Being able to generate excitement and energy in a room is a rare and underrated skill. It’s a skill I used to excel at as a child but lost as I began to build a fake ‘tough guy’ exterior due to Insecurities. Play is as important for adults as it is for kids. Talking to Women is play. Making sales or getting a job is easy when you engage playfully. Like you said the world is a stage, we need to ‘play’ our role and not take simple things too serious. You’re always right on time with your videos lol this is something I’ve been working on recently 😂 wizard 🧙♀️
discipline is useless without self love and a reason. When you admire yourself and have a higher mission, living becomes easy and the hardships of life become fun, at least for me it was like that 🙏🏿
Disagree. It’s in doing the uncomfortable and what you don’t want to do via discipline that builds the self-love, meaning, and fulfillment. On the other side of pain is pleasure. The opposite builds self loathing.
@@Dmgolfer22 Did that for a long time, it does not work. You start doing more and more and it's never enough. Working harder and harder is only working harder, nothing more. Life is not only about work, but if you persue this, it will become like that in your life. But go ahead, figure it out for yourself, maybe it's not the case for you. It was for me. and it definetly served me then, just not anymore. i can still do it, it just doesn't serve me. so i dont take it to the extreme anymore, i do it enough
Also when you enjoy your own company, it's more fun to be yourself and also be able to push yourself. I used to be someone who just used discipline to do anything and it was robbing me of any joy. It works in the short term but dude it just screws you up overall. I started to do things with a fun energy of (for instance in the gym) let's see what I can do today, instead of ive got to do this to look like this only, and that I'm never good enough. It was a toxic destructive mindset
Coming to Christ has fixed my life as a young man. A good gospel preaching church is a great place for young men to be. I do truly love how much Elisha reads scripture on this channel, but Jesus needs to be up there too.
I agree this is the only way. However, for me I’ve struggled as of late because I’ve realized that there’s a lot of false teachings in the churches today and so even as a Christian I am in the minority of Christians. If anyone wants to have a friendly discussion about this feel free to respond here.
@@JJ-xf8xg9 months late but I’d love to discuss this with you. I’m Orthodox and I find the Orthodox Church is good at preaching the gospel without mixing in a bunch of random politics or extra fluff in. I’m open to discuss for sure
@@austinftw10 Hey brother, nice to meet you. I don't know many Orthodox people, but from the ones I've run across the seem to take Christianity very seriously and I respect that a lot. I grew up in a protestant church, but I currently see huge issues with every mainstream form of Christianity. I can tell you some of the conclusions I've come to if you're willing to observe them yourself with an open mind. What is your story?
Being stoic is removing or controlling you Bad/Negative emotions like anger, jelousy, sadness while leaving your positive emotion happiness, love for the world to feast upon.
Great video, Elisha. I am generally like the Cuban guy when I'm in the zone, but I have a hard time maintaining that consistently, last month was great overall! I really understand the point about being an actor, and that we are all merely players in this game. I generally just expect people to take me as I am, and it works out well for the most part, but I'm not particularly happy with everything. I want better friends and better relationships. For me, it wasn't normal to take the initiative, do world-building, tell compelling stories, and create mystery. I grew up with quite a black-and-white perspective on the world, so it doesn't come that naturally. In fact, most of my surroundings were like that. I have taken massive steps, and I have come a long way, and I hope to continue on this path to see where my zeal for life takes me. I am doing a lot of things right, but still, there are so many things to improve on which I'm genuinely happy about.
That's great man. It sounds like life is going well. This isn't something you should stress about. You don't need to be fake either. I wish you the best. Let me know if you ever have questions.
Thanks Elisha, this video and the previous video have been real eye openers. I've thought back to times in my life where being emotional has not served me and has only proven to disappoint myself or others.
I got what I wanted being an "emotional man" (a sexy and awesome woman, a close long term friendship, and a technical career path), but if this works for you that's great 👍🏻
dude, this slaps hard but this is so real and mind opening. it made me more self aware in just 10 mins of watching this. man, i really need to stop comparing myself on everything and get back in my pace like what it used to be before. salute!
Hey Elisha, great video ! Have you thought of creating a podcast or posting audio versions of your videos on spotify or somewhere ? I think you could reach a larger audience and enable your community to listen to your words while doing other activities.
Great video Elisha. This is actually something I've been thinking about but didn't really get the full picture until I saw this. I've been going to church, made a new friend. I still feel like I'm too serious though like my own seriousness frustates me lmao. I just wanna be more witty and relaxed
I was reading one of Dale Carnegie's books about this topic and then this video came out. Perfect timing 👌 thank you, Elisha! I was blind, but now I see! 😅
Things you are talking about comes naturally from what you are talking firstly - so low cortisol in your body really helps. You can't just know to be chill, playfull and act like that. It naturally comes from you. I recommend to practice Wim Hof's breathing method, it really helps me to get this stress out of body; drink regularly herbs such a melisa, bacopa, brahmi, rhodiola. What I found last time to help connecting to people is when you is grounding - if you feel stress, when people are around you and you are talking with them, focus on your lower body to not sway on the sides, it gives self-confidence and concentration.
The topic points you mention are nearly on point, my man. Appreciate you uploading this video; I've been seeing these images in my mind briefly from my intuition with the mistakes I make socially. I'm incredibly autistic so I've been trying to pay attention to the flaws of my character. Elisha, you've always been on point and helped me out. Keep it up man.
Hey Elijah, thank you for everything that you do. I'm currently struggling with resentment and wanting revenge on people who have done me wrong. My higher self understands that this is not a healthy place to be coming from, but it still finds its way into my mind daily, leaving me feeling angry and with a disturbed sense of peace. Do you have any advice?
Hey bro awesome vids as always, while I do agree largely with the imbalance of too much emotion, that doesn’t make emotions out the equation all together, seems like there some semblance of emotions are bad in this message, although u are trying to say we need more movement. Tika thou we definitely need to learn how to entertain, that’s something I never really thought about, enticing self will, exciting.
Honestly agree with reading fiction. It not only makes your stories better , but I found myself being better at making jokes. Do you always think about your goal when doing something? Is the thought of the goal that pumps you for doing something?
I can't even hold eye contact with women, age 19. Haha Lol I'm too self conscious and insecure. No friends, no social skills. I'm angry or depressed most of the time, doom scroll on social media all day. Constantly mad at everything I don't even know what to do anymore, I don't think it'll work out for me. I appreciate what you're doing through these videos though
@@ElishaLong Yeah, I'm 5'10 and 223 lbs. Although I used to be 293, so i've been losing it slowly For hobbies I've wanted to try going to the gym or BJJ or boxing, but I'm too nervous. I don't even know why I'm nervous though it's weird
Hey I have been listening and taking Elisha’s advice for a couple months now and I can absolutely say it has impacted my life greatly. I do have a question. What books would you guys suggest for stoicism or any other subjects?
I don't understand, but I'm trying to make sense of this. Be stoic and don't be emotional, but also build hype and create excitement and try to get people to feel a certain way? Stop caring what people think but also constantly be in tune about how everyone else feels? I don't get it.
Elisha was always a chad that couldnt relate to most men. He said multiple times in his past videos. Most guys dont show themselves off like this particular extrovert often in the world for harsh reasons
One question. As a 24 year old man, I've been alone since High school and college and haven't had any real dating experiences aside from 2 previous relationships. I do want to be a married man in the future and have a loving compatible wife and kids. And I also have gotten better at Making Jehovah God the source of happiness and satisfaction. However, I do have a hard time pursuing women because I have been accustomed to being independent that pursuing women just doesn't interest me. I am trying to break away from the vicious cycle of trying to be in romantic relationships to fill my inner emptiness, unhappiness and void and I am currently dedicated to facing my own fears, insecurities, and reorganizing my life so I can become better. But just the thought of pursing women and asking them on dates horrifies me because is something I've never done and I hate being desperate/needy. Does it ever get better for guys like me?
Hey brother. There is nothing to stress over. You don't need to pursue women, just make an effort to be social. You'll meet a woman eventually. Through friend groups, work, while you're out going about your day. Strike up conversations. The anxiety will disappear the more you normalize these interactions. Without interactions you are stuck thinking about how an interaction will go. This causes the anxiety.
Yeah this "owe" narrative needs to stop. I think THAT'S part of the problem. I don't know what dude is out here thinking he's entitled, but I'm OFFICALLY for the vast majority of men YOU'RE talking to when I say: _"NO! WE DON'T THINK THE WORLD OWES US ANYTHING, YOU MEATHEAD, WE JUST DON'T SEE THE POINT IN TRYING!"_
Actually people are yelling at US telling US what to do... Not the other way around. I don't give a fxck what other people do, I've accepted that humans are gonna human and there's nothing I can do about it, but be cautious with who I trust. You keep coming at men like me like I feel entitled to something, I DON'T, I don't feel entitled to ANYTHING I just want to be left alone lol. I'm WILLFULLY choose to self-isolate myself, I don't care I'm successful or not or have a girl or not etc. I'm just tired of people. It's as simple as that, I'm tired and want to be left alone.
@@ElishaLong damn well ever since I got cheated on like 3 years ago I’ve been trapping myself in my room avoiding every body to the point where I am now comfortable but it’s definitely messing me up mentally being by myself in my room avoiding every invite I get, I’m now awkwardly social and I overthink when I meet new people and I’m just not the same as before
all I heard was just be fake so ppl can like you and when you get alone cry vent and feel awful. Only problem is the way things are going right now is not normal. The average man is dealing with things men back never had to deal with and the great divide is here. Elisha is part of the 10 percent that get women and respect and by default he's going to label 90 percent of guys emotional and weak. Some guys don't even have the time to do things you suggested some guys are literally broken traumatized and scarred but no let's just say these guys are emotional and weak like women already label them as. Newsflash guys know it ain't good. I'm willing to bet most guys know how to create hype and dress cool but that ain't helping why ? Cuz in this world your either the bully or the bullied. Which one are you Elisha ?
@Elisha Long "most men could change" (according to nueroligist Joe dispenza a habit becomes a characteristic in 15 years which hard to break.)#1 the graveyard is full of way more talent than anywhere else for a reason. Not to sound so pessimistic. #2 stop joining the world and affirming that men are weak chumps it doesn't help at all. You mentioned in the past weak men have a evil origin and never clarified plus your definition of weak isn't universal it just defines average men( which they arent weak at all) . # 3 Men should stray away from anything or anybody telling them their weak, they should practice positive affirmations and learn to strive off their own man code standards they stand on snd set for there own legacy, practice self love by self care mastery and capitalize and specialize hobbies that are beneficial. #4 when it comes to women, men should become self sufficient to have a place to live by themselves with nice furniture and decorations to have a chance with women. Of course retention cold showers avoid soy etc. What you don't get Elisha is back then men were rewarded by nature naturally for the work they put in but do to technology, birth control and society just overall bashing men and affirming they are weak///men don't feel appreciated enough to even try and they don't see a reward through modern women unless they pumping and dumping and being indifferent with them. We have guns and many ways to destroy a person so there's no motivation know how to fight, it would seem as it's no reason to participate in social life boldly unless you love problems. Tbh you sounded like a physic vampire in this video that didn't like the taste of "emotional men" blood and you want them to be charismatic so you can draw off their "energy". I have way more but I doubt u actually would engage in a verbal conversation with me
@Alex Johnson way to fully personalize my comment--- besides my first sentence my comment as a whole wasn't personal. There's good reasons why men aren't being viewed as strong and etc. Disney movies misandrist rhetoric any many more perpuaite a narrative that carries a evil agenda to destroy average men and are you gonna be apart of the slander and smear campaign that doesn't help men at all or are you gonna shame men on the brink of suicide and tell them they ain't enough. Choose wisely
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I used to watch this dude 4 years ago and he kinda popped back in my head. Time to get life together
What's going on man, how is life?
same
I always come back to Elisha, when I am off my path!
Being able to generate excitement and energy in a room is a rare and underrated skill. It’s a skill I used to excel at as a child but lost as I began to build a fake ‘tough guy’ exterior due to Insecurities.
Play is as important for adults as it is for kids. Talking to Women is play. Making sales or getting a job is easy when you engage playfully. Like you said the world is a stage, we need to ‘play’ our role and not take simple things too serious.
You’re always right on time with your videos lol this is something I’ve been working on recently 😂 wizard 🧙♀️
Aint no time to play life ain't a game
discipline is useless without self love and a reason. When you admire yourself and have a higher mission, living becomes easy and the hardships of life become fun, at least for me it was like that 🙏🏿
Disagree. It’s in doing the uncomfortable and what you don’t want to do via discipline that builds the self-love, meaning, and fulfillment. On the other side of pain is pleasure. The opposite builds self loathing.
@@Dmgolfer22 Did that for a long time, it does not work. You start doing more and more and it's never enough. Working harder and harder is only working harder, nothing more. Life is not only about work, but if you persue this, it will become like that in your life. But go ahead, figure it out for yourself, maybe it's not the case for you. It was for me.
and it definetly served me then, just not anymore. i can still do it, it just doesn't serve me. so i dont take it to the extreme anymore, i do it enough
Also when you enjoy your own company, it's more fun to be yourself and also be able to push yourself. I used to be someone who just used discipline to do anything and it was robbing me of any joy. It works in the short term but dude it just screws you up overall. I started to do things with a fun energy of (for instance in the gym) let's see what I can do today, instead of ive got to do this to look like this only, and that I'm never good enough. It was a toxic destructive mindset
Thanks Elisha, had my first breakup last night at 23yrs old shes been with me for over 2 years your videos help the most
Stay strong brother
Shout out to you for helping young man like me you are like the big bro i never had
Fabian you the GOAT my man.
Coming to Christ has fixed my life as a young man. A good gospel preaching church is a great place for young men to be. I do truly love how much Elisha reads scripture on this channel, but Jesus needs to be up there too.
I agree this is the only way. However, for me I’ve struggled as of late because I’ve realized that there’s a lot of false teachings in the churches today and so even as a Christian I am in the minority of Christians. If anyone wants to have a friendly discussion about this feel free to respond here.
@@alexeios What made you convert?
@@JJ-xf8xg9 months late but I’d love to discuss this with you. I’m Orthodox and I find the Orthodox Church is good at preaching the gospel without mixing in a bunch of random politics or extra fluff in. I’m open to discuss for sure
@@austinftw10 Hey brother, nice to meet you. I don't know many Orthodox people, but from the ones I've run across the seem to take Christianity very seriously and I respect that a lot.
I grew up in a protestant church, but I currently see huge issues with every mainstream form of Christianity. I can tell you some of the conclusions I've come to if you're willing to observe them yourself with an open mind. What is your story?
I watch your videos and I just turned 44, thanks for all the great advice!
Being stoic is removing or controlling you Bad/Negative emotions like anger, jelousy, sadness while leaving your positive emotion happiness, love for the world to feast upon.
Great video, Elisha. I am generally like the Cuban guy when I'm in the zone, but I have a hard time maintaining that consistently, last month was great overall!
I really understand the point about being an actor, and that we are all merely players in this game. I generally just expect people to take me as I am, and it works out well for the most part, but I'm not particularly happy with everything. I want better friends and better relationships.
For me, it wasn't normal to take the initiative, do world-building, tell compelling stories, and create mystery. I grew up with quite a black-and-white perspective on the world, so it doesn't come that naturally. In fact, most of my surroundings were like that.
I have taken massive steps, and I have come a long way, and I hope to continue on this path to see where my zeal for life takes me.
I am doing a lot of things right, but still, there are so many things to improve on which I'm genuinely happy about.
That's great man. It sounds like life is going well. This isn't something you should stress about. You don't need to be fake either.
I wish you the best. Let me know if you ever have questions.
the lord is speaking through you brother. I can't stress how important this video was for me. ♥
Thanks Elisha, this video and the previous video have been real eye openers. I've thought back to times in my life where being emotional has not served me and has only proven to disappoint myself or others.
The true underlying message here is that you have little control over a lot of things in life. The lesson is Leave it to God, And Let Go.
Согласен на 100 % 🤝
I love myself. I’m a cool dude.
You getting better and better dude
Man this video is 100% accurate
Any better title recommendations?
Dont expect, make a change and keep moving
@@ElishaLong Thanks a lot bro.God works in mysterious ways
I got what I wanted being an "emotional man" (a sexy and awesome woman, a close long term friendship, and a technical career path), but if this works for you that's great 👍🏻
@@ElishaLong I like the title the way it is, Elisha.
we GOTTA talk
dude, this slaps hard but this is so real and mind opening. it made me more self aware in just 10 mins of watching this. man, i really need to stop comparing myself on everything and get back in my pace like what it used to be before. salute!
Thanks man
as young man myself, just do your thing and even if it gets scary go through it
really needed to hear this. Thank you
Thank you, very much. I’ve needed you from the very start. Glad I still have you.
Bro as a big brother, you're the big brother i aspire to be❤
A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still… quality as always. Thanks Elisha.
More young man need to hear this man speak 🙏
Bro thanks like you’re on it and because you’re up you reminding me what it’s like to be up, this is real advice
thank you, bro
got me back on the path
Hey Elisha, great video ! Have you thought of creating a podcast or posting audio versions of your videos on spotify or somewhere ? I think you could reach a larger audience and enable your community to listen to your words while doing other activities.
this video really resonated with me man, thank you for posting these and God bless
This was so powerful brother Elisha thank you for sharing this ❤
Somebody call Spock , he wants his ears back
Just kidding, your doing a good job young man. Gosh bless you
so much wisdom in one video, ur so sick man !!!
Great video Elisha. This is actually something I've been thinking about but didn't really get the full picture until I saw this. I've been going to church, made a new friend. I still feel like I'm too serious though like my own seriousness frustates me lmao. I just wanna be more witty and relaxed
God bless you brother, this is some real talk.
Thanks again Elisha!
thanks bro u are absolutely right 👌😎
I was reading one of Dale Carnegie's books about this topic and then this video came out. Perfect timing 👌 thank you, Elisha! I was blind, but now I see! 😅
Thanks a lot for this sir
i appreciate it
Things you are talking about comes naturally from what you are talking firstly - so low cortisol in your body really helps. You can't just know to be chill, playfull and act like that. It naturally comes from you. I recommend to practice Wim Hof's breathing method, it really helps me to get this stress out of body; drink regularly herbs such a melisa, bacopa, brahmi, rhodiola. What I found last time to help connecting to people is when you is grounding - if you feel stress, when people are around you and you are talking with them, focus on your lower body to not sway on the sides, it gives self-confidence and concentration.
Great message; accountability
facts on facts on facts mane
The topic points you mention are nearly on point, my man. Appreciate you uploading this video; I've been seeing these images in my mind briefly from my intuition with the mistakes I make socially. I'm incredibly autistic so I've been trying to pay attention to the flaws of my character. Elisha, you've always been on point and helped me out. Keep it up man.
Spittin hot fire my man!
Hey Elijah, thank you for everything that you do.
I'm currently struggling with resentment and wanting revenge on people who have done me wrong. My higher self understands that this is not a healthy place to be coming from, but it still finds its way into my mind daily, leaving me feeling angry and with a disturbed sense of peace. Do you have any advice?
Dude, you are absolutely hilarious without even trying. Aside from realizing how much of a bitch I was being, I was laughing my ass off!
Hey bro awesome vids as always, while I do agree largely with the imbalance of too much emotion, that doesn’t make emotions out the equation all together, seems like there some semblance of emotions are bad in this message, although u are trying to say we need more movement. Tika thou we definitely need to learn how to entertain, that’s something I never really thought about, enticing self will, exciting.
Have Strength Bro 😉🎉❤
Good stuff.
Amen Brother
Honestly agree with reading fiction. It not only makes your stories better , but I found myself being better at making jokes. Do you always think about your goal when doing something? Is the thought of the goal that pumps you for doing something?
I can't even hold eye contact with women, age 19. Haha Lol
I'm too self conscious and insecure. No friends, no social skills.
I'm angry or depressed most of the time, doom scroll on social media all day. Constantly mad at everything
I don't even know what to do anymore, I don't think it'll work out for me.
I appreciate what you're doing through these videos though
19 is a great age man. What's the problem? Are you fat?
Any hobbies
@@ElishaLong Yeah, I'm 5'10 and 223 lbs. Although I used to be 293, so i've been losing it slowly
For hobbies I've wanted to try going to the gym or BJJ or boxing, but I'm too nervous. I don't even know why I'm nervous though it's weird
Set a day like Monday and make yourself show up to the gym.
Get the ball rolling
@@bill2070
alright I'll just set a single day
I'll start slowly
@@BUNDER74 you can do it bro i believe in you
Hey I have been listening and taking Elisha’s advice for a couple months now and I can absolutely say it has impacted my life greatly. I do have a question. What books would you guys suggest for stoicism or any other subjects?
Your best talk yet Elisha
I don't understand, but I'm trying to make sense of this. Be stoic and don't be emotional, but also build hype and create excitement and try to get people to feel a certain way? Stop caring what people think but also constantly be in tune about how everyone else feels? I don't get it.
Don't overthink it bro. Just live your life. It will teach you what you need.
Elisha was always a chad that couldnt relate to most men. He said multiple times in his past videos. Most guys dont show themselves off like this particular extrovert often in the world for harsh reasons
If moving is good then moving with 400+ lbs in your hands is only exponentially better ❤🏋️♂️❤
Great video, who else heard the background laugh at 8:26?
Haha the cat making noise
Sick thumbnail. Does anyone have a link to it they could send to me?
I thought you're suppose to integrate your emotions...
WOOOWOOOWOOOWOOO
I was the 1,000th like let’s go
One question. As a 24 year old man, I've been alone since High school and college and haven't had any real dating experiences aside from 2 previous relationships. I do want to be a married man in the future and have a loving compatible wife and kids. And I also have gotten better at Making Jehovah God the source of happiness and satisfaction. However, I do have a hard time pursuing women because I have been accustomed to being independent that pursuing women just doesn't interest me. I am trying to break away from the vicious cycle of trying to be in romantic relationships to fill my inner emptiness, unhappiness and void and I am currently dedicated to facing my own fears, insecurities, and reorganizing my life so I can become better. But just the thought of pursing women and asking them on dates horrifies me because is something I've never done and I hate being desperate/needy. Does it ever get better for guys like me?
Hey brother. There is nothing to stress over. You don't need to pursue women, just make an effort to be social.
You'll meet a woman eventually. Through friend groups, work, while you're out going about your day.
Strike up conversations. The anxiety will disappear the more you normalize these interactions.
Without interactions you are stuck thinking about how an interaction will go. This causes the anxiety.
Let’s win
Yeah this "owe" narrative needs to stop. I think THAT'S part of the problem. I don't know what dude is out here thinking he's entitled, but I'm OFFICALLY for the vast majority of men YOU'RE talking to when I say: _"NO! WE DON'T THINK THE WORLD OWES US ANYTHING, YOU MEATHEAD, WE JUST DON'T SEE THE POINT IN TRYING!"_
Remember this is coming from a guy that has businesses women respect and everything else the average guy dont has so he cant relate
How to fix my life as an old man?
OK NOT TO BE SERIOUS COOL
🎉🎉🎉
Us Cubans man. 😂
no, make a video for a kid who wants to be in the military, but needs to fix his life
Stop looking for your purpose and start looking for you porpoise
How old are you?
5
Actually people are yelling at US telling US what to do... Not the other way around. I don't give a fxck what other people do, I've accepted that humans are gonna human and there's nothing I can do about it, but be cautious with who I trust. You keep coming at men like me like I feel entitled to something, I DON'T, I don't feel entitled to ANYTHING I just want to be left alone lol. I'm WILLFULLY choose to self-isolate myself, I don't care I'm successful or not or have a girl or not etc. I'm just tired of people. It's as simple as that, I'm tired and want to be left alone.
Your
Paul… get out 😂
26 too old?
Of course not bro. What do you want to change?
@@ElishaLong damn well ever since I got cheated on like 3 years ago I’ve been trapping myself in my room avoiding every body to the point where I am now comfortable but it’s definitely messing me up mentally being by myself in my room avoiding every invite I get, I’m now awkwardly social and I overthink when I meet new people and I’m just not the same as before
@@ElishaLong I just want to stop being trapped in my mind
@@ElishaLong and ever since she shot right through my heart it’s been hard for me to approach women and have a decent conversation
all I heard was just be fake so ppl can like you and when you get alone cry vent and feel awful. Only problem is the way things are going right now is not normal. The average man is dealing with things men back never had to deal with and the great divide is here. Elisha is part of the 10 percent that get women and respect and by default he's going to label 90 percent of guys emotional and weak. Some guys don't even have the time to do things you suggested some guys are literally broken traumatized and scarred but no let's just say these guys are emotional and weak like women already label them as. Newsflash guys know it ain't good. I'm willing to bet most guys know how to create hype and dress cool but that ain't helping why ? Cuz in this world your either the bully or the bullied. Which one are you Elisha ?
Most men could make a change for the better.
Do you have any recommendations on what they should do?
Your whole comment is just an excuse. The only one keeping you where you are at mentally is yourself. Do not let trivial things bother you.
@Elisha Long "most men could change" (according to nueroligist Joe dispenza a habit becomes a characteristic in 15 years which hard to break.)#1 the graveyard is full of way more talent than anywhere else for a reason. Not to sound so pessimistic. #2 stop joining the world and affirming that men are weak chumps it doesn't help at all. You mentioned in the past weak men have a evil origin and never clarified plus your definition of weak isn't universal it just defines average men( which they arent weak at all) . # 3 Men should stray away from anything or anybody telling them their weak, they should practice positive affirmations and learn to strive off their own man code standards they stand on snd set for there own legacy, practice self love by self care mastery and capitalize and specialize hobbies that are beneficial. #4 when it comes to women, men should become self sufficient to have a place to live by themselves with nice furniture and decorations to have a chance with women. Of course retention cold showers avoid soy etc. What you don't get Elisha is back then men were rewarded by nature naturally for the work they put in but do to technology, birth control and society just overall bashing men and affirming they are weak///men don't feel appreciated enough to even try and they don't see a reward through modern women unless they pumping and dumping and being indifferent with them. We have guns and many ways to destroy a person so there's no motivation know how to fight, it would seem as it's no reason to participate in social life boldly unless you love problems. Tbh you sounded like a physic vampire in this video that didn't like the taste of "emotional men" blood and you want them to be charismatic so you can draw off their "energy". I have way more but I doubt u actually would engage in a verbal conversation with me
@Alex Johnson way to fully personalize my comment--- besides my first sentence my comment as a whole wasn't personal. There's good reasons why men aren't being viewed as strong and etc. Disney movies misandrist rhetoric any many more perpuaite a narrative that carries a evil agenda to destroy average men and are you gonna be apart of the slander and smear campaign that doesn't help men at all or are you gonna shame men on the brink of suicide and tell them they ain't enough. Choose wisely
This is bullshit