Life Before and After a Murder Conviction-Eugene

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  • @AVBNOW23
    @AVBNOW23 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    My heart goes out to the father who was murdered while protecting his family.

    • @za7601
      @za7601 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wonder if we remember how we went out in the afterlife

    • @redjasper9458
      @redjasper9458 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ... and the poor daughter who was r$%!d with a shot gun. And the mom.

    • @AVBNOW23
      @AVBNOW23 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@redjasper9458 absolutely!

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea right

  • @tammic2016
    @tammic2016 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    “I’m responsible because I could have prevented it.” & “Prison doesn’t rehabilitate. It’s up to the individual to rehabilitate.” This is key. The people who stay stuck in the not my fault mentality never grow and move forward in life. Eugene you would be a great mentor to young men who have lost their way. I wish you the best in life ❤

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🙏

    • @gleanncummings7145
      @gleanncummings7145 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, he said I’m responsible because I was there

    • @tammic2016
      @tammic2016 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@gleanncummings7145 maybe I misquoted but does it really matter who is correct? The key is that he is taking responsibility for his actions or lack thereof. Have a great day.

    • @strummersheroes
      @strummersheroes ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For what it's worth, he definitely said he had to eat the murder sentence because he could have prevented it and didn't. He said this twice.

    • @ashbash0711
      @ashbash0711 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gleanncummings7145 35:00 he did say he could have prevented it.

  • @Cheri94
    @Cheri94 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I had a friend whose husband had road rage, he passed a guy driving to slow for his liking, so he passed him, flipped him off, when that car got to the stop light, that driver pulled up next to him and blew his brains out, he was 30 years old, the guy that shot him was in his 50’s and now serving a life sentence………true story! Was it worth it for either, I think not

    • @Paidfullz
      @Paidfullz ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Gotta be in control of your emotions, it be a struggle at times that’s why practice makes perfect

    • @josephsmith7114
      @josephsmith7114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did this happen in Macon, GA? I remember a news story about a similar situation not that long ago.

  • @Makeup_momster
    @Makeup_momster ปีที่แล้ว +399

    RIP to the father trying to save his family.

    • @itsonme7767
      @itsonme7767 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      A true hero

    • @ryanmaller636
      @ryanmaller636 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      yeah that hurt that's so sad, you never know when some idiots are planning to change your family's life that one hurts, I hope the guy that shot him never gets out

    • @col.cottonhill6655
      @col.cottonhill6655 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      ​@@ryanmaller636 this is why I always have a firearm in reach even while relaxing at home

    • @Anonymous-cg7od
      @Anonymous-cg7od ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@Col. Cotton Hill that's so sad. Why live in a place that you need to do that?

    • @staygold902
      @staygold902 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@Anonymous-cg7odexactly.

  • @genegene6570
    @genegene6570 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Wow..this was deep! Eugene perfectly recognized, acknowledged, and defined the distorted sense of realities that many young Black men are exposed to at an early age.
    Eugene also recognized and put into perspective the lack of respect and self-centeredness that is so prevalent in a "free society."
    His ability to analyze and place people and situations in a proper perspective, in conjunction with his unwavering survival instincts, will undoubtedly make his desires a reality.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely 🙏

    • @pamelastates5600
      @pamelastates5600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️🇨🇦

    • @phatwithduhph2479
      @phatwithduhph2479 ปีที่แล้ว

      No there is no excuse for sexually assaulting a minor with a shotgun .... this guy and his crew are trash human beings.

    • @daniellewatson8352
      @daniellewatson8352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🕊🇦🇺

    • @Cani-Gulah
      @Cani-Gulah ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thats a mentality you see in poor people, not just young black men. I hate that narrative

  • @carriedarras4925
    @carriedarras4925 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Owning up to his mistakes. Well done Eugene. On top of all of that, not a single curse word through this entire interview. Class act no matter where you come from.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 🙏

    • @carlosblanco3390
      @carlosblanco3390 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So tru

    • @edroots34
      @edroots34 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I love it when a Brotha can talk and use not 1 curse word and say 🥷 every other word but Articulate themselve well. I strive to get like Eugene. I dislike sometimes when curse when not needed.

    • @tmnumber1
      @tmnumber1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why the fuck you worried about curses?

    • @williepayne1629
      @williepayne1629 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I totally agree

  • @EVIESECOND
    @EVIESECOND ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “If I can’t add value, how will anyone ever know I was here.” Beautiful word to all mankind!!

    • @ferguson8143
      @ferguson8143 ปีที่แล้ว

      By doing the wrong thing but when you do something right no one notices

  • @R4CHEL__
    @R4CHEL__ ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Man, he reminds me of so many people I surrounded myself with growing up. And then he also reminds me of all the people I met after getting clean who were also healing and improving themselves right along with me. You can be one hell of a force in this world, Eugene ❤

    • @darealfaseescobar
      @darealfaseescobar ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have read a few of your comments Rachel over time... I Love your mind, and spirit! You are a Beautiful person, inside and out! 💪🏽😍💯

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤thank you

    • @R4CHEL__
      @R4CHEL__ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ybloyal8154 you’re welcome ❤️

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/jBrBTx2ovgA/w-d-xo.html

  • @emm7189
    @emm7189 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is one of the best interviews you’ve done in a while. It’s hard for me to not skip through a video and sit from beginning to the end now a days. This man was honest and held himself like a real man is supposed to. I hope everyone can come out of prison with the mindset that Eugene has. God Bless and I’ll be praying for you!

  • @LoloO42
    @LoloO42 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "And we went to Kmart, yeah, absolutely. Kmart." Hahaha. I laughed out loud at that.
    Eugene's approach to changing his life is very similar to how I changed my addiction behaviors. Self education. Self reflection. Talking about your past. Well done.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🙏 and continue to show others that change is possible 💯

  • @moremilo
    @moremilo ปีที่แล้ว +29

    When he said that he read the book “man’s search for meaning” I got goosebumps. I read that book too and I always recommend it. Great and important conversation here, wish you all the best Eugene!

    • @nakdad
      @nakdad ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @azzyup4790
      @azzyup4790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m surprised to see you in the comments looool. Much love from your subs

  • @robcharette1915
    @robcharette1915 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Working in the system I can really respect any man that spends that much time in prison and makes something of themself because it is a cold , dirty horrible place to be and it destroys people. Love his thoughts on rehabilitation and they are true. I will be showing this video to the inmates in my classes because we talk to them a great deal about perception and self talk. Best of luck to this gentlemen . So well spoken and relatable. Gives me hope that people can change.

  • @hannatadesse2117
    @hannatadesse2117 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Eugene what an incredible interview, very inteligent and wise man.

  • @robinmillette3127
    @robinmillette3127 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This reminds me of a question my psychology teacher ask us one day nurture or nature. I believe it can be both sometimes when someone commits adultery crime. And then you have people who have been loved and nurtured over life, and still commit a crime. And then you have someone who has no one just nature and they never do anything wrong. So you see this can be a very tricky field to work in.
    I am glad this man decided to make a difference in his life all the way around. May God bless my friend for making a difference in this world.✌🏼❤️

    • @seanvik
      @seanvik ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The evidence overwhelmingly shows that for the most part children without any nurturing will become problematic adults. Hell that's the main message of this channel

    • @sambistabeauty
      @sambistabeauty ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, that is a stupid dichotomous question because there is not just 1 answer. But if you are forced to only choose 1 answer, we can say nurture can influence your nature.

    • @justsaiyan8678
      @justsaiyan8678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life is a massive mixture of everything, not black and white but extremely gray. So if you box the understanding of behavior into just 2 positions, that’s telling of how much depth you are actually capable of discovering. In layman’s terms, the logic is fooling itself…

  • @glamorouslexy9388
    @glamorouslexy9388 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Your story and the way you have changed is amazing! Congratulations on coming out of this situation a way better person. You’re absolutely right when you said “prison doesn’t reform people , it just houses them” the change is internal. I hope a lot of young people see your story and take away the lesson you had to learn the hard way without going down that path.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As do I 💯🙏

  • @JananaClips
    @JananaClips ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Took a life and traumatized a family in exchange for the ability to be able to survive and assess a situation better. Walked with nothing.
    Man cruel world.

  • @VeronicaNicole4778
    @VeronicaNicole4778 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    This guy has a lot to offer this world. Hopefully people will see that and offer him opportunities to do so.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m praying for such opportunities 💯🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @AmericanRenaissanceMan
      @AmericanRenaissanceMan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No he doesn’t

    • @williepayne1629
      @williepayne1629 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right my brother...som ppl change....he paid his dues

    • @mac11daddy6
      @mac11daddy6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who cares. We are all expendable assets in the USA

  • @rhonda6791
    @rhonda6791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite book is Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search For Meaning. I’m so glad you read it. And that youmtold the story of the boy who threw the rocks at the car. And that the father who was killed is your hero. I’m sorry you had to be in prison for so long but if half the people would see things with your perspective we would be in a better place. I wish you a happy life, keep growing and learning like you have been.

  • @garridavis1169
    @garridavis1169 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can’t get over the fact that his co defendant sexually assaulted that girl with a shot gun while the father was there. That’s some animal like shit .

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢 I wish it never happened fam💯

    • @garridavis1169
      @garridavis1169 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ybloyal8154 I’m sure those are the things you can’t stop thinking about even 30 years later. But God forgives so that burden don’t have to be carried no more .

    • @venicec3310
      @venicec3310 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr thats some rape nanjing shit

  • @DetroitFettyghost
    @DetroitFettyghost ปีที่แล้ว +69

    My best friend is in San Quentin- he murdered a man In cold blood out in California few years ago on Thanksgiving. I never knew he had that inside of him to do that- I knew himy entire life. He was the most thoughtful and caring friend I've ever had one of the only people who would ever check up on me and seemed to actually care about me you know as a friend. It's a long story how it all happened but I can tell you he was not in the right not even close. The man he killed didn't do anything to him. He got the same sentence as this guy 25 to life. I guess you just never know you just never know- much love everybody.

    • @DetroitFettyghost
      @DetroitFettyghost ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@jimbofischawe we're friends since we were little tiny kids my friend.

    • @Gram72534
      @Gram72534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DetroitFettyghost ignore the troll! Molly is a total POS!!!

    • @charlesdwayne2196
      @charlesdwayne2196 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ​@jimbofischa Okay sherlock im pretty Sure the dude didnt killed prior to that.

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jimbofisha judgemental much? Do any of us actually know the people we know, especially those since childhood? GTFOOH with your ish.....

    • @alexthekid1538
      @alexthekid1538 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @jimbofischaboi all the people you know, met, or befriended. How do you know non of them were killers. You never know the many sins that a person has committed unless they tell you. No one is doing background checks on everyone they meet.

  • @adamisaac4685
    @adamisaac4685 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like how his mind deflected the Trauma of the murder home invasion. He started immediately talking about some other case.

  • @jmsrnmsn
    @jmsrnmsn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This guy is deep. Lots of thought and self reflection. I wish him the best.

  • @smmusicplus96
    @smmusicplus96 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    " I'm responsible because I could have prevented it."
    That's ownership right there. I hope the victim's family are on the path to healing

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too❤❤❤

  • @tarag6616
    @tarag6616 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Eugene, you have alot to offer and I admire you for telling us your life story. You're here for a reason so please remember that when you drive fast and experience road rage. Some people drive cautiously because they know how precious life is. It's a big deal to make it to where your going and get home safe every time you get in the car. Be grateful and drive safe but not just for you but for others driving too. ❤😉

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I promise you I’m working on that 🙏💯

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jesterzj now that is perception/perspective 💯

  • @jonathangehman4005
    @jonathangehman4005 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Every once in a while there's a person on this channel that I wish I could hang out with and get to know a little. Eugene is one of them.
    He's figured some stuff out. Respect to Eugene

    • @jjonez787
      @jjonez787 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lolololololololol.

    • @annaarmenta5030
      @annaarmenta5030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr 💯

    • @jonathangehman4005
      @jonathangehman4005 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jjonez787 Might be interesting to hang with you for a bit to see what you're really about

    • @wayofthegun6224
      @wayofthegun6224 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@jjonez787lol😂😂😂 that's the same reaction I had when I read this comment...w liberals live in a fantasy world bro...I grew up around dudes like him and he not the one to hang out with no matter how rehabilitated he is

    • @jjonez787
      @jjonez787 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wayofthegun6224 yup, i only come here to read the cringe comments. lol. These people love sheltered lives

  • @jamescordova1796
    @jamescordova1796 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video just blew my mind. I love it when I meet people on a Higher Frequency. I started to see it when he was talking about Self Talk but by the end I was like, damn I want to read this guys book!!! You got this Eugene.

  • @christineanderson6620
    @christineanderson6620 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Great interview. Congrats on changing your life for the better! Keep moving foward,thanks for sharing your story.

    • @bradkennedy8350
      @bradkennedy8350 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow. In my opinion this is one of the best interviews put out by. He said some powerful words

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you 🙏

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 🙏

    • @lorimurray325
      @lorimurray325 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending you a BIG HUG from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 keep on top of your life its Yours ❤

    • @sambistabeauty
      @sambistabeauty ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats for killing a man

  • @CitizenEdge
    @CitizenEdge ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sentenced 25 to life and to come out like this....what a blessing

    • @mikephyuckubradley6331
      @mikephyuckubradley6331 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wonder how the mother and daughter turned out especially getting a shotgun stuck in her private what if she was a virgin

  • @Ichabod_Jericho
    @Ichabod_Jericho ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Think about the horror of strangers coming into your home with a shotgun and murdering your parent. The way these criminals justify the way they act would be funny if it wasn’t so depressing. I think you and your friends deserved your sentencing and I’m grateful that you have the self awareness to look back on a different version of yourself.

    • @zpinsonhopgood4839
      @zpinsonhopgood4839 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I don’t think he spent a second justifying anything he did, he was just giving us the necessary information for why he would have ever thought to do these things. accountability and self reflection is the difference and I think he’s shown a great deal of that

    • @mrjacktraeger
      @mrjacktraeger ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Absolutely horrific because not only was that gun used to murder the father it was used to sexually assault his daughter before that and I'm sure they probably made him watch. I play these types of situations out hypothetically in my head and think about how to equip myself the best I can because being that father and helplessly watching a bunch of men come into my own home and seeing them do that to a daughter or loved one is somthing I can't bear to imagine.

    • @babyboyy207
      @babyboyy207 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mrjacktraeger yeah they're scum for that

    • @slumerican453
      @slumerican453 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mrjacktraegerI feel like people in these comments skipped over that part or something... they deserved the death penalty

  • @BigEdawg01
    @BigEdawg01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He’s so detailed and remembers every detail about his past. Very smart man.

  • @Theresa89
    @Theresa89 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I’ve known men back in the days who did home invasion and although I’ve never had anything to do with them I always thought of them as the most frightening people in the community . Being a victim of burglaries I could never imagine being a victim to a home invasion .

    • @GORILLA_PIMP
      @GORILLA_PIMP ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How did they pick who they was gonna rob?
      They just pick random houses?

    • @luh7943
      @luh7943 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well imagine issa bloody world we live in

    • @luh7943
      @luh7943 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be a victim though get you a pistol 🔫 learn how to shoot it

    • @roxannemoser
      @roxannemoser ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The world has been crazy for centuries. We just didn't have the media to warn us. My stepdad was an attempted family annihilator. He didn't live through it. We fought back. I was 6 years old and hid my 15 month old sister under the bed after untying her. We both were tied to a cinder block to be thrown in the river to die. While my brother and mother fought him, I got myself and my sister free. He hit me with a cast iron skillet and I bit him on his hip. I lost a few teeth doing it, but I didn't care. I'm still glad he's dead 51 years later.

    • @K3von1
      @K3von1 ปีที่แล้ว

      My brother was that shit fucked him up

  • @Lowjumpclerk
    @Lowjumpclerk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The importance of this channel cannot be understated. Hearing these stories helps me so much with having a deeper understanding of my own thoughts and perspectives on the world

    • @raidernation3138
      @raidernation3138 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I second this. I questioned myself in a lot of areas and confronted a lot of issues I thought I had or did have.

  • @leeannakrushinski7996
    @leeannakrushinski7996 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Very good interview. I liked the perception part too. It great to see him set an example of someone who can change even with what he has been taught or been brought up into. Thank Mark and Eugene

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you 🙏

    • @johnkovich8874
      @johnkovich8874 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've changed my life as well. I'm lucky not to have gone to prison, unlike many of my cousins. I am now a college graduate (the first one in my family, ever), as an accountant. Unlike most people that live the street life, I believe that you are rehabilitated. And coming from it myself, I just want you to stay focused. I know the streets try to call you back, it can be a tough battle. It's easy to go back to what you know. It may not matter, but I am proud of you and your progress.

  • @brandypou7590
    @brandypou7590 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Eugene, you are an incredible man and how you’ve changed is exemplary. You can be someone these troubled young men can look up to.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are right I’m praying 🙏 to get a non profit started to help the youth. AFAL All Family All Love if you know anyone who can assist me please let me know 🙏

    • @ryanmaller636
      @ryanmaller636 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ybloyal8154 Hey dude, I checked out your channel although I'm not a fan of that kind of music, I am a fan of your message 100% please please you have a serious gift of communication, I would love to see you just talk about your life and life in general on your channel it would be interesting and educational just throwing that out there, Im wishing you the best

    • @carefulcasey543
      @carefulcasey543 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He should have got the death penalty

    • @pierrea3094
      @pierrea3094 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I too call people I’ve never once met, based entirely on anecdotal experiences they recall, who have committed murder, incredible men because of a single video I watched. I’m very smart.

    • @williepayne1629
      @williepayne1629 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@carefulcasey543jus lik alot of your ancestors

  • @maryhill1558
    @maryhill1558 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I would love to meet Eugene. He said things that made me think differently. Keep going. Thank you for telling your story.

  • @gailmendez5465
    @gailmendez5465 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great interview. Accountability, responsibility, insight and perception as well as understanding. Brought Eugene to this point and it will take him further. Best of luck Eugene. Best of luck.

  • @marcosluna7792
    @marcosluna7792 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Damn, for having spent 25 years in there this man is very articulate and has a good head on him. Some of us do just get caught up by our surroundings. Idk if his claimed involvement is true, but I choose to believe him and wish him all the best. God bless

    • @paulogunyemi8617
      @paulogunyemi8617 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      25 years of reading and articulating himself in there

  • @rpgray8188
    @rpgray8188 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Eugene, you are the true definition of a man. Peoples perception of a man is so distorted these days. It's all based on money. A true man is one that can own up to his mistakes and change. I wish you the best in everything you do with your life. Thank you for sharing your story, your life with all of us.

    • @carolynbell7403
      @carolynbell7403 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said..

    • @Seeingisntbelieving
      @Seeingisntbelieving ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Cheri94
      @Cheri94 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      a MAN, seriously, a MAN, is the one that was killed, trying to defend his innocent family. This “man” should still be in jail. PERIOD, end of story

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @gingerlancaster3033
    @gingerlancaster3033 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    No excuses. That's the way he was raised. He owns his shit. Good morning Mark and Eugene

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good morning ☀️

    • @tuforu4
      @tuforu4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do AMERICANS ever see AFRICA.

  • @wicked2u
    @wicked2u ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Dude needs a channel , would love to hear his prison stories

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You can ask me anything

    • @twhitedovec788281
      @twhitedovec788281 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@apaaaa agreed, and i can listen to him talk for hours!

    • @Magnolia1518-dg9en
      @Magnolia1518-dg9en ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ybloyal8154 hey

    • @khbow2810
      @khbow2810 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ybloyal8154 thank you for the book suggestions. I happened to be reading the comments here and noticed your reply to ask you anything. Thank you. Other than the books, what is the most important thing I can tell my son? At first he wasn’t letting prison work him but instead he was doing a pretty good job of keeping it out of his head. He’s been in almost 10 and has more but probably home in the next 8. He’s letting the system take him down now. He’s 31. He started letting the place work him now and is pulling away from us now. He grew up with both of us, had a good childhood, made some bad decisions and, boom, he’s in. He hung up on me on Mother’s Day, getting real pissy lately, and only calls now when he wants extra $. I know what’s up, I ain’t stupid. But I wrote a letter to him, hoping with the best advise I could give, including…”write a book son”,. If there was one thing I could say to help the man inside him, who I know, what would it be? I just want him to be at peace inside and help him not let that place take him down. I’m like your mom to him. This is some tough “you know what” for us both but his dad and I are the ones who can have a clearish mind. I’d like his to be too. Thanks if you can answer. 💞 I’m going to see how I can get those books sent to him. That place he’s in makes everything hard.

    • @romie7054
      @romie7054 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@ybloyal8154 Did you have a blue convertible mustang gt on gold ones back on the day? From Seaside, right?

  • @shelbym7967
    @shelbym7967 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I appreciate his story when I was a teenager I was the one who was the “get away driver” looking back learning from my mistakes I to could’ve been in a situation he was in as well you never know others intentions. Thank god I learned my ways and stopped because something like that could’ve happened to me as well. All we can do I grow,learn and break the cycle

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely ❤❤❤❤

  • @malikshabazz7596
    @malikshabazz7596 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Eugene was in prison for a murder conviction, yet he admits his current problem is road rage.
    Road rage could lead to another murder conviction, Eugene needs to grow up.

  • @caligoldenboy
    @caligoldenboy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “I was a thousand different people.” ~Eugene. How many of us are a thousand different people all wrapped up into one body. Struggles of the hood are real. The bad experiences often times shatter a person into a thousand little pieces. The good experiences often times build us up with thousands of pieces of a solid foundation. That father didn’t have to die. It’s good Eugene realizes that he was just as responsible as the others. I hope everyone involved from the family who lost a father to Eugene can find solace and hope with what they have in life.

  • @davecaldwell445
    @davecaldwell445 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Superb interview. Man, what perspective, and he picked that up the hard way. Our stories are never over until we are put into the ground.

  • @disturbingthepiece2788
    @disturbingthepiece2788 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Please don't let road rage take you out. Good luck on your new path. You can do it. Stay away from anything to do with the old life.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 🙏 my only interaction is for change 💯

    • @ryanmaller636
      @ryanmaller636 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ybloyal8154 yeah do not react to road rage, I had a problem with that for years, I had a situation I stopped on the fwy got out and pulled a dude half way out his car window ready to smash dude then I saw he had a kid in the back looking scared and i back off, and I realized people that aint from the street feel protected in a car so much protected they are willing to antagonize someone they would NEVER try face to face being in a car is a false sense of security for some people, but the real ones know everyone can be gotten to, just don't react just like your story about the guy who bumped into you, let them go because they have no idea.

  • @mrmav1889
    @mrmav1889 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I get that he’s moved on and he sounds like a pretty grounded individual. He has moved on… however, I have a feeling that the young girl and her mother that were unfortunate enough to live through that horrific experience, witnessing her father murdered might not have moved on quite so easily. I’m more interested in how she is coping, and her mother to be honest

    • @venicec3310
      @venicec3310 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr not to mention she was raped with a shotgun idk how they smoothed over that part of the story

  • @KelleyWhite-ps5dm
    @KelleyWhite-ps5dm ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He should still be in prison. For life. Life. Life.

  • @kristinschwartz389
    @kristinschwartz389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PLEASE more Eugene interviews 🙏

  • @DTurk
    @DTurk ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mark,
    Thank you for putting these stories out there and giving people a voice.

    • @thisismenow923
      @thisismenow923 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      who speaks for those who were murdered?

    • @lisarodriguez6966
      @lisarodriguez6966 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@thisismenow923 are you volunteering? Link me your channel, I'll watch as you speak for the murdered, unless you're just virtue signaling...

  • @josecanales2978
    @josecanales2978 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My respects to this guy. I wish him nothing but the best.

  • @Alleykatsks
    @Alleykatsks ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That perception thing just hit me hard. My gf has been trying to get me to understand this for years. You know but you dont know.

  • @cali-sun7727
    @cali-sun7727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful testimony!
    Keep talkin to the youth. You are much needed!!!❤

  • @tiffanybazemore3058
    @tiffanybazemore3058 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Well done Mark. Also, great job Eugene, I’m glad to see your are taking accountability for your life. You can’t change the past, but you can help determine your future. Keep up the good work!

  • @roccoelleto9900
    @roccoelleto9900 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These interviews are just about the best thing on the Internet. A murder can never be taken back and that wife and daughter lost someone they loved. Eugene, your story about a broken home and not having a father figure in your life IS the problem with a majority of our male criminal offenders. This lack of a father and a positive male role model in a youth's developmental years is the greatest threat to the future of our country.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree and it is important for all men to know that a father figure doesn’t have to be in the home or in a romantic relationship with his mother. We can be father figures to the young men we see often in our own neighborhood 💯

  • @serenalisa1
    @serenalisa1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's clear your path is to help people through sharing your life lessons! Grateful for you!

  • @kakmcloughlin1927
    @kakmcloughlin1927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i hope you start a channel Eugene. You speak well and we are interested in listening. I would love a channel of convicts telling us their story just like this: Before Conviction and After Conviction. It's an area the public know nothing about.

  • @KelleyWhite-ps5dm
    @KelleyWhite-ps5dm ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He's just rationalizing sociopathic behaviors.

  • @frankthebaldguy9819
    @frankthebaldguy9819 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for telling your story, Eugene!

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for listening 💯

  • @angelenicole1243
    @angelenicole1243 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Very smart man. It’s not just what he did but what he learned from it and how did he use that to be better. Most people never learn. He did. ❤

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes I did learn now I talk to people in hopes to prevent trauma and destruction

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @miriamluskberry
    @miriamluskberry ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is in my top favorite interviews. So much good, so much to offer.

  • @marydavis8132
    @marydavis8132 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I WISH THIS MAN LOVE AND LIGHT AND I PRAY 🙏🏽 HIS PAST STAYS JUST "THERE" IN THE PAST WHERE IT BELONGS ❣️🙏🏽

  • @out2fun
    @out2fun ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We can only hope that the family of the murdered father has forgiven and lived their lives in peace .....

  • @Karinabrd
    @Karinabrd ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sexually assaulted her with the shotgun???what poor girl

  • @DontPanicrs
    @DontPanicrs ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First of all RIP to the father protecting his family, true definition of a man and a father.
    I wish I knew Eugene in real life or had a chance to have a conversation with him. I feel like I could learn a thing or two from him.

  • @kayla1245768
    @kayla1245768 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good morning from Minnesota! Have a great day all!

  • @Case-DawgYT
    @Case-DawgYT ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said he learned to be quite... Told the best story ever and not hardly any questions asked. #Respect Hope your future is bright!

  • @veronicaruiz4501
    @veronicaruiz4501 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best interview in my opinion! I just ordered the book on perception that he spoke about! Very interesting… Thank you for sharing your story

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏❤❤❤

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please let me know your opinion about the book

  • @Nikki_B.
    @Nikki_B. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good interview HE NEED HIS OWN YOU TUBE CHANNEL SHARE THAT POSITIVE ENERGY AND HIS PENITENTIARY STORIES ❤❤❤

  • @Benny-Fazio
    @Benny-Fazio ปีที่แล้ว +23

    How does doing these interviews affect you mark? It has to leave some kind of mark on your soul (no pun intended)

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For sure. Just watching them corrupts my empathy at times especially bc I'm from LA and there are 1000's of these stories it's exhausting.

    • @Benny-Fazio
      @Benny-Fazio ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AliciaM5555 I’m already knowin it’s just a sea of negativity if I was bro I would have to take some months vacations or some shit like man y’all got enough interviews for now 😅

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@derek7017 so what? A man can be atheist or agnostic and still be a good man. Btw, I watched that interview on Rogan I also saw Mark on Koncrete and No Jumper and at no time did Mark ever speak about God.

    • @Stfu9785
      @Stfu9785 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said he’s done 5000 of these it’s like a judge once you hear enough nothing surprises you

  • @shafserious2805
    @shafserious2805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love to hear prison stories from this guy! Have him back on!!!

  • @Naz1204G
    @Naz1204G ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel like I’m in prison now myself, without ever going. I’m not a criminal, make decent money where I live but I feel alone AF. It gets tough, I feel for dude because he’s been thru 2 decades plus of prison. If I feel this way, it’s definitely 20x worse for him.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m here fam if you ever want to talk🙏💯

  • @jlua5831
    @jlua5831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow im so sorry to hear about your losses you make me look back amd reflect on my own life and realize i have so much work to do to better myself and the ones who look up to me . I wish you all the best from new zealand

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏 hope you enjoy some of my music

  • @setharp
    @setharp ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey man, Good luck to you! You sound like a very smart person and will go places.

  • @starringshannon8163
    @starringshannon8163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great interview with another great man. Thank you, Mark.
    @Eugene I wish you all the best and I know the world will know about you. Thank you for showing us all that change is possible.

  • @Mr01monkey
    @Mr01monkey ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can instantly tell this guys switched on just from the instant respect and decent response to the questions

  • @dreamrider2956
    @dreamrider2956 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I heard the word "value" many times during this interview. Eugene's live wasn't turned around in prison, it just woke him up and on a path of self vision and perception. It sounds like a GREAT path. Stay strong.

    • @outtosea25
      @outtosea25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A "GREAT" path, huh?... He's still talking "allegedly"...

    • @dreamrider2956
      @dreamrider2956 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Although he DID NOT commit the murder, he was involved, hence the 25 years he got. I actually liked this interview and as I mentioned, the self vision of what he needs to do is paramount to his success of making money not doing anything. @Mark, I'd love to see a you look back at some of the other interviews you've conducted and "revisit" the people, like where are they now? That would be an awesome spotlight. Eugene is out of prison for 5 years now from what he said, so he's definitely not the norm. Again, @Eugene, stay strong and determined.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🙏

  • @julianchavira11
    @julianchavira11 ปีที่แล้ว

    By far man, the best of the best in words. Appreciate yourself to a fullest extent.

  • @sarahjane4908
    @sarahjane4908 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This murder robbery happened in LA? I’m sorry they let this animal out of prison.

  • @christopherstackhouse141
    @christopherstackhouse141 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I normally comment but this interview touched me. Brotha I’m sorry you went thru that but I’m also sorry a father lost his life. Good job Mark 💯

  • @wesleyAlan9179
    @wesleyAlan9179 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great interview, very insightful. Thanks Eugene/ Mark🙌

  • @oneamericannoparty.
    @oneamericannoparty. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "He Didnt even realize the broken glass around my feet".
    So true with society today.

  • @mrwdpkr5851
    @mrwdpkr5851 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's a shame he didn't learn early on to not get caught up in other peoples BS .

  • @garsu1229
    @garsu1229 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome interview thankyou

  • @ootenyafoo6935
    @ootenyafoo6935 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “I thought that Mr. Clutter was a very nice gentleman. I thought so right up to the moment that I cut his throat.” ― Truman Capote, In Cold Blood.

  • @indigofay
    @indigofay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So intelligent and articulate! Im 65, raised 3 kids! You are amazing honest, and If I could give you a great big fat gramma hug, I would right now!

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤❤ and I would welcome such care love and comfort thank you 🙏

    • @tuforu4
      @tuforu4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing he still stuck IN ROAD RAGE...

  • @lisakuntzman7017
    @lisakuntzman7017 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    great interview I am so glad this gentleman survived himself

    • @johnellison234
      @johnellison234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gentleman?.?.?. He played a part in murdering an innocent man in front of his wife and daughter

    • @indigofay
      @indigofay ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@johnellison234 Ever read the story of Bathsheba and King David? It's called redemption!

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @tonyn3123
    @tonyn3123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eugene has come a long way from his childhood, but he still needs a change of scenery. Being in a loving environment would do wonders for all of us. The very best to his future.

  • @Desire123ification
    @Desire123ification ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great Interview! 💯

  • @adelerhoda5213
    @adelerhoda5213 ปีที่แล้ว

    My boyfriend has the same story and is still in prison, thanks for giving hope.

  • @YoniMaisel-gg8kq
    @YoniMaisel-gg8kq ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Saying "I went to commit a home invasion" - "but I wasn't there to hurt anybody" is a severe, socio- pathological disconnect from reality.

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It is. But environment can influence our thinking and the mentality of poverty corrupts our morality.

    • @chosenwoncommunity
      @chosenwoncommunity ปีที่แล้ว +23

      He obviously means physically, is it that hard to figure that out.

    • @alexthekid1538
      @alexthekid1538 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You may call him a sociopath but did you think to look at his story from a neutral perspective understanding the environment that made him the way he was. Watch the full video again and towards the end you’ll find that he’s able to point out his faults and through educating himself he became a better person.

    • @AI3Dorinte
      @AI3Dorinte ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @jimbofischa it's not an excuse, it's the way they were taught to think. Give the child a good home, this shit never happens.

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@alexthekid1538 nobody said he was a psychopath but he speaks that "court-speak" which in my mind is just word salad. You go to a stranger's home to rob, find real people there and you're a part of a heinous crime ok? Nothing can erase what happened including intentions. They say hell is paved with good intentions but so is heaven.

  • @tankguy1981
    @tankguy1981 ปีที่แล้ว

    This interview actually got me thinking about my own condition, and perceptions, another great interview from Soft White Underbelly.

  • @RachaelClag
    @RachaelClag ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good EVENING (Tues 23 May) all!! - from Melbourne, Australia!

  • @gregunderwood4679
    @gregunderwood4679 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perceiving paradigm shifts is powerful.

  • @myeyeswentdeaf6213
    @myeyeswentdeaf6213 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good Morning Dudes and Dudettes!👋🤠 or whatever time-a-day it is in yall’s neck’s the woods. Peace and Love from 6:00am Brooklyn NY🇺🇸 to you and wherever in world🌍 you are, my SWU fam.

    • @Gram72534
      @Gram72534 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What's up brother eyes? 4:07 a.m. in Denver! Have a great day my friend!!!!!!!

    • @RachaelClag
      @RachaelClag ปีที่แล้ว +7

      G'day from Melbourne Australia!
      (Well, g'night to be accurate. It is 8.15pm Tuesday night here atm. We are ahead of most of the rest of the world!)

    • @DetroitFettyghost
      @DetroitFettyghost ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wat up doe my peeps? Hope you all have a great day! Much love- 620 on Detroit's Eastside ❤️👻🙌🏼

    • @EmEm872
      @EmEm872 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@RachaelClag Hi from Perth :)

    • @EmEm872
      @EmEm872 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Heya Eyes and everyone :)

  • @christophercottrell8227
    @christophercottrell8227 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude can tell it. You can tell that there are just some people you don’t mess with. He trying to do right now. I lived my life reckless and ruthless. My old lady died in her sleep. I pushed on. I try to do right things now. Don’t drink. Stay positive. Workout. I dropped 85 lbs and still go 6’1” and 240. I hit 60 my next birthday. Been through 12 surgeries. Still up. Still hard. Still ready.

  • @Clo_Dub
    @Clo_Dub ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Most of us probably think we would _never_ do that type of thing, but I suppose, under certain circumstances, we’re all just one decision or one immediate reaction away from ruining our own life along with the one we’ve taken.

  • @lisalep
    @lisalep ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant interview. Much love from Scotland ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 x

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤❤❤❤

  • @alexthekid1538
    @alexthekid1538 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    To all the people judging this man in this comment section, think to yourself what environment and circumstances can take a person down this road. I would also like people to recognize that this man reconciled with the past, and through re-educating himself he became the better.

    • @Frenchie_007
      @Frenchie_007 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ….. at the price of an innocent man dying and a family destroyed.

    • @pambeforethestorm9784
      @pambeforethestorm9784 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly 💯 yet will make Plenty of excuses for serial k@llers, sh#@ters and all those "upstanding" people

    • @aspartamekillsyaknow9019
      @aspartamekillsyaknow9019 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some people have the best environment, family, upbringing, etc and still choose to do wrong. I got a buddy who got out after 17yrs of a murder conviction. He said he didn't understand others who came from good backgrounds who did hard time. He's such a hypocrite and chose to get involved. It's always a choice. No one's putting guns to your heads, and if someone did, that 'someone' is who you have to get rid of. He acts like he had no opportunity. He has a huge family and support system. There was an active teen center and programs growing up. People in worse conditions didn't even join a gang. Watching all those gangsta movies rotted his brain. He speaks in innuendos about being a gangster. He's actually the fakest and just kidding himself acting righteous. He still owes me $600 I loaned him to launch his podcast and won't return my calls. He claims he came from the slums, but really from the burbs. Claims motto was survival by all means necessary, then he talks shit about selling crack for a week, like it was below him and too dangerous. He isn't the hustler he claimed to be. He's just a legend in his own mind. Now that we're adults, I see him for what he always was, a fake. I'm embarrassed of my past, don't wear it as a badge of honor and clout is for social media. I'm not trying to win any popularity contests, that dumb shit will get you killed. The dude that did the actual homicide got less time and said fuck the victims family.

    • @carolynbell7403
      @carolynbell7403 ปีที่แล้ว

      True and well said.

    • @ybloyal8154
      @ybloyal8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏

  • @conniehanses
    @conniehanses ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You don't see the broken glass around people's feet"....Good way to phase that, we've all got some..

  • @ambercaplinger5273
    @ambercaplinger5273 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Proud of you, Eugene!