How To Handle A Disrespectful Wife | Paul Friedman

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  • I change the context because how to handle a disrespectful wife makes her seem like a dog or something. Nobody feels good about a disrespectful wife. I explain how to see this as something that can be ended altogether not just handled.
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ความคิดเห็น • 137

  • @worthey1969
    @worthey1969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I can't say what is bothering me to my wife without being attacked ,there are many trigger words and I have no idea what they are, they change every day but I've learned one thing, I can't say anything negative about her family but it's okay for her to do it to mine.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why for heaven's sake need you ever say anything that might be triggering her? To what end? Learn to love her and be grateful she doesn't throw you out for pointing out her or her family's little flaws.

    • @Trubeast28
      @Trubeast28 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @worthey1969
      @worthey1969 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@TheMarriageFoundation I don't think you have to learn to love...do you learn to be angry, you can't learn emotions.

    • @solarcutgems
      @solarcutgems ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here buddy. she fuckin drives me crazy.... but I love the bitch

    • @nicholaslucas5183
      @nicholaslucas5183 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@TheMarriageFoundation worthy isn't using words that might trigger her, that’s not what he said, he's wife is using random words to cause an argument, and your telling worthy to love her, if telling her the error of her ways isn't working then worthy should leave her.

  • @davidesponge4809
    @davidesponge4809 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My wife feels betrayed when I help someone else, she's angry for days. I can't understand that

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When your wife needs all the attention its better to give it to her. She is your highest priority, only God comes first.

    • @joecam1167
      @joecam1167 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only wife proper balance.
      A husband needs to keep his wife on the path towards heaven, just as a wife needs to do for her husband.
      Just give it to her is terrible advice.
      A man's duty lies beyond just pampering a spoiled spouse.

  • @pastthefog6514
    @pastthefog6514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was good and helpful. I’m a female but it helped me to understand why i can’t say anything even small without him getting pretty upset. Thanks

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you taking the course for men?

    • @RayMak
      @RayMak 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@TheMarriageFoundation soon. When I’m home I’ll get it

  • @mohammedmazhar9572
    @mohammedmazhar9572 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice one

  • @robertdepesci3418
    @robertdepesci3418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So what do you do when wife is disrespectful from the first day after wedding?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How long ago was that?

    • @robertdepesci3418
      @robertdepesci3418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheMarriageFoundation 10 years ago. The disrespect continues and gets worse. I'm the main provider and very responsible. I don't mistreat her. Etc.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think you were clear about what you were getting into the first day after your marriage. Perhaps you can experiment with different ways of not being affected.

    • @mikevancleave453
      @mikevancleave453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So basically, just get over it. “She’s not gonna change anyway.”.

    • @VS-yk3gu
      @VS-yk3gu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMarriageFoundation same situation as Robert .. whats the best thing to do?

  • @terryrichs2745
    @terryrichs2745 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do I do right now? an incredible peace of usefull tool to have, thank you

  • @yesorno1768
    @yesorno1768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    More info please 👍

  • @bertl1022
    @bertl1022 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this video has really helped me. Thank you!

  • @kylelitwack
    @kylelitwack ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is absolutely incredible information. Thank you!

  • @jsincriplord4476
    @jsincriplord4476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this... God bless you sir...

  • @vanessalozarita4187
    @vanessalozarita4187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this advise

  • @abij319
    @abij319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    An amazing lesson and so educative. Thanks so much.

  • @gavinpeterson5323
    @gavinpeterson5323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My man. I needed to be told this.

  • @artskillsworld254
    @artskillsworld254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is what I have been missing,not even my grandpa would have shared this wisdom with me.

  • @Chong760
    @Chong760 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn you!!! You’re so right!! Ahhh!!😫

  • @danielsingh6497
    @danielsingh6497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really Good Ideas.

  • @godfreymwania3780
    @godfreymwania3780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir

  • @minangroland8543
    @minangroland8543 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! This is great tips 👌

  • @Golden_writes550
    @Golden_writes550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A constant dripping on a day of steady rain
    And a contentious woman are alike;
    He who would restrain her restrains the wind,
    And grasps oil with his right hand.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Scripture is always correct. You cannot change her so why try? You can however change yourself or "thyself" if you prefer. That is what our men's course is all about themarriagefoundation.org/ and having changed yourself your world and marriage will change, too.

    • @neohermitist
      @neohermitist 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The marriage foundation guy subscribes to the rose colored glasses method of marital bliss. Sure your wife treats you like crap but your happiness and love will rule the day.

  • @chrismatekenyatv6828
    @chrismatekenyatv6828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for Advise

  • @edwardlee6168
    @edwardlee6168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 needed this

  • @winddragonmma
    @winddragonmma ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so different. I've never heard any western therapist nor psychologist teach this information!

    • @mfawls9624
      @mfawls9624 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually Christianity ultimately teaches these things.
      In the world but not of the world. Really the same thing.

  • @goharabrar2471
    @goharabrar2471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir
    So accurate knowledge 📕 of yours.

  • @elijahhall3189
    @elijahhall3189 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this!

  • @SaulYusuf
    @SaulYusuf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Waw, how can I register for men though I'm about to married now

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is a course for premarriage... themarriagefoundation.org/premarital-program/

  • @castroericcastillo9625
    @castroericcastillo9625 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about if you don't have time

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One must prioritize that which is important and marriage is the biggest most important thing you can ever do.

  • @joecrocket7873
    @joecrocket7873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was wondering what your thoughts are on if a wife has an affair and comes back to you will she always be a cheater after that?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Our habits, including our morality, only can change through resolute processes. It begins with a willful determination. Without those we repeat ourselves over and over.

    • @joecrocket7873
      @joecrocket7873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So more or less do you believe a woman can be faithful after cheating her husband.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Only if she makes deep changes to her habits and thinking as people who use the SEW technique do. I don't know of any other technique that is as effective. But, it begins first with a deep determination to change herself, not just a triggered passionate desire. Tears and promises, no matter how sincere, are not the same thing. But, if she discovered our processes and worked her butt off using the SEW, then yes, she would be able to change and never fall back.

    • @TCReview
      @TCReview ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joecrocket7873 how's it going?

    • @joecrocket7873
      @joecrocket7873 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TCReview going well things have been getting better and better in our relationship but there's always challenges especially with kids how about you?

  • @vinodxxx1581
    @vinodxxx1581 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You seem to suggest that we husbands become punching bags for our wives.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are hearing that wrong. You must learn to love unconditionlly

  • @ryanr6656
    @ryanr6656 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like you are about to save my marriage.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe it is time for the course for men if your marriage is so deep in trouble...

  • @philthy3221
    @philthy3221 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be honest I did change I went from a dominant husband to mutual and it's gotten nothing but worse

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  ปีที่แล้ว

      When you feel so much love that you don't care about her flaws you will have everything you seek.

    • @philthy3221
      @philthy3221 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheMarriageFoundation so basically I have to overlook everything and just accept everything

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  ปีที่แล้ว

      "overlooking" your wife's flaws defines your love for her. Is that such a high bar?? We are all tested by others and in marriage it is a test of our love to see past our spouse's flaws and errors and love them with all we have.

    • @neohermitist
      @neohermitist 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@philthy3221 IOW accept the abuse you are getting in the name of LOVE.

  • @chrismatekenyatv6828
    @chrismatekenyatv6828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Billions percent right!!!

  • @kiellandbrwn1
    @kiellandbrwn1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you should market yourself sir ! 👌🏾

  • @ABDIRAHMANShMohamedTabey
    @ABDIRAHMANShMohamedTabey 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @dreambeliever3652
    @dreambeliever3652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really getting into the bones of this, huh? I hear if you’re an Abraham, she’ll be a Sarah. Gonna keep trying. Thanks for the positive info. Guess I’ll cut off my video quest rt here for the night

  • @astonbwatoni124
    @astonbwatoni124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When you change your self she will change too

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not always as you desire but you must evolve as a human being

    • @zippyblessed839
      @zippyblessed839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No wayyyy

    • @kunntakentay
      @kunntakentay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hell no she won't 🤣

    • @wolves--tn4093
      @wolves--tn4093 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I tried it before watching the video .. and she just gone so much worse :/

    • @gabochiedesign
      @gabochiedesign 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@wolves--tn4093 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I have observed that modernity seeks to make men effeminate,And that's what the kind of advice my grandpa is giving to men right now.His advice seems so persuasive and on point but is not the truth.