feeling like you'll never live up to your full potential

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  • @PietBu
    @PietBu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    „Being self aware of all my problems doesnt make it hurt any less. Still sucks“ - me, when my therapist told me I‘m very very reflective and aware of my own thoughts and actions

  • @ceciliabottenhorn7082
    @ceciliabottenhorn7082 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Not to be that b*tch but genuinely thank you for posting this :) I'm in a similar season of feeling uninspired, unmotivated, and unhappy. The struggle between giving yourself grace/rest vs feeling unproductive or lacking self-discipline is so real. Hoping you find some breakthrough :)

  • @kieramei
    @kieramei 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I definitely feel you when you say you don’t have the motivation to vlog because it feels like you’re not doing anything with your life and viewers won’t want to watch that but truly WE DO because it’s so RELATABLE. These days I rarely want to watch TH-camrs who live lavish glamorous lives because it makes me feel bad about my life but watching your videos they are so genuinely HELPFUL because everything you say I am feeling and it makes so many people feel less alone you are doing SO MUCH even if it doesn’t feel like it. I’ve been watching you since you were at 50k on your old channel and I’ve always loved every single video you put out 🫶

    • @emmaleia173
      @emmaleia173 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love her vlogs where she's just chilling at home and eating and whatever because it helps me get up and do stuff even though I don't feel great. it genuinely makes me more motivated

  • @taijavmarie
    @taijavmarie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    i am usually a silent viewer, but everything you've said in this video has been ME. i just wish my brain and goals would get on the same page so i can live the life i know i can have. i am genuinely very happy that you posted this, i really needed it rn. thank you for posting this

  • @hv97
    @hv97 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I see so much of myself in you, it's insane 😅
    I appreciate you being so real all the time and having the strength to press record, to talk, edit and post videos even when you're feeling low. I know too well how it feels. Honestly I'm always looking forward to a new video from you because I know I'll feel seen and at this point it's like catching up with an old friend. It feels weird to say it as obviously I don't know you in real life, but that's surely how it feels like! 💗
    Stay strong, Reese, we'll make it through 💪🤍

  • @mmccart1
    @mmccart1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate you being so real, honest, and vulnerable

  • @kmac23
    @kmac23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank u for sharing maybe the key is self compassion, I feel that we are too hard on ourselves and count the small wins. it’s been a rough few weeks and seeing u cook, play with pets and paint; it reminded me of all the things I know I could do to get better yet starting all of that can feel overwhelming n paralyzing which is why I find myself in this constant state of mind

  • @aimeejane_writings
    @aimeejane_writings 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your paintings are phenomenal. Wow what a talent you have there

  • @lynnzr2697
    @lynnzr2697 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    watching your videos makes me feel like I'm not alone i can really relate to what you're saying thank you for sharing your struggles with us

  • @peachy__pg
    @peachy__pg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hey! i love you! thank you for being real! thank you for posting your silly little videos and crocheting and painting and everything that brings you joy while also feeling like shit, it brings some joy into my shit too! (and so many others) (the clip of u eating 😭 literally me)

  • @halletheresa23
    @halletheresa23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so held back by my fears it’s ridiculous

  • @_lilly347
    @_lilly347 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending you soo much love, strength and good energy

  • @jennifertaylor9385
    @jennifertaylor9385 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was on Pinterest yesterday and saw a circle collage pin, and someone had commented it reminded them of your tiktok videos 😊
    Thank you for always being so open, your videos have helped me so much over the past year. I've been taking better care of my mental health, started cooking and reading and picked up other hobbies again. I love all of your content and look forward to your videos 💕🙏

  • @smol-coffeebean
    @smol-coffeebean 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so thankful for the mentally ill bad bitch crossover that is Reese watching Nicole's latest video

  • @roseproffit873
    @roseproffit873 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this. I needed to be reminded that this is human and I'm not the only one that feels like this.

  • @Em-or-ii
    @Em-or-ii 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for posting this! I know I'm 4 months late but I've been feeling very down in the dumps the past few days and watching this honestly made me feel less alone. It's comforting to hear that someone else is experiencing the same feelings as me so thank you for posting your content! 🙏🏻🤍 Also your paintings are fantastic! ✨

  • @TaylorisTaylor99
    @TaylorisTaylor99 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I was at the gym earlier this week and thought about how you hadn’t posted for a while, and I hoped you were doing okay because I knew that meant you probably weren’t feeling your best. I know we aren’t in each other’s lives in the sense that we are friends and hang out, but I am so glad to have found you and have you in my life. Knowing that there is someone out there who is struggling with the same things I’m struggling with makes me feel way less isolated and alone, which is something I’ve been having trouble with for a while now. I agree with a lot of people here that we truly want to see anything you post. Just being here and talking with us is so relaxing, soothing, calming. Please don’t feel pressure to produce something “perfect” for us. We accept and love you as you are ❤

  • @TayloryvStudio
    @TayloryvStudio 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Even though you don't feel your best right now, please know that you're still inspiring

  • @annavale3971
    @annavale3971 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    haven't started the video yet, but just came here to say: reese, wtf, are you living in my head now? i was having this exact existential crisis just a few hours ago.

  • @Newmoon919
    @Newmoon919 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This past year ive had to accept and help myself find new ways of easier living due to realizing im autistic!! Luckily my partner is audhd and is very supportive and were always brainstorming ways to make our lives easier. But its hard!

  • @alejandracastillo6327
    @alejandracastillo6327 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl thanks for always posting. Even if it does seem to be about the same topic most of the time. I’ve been feeling so unmotivated, unfocused, and stuck for YEARS so watching your videos helps not to feel alone.

  • @Newmoon919
    @Newmoon919 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being burnt out is real dude

  • @dazzlinggene
    @dazzlinggene 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your content so much no matter what it is because it’s about you and it’s real. I’ve watched you for many years and I will continue to because I’ve felt how you feel many times in life, in the creative space, and mentally. Anyway love you Reese and keep it up girlie 🥂🩷😇

  • @emmaleia173
    @emmaleia173 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been watching your videos to get me out of bed for the last couple of weeks because I really have no other motivation or reason otherwise. I love your channel and I'm so glad are you here to share your thoughts with us

  • @mariashwedenko
    @mariashwedenko 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I've been feeling the same way recently. I blame it on our female hormonal cycles. Maybe women just weren't created to have a truly balanced life 🫠

    • @Ana-gq7ce
      @Ana-gq7ce 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The system* wasn't created for us to have a balanced life. The hormonal cycle is natural, we need to be more connected to nature and its changes

    • @mariashwedenko
      @mariashwedenko 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Ana-gq7ceyeah, this is more accurate

  • @claireblaske4321
    @claireblaske4321 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i so needed to hear this today. had a mental breakdown about this exact thing on the plane back to school. lots of love

  • @harrywang6792
    @harrywang6792 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9:00 just be careful to keep the laser away from your dog. Laser can trigger obsessive-compulsive behaviors among dogs, and can make them obsessed with any kind of flickering lights

  • @finjie
    @finjie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do want to watch your videos bc i recognize so much. I hate videos with busy lives of others and i've been disliking them to get rid of them. But they keep poppin' up. 🙄
    I recognize the feeling of disappointment in your life. I've tried so many things and now i'm at the lowest (sheltered workplace). Or it feels like the lowest. I know there are people without jobs so i can't complain. But it's not what i want. But the rest didn't work out. So now i feel stuck..
    Pls keep posting, it helps me getting insight. It does t suck less but it helps a little bit. 🙏✨

  • @abbymurphy6640
    @abbymurphy6640 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reese I feel like this all the time, so thank you 🫶

  • @elizamoore8103
    @elizamoore8103 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I simply adore you

  • @jillianmcguire8056
    @jillianmcguire8056 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Holy shit you are talented!!!!

  • @mugurthanarajah5708
    @mugurthanarajah5708 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brush I felt it was so short I was expecting to see more of you not being a brat btw 😅thanks for posting

  • @bossladykae8323
    @bossladykae8323 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your content.

  • @emilyrayne.artist
    @emilyrayne.artist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Reese! This certainly isnt anti vegan anything I was a Vegan for 4 years and I didn't realize that it was having such an effect on my mental health. I decided a month ago that I wanted to stop restricting what I ate and decided to eat what my body wanted. It has given me such a boost daily! I know as a long time subscriber and someone who battles mental health as well I know that its not that simple but it has made a difference for me! I thought id pop that in your comments quick! Either way Im sending you so much love!!!!

    • @emilyrayne.artist
      @emilyrayne.artist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahhh i also wanted to note that with this diet change I've taken it slow and I've been eating according to my cycles!

  • @valentinabeltrame5192
    @valentinabeltrame5192 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just wanted to say I love your videos, especially because you just do simple life things and it makes me feel like it's okay to just exist :) ❤ also read the poems by Rupi Kaur about productivity, I think they would make you feel a little bit better, they worked for me. Big hug❤❤

  • @AmandaSbarros
    @AmandaSbarros 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This whole year was so hard for me. I fanally started taking ADHD meds and I am better bu I also feel so alone. I stopped going to therapy because 3 of my 3 attempts of talking about my difficulties in college and in making friends were horrible, I felt as though they were not believing in me. I also cannot talk to the only 2 "friends" I have at college, they don't get it and always treat my problems as something so silly that no one goes through it. I just finished my 3rd semester of psychology school and although I am happy, I am also extremely lost. I wanto to creat content on YT but I hate the way I express myself but I think is bc I could never just be myself around people (masking). I feel alone talking to my parents and my brother feels like a strange to me. I am 21 and I am so so so lost. I don't know what to do next, I have no job and I can't make friends that I can be myself around. I wish I did not have ADHD, it is really hard and no one cares about it. I am sorry for venting on her but I just needed to tell how I feel to someone. Thank you for your videos, you make me feel less alone. I am rooting for u.

    • @_lilly347
      @_lilly347 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      **virtual hug**

    • @AmandaSbarros
      @AmandaSbarros 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@_lilly347 ♥️♥️♥️

  • @thedarkmjollnirgodofthunde7442
    @thedarkmjollnirgodofthunde7442 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you need a video idea, try going big foot hunting. I dont think any other vloger with content similar to yours has tried it.

  • @d2bsyy
    @d2bsyy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    cat update??

  • @duskaf.5078
    @duskaf.5078 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is the title of video you watched while eating?

    • @duskaf.5078
      @duskaf.5078 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Found it - for anyone that's interested A chronically online girl explains sister squad lore

  • @xxnalzill9731
    @xxnalzill9731 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4th

  • @katiekirkland1721
    @katiekirkland1721 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It kinda sounds like ADHD...

  • @NJnjjj-ud4ym
    @NJnjjj-ud4ym 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish you to read about Islam to get out of this delimma

  • @veronica.theswamphag
    @veronica.theswamphag 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The party girl painting is GIVING!! It's so good your technical skills are seriously so impressive and the vibe is so good

  • @vivisophxe
    @vivisophxe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    you inspire me reese. maybe you won't believe me but you really do. have a nice weekend

  • @BookswithBryn
    @BookswithBryn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’ve never felt more seen by someone! Your videos truly mean the world to me!

  • @jadelouise8032
    @jadelouise8032 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is why you’re my fave, your pure and authentic self is and will always be the best

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Happy Weekend Reese!! and I am so so so glad to see you back again you are my inspiration💞✨😀

  • @miazimmer
    @miazimmer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    7:50 Nicole and Reese crossover ???? 🥰

  • @brittanybowen7710
    @brittanybowen7710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Listen. I need these 'do normal activities' videos because they make me cook and clean and be creative. You help more than you realize.

  • @mirandakayewebb7789
    @mirandakayewebb7789 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Secret C O M M E N T
    Been feeling this too and I needed to see that someone else is experiencing this too ❤️ thank you !

  • @Whiteswan1
    @Whiteswan1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love u 💗🥨

  • @GeronáRigatte
    @GeronáRigatte หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Reese I relate to you. I have had a huge mental block for 3.5 years. I haven't worked at all in that time. I went through a bunch of trauma and then I had a huge depression and anxiety spiral. I slept for two full years. I literally barely got out of bed for two years. I think i developed arthritis in my legs from that and the stress. Not kidding. I don't even remember most of it. 2023 was better for me. I really worked on my physical health and cranked up my exercising. I had a huge depressive episode from the end of 2023 to the beginning of 2024. Now things are much better but I still haven't done anything with my life. I used to be a very productive and ambitious person. I used to go out and do things with friends and family. Now I don't do any of that. I used to travel by myself and try new things. Now I feel anxious and uncomfortable just throwing the trash out. I have not done a single thing to get my career going again. I have zero motivation and I am also thinking that I will never live up to my full potential as well. It's such a scary thought to think that I will never be able to do the things that I dreamed of for myself. That I will never achieve. That I will never be successful. That after all this grueling hard work I put into schooling I will not go any further. I also need to be the best. And even if I'm not the best I will at least try so hard to be the best that I half kill myself with the effort. Now I sleep all day. I don't do anything worthwhile anymore. I am so angry and rageful. I am so lost. Thank you for being relatable. You have helped me. -from a fellow human being

  • @rachal900
    @rachal900 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciate your videos. I also have major depression, anxiety and am in the funk. It does help to know there are people out there that get it. That would be fun to do a "Dare to December" video and us viewer's can challenge you to fun things. Even a vegan cookie recipe would be fun to watch. :). You got this girly.

  • @jduggan4129
    @jduggan4129 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I understand where you’re at. I’m living in a depressed episode for years sometimes better sometimes really bad. Thanks for letting me feel like I’m not the only one. Love you. California Joanna

  • @CourtneyNoble
    @CourtneyNoble 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love your paintings! i should get into my art era soon :)

  • @SethRuiz-xj8zn
    @SethRuiz-xj8zn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just watched my fav youtuber watching my fav youtuberr

  • @kalasimsy2966
    @kalasimsy2966 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I personally think that you expect too much of yourself, the human creativity and energy is not inexhaustible and maybe it's to be expected that when you had this amazing idea with a painting and your tiktok is going well, then the mental resources for youtube are just not there? I understand your worry tho, bc your livelihood depends on this. But just like some other people said in the comments, we really DO want to see the mundane everyday life. My favourite channels right now are Megan Rhiannon and Katherine Karas, both showing mainly journaling, reading, walks, just everyday stuff.

  • @maibai98
    @maibai98 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad I’m not the only one feeling like this. I just moved to a new city and everyone around me is telling me to “seize the day” and be happy of the opportunities in front of me but I definitely don’t feel inspired or happy. I’m definitely grateful but it’s hard to be motivated to live my life because of my depression

  • @niloosam5398
    @niloosam5398 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    heey girl .im 24 and i feel same emotion ..... you know .... i didnt spend time with my friends like before . i wanna stay at home and focus on my self my life or anything about mine....... i think that happened because of edge

  • @nopenopenopenopenopers
    @nopenopenopenopenopers 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The line of cigarettes makes me think of that rumor that at the first wedding the Olsen twin had, there were bowls of pills and coke. Maybe you could do a bowl of colored pills.

  • @Anna-sl6si
    @Anna-sl6si 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Today I am going to be the person that thanks you for being so honest. It helps... I am at the same place rn and I appreciate the courage for uploading

  • @reginageorgetownuni
    @reginageorgetownuni 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i f ing love you for this vlog reese! ive been seeing your vids on and off for years and it feels like a lot of our generation is in the same boat and your channel is a reflection of that. we feel less lonely thanks to you and i hope you feel less lonely because of us too!

  • @jamieweberbrennan2853
    @jamieweberbrennan2853 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    reese watching nicole is literally my favourite thing ever! two best women out!!

  • @erynreagan7747
    @erynreagan7747 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I relate so much to not feeling inspired enough to create content. I've been having some mental health issues and don't wanna fake that cheery tone

  • @JordynLynnia
    @JordynLynnia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending you all the good vibes Reese ❤

  • @oliviamarie5285
    @oliviamarie5285 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @raquelmoura3947
    @raquelmoura3947 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank u so much for posting this! you have no idea how important your chanel is for everyone here. i’m saying this literally from the other side of the ocean (i’m from brasil), you have a huge impact on a lot of people’s life ! never forget this, reese! i hope you feel better soon

  • @martadoingstuff
    @martadoingstuff 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seriously, once again, thank you for sharing this. No, we don't get tired of hearing it. It's the opposite. For the ones of us ho hear that inside their minds every day, it feels great to hear someone else sharing the struggle. And this community you've built... precious. So proud of you and all the people who watch your videos and keep working hard on their mental health! Big hug to all of us who are going through this right now.

  • @mirikiri444
    @mirikiri444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love watching your videos!! it makes me feel so understood and it gives me so much comfort💞💞

  • @thedarkmjollnirgodofthunde7442
    @thedarkmjollnirgodofthunde7442 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Saw the secret comment.

  • @clairelolyeah
    @clairelolyeah 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not me getting an “it’s okay not to be okay” ad in the middle of this video … my dog put his head in my lap and watched the video too!!!

  • @kibawolfe9664
    @kibawolfe9664 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just wanted to say youre not alone & youre valid 🖤

  • @hayatahmed6684
    @hayatahmed6684 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have no idea how much this video made me feel seen and heard 😢

  • @priyankashah9643
    @priyankashah9643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your videos 😀😄😁

  • @HomeOfEllas
    @HomeOfEllas 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🩷🤍

  • @Aehakoswife
    @Aehakoswife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reese is me, I am reese