I feel for her but it's going to be an uphill battle. Op's allowed herself to be the doormat for so long that her family is going to really fight that change
To that cryptic text from the mom I would've replied 'oh im here, yall are the ones silent' and when she asked how OP was doing, I would've gone on a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge message about how I felt great and things were so much better now lol
Yay you should be so proud of yourself for the way you’ve handled things without anyone telling you how to handle things and you deserve a holiday for your accomplishments 😊🎉
Op I wish I knew you, I would of showed you how I dealt with my family that is like this. Ihad a friend wake me up amd man it was wonderful. They stop talking tome and guess what I laughed. When they did the silent treatment I went on trips. I would postWHEN YOU DONT HAVE LEECHES SUCKING YOU DRY! RHE WORLD IS YOURS? lol that’s Ben 15 years ago and I am so gappy!
what a horrible family you were born into. you're too good for them and that's part of why they were bleeding you dry to try and bring you down to their level.
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You said your piece, now close the ATM. Now, not be available for them
Good for you. You are finally doing things for yourself. 😊
I feel for her but it's going to be an uphill battle. Op's allowed herself to be the doormat for so long that her family is going to really fight that change
@Ell611 yeah they will still try to get to her. I just hope she's strong enough to steer clear of any traps they will set out
Kudos you stand your ground. Make sure when they contact you hold your ground.
To that cryptic text from the mom I would've replied 'oh im here, yall are the ones silent'
and when she asked how OP was doing, I would've gone on a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge message about how I felt great and things were so much better now lol
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Yay you should be so proud of yourself for the way you’ve handled things without anyone telling you how to handle things and you deserve a holiday for your accomplishments 😊🎉
I would straight up tell them. I’m not helping anyone anymore because you don’t return the help. End it. Say no more.
Op I wish I knew you, I would of showed you how I dealt with my family that is like this. Ihad a friend wake me up amd man it was wonderful. They stop talking tome and guess what I laughed. When they did the silent treatment I went on trips. I would postWHEN YOU DONT HAVE LEECHES SUCKING YOU DRY! RHE WORLD IS YOURS? lol that’s Ben 15 years ago and I am so gappy!
The one thing i would tell op to remember, “They need you, you dont need them”
I love the way they keep saying that family helps each other. But her family never helps her. Somehow that escapes them.
In a way OP cut out her own cancer by removin the tumour @ the source.
I don't know if this is a true story, but it's really good what she did. Boundaries are important, especially with family.
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what a horrible family you were born into. you're too good for them and that's part of why they were bleeding you dry to try and bring you down to their level.
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