Feminism Sucks and Here’s Why
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 พ.ค. 2024
- Hi everyone,
Just a quick reaction to a great video with Camille Paglia. She is a first wave feminist and really stood for something during her reign but now things seem to be getting out of hand. But what we are seeing now seems to be a system that is turning the opposite direction, that the pendulum seems to be swinging the other way and I’m not so sure its to either one of our benefit.
Finally someone is brave enough to unite people rather than dividing them.
This comment just made my whole week.
Lots of love, @@sarahdawnmoore. From: Dallas, TX.
@@sarahdawnmoore I'm a 64 your old male. Just recently divorced unfortunately. But I love your Channel and I love you for showing the dynamics of a romantic relationship between a male and a female. And I really believe that male and female should be allies not enemies.
"The Patriarchy" represents something like, when a powerful figure gets their son a cushy job on a board. Hunter Biden type stuff. There's a guy who knocked up a stripper and refused to pay child support. That's what I think about when I think of "The Patriachy". Who Feminists go after? That's different. They go after the easier targets. Is your son a weak nerd, or just idealistic about marriage and family? Feminism will wreck him, for sure... some 30ish feminist woman will settle for him after a decade of one night stands, have a kid with him, and run everything in his life while she sleeps with the landscaper. That's why guys are trying to warn each other about this behavior.
@@sarahdawnmoore The Patriarchy was designed by good men to protect women and children from bad men.
I am soooooo happy that there are other women (besides me) that do not have to denigrate men to lift themselves up.
U know its always the dictators who put others down to lift tjemselves up
@@BobSmith-kd4oc Pres Trump is an alpha male, which soy boys don't understand.
@@BobSmith-kd4oc huh trump never called half the country enemies of the state or deplorable
@@DiogenesDworkinson I've been divorced a few times. Never took a DIME from anyone.
@@DiogenesDworkinson well, you've not met me. I have no interest in reaching into someone else's pocket; especially for things like THEIR 401k that THEY earned. I get sick of seeing women feel so entitled, when they often have the option of working too.
The way men are treated always bothered me but now that I have a young son it straight up enrages me.
You should get a caffeinated shotgun
Treated by who? I don't feel like ive been treated bad. Maybe not appreciated sometimes for bringing home the bacon
My son has had a couple of previous girlfriends that identified as polyamorous, and want more than one boyfriend at a time. .... wow, a regular thing. They think it is a weekness to be considered a girlfriend, to be owned by only one guy.... crazy town. It seems they are trying to overcompensate and be more chovenistic than the norm that that of men.
Good
@@andybaldman😂
Or de caffeinated howitzer
When my two sons were going to primary school, the teaching staff had a total of one male teacher. He was very popular, especially with the boys, and very effective at working with the boys who were getting into trouble. You know, being boys, throwing snowballs, rough-housing etc., (and yes being bullies too), the things that drove the other teachers crazy. I think this was because he was a strong masculine role model, and seemed to know instinctively how to handle these guys if things were getting out of hand. He was pushed out of the school by the political maneuvering of the other teachers, especially the (female) principal. They were politically adept; he was just a good teacher, and popular. It was my wife who saw all this first and pointed it out to me. She figured it out right away. She always thought that the boys were discouraged from being boys, all through school really, and the girls did better because they figured out right away how to leverage their social skills, and conform to what the teachers thought a kid should be. They know this instinctively. The boys either didn't have these skills, didn't figure it out, or just weren't interested in it.
Now we all know that adolescent school girls can be trouble too, in a different way of course. They could be bullies too, and just as mean if not meaner. Interestingly, all the "zero tolerance" policies were aimed at boy type behaviour. I don't recall ever hearing an educator say they had zero tolerance for mean girl behaviours, and lots of young girls suffered as a result too.
True story... a teenage girl can admit to making false allegations about sexual assault. Repeatedly, admittedly false... where, to everyone, to every mandatory reporter, she flat out said, "I lied about this." (because nobody wanted to take any chances, and fair enough) And there are no consequences. ZERO. But if a teenage guy gives another teenage guy a fat lip, that gets zero tolerance. Which behavior do you think has long term negative consequences? Getting a fat lip just teaches you that the world doesn't end when you get a fat lip. Being labeled as a predator falsely can follow someone around for life. There's nothing worse you can be than that.
"could be" hahah no teenage girls are bullies, there is no "could be" bullshit.
Females attack with psychology, mental and emotional weapons. It's why they call people names that's their form of bullying.
In my generation (late Baby Boomers, I’m 64) boys gravitated towards shop classes; metals, mechanics, woodworking etc. My studying and reading skills were not my strong point however hands on teaching, learning and experiencing I excelled at. I’ll watch my granddaughters grow up and succeed at whatever they learn to love employment wise; electrician, plumber, doctor, pilot etc… I’m not sexist so please don’t take this the wrong way, I still prefer female flight attendants and nurses.
@@ldoe8731 Absolutely 🙏 I was introduced to the Printing field in high school, went to a technical college in Florida and had a wonderful career managing an in-house print shop for 20 years.
Teaching used to be a man's job, especially with males. The young women coming in are astounded that boys do not act like little girls. Solution: Drug them into submission.
It’s nice to see real strong women trying to bring people together rather than degrade people to feel empowered. This is true empowerment
Feminists are WEAK females embodying weak attdibutes of the feminine. FEMININE women are powerful, beautiful atring women who embrace their femininity.
@@AwakenedAvocado it’s funny bc it’s almost like people forget that it’s okay for both men and women to be different, there are things men can do that women can, vice versa. That’s the beauty of life, variety, originality, and just being different
Woman: I have a PhD in gender studies.
Man: I can fix your sink.
That's kinda a flawed argument, I feel. "Gender Studies" as a requisite for a PhD is trash. Especially with all this woke garbage going on RIGHT. NOW.
I get what you're saying, but that PhD is stupid to begin with.
I saw a sticker calling for a women's strike a few days ago. I took a picture, posted it on my WhatsApp status and commented "a women's strike? That's cute. If men went on strike we'd all be dead by the end of the week". I'm a woman btw ;-)
Yeah what does this mean. You still know just as much about this subject then anyone. Which is pretty much not a lot
In Germany I was single over 7 years. Managed to get two dates. The expectation are so high, it is crazy. And I am not overweight, doing exercise every second day, non smoker and non alcohol.
Being in Africa, I had more dates in a day. And I am getting told how handsome and caring I am. Ok, there is a bias here. But it is do refreshing to be valued as a man again. You can’t believe. I never will be with a white woman again.
Also, seeing all the shite women here is interesting. They all have this sad, angry face. And many of them have this aura of entitlement and superiority. The black women are happy, open and welcoming. It is such a difference.
I know - I will be punished for this comment. But it is how I experience East Africa.
Keiner wied dich für deine Meinung bestrafen. Wo würden wir dann hinkommen? Ich hatte ein paar andere Erlebnisse. Zwar war keiner hinter meinem Geld her (ich bin eh nur ein student). Aber sobald eine sache meiner ex nicht gepasst hat wurde sie direkt toxic und herablassend.
Bisher waren bis auf eine beziehungen alle für die Hose. Ich bin nicht makellos und habe auch einige Fehler gemacht, aber gerade deswegen muss ich auch weiter an mir arbeiten. Weiter Daten kommt für mich aber erst mal nicht mehr infrage. Zu schade, da ich unbedingt Kinder wollte. :/ Ich würde gerne Adoptieren, aber versuch das mal als allein stehender Mann...
My personal view, it is a cultural issue. if you are dating many woman but not marrying them you are part of the problem. Every society must understand the beauty of marriage. Who is gonna marry the one you date here and there?
@@tihitnaaragaw9019
No he’s not part of the problem.
Modern women aren’t worth of being wifed and that’s the problem.
Das könnten meine Worte sein. Agree! And man, i can´t pop up feminism german lady. You are right.
I agree on the entitlement and unhappy faces. I travel a lot by train, and a lot of young women look at you as if to say: who do you think you are to look at me.
Sometimes I wish they would speak out loud. My question would be: what more have you achieved in life than inheriting beauty from your parents and knowing how to use make-up and how to dress? What will be left of that in 15 years? The make-up?
On the other hand we know many people suffer from depression and low self-esteem. It's a difficult world these days.
People tend to say after the first date: there was no "click". Well, how can you ever get to know anyone in a few hours with small talk?
I'm a 60 yr old mom of three teenagers....yes, teenagers. 19, 18, and 15. You're not alone in your ideas and speaking out on them, bless you!!! You found a way to put it out there and are of getting people to listen. Hopefully more people's light bulbs will go off.
True, but not "peoples". "Women". This was about women's askew behavior. The anti-Men behavior of Feminism. Don't dilute the subject. Men have their issues, but this was on women.
Women have the best chance of understanding toxic female behavior when some woman destroys their son... I hope you don't have to watch that happen.
Yah. Well, good luck to your teenagers if they are boys. Because they are now where women were 120 years ago.
@@puppetmasterblaster Too true. But I have only one boy and he's as manly as they come. I raised him to open doors for ladies, give a woman his seat when needed, and he even starts my car for me in the morning if it's cold. We live in the South and there are still quite a few ladies who appreciate manners.
I’m the traditional blue collar man that married a traditional stay home woman and we have been enjoying our lives together for 34 years. We wouldn’t have it any other way. By the way, both our son and daughter turned out very well 😊
Love what you are doing, keep it up.
Every boy born and unborn thanks you for these words.
You came along in my life at the perfect time. Thanks for being strong, real and not afraid to highlight how some men are good
YES... Good vs Evil knows no gender boundary... Stay Well 😊👍 -70SomethingGuy
Most men are good. Were it not so, society would collapse.
Thank you Kevin! I appreciate you and I will do my best.
@@sarahdawnmoore Thank you, Sarah. You’re doing superbly and I greatly appreciate you
@@sarahdawnmoore Please address female narcissism. The quality of men on your page dealing with this issue is staggering including myself. I dearly love my wife and would die to protect her however her viciousness is wicked. I call it the “Jeckyl and Hyde syndrome” and it’s killing me slowly.
So glad you popped up on my YT algorithm. Appreciate you being yourself while giving enlightening commentary. You go, girl!💃🏽
Another message which has been deeply ingrained into western society, is that, “living on the poverty line is not good, you won’t be happy and won’t be able to afford a family”. As a man, I feel my value in society is more connected to working with my hands getting dirty earning closer to minimum wage than working behind a desk climbing what I call “the financial wealth ladder”.
Up until the late 1970s, a man (or to a lesser extent, a woman) could choose to work with his hands (or do so because of not getting the “elite” level of education) and still climb partway up the financial ladder and support a family, then retire comfortably. The policy changes resulting from Reagan’s election, and the right wing propaganda that got him elected, have turned around most of the progress made since the New Deal. Today only a few people who work in the “trades,” mostly those who were fortunate enough to do so as owners of a business rather than working for someone else, could say the same. Almost as soon as women won the freedom to choose to work, the oligarchy made it mandatory for both partners to work, and every year since, the gap has gotten worse. We need to go back to the Keynesian policies of FDR and Truman, and reject the Voodoo Trickle Down policies of the Republicans!
When you realize working yourself to death to make 100k a year. So somebody else can live in your home and raise your kids. You"ll see how dumb making 6 figures is. You can't take it with you either.
Two generations ago, money was something valuable that was dug out of the ground with hard dangerous work. And it took hard and sometimes dangerous work to earn it.
Now “money” is something created with a few computer keystrokes and all it takes to “earn” it is political pull.
Look at Sam Bankman-Fried.
Be careful about people working behind desks...if you never have done anything other than blue collar...tread lightly. People don't move up by not working hard. What you're really saying is you found something you could do with your hands and then created a comfort zone within that job and stayed there.
@@davidcole333 Yes, I have found work that I enjoy and don’t see myself moving up the ladder within that company/organization. Though, it sounds to me when you tell me “I’ve created my comfort zone”, you mean it like it’s a bad thing. I understand people need to experience the world and hardships to make them get out of their comfort zones, but, I believe it’s different when it relates to a job or career you thrive in and enjoy.
Be careful guys. Be very careful. I’m 58, been divorced twice, and have been chewed up and spit out by the family courts. My advice is not to live together and don’t even propose until you’ve been together at least 5 years. I’ve been single for 10 years now. It can be a little lonely every once in a while but it’s far better than dealing with “modern women”. At best they are a soup sandwich.
Same here and totally agree with you.
This is sound advice for both men and women. Some states are far more slanted to women in a divorce. California is brutal.
"...and we wonder why they go to Thailand search for a bride..." Touché! Thank you for your insights
Awesome lady! I had come to this same conclusion too. Having seen personally many men not wanting western women anymore. Myself included. Self entitled and narcosis is what they have been taught. I no longer fear being called names because of the lifted vail. Men and women are different with equal but different roles, celebrate the differences and the similarities, life is beautiful when in harmony. No one has to feel lesser because no one is. Thank you for speaking out.
Just got a job paying $36 an hour (starting) with a $3000 signing bonus because I have trade skills. Makes me feel pretty good about myself.
What are you doing?
Well done, getting a job is a feat on its own. Has it own skill set and take a decent effort! Hope things go well for you!
I'm really enjoying your videos. I've been married for a decade now and I still work every day to try to be a good wife to my husband. He works hard and provides for our family and he deserves no less from me. We both play our parts, and we both build each other up and catch each other when we fall. THAT'S what a true partnership and marriage is about. So thank you for speaking up for all the good real men out there, and us women that KNOW we are women and want to treat our men good.
Your husband is a lucky man.
@@Blaze-ko3ts 😂 I think so. But so am I, so it works❤️❤️❤️
People get caught up in the social media, internet and god forbid I can’t find my cellphone…
That being said our focus should always be our spouse, family and home, everything else will fall into place on its own. You’re doing a good job as wife and husband, don’t ever let anyone tell you different.❤
you are a wonderfull lady. 😁
I’m a 42 year old divorced father of 3 in BC Canada. Just found your TH-cam channel. I really enjoy your videos. You’ve nailed the issues men are experiencing. It’s tragic. I’m so worried about my 3 sons futures as they venture into the world. They’ve already been told at school that they are toxic simply because they are boys. My middle son came home crying then they told him. He didn’t understand why he’s toxic (omg) they’re abusing our children.
Wish there were more intelligent women who respect their man out there.
@Javed Latif seems to be a lot of them.
And even if they don’t “hate” men, they are oblivious to their values and what they bring to a relationship.
They want to know what I can provide but when asked what they provide the answer is usually “me”. Whatever that means.
They don’t want to cook, clean, or do any traditional womanly duties. Most don’t even know how to cook.
So then the man ends up doing everything. So what’s the point…
*sigh* moving on.
@Javed Latif same. Father of three teenage boys.
I’ll check out your other comments.
"Man that can throw you against the wall and have a good time." Love that quote.
...and later be arrested for domestic violence and grape when she feels the guilt and shame the morning after
I have a plumber friend who runs his own store and makes $150K per year. He's got some nice toys, house paid off before he was forty. He's been at it for 30 years. His kids are grown. He intermittently supports a sister who has chronic health problems. Neither does he give a dibbity boo about what the Jones' have. Pretty good guy.
Camille is actually a class act. She has managed to stay relevant in her field while scarcely concealing that she is a wild human. I'd guess the administration where she works takes the position that since it's Camille they won't say anything.
That’s what being a Trump Supporter will do to you.
Today’s dating climate is so f’d I’m sick of it. I work in construction industry. I work long hours, out of town and it’s hard to meet women. I’m not a big drinker and really don’t want to meet someone at bar. I’ve resorted to trying online dating but the only ones who respond are looking for money for sex, or try to blackmail you for money among other things. I’m so sick and tired of this. By the time you find out their intentions you can’t even report the profile because it’s gone. It’s nice to that there are still some good women out there who truly want a good man, give me a little hope for the world.
Agree it is very hard to meet good women in person or online. Where are they all hiding?
@@cyclone411 In Asia and Africa.
We're out here David
I hear you, brother.
David is not looking for the submissive Asia that he ends up paying for, there’s an all American girl looking for him too.
So agree with this! My late husband had a doctorate, was very successful in his field ( education), but could not change a lightbulb.
My new husband is lacking in formal education, but can build and fix anything. He is, at 75, the sexiest, smartest, most accomplished man I have known…I have so much respect and admiration for him, and he is also an amazing lover….
At 71 I’m still suffering PTSD from Fem’s and the destructive wake they rolled in on during the last 50 yrs. Thank goodness for people like Sarah!!
PTSD from feminism. I would say this is one of the most non-masculine things I have read today. I can’t even imagine me thinking of myself as a victim. In 71😊1 years you’re still trying to learn how to be a man. I’m sorry.
I wanted to say, I really wanted to reach out to you on this Sarah.
I've been struggling with suicidal depression for years and years now, struggling onwards despite how much I've felt absolutely no hope that I'd ever find anyone to be happy with. I have had to deal with the insanity of feminism and things like telling me that I'm a rapist for being born a man etc. etc. The dating scene is absolutely crazy
But I've been watching your videos, and you have such great advice for how to improve yourself as a man to be desireable to a woman, how to be a better man, things like that. I understand there are comments on your videos from men who are insecure and can't handle the idea that even in this crazy point of modern life that not all the problems are from the women and maybe they might have to change and improve themselves.
But your videos have caused me to look honestly at myself and think of ways to improve myself, and now I try to act confident, secure in myself, to be a stoic man who doesn't complain or whine but is also willing to open up to his significant other in his life. You've also taught me what I should look for in a woman and how to respect myself enough to not take bad treatment from a woman who isn't worth my time.
In other words, you've given me actual hope for the future, I truly appreciate how you're a woman who actually gets it, who actually tries to understand the other gender rather than blaming them for things, and treating them like dirt, emasculating them etc. Instead you are uniting the genders, showing how both can improve and be better, you're advocating for both to be equal and to work together to be happy together, and that's such a breath of fresh air I can't even put into words.
You give me hope that there are sane women out there who are interested in a healthy relationship
Sounds like you've been endocrinated into the "you have a penis, you have testosterone = rapist" bullshit. (if a woman says to you "all men are rapists" reply with "then that must mean your dad, brother, cousin, son, uncle, male friends, boyfriend are rapists") see how fast they back pedal.
Here's somethings that may help:
Accept that you're a man, that you're masculine.
Always speak your brutal honestly truth (don't give a fuck if someone else is offended, upset, hurt etc their reactions / responses are not your responsibility it's theirs)
Be able to take honest truth back if someone gives it too you.
Stand up for what you believe in (obviously this modern shit hasn't helped you)
Learn not to develop a give no fuck attitude + Focus only on what you can control (write it down. This will help you learn not to care about what others think)
Uncondition yourself of that bollocks and it'll kill you faster than anything else.
Find a male role model (real or fictional or even an animal like a wolf, lion, egal) that actually takes pride in real masculinity not this semi weak masculine shit.
One day at a time friend. I know it's hard waking up to a world that hates you but you're valuable. You matter. Find your mission in this world and rise to meet it.
You're not the only one who's been struggling because of feminism. Have you noticed that after roe versus Wade got overturned it shot through the roof very quickly. All right know that there's an agenda to mess with people. And if she minded people go with it then we have to deal with anarchy and Chaos as we see today. Unfortunately it's attacking men and women on a psychological war scale that most people don't realize what's going on. And yes it's been tough for me with dating as well but there's a few women out there that are actually coming to terms and realizing what's going on after talking to them. They don't make me sound like I'm as crazy as I used to be. Which I never was. When you point out the so-called conspiracies they call you conspiracy theorist. But when you see patterns of what's going on in today's society compared to 40 50 years ago you can actually see the cycles of psychological manipulation through events and this is one of them. So this attacks men and women as a unit and as individuals. Very clever if I was to come up with a way to hurt people this would have been a fantastic way of doing it. However I am not in that mindset. But I understand what you're going through. You can reach out to any of us guys. We understand what's going on. We understand and we're here to be there as a support. Just know that women are starting to wake up to this and women like Sarah here are opening it up and pointing it out. So you're not alone. There are others out here that you can reach out to for support
The way it used to be before ( feminist trolls) took over media. Got nothing but respect, admiration for women. You don't cut something down to make something else better. Yeah alot of guys are dirt but you don't treat all guys the same alot of women are worse but I don't treat all woman the same that would be a big mistake.
Find videos from Dr Jordan Peterson also. He's a great teacher and might be able to help encourage you
I lost my wife of 27 years 6 months ago. I'm not looking for someone new, but I'm shocked at this new attitude a lot of women have adopted these days. I'm so glad I found your channel, you try to bring people together with positive ideas and squashing many of the crazy ideas both sides have. You have a way of making guys realize the way women think and showing women just what we're REALLY thinking and expect from them. Keep up the great informational videos, you just may make people think!! 😎👍☮️
Very sorry for your loss. Lost my wife of 38 years this past December. Best wishes to you.
@@williamgill4898 same to you, good luck!
As a veteran Sailor I was told for years I would never amount to anything by some women who I went to school with, years later I go home I’m retired with my wife happy they are still working and have to work we’re comfortable and still have income although not rich I fought and have scars from my service but my wife loves me. My wife digs my scars and those girls come up to me now and apologize for how they treated me, many have become friends of my wife although suspect lol.
I never finished college, because my father wanted me to go into business. I was more a science and music kinda of guy. I was put on scholastic probation because of my grades. ( business was boring to me )
I was so fortunate to be able to become a firefighter. Served 34 years and now have been retired for almost 8 years. I have my own massage business and play in a band. Still using my hands. We don’t need college degrees to be successful. They are great! Our two children have degrees and are doing well. The degrees aren’t for everyone and I wish society would accept that. Thank you for all you do Sarah!!
Thanks for answering the question I've had for a long time about men resorting to video games, because alot ofem weren't aloud to play in the dirt, play with toka toys climb trees, or build things with their dad or even took fishing. Cause either dad wasn't in the picture or was working all the time. Men need binding time with other men too. We need the plumber, electrical, and fence builders etc type electives brought back in schools. For that matter we need home economics like cooking, sewing brought back in schools as well, along with being shown at home how to do chores by parents as well
HEY SARAH, EXCELLENT Video, Thank You... In My View, First Wave Feminism was about awareness of and disassembly of Patriarchy and creations of a society that values the development of the FULL Potential of ALL human beings, both Men & Women - a NOBLE Goal. Third Wave Feminism is mostly a RATIONALIZATION to justify the establishment of Matriarchy. An old saying applies here: "180 degrees from Dead Wrong is still Dead Wrong".
-StayWell Everyone 😊👍 -70SomethingGuy
As a dude, I thank you! I didn't have a degree until I was mid 40s and masters late 40s. I was still doing well but wanted to show my kids (which were all over 18) they could do more. College and/or degrees didn't make me ANY better at my job (at all). All it did was show OTHERS that I was qualified, sad really.
Awesome! I just discovered Camille Paglia. Such a breath of fresh air! I missed her rise in the media in the 90s but a lot of her interviews are on TH-cam. The patriarchy doesn’t exist? Please keep putting out this message!
Speaking as someone in the UK, I'm 35 and even when I was at school it was a female dominated industry. In my primary school for example there was only 1 male member of staff (apart from the janitor who was obviously male). In high school it was better but it was still a 3/4 split between men and women. This means that for a lot of men growing up, there is no male influence and it clearly shows.
I now work in hospitality, being 35 I'm actually one of the older people in the industry (crazy, eh) and we have a lot of young guys come in that have little to no understanding about how to act like a man or even how to speak to other men.
And what about the portrayal of men on TV? - they're all portrayed as bumbling fools or evil bullies, the last decent male role model I can remember was Uncle Phill on the fresh prince, that was 30 years ago.
Sarah, you are a role model for women! You damn well understand how it works
My man is a contractor and house painter....I LOVE watching him work. He's also great with my son and is a wonderful role model to both of my kiddos. He's a real man who loves to be physically busy all the time. God please bless all the men out there who have stepkids but treat em like they are their own.
You continue to bring great content to your videos and the diversity of angles you bring to the relationship discussion is so strong. You already know how many of us your message is resonating with - I predict your impact is going to start spreading exponentially - and for the sake of men AND women, it must.
Everything she said is a 100% true. When you were started on AD/HD and also how the schools no longer offer shop,home economics, metal shop, wood shop. No recesses.
The mapping of patriarchy you were talking about is also on top.
I grew up with a hard laborer! So I totally do not have that outlook. I know a lot of women I know want the businessmen.
It's terribly sad 😥
I’ve worked in numerous high schools. I agree that school is not set up for boys. We are doing a HUGE disservice by not wanting to “track” them. The powers-that-be don’t want to allow kids to not be able to have the qualifications to enter a 4-year school.
Guess what? Boys NEED to be useful. So many of them hate being made to sit quietly instead of using their brains to learn a skill that keeps them active. It’s a crime to keep the boys in school learning things they don’t care to sit through past the age of 16/17. Let them move on to tech school if that is where they want to find useful skills. Allow the kids who want to go to a 4-year school to stay. Not only would that be beneficial to the kids who want to leave, it would be better for the overall classroom environment.
One high school I went to, had auto mechanics classes that would lead to a career in that field. The young men would take English, Math and Gym classes, and go to their apprentice jobs in the afternoon.
@@danielcobbins9050 I see that kids can leave for work release but it’s only seniors. That still leaves a good part of the day that they want to stab their eyes out! The boys are SO checked out. Many girls would like to leave as well, but the activity level of the boys who do not care for school is a burden on everyone.
I've been watching your TH-cam Shorts for a while, this is the first "full" video I've seen. I think you are really awesome. Keep up the great work!
You my good woman are on the road to becoming an icon of our time. More likely you have already arrived.
I for one am grateful, both for myself, and my two sons.
Early on I fiercely supported the woman's movement, and I did for two decades... that support had soured into resentment, and I thank you.
Paglia is brilliant: I wish we had more public intellectuals calling out the woke nonsense with such a command of history, art, philosophy, etc. Another (broader socio-political) element I would mention is Batya Unger-Sargon’s analysis about the growing elitism of the Left and how it has demonized the working class. Her excellent book (Bad News- How Woke Media Undermines Democracy) is a tour de force examining how the Left and the Democratic Party has abandoned the working class…which did not go unnoticed by the political right. She gives a highly credible analysis as to how this happened and why, explaining how we ended up with such a fractured, class-divided country. (It’s more about class than politics) Anyway, thanks for your work, promoting sanity.
I really hope that the climate will change in the next few years between men and women, because i've been living a humble life for 15 years, and each time a girl left me it was because i had not enough money, or i wasn't a man who could make them dream their life, i have an ordinary job, gaining just enough to live correctly, but it never seemed to be enough, and on the dating apps, i always find women there to promote their only fan or mym account. i'm 33 and all i want is a good relationship with an ordinary woman like me, who can be something else than a fricking gold digger and enjoy beeing with a gentle man like me, but it seems to be too much to ask ... and solitude is weighting a bit more each years on my shoulders. this is really tiring.
"man up, pussy" 😔 ✌️
((but seriously, go lift something heavy))
I can relate. Im in the same boat brother. Stay strong.
You are so awesome! I am in construction and have my own company. I was kick out of scool becouse they said i was stupid. I built three house before i was 18. Got my contractors license at 18. I have been told so many times how good my work is and yet i always feel it is never enough. I posted to you the other day and you said i won something from you but i dont do tell a gram and i dont do socal media in tell i started to say a few things back to people like you. It is the up most importants to here how you stick up for the men that bust there ass to just make life a better place for all of us. Keep going you are truly such an inspiration to me. I cant thank you enough for your voice that is loud and clear we need you wemen just as much we need you. Life is hard but when you have someone as your self bring that soft touch and energy to a man's life becomes easy. We all are all looking for love. Love and light to you thankyou!
The shorts are nice and concise, but I really enjoy your longer-form content, and I'd be happy to see more of it.
Thank you so much for standing up for men. our society has absolutely castrated men. I am a high valued Man speak two languages run a large company a developer and entrepreneur. I have worked very hard for these positions and now. single man, !!married 28 years after building and creating a business for my wife to make her life easier. She decided she didn’t want to be married anymore so sad, but I will definitely look in other countries for a woman who has. Old fashion values, some thing that we could build on together? men are just tired of being beaten down.
All women are like that. You're just going to get a cheaper model.
Found your amazing channel days after being thrown out and single haha "all my fault" I just want to say thank you for helping me build a better life and have patience for the future!
So good to shed light on it. Expose why people feel these emotions towards trends.
Boy, Am I ever glad I found your channel. For the past two weeks now, I've been navigating through the manosphere and I've been made aware of many things I did not know. It's fair to say that these findings have rocked me to my core. It all began with learning about Cassie Jay and watching her doc, "The red pill". I had long believed that any man advocating for men's rights was by definition a misogynist, but now I know this is patently false. I had not really paid attention to the really bad feminism, you know, we don't need men, men are all pigs, etc. Now I've seen some information (learning about passport bros) that has made me realize that it's a huge problem. Some context: I am 56, from Montreal, Canada, single, never married, no kids, automotive mechanic for the past 26 years.
So I navigated through this cesspool, hearing some truly horrible things being said about both sexes, accepting some things, rejecting others that I found repulsive, and crystalizing my opinions on the whole deal. And today I found your channel. I've only watched three videos so far, but I can see that this is exactly what I needed to finalize my "new" set of values on the men/women dynamic.
Oh, and what you say about trades is absolutely true. Too much emphasis on college and university. It may be nice to be a surgeon with a big salary, but when that fancy BMW of yours breaks, you're gonna need a guy like me to fix it. And don't complain about the bill....you're paying for more than just parts and labor, you're paying for my knowledge and experience.
Anyway, thanks for everything, and have a great week before Christmas!
Really phenomenal, Sarah! It takes guts to do what you just did. That’s a no bullshit take on what is going on in the USA.
I cede my time to lady in red…
I love your true, down to earth view of men and women. It’s very refreshing to have an advocate for men. Society today is just so down on us that it has become discouraging. Looking forward to more from you in the future.
Camille Paglia. What a brilliant theorist, who just happens to be a woman. I remember reading her material all the way back to the 90's.
Sarah Dawn, thank you for sharing this material. This adds a treat deal to your credibility. I mean, I'm already a fan of yours. This post is like the cherry on top.
Thanks again.
Hopefully that video was the one I shared 😅😅. Thanks for doing a reaction video on this ❤️
A 65 yr old master craftsman thanks you for all you have done. Your the future.
Both Camille and you are amazing. Thanks to both of you for all you do!!!
I’ve watched so many of your shorts in the last two days and have just sobbed. I felt so validated and I realized that is what I’m looking for in a woman. Thank you.
My mother was college educated
My father was blue collar.
They were both intelligent people.
They supported each other.
It is the person, not the paper or lack thereof which or whom is important.
It's funny. I said something similar about why men for quite a while look abroad for relationships/marriage than chosing their own American women...
They look abroad because feminists demonise men. Women abroad have not been infected by the parasite that is feminism.
Whenever I hear about "the patriarchy", I'm like dang, where can I join this group. They sound so powerful.
I love the patriarchy
You make so much sense that I hit the like button before even seeing the video. 🙃
Keep going girl ! You have most of this right I've noticed female managers putting their sons in high positions so to favor themselves. What is that; Matriarchy or Patriarchy? I'm a worn out 68 yr old contemplating leaving my marriage of 30+ years due to: no affection. Even my sons disrespect me because of wife's insistence on no confrontations in the home. Where do I go; to the Catholic church that is nourishing this dysfunction? This society is a disaster in denial.
😂 i appreciate the effort in the videos and the message. But hot dang. There is some
“Omg yaaaaaas queeen! You go girl!!!! All the power to you queen” energy up in these comments
I know i just offended a lot of people
But hear me out… dont put anyone up in a pedistal. Anyone… and especially women… its like crack to them, and i know tou dont wanna be a addiction pusher, and not to mention its bad for yourself, rather than being calm and collected and rational, we all googly eyed . Give praise where praise is due, but dont go full 0-60 in one second flat. Using superlative language takes away from your cool and collected rational frame.
You can chill bro. Anybody you hear or meet is not likely to be better than toast( greatest thing since sliced bread)
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Have a good one kings 👑
Hahahaha I take it all in stride. I respect your opinion. Thank you for taking the time to comment.
I appreciate everything you have said in this video. I'm about to say something probably controversial. Since men are toxic and created, participate, grow the "patriarchy", and this isn't what "feminists" like how about a role reversal of sorts? Basically women become the sole providers for the family unit, whatever that may be, and men stay home and take care of things at home! I'm pretty sure this won't go over AT ALL! If that isn't the solution, which it isn't for several reasons, then how about mutual respect which has existed since the dawn of time between men and women? That's easily the best and most attainable solution available which takes the political narrative out of the equation and forces these powers that be to go "back to the drawing board" and try to find a new narrative to push at trying to keep us divided.
Yes, this has been happening for quite awhile , an almost complete flip. It's nice to see there is still some good women out there, albeit few & far between. I'm still looking , don't want to pack it up just yet. You wouldn't think it's tough, how ever it's almost nightmareish. Thank you for showing a good perspective on this. Everyone can learn, even old dogs new tricks.
Glad you came across Camille Paglia; she's been a favorite of mine for many years. Her monthly Salon columns are must read. She is a lesbian, feminist, art teacher and sexual personae author (that was also the title of her most famous book) who also admired some on the Right that make most leftists cringe. She truly is a fascinating person.
Something to ponder. These young men grew up without a first-generation type male. You should encourage men to do some mentoring. In my recent move, I have found many teenage boys growing up without fathers and/or growing up with very poor manly figures. I've invited several to come over to my shop and work, help out, and hang out... I will teach them some of the basics of woodworking. And help them make a project or two. It's not the doing of the project... but the spending of the time... being around a man. And watching his wife love on him when she comes out to see how things are going. They see these things and start to want that for their own life.
Totally agree, I see our society is not encouraging this type of relationship. Especially for public schooling.
I really wish more women were like you.
Stop simping bro. It will do you a big favor in the long run.
Thank you, Sarah. Not just for this video, but for continuing to fight our corner.
I really appreciate that you are speaking out, and trying to shed a light on toxic feminism. The are women in my profession that love having as a teammate, and then the ones that think I have no business being here. Everyone appreciates me being here, when there is a bariatric patient on the floor, even the... ladies that don't want me here.
I grew up in the 60s went to a trade school in the 70s and these kids that we have in school today wouldn’t survive I was probably in about a half a dozen fights in the classroom never mind out in the hallway or outside because I didn’t like bullies I became a welder and I stayed single until I was 30 got married and my ex would constantly say I could live without you I don’t need you women decide everything after listening to the bullshit for 25+ years I finally said goodbye and the funny thing is she told me if she knew where it was all going to end she would’ve changed her attitude along time ago I don’t get women what in the hell does she expect
Here is another thing to think about. Why are some men so confident on first dates? Same reason they are confident at interviews. THEY GET FIRED ALOT! The men that stutter and are nervous on the first date tend to be more stable, the guy that recently started dating again after several years doesn't go on many first dates and tends to be more stable and faithful in a relationship than Mr Cocky that has many first dates. If you want a faithful man that is going to be a stable provider then forget Mr Cocky. He will always let you down. Remember, Mr Cocky gets fired ALOT.
So wise.
Thank you for thinking through this, I appreciate your efforts.
She’s spot on right about the devastation that’s affected men from giving away our manufacturing jobs. I’m 64 and work in industrial sales. I deal with accounts daily that are in dire need of skilled welders, machinists, millwrights, multi-craft maintenance mechanics (especially), metal fabricators, and on and on, yet despite good wages and benefits, aren’t finding people, even entry-level people and providing them with OJT, or paying for their classes at local trade schools. I mentor young men in my church, and besides the horror stories I hear about these so called Christian dating apps (I never married, and while it was toxic back in the day, it’s on a completely different end of the swamp today), it’s impossible to get these young men interested in trades, or entrepreneurship. I place part of the onus on academia, and dissuading them to avoid trades, etc.
Today's young men are more Jubal than Tubal.
Love Camille, she says it how it is, without the Bull 💩 100% facts! And thank you Sarah.
My fiance is from Thailand, she is not even familiar with the word feminism :)
I enjoy your thought provoking articles so much. You are well versed, very articulate and have definitely researched your info. I find it interesting in that you can point out some of the pitfalls of both men and women without bashing. It gives me all the more reason to listen to you and try to understand the mess relationships are in today. Thanks a million.
Totally exists. I'm an old white dude...so obviously deep into the patriarchy. My whole life I could stroll into any job interview, do the secret handshake and bam I had the job. AND they'd always pay me 20% more than the advertised amount. I hardly had to show up for work. Companies were always pushing me to take higher and higher management jobs
When I served in the US Army I had no fear because the patriarchy is worldwide and I knew soldiers on the other side would aim high to miss me and I would do the same for them....because we're men. Then we'd lie about number of kills and get together to decide how best to keep the world away from women. Men KIA are actually living with hot women in foreign countries. This is why we never allowed women into combat. Didn't want them seeing reality.
Yup. the patriarchy is awesome.
Always a breath of fresh air hearing anyone show love for laborers
Hello Sarah Dawn: I am old enough to remember the early 1960's. At that time, Feminism was a force for good. Unfortunately, in the 1970's it went over to the dark side and became hatred of men and female superiority. It is has been stuck in that mode ever since. That hurts everyone. It's wonderful to see some women speaking up. Stay well and safe.
Thank you for this, as a woman and mother of a teenage boy, 💯 % agree. Be blessed!! 🙏
A balanced viewpoint - - - always refreshing. Thanks for sharing the clip. I had my doubts at first.
Love your show. I’m 53 and I’ve worked for the railroad for 30 years. It’s a tough job. Long hours day and night all kind of weather. The railroad can’t keep any young men. They keep quitting. They are weak in body and mind.
You understand us even better than we understand ourself. You're absolutely spot on, thanks so much you're a gem
Sarah Dawn, I went through a really rough divorce five years ago and ended up with a $140,000 debt. I was served with a domestic violence order which was all 100% based on utter lies. My 23year old daughter , at that time, has only just started talking to me again after discovering what some of the truths about her mother. She has started distancing herself from her mother which I have advised her not to do. In short, I have lost all confidence in women as a whole and have resigned myself to live out my life alone. I don’t want to deal with the crap that women bring with them into a relationship.
Then you came along and I am slowly coming round to the fact that there are women out there with a totally different mindset and attitude towards men. So I thank you for your continued content, it’s greatly appreciated by many.
I am new to Sarah Dawn and find her topics and commentaries quite refreshing. Keep it up!
Wow I am not sure I have ever heard it said anymore clear than what was said and the way you clarified what had ben said in your video. Love your thoughts and the way you put things out there for people to chew on and think about. 🤔
Why don't we address the corrupt divorce/family court system, while we're at it. Most women, even those who are dating coaches refuse to talk about this. It is a $50B industry here in the US. The man loses half his stuff, his kids, the house and if kids are involved, child support. Plus there is "Alice isn't horny anymore money" (alimony). I know why women won't address this problem. Why would they want to get rid of the gravy train?
Sarah....60 yrs of speaking but I'm speechless ! You should be in every classroom in the world. Seems to me you're about to become famous ❤
All I can say is thank for your willingness to learn to understand us. Hopefully it is contagious.
Bravo Sarah.
"The Patriarchy" is an overblown myth imho.
College degrees are overrated.... classrooms, at every level, feminine oriented.
(Not a terrible thing per se, but hard on the average rough & tumble action oriented boy)
So, I trained my son to think, reason & work with machines - bicycles, cars, trucks & machine tools. He was a skilled lathe operator by 15, but now drives professionally Refrigerated Transport.
SOMEBODY HAS TO WORK, HARD.
The fallacious notion that everyone is going to get a college degree & work in a sterile office space, shuffling paper back & forth is SUCH a mirage.
Ask the superfluous "workforce" at Twitter how that worked out !
Sarah you're great & appreciated - David in Texas
Sarah Dawn, this is your best delivery to date (in my opinion).
I agree with the information you presented regarding ADHD studies. While in grad school studying to be a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC - a masters level clinician), my day job was working as a Juvenile Probation Officer (JPO). I saw first hand how boys were punished as compared to girls, and it's not a pretty picture.
During the school year my office was located at an alternative school; I got to observe and interact with the frequent fliers in the juvenile system.
At some point, curiosity got the best of me, and I started conducting research into the department's cases of "at risk youth" who were on probation and those returning from incarceration. I discovered first hand, what my text book literature was asserting: most young guys who are in "the system" were diagnosed with ADHD - not necessarily Conduct Disoder, Opposital Defiant Disorder or some diagnosis with alarming levels of Psychopathy. Additionally, most were eighth and ninth grade Latino boys. That appears to be a vulnerable age for influence on behavior.
Also, many times the courts made certain assumptions that boys were inclined to be guilty and many times sentenced them more harshly. Contrastingly though, girls and their parents more often were pushed toward counseling or some form of community service.
Please note: most of these boys were from single mother households or were being raised by grandparents or in some cases, foster parents. Not surprisingly, there was little to no modeling of positive masculine behaviors in those homes.
The same applies to people of colour vs Anglo children. Children of colour were often more times likely to be sentenced more harshly than children of Anglos - even if the judge was a person of colour. That caught me by surprise.
Many times I would lock horns with the defense or prosecuting attorney's line of questioning, reminding them that children who are at risk are not in a position to change the variables in their lives, e.g. - parents and family members, their peers and neighborhoods, ethnicity/culture/skin colour, etc... (there were instances when the children were Anglo and possessed higher socioeconomic status/resources the case wouldn't have made it to court).
A point to consider, is that most children are not "criminals", however if locked-up, may in fact be introduced to a "criminal" and live to become the next "Scar Face". These kids were simply making poor choices based on negative influences (or lack of some form of positivity).
Please consider this point:
One of the top tenets of Science regarding theory and its supporting hypothesis is that *one can neither prove nor disprove a theory*. I used that frequently when advocating for kids in the face of professional "expert witnesses", even when they were MD's, PhD's, etc... So, when questioned about whose side I was on, my calculated response was typically, "the child and their family" and (or) "the community". I didn't care about the politics of my Department, the supporting Law Enforcement Departments, or other Agencies political agenda.
If you made it this far, thank you for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.
Oh while I'm thinking about it, using Paglia's arguments always gets you extra points in my book. 😎👍
Wait; is this for real ???
Call them ADHD if they can't sit still so drug the child. I'm a 64 yo grandmother of 8 and you my dear are speaking it!!!!!! ♥️
Wow this is very stimulating it's deep and it's to the Core. Core beliefs that need to be challenged and core beliefs that are being changed and subverted. Great post great topic !
I enjoyed this greatly. I have not been much in the social circles of feminism online, so I am just really learning this whole process.
Love your outlook and attitude on life and relationships and your advice on many topics to help men with issues of intimacy and pleasing their women. I'm so glad when you first popped up in my TH-cam feeds I thought ,wow this woman is smoking hot, maybe I need to see what she's all about lol. keep the wisdom coming young lady!
Good afternoon Sarah! First of all, I think you are a very incredible woman! I love everything about you! Thank you for sharing your wisdom on men and women differences. In my opinion, you are spot on about both action of men and women that needs to change for us to have a good relationship with the other sex. I enjoy the other people that you have on your channel also. Very informative! Keep up the good work! May our LORD continue to bless you and your family!
I’ve been referred to as a man’s man,I fix things, build things,hunt and catch things. That’s just who I am.
The only women who don’t seem to appreciate these traits in me are the ones who wanted me to wear pink shirts,shape my eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. They also expected me to do what is generally considered “the female orientated house chores but I never saw them on the roof fixing the shingles or digging up the septic tank.
You are amazing and clearly a good person. Thank you for all you do!
I effing LOVE Camille Paglia! And, it's a great book!
Thank you so much Sarah.
I’ve been a carpenter for 50 years.
Even my wife thinks men are bad.
Man you must be miserable. Trust me though it's cheaper to keep her at your age.
Why are you with her then? If she hates men so much, kick her to the curb.
Get rid of her.
Preach it Sista - You are among the few that get it; My career choice was 'White Collar' but in my free time, I like to do Trades Work; I enjoy working with my hands on the Project and in the Bedroom. The more work I do with my hands, the more Manly takes charge I feel in the Bedroom. White Collar jobs can make you soft. Trades jobs can be hard work, and very Manly - IMHO