Dr. Phil REVEALS The 3 Steps To Find & Build The PERFECT Relationship! | Lewis Howes
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Dr. Phil McGraw is one of the most well-known and trusted mental health professionals in the world. He is also the best-selling author of nine books, which include the best-selling titles, Life Strategies, Relationship Rescue, Self Matters, and Family First.
He also hosts TV’s number one daytime talk show, Dr. Phil. His show focuses on presenting compelling stories about real people with various emotional and behavioral problems and strips away the shame that too often keeps people from seeking help. During his time with guests, he offers solutions based on evidence-based treatment options and state-of-the-art research in psychology, psychiatry, and medicine.
Dr. Phil values his academic training and professional qualifications, which is evident in our insightful and excellent discussion! So, without further ado, let’s dive into our conservation!
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it's beautiful to hear him speak about his wife. he not only loves her but thinks she is a kickass woman and human being! that's what i want in a partner and vice versa. ❤️
This was great I saw the vodcast with Dr. Phil and I thank you for having them on and I think you for the high-level quality people you bring on to appease clergy stability stress and Shirley and everything that we discuss rush wishes to you and you have a voice over the holidays Priscilla
Awww my mate of 41 yrs felt this way about me he passed away last year...I am a happy woman we had so many adventures foreign backpacking trips when young, sailing the Caribbean for ten years on our 45 ft sailboat starting at 50. Crusing to Europe mamy times later during 20 years
Iiving in beautiful Guatemala surrounded by volcanoes slowly renovating and expanding a house and garden just HEAVEN. H e is here with me in eveything I see and do. STILL. He eill never leave my side.. His ashes sit on our bedroom mantel where I can see them constantly we will be buried at sea our ashes mixing and falling to the bottom together forever in the element we loved MOST on earth the ocean from whence we all came. For eternity....whatever happens to that ocean floor we will continue on some tiny pieces of us together....
Lewis is so attractive, not just the way he looks, but his energy and the way he connects with his guests, his gentleness, sensitivity, and his interest in certain topics which are relevant, he goes deep and asks questions boldly. It's not what this really important conversation with Dr. Phil is about. But I just had to say it.
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I agree! I don't know what I love more, Lewis, the interview, the responses, or the insight given. It's just a joy to listen to and be inspired. ❤❤❤
So agree to not fitting into the box!No abuse!
So agree to not fitting into the box!No abuse!
So agree to not fitting into the box!No abuse!
My boyfriend is really good at making eye contact when we are together. I am still getting used to it because it makes me really nervous and excited but I absolutely love it. It is so intimate and brings us so much closer and naturally makes us both feel more vulnerable. I think everyone should try it with your significant other on a daily basis.
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look at him smile about Robin and her buttoning his top button-the love the man has for her.
Wow so refreshing to see Dr.Phil still so in love with his wife after 50 years. 🥰😍 and the fact that he doesnt ever name call any woman shows his great character. Love this content.
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WoW 😮 this is really heartwarming to listen to! An inspiration but I think these kind of relationships are rare.
It’s making all of us narcissist abuse survivors cry 😢
😁its not that rare.. but people seem to hear about the ones that
Are not not successful i was happily married for 32 years widowed few years ago thats
How my husband always spoke about me and i do miss that this was what some refer to as
Biracial 😂
Lewis' genuine interest in people, their experiences and learning from everyone is so beautiful to watch. Such a good reminder that we all have such value, & that communication is key to our growth 🙏
as a person who healed from a toxic relationship this show just made my day. Thank you so much for this incredible show! I can play it many other times!
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I am a narcissist husband survivor and this made me cry but it’s also very heartwarming! 🥰
Dr. Phil has never missed an episode of Dr. Phil either!
I love videos that push us to want to be better humans. We are slowly becoming mediocre at best. Thank you LH for great guests that inspire us to get out of so so, to get to better to strive for great!
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I ve been a huge Dr Phil fan over many yrs but I have to say this in depth conversation has gems of wisdom …practical wisdom that I will long remember. Thank you fir your service Dr Phil
Dr Phil is repeating here several things I heard him say in the other video, but that's ok. .. Don't talk about issues and resentment wile you are angry with each other. Talk about it while things are calm (You don't talk to a drunk while they are drinking). Don't try to solve problems during crisis. The objective is to be heard and then walk away and let that sit with the other person.Both people be heard and then walk away, not be a win lose situation. You can't have the goal of "You're going to agree with me!" You don't want either person to be the loser. ....... After having unhealthy conversations with certain members of our family, I find one of these type of videos and know that it takes two to tango. I can only do my part in the communication. I can't force the other person to be willing to be honest and kind. But I feel better knowing that I also have and have had relationships that are loving and healthy and we both worked to communicate with each other. Unfortunately if the other person is not willing to respect boundaries or be willing to jointly look at different sides of an issue, then I have had to make a boundary very firm. A lot of this applies to friendships and relationships with siblings and even older children. If only one member is willing to go to therapy then the relationship will probably continue to have problems, or not be able to be truly close. Lewis summary and his own advice starts at 58:51. Thank you for this wonderful video Lewis :)
Such wonderful timeless information. Thank you so much for providing it.
Wished I would of heard all these words of wisdom years ago . However it’s never too late to apply these skills to your life now. Thank you
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Wow, wow, wow ! I can never go away from you or Fr Phil without having learned more about me and how I can be a better me!
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l love Dr Phil. l trained to be a Counsellor and l have learnt a lot about human behaviour, mental illness and trauma from the show! Keep up the good work Dr Phil. You inspire so many ❤❤❤
Wow. Praying for my person to come into my life, one day soon and I cant wait to say to people that I can't spend enough time with him❤
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Thank you both for so many important points you made, the questions asked and the answers given. I downloaded this show so I could look back to listen when I need the an answer to whatever I’m struggling with. You certainly covered a lot of ground to help get through life with some practical tools. ❤
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I've Always Loved this man I think that just grew even STRONGER!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽
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I am alone but there is a message for me too. Because my other side is me too. I was a widowed when I was 36 with 2 children. Now I am 68 Raised children by myself. After listening to him I learn I was always two not one. Thanks, it is amazing I can connect with him.I am totally committed to myself.
That's when love happens when you're not looking for it. People are more open and honest about everything in their life. So they're able to be just who they are so we let people in we're not guarded.
I love her and stand by her 100%. Well done you guys! You are fab. I tried to look after the relationship on my own and I do understand so well what it is like to have it black and white! You do not want control and dominance from yourself or the other one, but instead tries to understand, co-operate and flow through changes together in challenging times in willingness. Sincere conversation. The simple condition/agreement of intimacy of yours is worth gold and diamonds. No name calling. Be yourselves and grow together. Talk about things in private. Have the precious eye contact, call, text etc daily. Say I love you sincerely. Sometimes we need to admit that we have given it all, but it is not the right thing anymore. We tried and grew apart. Thank you so much for this valuable interview and added points of view..💞💐🌟👍♾
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Wow! Great interview, as always! Thank you 🙏
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Thank you Lewis for having Dr. Phil on your show. It was packed with practical, considerate and wise things to cultivate a good relationship and marriage. I enjoyed it so much and I always agree with Dr. Phil. He is such a wonderful person and man. I wish I had found someone like him in my youth, but I never did and I never settled and I'm alone now. In spite of it I have no regrets because I felt it was better to be single then stuck in a bad or abusive relationship and thats just not something I could do. Thanks so much for everything from this show that the two of you shared❣️
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Such a sweet smart man 🙏❤
Dr. Phil, you don't know how hard it is to find someone mature enough to do that.
My wonderful dad told me, "don't look for love, it will find you" ..........and that is how I met my husband ♥️
This show was fantastic, Dr. Phil rocks. Thanks Lewis a great interview super questions. Loved it.
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I want to hear the 3 steps to find and build a relationship.
Name calling is a deal breaker in any relationship. It's a total disrespect to your partner. You can forgive it the 1st time, but you must walk away for ever. It is non negotiable. Women must be strong & respect themselves at all costs..❤️🙏💕
Agreed!
That was awesome 👌 thanks alot of great wisdom!!!
That was such a good recap summary of Dr. Phil's points. Great elaboration, practical examples and guidance. Excellent. Thanks.
Fabulous interview!
Thanks!
Great reflections on Dr.Phil's interview.
Spot on!! Thank you!
Great questions to address in a relationship before it gets too comfortable. The other person muggy not have the same values, etc...
I think I live by similar way but I find it impossible to discuss or agree on anything with narcissists. How to share kids with one when you are financially dependable on him?
Dr Phil is a lovely man. It's too bad most of the relationships don't have the qualities that it takes to really love someone. I hope one day I can find my Dr Phil and be happy.
Wow, what a fantastic, heartfelt interview. Thank you, Dr. Phil, for your wisdom and transparency and Lewis, I love your laid-back approach to interviewing. I feel a lot of ppl can resonate with your content and learn to grow in their own relationships. Also, John n Julie Gotman has a great book called 8 dates. I feel everybody in the world should read this book! Before ppl get involved in sex up front, go read that book if you want a long-term, healthy, loving relationship! It gets👍👍.
Thank you for this interview!
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I like listening about Dr. Phil's life. I guess, I must like him and his wife very much. 🥰
Thank you and Dr Phil...profound message.👊
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Brilliant advices 💖💖💖
Thank you Lewis & Doc Phil!!
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Great interview..
I love robin also.we all do
Excellent recap!
Thanks!
A true lesson
so much good stuff, understanding and methods to work towards constructive love, and resolution to the issues that always and need to come up in any relationship- partner or family member.
Nothing is like finding a true match in mutual love where a couple grow into eachother and not the opposite.
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Doctor Phil 🙂 , I think like attracts like , regarding relationships working : even the toxic ones that nobody can believe how they stay together
Love it 💜
Thank you!
i can relate to having alcoholics as parents.. and not getting the support..
Powerful and profound!
Thank you Lewis,very helpful is are great interview 😊
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Your questions are so good. Alot of people have a hard time with that, especially u tubers.
#yes love this content
Thank you 🙏🏼
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She romances you every day when she buttons up your shirt😍that is beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
When you r husband loves and takes care of you oh yeah makes you feel safe you’ll go to the moon with him.
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Personally I think when someone matures it could happen at any age in life depending upon circumstances and hardships and needs and events what you take away from those experiences can make you a wiser more stable person. Person who don't just think about the moment but how their response can affect someone's life in their future because the present choices affect our future..
ok, give it away to those who have more suffer than you, this is a quite out of box solution, i bet it works ,Thanks.
Robin does seem like she has an ultra cool personality!!
It would be so fun to have girl time with her!!!!
Great show
Thank you so much! 🧡
Sometimes I do agree with dr Phil , sometimes I don’t. I think we have too many theories in the life and not enough basics, common sense, respect, distinguishing between small stuff and important. We don’t hear ourselves, there is so much noise pollution..do this, do that..be this be that.
Yes, there are important issues to discuss in any relationship, but generally, people do argue, have different opinions. We cannot discuss everything. I have a strong belief that people who have a good relationship, kind of click, if not from the start, but soon. That does not mean they don’t argue or they don’t have to discuss certain issues, but from my own experience and many others..do not overanalyse everything.
Dr. Phil Neat Thanks Lewis
Love you
Thank You, Lewis for All your Love on Your Talk Show. Thank You, Again. What? A GreatHearted Spiritual Soul.♡
Funtastic 🤠👍
I'm so broken after dealing with a narcissist mother and 2 marriages with men that couldn't help me feel family.
I like your wife. She's a country girl born raised humble life that can teach a personal lot about what's important.
Two of my favourites 😁
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He ain’t got nothing on Black Phillip RIP Patrice O’Neal
#relationships
Very useful and practical pieces of advice, thanks Lewis.
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Thank you for always providing us great content!
Another wonderful interview with helpful insights 🤍
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If your relationship's are difficult you are in the wrong relationship...
Hi lowis can you invite Andrew tate please 🙏
Awh Dr Phil starts obsessing over his wife. I gotta find that
I WILL NEVER EVER BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ALCOHOLIC AND A GAMBLER!!! BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY A LIAR!!!
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I loved this show. It was awesome! Thank you for the recap you did amazing job!!!! I could listen to this show over and over 😊
Happy to hear this :)
Work on building a healthy relationship and falling in love with the person that you see everyday, who has been through so much pain and heartache, but still manages to gets through it all.❤️
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A great show. Lewis is brilliant in bringing out the greatness in his guests and sharing their wisdom to help everyone flourish ❤❤❤
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Dr. Phil, please do a podcast on wives of husbands with ADHD. Check out the Fb support group to see what these women are going through.
I’m from London UK and have never heard Dr Phil before, what a lovely man he is.
Your interviews changed my life I’m blooming and everyone is seeing it thank you so much for what you do! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊
Loved this interview! Definitely gonna journal about some of the ideas shared
Wow. I've just watched the first half of this video. I'm from the uk and never heard of Dr Phil before. What a Tower of Wonderful Wisdom. It's nice to have someone different talking about relationships from their perspective. Thank you
Glad you enjoyed it!
What an awesome conversation with Dr. Phil about our human relationships and the pitfalls we learn from.
I was an avid, addict of Dr Phil show for years when we used to get it on SABC 2 in South Africa 🇿🇦
Did you live under a rock? Haha dr phil is an icon. I grew up in western Europe and we all knew him
I’ve always secretly called Dr. Phil Dr. Feel because he is so spot on with feelings and situations! Behind every awesome man is an even more awesome woman! Thanks to ALL of them, the host (I’ve been a fan for a few years now) Mr. Phil and Mrs. Robin
#relationships More of your perspective on relationships! I love them and have taken some of the things you said into my new relationship and it's been magical! It's the most powerful and healthy relationship that I've ever experienced.
Listening to this makes me really want to see an in depth interview with his wife Robin! She’s empowered… a woman that can stand up for herself in a relationship year after year with him is an empowered woman who we can learn from.
Yes, I would really like to see his wife interviewed.
For sure!!! Robin is a woman i look up to.
LOVE all the GREAT questions you asked Dr. Phil. And I LOVE the advice he gave . Such a WONDERFUL relationship him and Robyn have. The way he speaks about her is TRUE LOVE.
This was INSPIRING and an eye-opener. I want to THANK YOU for YOUR awesome questions. And for interviewing Dr. Phil because he has the kind of the that EVERY man SHOULD have for their woman. As well as Robyn having the kind of love EVERY woman SHOULD have for their man. I LOVE the way he lights up when he talks about her. It's ADORABLE.
THANK YOU again to you AND Dr. Phil.
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But many can not take criticism that is the problem. so how can one talk about it with such people
You can only attract your equivalent of your vibration in order to be in Harmony, We must flow in alignment...
Love you guys! Such a deep conversation about relationships! Something I’m not the best at and I’m 62. Ruminating and not getting closure are my big problems. Thank you for such a candid show, as always.
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I totally agree!! I always loved Dr Phil.
These series on relationship you are doing are amazing. So much wisdom. Thank you for doing this. The 🌎 world is in need of love.
Great interview.
Dr Phil my hero, the best psychologist, he spoke about dealbreakers, what about cheating and extramarital relationships?
This was amazing. Took a whole heap of notes… 📝 Thank you so much & many blessings to you both!!
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Yes 😊😊😊... I would love to hear more of your relationship videos...
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Yes it never works with people who dont take criticism.