I hear you and I respect that. For me it’s not about confidence it’s about efficiency. I know I’m not scared I’ve already done it, I just think of it as refining my skills. I think of it like a good salesmen can identify a buyer. But this also depends on if the guys gets signals often or not it’s not one size fits all I’ll admit that.
i got a girl in my university class that im hella attracted to, but we don't communicate much. She shows some signs of attraction and im a good looking dude, but still don't know how to get closer to her without giving celebrity energy and looking like a nice guy/beta. I think if i start talking to her out of nowhere i'll be looking like a creep. so i just keep working on myself and tryin to make something happen but not too hard. Good video brotha got u a sub
I really appreciate that bro 🙏🏾. If you’re down, I’m starting to do video replies to my subscribers, so you can email me and give me the info you think I need about you’re “problem” and I’ll post my response. If you’re interested email me at marvovermatter@gmail.com
Nah bro if you’re truly interested in her just start a conversation, you don’t have to go full Mack mode but just say hi and see what happens. Especially if she’s smiling with it.
I prefer pretty women approaching me But i agree with some of stuff you saying. 1. She keeps staring and doesnt look away. 2. You walk past a girl and look back and she looks back too 3. She sends her brother or friend to tell you she likes you. 4. She puts her breast against your chest or back or arm when she simply move around..she uses a crowd or what ever to make excuse to rub her body against you. 5. She gives you a random compliment about your looks or body ie she says whats that in your pocket. When its just your print showing .
@@MarvOverMatterBro this is good video. I never use signs to approach girls.. because the girls who give signs usually aren't as attractive as the women who actually approach me. I cold approach or wait for a woman to approach me Like at work I do no approaching but all the girls who slept with me at work approached me first. I was 45 literally had a 24 year old approach me and go home with that day... Dudes both around her age and dudes older than me was asking me "how you do that "
Preciate it man 🙏🏾 That’s actually fact bro the more attractive women are confident enough to be straight forward. Only thing with that is, everyone isn’t going to get that, so I’m making a general video for everyone. But since you mentioned it I’ll def cover that in a handsome men’s game video.
Why is it that as an attractive guy (7.5/10ish) i keep attracting girls below my league usually 5 or 6s and never the girls that are at the same level as me or even higher?
Are you around that level of girl consistently? A girl that attractive is going to be harder to attract just walking down the street. And there are way less of them so just statistically speaking it’s less likely. But proximity is the main thing, the more attractive girls usually deal with guys that have been pre screened by their friends. So they get introduced or meet them at more exclusive events, it’s more social circle because they have too many randoms just hitting them up and approaching. Unless of course you were like a 9 yourself then it would be a little different.
@MarvOverMatter ive had 2 relationships with fairly attractive girls (7 and 7.5) and im 22 currently in university so Im around plenty of pretty girls. Ive had probably at least 20 flings with girls who showed signs themselves in my university but none of them were better looking than me. This one girl (she was prob around 8) a year ago that I found really attractive showed me very strong signs and touched me without any reason constantly, after a short fling we had sx and after a week I found out that she already had a man and that's when I backed out. She said she still wants to pursue this and end her current relationship but I couldn't accept a girl like that
So you say you’re around a lot of girls that look better than you? Are you interacting with them? I need some more context to give better advice. Email me @MarvOverMatter@gmail.com. And I gotchu
If you're an attractive guy, you end up thinking that all women smile and make contact to all men. Plus, women will hover around you, but if they're shy they'll stand in your line of sight. (Edit... once again I wrote this comment seconds before you said it.)
@@MarvOverMatter You don't realize what it means to be "invisible" until you talk to a really attractive woman who acts like you're not even there. Most 9s and 10s I've met are really flirtatious with me.
I dislike the hovering bump. Especially if I’m holding a drink .9/10 I won’t talk to her…. But have you mastered picking which girl to talk to when a group of 3 or 4 girls miraculously is in your vicinity in a night club or bar?
Haha yeah it’s annoying. But that’s how I would decide which one (if she’s attractive obviously) the one that’s closest and makes contact. And you can kind of read their body language one will be looking at you more and the others will be either looking at other things or kind of watching the interaction between you and the one that wants you. They usually pick who’s going to get the guy so if you pick a different one they will most likely reject you because of “girl code”. Or if you’re really confident you can talk to all of them as a group and see which one is giving you the most interest.
@ Ooh that’s the second time I’ve heard that! ...Because the sequence normally ends up them walking away in result of me not making a move.. Thanks man🙏 . I’ve been missing out on some easy tail.
Yeah no problem man! That’s what used to happen to me. Then my boy explained what was happening and I kind of figured it out from there. Also and this is a pro tip, it’s childish but… if you completely ignore them and don’t ever look the chances they will be more aggressive goes up because their main thing is they want you to notice them once they know you’ve noticed them they just wait. But if they don’t spot that you’re aware of them then they are forced to make bolder moves in order to get your attention. I’ll do a story time video explaining this further.
Honesty speaking i think you're extremely scared to women rejecting you because you wait around for all these signs is a waste of time . A women can give you all the signs but they will still reject you . Most of the time the women who give you those signs are not the most attractive women to you . The women who are attracted to you it's going to work out and the who's not to work out are medium , low and no interest women . A dude approaches a lot of women will always beat a dude who waiting for women to give him a sign to approach .
Haha I mean I don’t like rejection but I’m not scared of it. I went through the phase of just going up and asking all women I was interested in. But what I learned from that is, the times it usually went well was when I got some kind of indication first. And what I mean by went well is it led somewhere, not just getting the number. So I’m just streamlining. And most of the men I know who are successful with women do the same. Now of course if you see a woman you are extremely attracted to don’t wait for signs. But that doesn’t happen that often.
@@MarvOverMatter Most who are successful with women know it's huge numbers game and your method of attracting women is slow because women are all over the fucking place with how they do things . Women can send you all the signal in the world because still flake on a date or not pick your calls . The number of women who send you signals you have to be able to pick it up and sometimes women give you signals which you don't even notice . Remember I approached this chick in a Store . She told she noticed me when I entered into the shop . She sent me signals that I didn't even notice . I have cold approached 100's of women and I have reached a point to do I don't attach myself worth to women no more .
Don't approach these women. Keep your money in your pocket....why are you trying on purpose to get with a constant bank account deduction...these simp videos are no help to real men
I feel what you saying and it’s true for the most part, but his content ain’t for simps ma guy 🤦 he giving out real gems 💎 if a woman is hollering at you and obviously want you to approach her, why not ? As a man you gotta have some women on your roster my G. I’m not saying break the bank on them but at least get what you need and keep prospering in life. His content ain’t misguiding or for simps, he teaching men how to go after their offers. Rs 💯
Why get with women in the bar in the first place! Eye contact is eye contact. Quit playijng with girls with little or NO interest! This dude NEEDS to chose better, quit playing games you offer little help or sloutions!
Check out my Women Should Pursue videos I talk about only dealing with women who have high interest in you. Some women are just subtle, it doesn’t always mean low interest.
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nah, I just approach if I find her attractive. You should build a solid armor of self confidence no matter what the result is going to be.
I hear you and I respect that. For me it’s not about confidence it’s about efficiency. I know I’m not scared I’ve already done it, I just think of it as refining my skills. I think of it like a good salesmen can identify a buyer. But this also depends on if the guys gets signals often or not it’s not one size fits all I’ll admit that.
*This video really encourages stepping out of your comfort zone.*
Bro you are genius😂. You earned a subscriber❤
😂😂 I appreciate it bro 🙏🏾
Glad to see your sub count growing fam,you definitely deserve it 🫡.
Nothing but love bro 🙏🏾
I had all 3 signs a lot of a times 🤣🤣🤣
Keep making those videos 🔥🔥
Will do bro, thanks 🙏🏾
i got a girl in my university class that im hella attracted to, but we don't communicate much. She shows some signs of attraction and im a good looking dude, but still don't know how to get closer to her without giving celebrity energy and looking like a nice guy/beta. I think if i start talking to her out of nowhere i'll be looking like a creep. so i just keep working on myself and tryin to make something happen but not too hard. Good video brotha got u a sub
I really appreciate that bro 🙏🏾. If you’re down, I’m starting to do video replies to my subscribers, so you can email me and give me the info you think I need about you’re “problem” and I’ll post my response. If you’re interested email me at marvovermatter@gmail.com
Mannnnn the eye contact gets me bad because a lot of women do it but I just brush it off 😭😭
Nah bro if you’re truly interested in her just start a conversation, you don’t have to go full Mack mode but just say hi and see what happens. Especially if she’s smiling with it.
Damn I fumbled a lot 😂😂
😂😂 it’s all good. Now you know what to look for
@ facts you live and you learn
She tries to macth ur style as well 90 percet of what said is faxx i excpirenced some of them my self 😂❤
I prefer pretty women approaching me
But i agree with some of stuff you saying.
1. She keeps staring and doesnt look away.
2. You walk past a girl and look back and she looks back too
3. She sends her brother or friend to tell you she likes you.
4. She puts her breast against your chest or back or arm when she simply move around..she uses a crowd or what ever to make excuse to rub her body against you.
5. She gives you a random compliment about your looks or body ie she says whats that in your pocket. When its just your print showing .
Same brother. Video coming soon on that
@@MarvOverMatterBro this is good video.
I never use signs to approach girls.. because the girls who give signs usually aren't as attractive as the women who actually approach me.
I cold approach or wait for a woman to approach me
Like at work I do no approaching but all the girls who slept with me at work approached me first.
I was 45 literally had a 24 year old approach me and go home with that day...
Dudes both around her age and dudes older than me was asking me "how you do that "
Preciate it man 🙏🏾 That’s actually fact bro the more attractive women are confident enough to be straight forward. Only thing with that is, everyone isn’t going to get that, so I’m making a general video for everyone. But since you mentioned it I’ll def cover that in a handsome men’s game video.
You approach and she says "I don't want to be bothered and harassed by strangers"
Depends on her tone but if she’s serious on to the next one
Then go to someone else... thats life bruh.
Why is it that as an attractive guy (7.5/10ish) i keep attracting girls below my league usually 5 or 6s and never the girls that are at the same level as me or even higher?
Are you around that level of girl consistently? A girl that attractive is going to be harder to attract just walking down the street. And there are way less of them so just statistically speaking it’s less likely. But proximity is the main thing, the more attractive girls usually deal with guys that have been pre screened by their friends. So they get introduced or meet them at more exclusive events, it’s more social circle because they have too many randoms just hitting them up and approaching.
Unless of course you were like a 9 yourself then it would be a little different.
@MarvOverMatter ive had 2 relationships with fairly attractive girls (7 and 7.5) and im 22 currently in university so Im around plenty of pretty girls. Ive had probably at least 20 flings with girls who showed signs themselves in my university but none of them were better looking than me.
This one girl (she was prob around 8) a year ago that I found really attractive showed me very strong signs and touched me without any reason constantly, after a short fling we had sx and after a week I found out that she already had a man and that's when I backed out. She said she still wants to pursue this and end her current relationship but I couldn't accept a girl like that
So you say you’re around a lot of girls that look better than you? Are you interacting with them? I need some more context to give better advice. Email me @MarvOverMatter@gmail.com. And I gotchu
New Sub👍🏾 good observations 💯
Preciate it 🙏🏾
You need to make a video of how to make yourself more attractive to her.. but I like the vid bruh keep it up
Preciate it man 🙏🏾 and I gotchu
Love this video mate. Need more of these
Preciate it 🙏🏾 and Roger that!
3:08 is the choosing SIGN fellas!!!
It’s a go if you getting this one
Great video! Thank you!
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Keep puttin out content u be making good shit
Will do bro. The support yall give me is keeping me going
If you're an attractive guy, you end up thinking that all women smile and make contact to all men. Plus, women will hover around you, but if they're shy they'll stand in your line of sight. (Edit... once again I wrote this comment seconds before you said it.)
Haha… yeah that definitely doesn’t happen to all men not even close. Most men are invisible unfortunately.
@@MarvOverMatter You don't realize what it means to be "invisible" until you talk to a really attractive woman who acts like you're not even there. Most 9s and 10s I've met are really flirtatious with me.
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Yeah bro
Solid.
Preciate it 🙏🏾
I dislike the hovering bump. Especially if I’m holding a drink .9/10 I won’t talk to her…. But have you mastered picking which girl to talk to when a group of 3 or 4 girls miraculously is in your vicinity in a night club or bar?
Haha yeah it’s annoying. But that’s how I would decide which one (if she’s attractive obviously) the one that’s closest and makes contact. And you can kind of read their body language one will be looking at you more and the others will be either looking at other things or kind of watching the interaction between you and the one that wants you. They usually pick who’s going to get the guy so if you pick a different one they will most likely reject you because of “girl code”.
Or if you’re really confident you can talk to all of them as a group and see which one is giving you the most interest.
@ Ooh that’s the second time I’ve heard that! ...Because the sequence normally ends up them walking away in result of me not making a move.. Thanks man🙏 . I’ve been missing out on some easy tail.
Yeah no problem man! That’s what used to happen to me. Then my boy explained what was happening and I kind of figured it out from there.
Also and this is a pro tip, it’s childish but… if you completely ignore them and don’t ever look the chances they will be more aggressive goes up because their main thing is they want you to notice them once they know you’ve noticed them they just wait. But if they don’t spot that you’re aware of them then they are forced to make bolder moves in order to get your attention. I’ll do a story time video explaining this further.
Honesty speaking i think you're extremely scared to women rejecting you because you wait around for all these signs is a waste of time .
A women can give you all the signs but they will still reject you .
Most of the time the women who give you those signs are not the most attractive women to you .
The women who are attracted to you it's going to work out and the who's not to work out are medium , low and no interest women .
A dude approaches a lot of women will always beat a dude who waiting for women to give him a sign to approach .
Haha I mean I don’t like rejection but I’m not scared of it. I went through the phase of just going up and asking all women I was interested in. But what I learned from that is, the times it usually went well was when I got some kind of indication first. And what I mean by went well is it led somewhere, not just getting the number. So I’m just streamlining. And most of the men I know who are successful with women do the same.
Now of course if you see a woman you are extremely attracted to don’t wait for signs. But that doesn’t happen that often.
@@MarvOverMatter Most who are successful with women know it's huge numbers game and your method of attracting women is slow because women are all over the fucking place with how they do things . Women can send you all the signal in the world because still flake on a date or not pick your calls . The number of women who send you signals you have to be able to pick it up and sometimes women give you signals which you don't even notice .
Remember I approached this chick in a
Store . She told she noticed me when I entered into the shop . She sent me signals that I didn't even notice .
I have cold approached 100's of women and I have reached a point to do I don't attach myself worth to women no more .
Don't approach these women. Keep your money in your pocket....why are you trying on purpose to get with a constant bank account deduction...these simp videos are no help to real men
Watch my video on why you should let women pursue you. I sort of cover that. I don’t think you should lead with your wallet.
Why are you here lmao? Incel talk
I feel what you saying and it’s true for the most part, but his content ain’t for simps ma guy 🤦 he giving out real gems 💎 if a woman is hollering at you and obviously want you to approach her, why not ? As a man you gotta have some women on your roster my G. I’m not saying break the bank on them but at least get what you need and keep prospering in life. His content ain’t misguiding or for simps, he teaching men how to go after their offers. Rs 💯
@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 That’s all I’m saying man. Fr 💯
Yo ass gon end up alone if you continue this mindset, focus on your career but don’t forget about the ladies too
Why get with women in the bar in the first place! Eye contact is eye contact. Quit playijng with girls with little or NO interest! This dude NEEDS to chose better, quit playing games you offer little help or sloutions!
Check out my Women Should Pursue videos I talk about only dealing with women who have high interest in you. Some women are just subtle, it doesn’t always mean low interest.
This is what TH-cam is made for. You earned a subscriber 🫡
I appreciate that fr fr 🙏🏾 I’ll keep em coming bro