shoulda done the one where the daughter hates her father because he’s in a wheelchair, but it turns out that it’s her fault because she accidentally shot him 💀
If I saw a security guard handcuff a teenage girl and demand that she come with him despite having no evidence of any wrongdoing, I would assume that he has certain fantasies that he wants to act out. You need *clear* evidence in order to detain someone. Without sufficient evidence, you have no right to send anyone anywhere or hand out any sort of punishment.
even if they did have hard evidence, a mall security guard would get fired if they got physical with them at all, and it's likely that if they did catch a thief like in this dhar mann scenario, she'd be let off.
As a dude who dresses in gothic fashion, you absolutely do get judged for dressing gothic (mostly by cranky older people and the obnoxious gossip-y crowd) but I've never had this happen to me when I've entered makeup stores or restaurants.
I basically lived in black clothing and accessories in high school. You do get judged. I really couldn't have cared less though. Hey, if dressing in all black kept people away from me, I was all for it.
I've been dressing alternative for five years now (since I was 15) and there have been times where I was gawked at by security and had people be suspicious of me in stores. Then again I live in a somewhat conservative town in Australia so maybe I'm biased lol.
The worst I ever get is the Halloween comment or cut your hair. I've never had someone stop me for the way Im dressed and assume Im stealing. Its usually just because I have a backpack. I sometimes have the opposite. People try to upsell me cuz they see I use makeup more than most men. Then they realize Im cheap XD
@@piixiepariixs7314 If you're talking about the original, yes she's a little goth. If you're talking about the Wednesday from the Netflix show (which is the one this video was most likely referencing), no she is not even remotely goth in the slightest. She literally doesn't wear a single goth outfit in the entire show.
@@potatoperson7853 yeah. She literally just wears black and that’s it. Maybe a little edgy here and there but definitely not goth. It’s not how Wednesday was like in the 1950s (idk when the Addams family was made)
I go into public dressed as a softcore 2000's emo, not too far gone from our "goth" and literally no one has ever treated me this way, let alone detained and handcuffed me. Most I've ever gotten was playful teasing from my friends, most of it from my actually goth friend, and none of that is even malicious. Leave goths alone, Dhar Mann. They don't even fit what you're going for.
Also, why is the mom doing nothing? If she thinks her child is being treated unfairly and can see how upset she is, why doesn't she go over and defend her daughter or try to clear the situation up in some way? She goes on later about how unfair it is her daughter experiences this but when she has a moment to intervene she doesn't. Thanks Mom, so nice your empathy for my situation expands only to complaining about it rather than helping me.
Bro dhar man went from “not be racist” to “all white people are racist”, I swear to god, all of the underpaid white actors have played a racist character at least once
Add in the irony of having the black guy be the one to judge the white girl dressed in black. I think dhar man just wants an excuse to be racist and the videos are his medium
What confuses me so much about this video is that… this woman is watching security harassing her daughter in the store, instead of walking up to them to stand up for her… she’s just talking to her friend on the side?
8:27 Just the thought of the security guard just walking down to this Girl to hand cuff her is the most hilarious thing that Dhar Mann has ever created. Just him waltzing down the road. "I'm a cop now. I have literally no reason to arrest you. I didn't even know I could arrest you. But I was following you for no reason and now I have the right to arrest you." Honestly comedic gold right there
I worked in retail and ain't NO way would a security guard hears a obvious shoplifting beep in anyone's purse be and be like "Oh yeah you're free to go'
I dated a goth girl and she'd be at Spencers or buy a special makeup effects kit for her make-up She wouldn't go shop at a "lame preppy bitch" store in her words
Plenty of goths look like that, not all of them wear the white foundation you see on online goth gurus. Plus it’s a music based subculture, it isn’t even about the appearance.
Listen, when I was in high school, I looked like the quiet loner who might go ballistic at any moment. However, no one treated me as if I was actually dangerous. In fact, my friends were the ones who made jokes about not coming to school the next day.
I could have never predicted that some sort of shop security guard for some reason has handcuffs and the ability to arrest people like does Dharr man even know what security does???
I work in retail. And you were spot on when talking about the scanning the room thing. We are taught that if someone keeps scanning the room or looking around like they’re watching for something you then have to be suspicious. It’s not a matter if they’re goth or not or black or white. Suspicious activity is suspicious activity
I learned as someone working retail that we shouldn’t care because they don’t want to get sued. Yet we had to follow a guy who is stealing around the store.
as someone who has dressed gothic, in a pretty rural an christian place.. I get many compliments on my black clothing, exaggerated makeup, an such. People don’t really see it as taboo anymore.
Tbh This story probably would have been much better if she was mentally different than others Here they were way too over the top about this "goth girl" When she's literally just wearing black clothe
I live in LA and have identified as goth since the mid 90’s. I used to get all kinds of harassed back then. I had to throw away an expensive collar in ‘97 at an airport before they’d let me on the plane. I’ve been followed by security, kicked out of stores, searched unnecessarily… I was even kicked out of a gastroenterologist’s office after berating me about my inappropriate attire. I’ve been chastised, criticized, scrutinized, ostracized, scandalized, satirized all over the way I chose to dress and, honestly, it sucked. But that was a long time ago. The most I get these days is just the occasional stare. I don’t mind that at all.
@Ich-Existiere-Nicht don’t be. It was a very long time ago and I honestly love that the world has changed in such a way that this doesn’t happen anymore. I’m free to be as expressive as I like; as are my children.
@@ElijahBrown-l3nimagine saying womp womp when someone is explaining their life lol you just want people to get mad so petty 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I dont know if I'm too polite, but her refusing to show him the bag straight away is a good reason to be suspicious. I know her been letting everyone else go, but she'd been lurking over the make-up aisle for the first few minutes. Its pretty reasonable to be cautious of that.
@@iamdangerous5189 I dated three goth girls and I'm a Black man , I was also a skater boy in my teenager days ,I always had Pantera playing in my earphones (that's how I met my first gothic gf )
thats what i was thinking. how is a black man that most likely knows how shitty it feels to be called suspicious and knows what it feels like to be stared down and judged gonna pass that onto someone with a different style
As a goth person people do give me weird looks in public. I've had people give me extremely nasty looks and I've even heard people talking about me. And I'm genuinely goth. Clothes and all.
Yeah it's real. It's just... not like this weird panto lol ❤. Some people really do have a weird satanic panic thing lingering around and clutch pearls near you while you're just buying some milk.
Same. Have you ever had religious people approach you and insist on “Praying over/for you”. Like they act like they’re doing a mini exorcism. Its weird. I’ve had it happen twice
As a goth myself, at least around where I live, people don't really care too much about it. Goth is actually a pretty mainstream style over here. So is alternative and preppy. The wonders of living in the Midwest.
As a fellow Midwesterner, I can attest that this is true. When there isn't much to do in your little city, one tends to express themselves extremely, if only for the entertainment value. I also find that these cliques are extremely loyal to one another, more so than in urban areas, and just generally have a better moral compass overall.
I’ve been screamed “emo” at and barked at for wearing alternative clothing and makeup multiple times, (so has my friends) I would say that it depends on where and what country. But from my experience, you DEFINITELY get judged.
As a citizen of Trinidad and Tobago, I am in need to inform you that KFC is basically a religion for us. We are glad you are joining this cul- i mean culture, thank you.
As a former security officer in the contract and corporate sectors, I can say that you are correct. A security officer is an agent of their employer, with the same power to arrest as a private citizen (citizen's arrest). The also can be sued for damages if they are wrong (unlawful detention, kidnapping, etc.).
Goth and metalhead here (but I'm from Germany, so I don't know how it'd be in America) ✌🏻 First of all, yes, you can consider her looks goth, because goth isn't just a clothing style, but a lifestyle. Our clothing and accessoires are wonderful to represent our taste and way of living, but it's also important to know that Goth is a subculture based on music. We don’t know whether this character lives like a Goth or just dresses like it, but either way I think the reactions in the video are a bit over the top. From what I've experienced there indeed are people who keep their distance and get suspicious, but there has never been an issue with shop employees or security anywhere. Depending on where you are people have become fairly open-minded and even compliment for certain items of clothing (especially when self-made) or makeup. Of course, there are also some dunderheads who ridicule us, but honestly, you don’t have to be a Goth to be made fun of
Hey august I'm genuinely happy to watch your videos bc my mom's passed recently and I'm a wreck thank you so much for the most entertaining moments I've had
@@sillybluealienI appreciate it but I don't want to bring anything down I just want to show support to one of the best commentary channels on this platform
in germany this is actualy a huge problem for alternative people, you cant even go out looking slightly alt without getting insulted, school is even worse in that aspect. at least thats my experiance
Found it ironic that Winnie was being discriminated by a member of a discriminated community, let alone that he discriminated her the same way members of his community have been and I'm guessing still are.
Only to her Goth daughter, though, as it would seem. In the same breath she uses to defend Winnie (Goth daughter), she complains about how she wishes Becca (her non-Goth daughter) would be more like her sister and complains about how people naturally assume Becca's a good person (as if she thinks that if Winnie has to be endlessly harassed and judged, Becca should be too)
as a goth kid all i can completely deny every scenario in this dhar mann video 💀the worst thing ive experienced would be getting barked at and getting called emo at school-
Goths are not painted as criminals but wow the amount of attention my sister gets for dressing like that, both positive and negative, is not an afterthought
You know it's going to be a fun night when August posts a Dhar Mann video. and as a self-proclaimed goth/emo/scene human being, i can tell you that no one with a brain will think a goth is stealing unless they look suspicious like this winnie girl.
@@funkygal5318 not hard to dress, hard to make friends in school (mainly middle school kids won’t wanna be your friend, rarely high school I think). I don’t wanna be emo or anything like that, but people like what they like (tf I write a whole paragraph for 💀)
Actually here in the UK, goths get treated terribly. Back when I was goth, I was followed closely around stores, followed by people who would call me names and try to hurt me physically. I was humiliated in shops and fast food places, etc etc. It causes a lot of gothic teens to SH or experience suicidal thoughts. It made me an angry person who started to intentionally lash out at people. It caused me to have a mental breakdown and do something terrible to my own face..but I got better. I've had a much softer look since, such as pastel clothes and pastel pink hair. The pink hair still makes people stare at me like I'm a freak. The UK is horrible for judgemental people and horrible, badly brought up kids who can cut you to the quick with their words.
@@lDSMILEMIZUKI Yes, it's very sad and really horrible. The poor girl didn't even do anything wrong. The worst that could happen to a couple did happen: one survived and the other one did not.....
Did nobody else notice that the security guard said someone stole makeup but the goth girl said “I didn’t steal any lipstick” when the guy never said it was lipstick, that just makes her look guilty.
Can we discuss how ironic it is that a black security guard is treating a minority like a criminal? Like no freaking way that just flew over everyone’s head.
So as a former goth teen I can say I was stared at often and told I was going to hell but that was the worst I delt with. Most people stare and move on 🤷🏼♀️
My sister is goth. Even though I usually wear bright colors, I still think her outfits are really pretty. And it makes it even more fun to find the perfect presents for her.
When I was in highschool, either my freshman of sophomore year. I was walking from lunch to the gym, a middle school girl started waving at me calling me emo girl (in a friendly way). I was so confused as to why and waved back tp be polite and went on my way trying to figure out why she thought I was emo. Figured it was my clothes which consisted of a black tshirt (don't remember what was on it) black jeans, a pair of combat boots, and a black backpack with buttons pinned to it. I wasn't wearing makeup and I didn't have an "emo haircut". Again one of my most confused moments .
You said becoming unwatchable. From what I've seen on here, it is unwatchable! I'm glad you sat through them to decide what is the worst. I couldn't imagine watching more than the clips you show. Thank you for your sacrifice.
7:44 as a person who would consider themselves goth, it is 100% a big deal to other people but what the girl in the video was wearing wouldnt really be considered goth, it would hardly be considered alterntive. The video mightve been kinda decent if it just used actually goth clothing/make up
Dhar Mann: I treat these people with respect and always use kindness Also Dhar Mann: *Barely pays his actors and actresses and just has useless meanings in his life lesson videos*
I'm goth and I can admit that, especially growing up, I would get some people side-eyeing me and what not. However, it is not nearly like this. I've never been bothered while I was out shopping or had people assume I was a criminal.
As a retail worker, we would 100% get fired for stopping random people thinking they stole stuff. Best case is they have something but you still could get fired for stopping them without a direct reason.
Dhar Mann in 2020: Gigachad Dhar Mann in 2023: Wojack who doesn’t pay his contractors and makes unrealistic stories to apparently “teach people a lesson”
Ex retail security here. EAS barriers don't work like that I'm not sure what laws they have in the US but in the UK we have an ASCONE rule where we can't stop anyone unless we're 100% sure and ticked all ASCONE boxes. 3:27 SUED and would lose his job... 9:18 Yep. Definitely fired and probably lose his licence.
My friends and I both dress in darker clothes, and we went into a fancy store in the mall here where I live. Well, we kept getting suspicious looks from the workers, and when we went to leave the ladies at the front said she had to check our pockets. Neither of us had bags on us, so of course we turn our jacket pockets inside out and my friends mascara fell out. And they tried to pin us on stealing from their store, even though they finally realized they didn’t sell that brand of mascara. It was dollar tree brand.
Fun fact, if anyone other than an ON DUTY police officer tries to falsely imprison you, you're well within your rights to physically defend yourself. That security guard would have gotten tazed. 😂
7:56 OK SO I’m goth, and yes, people bark at me, call me dumb shit so yea they think it’s a big deal when I’m in my average fit But we are not stereotyped to be criminals
when i go all out, wearing my victorian goth dresses and accessories i do get judged and looked at in a weird way but ive never had problems in makeup stores 😭
yup me too....maybe its because the security guard acted like a kidnapper....i kind of panicked for a sec so August saying that line made me realise he got that vibe too and i laughed so loud 😂
Yes, this is still a problem. My aunt was going to throw away all of my black clothing because she said it would turn me into a school shooter or something, and my mom was on board with it. If it wasn't for my father stepping in and stopping them, they would have gone through with it.
I remember when I was in middle school till now I dress emo/gothic and when I was in school people will tell my mom that I dress like I worship the devil and I’m a bad kid. Workers do treat you like that but not even all the time depends where you are at. I experience but idk if others have. People still pick on people who are goth but the ones who do are the fake gothic kids and other “normal” people. I got made fun of liking the Wednesday show even if it was popular cause people joined the band waged and “liked” it. But it’s not that common to get picked on for dressing gothic or emo anymore but people still pick on you. Sorry for the long message I just wanted to put this out
It is a widely-accepted truth that KFC and Wendy’s tastes 1000x better outside of the US. The Caribbean has the best KFC, particularly Jamaica, but I think The Bahamas has the best Wendy’s.
Actually the looking around thing is a lot more normal than you might think. Especially when you feel like you’re being watched. Seeing how the goth gal is constantly being watched solely based on her looks, it’s no wonder she’s always watching her surroundings. Because if you’re being watched, it makes you feel uncomfortable. When you’re uncomfortable with something you’ll want to avoid the situation. you do bring up some good points as always though. I personally don’t see goths or emos as suspicious by default but I can only speak for myself.
As a former security guard in the uk im not sure how American security guards work but over here even if the EAS gate was malfunctioning we'd still ask to see a receipt in the customers bag regardless of how there dressed its policy to ask everyone for proof of purchase and explain for the inconvenience the alarm has been malfunctioning infact depending on company or shop it will be more of a reason to stop and ask people we always thank them for their cooperation and apologize for any inconvenience specially if its a shop that is targeted by shoplifters
Thank you August the Duck, I was really unhappy because I only got 17 in Lichess puzzle streak but now I know your Dhar Mann video will make me laugh and feel better.
You should have done the other video with the other "goth" girl where the step mom kicks her out because she is a bad influence to her daughter until she saves her from a bully💀
I'm not as goth as I used to be but back when I used to dress like that and had that sort of vibe people would sometimes treat me weird. Like I've been told multiple times that I come across at first sight as intimidating which I've always found so strange cuz I'm like the least threatening person unless u giv me a reason to be. I've not been accused of stealing at shops but I've had a couple weird experiences where this lady who worked at a shop was convinced I was trying to buy a vape when I wanted razors, they were next to each other behind the counter and she was foreign and I pointed to it as I said it and she got mixed up and even when I tried to tell her I don't want to buy a vape, she was trying to ID me and every time I had to go into that shop she would give me mistrustful looks. And I was warned by several people not to go to London looking like a goth cuz apparently goths get mugged. But I was a teenager and not taking shit I went anyway and had no problems, I think the older generations think it's a bigger deal than it is.
These videos are so predictable that me and my friend try to see who can guess the ending of a dhar mann video more accurately and we're always close to getting it right
so as an actual emo girl i have been stopped a few times at walmart for shit like that just because i didnt "fit in" and every time they come out looking like an ass
shoulda done the one where the daughter hates her father because he’s in a wheelchair, but it turns out that it’s her fault because she accidentally shot him 💀
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Oh my god I didn’t watch it
The one where the grandma dies is even better 😂😂
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If I saw a security guard handcuff a teenage girl and demand that she come with him despite having no evidence of any wrongdoing, I would assume that he has certain fantasies that he wants to act out. You need *clear* evidence in order to detain someone. Without sufficient evidence, you have no right to send anyone anywhere or hand out any sort of punishment.
Those kind of people are just rude and ignorant.
even if they did have hard evidence, a mall security guard would get fired if they got physical with them at all, and it's likely that if they did catch a thief like in this dhar mann scenario, she'd be let off.
@@Dinohunter59826more like predatory and disgusting
Yeah i would think rapist.
Especially the "you may have it hidden somewhere" comment😟
As a dude who dresses in gothic fashion, you absolutely do get judged for dressing gothic (mostly by cranky older people and the obnoxious gossip-y crowd) but I've never had this happen to me when I've entered makeup stores or restaurants.
I basically lived in black clothing and accessories in high school. You do get judged. I really couldn't have cared less though. Hey, if dressing in all black kept people away from me, I was all for it.
I have a bestie who was more emo but it didn't get judged because of THAT lol. (Or I don't think so)
@@feraltaco4783 You have your locker searched every time there was a school shooting, something was stolen or drugs were found, too, eh? 🤭
I've been dressing alternative for five years now (since I was 15) and there have been times where I was gawked at by security and had people be suspicious of me in stores. Then again I live in a somewhat conservative town in Australia so maybe I'm biased lol.
The worst I ever get is the Halloween comment or cut your hair. I've never had someone stop me for the way Im dressed and assume Im stealing. Its usually just because I have a backpack. I sometimes have the opposite. People try to upsell me cuz they see I use makeup more than most men. Then they realize Im cheap XD
Calling a goth person Wednesday Adams is actually a pretty solid roast, since you're basically telling them they aren't goth in the slightest lol.
@@piixiepariixs7314 barley, it’s child-play that’s the joke
@@piixiepariixs7314 If you're talking about the original, yes she's a little goth. If you're talking about the Wednesday from the Netflix show (which is the one this video was most likely referencing), no she is not even remotely goth in the slightest. She literally doesn't wear a single goth outfit in the entire show.
@@potatoperson7853 yeah. She literally just wears black and that’s it. Maybe a little edgy here and there but definitely not goth. It’s not how Wednesday was like in the 1950s (idk when the Addams family was made)
@Potato Person oh, I see. I’m sorry then,
lol makes sense
I go into public dressed as a softcore 2000's emo, not too far gone from our "goth" and literally no one has ever treated me this way, let alone detained and handcuffed me. Most I've ever gotten was playful teasing from my friends, most of it from my actually goth friend, and none of that is even malicious. Leave goths alone, Dhar Mann. They don't even fit what you're going for.
Goth Girls are the best. I’ve gotten into them because of Sam from Danny Phantom.
Maybe he should have used race or something
I would treat you that way buddy.
Also, why is the mom doing nothing? If she thinks her child is being treated unfairly and can see how upset she is, why doesn't she go over and defend her daughter or try to clear the situation up in some way? She goes on later about how unfair it is her daughter experiences this but when she has a moment to intervene she doesn't. Thanks Mom, so nice your empathy for my situation expands only to complaining about it rather than helping me.
@@gfejcbhdkwjxnlskmFr like their kid would be getting beat up and they'll just watch in horror instead of doing anything
Another example of someone didn't bother standing up to someone
"Officer, I drop kicked that child in self defense."
@@disbandyourparty And now it is under arrest for defending a friend
And that’s why kids put their parents in retirement homes and cut off communication, when the kids grow up
Dhar Mann’s lessons are more useless than the advice on the school milk cartons 💀
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Got milk?
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Nah but they were so delicious
@@cutmehtwice damn mine were shit 💀
Bro dhar man went from “not be racist” to “all white people are racist”, I swear to god, all of the underpaid white actors have played a racist character at least once
Add in the irony of having the black guy be the one to judge the white girl dressed in black. I think dhar man just wants an excuse to be racist and the videos are his medium
Not to mention he is black himself
Not trying to be racist
@@rtgedits1865he is?
I actually think its just because the whole “Karen” thing is still kind of popular
@@victorlolxd7347 No. He's Indian. His parents immigrated from India to the United States.
What confuses me so much about this video is that… this woman is watching security harassing her daughter in the store, instead of walking up to them to stand up for her… she’s just talking to her friend on the side?
8:27 Just the thought of the security guard just walking down to this Girl to hand cuff her is the most hilarious thing that Dhar Mann has ever created. Just him waltzing down the road. "I'm a cop now. I have literally no reason to arrest you. I didn't even know I could arrest you. But I was following you for no reason and now I have the right to arrest you." Honestly comedic gold right there
I worked in retail and ain't NO way would a security guard hears a obvious shoplifting beep in anyone's purse be and be like "Oh yeah you're free to go'
@@CharlesH-t9rit’s happened before a few times… no lie.
I think by far the funniest thing is that the "goth" is absolutely nowhere near what actual goth people look like💀
I dated a goth girl and she'd be at Spencers or buy a special makeup effects kit for her make-up
She wouldn't go shop at a "lame preppy bitch" store in her words
To be fair, goth is a music based sub genre. However, I agree that Dhar Mann probably knows nothing about real goths
Like maybe a starter. But she domt even got the foundation and all
Plenty of goths look like that, not all of them wear the white foundation you see on online goth gurus. Plus it’s a music based subculture, it isn’t even about the appearance.
@@malevolentsnow9867 ik just what I see most the time
Listen, when I was in high school, I looked like the quiet loner who might go ballistic at any moment. However, no one treated me as if I was actually dangerous. In fact, my friends were the ones who made jokes about not coming to school the next day.
LMAO. My brother was the same way. 😂
Bro, it's same with me right now. I fucking love it, everyone asks me where my AK is.
Bud that's called bullying lmao
@@TheDsRequiem Not to me
@@TheDsRequiem Don't worry, it was all good natured. Besides, lightly insulting each other was how we bonded. Hehe.
I watched this video and predicted the entirety of the plot, right when the girl walked out of the store without getting checked by the security guard
It’s getting pretty predictable lol
I'll be honest, I thought it was going to be the sister as the culprit. That might have been a better ending, tbh
have we talked before-
@@CantonDem13 TRUE. WHAT IF SHE WAS THE CRIMINAL THIS WHOLE TIME-
I could have never predicted that some sort of shop security guard for some reason has handcuffs and the ability to arrest people like does Dharr man even know what security does???
I work in retail. And you were spot on when talking about the scanning the room thing. We are taught that if someone keeps scanning the room or looking around like they’re watching for something you then have to be suspicious. It’s not a matter if they’re goth or not or black or white. Suspicious activity is suspicious activity
I learned as someone working retail that we shouldn’t care because they don’t want to get sued. Yet we had to follow a guy who is stealing around the store.
as someone who has dressed gothic, in a pretty rural an christian place.. I get many compliments on my black clothing, exaggerated makeup, an such. People don’t really see it as taboo anymore.
Yeah exactly....
You mean Catholic, then.
Not Christian.
Dhar Mann: WE TREAT OUR ACTORS WELL!
Also Dhar Dhar: *barely pays his actors*
Never thought I’d get 1.6K likes, thank you all
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And also also Dhar Mann: If you speak up I fire you.
@@entername1107 Dhar Mann: eh, don’t go for an emergency, or you’ll be fired
Expectation: We're not just telling stories. We're changing lives.
Reality: I'm not just telling lies. I'm paying my actors poorly.
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AugustTheDuck talking about eating chicken is so dark yet so funny.
They aren’t the same species
Ducks and chick aren’t even the same family
It’s like comparing humans and cows, they’re the same phenotype but they’re completely different animals
@@godricktheminecrafted3113 and as we know, cows eat people all the time. (Also, I am pretty sure you are not using phenotype correctly.)
@@godricktheminecrafted3113 *class
You have no idea what phenotype means. Humans and Cows share the same class (mammals)
the kfc was probably his distant cousin or something
Remember, We are just telling stories. We're boring lives
Perfect
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@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom fr lmao
Tbh This story probably would have been much better if she was mentally different than others
Here they were way too over the top about this "goth girl" When she's literally just wearing black clothe
And when you share my videos your helping to bore lives too
I live in LA and have identified as goth since the mid 90’s. I used to get all kinds of harassed back then. I had to throw away an expensive collar in ‘97 at an airport before they’d let me on the plane. I’ve been followed by security, kicked out of stores, searched unnecessarily… I was even kicked out of a gastroenterologist’s office after berating me about my inappropriate attire. I’ve been chastised, criticized, scrutinized, ostracized, scandalized, satirized all over the way I chose to dress and, honestly, it sucked. But that was a long time ago. The most I get these days is just the occasional stare. I don’t mind that at all.
Womp womp
I am sorry to hear that
@Ich-Existiere-Nicht don’t be. It was a very long time ago and I honestly love that the world has changed in such a way that this doesn’t happen anymore. I’m free to be as expressive as I like; as are my children.
@@ArtByJUSTSAM Well, it's good to know that all of the stuff presented in this Dhar Man video is completely false in the modern day.
@@ElijahBrown-l3nimagine saying womp womp when someone is explaining their life lol you just want people to get mad so petty 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I dont know if I'm too polite, but her refusing to show him the bag straight away is a good reason to be suspicious. I know her been letting everyone else go, but she'd been lurking over the make-up aisle for the first few minutes. Its pretty reasonable to be cautious of that.
as a black goth/wiccan myself, I get the feeling that a black man would be the last person to jump the gun like this. Feels weird.
As another black person myself, this Dhar Mann video has me side eyeing everything. It just lowkey bothers me.
I honestly think it was supposed to be about racism but had last minute rewrites it just gives that suspicious vibe
@@iamdangerous5189 I dated three goth girls and I'm a Black man , I was also a skater boy in my teenager days ,I always had Pantera playing in my earphones (that's how I met my first gothic gf )
thats what i was thinking. how is a black man that most likely knows how shitty it feels to be called suspicious and knows what it feels like to be stared down and judged gonna pass that onto someone with a different style
lmao! im a black goth chic too! and i found this video to be retarded
As a goth person people do give me weird looks in public. I've had people give me extremely nasty looks and I've even heard people talking about me. And I'm genuinely goth. Clothes and all.
Yeah it's real. It's just... not like this weird panto lol ❤. Some people really do have a weird satanic panic thing lingering around and clutch pearls near you while you're just buying some milk.
thts sad but blck makeup and trying to look emo is judgementaal as hellllllllllllllllll its society we caant change it but hopeefully soon
Oh really
Same. Have you ever had religious people approach you and insist on “Praying over/for you”. Like they act like they’re doing a mini exorcism. Its weird. I’ve had it happen twice
@@Justkaibruv Emos talking about how society is bad!? Nooooooo!
As a goth myself, at least around where I live, people don't really care too much about it. Goth is actually a pretty mainstream style over here. So is alternative and preppy. The wonders of living in the Midwest.
Now It’s time to make random Goth Characters. Gwen Sam Yumi Vanessa and Spongebob.
@@JGProductions6581 ...no?
As a fellow Midwesterner, I can attest that this is true. When there isn't much to do in your little city, one tends to express themselves extremely, if only for the entertainment value. I also find that these cliques are extremely loyal to one another, more so than in urban areas, and just generally have a better moral compass overall.
@@MadamFoogie exactly!
Isn’t goth a form/genre of alternative?
She's not even a goth. Dhaar mans just a sheltered rich kid who has no idea what the average person is like
I’ve been screamed “emo” at and barked at for wearing alternative clothing and makeup multiple times, (so has my friends) I would say that it depends on where and what country. But from my experience, you DEFINITELY get judged.
As a citizen of Trinidad and Tobago, I am in need to inform you that KFC is basically a religion for us. We are glad you are joining this cul- i mean culture, thank you.
As someone with Jamaican ancestry I have to say that KFC is religion there too. Welcome to our CULTure
Same here 🇹🇹
Same 🇹🇹
Panda You should have just said “CULTure”.
We’re not just changing stories, we’re harming lives
As a former security officer in the contract and corporate sectors, I can say that you are correct. A security officer is an agent of their employer, with the same power to arrest as a private citizen (citizen's arrest). The also can be sued for damages if they are wrong (unlawful detention, kidnapping, etc.).
Which is why i have learned Loss Protection doesn’t want to stop anyone at anytime.
Goth and metalhead here (but I'm from Germany, so I don't know how it'd be in America) ✌🏻 First of all, yes, you can consider her looks goth, because goth isn't just a clothing style, but a lifestyle. Our clothing and accessoires are wonderful to represent our taste and way of living, but it's also important to know that Goth is a subculture based on music. We don’t know whether this character lives like a Goth or just dresses like it, but either way I think the reactions in the video are a bit over the top. From what I've experienced there indeed are people who keep their distance and get suspicious, but there has never been an issue with shop employees or security anywhere. Depending on where you are people have become fairly open-minded and even compliment for certain items of clothing (especially when self-made) or makeup. Of course, there are also some dunderheads who ridicule us, but honestly, you don’t have to be a Goth to be made fun of
CORRECTION: Dhar Mann has always been unwatchable.
Theory: Dhar Mann and all of his ripoffs are in a contest to see who can make the worst life lesson in history
Hey august I'm genuinely happy to watch your videos bc my mom's passed recently and I'm a wreck thank you so much for the most entertaining moments I've had
Im so sorry for your loss 💕
@@sillybluealienI appreciate it but I don't want to bring anything down I just want to show support to one of the best commentary channels on this platform
I’m glad his content is helping. My cat is dying soon so I’m pretty emotional rn too :(
Glad there is something to cheer you ( and all of us too ) up
I'm sorry
It's not the makeup winnie, it's your behavior that makes you suspicious lol
I'd probably get stopped too if I was darting my eyes like that. I'd at least get questioned
in germany this is actualy a huge problem for alternative people, you cant even go out looking slightly alt without getting insulted, school is even worse in that aspect. at least thats my experiance
Found it ironic that Winnie was being discriminated by a member of a discriminated community, let alone that he discriminated her the same way members of his community have been and I'm guessing still are.
At least the mother is supportive of her daughter, that's good
Only to her Goth daughter, though, as it would seem. In the same breath she uses to defend Winnie (Goth daughter), she complains about how she wishes Becca (her non-Goth daughter) would be more like her sister and complains about how people naturally assume Becca's a good person (as if she thinks that if Winnie has to be endlessly harassed and judged, Becca should be too)
3:17
If I hear the term "don't judge a book by it's cover" I'm gonna lose it
Oh boy August starts us off with a KFC rant this is gonna be a good one
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as a goth kid all i can completely deny every scenario in this dhar mann video 💀the worst thing ive experienced would be getting barked at and getting called emo at school-
What friend says that they think your kid is a bad kid just because of outer appearances? 💀
Goths are not painted as criminals but wow the amount of attention my sister gets for dressing like that, both positive and negative, is not an afterthought
I love how she's not even goth
She was giving clean goth 😭
You know it's going to be a fun night when August posts a Dhar Mann video.
and as a self-proclaimed goth/emo/scene human being, i can tell you that no one with a brain will think a goth is stealing unless they look suspicious like this winnie girl.
💀
Omg i wanna be goth is it hard to do
@@funkygal5318 not really
@@funkygal5318 not hard to dress, hard to make friends in school (mainly middle school kids won’t wanna be your friend, rarely high school I think). I don’t wanna be emo or anything like that, but people like what they like
(tf I write a whole paragraph for 💀)
@@funkygal5318 Go for it. 😎👍💯
Actually here in the UK, goths get treated terribly. Back when I was goth, I was followed closely around stores, followed by people who would call me names and try to hurt me physically. I was humiliated in shops and fast food places, etc etc. It causes a lot of gothic teens to SH or experience suicidal thoughts. It made me an angry person who started to intentionally lash out at people. It caused me to have a mental breakdown and do something terrible to my own face..but I got better. I've had a much softer look since, such as pastel clothes and pastel pink hair. The pink hair still makes people stare at me like I'm a freak. The UK is horrible for judgemental people and horrible, badly brought up kids who can cut you to the quick with their words.
Yeah, the UK is something else, strangely enough. Then again, I think every alternative should know the story of Sophie Lancaster..
@@femkefeenstra7754gosh I just read her story I feel so terrible for her she did not deserve to die just because of the way she looked
@@lDSMILEMIZUKI Yes, it's very sad and really horrible. The poor girl didn't even do anything wrong. The worst that could happen to a couple did happen: one survived and the other one did not.....
I know you might not feel comfortable talking about it, but now you got me curious, what did you do to your face?
@chaosqueenk1703 I.. um.. ..well I'll..just say I have a scar on my forehead.
Did nobody else notice that the security guard said someone stole makeup but the goth girl said “I didn’t steal any lipstick” when the guy never said it was lipstick, that just makes her look guilty.
Worst part of the video was when the goth girl’s sister acted like she was traumatized by the situation so she could get free shit.
Can we discuss how ironic it is that a black security guard is treating a minority like a criminal? Like no freaking way that just flew over everyone’s head.
Black people can discriminate too
Black people are some of the most classist folks i have ever dealt with. I wish I was kidding. So I believe it.
girl mad that those 2 security guards are doing their job💀
even the police wouldn't handcuff someone for stealing a lipstick, they'd just a warning and a slap on the wrist
Not gonna lie, I was expecting the sister to be the thief, but sometimes I wish Dhar Mann wouldn’t make it bloody obvious half the time
So as a former goth teen I can say I was stared at often and told I was going to hell but that was the worst I delt with. Most people stare and move on 🤷🏼♀️
+GamerGoofballGirl it's not a style it's a music subculture
My sister is goth. Even though I usually wear bright colors, I still think her outfits are really pretty. And it makes it even more fun to find the perfect presents for her.
“Dhar Mann is Becoming Unwatchable”
Wait, he was before?
When I was in highschool, either my freshman of sophomore year. I was walking from lunch to the gym, a middle school girl started waving at me calling me emo girl (in a friendly way). I was so confused as to why and waved back tp be polite and went on my way trying to figure out why she thought I was emo. Figured it was my clothes which consisted of a black tshirt (don't remember what was on it) black jeans, a pair of combat boots, and a black backpack with buttons pinned to it. I wasn't wearing makeup and I didn't have an "emo haircut". Again one of my most confused moments .
You said becoming unwatchable. From what I've seen on here, it is unwatchable! I'm glad you sat through them to decide what is the worst. I couldn't imagine watching more than the clips you show. Thank you for your sacrifice.
7:44 as a person who would consider themselves goth, it is 100% a big deal to other people but what the girl in the video was wearing wouldnt really be considered goth, it would hardly be considered alterntive. The video mightve been kinda decent if it just used actually goth clothing/make up
I swear if I encountered that security guard in a store, I would roast him back after calling me Wednesday Addams or smth-
I'd be careful...
He'd probably pull up the race card to protect himself.
These videos are becoming more unwatchable.
@@adu1991 fr
August-“Dhar Man is becoming unwatchable”
Always has been brother
Yeah.
Yeah, I can’t sit through any of those videos
They’re CRINGE galore
Especially the videos with Mikey & Jay, because they're becoming way too repetitive, & their acting has gotten worse
Dhar Mann: I treat these people with respect and always use kindness
Also Dhar Mann: *Barely pays his actors and actresses and just has useless meanings in his life lesson videos*
these twists are so insane and so subtle, i can barely tell when they happen😭
I'm goth and I can admit that, especially growing up, I would get some people side-eyeing me and what not. However, it is not nearly like this. I've never been bothered while I was out shopping or had people assume I was a criminal.
Dhar mann clearly doesn't understand subcultures that well mainly because Winnie isn't even goth she just dresses alternative.
Can we appreciate August putting himself through hours on hours of dhar man for our entertainment
He's a real one
I grit my teeth every time one of the characters say, "so, you see. . ."
As a retail worker, we would 100% get fired for stopping random people thinking they stole stuff. Best case is they have something but you still could get fired for stopping them without a direct reason.
3:38 idk if you noticed august but there’s also eggo waffles on the counter too 😂
Dhar Mann in 2020: Gigachad
Dhar Mann in 2023: Wojack who doesn’t pay his contractors and makes unrealistic stories to apparently “teach people a lesson”
As a metalhead for 25 years I can confirm that 100% people judge based on looks.
Ex retail security here. EAS barriers don't work like that I'm not sure what laws they have in the US but in the UK we have an ASCONE rule where we can't stop anyone unless we're 100% sure and ticked all ASCONE boxes. 3:27 SUED and would lose his job... 9:18 Yep. Definitely fired and probably lose his licence.
My friends and I both dress in darker clothes, and we went into a fancy store in the mall here where I live. Well, we kept getting suspicious looks from the workers, and when we went to leave the ladies at the front said she had to check our pockets. Neither of us had bags on us, so of course we turn our jacket pockets inside out and my friends mascara fell out. And they tried to pin us on stealing from their store, even though they finally realized they didn’t sell that brand of mascara. It was dollar tree brand.
Fun fact, if anyone other than an ON DUTY police officer tries to falsely imprison you, you're well within your rights to physically defend yourself. That security guard would have gotten tazed. 😂
Source?
8:02 if it's my parents then absolutely yes! 😂😂😂
0:30 Bro ate his cousins 😭😭
Relatable
7:56 OK SO
I’m goth, and yes, people bark at me, call me dumb shit so yea they think it’s a big deal when I’m in my average fit
But we are not stereotyped to be criminals
Yeah, there is more to goth fashion than dressing in all black and wearing black makeup. Dar Mann needs a better wardrobe department.
Looks more EMO than goth
when i go all out, wearing my victorian goth dresses and accessories i do get judged and looked at in a weird way but ive never had problems in makeup stores 😭
not gonna lie, that part about sending the girl to the dungeon got me more than it should have. I needed that laugh. Thanks Mr. Duck.
yup me too....maybe its because the security guard acted like a kidnapper....i kind of panicked for a sec so August saying that line made me realise he got that vibe too and i laughed so loud 😂
Yes, this is still a problem. My aunt was going to throw away all of my black clothing because she said it would turn me into a school shooter or something, and my mom was on board with it. If it wasn't for my father stepping in and stopping them, they would have gone through with it.
Jesus Christ, are you being fr!? I hope you're not dealing with them anymore!
Who tf give a security guard to handcuff a civilian ?
Thank goodness that mall makeup store has an entire private military team to pull security, cannot let those lipsticks go
I remember when I was in middle school till now I dress emo/gothic and when I was in school people will tell my mom that I dress like I worship the devil and I’m a bad kid. Workers do treat you like that but not even all the time depends where you are at. I experience but idk if others have. People still pick on people who are goth but the ones who do are the fake gothic kids and other “normal” people. I got made fun of liking the Wednesday show even if it was popular cause people joined the band waged and “liked” it. But it’s not that common to get picked on for dressing gothic or emo anymore but people still pick on you. Sorry for the long message I just wanted to put this out
It is a widely-accepted truth that KFC and Wendy’s tastes 1000x better outside of the US. The Caribbean has the best KFC, particularly Jamaica, but I think The Bahamas has the best Wendy’s.
Interesting.
Actually the looking around thing is a lot more normal than you might think. Especially when you feel like you’re being watched. Seeing how the goth gal is constantly being watched solely based on her looks, it’s no wonder she’s always watching her surroundings. Because if you’re being watched, it makes you feel uncomfortable. When you’re uncomfortable with something you’ll want to avoid the situation. you do bring up some good points as always though. I personally don’t see goths or emos as suspicious by default but I can only speak for myself.
Plot twist.
Mom is running a shopper gang.
Winnie is the distraction
As a former security guard in the uk im not sure how American security guards work but over here even if the EAS gate was malfunctioning we'd still ask to see a receipt in the customers bag regardless of how there dressed its policy to ask everyone for proof of purchase and explain for the inconvenience the alarm has been malfunctioning infact depending on company or shop it will be more of a reason to stop and ask people we always thank them for their cooperation and apologize for any inconvenience specially if its a shop that is targeted by shoplifters
dhar dhar really is a special man
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@@ProwlFn1 no but he’s telling the truth dhar dhar is really special
@@Ch3zzIts I know
@@ProwlFn1 lmap
I would call him the Ralph Wiggum of TH-cam, but I don't want to insult my boy Ralph that way.
You know tonight’s gonna be good when August uploads, specially a dhar Mann vid
Thank you August the Duck, I was really unhappy because I only got 17 in Lichess puzzle streak but now I know your Dhar Mann video will make me laugh and feel better.
Keanu Reeves was a highschool drop out and he doesn't look like that. He also became a great actor loved by many.
You should have done the other video with the other "goth" girl where the step mom kicks her out because she is a bad influence to her daughter until she saves her from a bully💀
Just because things have changed at DM Studios doesn't mean that August no longer has plenty of content to pick apart! Nice work!
I'm not as goth as I used to be but back when I used to dress like that and had that sort of vibe people would sometimes treat me weird. Like I've been told multiple times that I come across at first sight as intimidating which I've always found so strange cuz I'm like the least threatening person unless u giv me a reason to be. I've not been accused of stealing at shops but I've had a couple weird experiences where this lady who worked at a shop was convinced I was trying to buy a vape when I wanted razors, they were next to each other behind the counter and she was foreign and I pointed to it as I said it and she got mixed up and even when I tried to tell her I don't want to buy a vape, she was trying to ID me and every time I had to go into that shop she would give me mistrustful looks. And I was warned by several people not to go to London looking like a goth cuz apparently goths get mugged. But I was a teenager and not taking shit I went anyway and had no problems, I think the older generations think it's a bigger deal than it is.
These videos are so predictable that me and my friend try to see who can guess the ending of a dhar mann video more accurately and we're always close to getting it right
him: dhar mann becomes unwatchable my brain: UNTOUCHABLE UNTOUCHABLE!!!!!!!!!!!
0:13 i never turned my head to my phone so fast
so as an actual emo girl i have been stopped a few times at walmart for shit like that just because i didnt "fit in" and every time they come out looking like an ass
I love Dhar Mann. His videos are so well written, and I’m definitely not being sarcastic.
I know, each and every one of his videos are a masterpiece. The character development is outstanding.
And he is really great to his workers and pays them fairly
Our Chicken in Germany just are "free" animals, not mass slaves
Security: stop Stalling give me the bag Wednesday Adams me:omg tysm
As an American born in Kentucky
*I agree with you*