • @m.s.5966
      @m.s.5966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      LMAO you’re in his brain forever love love love it

    • @daddy3484
      @daddy3484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes because that's how all healthy relationships start.
      I pray your child is spared from being raised by you.

    • @anna-lu7878
      @anna-lu7878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😅😅

    • @elizabethowen8559
      @elizabethowen8559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol he cries

  • @clara-ee1qe
    @clara-ee1qe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    ✨ Whatever you can not predict, you respect ✨so f*cking true

  • @sadepayne
    @sadepayne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    It's true! Every time I was the nice girl, they would act like cocky a(*holes. Then I show that shocking side, basically saying f you and bye. Next thing I know they're crawling back and chasing my a** down. I became more assertive and walking away is powerful.

    • @MegaLadylove2012
      @MegaLadylove2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ‘Walkin away is effing powerful!’ Wat more incredible is having an attitude of ‘idgaf’ the entire time. Sometimes u’re nice but majority of the time, you jst don’t give a --

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    Men looove pain it is absolutely insane

    • @cherankimiorak1739
      @cherankimiorak1739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Toxic guys do not the nice ones

    • @kooky434
      @kooky434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      They crave it!!!

    • @simplymarilyn5295
      @simplymarilyn5295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      .....but it's true! They love a challenge!

    • @gracelikerain5039
      @gracelikerain5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They sadists

    • @name9601
      @name9601 ปีที่แล้ว

      women do. u love being played.

  • @mysticempath5601
    @mysticempath5601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Humans are strange
    I do this shit naturally and the more I focus on me and ignore them the more they text 😂 I never have "valid excuses" tho, I just act like nothing happened

    • @Pixel_Prince
      @Pixel_Prince 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Girl, that's such a mood 😂😂💀

    • @mysticempath5601
      @mysticempath5601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@wilted_rose510 its not a game though, just how I live. If they wanna know they can ask lol

    • @winninginlife
      @winninginlife ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mysticempath5601 Exactly...but they don't care what you've got going on. They only want to talk/text about themselves...hence why they don't even care to ask. People are so stupid sometimes, life can be simple but most people love being complicated for No reason🤨

  • @witch777000
    @witch777000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    You have changed my life I used overthink over care n always thought letting them win to silence conflicts

  • @Fulani_Gal78
    @Fulani_Gal78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "Whatever you can't predict you respect...

  • @ellebee42
    @ellebee42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This is genius! I’m going to watch again with pen and paper 😂. I’d been doing a lot of these things with guys just because I didn’t like them, but then couldn’t understand why I couldn’t get rid of them 😂🤣

  • @meca3836
    @meca3836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’ve broken up with all my ex’s & blocked them … they’ve either stalked me … called me from random numbers or kept harassing me on social media

  • @tiflps
    @tiflps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    All the men I hurt are obsessed with me . 🖤💃🏽.

    • @pianotnt
      @pianotnt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hell I have one obsessed from 2016 from an old job

    • @everlastinglovechild5073
      @everlastinglovechild5073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This lmao!!

    • @flyfish2562
      @flyfish2562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      So true!! All the men I have loved and been super nice to have all treated me like aholes.

    • @sherryberry4163
      @sherryberry4163 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @simplymarilyn5295
      @simplymarilyn5295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My mom always said, "Men love a mean b!#@$".....sad to say, "it's true!"

  • @nontobekomajola4049
    @nontobekomajola4049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    Plz don’t teach women to pay for anything-it’s wrong. A woman is not supposed to pay for anything-a man is a giver & a woman a receiver

    • @fifii8501
      @fifii8501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Amen 😂

    • @iodhemind1952
      @iodhemind1952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You mean to say you are a leech? Oh, yes. I got it. Humans incapable of caring for themselves.

    • @lovemay5213
      @lovemay5213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cute haaha

    • @blackknight1037
      @blackknight1037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then what's the point of your feminazi movement.Where you scream we want equality on the top of your fucking lungs.If you want equality it should apply to everything not only to fill your self fulfilling double standards.

    • @feliciamcarthur7257
      @feliciamcarthur7257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Is this 1930

  • @najabellaa3151
    @najabellaa3151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    I do all this naturally. I just thought I had mental issues 🤣😭🤣😭

  • @jent6476
    @jent6476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I call out my baby daddy all the time on his shit behavior. We broke up a decade ago, but he's still in love and fantasizes that we will get back together. It won't happen.

    • @annaslet5145
      @annaslet5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeap most men don't like to be called out especially by a woman. Lame and toxic as*** 🙄

    • @lovepositivity2632
      @lovepositivity2632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂 even my ex was behind me for ten years after breakup donno if he is still thinking of me

  • @sherrysargent6800
    @sherrysargent6800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    It's the thrill of the hunt for men. Keeps them on their toes

  • @CherryBlossomr7
    @CherryBlossomr7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I like asking guys questions about simple stuff like music when I first meet them. they think the reason I ask them the questions is because that's what I like so they tend to "agree" to it then I say oh, I actually don't like that and watch them trip over their words lmaooo.

  • @PunkinDunkin314
    @PunkinDunkin314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    On Time Video!!! I'm a Recovering " NICE Girl " and I will look into your course at a later date for Sure!!! Gotta work some things out first...I really Appreciate what you're doing!!!

    • @queen_vic3111
      @queen_vic3111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I like that “recovering nice girl” lol 😂

    • @JaeElise
      @JaeElise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Watch Chloe_ , Lisa Hart, Karine Arloude and Love Dorsey (I’d start with Love Dorsey first). She may be harsh when it comes to approach but she helps you with getting back to yourself first before dating , then go to Chloe , etc.

  • @annamillan2903
    @annamillan2903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Since I had my heart broken in pieces by a man I am going to be a bitch, not totally but I will never give my heart as spontaneously as I did before.

    • @many3912
      @many3912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I second you hun😂

    • @jacquelynsimmons6131
      @jacquelynsimmons6131 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is hard to come back from that but I love that I'm in control now

  • @winegyaldine96
    @winegyaldine96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    He said, "you can't just keep inflicting pain, your not a terminator..."
    My toxic ass, "yes I am! " 🤣🤣🤣

  • @englishwithkim6838
    @englishwithkim6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    wow,it is so interesting that i have done such things you mention in my last 20 years of my youth,now I'm 37, and it still works ;)

  • @staceywilliams1624
    @staceywilliams1624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can’t wait to try this course. On pay day. 😩😂😂❤️

  • @brendahjjakira3944
    @brendahjjakira3944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    So basically if you want to be kept or keep someone, you have to play games🤔.Personally am not built for all this🤦‍♀️

    • @Pinkduccidoll
      @Pinkduccidoll ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They naturally play games with us 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @imaanhussain5198
      @imaanhussain5198 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pinkduccidollnot good men. Honestly good men don’t play games, they may make genuine mistakes but if you’re straight forward & he can trust you, they do NOT play games. You cannot build a life long relationship with games, it’s too tiring and painful.
      The peace of mind you get from just being yourself minus all this drama is pure bliss!!!

  • @beverlysmith9415
    @beverlysmith9415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Invest in those who earned and value you period!!!

  • @OolongG952
    @OolongG952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Temporary “no contact” messes them up too😆

    • @verycherry4459
      @verycherry4459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My no contact has gone on 3 months so far. Oops. Oh well.

    • @rahmasaidbana5938
      @rahmasaidbana5938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So true 😂 am doing in it now 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jackiewisniewski7167
      @jackiewisniewski7167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣😂🤣

  • @jenm5178
    @jenm5178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I broke up with a guy and he moved on within weeks, started living with the new gal almost immediately. Didn't try to get back or anything.

    • @annaslet5145
      @annaslet5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      He wasn't for you anyway

    • @EcoworksFL
      @EcoworksFL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here..he was with someone else anyway!

    • @Sarablueunicorn
      @Sarablueunicorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You were a placeholder.

    • @annaslet5145
      @annaslet5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Obviously all these kind of dudes can't be serious about anyone to begin with 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🙄

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He did that because he was trying to get over you and imagined the idea of you with her. Its a rebound relationship, he will always be thinking of you! If nothing bad happened before you guys broke up that was insanely damaging.

  • @tiflps
    @tiflps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I did all this in the beginning. Sh!t I was on point!

  • @sharikasharma3378
    @sharikasharma3378 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how you play all the characters- Tyron, and the girls (that you do with a squeaky voice). 👍

  • @KatXYZ
    @KatXYZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Dude… does this guy have an education in psychology or something? He’s too intelligent for YT 🤯🤯🤯 I ain’t heard no other content creator speak like how he speaks

    • @kaymornasinclair5088
      @kaymornasinclair5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know right.

    • @linlino1980
      @linlino1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He could be born with it? You dont need any graduations/educations to know these things

    • @socaligurrl
      @socaligurrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He was child prodigy that preached the gospel to adults.

    • @rensii-e8b
      @rensii-e8b ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is impressive indeed!

    • @ScrumdiddlyYUMMtiousASMR
      @ScrumdiddlyYUMMtiousASMR ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He studied psychology and was a social worker

  • @annaslet5145
    @annaslet5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Currently trying to regain control of myself and emotions as he almost succeeded at the game he was playing on me. I thank God ❤️ now he will pay for whatever he has done to me. It's a shame he's toxic and is responding to these kind of manipulations though.

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wait so you are investing your beauty intelligence energy, time into what you just described. Uhhhhh? He still wins.

  • @1380576
    @1380576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ladies listen, this is so true.

  • @bora8393
    @bora8393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Hey alex ! Next topic about attracting new dudes ? Specially over social media

  • @Rebecca-vt7rp
    @Rebecca-vt7rp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I like how this applies to relationships too, thanks for targeting a wide audience Alex 🥰

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *Learn to be quiet enough to hear the genuine in yourself, so that you can hear it in others.*

  • @naliahmed261
    @naliahmed261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I always broke up with them first, and never came back crawling 😂

  • @iyaloyola4026
    @iyaloyola4026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You're facial expressions always make my day 😜

  • @Greenteajohn
    @Greenteajohn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Can you make a video talking about how to make dismissive avoidants chase? I mean, how to trigger the needy part of a dismissive avoidant.

    • @542pixie1
      @542pixie1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U can try on me 🤣 i have dismissive avoidant

    • @trinap.8904
      @trinap.8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why?

    • @verycherry4459
      @verycherry4459 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaaassss

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Way way way too much work for the rest of your life. You will really doing the chasing.

    • @leblancvautour1103
      @leblancvautour1103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The best way is by being cold and distant to them.

  • @soulspirationgoddess
    @soulspirationgoddess ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the best I’ve ever seen your hair Alex!! Lol

  • @sonias9722
    @sonias9722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    The only rewards I'm good at is sex and physical affection, because I never want to be vulnerable, show feelings and lose pride. More videos on how to give warmth/good emotional rewards?

    • @marah3298
      @marah3298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s me usually too!

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Acknowledging his plans for you two. Dates, and acts of kindness, supports, gifts, compliments. Reward his efforts, when he keeps his word.appreciate after he pleases you.thank you, being happy, smiles, affection. Sex as a reward ummmm nahh for me unless engaged. Respect always.

  • @rainbowbgood
    @rainbowbgood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I used to do this unconsciously all the time in my twenties.. just coming from a place of distrust and resentment and bitterness. LOL. I didn't think it through but the root belief that men suck just guided me the rest of the way. But then again, I attracted guys who suck.. so.. there is that. Maybe the men that go for this also hold the belief that they as men -- suck. At some point men have to just decide they are worthy of the real deal, trusting, sweet, considerate, consistent and sure, non-doubting true love. Its a journey I guess.. but I am so glad I don't act this way anymore. My insides are waaaaaay happier.

  • @patriciaviii
    @patriciaviii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Or like when a short guy tries to diss me, i hurt their ego and say “too bad, youre the first short guy i ever liked”

    • @allabout6552
      @allabout6552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      this works? this can be something like ,,too bad, you re the first notmytype guy, I was attracted to"? XD

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Nah. Thats not what I meant. They may not forgive you for that

    • @annaslet5145
      @annaslet5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesomeness 🆒

    • @JaeElise
      @JaeElise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol maybe not that. Say something like “your temperament is short like you. Calm down, little fella.” Something like that maybe ? 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t care to hurt male egos depending on the type of man

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Careful men pay back with long game. Consequences might work better then disrespect, depends on guy.

  • @Perhaps424
    @Perhaps424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You’re a gem Alex

  • @user-js1gw1sx9i
    @user-js1gw1sx9i ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My brother I hope you discuss that intimate relations is as much spit as physical! People seem to forge that I know you have known this forever! So thanks bro

  • @sthendlovu8844
    @sthendlovu8844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I think I'm happier knowing he's in pain lol... He'll have to soothe himself 😛

    • @Pixel_Prince
      @Pixel_Prince 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Period 💅 well said, sis

  • @sophiapeart9420
    @sophiapeart9420 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You sir seem to be experienced at the heart of mind games

  • @treeseer1573
    @treeseer1573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Manipulation - this is what narcissists do...

  • @loveloveloveme3667
    @loveloveloveme3667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The cat mouse game gets tiring after awhile and old. A balanced individual… a healthy one will move on

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Men need to be challenged, cat and mouse will be natural if have own life. Little resistance, delay gratification unavailable at times. Its not hard adds spice.

    • @Mindful.Movement.01
      @Mindful.Movement.01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea . I’ve blocked many men for this and they always come back looking stupid like a deer in headlights. I’m a grown ass woman and I don’t have time for these low vibrational childish ass games

    • @madeline7969
      @madeline7969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ladyofspaexactly

  • @hannahed7353
    @hannahed7353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I did all of this and he cut me off😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lurhrose
      @lurhrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Helenodraculus
      @Helenodraculus ปีที่แล้ว

      You were too obvious with it

  • @vivavidadela
    @vivavidadela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don’t want these type of attachments/soul ties. Don’t have time to play games like that.

  • @verycherry4459
    @verycherry4459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's been 90 days no contact...
    Oh well. Lol

  • @princessxoxo7582
    @princessxoxo7582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Is all fun and jokes until they start doing it back to us, and we don't like that!! LOL

  • @Ilocsitdown
    @Ilocsitdown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This works on toxic men… 😂

  • @flower_7890
    @flower_7890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I was Neurotic back in time I would get hooked on someone who'd do this...right know, after working on myself these things " hot and cold" repel me, I lose interest 🤔

  • @jenbrady7566
    @jenbrady7566 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tyrone the personal trainer busting in the video was hilarious! 🤣

  • @angieharrison3935
    @angieharrison3935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you Father Alex. Thanks for this info. 😏

  • @havvaalexander9520
    @havvaalexander9520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol, i noticed that facial jump when I was being interviewed. I got the job.

  • @FEEDING_BIGFOOT
    @FEEDING_BIGFOOT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Intermittent reinforcement always works 💖

  • @forestfairy352
    @forestfairy352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Unless, “it’s for revenge 🤫 🎤 ”😂

  • @marleene1423
    @marleene1423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Men don’t like needy woman remember that ladies , stop chasing and see if he’ll put in work

  • @Challenger2A7
    @Challenger2A7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I think the supreme example of how to get a man to adore you by inflicting pain must be Estella's treatment of Pip in Dickens's "Great Expectations." That's where I learned it, anyhow! Estella is my role model, though not when she marries the wrong man!

    • @FreePalestine123-b1x
      @FreePalestine123-b1x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You're forgetting the social status disparity between the two individuals in Great Expectations. Pip has Estella on a pedestal, he feels unworthy of her love to a large extent. If he was of equal status and felt worthy of her time and attention I wonder whether her tactics would have had the same effect. She's also dysfunctional in that she's learned through her aunt that true love can't be trusted / doesn't exist. She creates an environment for herself whereby she doesn't recognise love when it arrives, instead pushes it away by hurting them before they hurt her. None of that is a healthy or secure way of relating.

    • @misskitty2270
      @misskitty2270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such a good read; one of my favorite novels!

    • @bodnarova05
      @bodnarova05 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FreePalestine123-b1x it’s wiser to marry for $$ and status though, that never changed. Women have just been programmed through Disney and other media to seek love

    • @goddessglow6996
      @goddessglow6996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes !

  • @Pandababyy247
    @Pandababyy247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loving the stashhh!!!! 😍😍😁💓

  • @ArthurGraham-vy1ze
    @ArthurGraham-vy1ze ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be careful when you play pain games with a dude unless you know his ENTIRE background.. For some of us, pain comes as a light to the eyes.

  • @pochorooster6370
    @pochorooster6370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Give me pain and I'll send you to kick rocks. I love myself far too much to put up with shit. I'll tell her to kick rocks like I have with even the closest people in my life. Hell no , a reward is a lot more motivated than pain. The avoidance of unnecessary pain specially is a great motivation but not the pain life is too short to be dwelling in pain.

    • @Untamed_ayla
      @Untamed_ayla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't understand these guys telling all these women to give these men pain...love love love. Love without expectation and love yourself is all you need. There is no need to play games with men in this world. If they want you, they will naturally flow with you in their own time, if you don't want to wait for them, then move on. People are not all the same.

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You might be healthier, use of this is for more hard headed males. Pain is consquence of disrespect neglect or pain inflicted.....not just because. I agree with you rewards are more effective, and if pain was part of my relationships I would be OUT.
      The purpose of relationship is to be loving consistently otherwise what's the point, but I do understand Male psyche, and they require a challenge, and its give when required.

    • @Mindful.Movement.01
      @Mindful.Movement.01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trust me I don’t agree with this video. If I man does this to me I run for the hills and remove myself without a trace. I cannot

  • @joannavantkruys4037
    @joannavantkruys4037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You look like someone from a movie 🤗🤗your so beautiful with your hair 😘🤗

    • @_sirenabxxy22
      @_sirenabxxy22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He looks like that little boy from the encanto movie but in a grown up version lmao

  • @shannonpickens7695
    @shannonpickens7695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That is pretty funny 🤣. So if you are with a guy and obviously his phone is on “do not disturb” (pretty obvious- not 1 notification comes through in 2 hours). On one hand it’s kind of sneaky. On the other he is giving you his undivided attention…. Trying to decide how I feel about this. Lol. I’m being a dork and over thinking….

    • @fairy9749
      @fairy9749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Look for consistency. It will tell you if it's an act or he's really into you and listening!

    • @biancacherry7059
      @biancacherry7059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Eh I have my phone on do not disturb 24/7 but that’s because otherwise I’d be on my phone all the time. I don’t think it’s that deep plus if he had his phone on and it was going off that would be rude

    • @Smokillo
      @Smokillo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have my notifications off for all social media, if it’s important they can text me or call..nothing sneaky going on.

  • @pumpkins5390
    @pumpkins5390 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    9:26 some guys are not willing to compete so if you really like them you could lose them by that
    They’ll now put you in a position to show how interested you are in them so you can’t use it on any guy

  • @nataliecheney3177
    @nataliecheney3177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Betta call up Tyrone🎶🎵🤣

  • @Jhonsmithandy
    @Jhonsmithandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Come back tomorrow I like your videos everyday you make me laugh

  • @AAA-zu6rw
    @AAA-zu6rw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do it all bros out there , the reverse psychology technique

  • @empressnyase
    @empressnyase 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    How can you play a girl with a toxic dating coach father Alex let's go 😂😂

  • @geneveweil2938
    @geneveweil2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So true!

  • @breethembi4410
    @breethembi4410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its the way he started the video😂😂😂😂

  • @buhleangie5907
    @buhleangie5907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My crush blue ticked/left me on read and woow he was on my mind 24/7.

  • @starr3543-g7e
    @starr3543-g7e ปีที่แล้ว

    This shit is halarious!😂 I laughed all the way through!

  • @DeniseLWrightHiers
    @DeniseLWrightHiers ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Insights 🍁

  • @deeangel008
    @deeangel008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ahhh, Alex I've missed you. Hope all is well.

  • @carinesosanwo6304
    @carinesosanwo6304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Is it OK to cheat on my husband the same way he cheated on me???

    • @Nicolegin
      @Nicolegin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fuck yes

    • @tracym1989
      @tracym1989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do it

    • @valleriejoseph
      @valleriejoseph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sure

    • @Nicolegin
      @Nicolegin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love us 😎

    • @melonyjones9776
      @melonyjones9776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes! The only way he will appreciate you, coming from a married woman.

  • @SeaMee
    @SeaMee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alex I love your bouncy curls ! Great content 👍🏽

  • @Skyn.spiritualist
    @Skyn.spiritualist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You don't know how he has access. . . .we all know you're Tyrone Alex 😂😂😂😂 but what you cant predict you respect is true !

  • @cindybrown9898
    @cindybrown9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i never heard of any of this how aweful why would ANYONE be with a toxic person?? ive been married 25 yrs happily i would NEVER do anything bad to my husband a person that i love...this is sick stay away from any woman who is mental there are plenty of us sane, normal hard working loving women out here.

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was searching for a sane comment and I found yours. But there are far too many women in the comments who say they have been doing this to men and they seem to love it. This just reinforces my views about women in general that they like to be mean and hurtful to men.

    • @Mindful.Movement.01
      @Mindful.Movement.01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow I really love your comment. Good stuff

    • @CorporateCandy22
      @CorporateCandy22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why are you watching this video

    • @notallabouttarot5194
      @notallabouttarot5194 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why are the both of these people watching this video? And the happily married one…are you happily married or are you both happily married? It has to be something that brought you too this channel

  • @JMthdjhgbnjk
    @JMthdjhgbnjk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex showing off your Tyrone muscles. Lol

  • @storm4515
    @storm4515 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just broke it off with a guy last night because he got me all worked up sexually and then wouldn’t do anything about it. We’ve been dating for 3 months and haven’t done anything and this is how it went down.

  • @themoonbleu627
    @themoonbleu627 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do this naturally but I’m healing bc I’m considered toxic but yea it works and long term only been single 6 forced months of my life 2 long terms in the second now

  • @Cece-n8v
    @Cece-n8v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He ask me if I'm ok because I've been a little unstable 😂

  • @tinastroswitch7007
    @tinastroswitch7007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is my venus in scorpio alone 😂

  • @blb5211
    @blb5211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg I noticed I do this subconsciously 😬😂

  • @crelove9959
    @crelove9959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In the beginning I was gonna say the worst time to have a heart attack is while your having sex 😂

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But if you die, you die happy 😂

  • @Munchkinbaby777
    @Munchkinbaby777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thumbs up for Tyrone

  • @septemberjai5216
    @septemberjai5216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The introduction lol *Byee* 🤭

  • @Trustheprocess23
    @Trustheprocess23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My guy friend gets soo jealous but he doesn’t make a move wtf

  • @AmalFarah-w5p
    @AmalFarah-w5p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂do you have to sip so loud 📢 dude. But good advice.

  • @kourtenayt1927
    @kourtenayt1927 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so fucking funny omg the Tyrone part 🤣 😂 😭

  • @exposinginsanity
    @exposinginsanity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This guy is teaching scary game playing methods that will harm Humanity