Hello Courtney I couldn't help but notice your comment, in all honest that actually scares the soul out of me, but then I am reminded it's not my soul God wants, but my Heart Thank you Jesus
@@IgorWalker-dv9nc all depends on your sense of possibility, I guess Igor, what is possible for some is not for some others as with what is true for some, is not for others such as Jesus & Judas Judas broke our hearts by betraying Jesus to have Jesus stand trial for crimes Jesus didn't commit, then tortured to death, but Jesus didn't turn around & do the same to us, I truly believe Jesus should have, so people will stop using Jesus as an excuse to get away with murder & other crimes they commit such as betrayal Dear Igor
@@IgorWalker-dv9nc Such as Christ, Perhaps the ideal choice in Friends would be Elijah & Elisha as close friends, or Jacob & Rachael as a Woman or Virgin Mary & Joseph as within Marriage, not to offend God however I do believe I understand what you are saying Igor
You’re not just grieving for the person and the fact that they’re not in your life anymore, and that you won’t see them everyday. You’re also grieving the life that you thought you were going to have together that is now gone.
I’m going through a heartbreak right now with a man I loved so very much, a man I could see as my husband and father of my children. It was my first true love. And strange enough… it’s hard, but God has given me such peace about it. Before the breakup God told me that I needed a year to myself - I needed a year to get closer to God and heal and build my life up. He told me to break up with my boyfriend, as we were both wounded and hurting eachother. I didn’t understand though because I was so certain that God confirmed to me that he was my future husband… So now, I have peace knowing that it was either not for me, or after this year of healing, God may bring us back together if it’s His Will. I have so much peace and faith in this which is something I’ve never had with previous breakups
I'm going through the exact same thing right now. I thought I was alone in this but everything you just said also describes my situation. Wow! I'm so glad you've found peace! Anything is possible for the one who believes!
Oh my God. Been thru the same thing as you guys. Until I was thinking that maybe I was wrong, maybe I was forcing it but when I come to think of it, it really feels the same as you, and unexpectedly I found your comments. But right now, I'm enjoying myself in my healing journey, what a peaceful life and starting to thank God and sees His beautiful creation and works. Truly, God moves in mysterious ways. We just have to seek Him, Surrender and follow His will.❤
So many things happen in our lives for a purpose it that moment, but when there is a power that God gives people that those connections are like Plugging in a light, the light wont work until it gets the power from plugging it in, they need it to feed off one another to make them function.
I promise that heart break feeling of loosing someone from a breakup will ease. One day you will wake up and see them with someone else and feel nothing. God will heal your broken heart and prepare you for the person of your dreams
It is not your loss. That person lost you. Remind yourself again all the bad things they have done all the red flags. Our healing process is not all the same, but God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed, that is the same for everyone.
Many year's ago a girl I loved so much suddenly quit and left me so broken. Many year's later I am so grateful to God she left... Her exit was part of God's rebuilding of my life and destiny. Any building renovation requires some material to be pulled down. I surrendered to Christ after she left and began my discipleship; that would not have happened with her in my life considering that we were partnering to sin. Fast fwd and God has blessed me, I am serving him and married with beautiful children.
Society doesn't need anymore of these social media influencers looking to generate clicks and a paycheck. It needs believers to simply live Christ-centered lives without seeking attention or validation from anyone else for doing so. Why is there merchandise on a show like this with "Jesus' face" (even though we don't know what He looked like) and why are they talking about vain things like manicures? The title of the show is also a play on the words of the "Girls Gone Wild" videos which is anything but Christian. In the world, but not of the world. We're not to be following/imitating/copying what the world does. "Do not love the world nor the things that are in the world. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world."
Amen, but, sadly the today's careless spoiled evil parents are not raising their children in the Right way, so ti looks that the Good times Are Ending, and Are already over. Peace with you, until the Second Arrival, immediately After the End of the "world".
Yesterday I kid you not I was crying hard I was fighting and I was so upset this has happened before but yesterday for the first time I said God please don't leave me please don't leave me. I looked up and I kept saying God please I need you please don't leave me and all of a sudden I stopped. The tears stood still my heart rate went down and I didn't cry anymore. He told me to lay down and I lay down. He made me stop crying he heard me and that was my sign that he's not gonna leave me.🥺🙏
"Stand still and let God move. Standing still is hard to do. When you feel like there's no way HE Will make a way for you. Stand still and let God move."
I’m single and I feel closer to God. Like Ari, I couldn’t be single, and love to love a man, but I needed God first. I am truly my happiest at the moment and have faith that God will bring me that special someone. 🙏🏻💙🦋
God gives us free will, sometimes are own decisions are the cause of our pain , but god will intervene when it’s not meant for us and will get us back on the path he wants for us to make us whole again.
How amazing and merciful is our GOD. He died for us WOW HE IS TOO GOOD THANK U JESUS MAY THE HOLY SPIRIT FILL YOU ALL WITH LOVE JOY PEACE PATIENCE KINDNES GOODNESS FAITHFULLNESS AND SELF CONTORL IN JESUS NAME
I needed this I knew I have to let him go but I couldn’t I didn’t want to But I know God wants me to So I let him go it hurts but at the same time it brought me peace I love my god and I trust him
For the most part a month has 30-31 days. Proverbs has 31 chapters. Read a chapter a day for 31 days. It works. I have been doing this for nearly 2 years. 📖🙏🏽
Acts 2:38kjv. Get baptize in name Jesus Christ for remission of sins Actsv3:19kjv only way sins are remitted Luke 24:47 Jesus said remission of sins will be perch in his name. Acts 4:12kjv no salvation in any other name. Baby baptism doesnt count nobody in bible was baptized as baby. That of this world and roman. If u got baptkzed in name of Father Son Holy Ghost. U are yet to call on name of Lord!! Therefor u are not saves
WOW. I needed this. Currently going through the hardest breakup of my life. The OCD tendencies are SO real during heartbreak. I'm still very much in love with him and I'm constantly considering the "what ifs", but I know I need to put it all in God's hands and trust his plan for me. Grateful for this message and you both.
I also think breakups are so hard because you already form a whole future with that person in your head. And it gets stripped from you. Your world and the idea of looking forward with eagerness is broken.
About breakups- TD Jakes said that we have no business dreaming about a guy, our wedding day with him, his last name - UNTIL we are actually marrying him. I think breakups are hard because of ego but also because it's a death of dreaming about a certain person - that was probably not God-inspired.
Its more than ego. I don't just give my heart to anyone. I thought my boyfriend would propose and I'm certain he wanted to. He said his OCD handicapped him. I miss him. TD Jakes has been married..what over 35 years? That's not a very compassionate statement. Jacob was deeply in love with Rachel 7 years and longed to marry her. Anyway, carry on and steer clear of premarital sex. I find that's the real heartbreak. Giving your body to someone whose not your spouse. Don't do it.
About 3 years ago I went through a really hard breakup, it felt like someone had died it was such an insane feeling. Right when I would open my eyes I remember having horrible anxiety, I lost 20 pounds it was one of the worst things. I can say from experience that the lord restores 100% He saved me completely even if it feels like the pain will never go away you will look back you will maybe even see the other person with someone else and you won’t even be bothered it’s even more insane how much the Lord can restore
God lead me to this podcast I needed to hear this. I’m going through a breakup of 5years & it was just toxic too much cheating from his part, however we both made wrong decisions in the relationship it got to a point where I would ask myself if he’s the man I really wanna marry & spend the rest of my life with. I turned into a nasty ugly person I lost myself. I would always ask god if he’s not for me remove him away from me show me signs, & when I tell you god showed me enough signs to walk away, but I continued to stay in a place where I was unhappy bc I loved him & had so much hopes of us doing things right over & over for 5years. And like they say “god will keep allowing them to hurt you until you understand & walk away. It’s been 5 days no contact & I’m finally at peace where I got a closure in my dream I had last night I lost my emotional attachment to this person I still care for him, but genuinely there isn’t no more love left. Thank you girls for this I’m ready to follow & have faith in god have a closer bond with god🙏🏼😌
Your story sounds just like mine! The only difference is I haven't been able to break the emotional attachment. It has been several weeks since I have had contact with him. But I keep looking at my phone to see if has called. I have blocked him but still want him to reach out even though I know he is not what is good for me
I am in this EXACT situation. 4.5 years, and I’m finally done… 4 days no contact. I know the Lord is giving me the strength and peace I need through this, because it is so hard. I hope you’re doing well❤️
But God knows what he is doing, and never give up in that love, for he feels the power and connection I'm convinced, and know that he had to fix something that he knew wasnt honoring the Heavenly Father or myself.. 😂
Just ended a 3 year worth relationship. I have had a lotta back and forths but finally got it over with. thank you so much for the episode, it spoke to me so precisely. God bless y'all.
"God bless you, my dear sisters. One thing I admire about you is that you don't wear masks. Whether you win or lose, you show the same transparency. When I was a Iranian Christian television host, the network manager, who was also our pastor , taught us a lesson, which was to let people see your failures, because when you achieve victory in the Lord, you can bear witness and show people how the Lord turned your failures into victories. And if He did it for us, He will do it for you too, and you will be an example for people to know that we are all alike, and if God can work for us, He can work for you too. Thank you for your good programs; I hope to see you up close one day. 🙏
This episode is so bold and brave. I am so so proud of you girls for saying things that unpopular to a lot of people but you still say it. Praise Jesus!
Hello Mialin That comment has all the makings of Bravehearts speech, "laying in your death bed, you would give anything from that day, till this day to say to the enemy, you may take our lives, but you'll never take our freedom" God is Freedom, the Braveheart movie highlights many battles with the enemy on all fronts & the enemies intended points of entry & desired results of intent, not to mention one of the greatest tear jerking movies ever made
@@TJBocaDelJaguar 1sf of all stop watching movies or all Hollywood trash reprograming your mind. Read king James bible seek God in his word. Learn truth for yourself
@@nathanmccumber8965 is that directed at me or are you simply voicing the course of action that you know you need to take but are struggling with Nathan
My husband left me 3 weeks ago... this couldn't have came at a better time. Thank you for the Godly advice. I've been heartbroken before... but this one felt so different. We actually did get married and said the vows "until death do us part" and I believed him. I'm not sure if I ever want to be with someone again, I don't know if I can trust again. After 5 years of being belittled, told I was never going to be loved and everyone leaves me for a reason.... I just truly want to sit with God. Even that's hard because I wonder if thats also what God thinks of me.... I feel like nobody could ever love me including God.... but I want Him to. Please keep me in your prayers. Again, thanks for the advice and just being so vulnerable and open. It's nice to know I'm not the only person who's felt this unbearable pain. It's nice to know I'm not alone....
God loves you so much that he's pursuing your heart. Don't listen to the lies of the enemy and the lies of your ex-husband. There is a verse in Genesis that says what you meant for evil, God meant for good. God is going to turn this around for you. God bless you, you sweet soul
You’re really not alone, I felt the same way and still do sometimes, my husband and I are still together but we are going through a very difficult season. This will be something that you take a day at a time and the only thing that has helped me is trusting our Lord, stress and anxiety we’re consuming me to the point of physical pain and it showed in my appearance and behavior. It can be really harmful but at the same time I couldn’t be more grateful for all the struggles and pain I have endured because I’m close to God now and I know that he’s transforming me into the person I’m meant to be!! Be patient and just trust our Lord, regardless of the outcome you will be a better person and that’s always a win!! And don’t forget that God loves you!! Don’t ever let anyone convince you otherwise!!
@@a1xzyt-y8gthank you for the kind words and encouragement. I believe this is something I will take a long time healing from, but I’m in no rush. I’m trying to let God do His will in my life. I’ll pray for the both of our healing🙏🏼
I love yall sm much. I’m currently going through a breakup and it’s been on and off but I keep telling myself, God is going to allow this person continue to hurt me over and over again, until I let go. It’s been so hard because I love this person sm still but it’s just not going anywhere good. Once I think things are going good, something happens. My friend told me that is god not letting me comfortable where I don’t belong. It’s definitely a process but I’m ready to fully surrender and trust in Gods love now.
When you said "when God wants us to me and we don't He will force you to move" (which is very true) but my anxiety started ramping up wondering if I'm doing enough or what I should be and the lord spoke to me and said "you are doing the right thing, my peace is with you because you are doing beautiful work. Just keep raising up this child (we have a 1 month old and I've been reading the Bible with him every time he eats) and bring him up knowing me and in the right way of living" this is just so amazing because this has never happened where my anxiety starts murmuring and He comes to swoop in and reassure me. Praise God!
This was the exact message I needed today♥️ I went through a breakup a little over a month ago and it’s been hard to keep my sights focused on Jesus. He made it so plain that we weren’t supposed to be together anymore, but the lonely feeling has been overwhelming at times. thank you so much for this encouragement that God isn’t done with my story♥️ I just needed the reminder. I know all the right Bible words but sometimes someone repeating it out loud is so powerful.
Thank you for this TH-cam channel. I don’t have a fresh breakup but it did make me think through the last tumultuous relationship and how badly I fell for someone who turned out wasn’t actually Christian (I assumed she was) and how lust and sex was weaponized as a tool to keep me from seeing the red flags, the deception, the cheating, the thousands of lies. I’m so grateful to be free because it allows me to be available for the woman who God does have for me, and I’m in no hurry to rush into something with the wrong woman ever again. One of the sayings in self-defense shooting classes is that when someone is trying to gravely hurt you or your family/children/etc that “You can’t miss fast enough.” Similarly, if we are not content being single and working on ourselves and our path with God, we risk choosing to date the wrong person, and attachment can mess with our heads and hearts to blind us from how bad they are for us. I can’t “cuff” the wrong woman fast enough. So I better focus on getting my life back towards a more Christ-centered path and I’ll run into less heartache and drama. THANK YOU for this channel. I’ve strayed from a good church home and Bible study for many years, and since moving to a new state and with the pandemic has exacerbated meeting other Christian friends. I’ve always felt so rejected when a girl can get SO interested in me then when she finds out that I’m Christian or don’t believe in hookup culture (no regrets all these years from bars and parties and not hooking up on purpose) or I talk about praying and she ghosts and I end up confused why Jesus is a turnoff to these women. The woman God has for me will find my love for Him as a turn-on, and I’ll be so grateful for the life that she and I build together. Thanks, you two. Have a great day, and good luck healing and grieving. Your future husband is out there.
I went through a break up with a guy from my church recently. What hurt the most it was out of the blue and he did it by messenger. Firstly I reached out to my friends from my church including my pastor's wife, unfollowed and unfriended him, asked God for wisdom through that season. I keep my distance at church. We had a discussion with our pastors about what we need and what we have learnt and I know I have learnt about who I am and what God has instore for me. If you are reading this tho and are going through a break up, please know you are loved more than any man or woman can love you and that love comes from God and he has got you and surround yourself with people you trust of the same gender in your church Bless you beautiful ladies 🙏❤
Hi Ari - I suffer with the same OCD. It's called, rumination. I just discovered this a year ago. It could literally handicap your day. If it weren't for Jesus I don't know where I would be. I still go through it but as I get closer to God, and even though I feel bad for leaving it to him but I leave it in God's will. It hurts a little bit God has our best interest ❤
@@ashley_sprinklesDon't apologize to Christ for your weaknesses! Jesus exhorts us to come to Him with everything. He cares. I'm not sure what OCD really is. My ex has it and he told me he couldn't marry me because of it. I think it's an unclean spirit. That it can be cast out & dismantled. Any thoughts?
EVERYTHING yall are saying is EXACTLY what I felt my second year of marriage. I felt so heartbroken and it was the worst year of my life. I’m still married but right now I’m so confused. I don’t know whether to stay or go but I know I have to keep praying and trust in God. I got really close to God My second year and now I’ve have let him love me to learn how to love myself. It’s a journey! But God is a good God and he’s got me! ❤
I’m 34 and got baptised when I was 17. Was single for God for about 10 years and then met someone that i thought loved me. Turns out they didn’t and when they went to another country to work She forgot about me. It’s been rough to be honest but God has used it to wake me up. I’m 38 days sober from a drug and alcohol addiction, returning from being backslidden and starting to let God in to all the pain and let him heal me. He’s got to break us and put us back together again so yea I can completely relate to what you’re both saying
wow the church as the body of christ is so real..i know so many christians including myself who recently got renewed in their faith and love for God just like you
That's amazing to hear! The power of faith and the love for God can truly bring transformation and renewal to people's lives. It's encouraging to witness the impact of the church as the body of Christ, where individuals can find support, encouragement, and a sense of community. May your renewed faith continue to inspire and guide you on your spiritual journey.
Thank you so much Ari and Angela. I am going through a break up right now and what hurts the most is there is no basis to the break up, he would reach out several times after the break up (but not consistently) & then he stopped after 4 months. I still miss him and I agree with you Ari - the hardest most tragic part is that he is still alive, and I really thought this would last.
Bless you, I know what it feels like when you feel like the Lord is not close. I think that’s when He wants us to cry out and trust Him. I feel real lonely when I can’t feel His presence
Thank you guys for releasing such good content! It’s been keeping me motivated since my break up. My boyfriend broke up with me after 4 years after getting a tumor removed by my ovaries. One day post op I had to deal with my heartbreak he begged for me back two days after. You guys give me so much strength. God has been guiding me through everything. Y’all are so inspirational!
@miaholdstock1128 Thankyou Mia, I am going through an incredibly tough time and particularly tough day, it is no coincidence that you have replied and indirectly comforted me today. I hope my wife will one day return.
I was in a relationship for a long time, I put my heart and soul into. I gave so much, it took so much of my energy. last year I went to church, lit up a candle and I said to god “god please show me the right path to take, tell me what I have to do…even if it’s hard I’m willing to do, I just want peace” 2 weeks later I finally had the courage to leave, it shocked everyone around me that I finally did it. I’ve been healing in my silence. It has been hard but the strength that we have is indescribable you just have to go through it with god to really understand.
This is exactly what I needed a raw and real talk about relationships! Sometimes I feel so alone and isolated and have obsessive thoughts and when you girls talk about having obsessive thoughts and suffering it helps me as well ! Thankyou so much for speaking about this topic today ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your hearts and the truth and wisdom of God! My fiancé just broke up with me yesterday but I know God has a greater plan. 🙏🏻🙌🏻
Thanks you for this ladies. I spent last year in grief, depression, and anxiety. January 1, 2023 my ex passed away. From the same thing that caused our breakup a few years back. I almost ignored God because I didn't understand and I didn't know what to say to him. After excuse after excuse my former church opened a later service. I started going and so thankful I did. 1 year later, I'm not where I want or need to be but I'm on my way. Thank you, Jesus ❤
Praying for protection over your heart. I was here a year ago and the sun on this side is so much brighter, safer and right 🌹 I was wading deeper into my faith at there time and it’s only now I see God ripped it away because it wasn’t for me
Loosing a spouse is a lot worse than a breakup. Especially when you share children. You regret every bad moment you had with the you grieve their life and your fiture the heart ache never goes away
Im new to my journey to God, watching you 2 talk make me feel hopeful. I don't have the energy to force things anymore, so I'm learning to surrender and grow close to God. Thank you 😊
Girls! Thank you very much for this podcast! I've been struggling with something in my life lately. God is silent, which hurts my heart, but I feel His peace. I know that He knows what is best for me and when it will happen. Let us be patient and God will comfort us ❤
Back in 1999 I got involved with a guy that I should have never been with. I tried so hard to get rid of him and I just couldn't do it in my strength. It was God that finally moved him away from me and even then he still had this hold on me. It's hard to explain the evil that I felt. I used to have such awful dreams while dating this guy. One day he called me and God gave me the strength not to answer the phone. He never called me again after that. I finally felt free. Sadly,it took a long time to heal from this unhealthy relationship. God has blessed me with a wonderful husband and I will forever be grateful. 🛐🙏 God had to break my heart to save my soul. Thank you Jesus. 🙏🛐
Amen and amen! It's amazing that we serve a God who fixes what is broken. I shared a video on my channel talking about my break up and how I became fully healed.
Another excellent one sisters in Christ. I been threw that pain it hurt I cried to God. My Ego she going to be with someone else etc. Doing things with them etc. Driving myself crazy But in that I grew so much in the lord I felt him pushing me forward in him. He wanted me to move . What is surprising I came across her after a year on the road driving she pulled up at the stop light we talked caught up she is in another relationship with someone else.But I had grew so much in the lord it did not effect me we are still friends not close friends but she does say hi to me. But that had to be god to have a friend ship with her now but I know my relationship with the lord is number one for me. I am not thinking trying to get back with her at all. I am going forward with the lord. Its been a year and a half since she left me but I grew so much in the lord threw that pain and hurt. I am ok with her now I pray for her wish her the best. Amen good video ladies I pray to meet a women like you guys Amen yall are a fresh breath of air Amen 👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾⭐🌟
You ladies truly are touching so many people, including myself! God bless you for sharing your lessons and messages. So on fire & ready for God to propel me up! Amen, thank you Jesus! ❤️
A break up is like a lost almost death. It’s truly the worst pain. There’s no medicine for it. Love is so beautiful but can HURT so badly. I’m 39yrs old I can say I meant my person I went threw breakups I wish I knew god was moving things for me. Trust the process
I am having the hardest time right now with my break up. It’s only been 2 weeks and the anxiety and aching is just wrecking me. It was 4 years of my life and I treated it like marriage, but I ended up getting broken up with. I love this women. I just keep praying for the wisdom and the faith and the strength to get through this cause there really feels like there will be no end to my feelings. It’s so hard for me not to continue thinking about her and what she’s doing with other people. It’s been so hard and I don’t understand.
@@davidmunguia4030 thank you man. I’ve been praying and reading the Bible everyday and the amount of piece I’ve been feeling day by day increasing is nothing short of a miracle, some days are obviously still harder than others but Jesus and The Holy Spirit are with me
Sin is missing the MARK. You want her and dont have her, you are making a SIN. Listen to Neville Goddard about REVISION and Sammy ingam about Revision how to use JESUS who is your human Imagination to take her back!!! Good luck
@@samuelcontic9861hey man, going through a tough breakup that is similar to what yours sounded like. Any updates on how you’re doing? Advice you’d give to yourself 10 months ago.
So glad you mentioned soul ties. As someone who's connection with God grows stronger daily, I decided almost a year ago to be celibate until marriage. Recently, I found myself wondering how to disconnect and cleanse myself of these ties with people from my past. Thank you for the guidance.
I am coming out of a year long relationship that I wanted to make work at all costs, but in the end I was forced to let it go. It is absolutely a day by day process, setbacks can occur in an instant. God is good and His grace is sufficient. I believe in His promise to use it all for my good. Amen
I love how courageous you 2 are to not be afraid to share personal stories for the benefit of your listeners to be able to relate and hopefully they'd be able to get things off their chest to their peers and to God. Your giggly intros always make me laugh 😅😊
loved this episode ❤ would you be able to expand on this topic more by talking about exactly how to move on, no matter how small the steps, like a tangible guide on how to move forward with specific tips. Thank you for sharing the good word of God ❤
GOD BLESS YOU GIRLS FOR THE WORD OF GOD. .THIS IS SISTER THERESA. THE POWERFUL PEACE OF GOD I RECEIVED THIS MORNING IN PRAYER THIS MORNING. IM SHARING WITH ALL OF YOU. AMEN...
Going through breakups for me were absolutely awful, and I never went to God for it which I know is why I suffered so much. It reminds me of that photo of Jesus holding a big teddy bear behind his back, and asking the little girl to hand over her small teddy & she has no idea he has something bigger for her. - now that I am in the relationship with my partner right now, I understand why no other relationships before this one worked out. Because this guy now is the one I’m meant to marry. 😊
Acts 2:38kjv. Get baptize in name Jesus Christ for remission of sins Actsv3:19kjv only way sins are remitted Luke 24:47 Jesus said remission of sins will be perch in his name. Acts 4:12kjv no salvation in any other name. Baby baptism doesnt count nobody in bible was baptized as baby. That of this world and roman. If u got baptkzed in name of Father Son Holy Ghost. U are yet to call on name of Lord!! Therefor u are not saves
Listening to you two is a breath of life for me! I am going through this waiting season and your fresh, honest perspectives are inspiring me. Yes, your external beauty is attractive, but your blooming internal beauty is by far the most attractive part of you ladies. God Bless you to continue inspiring us to love God with our whole heart, mind and body! I am traditional Catholic and will never leave my faith, but you two are helping breath the life of THE TRUTH into my heart!❤❤❤
I agree with the most significant testimony from pain because of what I have been through with heartbreak; that is precisely what you said. I prayed to God every day when I was in the relationship to help the relationship, but I got to a breaking point where I had to leave her. I can say that in Jesus, I feel free while in my time of hurt, and I believe that God changed me a lot (based on what my friend said to me) and Praised the Lord for what he has done for me.
Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony. It's incredible how God can bring us freedom and transformation even in times of heartbreak. Your faith is inspiring. My name is Daisy Watt, and I live in Westminster, London. I would love to connect with you and be friends. Feel free to reach out anytime. God bless you! 🙏😊
@@nathanmccumber8965 hello Nathan I don't have your version, as mine is different in translation, so I know it causes confusion, God is His Word a Living Word, we all live different lives within the same world but see it differently, but it is nice when different Words of God have the same meaning, not much light where I am located so this is the best way I can search for that light across the sea What about you Nathan?
@@TJBocaDelJaguar Acts 2:38kjv. Get baptize in name Jesus Christ for remission of sins Actsv3:19kjv only way sins are remitted Luke 24:47 Jesus said remission of sins will be perch in his name. Acts 4:12kjv no salvation in any other name. Baby baptism doesnt count nobody in bible was baptized as baby. That of this world and roman. If u got baptkzed in name of Father Son Holy Ghost. U are yet to call on name of Lord!! Therefor u are not saves
There is nothing I need to hear more today than this episode… thank you God for answering my prayers and guiding me to the right words I need to hear. Thank you both so much ❤️
I recently went through a breakup and it has been hard. Despite that, it's so true that although I'm in pain I've never been closer to God. I'm reading numbers and I just realized the connection between the tribe of Israel's complaining, doubting God's plan because of the hardships, and wanting to go back to Egypt to how we act after breakups. They lacked the faith to call on the lord for help and instead, they romanticized their time as slaves in Egypt and wished for that back. This is like how we hold on to the broken relationship, question god, and want to go back because of the hardship/pain instead of relying on him and acknowledging that his timing and will are for our greater good. Leaning on our understanding will lengthen our journey to the promised land. So ladies and gentlemen let's keep the faith, be at peace and call on the lord for strength/help when we need it. ❤
Fantastic podcast. You spoke on hard-hitting, uncomfortable truths. We all have different answers on how we're proceeding in life and our walk with Jesus. I've taken a long break from romantic relations to focus on me and getting myself to where I need to be on several levels. It's a VERY long road. I've been through everything you described about heartbreak as well. While being private, leaning into Jesus to be my comfort was the best thing that I could do. It is also great to talk about this with other Christians.
I praise God in my loudest voice .He brought me to this video and it honestly changed the way I was perceiving my break up. You girls touched up on all the deepest questions I was scared to think about. This video was honestly a divine intervention. Thank you for helping me heal. ❤️
i just wanna say that you guys help me so much when im feeling far from god, i feel like you are my best friends. I´m sure that god lead me to you. Thank you from Argentina
Absolutely lovely upload. I like that you both ended the upload on a positive focus being on soul ties. Thank you very much, look forward to more content like this and God Bless y'all
I am currently going through a breakup and the pain is excruciating. And believe me, I know it's God's will for my life cause it's like you said "God will break your heart to save your soul" but I wish the pain would end. It's like I don't want to be alive anymore. I cry and pray to God every day, but the pain is so severe. I feel sooo broken.
this seems more catered for people who were left behind, not for people who initiated the break up. both go through grief too. break up is hard for both parties and a difficult choice for the one breaking up.
I initiated the break up. It hurts my soul. I called my ex yesterday and he’s just not it. He was my first sexually so I do relate to the soul-ties. I believe this is for people going through break ups in general
Hello Knight How are you, could you please timestamp the most inspirational part of this message, that you found most relevant to God, but only if that's not too much for you God bless
You two have been very helpful to me I’m also new in my journey following the Lord, and it brings me comfort that you two are not perfect and that you’re learning too.. Thank you for being my Christian friends cause I dont have any, but I pray God will bring a friend I to my life the way you two found each other ❤
Find a good church and you'll find new friends, provided you are ready to cut-loose your old (unsaved) friends. God promises in the Bible; "Come out from among them (the unsaved) and be separate says the Lord, then I'll be a God unto you and you'll be my people." God also warns; "Thou must not be unevenly yoked, believer with unbeliever." Maybe God is waiting for you to do your part first, then He will fill your life with the kind of BF and kind of friends who would take a bullet for you?
Y’ALL!!! I LITERALLY just sent you a message on insta about my situation and God brought me to your channel rather than your Apple podcast page to set this directly in my lap!! He is SO good and SO mighty thank you SO MUCH for being such a light to others. He just used you to answer EVERY SINGLE ONE of my doubts I’ve had today. I hope I can meet you gorgeous gals one day 🥰💕😘
This would’ve helped me soo much 2 years ago ❤️ I love this! With my journey with God this sums up what I have learned. Always trust his timing. For everything.
You gotta pray to God, go to church and read your Bible a lot, most of your time. When I least expected it, God had gave me resilience And understanding. My faith and trust in God had overcame any feelings of sadness that were left due to a broken heart because all I did during the grievance period was fix my eyes on God. God knows best. He loves us more than anyone, more than anything. Actual blood was shed for our Salvation. You gotta really personalize with that fact.
The Girl on the left (Sorry Girls, I'm terrible with names and forgot your names), but she gave you the best advice anyone will ever give you, if you live to be a thousand, about getting over a breakup and broken heart. I still remember my first broken heart and my father gave me similar advice. He told me you'll never get over it, not completely, until you cutoff ALL CONTACT and pretend as if she died. Best advice ever.
“He will break your heart to save your soul” ❤❤❤❤
Hello Courtney
I couldn't help but notice your comment, in all honest that actually scares the soul out of me, but then I am reminded it's not my soul God wants, but my Heart
Thank you Jesus
How possible can that be 😂
@@IgorWalker-dv9nc all depends on your sense of possibility, I guess Igor, what is possible for some is not for some others as with what is true for some, is not for others such as Jesus & Judas
Judas broke our hearts by betraying Jesus to have Jesus stand trial for crimes Jesus didn't commit, then tortured to death, but Jesus didn't turn around & do the same to us, I truly believe Jesus should have, so people will stop using Jesus as an excuse to get away with murder & other crimes they commit such as betrayal
Dear Igor
@@TJBocaDelJaguar yeah you're right,but in most cases it depends on the type of people we keep close to our self
@@IgorWalker-dv9nc Such as Christ, Perhaps the ideal choice in Friends would be Elijah & Elisha as close friends, or Jacob & Rachael as a Woman or Virgin Mary & Joseph as within Marriage, not to offend God however
I do believe I understand what you are saying Igor
You’re not just grieving for the person and the fact that they’re not in your life anymore, and that you won’t see them everyday.
You’re also grieving the life that you thought you were going to have together that is now gone.
Very true that happened to me and now I’m so thankful it didn’t workout bc God sent me a great man that now is my husband ❤
I'm sorry my bad I can be an arse sometimes
You girls really help me out and I'm seriously not always looking for sex I'm learning through you and Jesus
💯❤️🩹🙏
Oh my goodness that’s what it is. I was confused onto why I feel like this and this is exactly what it is 😪
I’m going through a heartbreak right now with a man I loved so very much, a man I could see as my husband and father of my children. It was my first true love. And strange enough… it’s hard, but God has given me such peace about it. Before the breakup God told me that I needed a year to myself - I needed a year to get closer to God and heal and build my life up. He told me to break up with my boyfriend, as we were both wounded and hurting eachother. I didn’t understand though because I was so certain that God confirmed to me that he was my future husband… So now, I have peace knowing that it was either not for me, or after this year of healing, God may bring us back together if it’s His Will. I have so much peace and faith in this which is something I’ve never had with previous breakups
I'm going through the exact same thing right now. I thought I was alone in this but everything you just said also describes my situation. Wow! I'm so glad you've found peace! Anything is possible for the one who believes!
Oh my God. Been thru the same thing as you guys. Until I was thinking that maybe I was wrong, maybe I was forcing it but when I come to think of it, it really feels the same as you, and unexpectedly I found your comments. But right now, I'm enjoying myself in my healing journey, what a peaceful life and starting to thank God and sees His beautiful creation and works. Truly, God moves in mysterious ways. We just have to seek Him, Surrender and follow His will.❤
Not alone🙏🏼❤️
Same happening here
So many things happen in our lives for a purpose it that moment, but when there is a power that God gives people that those connections are like Plugging in a light, the light wont work until it gets the power from plugging it in, they need it to feed off one another to make them function.
I promise that heart break feeling of loosing someone from a breakup will ease. One day you will wake up and see them with someone else and feel nothing. God will heal your broken heart and prepare you for the person of your dreams
not the truth for everyone. it's been 10 years and i still hurt and i never look him up because it would kill me to see him with someone else
Saw him with someone new today for the first time, and I could not breathe for like two minutes. Felt like a punch to my heart.
It is not your loss. That person lost you. Remind yourself again all the bad things they have done all the red flags. Our healing process is not all the same, but God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed, that is the same for everyone.
Many year's ago a girl I loved so much suddenly quit and left me so broken. Many year's later I am so grateful to God she left... Her exit was part of God's rebuilding of my life and destiny. Any building renovation requires some material to be pulled down.
I surrendered to Christ after she left and began my discipleship; that would not have happened with her in my life considering that we were partnering to sin. Fast fwd and God has blessed me, I am serving him and married with beautiful children.
It is so beautiful that your girls are very honest❤
Waaaauuu thanks for taking a Godly decision
We need more Christian Youth - Influencers. Thank you for answering your calling❤
Society doesn't need anymore of these social media influencers looking to generate clicks and a paycheck. It needs believers to simply live Christ-centered lives without seeking attention or validation from anyone else for doing so. Why is there merchandise on a show like this with "Jesus' face" (even though we don't know what He looked like) and why are they talking about vain things like manicures? The title of the show is also a play on the words of the "Girls Gone Wild" videos which is anything but Christian. In the world, but not of the world. We're not to be following/imitating/copying what the world does. "Do not love the world nor the things that are in the world. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world."
Amen, but, sadly the today's careless spoiled evil parents are not raising their children in the Right way, so ti looks that the Good times Are Ending, and Are already over. Peace with you, until the Second Arrival, immediately After the End of the "world".
Yesterday I kid you not I was crying hard I was fighting and I was so upset this has happened before but yesterday for the first time I said God please don't leave me please don't leave me. I looked up and I kept saying God please I need you please don't leave me and all of a sudden I stopped. The tears stood still my heart rate went down and I didn't cry anymore. He told me to lay down and I lay down. He made me stop crying he heard me and that was my sign that he's not gonna leave me.🥺🙏
Aww 🥹 this is one of God’s trait that I love so much. He is so sweet!
God and the Holy Spirit give Peace 🕊️
Wow God is great ❤
"Stand still and let God move. Standing still is hard to do. When you feel like there's no way HE Will make a way for you. Stand still and let God move."
Amen❤
I’m single and I feel closer to God. Like Ari, I couldn’t be single, and love to love a man, but I needed God first. I am truly my happiest at the moment and have faith that God will bring me that special someone. 🙏🏻💙🦋
God gives us free will, sometimes are own decisions are the cause of our pain , but god will intervene when it’s not meant for us and will get us back on the path he wants for us to make us whole again.
How amazing and merciful is our GOD. He died for us WOW HE IS TOO GOOD THANK U JESUS MAY THE HOLY SPIRIT FILL YOU ALL WITH LOVE JOY PEACE PATIENCE KINDNES GOODNESS FAITHFULLNESS AND SELF CONTORL IN JESUS NAME
I needed this
I knew I have to let him go but I couldn’t
I didn’t want to
But I know God wants me to
So I let him go it hurts but at the same time it brought me peace
I love my god and I trust him
For the most part a month has 30-31 days. Proverbs has 31 chapters. Read a chapter a day for 31 days. It works. I have been doing this for nearly 2 years. 📖🙏🏽
Oh My goodness that's exactly what I did....The same for me Proverbs and Psalm are my favorite books of the bible
Acts 2:38kjv. Get baptize in name Jesus Christ for remission of sins
Actsv3:19kjv only way sins are remitted
Luke 24:47 Jesus said remission of sins will be perch in his name.
Acts 4:12kjv no salvation in any other name.
Baby baptism doesnt count nobody in bible was baptized as baby. That of this world and roman. If u got baptkzed in name of Father Son Holy Ghost. U are yet to call on name of Lord!! Therefor u are not saves
WOW. I needed this. Currently going through the hardest breakup of my life. The OCD tendencies are SO real during heartbreak. I'm still very much in love with him and I'm constantly considering the "what ifs", but I know I need to put it all in God's hands and trust his plan for me. Grateful for this message and you both.
Read bible king James.
How are you doing now ?
I also think breakups are so hard because you already form a whole future with that person in your head. And it gets stripped from you. Your world and the idea of looking forward with eagerness is broken.
This is why I don't get attached. People come and go. Life is short even at the longest. There is an abundance of wonderful people out here.
@@gamehackz889easier said than done
And that means you can’t really create a strong bond
About breakups- TD Jakes said that we have no business dreaming about a guy, our wedding day with him, his last name - UNTIL we are actually marrying him. I think breakups are hard because of ego but also because it's a death of dreaming about a certain person - that was probably not God-inspired.
Its more than ego. I don't just give my heart to anyone. I thought my boyfriend would propose and I'm certain he wanted to. He said his OCD handicapped him. I miss him. TD Jakes has been married..what over 35 years? That's not a very compassionate statement. Jacob was deeply in love with Rachel 7 years and longed to marry her. Anyway, carry on and steer clear of premarital sex. I find that's the real heartbreak. Giving your body to someone whose not your spouse. Don't do it.
About 3 years ago I went through a really hard breakup, it felt like someone had died it was such an insane feeling. Right when I would open my eyes I remember having horrible anxiety, I lost 20 pounds it was one of the worst things.
I can say from experience that the lord restores 100% He saved me completely even if it feels like the pain will never go away you will look back you will maybe even see the other person with someone else and you won’t even be bothered it’s even more insane how much the Lord can restore
I really needed to read this, thank you so much for sharing 🤍
Wish them well and let them go. They gave you something to love and something to learn from. God bless them. Keep moving forward.
God lead me to this podcast I needed to hear this. I’m going through a breakup of 5years & it was just toxic too much cheating from his part, however we both made wrong decisions in the relationship it got to a point where I would ask myself if he’s the man I really wanna marry & spend the rest of my life with. I turned into a nasty ugly person I lost myself. I would always ask god if he’s not for me remove him away from me show me signs, & when I tell you god showed me enough signs to walk away, but I continued to stay in a place where I was unhappy bc I loved him & had so much hopes of us doing things right over & over for 5years. And like they say “god will keep allowing them to hurt you until you understand & walk away. It’s been 5 days no contact & I’m finally at peace where I got a closure in my dream I had last night I lost my emotional attachment to this person I still care for him, but genuinely there isn’t no more love left. Thank you girls for this I’m ready to follow & have faith in god have a closer bond with god🙏🏼😌
Your story sounds just like mine! The only difference is I haven't been able to break the emotional attachment. It has been several weeks since I have had contact with him. But I keep looking at my phone to see if has called. I have blocked him but still want him to reach out even though I know he is not what is good for me
You like them bad boys 😂😂😂😂
I am in this EXACT situation. 4.5 years, and I’m finally done… 4 days no contact. I know the Lord is giving me the strength and peace I need through this, because it is so hard. I hope you’re doing well❤️
I think with break ups too it’s like you can’t bare the thought of someone you love so much not being in your life anymore:
You must of really loved them
Yeah it's really had to say goodbye 👋 to someone you truly love,even when you two are no longer together..
But God knows what he is doing, and never give up in that love, for he feels the power and connection I'm convinced, and know that he had to fix something that he knew wasnt honoring the Heavenly Father or myself.. 😂
Just ended a 3 year worth relationship. I have had a lotta back and forths but finally got it over with. thank you so much for the episode, it spoke to me so precisely. God bless y'all.
"God bless you, my dear sisters.
One thing I admire about you is that you don't wear masks. Whether you win or lose, you show the same transparency. When I was a Iranian Christian television host, the network manager, who was also our pastor , taught us a lesson, which was to let people see your failures, because when you achieve victory in the Lord, you can bear witness and show people how the Lord turned your failures into victories. And if He did it for us, He will do it for you too, and you will be an example for people to know that we are all alike, and if God can work for us, He can work for you too.
Thank you for your good programs; I hope to see you up close one day. 🙏
This episode is so bold and brave. I am so so proud of you girls for saying things that unpopular to a lot of people but you still say it. Praise Jesus!
Hello Mialin
That comment has all the makings of Bravehearts speech, "laying in your death bed, you would give anything from that day, till this day to say to the enemy, you may take our lives, but you'll never take our freedom"
God is Freedom, the Braveheart movie highlights many battles with the enemy on all fronts & the enemies intended points of entry & desired results of intent, not to mention one of the greatest tear jerking movies ever made
You know what be even Bolder if u read king James bible do what it says.
@@TJBocaDelJaguar 1sf of all stop watching movies or all Hollywood trash reprograming your mind.
Read king James bible seek God in his word. Learn truth for yourself
@@nathanmccumber8965 is that directed at me or are you simply voicing the course of action that you know you need to take but are struggling with Nathan
Minutes 34-38 I was sobbing. Angela told my whole story. Trusting God is a lifelong commitment 😢❤
My husband left me 3 weeks ago... this couldn't have came at a better time. Thank you for the Godly advice. I've been heartbroken before... but this one felt so different. We actually did get married and said the vows "until death do us part" and I believed him. I'm not sure if I ever want to be with someone again, I don't know if I can trust again. After 5 years of being belittled, told I was never going to be loved and everyone leaves me for a reason.... I just truly want to sit with God. Even that's hard because I wonder if thats also what God thinks of me.... I feel like nobody could ever love me including God.... but I want Him to. Please keep me in your prayers. Again, thanks for the advice and just being so vulnerable and open. It's nice to know I'm not the only person who's felt this unbearable pain. It's nice to know I'm not alone....
God DOES love you so much. Don’t ever doubt that.. praying for you 🙏🙏 things will get better for you.
God loves you so much that he's pursuing your heart. Don't listen to the lies of the enemy and the lies of your ex-husband. There is a verse in Genesis that says what you meant for evil, God meant for good. God is going to turn this around for you. God bless you, you sweet soul
You’re really not alone, I felt the same way and still do sometimes, my husband and I are still together but we are going through a very difficult season. This will be something that you take a day at a time and the only thing that has helped me is trusting our Lord, stress and anxiety we’re consuming me to the point of physical pain and it showed in my appearance and behavior. It can be really harmful but at the same time I couldn’t be more grateful for all the struggles and pain I have endured because I’m close to God now and I know that he’s transforming me into the person I’m meant to be!! Be patient and just trust our Lord, regardless of the outcome you will be a better person and that’s always a win!! And don’t forget that God loves you!! Don’t ever let anyone convince you otherwise!!
@@Shelby-fr2znthank you very much❤
@@a1xzyt-y8gthank you for the kind words and encouragement. I believe this is something I will take a long time healing from, but I’m in no rush. I’m trying to let God do His will in my life. I’ll pray for the both of our healing🙏🏼
I love yall sm much. I’m currently going through a breakup and it’s been on and off but I keep telling myself, God is going to allow this person continue to hurt me over and over again, until I let go. It’s been so hard because I love this person sm still but it’s just not going anywhere good. Once I think things are going good, something happens. My friend told me that is god not letting me comfortable where I don’t belong. It’s definitely a process but I’m ready to fully surrender and trust in Gods love now.
the way you guys uplift and compliment each other genuinely makes me tear up🥲🥲
When you said "when God wants us to me and we don't He will force you to move" (which is very true) but my anxiety started ramping up wondering if I'm doing enough or what I should be and the lord spoke to me and said "you are doing the right thing, my peace is with you because you are doing beautiful work. Just keep raising up this child (we have a 1 month old and I've been reading the Bible with him every time he eats) and bring him up knowing me and in the right way of living" this is just so amazing because this has never happened where my anxiety starts murmuring and He comes to swoop in and reassure me. Praise God!
This was the exact message I needed today♥️ I went through a breakup a little over a month ago and it’s been hard to keep my sights focused on Jesus. He made it so plain that we weren’t supposed to be together anymore, but the lonely feeling has been overwhelming at times. thank you so much for this encouragement that God isn’t done with my story♥️ I just needed the reminder. I know all the right Bible words but sometimes someone repeating it out loud is so powerful.
Thank you for this TH-cam channel. I don’t have a fresh breakup but it did make me think through the last tumultuous relationship and how badly I fell for someone who turned out wasn’t actually Christian (I assumed she was) and how lust and sex was weaponized as a tool to keep me from seeing the red flags, the deception, the cheating, the thousands of lies. I’m so grateful to be free because it allows me to be available for the woman who God does have for me, and I’m in no hurry to rush into something with the wrong woman ever again. One of the sayings in self-defense shooting classes is that when someone is trying to gravely hurt you or your family/children/etc that “You can’t miss fast enough.” Similarly, if we are not content being single and working on ourselves and our path with God, we risk choosing to date the wrong person, and attachment can mess with our heads and hearts to blind us from how bad they are for us. I can’t “cuff” the wrong woman fast enough. So I better focus on getting my life back towards a more Christ-centered path and I’ll run into less heartache and drama.
THANK YOU for this channel. I’ve strayed from a good church home and Bible study for many years, and since moving to a new state and with the pandemic has exacerbated meeting other Christian friends. I’ve always felt so rejected when a girl can get SO interested in me then when she finds out that I’m Christian or don’t believe in hookup culture (no regrets all these years from bars and parties and not hooking up on purpose) or I talk about praying and she ghosts and I end up confused why Jesus is a turnoff to these women. The woman God has for me will find my love for Him as a turn-on, and I’ll be so grateful for the life that she and I build together.
Thanks, you two. Have a great day, and good luck healing and grieving. Your future husband is out there.
There no such thing boyfriend or girlfriend in the bible.
I went through a break up with a guy from my church recently. What hurt the most it was out of the blue and he did it by messenger.
Firstly I reached out to my friends from my church including my pastor's wife, unfollowed and unfriended him, asked God for wisdom through that season. I keep my distance at church.
We had a discussion with our pastors about what we need and what we have learnt and I know I have learnt about who I am and what God has instore for me.
If you are reading this tho and are going through a break up, please know you are loved more than any man or woman can love you and that love comes from God and he has got you and surround yourself with people you trust of the same gender in your church
Bless you beautiful ladies 🙏❤
Hi Ari - I suffer with the same OCD. It's called, rumination. I just discovered this a year ago. It could literally handicap your day. If it weren't for Jesus I don't know where I would be. I still go through it but as I get closer to God, and even though I feel bad for leaving it to him but I leave it in God's will. It hurts a little bit God has our best interest ❤
I also have religious ocd your not alone❤
@@karolinedyer3391 ❤️ I'm glad I'm not the only one. I always say, "I'm sorry Jesus I know you have so many too help".. 🙏 God bless you Karoline
@@ashley_sprinklesDon't apologize to Christ for your weaknesses! Jesus exhorts us to come to Him with everything. He cares. I'm not sure what OCD really is. My ex has it and he told me he couldn't marry me because of it. I think it's an unclean spirit. That it can be cast out & dismantled. Any thoughts?
Therapy helps
The thing about it not being linear was truly helpful, thank you so much! And yes, the morning and the nights really are the worst
EVERYTHING yall are saying is EXACTLY what I felt my second year of marriage. I felt so heartbroken and it was the worst year of my life. I’m still married but right now I’m so confused. I don’t know whether to stay or go but I know I have to keep praying and trust in God. I got really close to God My second year and now I’ve have let him love me to learn how to love myself. It’s a journey! But God is a good God and he’s got me! ❤
I’m 34 and got baptised when I was 17. Was single for God for about 10 years and then met someone that i thought loved me. Turns out they didn’t and when they went to another country to work She forgot about me. It’s been rough to be honest but God has used it to wake me up. I’m 38 days sober from a drug and alcohol addiction, returning from being backslidden and starting to let God in to all the pain and let him heal me. He’s got to break us and put us back together again so yea I can completely relate to what you’re both saying
wow the church as the body of christ is so real..i know so many christians including myself who recently got renewed in their faith and love for God just like you
That's amazing to hear! The power of faith and the love for God can truly bring transformation and renewal to people's lives. It's encouraging to witness the impact of the church as the body of Christ, where individuals can find support, encouragement, and a sense of community. May your renewed faith continue to inspire and guide you on your spiritual journey.
Thank you so much Ari and Angela. I am going through a break up right now and what hurts the most is there is no basis to the break up, he would reach out several times after the break up (but not consistently) & then he stopped after 4 months. I still miss him and I agree with you Ari - the hardest most tragic part is that he is still alive, and I really thought this would last.
Bless you, I know what it feels like when you feel like the Lord is not close. I think that’s when He wants us to cry out and trust Him. I feel real lonely when I can’t feel His presence
Thank you guys for releasing such good content! It’s been keeping me motivated since my break up. My boyfriend broke up with me after 4 years after getting a tumor removed by my ovaries. One day post op I had to deal with my heartbreak he begged for me back two days after. You guys give me so much strength. God has been guiding me through everything. Y’all are so inspirational!
My wife left me, i am fortunate as it has brought the deepest level of repentance and reconnection. I would really appreciate the prayer!
praying for you
@miaholdstock1128 Thankyou Mia, I am going through an incredibly tough time and particularly tough day, it is no coincidence that you have replied and indirectly comforted me today. I hope my wife will one day return.
I was in a relationship for a long time, I put my heart and soul into. I gave so much, it took so much of my energy. last year I went to church, lit up a candle and I said to god “god please show me the right path to take, tell me what I have to do…even if it’s hard I’m willing to do, I just want peace” 2 weeks later I finally had the courage to leave, it shocked everyone around me that I finally did it. I’ve been healing in my silence. It has been hard but the strength that we have is indescribable you just have to go through it with god to really understand.
This is exactly what I needed a raw and real talk about relationships! Sometimes I feel so alone and isolated and have obsessive thoughts and when you girls talk about having obsessive thoughts and suffering it helps me as well ! Thankyou so much for speaking about this topic today ❤
This is beautiful, I'm alone most of the time and I'm always at peace.
The pain of a breakup is real. It's not only in your head, it's physical and affects your heart
This podcast has helped me in incredible ways. I cherish y'alls words and am so appreciative of Jesus giving y'all this platform.
Thank you so much for sharing your hearts and the truth and wisdom of God! My fiancé just broke up with me yesterday but I know God has a greater plan. 🙏🏻🙌🏻
part 2 please!! This episode was so encouraging for me to break up my soul tie.
Thanks you for this ladies. I spent last year in grief, depression, and anxiety. January 1, 2023 my ex passed away. From the same thing that caused our breakup a few years back. I almost ignored God because I didn't understand and I didn't know what to say to him. After excuse after excuse my former church opened a later service. I started going and so thankful I did. 1 year later, I'm not where I want or need to be but I'm on my way. Thank you, Jesus ❤
I’m currently going through a breakup, and the hardest part is that I can’t ever see myself with anyone else.
It always feels like that until you meet someone knew ❤
Praying for you
Thats how you feel now. But trust me, when you meet the one, he'll sweep you off your feet.
Praying for protection over your heart. I was here a year ago and the sun on this side is so much brighter, safer and right 🌹 I was wading deeper into my faith at there time and it’s only now I see God ripped it away because it wasn’t for me
@@thaisass7981 thank you! I trust you Lord. I will let go. 🙏🏼❤️
I found this channel and God is definitely speaking to me through you thank you!
We all go thru stuff, But when you have God with you, You are never suffering by your self Just talk to God he is right there to comfort you.
Loosing a spouse is a lot worse than a breakup. Especially when you share children. You regret every bad moment you had with the you grieve their life and your fiture the heart ache never goes away
Im new to my journey to God, watching you 2 talk make me feel hopeful. I don't have the energy to force things anymore, so I'm learning to surrender and grow close to God. Thank you 😊
came at the perfect time. thank you! if you dont move, god will force you to move.
Girls! Thank you very much for this podcast! I've been struggling with something in my life lately. God is silent, which hurts my heart, but I feel His peace. I know that He knows what is best for me and when it will happen. Let us be patient and God will comfort us ❤
I got asked out today for the first time and I said no, because I know I’m not ready yet with God. I love this
Back in 1999 I got involved with a guy that I should have never been with. I tried so hard to get rid of him and I just couldn't do it in my strength. It was God that finally moved him away from me and even then he still had this hold on me. It's hard to explain the evil that I felt. I used to have such awful dreams while dating this guy. One day he called me and God gave me the strength not to answer the phone. He never called me again after that. I finally felt free. Sadly,it took a long time to heal from this unhealthy relationship. God has blessed me with a wonderful husband and I will forever be grateful. 🛐🙏 God had to break my heart to save my soul. Thank you Jesus. 🙏🛐
My heart is so broken right now, but I believe that God will help guide me through this difficult time. Everything hurts, but I will be okay❤️
Amen and amen! It's amazing that we serve a God who fixes what is broken. I shared a video on my channel talking about my break up and how I became fully healed.
Another excellent one sisters in Christ. I been threw that pain it hurt I cried to God. My Ego she going to be with someone else etc. Doing things with them etc. Driving myself crazy But in that I grew so much in the lord I felt him pushing me forward in him. He wanted me to move . What is surprising I came across her after a year on the road driving she pulled up at the stop light we talked caught up she is in another relationship with someone else.But I had grew so much in the lord it did not effect me we are still friends not close friends but she does say hi to me. But that had to be god to have a friend ship with her now but I know my relationship with the lord is number one for me. I am not thinking trying to get back with her at all. I am going forward with the lord. Its been a year and a half since she left me but I grew so much in the lord threw that pain and hurt. I am ok with her now I pray for her wish her the best. Amen good video ladies I pray to meet a women like you guys Amen yall are a fresh breath of air Amen 👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾⭐🌟
This was beautiful, thank you girls.
You ladies truly are touching so many people, including myself! God bless you for sharing your lessons and messages. So on fire & ready for God to propel me up! Amen, thank you Jesus! ❤️
A break up is like a lost almost death. It’s truly the worst pain. There’s no medicine for it. Love is so beautiful but can HURT so badly. I’m 39yrs old I can say I meant my person I went threw breakups I wish I knew god was moving things for me. Trust the process
I am having the hardest time right now with my break up. It’s only been 2 weeks and the anxiety and aching is just wrecking me. It was 4 years of my life and I treated it like marriage, but I ended up getting broken up with. I love this women. I just keep praying for the wisdom and the faith and the strength to get through this cause there really feels like there will be no end to my feelings. It’s so hard for me not to continue thinking about her and what she’s doing with other people. It’s been so hard and I don’t understand.
Hang in there bro use your single time to grow closer to God and work on yourself too you'll be ok
@@davidmunguia4030 thank you man. I’ve been praying and reading the Bible everyday and the amount of piece I’ve been feeling day by day increasing is nothing short of a miracle, some days are obviously still harder than others but Jesus and The Holy Spirit are with me
Sin is missing the MARK. You want her and dont have her, you are making a SIN. Listen to Neville Goddard about REVISION and Sammy ingam about Revision how to use JESUS who is your human Imagination to take her back!!! Good luck
@@samuelcontic9861hey man, going through a tough breakup that is similar to what yours sounded like. Any updates on how you’re doing? Advice you’d give to yourself 10 months ago.
Part 2 would be so helpful... aswell as an entire episode on sacred intimacy! Thank you for sharing your light with all of us!
So glad you mentioned soul ties. As someone who's connection with God grows stronger daily, I decided almost a year ago to be celibate until marriage. Recently, I found myself wondering how to disconnect and cleanse myself of these ties with people from my past. Thank you for the guidance.
I am coming out of a year long relationship that I wanted to make work at all costs, but in the end I was forced to let it go. It is absolutely a day by day process, setbacks can occur in an instant. God is good and His grace is sufficient. I believe in His promise to use it all for my good. Amen
I love how courageous you 2 are to not be afraid to share personal stories for the benefit of your listeners to be able to relate and hopefully they'd be able to get things off their chest to their peers and to God. Your giggly intros always make me laugh 😅😊
It’s so good to hear I’m not alone in hearing scripture in my mind while i sleep. Like its being downloaded ❤ thank you Jesus.
Been waiting the whole day for the video ❤
I've never seen two women being more real in life in TH-cam you are a refreshing
loved this episode ❤ would you be able to expand on this topic more by talking about exactly how to move on, no matter how small the steps, like a tangible guide on how to move forward with specific tips. Thank you for sharing the good word of God ❤
You Ladies Have Such A Big Beautiful Heart ♥️ You Will Never Be Lonely With A Special Child From God! Thank You For Being So Loyal To God!
GOD BLESS YOU GIRLS FOR THE WORD OF GOD. .THIS IS SISTER THERESA. THE POWERFUL PEACE OF GOD I RECEIVED THIS MORNING IN PRAYER THIS MORNING. IM SHARING WITH ALL OF YOU. AMEN...
Going through a divorce!! What is life ..getting close to god is what has save me so far
Going through breakups for me were absolutely awful, and I never went to God for it which I know is why I suffered so much. It reminds me of that photo of Jesus holding a big teddy bear behind his back, and asking the little girl to hand over her small teddy & she has no idea he has something bigger for her. - now that I am in the relationship with my partner right now, I understand why no other relationships before this one worked out. Because this guy now is the one I’m meant to marry. 😊
Amen!! Praise God for that may God bless your relationship and that picture is beautiful i love it
Acts 2:38kjv. Get baptize in name Jesus Christ for remission of sins
Actsv3:19kjv only way sins are remitted
Luke 24:47 Jesus said remission of sins will be perch in his name.
Acts 4:12kjv no salvation in any other name.
Baby baptism doesnt count nobody in bible was baptized as baby. That of this world and roman. If u got baptkzed in name of Father Son Holy Ghost. U are yet to call on name of Lord!! Therefor u are not saves
I hope he feels the same way. I hope your not in sexual sin. That will definitely break your heart .
@@danilaroche1156 our body are temple read follower of Lord God don't fornicate.
@@danilaroche1156 we gotta be Holy because Lord God is Holy.
Remember Jesus Christ coming for church without spot or wrinkle.
Listening to you two is a breath of life for me! I am going through this waiting season and your fresh, honest perspectives are inspiring me. Yes, your external beauty is attractive, but your blooming internal beauty is by far the most attractive part of you ladies. God Bless you to continue inspiring us to love God with our whole heart, mind and body!
I am traditional Catholic and will never leave my faith, but you two are helping breath the life of THE TRUTH into my heart!❤❤❤
I agree with the most significant testimony from pain because of what I have been through with heartbreak; that is precisely what you said. I prayed to God every day when I was in the relationship to help the relationship, but I got to a breaking point where I had to leave her. I can say that in Jesus, I feel free while in my time of hurt, and I believe that God changed me a lot (based on what my friend said to me) and Praised the Lord for what he has done for me.
Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony. It's incredible how God can bring us freedom and transformation even in times of heartbreak. Your faith is inspiring. My name is Daisy Watt, and I live in Westminster, London. I would love to connect with you and be friends. Feel free to reach out anytime. God bless you! 🙏😊
@@DAISYWATT122 sure how would u like me to contact u?
Thank you for reaching out! I prefer to communicate via text message. Looking forward to connecting with you soon!
The most mind-blowing thing to me about a break up is going from talking every waking moment of the day to not talking at all just like that ! 🥺
You guys have helped bring me closer to God. Thank you so much for your episodes each week! I get excited all week for each video 🥰
I know the struggles of finding something to look forward too, week by week
But how Great, that it should be the Living Word of God, the Bible
Wow this means the world to us! Thank you for your support!
@@TJBocaDelJaguarthe king james bible. Remember jesus words john 8:31-32kjv.
@@nathanmccumber8965 hello Nathan I don't have your version, as mine is different in translation, so I know it causes confusion, God is His Word a Living Word, we all live different lives within the same world but see it differently, but it is nice when different Words of God have the same meaning, not much light where I am located so this is the best way I can search for that light across the sea
What about you Nathan?
@@TJBocaDelJaguar Acts 2:38kjv. Get baptize in name Jesus Christ for remission of sins
Actsv3:19kjv only way sins are remitted
Luke 24:47 Jesus said remission of sins will be perch in his name.
Acts 4:12kjv no salvation in any other name.
Baby baptism doesnt count nobody in bible was baptized as baby. That of this world and roman. If u got baptkzed in name of Father Son Holy Ghost. U are yet to call on name of Lord!! Therefor u are not saves
There is nothing I need to hear more today than this episode… thank you God for answering my prayers and guiding me to the right words I need to hear. Thank you both so much ❤️
I recently went through a breakup and it has been hard. Despite that, it's so true that although I'm in pain I've never been closer to God. I'm reading numbers and I just realized the connection between the tribe of Israel's complaining, doubting God's plan because of the hardships, and wanting to go back to Egypt to how we act after breakups. They lacked the faith to call on the lord for help and instead, they romanticized their time as slaves in Egypt and wished for that back. This is like how we hold on to the broken relationship, question god, and want to go back because of the hardship/pain instead of relying on him and acknowledging that his timing and will are for our greater good. Leaning on our understanding will lengthen our journey to the promised land. So ladies and gentlemen let's keep the faith, be at peace and call on the lord for strength/help when we need it. ❤
Amen!
You girls are so knowledgeable. I am 65 and enjoyed listening to you talk on this subject. Even older people go through tough breakups.
Fantastic podcast. You spoke on hard-hitting, uncomfortable truths. We all have different answers on how we're proceeding in life and our walk with Jesus. I've taken a long break from romantic relations to focus on me and getting myself to where I need to be on several levels. It's a VERY long road. I've been through everything you described about heartbreak as well. While being private, leaning into Jesus to be my comfort was the best thing that I could do. It is also great to talk about this with other Christians.
Thank you so much. This means the world to us. God bless you!
I praise God in my loudest voice .He brought me to this video and it honestly changed the way I was perceiving my break up. You girls touched up on all the deepest questions I was scared to think about.
This video was honestly a divine intervention. Thank you for helping me heal. ❤️
i just wanna say that you guys help me so much when im feeling far from god, i feel like you are my best friends. I´m sure that god lead me to you.
Thank you from Argentina
Ladies, it was so good hearing a woman's take on the Biblical aspect of breakups. Much Love and Blessings!
Absolutely lovely upload. I like that you both ended the upload on a positive focus being on soul ties. Thank you very much, look forward to more content like this and God Bless y'all
I am currently going through a breakup and the pain is excruciating. And believe me, I know it's God's will for my life cause it's like you said "God will break your heart to save your soul" but I wish the pain would end. It's like I don't want to be alive anymore. I cry and pray to God every day, but the pain is so severe. I feel sooo broken.
hey sister, i hope you are doing better
God loves you🤍
this seems more catered for people who were left behind, not for people who initiated the break up.
both go through grief too. break up is hard for both parties and a difficult choice for the one breaking up.
I initiated the breakup tonight..I feel I'm stronger in my walk with God being single.
I initiated the break up. It hurts my soul. I called my ex yesterday and he’s just not it. He was my first sexually so I do relate to the soul-ties. I believe this is for people going through break ups in general
A lot of times it’s hard to let it go because you don’t trust God that he can bring you someone better.
Such an inspirational message which I pray helps everyone who sees this podcast. You are both amazing ❤ God bless you both 🙏
Hello Knight
How are you, could you please timestamp the most inspirational part of this message, that you found most relevant to God, but only if that's not too much for you
God bless
I love you girls so much for that!🙏🏽❤ We need more young people like this in our generation
You two have been very helpful to me I’m also new in my journey following the Lord, and it brings me comfort that you two are not perfect and that you’re learning too.. Thank you for being my Christian friends cause I dont have any, but I pray God will bring a friend I to my life the way you two found each other ❤
Find a good church and you'll find new friends, provided you are ready to cut-loose your old (unsaved) friends. God promises in the Bible; "Come out from among them (the unsaved) and be separate says the Lord, then I'll be a God unto you and you'll be my people." God also warns; "Thou must not be unevenly yoked, believer with unbeliever." Maybe God is waiting for you to do your part first, then He will fill your life with the kind of BF and kind of friends who would take a bullet for you?
Wow thank you so much for this sweet comment. We love being your best friend. We love you!
@@2GunRockGod was saying that about denination and non denominational building called churches. The great Whore is roman catholic mother of Harlots.
@@2GunRockread pslam 1:1-5kjv and pslam 5:5kjv.
Y’ALL!!! I LITERALLY just sent you a message on insta about my situation and God brought me to your channel rather than your Apple podcast page to set this directly in my lap!! He is SO good and SO mighty thank you SO MUCH for being such a light to others. He just used you to answer EVERY SINGLE ONE of my doubts I’ve had today. I hope I can meet you gorgeous gals one day 🥰💕😘
Deep stuff I feel for you guys especially being in the culture of LA thanks for making me feel like im not that crazy
This would’ve helped me soo much 2 years ago ❤️ I love this! With my journey with God this sums up what I have learned. Always trust his timing. For everything.
Thank you so much ☺️✨! You guys are such a motivation and by the way psalm 34 is one of my favorite psalms ❤️📖.
I’m so proud of you girls . I love your ministry. Continue expanding the kingdom for Jesus .
You gotta pray to God, go to church and read your Bible a lot, most of your time.
When I least expected it, God had gave me resilience And understanding. My faith and trust in God had overcame any feelings of sadness that were left due to a broken heart because all I did during the grievance period was fix my eyes on God. God knows best. He loves us more than anyone, more than anything. Actual blood was shed for our Salvation. You gotta really personalize with that fact.
Thank you and god bless you for that ending prayer, as well as, being there for me during this time.
The Girl on the left (Sorry Girls, I'm terrible with names and forgot your names), but she gave you the best advice anyone will ever give you, if you live to be a thousand, about getting over a breakup and broken heart. I still remember my first broken heart and my father gave me similar advice. He told me you'll never get over it, not completely, until you cutoff ALL CONTACT and pretend as if she died. Best advice ever.