Generally decent advice but in typical female fashion we hear lots and lots of words when just a few would be abundantly clear: 1. I've been busy = I'm too busy FOR YOU 2. I'm fine = I'm unhappy WITH YOU 3. I'm just friends with my ex = She's banging the ex because she's NOT INTO YOU 4. I'm not like other girls = I'm lying to DECEIVE YOU 5. I'm not looking for a relationship = I'm not looking for a relationship WITH YOU 6. I think you're nice = YOU WILL NEVER see me naked, YOU WILL NEVER bang me Guys, stop trying to decipher her words and texts, pay attention to her actions. If she digs you, she'll make it easy on you.
@@JacobArdeleanNo one is forcing you on anything. Woman does what she wants and you can do what you want (as long as it’s something moral and legal). It’s that simple.
@@meme-zv7kwi guess it’s because they never had a brain to think with. That’s why they do these delussionall shitt crap with guys in the end (i.e all lies of women),i mean da f do they have to offer afterall when they cannot even cook,clean,Aren’t ready to be housewife,caring of kids,etc they are dead animals left in jungle where no one is so just go on where u are going. F women they are just using us so they get power, that’s what they mean by equality to.
I've had at least 2 women in the past month tell me " I'm not looking for a relationship right now" I said ok, and haven't spoken to them since & won't. I don't want any woman that doesn't want me. period.
My ex who was a single mum said she was happy with it just being her daughter and herself. She ended up running back to the baby daddy then got pregnant, had an abortion and with another guy in a relationship six weeks after the abortion. Now she is pregnant with the other guy. Good luck to him, she would run back to the original baby daddy in a heartbeat. I dodged a bullet.....
Women open up and tell their girlfriend everything from the heart but feel they have to manipulate and play games with men. The truth about a women is always in her girlfriends
That's because she respects her girlfriend and relates to her. With her girlfriend, she not trying to get anything from her expect her friendship. With men, they know they can get the world if he's weak. That's why they play games, to see if you're a loser who will roll out the red carpet for her. When you keep it real, they can't play games. Because when you're focused on yourself and what YOU want from HER, she can't play around. She either has to do what you want or leave lol manipulative women hate when you put them in a position to either do what you say or leave. But if the woman is interested, that's the ultimate turn on. They want a take charge man
You're not supposed to listen anything they say except "no" or "im pregnant." Everything else is 100% bs that you don't need to care about. Just tell her what you want from her, and see if she does it. Period. Give her instructions and directions, dont go back and forth on that emotional bullshlt. When you go to mcdonalds do you ask the cashier about their feelings? No, you just order the food. That's how you gotta treat women
The most honest, clear, and real-life advice I have seen in recent years in electronic media (TH-cam). My ex-wife is a therapist, and in my experience everything you said is right. Thanks for clarifying things for the younger guys. JJ.
Good video, excellent reasons to stay single. I get to keep my friends, my money, my sanity and all my stuff. Women just aren't worth the hassle anymore, to many head and word games.
This woman only sheds light on multiple reasons why to never take women seriously, never marry them, and just let them dig their own graves while men leave them all in the dust.
In an age when most women think they are strong, independent and need no man, it is strange that the same women are not able to talk. You would think... if you want to be a man, first you need to talk like one.
I recently tried Hinge and had some success with 70 matches in the past month, and already I've experienced all these things; especially the first one the most. Women make no sense, they'll ask for your Snap or give their number yet they'll take like 12 hours to respond saying some BS like "sorry I was busy". Yeah busy talking to/hanging out with other dudes 😂
@livingtotality Hinge is legit man, the others are trash. 70 matches sounds like alot but out of those I only got 10 dates with 6 of them being a hookup, none of those girls I was able to hangout with again. Most of them are just looking for a fun time and they move onto the next better thing unfortunately. If you've got good quality photos and are above average in looks, I recommend buying 1 month of premium and giving it a shot.
Women are very pragmatic when it comes to relationships... its the men that tend to actually be more romantic in that regard A woman will give her number simply to have your contact in case she needs it... if everything else fails she will just go down the list of guys who's numbersshe kept till she gets something
@@knightsolaire8192 They just have so many options that they'll look for any sort of reason to disqualify you until a hot guy messages them. I've noticed this quite a bit, they'll show high interest at first but then they it fades. It really is a strike while the iron is hot, the longer you wait to get them out the more likely she'll forget you. It's unfortunate but men only seem more romantic due to having less options and so they'll invest more, whereas women never have a shortage. There was 1 week on Hinge I was getting 6 matches per day and talking to 20 women at once, it was honestly overwhelming.
@livingtotality I'm going to go out on a limb and say that Lee is quiet good looking and/or has good pics and a good profile. I doubt most men will get that many matches.
So I paid attention to every word and action this girl I was dating did. I moved at her pace. I would wait for her to move the needle forward and then I would move too. Everything was reciprocated, I never felt needy or insecure. All green flags, zero red flags. Turns out she lied about 1-2 major things that were significant enough where we cant even be friends anymore. I’m so confused by what happened since what I experienced would make EVERY video I’ve watched on this topic wrong. People say “I saw the red flags and I ignored them”. There were zero signs in my case, every sign was a green flag. After a couple more weeks of healing I’m going to confront her to get the entire story straight but right now I almost feel gaslit that what we had wasn’t real. I don’t know why she’s saying otherwise. Any thoughts? How can a woman check every single box of green flags in every video I’ve watched, and it still end up being a lie? She might be a psychopath…but even then, zero signs of that. And you’ll have to take my word on this, I’m a very good judge of character.
@@chrisherber1635I’ve had this happen to me several times. Women are master manipulators and gaslighters. Be happy that you’re now more experienced and wiser my friend. Don’t waste your time with her. Just let her go.
@@facelessandnameless thanks for that. I’m still having a hard time letting go but it’s been getting better. The whole situation was just truly shocking to me. It’s like I can’t believe she was such a selfish person, someone I trusted. Life…. 😂
You can absolutely just be friends with an ex. While many relationships end on a bad note, some do not. Both parties just came to the conclusion that it was not what they wanted long-term. I've experienced both good and bad, and seen people remain friends in numerous situations. Mature adults can often get past a breakup and convert a relationship into a friendship, especially if both are in the same social/geographical circles.
6 Things Women Say & What It Actually Means 1. When she texts you Hey sorry! I missed your text, I've been busy! 2. I'm fine 3. I'm just friends with my ex! 4. I'm not like other girls 5. I'm not looking for a relationship! 6. He is Nice
For years I thought women were mature adults who would try to communicate clearly so as to reduce the risk of misunderstandings in relationships. WRONG!
Just say she wants to drag you along for easy validation whenever she wants. It’s not that she’s “not interested” there is a use value to you for her, as being an easy validation mechanism
Say what you mean and mean what you say. If they can't be honest with basic things how can you trust them with more important things. If some one is playing these games with you either call them out on their BS or cut them out of your life.
I love this, one of the best of your videos yet! Thank you for taking the time to explain all of these, as sad as some of them are for well-intentioned men who just want to find the woman meant for them. And honestywould be nice too.
I asked a girl back in February if she would want to hang out after having lunch together. And she replied back saying she literally has something going on every weekend for the next couple of months.... here we are almost at the of August and nothing. That told me a lot and didn't put much faith in that.
The I'm fine thing. What you have to do is meet them half way, say something like politely. 'Hey I don't know why you are mad but I'm here if you want to talk when you are ready.' Shows you care, shows you are willing to listen and shows you are not a mind reader! Puts the ball into her court.
Good video. Keep in mind, women usually say "no" at first. My experience as a man, is I show interest in a woman. She lets it be known she is not interested (maybe she uses the expressions in this video). So, I lose interest in her. Then some time goes by, and then she shows interest in me. But I already moved on. Women always seem to come on after they reject me. It's like women have a delayed reaction. So she was interested in another guy when I first met her, then that guy wasn't interested in her, now I'm not interested, on and on it goes.
woman NEVER leave or START a relationship UNLESS they all ready have the next guy sniffing around. They like guys hanging around because that allows them to play the above games. Woman bitch at men and call them players but they are the ultimate players. I am never any woman's "Next good time, friend, confidant or door mat. "
The "i am fine" part is a great way to see if this leads to anywhere, sort of a free sample of what´s to come. If she gets passive aggressive cause you don´t ask her about it but take her word for it then just ditch the freak. She is toxic as hell and for recreational use only. For anything serious you need honesty and straight forward communication, if one doesn´t have that or rather plays mind games with a "no means yes if i want it to" crap then yeah disqualified from progressing any further.
Yeah he's always going to be the one on the higher level she doesn't have to. She can be passive aggressive if she wants right. She can be irresponsible in childish, but that's okay. It's only he's got to be responsible and an adult
If I would be a woman, I would have a lot of expectation from a guy. I would reject some types of guys, like needy guys, emotionally unstable, unsociable, fake or selfish, immediately.
The bottom line is that most women are not mature enough to deal honestly with a man. Many have a child like mentality. They are just slightly taller todlers.
Great video for tips because the main one I like is that u said u can't be upfront with your situation and lie to y that not the one for u . Things I know I am attractive but I seem to get woman that are playing me or ghost me or just be lie about simple things but I'm just chill dude and want a woman who can love and appreciate it what I do for her
__1__ Too busy to text: Maybe there is bad cellular reception at Chad's pad? __2__ "I'm Fine": The secret is to not ask, or, leverage item 1 and text her the question. __3__ Friends with ex: It's the "with benefits" part that gets tricky. __4__ "I'm Not like other girls": Well, since most of the other girls give me restraining orders, that's good! __5__ "I'm not looking for a relationship right now": Gotta stop leading with, "Are you looking for a relationship?" __6__ "He's nice": Is that better or worse than, "You're such a jerk"? ... on a more serious note, be the man. Take control of the frame. Don't let her play these games. You have better things to do than to waste time on juvenile mind games.
I'd be interested to hear what you think about women who in relationships who maintain friendships with a number of men. It's been my experience/observation that men hanging around women who are in relationships are actually courtiers waiting for an opening, but have been told (by women) those men are "just friends" and nothing like that is going on. I guess the question is do women actually recognize what they guys are up to and denying it, or are they really naive about it?
I disagree with the first one to an extent, my current gf told me on our first date that she was a very off the grid type of person who doesn’t have any social media She also works a lot at a pretty demanding job and not everyone likes to text 1000 times a day We text about 2-4 times a day depending on the day and everything is fine between us
Oh dang I nearly got up to run when she said "I'm fine". That's always bad. You never want to hear a woman say "I'm fine". Almost as bad as "We need to talk". Now that is a scary phrase.
I'm in a situation right now where the girl i like it demonstrate interest in the things i talk and our conversation it flows well, she even invite me to go out with her sometimes to lunch in the office and invite me to events, but everytime i take the initiative to ask her out, she ghost me or give excuses to not accept or say that it would be cool if MORE people go, am I missing something or she is just using me to validation? Why the girls do this? Can't be self esteem because almost all the single guys i know in my company try to hit on her
High value women are NOT on their phone 24/7, not even close to. Only shallow and irrelevant women would spend more than ONE hour/week on her social medias, and she will NOT even have such superficial social medias like an Instagram or TikTok.. Of course adult women can easily be friends with their ex's if they have kids together, it will actually be a huge turn-off if she is unable to have an responsible relation with her kids father.
It’s really not that complicated. If you attract a girl’s attention, she will make every excuse to get close to you. If she is not attracted to you she will make every excuse to not spend any time with you. A lot of men interprets this as playing hard to get but she really is trying to get away from you. There are few who are emotionally damaged and insecure who will constantly play games. That’s a red flag. Walk away. Be nice to women but don’t put them on a pedestal just because they are beautiful. They are just another girl with a pretty face and that pretty face won’t be that seductive when she starts to play manipulative games and constant nagging about everything. Emotional tranquility is more important even if you have to be alone.
Most women can't be trusted full of games and BS. Sometimes best to walk away don't waste your time. A girl really into you will put you as a priority.
So she can't be honest so we got to be honest for her but yet she wants honesty. But she doesn't want to be honest and that's the problem with today's women if they want men to be honest, but they don't want to be honest themselves
My now wife got drunk with an ex and then got a hotel with him. She said nothing happened bc she knows her boundaries. She says she left early in the morning. Mind you I found out before we married… idk what to do
You should consider re-reading what you wrote here. 100% they hooked up. She's trash. If you haven't discovered that yet, you will soon enough. Go Bears!!!
Let me ask you a question. If Amanda just wanted to date a woman and she keeps calling him. Is it fair for him to just keep making her wait or is it more respectful to let him tell him to be honest with her and tell her what she wants but yet we don't ask women to be doing the same thing
The title of this video is exactly why I don’t even try anymore. Just say what you actually mean! The mind games are childish and ridiculous. I have no time or energy for that bullshit. Be a real woman and you may actually find a real man!
_" Sorry i fell asleep"_ Hole leeeee $ht is this said a massive f* ton 🙄 i dont even respond and leave them on read on the app. If its a txt, i dont even open it and just disappear
0:19 had a girl text me 12 days later after getting flaked on. NEVER give women a second chance it never works. Have her learn her lesson & give her the cold shoulder.
I'm responding some ladies only 20-25 days later just because I'm really busy. So i want to correct your first sentence dear lady, there are really very busy people as I am.
"... in the middle of finals or at a place of work where they're not physically allowed to have a phone" -- you kinda lost me there. Not because you're wrong, but because this seems to describe fairly young women who have barely gotten into the workforce. Because there are a number of jobs out there where, even when you're allowed to have a phone with you, it does get pretty busy over the course of the day that you might not be able to respond to a text till after you're already gone home at night.
glad you admit nisa are passive agg and ulterior motives in number 2. (indirect speakers) glad you said she should be mature to say wha'ts wrong this is why you date girIs with 0 body count. oh saying she is not liek other girIs means she is jealous of them, nice, see if it's true by her acts, is she low maintenance etc. I'm not looking for a relationship is obvious, - it means not you.
'ive been busy', 'maybe another time', 'got a stack of things to do'...........womanese for NO. If she likes you, it'll be obvious. They know when to make it easy for you. If it's not obvious, they don't like you. If all yhe effort is on your part, they don't like you. STOP chasing. Don't give them the satisfaction.
I like your channel. You’re usually more direct. Today you weren’t. You even said guys are direct. If you’re not gonna say it with your chest ..why say it. You were on your maybe kinda sometimes not always but ..game today. It was no bueno.
well she was ignoring her phone while she was with me a few days back and yesterday she was "last seen" 2 hours ago on whatsapp but when I wrote she immediately responded. That's good right?
Generally decent advice but in typical female fashion we hear lots and lots of words when just a few would be abundantly clear:
1. I've been busy = I'm too busy FOR YOU
2. I'm fine = I'm unhappy WITH YOU
3. I'm just friends with my ex = She's banging the ex because she's NOT INTO YOU
4. I'm not like other girls = I'm lying to DECEIVE YOU
5. I'm not looking for a relationship = I'm not looking for a relationship WITH YOU
6. I think you're nice = YOU WILL NEVER see me naked, YOU WILL NEVER bang me
Guys, stop trying to decipher her words and texts, pay attention to her actions. If she digs you, she'll make it easy on you.
how about you women become adults and communicate your emotions instead of forcing us to decipher what all of that nonsense really means
@@JacobArdeleanNo one is forcing you on anything.
Woman does what she wants and you can do what you want (as long as it’s something moral and legal).
It’s that simple.
Thats it
Responsible adults say what they mean. Don't waste your time.
Women are full of games and manipulation. They are like a two year old child
There is a lot of adult with mind of a baby 😊
@@PowerYuLiu This is the biggest problem with single mothers. Women raise children. Men raise responsible adults.
That’s not reality bro. ALL women do this.
facts lol
It seems women constantly lie.
They can't help themselves its in their DNA
@@meme-zv7kwi guess it’s because they never had a brain to think with. That’s why they do these delussionall shitt crap with guys in the end (i.e all lies of women),i mean da f do they have to offer afterall when they cannot even cook,clean,Aren’t ready to be housewife,caring of kids,etc they are dead animals left in jungle where no one is so just go on where u are going. F women they are just using us so they get power, that’s what they mean by equality to.
And we are meant to trust them
Only when their lips are moving..
Root is insecurity...this is still a man's world...
I've had at least 2 women in the past month tell me " I'm not looking for a relationship right now" I said ok, and haven't spoken to them since & won't. I don't want any woman that doesn't want me. period.
You did the right thing 🫡🫡
Here's another: "I don't usually do this"
Translation: "I always do this"
A girl once told me she was a 'happy single'. About a month later she met another man and got engaged.
What do you do? Her right to choose.
dude, happened to me twice as well
I feel ya
My ex who was a single mum said she was happy with it just being her daughter and herself. She ended up running back to the baby daddy then got pregnant, had an abortion and with another guy in a relationship six weeks after the abortion. Now she is pregnant with the other guy. Good luck to him, she would run back to the original baby daddy in a heartbeat. I dodged a bullet.....
Women open up and tell their girlfriend everything from the heart but feel they have to manipulate and play games with men. The truth about a women is always in her girlfriends
That's because she respects her girlfriend and relates to her. With her girlfriend, she not trying to get anything from her expect her friendship. With men, they know they can get the world if he's weak. That's why they play games, to see if you're a loser who will roll out the red carpet for her. When you keep it real, they can't play games. Because when you're focused on yourself and what YOU want from HER, she can't play around. She either has to do what you want or leave lol manipulative women hate when you put them in a position to either do what you say or leave. But if the woman is interested, that's the ultimate turn on. They want a take charge man
#6 don't listen to what these chicks say, if she's into you, she will make it clear through her actions, her action will speak louder than her words,
True - she would place her lips on yours..
You're not supposed to listen anything they say except "no" or "im pregnant." Everything else is 100% bs that you don't need to care about. Just tell her what you want from her, and see if she does it. Period. Give her instructions and directions, dont go back and forth on that emotional bullshlt. When you go to mcdonalds do you ask the cashier about their feelings? No, you just order the food. That's how you gotta treat women
True.
Like children
im 53 best advice I have ever heard in my life and I have heard a lot
Love this
The most honest, clear, and real-life advice I have seen in recent years in electronic media (TH-cam). My ex-wife is a therapist, and in my experience everything you said is right. Thanks for clarifying things for the younger guys.
JJ.
My ex wife is a therapist too. I feel you brother!
"Still friends with her ex" can also mean they are still "friends with benefits".
Immediate dismissal.
Yes, I agree. @@sirg-had8821
Good video, excellent reasons to stay single. I get to keep my friends, my money, my sanity and all my stuff. Women just aren't worth the hassle anymore, to many head and word games.
Agreed, brother
This woman only sheds light on multiple reasons why to never take women seriously, never marry them, and just let them dig their own graves while men leave them all in the dust.
In an age when most women think they are strong, independent and need no man, it is strange that the same women are not able to talk. You would think... if you want to be a man, first you need to talk like one.
I recently tried Hinge and had some success with 70 matches in the past month, and already I've experienced all these things; especially the first one the most.
Women make no sense, they'll ask for your Snap or give their number yet they'll take like 12 hours to respond saying some BS like "sorry I was busy". Yeah busy talking to/hanging out with other dudes 😂
@livingtotality Hinge is legit man, the others are trash. 70 matches sounds like alot but out of those I only got 10 dates with 6 of them being a hookup, none of those girls I was able to hangout with again. Most of them are just looking for a fun time and they move onto the next better thing unfortunately.
If you've got good quality photos and are above average in looks, I recommend buying 1 month of premium and giving it a shot.
Women are very pragmatic when it comes to relationships... its the men that tend to actually be more romantic in that regard
A woman will give her number simply to have your contact in case she needs it... if everything else fails she will just go down the list of guys who's numbersshe kept till she gets something
@@knightsolaire8192 They just have so many options that they'll look for any sort of reason to disqualify you until a hot guy messages them. I've noticed this quite a bit, they'll show high interest at first but then they it fades. It really is a strike while the iron is hot, the longer you wait to get them out the more likely she'll forget you.
It's unfortunate but men only seem more romantic due to having less options and so they'll invest more, whereas women never have a shortage. There was 1 week on Hinge I was getting 6 matches per day and talking to 20 women at once, it was honestly overwhelming.
@livingtotality I'm going to go out on a limb and say that Lee is quiet good looking and/or has good pics and a good profile. I doubt most men will get that many matches.
I’m not mad. Means I’m mad as hell 😂
I'll save you 6 minutes.
It boils down to "don't listen to what she says, look at what she does".
So I paid attention to every word and action this girl I was dating did. I moved at her pace. I would wait for her to move the needle forward and then I would move too. Everything was reciprocated, I never felt needy or insecure. All green flags, zero red flags. Turns out she lied about 1-2 major things that were significant enough where we cant even be friends anymore. I’m so confused by what happened since what I experienced would make EVERY video I’ve watched on this topic wrong. People say “I saw the red flags and I ignored them”. There were zero signs in my case, every sign was a green flag. After a couple more weeks of healing I’m going to confront her to get the entire story straight but right now I almost feel gaslit that what we had wasn’t real. I don’t know why she’s saying otherwise. Any thoughts? How can a woman check every single box of green flags in every video I’ve watched, and it still end up being a lie? She might be a psychopath…but even then, zero signs of that. And you’ll have to take my word on this, I’m a very good judge of character.
@@chrisherber1635I’ve had this happen to me several times. Women are master manipulators and gaslighters. Be happy that you’re now more experienced and wiser my friend. Don’t waste your time with her. Just let her go.
@@facelessandnameless thanks for that. I’m still having a hard time letting go but it’s been getting better. The whole situation was just truly shocking to me. It’s like I can’t believe she was such a selfish person, someone I trusted. Life…. 😂
You can absolutely just be friends with an ex. While many relationships end on a bad note, some do not. Both parties just came to the conclusion that it was not what they wanted long-term. I've experienced both good and bad, and seen people remain friends in numerous situations. Mature adults can often get past a breakup and convert a relationship into a friendship, especially if both are in the same social/geographical circles.
6 Things Women Say & What It Actually Means
1. When she texts you Hey sorry! I missed your text, I've been busy!
2. I'm fine
3. I'm just friends with my ex!
4. I'm not like other girls
5. I'm not looking for a relationship!
6. He is Nice
For years I thought women were mature adults who would try to communicate clearly so as to reduce the risk of misunderstandings in relationships. WRONG!
LOL where the hell did you get that idea?
@@scottverge938probably from movies and other women.
@@facelessandnameless Unfortunately you're right.
Great tips! " but girls just wanna have fun "......😅let them .....
Just say she wants to drag you along for easy validation whenever she wants. It’s not that she’s “not interested” there is a use value to you for her, as being an easy validation mechanism
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
If they can't be honest with basic things how can you trust them with more important things.
If some one is playing these games with you either call them out on their BS or cut them out of your life.
I love this, one of the best of your videos yet! Thank you for taking the time to explain all of these, as sad as some of them are for well-intentioned men who just want to find the woman meant for them. And honestywould be nice too.
I asked a girl back in February if she would want to hang out after having lunch together. And she replied back saying she literally has something going on every weekend for the next couple of months.... here we are almost at the of August and nothing. That told me a lot and didn't put much faith in that.
Damn son you fucking waited? No my man dont do that to yourself.
I’d rather just not participate in the dating scene than waste my time and energy with high school level games
Sad thing is adult women always play these games and yet claim to be more mature than men
It has nothing to do with high school. It's just reality. It's just the nature of women. You best accept it and move forward.
"i'm fine" when i'm not, yeah i remember saying that when i was a kid
The I'm fine thing. What you have to do is meet them half way, say something like politely. 'Hey I don't know why you are mad but I'm here if you want to talk when you are ready.' Shows you care, shows you are willing to listen and shows you are not a mind reader! Puts the ball into her court.
Good luck with that.
Best thing is to say I’ll get back with you. I have something going on right now.
Now she needs to know what makes her not your priority
Gaslighting is when a woman can’t communicate directly but blames you for not interpreting what she “really means.”
I 1000% agree heard and been through all these
As a guy I usually respond really late. Not just girls but everyone. Sometimes in 3-5 hours. Sometimes the whole day.
Same here.. Sometimes even days. ;)
I’ve been known to respond within 1 week
Good video. Keep in mind, women usually say "no" at first.
My experience as a man, is I show interest in a woman. She lets it be known she is not interested (maybe she uses the expressions in this video). So, I lose interest in her. Then some time goes by, and then she shows interest in me. But I already moved on. Women always seem to come on after they reject me. It's like women have a delayed reaction.
So she was interested in another guy when I first met her, then that guy wasn't interested in her, now I'm not interested, on and on it goes.
woman NEVER leave or START a relationship UNLESS they all ready have the next guy sniffing around. They like guys hanging around because that allows them to play the above games. Woman bitch at men and call them players but they are the ultimate players. I am never any woman's "Next good time, friend, confidant or door mat. "
Good women don't play these games... the second you start getting some of these things, just walk away or just use them.
This was your best video.
The "i am fine" part is a great way to see if this leads to anywhere, sort of a free sample of what´s to come. If she gets passive aggressive cause you don´t ask her about it but take her word for it then just ditch the freak. She is toxic as hell and for recreational use only.
For anything serious you need honesty and straight forward communication, if one doesn´t have that or rather plays mind games with a "no means yes if i want it to" crap then yeah disqualified from progressing any further.
Leaving L.A.😇
Yeah he's always going to be the one on the higher level she doesn't have to. She can be passive aggressive if she wants right. She can be irresponsible in childish, but that's okay. It's only he's got to be responsible and an adult
If I would be a woman, I would have a lot of expectation from a guy. I would reject some types of guys, like needy guys, emotionally unstable, unsociable, fake or selfish, immediately.
According to some marriage and relationship counseling social media sites, it's the men who are always on their phones, ignoring their spouses.
FINE = Frantic, Insecure, Neurotic, and Emotional
💀💀💀
Great video, what is the music in the background?
Keep up the good work. I needed to hear this.
Ditch the Raptor claws!
1:48 - this is a good one
Everything she say is so damn right 🥲
The bottom line is that most women are not mature enough to deal honestly with a man. Many have a child like mentality. They are just slightly taller todlers.
Great video for tips because the main one I like is that u said u can't be upfront with your situation and lie to y that not the one for u . Things I know I am attractive but I seem to get woman that are playing me or ghost me or just be lie about simple things but I'm just chill dude and want a woman who can love and appreciate it what I do for her
__1__ Too busy to text: Maybe there is bad cellular reception at Chad's pad?
__2__ "I'm Fine": The secret is to not ask, or, leverage item 1 and text her the question.
__3__ Friends with ex: It's the "with benefits" part that gets tricky.
__4__ "I'm Not like other girls": Well, since most of the other girls give me restraining orders, that's good!
__5__ "I'm not looking for a relationship right now": Gotta stop leading with, "Are you looking for a relationship?"
__6__ "He's nice": Is that better or worse than, "You're such a jerk"?
... on a more serious note, be the man. Take control of the frame. Don't let her play these games. You have better things to do than to waste time on juvenile mind games.
2:29 - 😅 I do this too. I need to disconnect because women do not like sharing their man.
I'd be interested to hear what you think about women who in relationships who maintain friendships with a number of men. It's been my experience/observation that men hanging around women who are in relationships are actually courtiers waiting for an opening, but have been told (by women) those men are "just friends" and nothing like that is going on.
I guess the question is do women actually recognize what they guys are up to and denying it, or are they really naive about it?
I disagree with the first one to an extent, my current gf told me on our first date that she was a very off the grid type of person who doesn’t have any social media
She also works a lot at a pretty demanding job and not everyone likes to text 1000 times a day
We text about 2-4 times a day depending on the day and everything is fine between us
Oh dang I nearly got up to run when she said "I'm fine". That's always bad. You never want to hear a woman say "I'm fine". Almost as bad as "We need to talk". Now that is a scary phrase.
They should teach this at school. Great content.
I'm in a situation right now where the girl i like it demonstrate interest in the things i talk and our conversation it flows well, she even invite me to go out with her sometimes to lunch in the office and invite me to events, but everytime i take the initiative to ask her out, she ghost me or give excuses to not accept or say that it would be cool if MORE people go, am I missing something or she is just using me to validation? Why the girls do this? Can't be self esteem because almost all the single guys i know in my company try to hit on her
High value women are NOT on their phone 24/7, not even close to. Only shallow and irrelevant women would spend more than ONE hour/week on her social medias, and she will NOT even have such superficial social medias like an Instagram or TikTok.. Of course adult women can easily be friends with their ex's if they have kids together, it will actually be a huge turn-off if she is unable to have an responsible relation with her kids father.
Not talking about ex with kids just ex that are still friends
It’s really not that complicated. If you attract a girl’s attention, she will make every excuse to get close to you. If she is not attracted to you she will make every excuse to not spend any time with you. A lot of men interprets this as playing hard to get but she really is trying to get away from you. There are few who are emotionally damaged and insecure who will constantly play games. That’s a red flag. Walk away.
Be nice to women but don’t put them on a pedestal just because they are beautiful. They are just another girl with a pretty face and that pretty face won’t be that seductive when she starts to play manipulative games and constant nagging about everything. Emotional tranquility is more important even if you have to be alone.
Most women can't be trusted full of games and BS. Sometimes best to walk away don't waste your time. A girl really into you will put you as a priority.
So she can't be honest so we got to be honest for her but yet she wants honesty. But she doesn't want to be honest and that's the problem with today's women if they want men to be honest, but they don't want to be honest themselves
Appreciate the advice and help u and ur bf give the best advice when comes to dating and knowing about the other gender weather is male or female 🙏👍
My now wife got drunk with an ex and then got a hotel with him. She said nothing happened bc she knows her boundaries. She says she left early in the morning. Mind you I found out before we married… idk what to do
You should consider re-reading what you wrote here. 100% they hooked up. She's trash. If you haven't discovered that yet, you will soon enough.
Go Bears!!!
“Have fun”……Very rarely does it ever mean have fun 😂😂
You are refreshing, thank you.
It's a constant game of jeopardy with women...
I'll take "Women Don't Mean What They Say" for $100, Alex.
Alex dead, bruh, it's Ken
Great honest and Advice!
I would never date a woman who’s on her phone all the time. It’s a red flag.
So when a woman lies to a man it's okay and it's respectful. But it's not okay for Amanda lie to a woman to try to impress her
Let me ask you a question. If Amanda just wanted to date a woman and she keeps calling him. Is it fair for him to just keep making her wait or is it more respectful to let him tell him to be honest with her and tell her what she wants but yet we don't ask women to be doing the same thing
When a failed relationship gives you the 1yr later text about not getting closure… 😂
Great video. Keep up the great content!!!
Most women that say anything of opossum sort to a man that they don't know
That's a good video and I'd like to hear more translations of womanese😅
The title of this video is exactly why I don’t even try anymore. Just say what you actually mean! The mind games are childish and ridiculous. I have no time or energy for that bullshit. Be a real woman and you may actually find a real man!
Women use their BF success to start a TH-cam channel with the exact same content
_" Sorry i fell asleep"_
Hole leeeee $ht is this said a massive f* ton 🙄 i dont even respond and leave them on read on the app. If its a txt, i dont even open it and just disappear
0:19 had a girl text me 12 days later after getting flaked on. NEVER give women a second chance it never works. Have her learn her lesson & give her the cold shoulder.
I'm responding some ladies only 20-25 days later just because I'm really busy. So i want to correct your first sentence dear lady, there are really very busy people as I am.
"... in the middle of finals or at a place of work where they're not physically allowed to have a phone" -- you kinda lost me there. Not because you're wrong, but because this seems to describe fairly young women who have barely gotten into the workforce. Because there are a number of jobs out there where, even when you're allowed to have a phone with you, it does get pretty busy over the course of the day that you might not be able to respond to a text till after you're already gone home at night.
Cool. Great advice.😁😁😁😁😆😁
Almost every woman I know takes days to respond to my texts. FML
Stop texting.
@@johannesswillery7855 LMAO 😂😂😂yeppers !
I'm friends with my exes tbh. Some tried to get back with me but now we talk like once a month
So modern women are devious and manipulative. Already knew that. Thanks.
If she has children that are boys, now they can get the insider knowledge straight from MAMA. 🤔
Great vid
Thanks Julia!!
When she says I'm not that type of girl. She telling you who she really is.
I like you and the way you explain it.
The most common ones I hear Is 'Your so sweet' or 'Your handsome'
100% means you will never see her naked or bang her. Zero exceptions.
In other words....never listen to what women say
Kings! Stay the hell away from any woman who plays game.
All of these things mean ur on the outside looking in. I say all of these types of sayings and use this type of tone w ppl i wanna blow off.
glad you admit nisa are passive agg and ulterior motives in number 2.
(indirect speakers)
glad you said she should be mature to say wha'ts wrong
this is why you date girIs with 0 body count.
oh saying she is not liek other girIs means she is jealous of them, nice, see if it's true by her acts, is she low maintenance etc.
I'm not looking for a relationship is obvious, - it means not you.
Thank you
I'm friends with two of my ex GFs and I don't have any feelings for em 😁
'ive been busy', 'maybe another time', 'got a stack of things to do'...........womanese for NO.
If she likes you, it'll be obvious. They know when to make it easy for you.
If it's not obvious, they don't like you. If all yhe effort is on your part, they don't like you. STOP chasing. Don't give them the satisfaction.
I like your channel. You’re usually more direct. Today you weren’t. You even said guys are direct. If you’re not gonna say it with your chest ..why say it. You were on your maybe kinda sometimes not always but ..game today. It was no bueno.
So true !
Great video
Muscles will get you girls
well she was ignoring her phone while she was with me a few days back and yesterday she was "last seen" 2 hours ago on whatsapp but when I wrote she immediately responded. That's good right?
Why do you flip the footage so often ? I've noticed that a lot in the videos
What the name of the music in video please? someone answer
did u find ut ?