Man, I locked eyes with this one girl when testing. She also kept glancing my direction. As we were leaving, we made eye contact, but I never said anything. 🤦I fumbled a baddie big time.
It happens to the best of em bro. Next time just go in there and let her know what’s up. With eye contact like that go up confident and a little playful if you can. Usually if the eye contact is like that I’m smiling going up and she’s smiling as I’m coming up so we both already know what it is. You got it next time bro! “When you smell blood you gotta go for the kill.” -Kobe
The reason why you didn't take advantage of that situation because you don't have a gotta mentally in life . I tell guys to approach women don't give you signs because it unlocks your masculinity .
I was in a theater orientation a few months ago, I was one of the first people there sitting at a row alone, then this girl wanted to sit in the seat row while i was slouching covering the entrance way of all the seats. She came to say excuse me so that she could pass by to take a seat across the room, it was strange because the theater had so mamy seats wide open and i had a very closed off appreance while sitting in my row. While everyone was gathering to get seats I noticed she leaned towards my direction to look at me since there were other people at the moment blocking the view, when i turned around she held the eye contact smiling, I got nervous so i just looked at her with no expression and looked away... then another time while i was doing a crouched sitting position, i had that gut feeling she was looking at me again but I'm 100% sure so i turned and I felt as if she was looking at me but quickly looked away. Would all of this just be a coincidence or on purpose?
Thanks for the question man… this one tbh isn’t super clear. Because if that was her assigned seat then that’s why she went that way. Or maybe she just likes that row when she’s watching movies. So I wouldn’t look TOO much into that as a sign. But if she was looking at you and smiling I would always take that as a good sign. What you could have done is smiled back and made a comment about whatever movie you were about to watch. Something as simple as “are you as excited as I am to watch this movie, I’m looking forward to this one”. Now you’re in a conversation and this is where you can really tell what the vibe is. And if the conversations going well you just get up walk over and sit next to her and say “sorry it was kind of hard to hear you” now you’re on a date lol. It’s really that easy to talk to women man. Don’t be scared. I would honestly suggest for you to cold approach though. It’s not the most effective way to get girls but I think it would be beneficial for you so you can get over your fear. Because if you’re getting nervous when a girl looks at you, even if she does give you signs that she likes you, you’re not comfortable enough with women yet to take advantage of it. Check out my “Why You MUST Cold Approach” video I talk about it extensively there! I hope this helps man!
There is a girl who has been showing sexual interest towards me. Was going to shopping mall on the main entrance during summer and this girl had walked infront of me. She had this purse or what ever hanging around her waist on the back and she moved it to her side. I'm not gonna lie I stared at her ass knowing what she was doing, but this girl is bit mid in my eyes from the face, so I just want to see how far she is willing to go and if she's a good person. I'm not looking for random hookups though, I'm looking for something longer lasting and it's hard sometimes, but I'm not giving up. Might as well talk with this girl some day when I run into her again to see what she's about.
Yeah just talk to her. That’s always the answer, at the end of the day you always have talk. If she’s giving you signs and you want her just go and have a conversation. You got it bro!
Never cold approach. Keep it pushing. If she’s not in your face, in your car or in your house, she’s not interested. Does Drake cold approach based on eye contact? Thought so. 😂
Lmao drake blowing a bag on randoms so he’s not a good example for me… but I know what you mean, there’s truth in that for sure but it’s not that simple
sup brotha. That one girl is making it hard to play when i give her attention. I answered her instagram story and she answered in like 4 hours, i wanted to keep the chat goin and messaged again and she left me on delivered for 3 days. So i decided she not interested and gave her a no contact for some time. But when i pull attention away she immediately acting easy going and open even starts talking to me herself and tryna cheer me up and stuff.. Should i keep on tryin' or just ignore her from now and move on or how do i deal with that hot n cold energy. thx for the vid/
Preciate the support bro 🙏🏾… the thing with texting and messaging is it’s so low investment. If you’re not in the position to get in person with her there’s no reason to talk to her. If you are. Suggest meeting up, if she doesn’t respond with yes, cut it off. Texting back and forth is a waste of time. If a girl is interested in you she will spend her time with you bottom line.
@MarvOverMatter damn I never thought of texting that way, but yeah u r right. Gotta do some real investment first and see for myself, without being outcome dependent. Thx man💯
@etodillerx2095 hey I just reread your response, when I say it’s low investment I mean it’s too low on her part. It doesn’t take much for her to send a text so you’re not getting enough from HER by just texting. I’m not saying for you to invest more. Just wanted to clarify.
Bro I heard you say you were celibate waiting on the Lord to send your bride.. Anything outside the bible is the alternative lifestyle.. and we all have a free will to choose. But Christian men should choose the lifestyle God has chosen for us... Learn to trust him above everything else... And wait on him...
It this chick who works at the gym who I keep making eye contact with. She even held the door for me n said have a nice night. I got a feeling she interested cause she ain’t do it for nobody else and I was with hella friends . I feel like she feeling me but i know how women are they don’t like to show that much interest when guys are in group because they don’t want to be looked at as thirsty. i don’t know how to go about it. I’m also an attractive nigga not to toot my own horn but this happens quite often. How should I go about it ? Should I play it cool or approach?
I appreciate the question man… so she’s giving you signs that’s good. This would be closest to sign number 2 where she’s creating a moment for you to talk to her. I suggest you have a normal conversation with her. For example let’s say your checking into the gym and she’s at the front desk y’all look at each other smile do the whole” how are you doing today” and then you could ask her “how was your weekend” just some simple shit. If you get the feeling within that conversation that she’s feeling you ask her to workout or grab some coffee or something like that something very chill, a hike maybe. If you don’t feel confident within the conversation that she’s feeling you then at the end of the conversation just say “iight have a good one.” Then just go about your day until the next time you see her. Then just say “what’s up” and keep it moving, or if she seems like she wants to engage, then engage. But bottom line you don’t wanna come across like you’re too interested, or forcing anything, just like you’re a cool guy to talk to even when you do ask her out. But if you just keep chatting with her eventually she’s gonna break and say or do something that makes it obvious she’s feeling you, if she’s feelin you, and that’s when you take it to that next level. This shouldn’t take too long though. But the fact that you go to the gym and see her all the time there’s no reason to make a super direct approach, just a subtle one and don’t fixate on her too much you should be in these situations with multiple girls so that there’s not too much pressure on this one. This is just one of many. SIDE NOTE… You HAVE TO test the waters though, don’t ever be afraid of that. I just say be subtle so that you don’t cross into the “he’s thirsty” territory. And sometimes being direct in a situation like this one in particular can do that. Hope this helps!
100 percent bro. You know it, we just let fear get in the way and talk ourselves out of it. Or we genuinely don’t know the right steps to take. And that’s what I’m tryna do, give guys the steps.
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Signs you are more attractive than you think
@@AbhishekR_YTthis is a good one
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*Knowing when a woman is signaling interest can make all the difference in starting a meaningful conversation.*
Dang bro you very wise
Very introspective on social dynamics
Preciate the love bro 🙏🏾
Man, I locked eyes with this one girl when testing. She also kept glancing my direction. As we were leaving, we made eye contact, but I never said anything. 🤦I fumbled a baddie big time.
It happens to the best of em bro. Next time just go in there and let her know what’s up. With eye contact like that go up confident and a little playful if you can. Usually if the eye contact is like that I’m smiling going up and she’s smiling as I’m coming up so we both already know what it is. You got it next time bro!
“When you smell blood you gotta go for the kill.” -Kobe
The reason why you didn't take advantage of that situation because you don't have a gotta mentally in life .
I tell guys to approach women don't give you signs because it unlocks your masculinity .
what if she is in a room with you alone and stares at you for like 10 minutes?
She wants you to make a move bro, she probably nervous and don't know what to say until one of yall say something
I was in a theater orientation a few months ago, I was one of the first people there sitting at a row alone, then this girl wanted to sit in the seat row while i was slouching covering the entrance way of all the seats. She came to say excuse me so that she could pass by to take a seat across the room, it was strange because the theater had so mamy seats wide open and i had a very closed off appreance while sitting in my row. While everyone was gathering to get seats I noticed she leaned towards my direction to look at me since there were other people at the moment blocking the view, when i turned around she held the eye contact smiling, I got nervous so i just looked at her with no expression and looked away... then another time while i was doing a crouched sitting position, i had that gut feeling she was looking at me again but I'm 100% sure so i turned and I felt as if she was looking at me but quickly looked away. Would all of this just be a coincidence or on purpose?
Thanks for the question man… this one tbh isn’t super clear. Because if that was her assigned seat then that’s why she went that way. Or maybe she just likes that row when she’s watching movies. So I wouldn’t look TOO much into that as a sign.
But if she was looking at you and smiling I would always take that as a good sign. What you could have done is smiled back and made a comment about whatever movie you were about to watch. Something as simple as “are you as excited as I am to watch this movie, I’m looking forward to this one”. Now you’re in a conversation and this is where you can really tell what the vibe is. And if the conversations going well you just get up walk over and sit next to her and say “sorry it was kind of hard to hear you” now you’re on a date lol. It’s really that easy to talk to women man. Don’t be scared.
I would honestly suggest for you to cold approach though. It’s not the most effective way to get girls but I think it would be beneficial for you so you can get over your fear. Because if you’re getting nervous when a girl looks at you, even if she does give you signs that she likes you, you’re not comfortable enough with women yet to take advantage of it.
Check out my “Why You MUST Cold Approach” video I talk about it extensively there!
I hope this helps man!
There is a girl who has been showing sexual interest towards me. Was going to shopping mall on the main entrance during summer and this girl had walked infront of me. She had this purse or what ever hanging around her waist on the back and she moved it to her side. I'm not gonna lie I stared at her ass knowing what she was doing, but this girl is bit mid in my eyes from the face, so I just want to see how far she is willing to go and if she's a good person.
I'm not looking for random hookups though, I'm looking for something longer lasting and it's hard sometimes, but I'm not giving up. Might as well talk with this girl some day when I run into her again to see what she's about.
Yeah just talk to her. That’s always the answer, at the end of the day you always have talk. If she’s giving you signs and you want her just go and have a conversation. You got it bro!
Never cold approach. Keep it pushing. If she’s not in your face, in your car or in your house, she’s not interested. Does Drake cold approach based on eye contact? Thought so. 😂
Lmao drake blowing a bag on randoms so he’s not a good example for me… but I know what you mean, there’s truth in that for sure but it’s not that simple
@ all men pay. Female attention is monetized whether it’s a cheap burger at Cheesecake Factory or a trip to Vegas.
@MD-xb1qw All men do not pay, please don’t believe that.
@ you’re delusional. All men pay with time, attention energy and money. Not one man is getting P for free.
sup brotha. That one girl is making it hard to play when i give her attention. I answered her instagram story and she answered in like 4 hours, i wanted to keep the chat goin and messaged again and she left me on delivered for 3 days. So i decided she not interested and gave her a no contact for some time. But when i pull attention away she immediately acting easy going and open even starts talking to me herself and tryna cheer me up and stuff.. Should i keep on tryin' or just ignore her from now and move on or how do i deal with that hot n cold energy. thx for the vid/
Preciate the support bro 🙏🏾… the thing with texting and messaging is it’s so low investment. If you’re not in the position to get in person with her there’s no reason to talk to her. If you are. Suggest meeting up, if she doesn’t respond with yes, cut it off. Texting back and forth is a waste of time. If a girl is interested in you she will spend her time with you bottom line.
@MarvOverMatter damn I never thought of texting that way, but yeah u r right. Gotta do some real investment first and see for myself, without being outcome dependent. Thx man💯
Yeah man no doubt 💯
@etodillerx2095 hey I just reread your response, when I say it’s low investment I mean it’s too low on her part. It doesn’t take much for her to send a text so you’re not getting enough from HER by just texting. I’m not saying for you to invest more. Just wanted to clarify.
@@MarvOverMatter ah yep i misunderstood that, thx!
Bro I heard you say you were celibate waiting on the Lord to send your bride.. Anything outside the bible is the alternative lifestyle.. and we all have a free will to choose. But Christian men should choose the lifestyle God has chosen for us... Learn to trust him above everything else... And wait on him...
It this chick who works at the gym who I keep making eye contact with. She even held the door for me n said have a nice night. I got a feeling she interested cause she ain’t do it for nobody else and I was with hella friends . I feel like she feeling me but i know how women are they don’t like to show that much interest when guys are in group because they don’t want to be looked at as thirsty. i don’t know how to go about it. I’m also an attractive nigga not to toot my own horn but this happens quite often. How should I go about it ? Should I play it cool or approach?
As a attractive guy yourself you know when a girl got interest it’s just a gut feeling we all get bro
I appreciate the question man… so she’s giving you signs that’s good. This would be closest to sign number 2 where she’s creating a moment for you to talk to her. I suggest you have a normal conversation with her. For example let’s say your checking into the gym and she’s at the front desk y’all look at each other smile do the whole” how are you doing today” and then you could ask her “how was your weekend” just some simple shit. If you get the feeling within that conversation that she’s feeling you ask her to workout or grab some coffee or something like that something very chill, a hike maybe.
If you don’t feel confident within the conversation that she’s feeling you then at the end of the conversation just say “iight have a good one.” Then just go about your day until the next time you see her. Then just say “what’s up” and keep it moving, or if she seems like she wants to engage, then engage. But bottom line you don’t wanna come across like you’re too interested, or forcing anything, just like you’re a cool guy to talk to even when you do ask her out. But if you just keep chatting with her eventually she’s gonna break and say or do something that makes it obvious she’s feeling you, if she’s feelin you, and that’s when you take it to that next level. This shouldn’t take too long though.
But the fact that you go to the gym and see her all the time there’s no reason to make a super direct approach, just a subtle one and don’t fixate on her too much you should be in these situations with multiple girls so that there’s not too much pressure on this one. This is just one of many.
SIDE NOTE… You HAVE TO test the waters though, don’t ever be afraid of that. I just say be subtle so that you don’t cross into the “he’s thirsty” territory. And sometimes being direct in a situation like this one in particular can do that.
Hope this helps!
100 percent bro. You know it, we just let fear get in the way and talk ourselves out of it. Or we genuinely don’t know the right steps to take. And that’s what I’m tryna do, give guys the steps.