I am listening to this, while I am in this exact cycle over and over… and yet I don’t have the strength or courage to end this cycle… Kindly use this comment as a like button to remind me that I can do this!
When you are weak, He is strong! This is the perfect situation for Him to step in and display His Glory. You said “I can’t”. BUT HE CAN. Speak to Him, seek Him and He will transform you and you will be victorious. In fact you already are! I thank Him for breaking your unhealthy cycles. In Jesus Name. Amen. God has glorious plans and promises for you. Walk with Him. He has you.
Praying for you. I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I told god why me. I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.
I'm tired of the same cycle. Same mistakes. Teach me lord to move forward and not to look back. Heal my heart from pain from my past. I hold myself accountable for my decisions and those who I have hurt in the process of looking for remedies to take the pain away. I pray God heals me and in his timing that I receive what is his desires are for me. Amen.Amen
2and half years found out she moved on her and the dude went atl I flew down to win her back but she never came to me now she trying to put me out I try to be cordial and she just starts going berserk I paid all the bills for this months and paid for her real estate license and board but she took the money to go with o boy now she driving his car and still lying
If you’re reading this - stop thinking whatever is on your mind right more and remember this : God’s already figured it out - just show up and do what he says
The heartbreak was so bad, I thought I was going to die, but it was a blessing in disguise. God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw, that lead me to a nurse who prayed for me in Jesus name(yes she said in Jesus name!!) it's been 4 years and I've been practicing celibacy (no more fornication) and serving the LORD daily❤🙏
I needed this message! This year has been a rocky year for me. I lost my grandfather, I lost my relationship with my ex, I lost friends, and I lost my dad on Dec 1st. It’s tough and I’m a bit puzzled with everything at the moment with my walk with God and Jesus. But through it all, I didn’t lose God and Jesus! Whoever come across this message. Pray for me. Thank you 🤲🏾💙
Very sorry for your loss of your loved ones 🙏🏾 that is a rough year indeed. Thanking God for his presence throughout it all is a testament of true faith
I found this video during my current breakup. I never thought we would get to the level of anger that we reached. This video really helped me and gave me some answers. Please pray that I can hear God and make him the head of my life.
Going through a breakup as well, or ghosting which is worse. Spending as much time with God and in his word as I can❤ stay focus on him and he will heal your heart and help you through it
I was in unimaginable pain after my breakup with my ex 6months ago! The stages of grief were incredibly raw! The anger was heightened because of the betrayal I felt! But I prayed, & trusted God for healing! My heart was in physical pain & I never thought the pain would go away, now… 6months down the line, God healed most of the pain! He continues teaching me to trust Him! Endings/ Rejection are a form of redirection. Trust Him! God is good all the time!
So true. We don't like to wait in our society. In the previous sermon in this series by Jerry Flowers , he mentioned how we like to do secondary things First. That was convicting. Prayer time saves time indeed. Many skip this step, blame God and wonder why portions of their lives are at a stand still .... God gives us free will, but he'll step back because his love for us is so strong. Yet, he steps back and let's people do what they want, but knows that people can be digging themselves into turmoil on their own.
I needed this. After being in a relationship with a man who showed me who he was throughout the relationship, I kept holding on. Now I actually see the blessing in the breakup. It definitely had to happen to draw me closer to God and be tired of toxicity . I now have a growth mindset. Still growing. Thank God ❤
I've been ready to give up .. I got on my knees today and cried out to God, questioning if he even hears me. I feel bad for single mothers, struggling & feeling alone. Especially single moms who aren't single moms by choice. We deal with so much alone ... the load gets heavy & tiring. I hope anyone going through can find the strength to pull it together.
I’m currently going through this. I was in a relationship for 4 years the worst and since I’ve been in cycles and my 29th birthday I prayed and surrendered to God letting him know I give up and if it’s no longer his will i don’t want it. I prayed God take my lustful desires away and when my ex tried to come back I didn’t even feel anything. I’m so thankful i surrendered and finally allowed the lord to do his work in and through me. 👏🏾🙌🏾
Choosing obedience in 2023 was hardest decision of my life. But I know the break up was necessary for me and him. Out of love I did it wanting his best. So hard to love someone but not be able to be with them. I dont know Gods plan but I know He loves me and will lead me. Faith over fear.
God is faithful and amazing! One year ago I was soooo heartbroken over someone who I thought was my soulmate but God reveal to me it was a soul tie. I prayed for that bondage to be broken and now fast forward today- I’m in a healthy relationship. THANK YOU LORD PUBLICLY AND PRIVATELY ❤
"Some of you won't turn to the next page because you know that person (that we shouldn't be with, it's not God will) won't be in the next chapter." Thank you for that! I did leave, but I keep wondering if I made the right decision out of loneliness. That statement spoke to me that I am right where God wants me and to keep moving forward with the Lord.
When Jerry said “I seen her at a funeral”….. my Spirit was like “yeah, death had to happen (death to self) for resurrection to occur”….. ohhhh weee - right person, wrong time! Jesus- ya’ll give me hope for that future husband
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉 @@SyvilleJosephine
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉 @@LaDonnaTaylor-Details
Jesus Jesus Jesus Lord help me.. He’s preaching to me!! Yes Lord. Time wasted, mismanaged time all the above. I’m at work fighting back tears.. This is for me I’m so thankful I’m came across Pastor Flowers and their ministry.
I’m starting to think Joy coming in the morning means it comes when you finally morn the promises you made for yourself. God help me to finishing morning so I can have Joy Amen
Mrs. Flowers, I’m in that same situation right now. I just got out of a relationship and now I’m focusing on God. Thank you ALL for this AMAZING, Word!!!!
Me too, sis. So hard. But I find peace in God and His will for me. This was something He tried to show me about and removed from my life once before. I fell back and am paying. He once again shows me He has better in store for me.
Wow .. I’ve been depressed for weeks now dealing with heartbreak/disappointment -& I came across this sermon after coming home late at night from work . I was tired but I stayed -& watched the whole time . Thank you for sharing this word . I needed it 🙏🏼❤️🩹
From your lips to the Lords ears. I hope you're on the same path of letting go. I to have recently broken up with my narcissist boyfriend it's not easy, but I'm trusting in the Lord to pull me through thus
God help me. I’m struggling to take care of my children. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. I struggle providing the necessities for them, especially now that school starting up. Lord Jesus I’m overwhelmed as a single mother. Please hear my prayers. I’m constantly struggling Lord give me strength I can’t do it without you.💕
I lost my husband of 19 years to my special needs son's 72 year old jezebel weirdo bus driver I have special needs twins and their big sister it crushed my daughter as he up and left our house to live in a trailer park with that "human" worst of all...he does anything and everything to derail the divorce process including calling police and tying my name up in court so I can't use my masters degree to provide for these innocent souls
Father were coming to u today to ask u to lift the weight off this woman allowing her to feel ur strength and endurance, feel ur love for her father. Show her that u will not put more on her than she can bear. Show her Sometimes a feeling is just that a feeling father and that's it. That it may have no truth to it, it's just how it feels. Show her that she's has a support system even if it's not family. Show her that u can maintain or remove anything that in her path. Father opener eyes to who's there for her. Put those I her life u know she needs and that the help they give is from u. One last thing Father Show her thru her children that they will be strong and they will make it, they will live normal lives according to ur will for their lives and hers. Also that this experience will make her stronger. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen. I love u sis. I kno that single motherhood can be challenging. I'm out here with u. I love u....keep going baby, our jobs don't stop as a mother and that can be overwhelming but u will shine as u already are. I love u. Have a great day everyday with love
@dollsfordays3894 May God lay hands on ur situation. Father I kno u see everything, yet swaddle her heart and allow her to do and say the right things to get her life and situation where u see fit. Give her children peace thru it all and to not feel strained between them both. Train their hearts to be righteous, to have the view u see fit for them to make it thru. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen.
Am listening to this and all I can say I that my Lord is a faithful God. And I am saying today that He can trust me with this rough heart break and disappointment I went through. 🙌🏾. I have decided to let go of my own ways, to protect my heart and body , and my will because I know his timing is perfect. It’s already 6months that I am on this Journey it’s not easy but I trust my God and his will for me and believe he had what’s best and better for me.
This message is for ME🙌🏾 Just experienced a horrible heartbreak after a 3yr relationship. I’m tired of mismanaging my pain. I just want Jesus and his timing! That’s it🥹🙌🏾
For someone that's willing to have a significant other in their life, I feel like I been done the shadow work, completed personal goals of mine, and elevated and still feel depressed and lonely cause of the things I do doesn't honestly fulfill me when I don't have anyone to share those moments with
I understand. This entire world has to practice self love! It begins with ourselves🙏Its extra Lonely if you get with other people and your Not on the same page! We have to trust Gos Timing! I truly understand how you feel. But we have to do the work the self Love, So we can being balance to another whole and healthy person
While in the world I met, fell inlove with, married with 2 kids the woman of my dreams. Everything was amazing.. till I found God in 2019.. she gave me a choice "it's either her or God" I chose her.. 2022 she left me and I attempted suicide twice.. lost everything and she became a meth addict.. and has spent the last 7 months in and out of drug rehabs and mental hospitals.. I've made desperate choices to fill that void ever since.. drugs, alcohol, women.. all the worldly answers. I have my 2 girls full time while working full time. Goto church on Sundays with my girls. Read my bible and I'm getting back on my feet. But this sermon just gave me hope. Thank you! ❤
I'm going through a similar situation, except I have two boys! I thought that the man I was with was who I was going to marry. I already knew God but I compromised my faith, just to satisfy him and we lived together unmarried twice. Over the course of 6 years I lived in the turmoil of not being aligned to God's Will. Until I finally left that situation in January 2023, that followed by a year and a half long breakup that was messy because I became active in ministry again and surrendered myself to God, but I loved this man so much so I couldn't let go. And I wondered why I had so much spiritual warfare, I was literally worshiping God and playing with the devil at the same time. He finally found someone else and ended it which was the biggest heartbreak, put the biggest blessing because I am now focused on completely walking in my calling feeling the pain of it for a purpose that is greater than me. To whom much is given, much is required, it's time to get to work! Keeping you lifted in prayer! ❤
Married 20 years and he left me for another then blamed me for why he had to cheat. It’s been one of the most painful experiences in my life and I had battled. Cancer 2x. Letting go is the hardest😢
Praying for you. God will heal you and give you Justice. Even if the Justice is a Godly loving husband and not revenge. Let him be God and do what he does best ❤️
I went through this and prayed. Someone i met came back into my life and I prayed for clarity and I got it. Though what happened was I placed him before God once I felt i had him. Then he left. Blocked me, no explanation nothing. This last Saturday, 8 months after we broke up, i bumped into him with his brand new extremely beautiful bride, and she is gorgeous, at their wedding reception. I was there to pick up a parcel and I was late for my appointment. I have definitely not stewarded my pain right. I have been on antidepressants and all sorts since we broke up. I was broken all over again. I needed this and I will listen to this on repeat and keep praying. I know I am where she was. I dont want anymore pain. I am even tempted to say i dont want anyone else. I am 43 and childless and it just doesnt seem to be coming.
God Bless you Sis! 😢❤Phil 4:13 You are a testimony. God will restore and give you better. Trust the Process you are coming out as pure Gold! Gods turning your pain and to your greatest testimony!
J Flowwwwwwwwwwwww, ahahahahahahhaaa. Awww this is beautiful "My purpose was watching me as I was asking for clarity". God stepped in. His timing is beautiful. Thanks for sharing. I am at this point. It's just I want God to get the glory and have no idols or attachments to distract me. If it ain't His will I don't want it. Thank you for all you do for Kingdom.
My heart is so tender listening to this because it’s true. I believe it hurts more because you realize how you treat yourself. God needs us to do better. It hurts but I’m listening.
Thank you Jerry. This breakup is hard, especially when the person who was there to assist my healing is now doing the hurting. Seeing and hearing how my own choices and actions are affecting others too much has really sat with me, I want the pain of change to outweigh the irritation of staying the same.
Same ! I was just crying out To God wondering if he hears my prayers and sees my tears and was just saying no one cared about me , I feel alone , and worthless and what’s my purpose .. Cried and cried and asked God to pleaseeee show me you are here with me …Time passes , I open youtube , and find this video ..WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED ..literally .. GOD IS GOOD , GOD IS GREAT !
I broke up with my best friend of 30 years. I thank her for the pain, the good times, and for serving her purpose in my life. My emotions have now been recalibrated and I know my future will be filled with the fruits of this season. This sermon did not come to me as a coincidence, but as an affirmation in my life. Thank you Lord for revealing your truth in your perfect timing. Not one second was wasted. Lessons have been learned and you will redeem my time. Amen.
I have come to the end of settling for less! I am set apart, surrendered to the Lord for his service in Jesus name. God bless you Pastor Flowers as you are a vessel for the kingdom of heaven. Glory be to God
It’s easy to preach this when you have someone to go home to. I’ve been alone my whole life, even as a child. I’ve never really had anyone pursue me except one hot and cold man who left me to marry someone else behind my back
I’m sorry to hear that ❤ I feel the same but the message is still the truth. I felt alone all my life and now it seems I am heading for divorce but yet, I feel this is the perfect time to focus on God. Something I was unable to do trying to focus on maintaining my marriage. Anyways I am sending you love 💕
I was a child who was left alone and abandoned but yet this word is timely and necessary to move forward. A spirit of rejection will cause people to avoid you because it bleeds out on everything you touch. The Lord is able to heal you from this mindset when you fully give it to Him and rest in His love for you. I'm a living witness that God can restore! I never thought that I would live past the age of 28 yrs but that's the exact time that the Lord sent my godly husband into my life and his love breathes life into me. In my family, I was considered an old maid because everyone married straight out of highschool or college but it was worth the wait! If the Lord had blessed me before I loved Him and myself....my marriage would have become an idol. Allow yourself to be fully saturated in the love that Jesus has towards you and know that while you wait, the Lord, Himself is your husband. Read Isaiah 54 ❤
Tanisha thank you so very much for your vulnerability and transparency. As a single Christian woman, your story inspired and confirmed my stance. I thank you and Pastor Jerry for sharing your testimony, which encourages me. I am a Christian counselor and would love to join you all for your Therapy Thursdays! It is such a blessing when Pastors recognize the value of therapy! 🙏🏾🙌🏾😇😇😇
Please lord break the cycle. I know I have wandered away thinking I knew best thinking I could heal myself which only caused more pain. Please forgive me for my sins. I come to you father. Heal my heart, heal my mind and soul father. I know you have much greater plans for my life than this constant pain, anxiety and heart break father. Amen 🙏🏻
I find that when I follow GOD and all his instructions...there is far less heartbreak 💔. He gives us instructions and guidance to help us avoid a lot of things and situations that put us in the position to be hurt and broken. Thank you Father God for your love, compassion, mercy, forgiveness and giving us the opportunity to turn back to you. Praise your Holy name. Thank you Father God. Thank you King Jesus. You are more than worthy to be Praised. 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Amen, Amen and Amen. 💕💕💕
AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING SERMON! My Takeaways 1. Allow God to re-calibrate your desires!🙌🙌 2. You will never see Jesus in the scriptures running, so why are you?? WHOA!!! 3.Once you trust God, you collide with His timing. YES! 4. Sometimes the heartbreak is for recalibration. BEAUTIFUL!! 5. If you're not in the fiery furnace you will never see the 4th man; So perhaps the fireplace is the meeting place. I MEAN C'MON!! 👌👌👌
My brother just passed away a few months back. Although my heart has been broken, I trust God enough to know this was his plan. No matter how much it hurt me and my family. God did this for us to see! All the break ups, all the heartbreak, all the tears have bought me closer to God this season. I thank you so much Lord for helping me redeem my time ❤️🙌🏽😭
I’ve been feeling so hopeless like this heartbreak will never end and this message helped walk me off the ledge and out of a dark place🙏🏽 God bless you all and thank you ❤
Man I needed this spiritual food today!! Been dealing with an major disappointment and heartbreak .....4 1/2 year relationship to my fiançè ended....I found out she was having an affair with the guy she called just a "friend". It hurts!!!!, But this pain will not be in vain
Walking around with a broken heart is not fun🙏🏾 the eves and flows of joy and pain🙏🏾 after a month and a half the tears are less often but when he said “I did not want this to be a lesson!!…I wanted this to be love!” That’s exactly where I’ve been!🙏🏾 Open to God’s healing ❤️🩹
Lord I’m praying you save my marriage and my family please bring my wife n kids home lord this time we will put you first in everything we do need a miracle lord please 🙏🏼
I pray for you. I recently lost my little family after a brief reconciliation. She left me to be with a man she only knew 10 weeks over 7 years n 2 daughters. I just want my family.
I am listening to this, while I am in this exact cycle over and over… and yet I don’t have the strength or courage to end this cycle…
Kindly use this comment as a like button to remind me that I can do this!
When you are weak, He is strong! This is the perfect situation for Him to step in and display His Glory. You said “I can’t”. BUT HE CAN. Speak to Him, seek Him and He will transform you and you will be victorious. In fact you already are! I thank Him for breaking your unhealthy cycles. In Jesus Name. Amen. God has glorious plans and promises for you. Walk with Him. He has you.
You can do this!!!
What cycle
Praying for you. I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I told god why me. I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.
@@NieshaDeniseoh dear😔😔… how are you holding on now😔
I'm tired of the same cycle. Same mistakes. Teach me lord to move forward and not to look back. Heal my heart from pain from my past. I hold myself accountable for my decisions and those who I have hurt in the process of looking for remedies to take the pain away. I pray God heals me and in his timing that I receive what is his desires are for me. Amen.Amen
You got it Bro 💪🏾💪🏾
Amen
You said it 🥹😢😢😢
Amen
Amen
Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you success, health, love and happiness
I receive.. IJN! AMEN! TY ADONAI.. SAME TOU YOU..
Thank you.... and to you as well... !!
Thank you
I pray the same for you as well. 😇
AMEN 🙏🏽 Same to you 🙏🏽
This is the type of preachers we need relevant to our culture but with sweet truth!
You have arrived to spiritual
maturity when you view disappointment as God ordering your steps ❤️💯
That! I felt like I was in a spiritual chokehold when I heard that! 😂😮
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Mmmmm. Was just told to look into spiritual maturity
12 yr relationship over. I immediately got sober and turned to god even though i didnt want to i knew i had to. Best choice ever.
Best decision I made was turned to God. I had to switch up to see the path God was taking me. Praying for you my g 🙏🏾🙏🏾
2and half years found out she moved on her and the dude went atl I flew down to win her back but she never came to me now she trying to put me out I try to be cordial and she just starts going berserk I paid all the bills for this months and paid for her real estate license and board but she took the money to go with o boy now she driving his car and still lying
If you’re reading this - stop thinking whatever is on your mind right more and remember this : God’s already figured it out - just show up and do what he says
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Out of all the comments THIS hit my spirit 🙌🏾💯❤️🙏🏾
Needed ❤️
this broke me to tears man…
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“Until the pain of change outweighs the irritation of being stuck, you’ll never move.”
WOW. 💪🏾🙏🏾
Amen
First thing i captured❤
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“Father, I trust you even when it hurts; help me to view disappointments as you ordering my steps”
Amen ❤
The heartbreak was so bad, I thought I was going to die, but it was a blessing in disguise. God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw, that lead me to a nurse who prayed for me in Jesus name(yes she said in Jesus name!!) it's been 4 years and I've been practicing celibacy (no more fornication) and serving the LORD daily❤🙏
God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw? God did this to you
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I'm so proud of you, Fam!
I needed this message! This year has been a rocky year for me. I lost my grandfather, I lost my relationship with my ex, I lost friends, and I lost my dad on Dec 1st. It’s tough and I’m a bit puzzled with everything at the moment with my walk with God and Jesus. But through it all, I didn’t lose God and Jesus! Whoever come across this message. Pray for me. Thank you 🤲🏾💙
Praying with and for you.
Sending you love and light 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Very sorry for your loss of your loved ones 🙏🏾 that is a rough year indeed. Thanking God for his presence throughout it all is a testament of true faith
@@yolandarichardson2797 Thank you
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@@malikhoward1971 Thank you bro
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“Everything that’s built on a weak foundation will collapse in a storm” 🔥
I am going through the worst heartbreak and KNOW it's only God that lead me to this sermon. Thank you God for a perspective shift. 🙏
Same here…
Same here
it's well
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Same!❤
I need this type of sermon... I don't need the gospel sugar coated 😢. I need deliverance. Please pray for me.
Heart break is when our emotions have to readjust unwillingly
I found this video during my current breakup. I never thought we would get to the level of anger that we reached. This video really helped me and gave me some answers. Please pray that I can hear God and make him the head of my life.
He is the only answer you need in life ❤️ God is the long game to salvation in the moment and in the end - I’m in the same struggle
Going through a breakup as well, or ghosting which is worse. Spending as much time with God and in his word as I can❤ stay focus on him and he will heal your heart and help you through it
You are not alone, same here 😢
I was in unimaginable pain after my breakup with my ex 6months ago! The stages of grief were incredibly raw! The anger was heightened because of the betrayal I felt! But I prayed, & trusted God for healing! My heart was in physical pain & I never thought the pain would go away, now… 6months down the line, God healed most of the pain! He continues teaching me to trust Him! Endings/ Rejection are a form of redirection. Trust Him! God is good all the time!
Amen
"Can I trust you with disappointment?" Bars from heaven.
Heartbreak is when your emotions have to readjust unwillingly. You won’t turn the page because you don’t know who will be in the next chapter
I feel like I've been living in pain for over 30 years, I'm only 35. This was so good
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I've decided to heal, surrender and keep my legs closed before marriage. 🙌🏾🙏🏿
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Prayer time saves time.
Jesus took time.
Be patient.
Heal well.Take time to grow.
Regulate your emotions.
No time to waste
Amen
So true. We don't like to wait in our society. In the previous sermon in this series by Jerry Flowers , he mentioned how we like to do secondary things First. That was convicting.
Prayer time saves time indeed. Many skip this step, blame God and wonder why portions of their lives are at a stand still .... God gives us free will, but he'll step back because his love for us is so strong. Yet, he steps back and let's people do what they want, but knows that people can be digging themselves into turmoil on their own.
I needed this. After being in a relationship with a man who showed me who he was throughout the relationship, I kept holding on. Now I actually see the blessing in the breakup. It definitely had to happen to draw me closer to God and be tired of toxicity . I now have a growth mindset. Still growing. Thank God ❤
You only get involved with a man who A. Serves & loves Christ & B. Is intentional to court & marry you.
I've been ready to give up .. I got on my knees today and cried out to God, questioning if he even hears me. I feel bad for single mothers, struggling & feeling alone. Especially single moms who aren't single moms by choice. We deal with so much alone ... the load gets heavy & tiring. I hope anyone going through can find the strength to pull it together.
Sending you some love sis ❤
God will provide that. Seek Him. He will give you all you need. Strength, peace and more my love. ❤ sending you light.
I can totally relate to this. Trying my best to stay positive and patient in God’s plan and not my own.
Thank you so much sis❤
I’m feeling the same way, that is why I found this video 😢
I’m currently going through this. I was in a relationship for 4 years the worst and since I’ve been in cycles and my 29th birthday I prayed and surrendered to God letting him know I give up and if it’s no longer his will i don’t want it. I prayed God take my lustful desires away and when my ex tried to come back I didn’t even feel anything. I’m so thankful i surrendered and finally allowed the lord to do his work in and through me. 👏🏾🙌🏾
I pray I come to this final understanding and let God to heal me ! It’s usually very difficult
I’m going through a break up. 😢 And this message is what I need right now.
same , im in pain because of break up 😭
@@reynalyne5680 Pray for strength, peace and understanding. Get closer to God during this time. 🙏🏽
Prayers to yall and you guys healing 🙏🏾
Sending hugs.. let's heal together 😢❤
@@maria_grasya777 we can 🙏🏽 I’m feeling so much better this month. Praying you heal expeditiously 🙏🏾
Thank you for this. To those who see this Please help me pray to steward my pain well. It’s hard guys. 🙁
Choosing obedience in 2023 was hardest decision of my life. But I know the break up was necessary for me and him. Out of love I did it wanting his best. So hard to love someone but not be able to be with them. I dont know Gods plan but I know He loves me and will lead me. Faith over fear.
God is faithful and amazing! One year ago I was soooo heartbroken over someone who I thought was my soulmate but God reveal to me it was a soul tie. I prayed for that bondage to be broken and now fast forward today- I’m in a healthy relationship. THANK YOU LORD PUBLICLY AND PRIVATELY ❤
can't wait to reach this stage🥺
@@VanessaNyatsapfu you will very soon in Jesus mighty name!
Can relate😢 I really knelt down in prayer. May I ask your WhatsApp and how did u cope
Amen !!
I’m praying to get through this … I’m in the beginning stages
Pastor Jerry, I can’t even begin to thank you enough for allowing God to use you to reach our hearts.
"Some of you won't turn to the next page because you know that person (that we shouldn't be with, it's not God will) won't be in the next chapter." Thank you for that!
I did leave, but I keep wondering if I made the right decision out of loneliness. That statement spoke to me that I am right where God wants me and to keep moving forward with the Lord.
Same… 🙏🏽Amen
Things will remain the same until the pain of remaining the same is greater than the pain of change.
When Jerry said “I seen her at a funeral”….. my Spirit was like “yeah, death had to happen (death to self) for resurrection to occur”….. ohhhh weee - right person, wrong time! Jesus- ya’ll give me hope for that future husband
That’s good sister!
“Heart break is married to Gods timing”
Was in depression I lost all hope off living but my parents and my sisters continued to pray and cry out to God for a merical thank you Jesus
Amen!
Praying that your faith hasn't failed and that you know how very mu h you are loved. Remain encouraged. 😇
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
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Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
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Give your parents and sisters a hug for me. They knew your worth even when you didn't believe.
Jesus Jesus Jesus Lord help me.. He’s preaching to me!! Yes Lord. Time wasted, mismanaged time all the above. I’m at work fighting back tears.. This is for me I’m so thankful I’m came across Pastor Flowers and their ministry.
Heartbreak is MARRIED to God's Timing - mind blown 💥💥
I’m starting to think Joy coming in the morning means it comes when you finally morn the promises you made for yourself.
God help me to finishing morning so I can have Joy Amen
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Mrs. Flowers, I’m in that same situation right now. I just got out of a relationship and now I’m focusing on God. Thank you ALL for this AMAZING, Word!!!!
Me too, sis. So hard. But I find peace in God and His will for me. This was something He tried to show me about and removed from my life once before. I fell back and am paying. He once again shows me He has better in store for me.
Same here sisters but God ❤
Steward the pain. Not medicate. Very powerful message
Just when my edges grew back, Pastor and the Mrs came and snatched them off again! Praise God!!!
WONT HE DO IT🙌🏽🩷
Wow .. I’ve been depressed for weeks now dealing with heartbreak/disappointment -& I came across this sermon after coming home late at night from work . I was tired but I stayed -& watched the whole time . Thank you for sharing this word . I needed it 🙏🏼❤️🩹
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I pray that your strength is increasing and that you're beginning to feel better.
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23:17 is worth returning to.
Excellent message. Good job to the Flowers for making this message relevant to us.
Father, I trust you even when it HURTS! Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps! AMEN AND AMEN!🙏
Father , I trust you. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps💕✨🧘🏽♀️
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
If we mismanage pain, we will mismanage time. ❤
Lord.. just got out of a 5 year relationship yesterday. Children included.. needed this.
Congratulations! You needed that message then! God has you and those kids!❤❤
Day 1 of letting a narcissist go… permanently. This video has helped me sleep tonight. Thank you
From your lips to the Lords ears. I hope you're on the same path of letting go. I to have recently broken up with my narcissist boyfriend it's not easy, but I'm trusting in the Lord to pull me through thus
Father i trust you even when it hurts help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps
God help me. I’m struggling to take care of my children. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. I struggle providing the necessities for them, especially now that school starting up. Lord Jesus I’m overwhelmed as a single mother. Please hear my prayers. I’m constantly struggling Lord give me strength I can’t do it without you.💕
I lost my husband of 19 years to my special needs son's 72 year old jezebel weirdo bus driver I have special needs twins and their big sister it crushed my daughter as he up and left our house to live in a trailer park with that "human" worst of all...he does anything and everything to derail the divorce process including calling police and tying my name up in court so I can't use my masters degree to provide for these innocent souls
I pray for you, sis 🙏🏾 May God cover and carry you and your children through. He’s with you, even when it hurts. Sending you my love. ❤
Father were coming to u today to ask u to lift the weight off this woman allowing her to feel ur strength and endurance, feel ur love for her father. Show her that u will not put more on her than she can bear. Show her Sometimes a feeling is just that a feeling father and that's it. That it may have no truth to it, it's just how it feels. Show her that she's has a support system even if it's not family. Show her that u can maintain or remove anything that in her path. Father opener eyes to who's there for her. Put those I her life u know she needs and that the help they give is from u. One last thing Father Show her thru her children that they will be strong and they will make it, they will live normal lives according to ur will for their lives and hers. Also that this experience will make her stronger. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen. I love u sis. I kno that single motherhood can be challenging. I'm out here with u. I love u....keep going baby, our jobs don't stop as a mother and that can be overwhelming but u will shine as u already are. I love u. Have a great day everyday with love
@dollsfordays3894 May God lay hands on ur situation. Father I kno u see everything, yet swaddle her heart and allow her to do and say the right things to get her life and situation where u see fit. Give her children peace thru it all and to not feel strained between them both. Train their hearts to be righteous, to have the view u see fit for them to make it thru. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen.
❤ sending you love!
Am listening to this and all I can say I that my Lord is a faithful God. And I am saying today that He can trust me with this rough heart break and disappointment I went through. 🙌🏾. I have decided to let go of my own ways, to protect my heart and body , and my will because I know his timing is perfect. It’s already 6months that I am on this Journey it’s not easy but I trust my God and his will for me and believe he had what’s best and better for me.
This message is for ME🙌🏾 Just experienced a horrible heartbreak after a 3yr relationship. I’m tired of mismanaging my pain. I just want Jesus and his timing! That’s it🥹🙌🏾
We would all be alright
FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN UT HURTS HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS
For someone that's willing to have a significant other in their life, I feel like I been done the shadow work, completed personal goals of mine, and elevated and still feel depressed and lonely cause of the things I do doesn't honestly fulfill me when I don't have anyone to share those moments with
I understand. This entire world has to practice self love! It begins with ourselves🙏Its extra Lonely if you get with other people and your Not on the same page! We have to trust Gos Timing! I truly understand how you feel. But we have to do the work the self Love, So we can being balance to another whole and healthy person
While in the world I met, fell inlove with, married with 2 kids the woman of my dreams. Everything was amazing.. till I found God in 2019.. she gave me a choice "it's either her or God" I chose her.. 2022 she left me and I attempted suicide twice.. lost everything and she became a meth addict.. and has spent the last 7 months in and out of drug rehabs and mental hospitals..
I've made desperate choices to fill that void ever since.. drugs, alcohol, women.. all the worldly answers.
I have my 2 girls full time while working full time. Goto church on Sundays with my girls.
Read my bible and I'm getting back on my feet. But this sermon just gave me hope.
Thank you! ❤
I'm going through a similar situation, except I have two boys! I thought that the man I was with was who I was going to marry. I already knew God but I compromised my faith, just to satisfy him and we lived together unmarried twice. Over the course of 6 years I lived in the turmoil of not being aligned to God's Will. Until I finally left that situation in January 2023, that followed by a year and a half long breakup that was messy because I became active in ministry again and surrendered myself to God, but I loved this man so much so I couldn't let go. And I wondered why I had so much spiritual warfare, I was literally worshiping God and playing with the devil at the same time. He finally found someone else and ended it which was the biggest heartbreak, put the biggest blessing because I am now focused on completely walking in my calling feeling the pain of it for a purpose that is greater than me. To whom much is given, much is required, it's time to get to work! Keeping you lifted in prayer! ❤
Hope you’re better now ❤❤❤
Married 20 years and he left me for another then blamed me for why he had to cheat. It’s been one of the most painful experiences in my life and I had battled. Cancer 2x. Letting go is the hardest😢
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Praying for you. God will heal you and give you Justice. Even if the Justice is a Godly loving husband and not revenge. Let him be God and do what he does best ❤️
Praying for you ❤️
Praying for you
I’m sorry sister
Arms that hold me, hold me from my peace, purpose and prosperity. Help me release him in Jesus name!
“You can’t birth anything without pain” beautiful
I went through this and prayed. Someone i met came back into my life and I prayed for clarity and I got it. Though what happened was I placed him before God once I felt i had him. Then he left. Blocked me, no explanation nothing. This last Saturday, 8 months after we broke up, i bumped into him with his brand new extremely beautiful bride, and she is gorgeous, at their wedding reception. I was there to pick up a parcel and I was late for my appointment. I have definitely not stewarded my pain right. I have been on antidepressants and all sorts since we broke up. I was broken all over again. I needed this and I will listen to this on repeat and keep praying. I know I am where she was. I dont want anymore pain. I am even tempted to say i dont want anyone else. I am 43 and childless and it just doesnt seem to be coming.
Aww this must’ve been so hard. I’m sending you so much love and strength!
God Bless you Sis! 😢❤Phil 4:13 You are a testimony. God will restore and give you better. Trust the Process you are coming out as pure Gold! Gods turning your pain and to your greatest testimony!
FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
J Flowwwwwwwwwwwww, ahahahahahahhaaa. Awww this is beautiful "My purpose was watching me as I was asking for clarity". God stepped in. His timing is beautiful. Thanks for sharing. I am at this point. It's just I want God to get the glory and have no idols or attachments to distract me. If it ain't His will I don't want it. Thank you for all you do for Kingdom.
My heart is so tender listening to this because it’s true. I believe it hurts more because you realize how you treat yourself. God needs us to do better. It hurts but I’m listening.
💯🎯If the enemy can get us to mismanage pain it will lead us to mismanaged time. Because pain causes us to pursue false remedies.💥
Thank you Jerry. This breakup is hard, especially when the person who was there to assist my healing is now doing the hurting. Seeing and hearing how my own choices and actions are affecting others too much has really sat with me, I want the pain of change to outweigh the irritation of staying the same.
I know this was 8 months ago but it was His perfect timing for me to hear this today!!! Thank you God and Thank you Pastor Jerry!!!!
Same ! I was just crying out To God wondering if he hears my prayers and sees my tears and was just saying no one cared about me , I feel alone , and worthless and what’s my purpose .. Cried and cried and asked God to pleaseeee show me you are here with me …Time passes , I open youtube , and find this video ..WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED ..literally .. GOD IS GOOD , GOD IS GREAT !
Same here. Needed to hear this message today.
Same here 😢@@adidouglas2571
This has been such a tough year. But I am hoping and praying that God heals my heart and soul through this rough phase of my heartbreak.
I broke up with my best friend of 30 years. I thank her for the pain, the good times, and for serving her purpose in my life. My emotions have now been recalibrated and I know my future will be filled with the fruits of this season. This sermon did not come to me as a coincidence, but as an affirmation in my life. Thank you Lord for revealing your truth in your perfect timing. Not one second was wasted. Lessons have been learned and you will redeem my time. Amen.
It’s not until the pain of change, outweighs the irritation of being stuck you’ll never move
I have come to the end of settling for less! I am set apart, surrendered to the Lord for his service in Jesus name. God bless you Pastor Flowers as you are a vessel for the kingdom of heaven. Glory be to God
Omg. His wife spoke to me. Like what! Praise God 🙏🏾 just tears flowing ! Thank you God.
It’s easy to preach this when you have someone to go home to. I’ve been alone my whole life, even as a child. I’ve never really had anyone pursue me except one hot and cold man who left me to marry someone else behind my back
I’m sorry to hear that ❤ I feel the same but the message is still the truth. I felt alone all my life and now it seems I am heading for divorce but yet, I feel this is the perfect time to focus on God. Something I was unable to do trying to focus on maintaining my marriage.
Anyways I am sending you love 💕
I was a child who was left alone and abandoned but yet this word is timely and necessary to move forward. A spirit of rejection will cause people to avoid you because it bleeds out on everything you touch. The Lord is able to heal you from this mindset when you fully give it to Him and rest in His love for you.
I'm a living witness that God can restore! I never thought that I would live past the age of 28 yrs but that's the exact time that the Lord sent my godly husband into my life and his love breathes life into me. In my family, I was considered an old maid because everyone married straight out of highschool or college but it was worth the wait! If the Lord had blessed me before I loved Him and myself....my marriage would have become an idol.
Allow yourself to be fully saturated in the love that Jesus has towards you and know that while you wait, the Lord, Himself is your husband.
Read Isaiah 54 ❤
Father I trust you, even when it hurts. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps! Amen!
Tanisha thank you so very much for your vulnerability and transparency. As a single Christian woman, your story inspired and confirmed my stance. I thank you and Pastor Jerry for sharing your testimony, which encourages me. I am a Christian counselor and would love to join you all for your Therapy Thursdays! It is such a blessing when Pastors recognize the value of therapy! 🙏🏾🙌🏾😇😇😇
“we were meant to be just not at that time”
"Get sick of being what the world is" that hit home 🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️
Never let your guard down always be watchful.
"My purpose is watching me as I'm praying....wooo"
This.❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Not what I want, what God wants for me...Not my will, but thy will be done in my life right now Holy Spirit
Please lord break the cycle. I know I have wandered away thinking I knew best thinking I could heal myself which only caused more pain. Please forgive me for my sins. I come to you father. Heal my heart, heal my mind and soul father. I know you have much greater plans for my life than this constant pain, anxiety and heart break father. Amen 🙏🏻
I love your wife testimony. I was in the same boat. But God has me in my listening season right now. I now want what God wants for me.
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS. HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS 🙏🏽
No more recovery seasons...it's time for re-grounding , reflection and regrouping. Needed this today.. absolutely 🔥
I find that when I follow GOD and all his instructions...there is far less heartbreak 💔. He gives us instructions and guidance to help us avoid a lot of things and situations that put us in the position to be hurt and broken. Thank you Father God for your love, compassion, mercy, forgiveness and giving us the opportunity to turn back to you. Praise your Holy name. Thank you Father God. Thank you King Jesus. You are more than worthy to be Praised. 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Amen, Amen and Amen. 💕💕💕
Father, I trust you even when it hurts. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps. ❤
Amen 🙏🏽
AMEN!!! I so appreciate this message. Trust me Lord with trusting you and walking in your path!!!
AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING SERMON! My Takeaways 1. Allow God to re-calibrate your desires!🙌🙌 2. You will never see Jesus in the scriptures running, so why are you?? WHOA!!! 3.Once you trust God, you collide with His timing. YES! 4. Sometimes the heartbreak is for recalibration. BEAUTIFUL!! 5. If you're not in the fiery furnace you will never see the 4th man; So perhaps the fireplace is the meeting place. I MEAN C'MON!! 👌👌👌
I lost my dad 10 days ago after my youngest son pray for me
you are so beautiful.. i pray that god lends you his strength
Going through a heartbreak, but listening to this has healed a part of me so much. Thank you for spreading his word 🩷
You're not alone ❤️🫂 God's got us, he'll heal our hearts . Let's not linger longer in what he closed ❤️
Pain is inevitable. Misery is optional. 🔥
My brother just passed away a few months back. Although my heart has been broken, I trust God enough to know this was his plan. No matter how much it hurt me and my family. God did this for us to see! All the break ups, all the heartbreak, all the tears have bought me closer to God this season. I thank you so much Lord for helping me redeem my time ❤️🙌🏽😭
God got you. Sorry for your loss.❤
Thank you so much ❤
I’ve been feeling so hopeless like this heartbreak will never end and this message helped walk me off the ledge and out of a dark place🙏🏽 God bless you all and thank you ❤
I love this series!!! I’ve DECIDED….🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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I’ve decided to be all in and trust God with his timing
Tired of learning thru pain😢, i feel that
Man I needed this spiritual food today!! Been dealing with an major disappointment and heartbreak .....4 1/2 year relationship to my fiançè ended....I found out she was having an affair with the guy she called just a "friend". It hurts!!!!, But this pain will not be in vain
Going through the same pain and disappointment
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Thank You Jesus. My pain is not in vain.
Walking around with a broken heart is not fun🙏🏾 the eves and flows of joy and pain🙏🏾 after a month and a half the tears are less often but when he said “I did not want this to be a lesson!!…I wanted this to be love!” That’s exactly where I’ve been!🙏🏾 Open to God’s healing ❤️🩹
I’m right exactly with you sis!
God has got us.
Take your time!!! That prayer time saves time.and gets you to your appointed time. We don't have time to waste.
Thank you for this word!!! This is me! This cycle end here. God help me
Lord I’m praying you save my marriage and my family please bring my wife n kids home lord this time we will put you first in everything we do need a miracle lord please 🙏🏼
May God answer your prayer
@@kabeya1438 I hope so sweetheart cause it’s not looking good but that’s when I gotta keep my faith in God 🙏🏼
I pray your family comes back together.
@@sharllotemazoe5323 I’m praying for it it’s looking not good but I gotta keep the faith 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I pray for you. I recently lost my little family after a brief reconciliation. She left me to be with a man she only knew 10 weeks over 7 years n 2 daughters. I just want my family.