Dear vogue, we don't want to see people applying skincare on top of their foundation.they have like almost everything done and turn off the filters please.we need transparency, otherwise want's the point of these videos.we are not dumb.
Why is nobody talking about Kat? Talk about her! She literally just cried in front of camera because of the struggles she's had with her natural hair, and loving and accepting it. This is her first vid like this and she is the most genuine celebrity I have seen! All of this is so genuine, I came here cuz I saw Kat's face, but now I have such a deeep respect and love for her.
I mean this is the real hair journey for many black girls and women or mixed girls and women. Personally, I was blessed to be raised by my black mom who knew and understood how to do my hair which is 4C curl pattern through time, effort, knowledge, and the legacy of life skills my grandmother passed to her. Even that wasn’t enough just in my immediate family all our hair textures are so different even though we’ve had similar hair struggles. But the pride we have through our hair by loving it, accepting it, growing with it, and working with it is priceless. It’s a everyday process and sometimes you have those bad days where you wrap it put it in a bonnet and call it a day. Lol. I’m glad she showed this side of her, I never thought to think during Vampire Dairies she was using sew ins and wigs (it makes sense) but in my opinion her natural hair is beautiful and makes her look younger.
isn't it just! i thought she looked beautiful with the hair I've seen her with on tv and movies but her natural hair is just so much prettier AND its who SHE is. i feel so bad that so many different people have been made to suppress their culture and natural beauty, I'm glad she was able to show us her beauty in all of its glory!
This is beautiful, y’all. I also starting crying because I too have curly hair and learning to love my hair after straightening it for YEARS has been a truly intense but fulfilling experience. Us curlies gotta stick together!
I have no idea if this is weird to say to strangers on TH-cam comments but imma say it anyway 😂 I’m so proud of y’all for not letting society erase and suppress your natural beauty. My aunts recently embraced their natural hair and it was so empowering to see. I was once embarrassed about my Jamaican heritage but, especially over the past few months with BLM, I have become so proud of my heritage and I really hope that this movement will truly change the world for good so black people and all ethnic minorities can flourish and be their true, authentic selves. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!
I don’t think she’s crying over hair, but moreover, identity. To come out and embrace your hair, especially when it’s not accepted in society, is an emotional process. It’s accepting yourself, and it’s saying you don’t care what others say anymore. She’s taking care of herself and her hair; that’s what it’s about.
Lmao hair is not accepted in society😂? Please. It’s 2023. The fact tht privileged Americans cry and whine about hair and call it oppression is baffling to me. Americans are ao out of touch with the rest of the world. While yall are offended because a white person wore braids but called them french braids over box braids, there are people starving and dying. While yall cry because a stranger on the street accidentally used the wrong pronoun, there are children being sold into slavery. People are opressed all over the world. Kat Graham is not one of those people. Get over yourselves.
@@its_vlkxtyzthat's a lie. Black women all over the world feel like we have to hide ourselves because of our hair textures. She can be crying about the abuse but also about the fact that she's embracing her natural hair texture and learning to love it
Black girl hair is soooo emotional. Like... it is NOT a game. I felt her so hard when she was like, "Why am I crying over conditioner?" It's just that way sometimes. If you know, you know. We're a sisterhood, and we feel you. :-)
I’m white and I’ve cried over my curls too. It feels like it will be a lifelong journey to figure them out. And why do we put so much of our self worth into our hair?
Curly Crew Honestly , I’ve found that a lot of white people just don’t know how to deal with curly hair. I bet if you grew up with me (I’m biracial) , you would’ve loved your hair haha.
I'm white and finally, 2 years ago I stopped straightening my hair. Ignore my profile pic haha that was back in 2010 when I straightened every single day. When I stopped straightening, I notice all my defined curls were gone. I was shocked to find how upset this made me. All my life I was told that straight hair is the most beautiful...every girl I knew straightened their hair. After a few months of not straightening my hair and not blow drying it, all my curls returned. I comb it with leave in conditioner after I shower and let it air dry. I love and appreciate my natural curls. All my white friends straighten their curly hair but one. My hair is so much thicker. I live in Florida with extreme humidity. My curly hair loves humidity haha makes it more curly. Embrace your curly hair. Curly hair is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you different!
I really do feel her...with every fiber of my BEING....this pandemic has helped me embrace my curls.....I'm going to a natural centric stylist so that she can cut the rest of this relaxer out of my hair......I cannot WAIT!!!!
“The African afro texture is not something that Hollywood has ever really embraced.. So I hope that one day I can play a character that I actually look like..” dang.
then she should apply to play a black girl with black hair. what is the problem? she knew they would ask of her to wear a wig i doubt nina in the vampire diaries wanted to keep her hair in that same style for all those years. it is a role you play a job you get payed for people need to stop acting as if she hadn't a choice.
Her actual real hair would have complemented her role in the Vampire Diaries. She has such beautiful hair! She's so pretty naturally! Would love to see her in a role that would respect her natural self! ALSO VAMPIRE DIARIES WOULD HAVE BEEN NOTHING WITHOUT YOU! YOU ARE A STAR!!
@@shacks29 Look at the roles she still to this day is playing and what they require of her. It's easy to sit on here and say someone is wrong when you aren't in their position or have a job like them
When she started crying when she spoke about her hair, I FELT THAT. Crying while doing your hair is a different kind of pain. Especially for women who have 4C type hair.
@@queenblessyy her hair is probably 3c just because you could see her true curl pattern when its wet... i know a lot of people who thought the had type 4 hair because they only really paid attention to how it looked in its dry state hahaha
@@r0bz1985 yea its stupid to cry over hair but hair isn't what brought her to tears actually. It is her friend who could think abt her future situation and contributed to it by making life easier for her.
@@chidimmambbahoffor this has nothing to do with me. Kat is a stupid person for not asking hair dressers who are hair professionals for advice while she was already there.
when she said “i hope one day i can play a character that i actually look like” that made me so sad. she is so naturally beautiful! she doesn’t deserve to have to change for others, especially something that she can’t control. i love her hair so much. she deserves so much better.
@r0bz ok and u insecure person if that’s what’s makes her happy let her be I know you wouldn’t say this to madison beer who’s had eyebrows lifts lips plums but you still call her natural beauty stop hating on her if this what she likes to do u idiot commenting on every reply.
@r0bz it's really funny that you think you're really doing something with these tremendously ignorant comments. go watch content you actually like and care about ffs
Yass girl. I'm black, but I'm also Syrian/Indian. And it's hard enough putting my hair in one. That's why I love having someone cornrowing, plaiting and styling my hair for school/events(But I can also comb my hair but it's really long and have so much body). I was born and am living in Jamaica and it's so hard finding products that are good for my hair type,so I experiment ALOT, all of my siblings have different hair types. My older sisters hair is more afro, and a bit curly(kinda like 3c), she couldn't manage it so she choose to cream it🤣. My mom is Syrian/Chinese so her hair is wavy,have body and really long. Also, guys try onion, coconut oil, eggs and avocado in your hair, it's great and healthy
the worst part is the fact that she felt stupid about crying over her hair becuase thats what society has taught her. This woman does not deserve that. Poor Kat, i wish i could hug her. :( Her hair doesnt make her any less beautiful, i think she is one of the prettiest girls out there. Nothing can change that.
@@r0bz1985 HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS WETHER YOU AGREE OR NOT. Also, why are you replying to everyone’s comments, you seem not to have a life. Anyways, have a good day.😘
@@r0bz1985 It’s her preference, the fact that she wears wigs doesn’t take away the beauty of her natural hair; what she puts on her hair is none of your business. And please stop, your replies sound really dumb. K bye✌🏼
@@silentsubscriber4019 who is use to wearing it since birth and that hair type is accepted.. black women are programmed as a child to adjust their hair texture or cover it up
@@silentsubscriber4019 Most Middle Eastern women don't have type 4 hair. It's not uncommon, but most definitely not the majority. Type 4 is the least accepted by society because like most things, anything associated with blackness is seen as inferior.
She cried over hair, this is why diversity is important to be showcased on tv and social media, and celebrated. So that lil girls grow up beleiveing that theyre not ugly but beautiful.❤
@Lisa crawford no such thing as “good hair” in the way you’re using it. Healthy hair is good hair. Having looser curls patterns or straight hair does not mean you have good hair.
After this video, I did a bit of a dive on her past. She is a super hard working girl. All these mistreatment stories really shocked me. I always thought she was the most beautiful girl on TVD. Really a pity what she had to endure. I don't know if she would ever read this, but we are rooting for you Kat!
Sweet Fee -As much as it pains, don’t keep buying a lot of products. I could open a salon with all of my hair care products (I probably use 10 products right now). Journal your hair care, step by step with the products you use. Try to use the same products, in the same order for a month. I know you’ve heard it a million times, and I am honestly still trying to find the right balance, but water is the most important ingredient to your healthcare. Try to find a TH-camr, with your hair type, porosity, density, and length, to watch. Take care and stay Be-You-Tiful.
@@redglasses33 hi check out Afope Atoyebi's youtube channel. Search her name along with film forming humectants. I too had extremely dry hair for a few years. Afope speaks on what I found out through trial an error - film forming humectants is the way to go. My go to is sea moss jell (a film forming humectant). I melt it in warm water, let it cool and use that as a moisturizer and then seal it in with oil or grease. Hope that helps.
@@hummingbird4129 when you play a character you play someone else you are not playing yourself. I don't think she has to worry about it tho cause she does not get any acting roles anymore 😂
the fact that she’s crying as she reminisces about realizing that her natural hair is beautiful just shows how much of an affect black women’s hair in specific has a huge impact on our lives and how the standards of society can really take a toll, ESPECIALLY on black women.. 😞
@@r0bz1985 This is so rude...telling people to "Shut up"?? Such a lack of respect. I hope you can find a better vocabulary to express yourself and learn how to be respectful to other people.
@@thekims6271 Because white dominated cultures invented the modern concepts of race to justify racism, and decriminalize everything preceding the 3 pronged global slave trade. East asians were called yellow, natives/mid-east were called red, Africans/Jamaicans were called black while the now called "race" with the most blood on their hands ironically were called white to symbolize narcissistically incorrect purity which Hitler was a fan of.
This was one of the realist Vogue episodes in a long time. Her vulnerabilities showed right through the camera lens and the struggle is real especially dealing with natural hair with people of color. Societal norms and especially working in entertainment have white washed the perception of beauty. Kat should know and always know that she is beautiful.
Feel like every black woman can relate to this video. Especially when she broke down. It's so much more than hair. It's identity, culture, societal "worth". Very refreshing to see a woman with type 4 hair on Vogue
I think every girl who has curl hair I'm withe but my mom and graph are black But my father and his family is withe So turns that I'm like really with But my hair is curl and it's really difficult deal with the power of this. Because I'm to lasy too
Exactly, i hate when yt's said like "it's just hair." Hair is your crown, it can tell so many stories. Thats why they chopped off native american and korean hair so they would lose themselves.
Watching Kat cry brought me to tears, you can really see the pain in her eyes with what she’s had to deal with over the years especially the mistreatment during TVD. Her hair is absolutely beautiful! What an Amazing, strong women inside & out. Wish all the best for her got a lot of love.
I hope this doesn’t offend any black women at all but it makes me angry to see that black women can’t show their beautiful natural hair! It’s so unfair. Black is beautiful. Your features are absolutely gorgeous, your skin is angelic and so so glowingly gorgeous. Your hair is so freaking perfect. Don’t let anyone ever tell you different.
I really empathized with Kat's emotions during: 4:41-5:10 - I don't think those who were not born with highly textured African/Afro-textured hair will really grasp how much hair care is a big deal in the Nubian/Black community internationally. So thank you for highlighting your hair care routine and being vulnerable Kat, much appreciated!😊💫
“I hope that one day, I can play a character that I actually look like”. Smh... Whew, that hit me so hard. My hair is the exact same! Very honest, very beautiful. I toast you ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
r0bz Her eyes are naturally green/hazel so stop lying and she has shown her real hair but always straight and pressed flat never her natural kinky coils. Stop the hate!
Her story is TOO familiar. I attended an all-female, historically black college and I, along with so many of my sisters had to go through that same moment... we never had to deal with our natural hair, alone. What a real and relatable, raw moment.
I'm debating on going to hbc or going some place else. I feel I would be viewed as different by my peers. I not that's not the case I just feel like that
Serenityblu23 nope! i’ve lived in a predominantly white neighborhood growing up & once junior high & highschool hit diversity began to increase & i began to hangout with different types of people, including my first all black friend group, it was really nice to have people that looked like ME but i still found it hard to fit in with them & felt like i COULD be myself but NOT myself in a way & felt judged. but, i have the same concerns i really want to go to a hbcu to have that experience, representation, & just be with people that had the same struggles as me but found myself hesitant due to not wanting to be judged :/
My ignorance is showing... I had no idea that her hair on TVD wasn't her own. I almost cried with her when she got emotional about never being able to show the hair she was born with.
It’s not ignorance, so many people just never focused on her hair because they were more into the characters and storylines. We have to start being open, understanding and accepting of those who don’t look like us and have empathy because our situations are totally different.
I love how honest she’s being about Hollywood acceptance even on vogue she should have been on her before so many other ppl she been main stream actor for so long.
Watching this almost three years later… her testimony still hits hard, she really showed the world the struggles of learning to love your hair as a black/biracial woman❤
@@MixedChick1yes she said it correct as black/biracial woman because being biracial means you are two different ethnicities, for example white and Asian, Mexican and Indian anything. She said Black biracial meaning she is biracial, and her other side is black
I always wondered why they put you in these “horrible” wigs on TVD. Sis, Kat, all of us black girls can relate to the depth of the natural hair journey and we appreciate the honesty. I hope you’ll be able to do more roles that allow your natural crown to come through. Glad you’re wearing it with your head up high, Queen. We love you ❤️
You can almost feel that her hair and her blackness in her career life and personal life was a huge obstacle for her as she grew up. When she started crying I almost felt how frustrating it must have been for her over the years, bc I went thru the same thing realizing my blackness and embracing it. She is so stunning and I love her
Watching a black woman get this emotional over her hair made me realize everything I've taking for granted as a white women in the united states. The power of black women in this country inspire me to be a better woman, person, And friend. My heart aches for the struggles these woman go through that I will never understand. God bless everyone.
Thank you carry that you because black girls have days where they wake up and feel completely ugly at the age of 9 because of their hair I'm an example but I'm learning my hair's happiness weaknesses and strengths may God bless you
I'm really saddened by the fact, that I NEVER knew this is what her hair really looked like. In all of TVD I cannot believe they never showed her real hair even once. It also makes me sad that her mother never tried to educate herself on how to take care of her daughters hair. I'm happy for her that she is embracing her natural hair. She looks so happy and beautiful :)
I always admired how beautiful her hair looks on vampire diaries .. until now , I didn’t know it was a lace. I’m happy a lot of black women are embracing there natural hair . I’m glad she loving her natural hair and embracing it
r0bz1985 so glad no one argued with you because they saw the ignorance and knew not to even waste there time but I write this hoping you get a clue god bless you
I cried with her. Being “alone” with your natural hair can be overwhelming even for black women who are use to taking care of and managing their own hair, but for someone who has never had to face or deal with it themselves, to do it for the first time and realize you will be ok is very emotional. Kat is beautiful and I hate that she was treated so poorly on TVD. She didn’t deserve how they treated her and I hope she is happier than she has ever been.🥰
OH MY. This is why I ALWAYS say: hair is not just “hair”. I hate that most people minimize the fact that your hair is a big thing, it really matters. When people with a “softer” usually straight texture aka the one everybody want you to believe is the “best one” say that I shouldn’t worry about my hair I just wanna cry cause they don't know the EFFORT it takes for me to accept my natural hair when there’s a whole world telling me that I should change it’s natural way or how I treat it/style it. Quarantine was game changer for me, like everybody, I had to deal with my hair by myself. Since I was 6 my mom straightened my hair EVERY WEEK. Hence why I thought that was my destiny, to keep on straightening it till I die. Which is sad af cause once It gets wet (like every time I went to the beach) I just didn’t know what to do, literally. I've felt SO bad when i see how other girls just "do nothing" and their hair looks “good” while I have to struggle to feel ok, I stopped taking pictures of myself cause of it. And a friend of mine, when I was in high school made a joke about my hair that till this very day I haven't forget. I couldn’t handle it. So 2 months ago I made my mind up and decided that I can grow and rock my natural hair. Saddest part is that my fam don’t agree with it cause they think I’m gonna look “different”. I’m gonna prove them “different” and natural are beautiful as well.
Oh girl, sending you so much love it takes courage to do what you did!! I truly hope that you will learn how to do the right things for you hair and prove them wrong. Keep going!
I feel you! Let´s prove them :) natural hair can be soo beautiful when you take care of it properly. Now I like my natural curls way more better than straight hair ! One thing that changed my life was finger coiling and creams :) I´m wishing you good luck !
good for you!! just keep with it! it’s a long haul to grow out the damage, learn to care for it properly and put effort into it, that it’s easy to just quit and start straightening it again, but who wants to look like everybody else? it’s overrated. I’m sorry you don’t have support! And I think some people don’t realize how long lasting their words can be, because they forget probably just as quickly as they said it but the one it’s directed to carries it with them long after. Just try to rationalize that it was probably more about her own insecurities than anything about you and keep doing you, girl!
You got this despite of what everyone say and your family❤️❤️. Our type of “different” is beautiful and we can’t allow society to tear it down . I whole heartedly feel that you would look beautiful with your curls and I don’t even have to see you, straight hair is sooooo over rated and played out and as long as you know you look beautiful with your natural hair then no one can’t tell you other wise. I give you my support if no one else does ( not that it matters) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
@@hamiyed2245 exactly i agree, she has lovely hair how is it a vulnerability. It may make her feel vulnerable since she never shows it but its beautiful
@@Isabelm0rriss First of all, can you just look up the meaning of the statement “showing one's vulnerability”. Secondly, no one said her hair is a “vulnerability” smh.
this representation is exactly what we need more of, so many black women struggle with their hair everyday & seeing a routine like this shows that our hair is beautiful & it matters. thank you, do more!
All love to people like Rachel Lee, who help others embrace who they truly are!! Much love to Kat on this journey of finding out how fun her hair really is
It really isn't "just hair", and this is so great to see on such a large platform so that other girls can watch this and find the beauty in their natural hair. The entertainment industry needs to do a better job representing black women in our natural state. Love Kat Graham!
To all the interracial parents out there especially those who have biracial kids with a black person please try to learn how to do kinky hair. It is important for your child to grow up learning about their hair. So they won't have to go a lifetime depending on someone else to know how to because at the end of the day those people won't always be around. That part of this video spoke volumes to me. Kinky hair isn't a "societal beauty norm" here in America but it is BEAUTIFUL and if you learn how to take care of it it will in turn flourish. You'll be fine Kat!
if you have a biracial baby with a black person and you can’t handle their hair that should be child neglect. hair is so important to black people and these moms should make an effort to educate their kids on it.
@@CybrV-1 i somewhat understand. I just don't think it's child neglect if parents let other people do their children hair if they know how to. Yes they should educate themselves but it's still not child neglect in my eyes. My mom who is black btw would let people do my hair until i grew up and started doing my hair myself.
@@CybrV-1 I understand what you're saying, but black hair isn't a monolith. My mom has a completely different texture and need than mine. Styling? No problem. Care? Not entirely, but didn't kill my hair. Stylists that know what they're doing can give a better idea of what to do and what not to do.
@@r0bz1985 oh hello there, we meet again, this is like the 20th time you are replying to a comment negatively. It’s ok to be bored and not have a life, what isn’t ok though is for you to be spreading unnecessary toxicity.
So beautiful; inside and out. I cried when she cried. I didn't know she went through all that on TVD and it broke my heart for her. So happy she sees her beauty like we do. I hope she's still rocking her natural hair.
lol k Not u assuming what they meant 😂 I didn’t even notice until u pointed it out, I’ve always loved her eyes bevause of their shape size and the way they just look. Colour isn’t the only way eyes can look pretty
Even Ian known how Kat was treating really bad. Julie planned on making a season 9 but Kat said season 8 was her last season lan announced he wasn’t coming back either if she left, he left. He wants her to have strong story arc. Not just dead and dead all the seasons.
@@katelyn2523 black women have never be able to wear their hair naturally because you’d not be able to get a job, be called nappy headed, bullied, etc... plus, scientists never made hair products for black women mainstream. get an education of black hair & the affects society had on it before you tell me not to bring ETHNICITY into it. you don’t even know the difference between race & ethnicity. stop talking to me.
as an Indian , I never knew a thing like this existed.... There are many girls around me with this type of hair, no one never bullied them or anything, they never felt insecure either. I had no idea ppl would bully others because of their hair. I personally find this type of hair very beautiful. I cant believe there's a beauty standard for hair too, omg this society is effed up.
@@weirdasff yes it’s so crazy how we all experience different things in life & how we appreciate other cultures & lifestyles but some people just can’t accept others differences.
It warms my heart to see someone so comfortable and happy in their own skin and hair! Loving yourself can be tough, but you are making amazing strides and I couldn’t be happier!
My daughter is biracial with 3C curls and I have made it my mission to learn everything I can about her hair so she doesn’t grow up feeling this way. Absolutely broke my heart when she cried! 😭😭😭 Kat, your hair is beautiful.
Dynasty The Gemini exactly! She was constantly pushed to the side and for someone to simplify it as “her bf died and people are being dramatic” lacks so much nuance. the trope of black characters being used as a stepping stool for their white friends is lazy and tired. Bonnie B deserved so much more!
She looks so innocent, pure and excited about showing what the afro hair means to her. It was beautiful seeing her crying because not all black women know how to deal with their hair so I'm sure many of the viewers will relate to those feelings. I'm so proud and happy for her 🥰!!
I be wondering where were your black cousins and aunties when you bi-racial babies were growing up? I have a biracial niece and every time I see her I style her hair. It’s how we bond.
I felt it too, because I've been in this position for so, so long. I cried with her. It's not just hair, it's culture, it's who we are and we struggle to accept ourselves because of the way society makes us believe we're less worth. My mom couldn't deal with my hair either.
Her personality is as beautiful as she is!! I'm so surprised at how real and sweet she is! I love her so much more now!!🥰 I never watch beauty routines; I just watched hers to see how she would be... she did not disappoint 👏🏾! Proud of you my sister!! Keep on embracing your natural hair🥰🥰
Bonnie Bennet deserved better! who else is rewatching the Vampire dairies right now?! PS: Love that Kat is rocking her natural hair, whew! such a beauty. We're all on this journey with you girl! sending love and light your way
This made me want to cry because I feel like a lot a black girls went through this at one point! Props to her for her growth in accepting her natural hair. 💛💛💛
omg. the fact that she cried over finding something that made her comfortable with her OWN hair shows you how hollywood and media condition black women to feel like they need to fit western ideals to be beautiful.
i don't think it has anything to do with Hollywood, society has glorified straight hair for way too long and not to mentioooooon black women do like to hide their real hair all the time, they're just as guilty.
K' Lapis I’m sorry how are black women guilty for covering their hair when you literally just said society is more accepting of straight hair. She had to hide/alter her hair bc her own mother did not find her hair worthy enough to educate herself and her daughter to love and care for it. How would you expect young girls to grow up in that society and then easily accept an attribute that they’ve been conditioned to loathe??
@@gwenlambouths3754 I know what you mean, i meant women buying wigs and wanting to have straight hair instead of understanding that every hair type is beautiful is also a problem.
Her crying shows raw emotion and that the fact natiral hair NEEDS to be seen as an everyday thing. No black person should hide their curls/coils in order to be approved. Natural hair is beautiful
@Lia Keysgarner its not disrespectful, but tbh he race is biracial not black. I can see how that person would think its disrespectful tho, because their dishonring the other half of her.
I absolutely loved Kat on the Vampire Diaries. She was my favourite character on the show. I love seeing her embrace her natural hair, such a beautiful woman.
I think this has to be the best video Vogue has ever dropped. Wow. Im 21 years old I think this is one of the first times Ive ever felt like I could see myself in someone famous. She is a pure black girl going through a journey a lot of us have had to go through. It really is an emotional experience. Absolutely love her! More content like this please!!
She was straight up one of if not the most talented actresses on TVD. Seeing her be this vulnerable made me love her even more. We need to uplift each other. I am white but I want to see more diversity on my screen! I would watch the movies, watch the tv shows! Hollywood, get this right!!!
I’ve been a fan of Kat for a while and just never knew that she had this hair texture. I felt often times that I just couldn’t relate so I’m so happy that she’s on this hair journey like so many of us right now.
Black girl struggles are universal. I felt it too. I felt it worse when the 5 year old dark skinned girl looked at herself in the mirror and called herself ugly. Its hard
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Dear vogue, we don't want to see people applying skincare on top of their foundation.they have like almost everything done and turn off the filters please.we need transparency, otherwise want's the point of these videos.we are not dumb.
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*"I hope one day I can play a character that I actually look like."* That made me tear up a little
Amen 🙏
i can see her playing on "insecure" or maybe "the chi"
Awwww, bless you. It really was quite moving. 🧡🧡🧡
Meee toooooo. Black girls understand how you can go you entire life not knowing what your hair looks like 😔 because people don’t care to see it
Destiny Ekwueme not me
Why is nobody talking about Kat? Talk about her! She literally just cried in front of camera because of the struggles she's had with her natural hair, and loving and accepting it. This is her first vid like this and she is the most genuine celebrity I have seen! All of this is so genuine, I came here cuz I saw Kat's face, but now I have such a deeep respect and love for her.
I’m so used to calling her Bonnie that for a second I was like who’s Kat😂 but I agree!
you are right
I mean this is the real hair journey for many black girls and women or mixed girls and women. Personally, I was blessed to be raised by my black mom who knew and understood how to do my hair which is 4C curl pattern through time, effort, knowledge, and the legacy of life skills my grandmother passed to her. Even that wasn’t enough just in my immediate family all our hair textures are so different even though we’ve had similar hair struggles. But the pride we have through our hair by loving it, accepting it, growing with it, and working with it is priceless. It’s a everyday process and sometimes you have those bad days where you wrap it put it in a bonnet and call it a day. Lol. I’m glad she showed this side of her, I never thought to think during Vampire Dairies she was using sew ins and wigs (it makes sense) but in my opinion her natural hair is beautiful and makes her look younger.
So true
@@Maria-xu4vd me too
Her crying over her hair brought tears to my eyes. I’m so glad she is loving her natural hair because it’s gorgeous!
isn't it just! i thought she looked beautiful with the hair I've seen her with on tv and movies but her natural hair is just so much prettier AND its who SHE is. i feel so bad that so many different people have been made to suppress their culture and natural beauty, I'm glad she was able to show us her beauty in all of its glory!
My hair has made me cry many times throughout my life. I totally get how she was feeling.😭🤎
This is beautiful, y’all. I also starting crying because I too have curly hair and learning to love my hair after straightening it for YEARS has been a truly intense but fulfilling experience. Us curlies gotta stick together!
I have no idea if this is weird to say to strangers on TH-cam comments but imma say it anyway 😂 I’m so proud of y’all for not letting society erase and suppress your natural beauty.
My aunts recently embraced their natural hair and it was so empowering to see. I was once embarrassed about my Jamaican heritage but, especially over the past few months with BLM, I have become so proud of my heritage and I really hope that this movement will truly change the world for good so black people and all ethnic minorities can flourish and be their true, authentic selves. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!
Daniel Barnett it’s not weird at all and thank you so much, it means a lot
I don’t think she’s crying over hair, but moreover, identity. To come out and embrace your hair, especially when it’s not accepted in society, is an emotional process. It’s accepting yourself, and it’s saying you don’t care what others say anymore. She’s taking care of herself and her hair; that’s what it’s about.
She's completed her circle for self love
It’s def not over hair it’s because she was getting emotional about all the abuse she was facing
Lmao hair is not accepted in society😂? Please. It’s 2023. The fact tht privileged Americans cry and whine about hair and call it oppression is baffling to me. Americans are ao out of touch with the rest of the world. While yall are offended because a white person wore braids but called them french braids over box braids, there are people starving and dying. While yall cry because a stranger on the street accidentally used the wrong pronoun, there are children being sold into slavery. People are opressed all over the world. Kat Graham is not one of those people. Get over yourselves.
@@its_vlkxtyzthat's a lie. Black women all over the world feel like we have to hide ourselves because of our hair textures. She can be crying about the abuse but also about the fact that she's embracing her natural hair texture and learning to love it
Black girl hair is soooo emotional. Like... it is NOT a game. I felt her so hard when she was like, "Why am I crying over conditioner?" It's just that way sometimes. If you know, you know. We're a sisterhood, and we feel you. :-)
I’m white and I’ve cried over my curls too. It feels like it will be a lifelong journey to figure them out. And why do we put so much of our self worth into our hair?
Curly Crew
Honestly , I’ve found that a lot of white people just don’t know how to deal with curly hair. I bet if you grew up with me (I’m biracial) , you would’ve loved your hair haha.
Allison M
I would give so much to even have a friend with curls! The white society offers so little support for them!
I'm white and finally, 2 years ago I stopped straightening my hair. Ignore my profile pic haha that was back in 2010 when I straightened every single day. When I stopped straightening, I notice all my defined curls were gone. I was shocked to find how upset this made me. All my life I was told that straight hair is the most beautiful...every girl I knew straightened their hair. After a few months of not straightening my hair and not blow drying it, all my curls returned. I comb it with leave in conditioner after I shower and let it air dry. I love and appreciate my natural curls. All my white friends straighten their curly hair but one. My hair is so much thicker. I live in Florida with extreme humidity. My curly hair loves humidity haha makes it more curly. Embrace your curly hair. Curly hair is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you different!
I really do feel her...with every fiber of my BEING....this pandemic has helped me embrace my curls.....I'm going to a natural centric stylist so that she can cut the rest of this relaxer out of my hair......I cannot WAIT!!!!
“The African afro texture is not something that Hollywood has ever really embraced.. So I hope that one day I can play a character that I actually look like..” dang.
Says the woman who lives in green contact lenses and got a massive nose job lol
r0bz1985 why you hatin on every comment ?
@@r0bz1985 how do u know what she got and even if she does so whatt f off
@@r0bz1985 So you're proving her point....stupid
@@hungrychat7304 that makes no sense
"I hope that I one day can play a character that I actually look like." That was just so deep.
@r0bz why are u so horrible surely you have something better to do
@r0bz yes u are right,why 😩?
@r0bz yes is true, she is insecure and wish to look more like a white woman 😌
@r0bz you see you are miserable now stfu and stop being annoying and commenting the same thing
then she should apply to play a black girl with black hair. what is the problem?
she knew they would ask of her to wear a wig i doubt nina in the vampire diaries wanted to keep her hair in that same style for all those years. it is a role you play a job you get payed for people need to stop acting as if she hadn't a choice.
Her actual real hair would have complemented her role in the Vampire Diaries. She has such beautiful hair! She's so pretty naturally! Would love to see her in a role that would respect her natural self!
ALSO VAMPIRE DIARIES WOULD HAVE BEEN NOTHING WITHOUT YOU! YOU ARE A STAR!!
She's doesn't even wear her hair like this! She wears nothing but wigs to this day!
Yessss❤️🙌🏾
@Diamond James She still wears wigs to this day more than her natural hair...
@@shacks29 do we blame her??
@@shacks29 Look at the roles she still to this day is playing and what they require of her. It's easy to sit on here and say someone is wrong when you aren't in their position or have a job like them
When she started crying when she spoke about her hair, I FELT THAT. Crying while doing your hair is a different kind of pain. Especially for women who have 4C type hair.
Minnie well at least her hair isnt 4c. I know the struggles of true 4c. 😑
@@arp5546 would u say its 4b??
It's too bad she didn't have help getting to know her hair as a kid.
She definitely has 4b
@@queenblessyy her hair is probably 3c just because you could see her true curl pattern when its wet... i know a lot of people who thought the had type 4 hair because they only really paid attention to how it looked in its dry state hahaha
She's like "why am I crying? This is so stupid."
But am over here crying too cos it's so touching to have a caring friend.
No she's right it's stupid to cry over hair. Kim there's people that are dying
@@r0bz1985 yea its stupid to cry over hair but hair isn't what brought her to tears actually. It is her friend who could think abt her future situation and contributed to it by making life easier for her.
@@chidimmambbahoffor if she went to hair dressers she could easily asked for tips. I guess she's a stupid person
@@r0bz1985 Don't be hateful.
I know we are all going through things. But don't take yours out on her. Pls
@@chidimmambbahoffor this has nothing to do with me. Kat is a stupid person for not asking hair dressers who are hair professionals for advice while she was already there.
when she said “i hope one day i can play a character that i actually look like” that made me so sad. she is so naturally beautiful! she doesn’t deserve to have to change for others, especially something that she can’t control. i love her hair so much. she deserves so much better.
@r0bz definition of privilege
@r0bz ok and u insecure person if that’s what’s makes her happy let her be I know you wouldn’t say this to madison beer who’s had eyebrows lifts lips plums but you still call her natural beauty stop hating on her if this what she likes to do u idiot commenting on every reply.
@r0bz it's really funny that you think you're really doing something with these tremendously ignorant comments. go watch content you actually like and care about ffs
@r0bz just like no one asked for your irrelevant ones you cretin
@r0bz ur literally so obsessed with Kat that ur under every comment, it’s funny yet sad, just say ur soooooo in love with her that it hurts and go
I love Kat’s transparency in this. As a black woman I completely feel her and when she cried I cried too! It’s deeper than just hair.
It's absolutely deeper than hair.
@diopfifi4937 Her real hair is gorgeous I would love to have seen her afro on tvd, all hair textures are beautiful ❤
The fact that I’ve never seen her natural hair before on the vampire diaries is kinda crazy...
I realized that when I last rewatched it. She may have had braids once...
Micah Williams Don’t bother clicking on that link above, it’s literally just some stupid song which has nothing to do with Bonnie’s hair on tvd.
same
fandomheart thanks. ThT was random
i saw this and thouh the same...I wish she could have worn her hair on the show
No ones gonna talk about how she is literally glowing she is so beautiful
Yessss!!!
Wait...... ok I talked bye imma go say some more
frrr
Ikr
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It hurts me to see how society has affected black girls throughout the years. Everyone should be able to embrace their natural beauty.
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Yass girl. I'm black, but I'm also Syrian/Indian. And it's hard enough putting my hair in one. That's why I love having someone cornrowing, plaiting and styling my hair for school/events(But I can also comb my hair but it's really long and have so much body). I was born and am living in Jamaica and it's so hard finding products that are good for my hair type,so I experiment ALOT, all of my siblings have different hair types. My older sisters hair is more afro, and a bit curly(kinda like 3c), she couldn't manage it so she choose to cream it🤣. My mom is Syrian/Chinese so her hair is wavy,have body and really long. Also, guys try onion, coconut oil, eggs and avocado in your hair, it's great and healthy
If only we knew.
It’s Makaela Shes mixed with black. Her dad is black... well America Liberian which have African American Ancestry. And her mom is Jewish.
the worst part is the fact that she felt stupid about crying over her hair becuase thats what society has taught her. This woman does not deserve that. Poor Kat, i wish i could hug her. :( Her hair doesnt make her any less beautiful, i think she is one of the prettiest girls out there. Nothing can change that.
As someone who has the same hair type as her, i love this comment sm
Her hair is GORGEOUS 😍
No it's not. She doesn't seem to think much of it either putting it away in a housewife bun
@@r0bz1985 HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS WETHER YOU AGREE OR NOT.
Also, why are you replying to everyone’s comments, you seem not to have a life.
Anyways, have a good day.😘
@@alz2sxi if its so gorgeous why is she still wearing wigs in all her insta pix?
@@r0bz1985 It’s her preference, the fact that she wears wigs doesn’t take away the beauty of her natural hair; what she puts on her hair is none of your business. And please stop, your replies sound really dumb.
K bye✌🏼
@@alz2sxi it's her preference to wear wigs get a nose job and wear green contact lenses so she should stop crying and being a baby. She's fake
only black woman understand how powerful and spiritual it is to start owning and using YOUR hair. I got emotional with her. Its powerful
White people can have curcly hair
@@silentsubscriber4019 who is use to wearing it since birth and that hair type is accepted.. black women are programmed as a child to adjust their hair texture or cover it up
@@silentsubscriber4019 What about them? We’re talking about black women because we are black women.
@@silentsubscriber4019 Most Middle Eastern women don't have type 4 hair. It's not uncommon, but most definitely not the majority. Type 4 is the least accepted by society because like most things, anything associated with blackness is seen as inferior.
@@JLDReactions thank you. i swear the "what about me" train is NEVER late
She cried over hair, this is why diversity is important to be showcased on tv and social media, and celebrated. So that lil girls grow up beleiveing that theyre not ugly but beautiful.❤
@Lisa crawford no such thing as “good hair” in the way you’re using it. Healthy hair is good hair. Having looser curls patterns or straight hair does not mean you have good hair.
@Lisa crawford girl bye
@Lisa crawford You sound so ignorant 🙄
I think she's also crying because of her journey with those racist people on Vampire Diaries
Yes yes!!!!!
After this video, I did a bit of a dive on her past. She is a super hard working girl. All these mistreatment stories really shocked me. I always thought she was the most beautiful girl on TVD. Really a pity what she had to endure. I don't know if she would ever read this, but we are rooting for you Kat!
@r0bz _ I don't have Instagram :) But I would think there is still a difference between wanting to wear them and expected to wear them, no?
Honestly she is just so beautiful
When she cried over finding a product that works for her curls... I felt that
been natural 2 years and have yet to find a product for my hair. May give that conditioner a try
Sweet Fee -As much as it pains, don’t keep buying a lot of products. I could open a salon with all of my hair care products (I probably use 10 products right now). Journal your hair care, step by step with the products you use. Try to use the same products, in the same order for a month. I know you’ve heard it a million times, and I am honestly still trying to find the right balance, but water is the most important ingredient to your healthcare. Try to find a TH-camr, with your hair type, porosity, density, and length, to watch. Take care and stay Be-You-Tiful.
SAMEEEE
Me toooo
@@redglasses33 hi check out Afope Atoyebi's youtube channel. Search her name along with film forming humectants. I too had extremely dry hair for a few years. Afope speaks on what I found out through trial an error - film forming humectants is the way to go. My go to is sea moss jell (a film forming humectant). I melt it in warm water, let it cool and use that as a moisturizer and then seal it in with oil or grease. Hope that helps.
"i HOPE THAT ONE DAY I PLAY A CHARACTER THAT I ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE" felt that!
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Says the woman who lives in green contact lenses
🗣 Volumes
@@hummingbird4129 when you play a character you play someone else you are not playing yourself. I don't think she has to worry about it tho cause she does not get any acting roles anymore 😂
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the fact that she’s crying as she reminisces about realizing that her natural hair is beautiful just shows how much of an affect black women’s hair in specific has a huge impact on our lives and how the standards
of society can really take a toll, ESPECIALLY on black women.. 😞
Oh shut up
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r0bz1985 what is wrong with you
@@r0bz1985 This is so rude...telling people to "Shut up"?? Such a lack of respect. I hope you can find a better vocabulary to express yourself and learn how to be respectful to other people.
r0bz1985 go listen to your mariah carey playlist
The way she cried about her hair hit me SO HARD as a 15 year old blck girl who’s still learning to control her hair :)
Don’t say control sis. Say embraces, our hair doesn’t need to be controlled or tamed. 🥰
Hey , why is it like that ? What's wrong with hair ? Is it because it's too curly?
@@thekims6271 Because white dominated cultures invented the modern concepts of race to justify racism, and decriminalize everything preceding the 3 pronged global slave trade. East asians were called yellow, natives/mid-east were called red, Africans/Jamaicans were called black while the now called "race" with the most blood on their hands ironically were called white to symbolize narcissistically incorrect purity which Hitler was a fan of.
ugh yes, trying to get it tobstay dowm for school is such a struggle :(
Your skin is beautiful I hope I also have same...
This was one of the realist Vogue episodes in a long time. Her vulnerabilities showed right through the camera lens and the struggle is real especially dealing with natural hair with people of color. Societal norms and especially working in entertainment have white washed the perception of beauty. Kat should know and always know that she is beautiful.
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I hope she reads these comments. They're so encouraging
Feel like every black woman can relate to this video. Especially when she broke down. It's so much more than hair. It's identity, culture, societal "worth". Very refreshing to see a woman with type 4 hair on Vogue
i love this comment so much
Exactly used to straighten the shut out of mine but now I’ve learnt to live and manage it
I think every girl who has curl hair
I'm withe but my mom and graph are black
But my father and his family is withe
So turns that I'm like really with
But my hair is curl and it's really difficult deal with the power of this.
Because I'm to lasy too
I cried with her because trying to find the right product, learning about your hair, also wasting your money in the process takes a toll.
Yonique Waisome I dmed you on instagram 😁
People don't realize that she wasn't just crying about her hair, there's something deeper 🥺
The ✨ *racism* ✨she had to go through as an actress. I don't know when we will get accepted to be our natural selves
Exactly, i hate when yt's said like "it's just hair." Hair is your crown, it can tell so many stories. Thats why they chopped off native american and korean hair so they would lose themselves.
It was racism she had to experience working with Hollywood they did her dirty and she is still thankful
Yeah RACISM
@@deadchannel3610 exactly our hair is a big part of us and our culture!
Watching Kat cry brought me to tears, you can really see the pain in her eyes with what she’s had to deal with over the years especially the mistreatment during TVD. Her hair is absolutely beautiful! What an Amazing, strong women inside & out. Wish all the best for her got a lot of love.
I hope this doesn’t offend any black women at all but it makes me angry to see that black women can’t show their beautiful natural hair! It’s so unfair. Black is beautiful. Your features are absolutely gorgeous, your skin is angelic and so so glowingly gorgeous. Your hair is so freaking perfect. Don’t let anyone ever tell you different.
Thank you dear
No offence taken... thank you love!
No offense at all.
You are absolutely right!I am black and proudly rocking my natural hair. I hope more of us embrace our natural crown!
Thank you so much! This comment makes me feel so much better about being black, we need more people like you in the world!!! Much love ❤
Her crying talking about her experience with her natural hair is something many black women can relate to🥺 Kat’s such a beautiful person
I agree!
Yes, I just wanted to hug her and let her know she's not alone.
Yep!
My husband and I always talk about how she was literally the most beautiful one on Vampire diaries!! She is stunning!
Uh Elena says hi. But she didn't age well tho. Oh Stefan says hi as well
@@r0bz1985 i don't see why we have to compare bonnie and elena🙄
@@fabianacarrascoguzman6803 don't pay attention to them, they're replying to every comment about Kat and being disrespectful.
Agree and Hayley is one of the prettiest one too
I feel Ian was more beautiful and stunning🙃🙃🙃
I really empathized with Kat's emotions during: 4:41-5:10 - I don't think those who were not born with highly textured African/Afro-textured hair will really grasp how much hair care is a big deal in the Nubian/Black community internationally. So thank you for highlighting your hair care routine and being vulnerable Kat, much appreciated!😊💫
“I hope that one day, I can play a character that I actually look like”. Smh... Whew, that hit me so hard. My hair is the exact same! Very honest, very beautiful. I toast you ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Me too.
Sameee
her character in cut throat city is 😍😍
“I hope I can play a character that I actually look like.” That qoute hits hard
I cut my hair after 4 years of being natural😪th-cam.com/video/gctKQ8MyL0Q/w-d-xo.html..please show me some love and support 😭
True it does
Bro Jada’s my name
@@jadalawes3106 broooo sameee ahhh loll
Very powerful
This woman is being so stunning whilst also being so vulnerable. How refreshing. :)
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when she cried and apologized.... NOOO you don't have to apologize! Tbh the shows she's been on should apologize to HER (looking @ you, TVD)
Foreal man , they did her dirty the entire show over
r0bz
Her eyes are naturally green/hazel so stop lying and she has shown her real hair but always straight and pressed flat never her natural kinky coils. Stop the hate!
@r0bz so body shaming is ok?
@r0bz thata he natural nose you weirdo
@r0bz And it doesnt matter if she still wears wigs sometimes.
She’s so beautiful. Not even just looks.
I agree.
True!
Yes
I didn't know her but she got me in this video. 👏👏
Her story is TOO familiar. I attended an all-female, historically black college and I, along with so many of my sisters had to go through that same moment... we never had to deal with our natural hair, alone. What a real and relatable, raw moment.
I'm debating on going to hbc or going some place else. I feel I would be viewed as different by my peers. I not that's not the case I just feel like that
Serenityblu23 feel the exact same way!!
@@kelli24 i thought i was the only one
Serenityblu23 nope! i’ve lived in a predominantly white neighborhood growing up & once junior high & highschool hit diversity began to increase & i began to hangout with different types of people, including my first all black friend group, it was really nice to have people that looked like ME but i still found it hard to fit in with them & felt like i COULD be myself but NOT myself in a way & felt judged. but, i have the same concerns i really want to go to a hbcu to have that experience, representation, & just be with people that had the same struggles as me but found myself hesitant due to not wanting to be judged :/
Serenityblu23 go to an hbcu
This made me cry. My heart goes out to her but I’m so glad she’s embracing and accepting of her own hair. Young girls need to see this
She doesn’t even need the makeup. Just absolutely beautiful.
Exactly, i saw no change
She doesnt wear make up because she needs it. Stop with this mentality.
YES
I was thinking the same. She is gorgeous with make up or with out the make up.
She's Amasing.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
My ignorance is showing... I had no idea that her hair on TVD wasn't her own. I almost cried with her when she got emotional about never being able to show the hair she was born with.
It’s not ignorance, so many people just never focused on her hair because they were more into the characters and storylines. We have to start being open, understanding and accepting of those who don’t look like us and have empathy because our situations are totally different.
@@CR-ce5lf You're so right. Thank you for responding to my comment :)
Hi Emma
@@iansomerhalderfanpage5975 make some content .
You thought her hair was naturally straight?
I love how honest she’s being about Hollywood acceptance even on vogue she should have been on her before so many other ppl she been main stream actor for so long.
Amen
Watching this almost three years later… her testimony still hits hard, she really showed the world the struggles of learning to love your hair as a black/biracial woman❤
she is mixed not black
@@MixedChick1she literally said black/ BIRACIAL. key word, BIRACIAL
@@kaileighmosley9317 It's just biracial woman not black/biracial woman!.
@@MixedChick1yes she said it correct as black/biracial woman because being biracial means you are two different ethnicities, for example white and Asian, Mexican and Indian anything. She said Black biracial meaning she is biracial, and her other side is black
The most disrespected yet most valuable character on tvd was Bonnie Bennet.
If she was made the most valuable, then how was she the most disrespected?
I agree, she literally saved the world. She deserved better. To me she was the strongest witch and female character in TVD. Followed by Caroline
Truth
I want her to produce her own show and get better treatment
Niyah R you sound like you haven’t watched the show.
I always wondered why they put you in these “horrible” wigs on TVD. Sis, Kat, all of us black girls can relate to the depth of the natural hair journey and we appreciate the honesty. I hope you’ll be able to do more roles that allow your natural crown to come through. Glad you’re wearing it with your head up high, Queen. We love you ❤️
The only god wig was season 4 with the bang, the rest was not it
The only one I saw that was good was when she was with enzo.🙄🤦🏽
What hair product did she use?
Omg i know. They made me mad when they put her in those bad wigs. There was only like one good wig
_.1jaliyah ** yep
You can almost feel that her hair and her blackness in her career life and personal life was a huge obstacle for her as she grew up. When she started crying I almost felt how frustrating it must have been for her over the years, bc I went thru the same thing realizing my blackness and embracing it. She is so stunning and I love her
I cannot believe this is the first time seeing her natural hair texture. ❤
The reason it's your first time seeing it is because she still wears nothing but wigs. She's full of sht and doesn't wear her hair thisbway
Watching a black woman get this emotional over her hair made me realize everything I've taking for granted as a white women in the united states. The power of black women in this country inspire me to be a better woman, person, And friend. My heart aches for the struggles these woman go through that I will never understand. God bless everyone.
Reading this made me emotional thank you and God bless you too🙏🏾
Thank you
carry that you
because black girls have days where they wake up and feel completely ugly at the age of 9 because of their hair
I'm an example
but I'm learning my hair's happiness weaknesses and strengths
may God bless you
Thank you for your words
I like that even tho u r a white woman u understand her struggles its really good ☺🙂🙂🙂
💙💙💙
I'm really saddened by the fact, that I NEVER knew this is what her hair really looked like. In all of TVD I cannot believe they never showed her real hair even once. It also makes me sad that her mother never tried to educate herself on how to take care of her daughters hair. I'm happy for her that she is embracing her natural hair. She looks so happy and beautiful :)
I always admired how beautiful her hair looks on vampire diaries .. until now , I didn’t know it was a lace. I’m happy a lot of black women are embracing there natural hair . I’m glad she loving her natural hair and embracing it
Fact
She always wears wigs even now. Check her Insta all wigs
Super off topic but I love your pfp
@@jasmentea7444 if this was meant for me, Thank you! It is one of my many obsessions 💜🥰
When she cried over her hair I felt that so bad, it’s so hard trying to tame my hair and finding the right product is such a relief for natural hair.
I cringed. Crying about hair? Stfu!
My hair gets dry easily so, I try to just use simpler products and increase my water intake
r0bz1985 so glad no one argued with you because they saw the ignorance and knew not to even waste there time but I write this hoping you get a clue god bless you
@@r0bz1985 Bro shut up she has feelings and i would cry too! :\
@@nyah064 I said wtf I said.. 😒
I cried with her. Being “alone” with your natural hair can be overwhelming even for black women who are use to taking care of and managing their own hair, but for someone who has never had to face or deal with it themselves, to do it for the first time and realize you will be ok is very emotional. Kat is beautiful and I hate that she was treated so poorly on TVD. She didn’t deserve how they treated her and I hope she is happier than she has ever been.🥰
OH MY. This is why I ALWAYS say: hair is not just “hair”. I hate that most people minimize the fact that your hair is a big thing, it really matters. When people with a “softer” usually straight texture aka the one everybody want you to believe is the “best one” say that I shouldn’t worry about my hair I just wanna cry cause they don't know the EFFORT it takes for me to accept my natural hair when there’s a whole world telling me that I should change it’s natural way or how I treat it/style it. Quarantine was game changer for me, like everybody, I had to deal with my hair by myself. Since I was 6 my mom straightened my hair EVERY WEEK. Hence why I thought that was my destiny, to keep on straightening it till I die. Which is sad af cause once It gets wet (like every time I went to the beach) I just didn’t know what to do, literally. I've felt SO bad when i see how other girls just "do nothing" and their hair looks “good” while I have to struggle to feel ok, I stopped taking pictures of myself cause of it. And a friend of mine, when I was in high school made a joke about my hair that till this very day I haven't forget. I couldn’t handle it. So 2 months ago I made my mind up and decided that I can grow and rock my natural hair. Saddest part is that my fam don’t agree with it cause they think I’m gonna look “different”. I’m gonna prove them “different” and natural are beautiful as well.
Oh girl, sending you so much love it takes courage to do what you did!! I truly hope that you will learn how to do the right things for you hair and prove them wrong. Keep going!
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I feel you! Let´s prove them :) natural hair can be soo beautiful when you take care of it properly. Now I like my natural curls way more better than straight hair ! One thing that changed my life was finger coiling and creams :) I´m wishing you good luck !
good for you!! just keep with it! it’s a long haul to grow out the damage, learn to care for it properly and put effort into it, that it’s easy to just quit and start straightening it again, but who wants to look like everybody else? it’s overrated.
I’m sorry you don’t have support! And I think some people don’t realize how long lasting their words can be, because they forget probably just as quickly as they said it but the one it’s directed to carries it with them long after. Just try to rationalize that it was probably more about her own insecurities than anything about you and keep doing you, girl!
You got this despite of what everyone say and your family❤️❤️. Our type of “different” is beautiful and we can’t allow society to tear it down . I whole heartedly feel that you would look beautiful with your curls and I don’t even have to see you, straight hair is sooooo over rated and played out and as long as you know you look beautiful with your natural hair then no one can’t tell you other wise. I give you my support if no one else does ( not that it matters) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Am I the only one who's never seen her real hair? I love her even more especially for showing her vulnerability. 💛
her what ??? what do you mean by "her vulnerability" ? she has a nice hair. why does it have to be a vulnerability ?
@@hamiyed2245 You clearly did not watch the video.
hami yed please rewatch and listen carefully.
@@hamiyed2245 exactly i agree, she has lovely hair how is it a vulnerability. It may make her feel vulnerable since she never shows it but its beautiful
@@Isabelm0rriss First of all, can you just look up the meaning of the statement “showing one's vulnerability”. Secondly, no one said her hair is a “vulnerability” smh.
this representation is exactly what we need more of, so many black women struggle with their hair everyday & seeing a routine like this shows that our hair is beautiful & it matters. thank you, do more!
GOLD. She’s not black, she’s biracial. She even told you silly black lady.
@@OliCampify she still seen as black when someone looks at her they consider her as a black women
Olivia Richards her hair story is more relatable to other black women than it is to white women, even if she’s biracial, you stupid lady.
Olivia Richards “silly black lady” are your serious? People see her as black.
Olivia Richards olivia hunny don’t be stupid
All love to people like Rachel Lee, who help others embrace who they truly are!!
Much love to Kat on this journey of finding out how fun her hair really is
Who’s Rachel lee?
It really isn't "just hair", and this is so great to see on such a large platform so that other girls can watch this and find the beauty in their natural hair. The entertainment industry needs to do a better job representing black women in our natural state. Love Kat Graham!
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You are definitely sure😘
To all the interracial parents out there especially those who have biracial kids with a black person please try to learn how to do kinky hair. It is important for your child to grow up learning about their hair. So they won't have to go a lifetime depending on someone else to know how to because at the end of the day those people won't always be around. That part of this video spoke volumes to me. Kinky hair isn't a "societal beauty norm" here in America but it is BEAUTIFUL and if you learn how to take care of it it will in turn flourish. You'll be fine Kat!
if you have a biracial baby with a black person and you can’t handle their hair that should be child neglect. hair is so important to black people and these moms should make an effort to educate their kids on it.
@@CybrV-1 i somewhat understand. I just don't think it's child neglect if parents let other people do their children hair if they know how to. Yes they should educate themselves but it's still not child neglect in my eyes. My mom who is black btw would let people do my hair until i grew up and started doing my hair myself.
Latifah Maarbach I get what you’re saying but h they don’t even bother. It should be mandatory. Kats mom didn’t even try.
@@CybrV-1 I understand what you're saying, but black hair isn't a monolith. My mom has a completely different texture and need than mine. Styling? No problem. Care? Not entirely, but didn't kill my hair. Stylists that know what they're doing can give a better idea of what to do and what not to do.
Rhiza Cope this is about biracial kids tho so stay on topic. I
When she cried about the conditioner...I felt that
Corny. Crying about conditioner? Kim there's people that are dying
@@r0bz1985 oh hello there, we meet again, this is like the 20th time you are replying to a comment negatively.
It’s ok to be bored and not have a life, what isn’t ok though is for you to be spreading unnecessary toxicity.
@@alz2sxi period
@@thecoolest5813 yasss💅🏽😂
@@alz2sxi I'm sorry who are you? I have no idea
So beautiful; inside and out. I cried when she cried. I didn't know she went through all that on TVD and it broke my heart for her. So happy she sees her beauty like we do. I hope she's still rocking her natural hair.
Her hair, her eyes, everything oml. so stunning
@@naydd9459 wym, contacts? regardless she still has beautiful eyes
@r0bz she’s wearing contacts now, but she does have dark hazel eyes
lol k Not u assuming what they meant 😂 I didn’t even notice until u pointed it out, I’ve always loved her eyes bevause of their shape size and the way they just look. Colour isn’t the only way eyes can look pretty
@@naydd9459 Her eye shape is beautiful and theyre a perfect size in my opinion. You must be a pale person
@@naydd9459 bruh those aren't contacts. That's her real eye color.
My god this woman is naturally gorgeous I swear she looks like she hasn't aged since her role as Bonnie bennet !!
The show only ended in 2017 it was not that long ago
eatjinskookie yeah but, some people don’t age that quickly, good genes and taking care of theirselves 😐
black doesn’t crack
@@r0bz1985 a lot of her cast members have aged
r0bz1985 u are replying every comment negatively 💀 like boy please
It’s really sad they didn’t let Kat embrace her self. Although it’s just hair, it has way more meaning than that.
@Ayaan Misbah Yes!
Agreed she was the best actor, character and she was honestly the prettiest on the show she literally treated her like a dog on the streets
@@iheart_c4ts11 RIGHTTTT I LOVE HER
why are you guys lying about her hair being "beautiful" when obviously it's not?
@@KanadeLapis fr lmao
She's a such a queen! It hurts to hear how much she had to go through... her natural is so beautiful, just like her.❤
Don’t apologize Kat, Julie should be apologizing she treated you bad through the years of Tvd. That racist woman does not deserve you
I agree I’m so glad the cast stood up for her
@@hehebug3103 specially Ian he said he would leave the show with Kat if they killed Bonnie
Cast Except Matt And Alaric
They Racist Asf👁👄👁
@@Darkwaifu right, stupid selves
Wait, what happened? O_O
Even Ian known how Kat was treating really bad. Julie planned on making a season 9 but Kat said season 8 was her last season lan announced he wasn’t coming back either if she left, he left. He wants her to have strong story arc. Not just dead and dead all the seasons.
What do you mean what did I miss who was treating her bad
Yes honestly that series is very not so poc oriented
It’s actually disappointing how people treat each other
@@Klynker exactly I was shocked she carried Vampire Diaries
Nina also didn’t want to come back for it
as a black woman, I hope she knows we understand how she feels and we are with her in her hair care journey. you go sis !!!
Why bring race into everything? While woman and other race go through this to but ok.
@Queen Nikki same with every other race.
@@katelyn2523 black women have never be able to wear their hair naturally because you’d not be able to get a job, be called nappy headed, bullied, etc... plus, scientists never made hair products for black women mainstream. get an education of black hair & the affects society had on it before you tell me not to bring ETHNICITY into it. you don’t even know the difference between race & ethnicity. stop talking to me.
as an Indian , I never knew a thing like this existed.... There are many girls around me with this type of hair, no one never bullied them or anything, they never felt insecure either. I had no idea ppl would bully others because of their hair. I personally find this type of hair very beautiful. I cant believe there's a beauty standard for hair too, omg this society is effed up.
@@weirdasff yes it’s so crazy how we all experience different things in life & how we appreciate other cultures & lifestyles but some people just can’t accept others differences.
It warms my heart to see someone so comfortable and happy in their own skin and hair! Loving yourself can be tough, but you are making amazing strides and I couldn’t be happier!
When she started crying I couldn't hold back my tears, sucks that she felt like that about her natural hair, she is gorgeous
It wasn't supposed to be a sad moment. This was her breakthrough in her journey. Nothing sad about it.
JustS it was sad to the person who commented
@@ggghffg1676 Clearly, and they clearly had a surface level interpretation.
She is crying 😢 because she is finally able to embrace who she really is and it’s beautiful to see her walk into her power in front of all of us
My daughter is biracial with 3C curls and I have made it my mission to learn everything I can about her hair so she doesn’t grow up feeling this way. Absolutely broke my heart when she cried! 😭😭😭 Kat, your hair is beautiful.
You’re striving to be the mom your baby deserves. Go mamma!
Thank you for taking the time to learn that’s so important it’s really not just hair it’s a part of her 🥰
Thank you for doing that. Hair doing is mother daughter bonding time. When your mother can’t do your here is like rejecting alert of you.
you're amazing
Casablanca Durant this advice is sooooo relevant. And parents of mixed children should be educated on this like serious education!
5:24 noo omg im literally in tears 💔she didn't have to apologize for crying we all love you the way you are Kat
When she started crying about her hair I wanted to give her a hug 😭😭
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I'll never forget Julie Plecc for what she did to her character. Bonnie Bennett deserved better and so did Kat!
Ikr
Jasmine Crutchfield what happened?
@@jessieesours8762 her bf Enzo died at the end of tvd...so she didn't get a happy end...ppl are being over dramatic lol
I know. I feel the same. They did her so wrong.
Dynasty The Gemini exactly! She was constantly pushed to the side and for someone to simplify it as “her bf died and people are being dramatic” lacks so much nuance. the trope of black characters being used as a stepping stool for their white friends is lazy and tired. Bonnie B deserved so much more!
She looks so innocent, pure and excited about showing what the afro hair means to her. It was beautiful seeing her crying because not all black women know how to deal with their hair so I'm sure many of the viewers will relate to those feelings. I'm so proud and happy for her 🥰!!
Dude, she's so pure, so cute! She's finally free! She deserves the word😭💜💜
It’s not just hair. IT HAS NEVER BEEN JUST HAIR.
Bonnie the Bennett witch Exactly it’s just hair it’s a blessing to feel beautiful comfortable and manageable in you hair and skin
When they right in laws and rules about your hair...no, it's not just hair.
blackkatt777 exactly when you can get kicked out, discriminated against bc of your hair it’s not just hair
I’m bi-racial & I FELT the tears when she was talking about her hair...like felt it y’all.
What she mixed with? I never knew she was.
Miss’ Tyy her dad is a bit of liberian and her mom is white. so basically black and white
I be wondering where were your black cousins and aunties when you bi-racial babies were growing up? I have a biracial niece and every time I see her I style her hair. It’s how we bond.
I felt it too, because I've been in this position for so, so long. I cried with her. It's not just hair, it's culture, it's who we are and we struggle to accept ourselves because of the way society makes us believe we're less worth. My mom couldn't deal with my hair either.
Yasmim Miranda it sucks that society try to make us feel less than what we are. Like we have the most beautiful hair.
this is the REALEST and most HONEST interview I have ever seen on here. they need to bring people like this especially with natural hair.
Her personality is as beautiful as she is!! I'm so surprised at how real and sweet she is! I love her so much more now!!🥰 I never watch beauty routines; I just watched hers to see how she would be... she did not disappoint 👏🏾! Proud of you my sister!! Keep on embracing your natural hair🥰🥰
Bonnie Bennet deserved better! who else is rewatching the Vampire dairies right now?!
PS: Love that Kat is rocking her natural hair, whew! such a beauty. We're all on this journey with you girl! sending love and light your way
Meeeee I was binge watching it yesterday
I re-watch it so much that I literally know some lines word for word 😂🤦♀️
I'm obsessed! it never gets old
Robert dallas yessss
Omg me
"I hope to one day play a character that I actually look like." WOW. That really touched me
This made me want to cry because I feel like a lot a black girls went through this at one point! Props to her for her growth in accepting her natural hair. 💛💛💛
Cry girl. I did. I can completely relate.
Shoutout to kat's hairstylist rachel for helping kat find her confidence 💘💘💞
What was the product that she first put in her hair during the video ❣️
I also wanna use it ☺️❤
omg. the fact that she cried over finding something that made her comfortable with her OWN hair shows you how hollywood and media condition black women to feel like they need to fit western ideals to be beautiful.
i don't think it has anything to do with Hollywood, society has glorified straight hair for way too long and not to mentioooooon black women do like to hide their real hair all the time, they're just as guilty.
K' Lapis I’m sorry how are black women guilty for covering their hair when you literally just said society is more accepting of straight hair. She had to hide/alter her hair bc her own mother did not find her hair worthy enough to educate herself and her daughter to love and care for it. How would you expect young girls to grow up in that society and then easily accept an attribute that they’ve been conditioned to loathe??
Gwen Lambouths just shut up lol all yall do is whine give it a rest for a day geez
@@gwenlambouths3754 I know what you mean, i meant women buying wigs and wanting to have straight hair instead of understanding that every hair type is beautiful is also a problem.
K' Lapis they are told their hair is unprofessional. They are forced by society to cover it or treat it.
Why is no one talking about how she plugged black owned products
I know right😍😍
Cantu is no longer black owned i believe but a good product
Latricia she didn’t say Cantu was black owned it was the coil cream she used after .
@@danielleembry6366 lol okay im aware i was just letting them know a lot of people dont
So?
Her crying shows raw emotion and that the fact natiral hair NEEDS to be seen as an everyday thing. No black person should hide their curls/coils in order to be approved. Natural hair is beautiful
She’s BIRACIAL NOT BLACK. Respect her race.
LaBelleNoire literally I’ve met so many biracial ppl who claim to be black and say they’re black
LaBelleNoire , plz shut up...
@Lia Keysgarner its not disrespectful, but tbh he race is biracial not black. I can see how that person would think its disrespectful tho, because their dishonring the other half of her.
LaBelleNoire in the eyes of the law and the world, she’s black, all biracial ppl are black😻👍🏾.
I absolutely loved Kat on the Vampire Diaries. She was my favourite character on the show. I love seeing her embrace her natural hair, such a beautiful woman.
I think this has to be the best video Vogue has ever dropped. Wow. Im 21 years old I think this is one of the first times Ive ever felt like I could see myself in someone famous. She is a pure black girl going through a journey a lot of us have had to go through. It really is an emotional experience. Absolutely love her! More content like this please!!
Oh please
Girl what does “pure black” mean?
She was straight up one of if not the most talented actresses on TVD. Seeing her be this vulnerable made me love her even more. We need to uplift each other. I am white but I want to see more diversity on my screen! I would watch the movies, watch the tv shows! Hollywood, get this right!!!
The hair situation probably also reminds her of the trauma she experienced in that show.
she looks like she just started playing Bonnie bro how does she look so good 10 years after
Its like they always say... Black don't crack
@@thehashslingingslasher6467 she looks even better😍
@Too Cool For Cardi they never said she was old-
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Omfg so true!!
I love seeing her natrual curls and I have 4b hair so I love it ❤❤❤❤
ok but isn't anyone gonna talk about how young she looks for her age. she is a queen!!
I mean I’m not really surprised, most black/half black people age pretty well cause of melanin.
Lovers Love
True
My mum hasn’t had a proper skincare routine for almost 2 decades and she has no wrinkles
How old is she?
Hmmmm no she just looks 30 to me haha
Зоя Шараева 30 or 31 I think? The comment confused me because she’s young lol.
I’ve been a fan of Kat for a while and just never knew that she had this hair texture. I felt often times that I just couldn’t relate so I’m so happy that she’s on this hair journey like so many of us right now.
Ikr, she was on TVD for years on I never saw it as anything but straight.
Exactly bc she's never done a role without a bogus straight weave
SERVING EMOTIONNNNNN. No wonder she’s such a good actor she just has the range and the depth and the access to emotion. Obsessed
i literally cried with her when she cried. i am very happy that she is accepting herself and embracing this side! very proud of this amazing woman. 🤍
love this woman so much, wishing her a lifetime of joy! she deserves.
not gonna lie, i teared up a lil when she said "I hope one day I can play a character that I actually look like."..
Me too 🥺
same🥺🥺
“ I hope I can play a character that I actually look like” my heart melted 🥺🥺🥺❤️
"Why am I crying over conditioner" girl we all wish it was just over conditioner its so much more than that 💞💞
THIS!!!! You get it!
Black girl struggles are universal. I felt it too. I felt it worse when the 5 year old dark skinned girl looked at herself in the mirror and called herself ugly. Its hard