One woman's incredible search for her biological parents

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  • @deborahn.6215
    @deborahn.6215 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I LOVE this story... now they have each other... and they LOOK like each other which is comforting for them... the BLOND has the bluest eyes I have ever seen... the Lady in the middle is very well educated and has impeccable speech and manners. Her parents raised her well. GOOD LUCK to all of you.

  • @susanroberts9227
    @susanroberts9227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    An truly sad story for the woman who left you all...how cruel, yet despite that fact that it was a pattern, at least she knew she was incapable of looking after you..I would like to think that it was Out of kindness, in a way. To all be healthy is a blessing, and to be found in time too. Perhaps your birth mother was in a terrible domestic situation and the babies were the result of such activity. Bless you all. Hoping for future successes for all of you!

    • @tracyrepple9135
      @tracyrepple9135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Susan Roberts thank you for your comment. It was true class.

  • @lovetocraftlovetocraft241
    @lovetocraftlovetocraft241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the link. I'm so glad she was able to forgive and find some peace about it all. What a blessing that she found her siblings. While it's an incredible story, one can look at the positive or just be full of anger for the rest of their lives. I'm so proud of how she has handled it all. Thank God for loving adoptive parents.

  • @jennifercooke8280
    @jennifercooke8280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    What a lovely lady she grew into after a very bad start.

  • @lindastonebraker2512
    @lindastonebraker2512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This happened in California too. They did eventually find their mom. Crazy!

  • @Tes-mm5rp
    @Tes-mm5rp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an elquent soft speaker and beautiful. You're story is very difficult to hear, but it's heart warming that you grow to become happy and elegant woman. It seems like you had safe and fun childhood. That's good to know. For You're biological family I wish I could know what kind of situation or circumstances they were. You are a strong woman.

  • @sempreExx
    @sempreExx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I don’t think after abandoning three babies she would come forward.

    • @rose-of-theoasis
      @rose-of-theoasis 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elsje Lacueva She’s probably dead

    • @samjones6046
      @samjones6046 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She probably had denial of pregnancy. It's a recognized psychiatric condition. Less than 1% of pregnant women have it.

  • @patriciaridley1583
    @patriciaridley1583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was abandoned by my mother and father but they took me back again

  • @coreyfalo3939
    @coreyfalo3939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    How could a woman keep having kids and leaving them all over? It's so sick..as an adoptee..I feel so angry about that

    • @vmanglona72
      @vmanglona72 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm not adopted but I too feel anger that a person, especially a mother can be able to do such a thing. If I had a sister or niece like that I would slap her myself. I may not know exactly the anguish and the pain and the sense of loss that you feel but I know enough to count my blessings and give thanks. I hope and pray that you and others like you have found or find some semblance of peace and some kind of happiness. Good luck to you all.

    • @tonykartracer8032
      @tonykartracer8032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sometimes I feel like it's better to be adopted, that way you feel like you can't let anyone down or have any kind of attachment which leads to disappointment and heartaches. When you're adopted, it's kinda like just you against the world....... like a feeling of freedom.

    • @tammyvenezia9117
      @tammyvenezia9117 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It' not really sick, she gave them life.

    • @TheDogSheep
      @TheDogSheep 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It makes me mad to. That means your normal.

    • @raiderrichard7291
      @raiderrichard7291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Irresponsible people😔

  • @Hampdensipnpaint
    @Hampdensipnpaint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am very surprised none of them had close family listed on the DNA results. Would love an update on their story.

  • @niioli
    @niioli 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hi janet n siblings , I was adopted as well when i was 6 months old and iv never located my birth parents, i was a rebel and depressed girl growing up even tried to commit suicide many times but the Lord was good enough and he is the reason i am still here... my life was horrible until i gave up my life to Jesus..u kept saying u wanted to find out who u are... i just want u to know that u cannot find who u are in people.. people fail.. u will only be able to find out who u really are and be truly and COMPLETELY HAPPY AND WHOLE in JESUS CHRIST.. i looked out in people to fill the void the emptiness that i had but i couldnt find it..cause people do fail us.. but Jesus doesnt.. when i found him i tell u now i am 100% HAPPY 100% WHOLE 100% KNOW WHO I AM..dont look in people what u can find only in Jesus Christ darling.. May the Lord bless and change ur life... Much love ... Giselle...Lopes... xx Romans 15:13
    “I pray that God, the source of hope, will FILL you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.” Jesus loves you and he will never forsake you girl.. i dont even feel a abandoned child anymore.. cause the Lord jesus became my father the day i let him cure me and took all the pain away.... i want happy and i found my family in HIM!!! You have to try jesus so u can feel what i feel living and trusting in the Holy Spirit.. words can never tell you what it feels like to have his love and mercy...

    • @luv2travel2000
      @luv2travel2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. 👍😍

    • @dollyschwall8537
      @dollyschwall8537 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow such a good witness for Jesus ..Who is our everlasting Father ..love from Germany

  • @angelaberni8873
    @angelaberni8873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    How could a woman can let this happen to her not once,but 3 times is way beyond my comprehension.

    • @randomvintagefilm273
      @randomvintagefilm273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She could have been working the streets with no access to birth control. None of the 3 look alike

    • @TheAlien101
      @TheAlien101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Good to know I am not the only one thinking like that. There is no excuse in this world for her doing this not once, not twice but three times within such a short period ...
      I have to give this lady credit she is better then I am. Once I found my siblings that would be the moment I stopped looking or even caring for the woman who dumped 3 of us.

    • @sisterslounge256
      @sisterslounge256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am very mad at her......i am so sorry

    • @maryfralixlanier35
      @maryfralixlanier35 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thereseward7852 you're right we don't know what she she was walking in but it still seems like there's something very wrong with her to do that!! Still three times, couldn't she leave a note with him at least. It could have been worse though I read one the other day about somebody digging up a baby that she found buried but live❗That's just unthinkable1❗

    • @vmanglona72
      @vmanglona72 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly my thoughts! One would think she would have learned a lesson the first time around but three times? Just makes me want to scream out loud about the cruelty of it all. Too bad I don't know that woman for I would tell exactly that. And I wouldn't knock her head for the fact that she didn't throw in them in the river or something.

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have found a brother and sister. That’s wonderful. I wish you well in your search and hope the outcome is positive. You have grown up loved and a beautiful young lady. Please if you see this let us know if you make any progress.

  • @jeangough8053
    @jeangough8053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a beautiful voice so easy to listen too. And such lovely lady.

  • @diboraethiopia.793
    @diboraethiopia.793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i want to know my biological father but i dont know his last name ?is there any means to find him?

  • @edge1289
    @edge1289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was adopted at 3 months from a Catholic agency in Trenton NJ. I have never met any biological relatives. I hope you find your biological parents, god bless you!

  • @rebajane3233
    @rebajane3233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I guess it's safe to assume that they all share the same mother but they had 3 different dads.

  • @robertkristiansen3085
    @robertkristiansen3085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a Beutiful Woman..! Sad and Happy story at same time..

  • @kennewell3603
    @kennewell3603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its nice to hear all these success stories I see. I've been looking for my family as well! I know I will never have that joy of finding my biological family which hurts a lot but I'm very happy that you have found yours! Maybe I'm not praying hard enough

    • @reneebush2399
      @reneebush2399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is there anything we can do to help you in your search?

    • @donnacrimmins789
      @donnacrimmins789 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't have to pray hard enough. Heavenly Father hears you. Satan wants to make you feel sad that you don't pray hard enough. One day you will get your answer. Now when is up to Heavenly Father.

  • @doreenchristie7791
    @doreenchristie7791 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s a sad sad story my heart aches listening to her narrative. ........

  • @epicbros9587
    @epicbros9587 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to know if her mom ever traveled to South America Between 1985-1987 Her story is so close to mine

  • @veramon583
    @veramon583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Incredible story and their eyes!

  • @lonnieowsley
    @lonnieowsley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you and your true finding of your brother and sister.

  • @Mattnoble80
    @Mattnoble80 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy you found some lineage, hope y’all find more but most importantly I hope it is good news for you all!!!

  • @cynthia-333
    @cynthia-333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So unbelievable that you found siblings!!! Astonishing!!!

  • @welderella
    @welderella 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a gorgeous woman. I’m watching these because I am trying to understand what my sister went through. But I don’t understand. I really think you have to live it to understand.

  • @StellaLive-le9hf
    @StellaLive-le9hf ปีที่แล้ว

    You are incredibly beautiful, inside and out! You will find your answers and in that search, many gifts. God bless you and your family...🙏🙏🙏

  • @sandrahurley3854
    @sandrahurley3854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Her mother passed away 3 months before, Janet found out who she was.

    • @Buttercup17asc
      @Buttercup17asc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where can I found the news o the history right here in TH-cam?

    • @luv2travel2000
      @luv2travel2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Buttercup17asc Yes. I'd like to hear the update or read about it too. Also, did they find the biological father(s)?

    • @Buttercup17asc
      @Buttercup17asc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      luv2travel2000 yes she found his biological father look right here in TH-cam the Rupert’s babies Townhall (The big reveal) and also W5: B.C woman tracks down her long- lost love ones

  • @ghoo283
    @ghoo283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wish you luck in your search

  • @mercedeshendrickson8840
    @mercedeshendrickson8840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It is so Wonderful to have met your brother and sister, You are all so beautiful and perfect together, Jesus - Yeshua, LOVES You, All. Be blessed...

  • @molly-zx9cr
    @molly-zx9cr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    They all have the same eyes :)

    • @suzannadannaTARDIS
      @suzannadannaTARDIS 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their eyes are pretty distinctive and striking. I think their noses and smiles are the same, too.

  • @10tenman10
    @10tenman10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any update on who her parents are?

  • @jenniferhill8776
    @jenniferhill8776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Umm has dna testing database helped her find other kin such as aunts uncles etc to help her eventually get to the bottom of this?

    • @PetraBlum258
      @PetraBlum258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She found her, I followed the "link" given at the end of the video.

    • @Richard-lh3te
      @Richard-lh3te 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately these stories are not completely uncommon

    • @snowonder024
      @snowonder024 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      part 2 th-cam.com/video/8lcZ4PZd_Z0/w-d-xo.html

  • @worldisgoingcrazy851
    @worldisgoingcrazy851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you did this video 2.5 years ago. I would think that you have made some progress since then? How are your two half siblings related to each other?

    • @jenniferatkinsonlove
      @jenniferatkinsonlove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She has. She found out who her mother was but unfortunately learned she has passed away a few months before finding her. She also found her father who had no idea she existed. Her father and his wife recently moved to be close to her.

  • @daphnerodriguez9980
    @daphnerodriguez9980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO SAD WOW HEART BREAKING ❤🖤💚BROWN FAMILY. ALWAYS DAPHNE COTTON 💜🦋.THANKS YOU ⚘.I' INDIGENOUS REAL HISTORY MESSAGE DAPHNE.

  • @lynn.d1015
    @lynn.d1015 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m curious, why would you search for someone who abandoned you ?

  • @queenbee2447
    @queenbee2447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So what kind of upbringing did your siblings had?

  • @lloydkurtz5873
    @lloydkurtz5873 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why people have to play music in the back ground so loud you can't hear a wonderful person tell their story is beyond me.

  • @suz0000
    @suz0000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would think that someone in that area would remember someone pregnant, 3 times, yet no baby. But maybe she told people she gave you up for adoption or was able to hide the pregnancies?
    I would think some other relatives would come up on the DNA results, besides the half siblings.

    • @jenniferatkinsonlove
      @jenniferatkinsonlove 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This video is older. She has found out who both her mother and father are/were. She has a public facebook page you can go to for the answers to this story.

  • @kathybray7156
    @kathybray7156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What would make someone just leave a baby

  • @mariazlata7127
    @mariazlata7127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What are you going to say to your biological mother when you find her.....? All three of you...and we do not know how many more babies were abandoned by the same woman...how many of them died...?

  • @diana3599
    @diana3599 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The population of that area was not (still not that ) that large. Certainly there must be a few people that have strong feelings re who this mother must have been. And surely one of the children must have some familiar features to her..

  • @stephanieharrigle5091
    @stephanieharrigle5091 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is terrible what happen to these people I hope I don't have that on my birth certificate

  • @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780
    @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My poor honey darling love you from. Paris France iam so sorry jeannette you are so beautiful love you 🇫🇷❤️🙏💋💕🎁💖🇫🇷

  • @zalllon
    @zalllon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sadly, I'm not adopted.

  • @barbarathomas5530
    @barbarathomas5530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad you three have each other. After she has abandoned three babies I believe she will not come forward. However, if your DNA is in the ancestry database then it is possible that another relative could come up as a match such as a cousin, aunt or uncle.

  • @theresasampson4263
    @theresasampson4263 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I have searched for my adopted brothers birth parents . We had a birth certificate . Ends up they lied on the birth certificate. My brother has matches and the same names kept appearing on his matches . One match didn’t know his Mom as she abandoned him and his father . Ends up he is a half brother. The other high match is also adopted from the same area in New Jersey . I reached out to a genetic genius and he figured it out in less than two days. You must have other cousin matched ?? Please let me know if you want his name and contact. 😃

  • @neosibada5292
    @neosibada5292 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a sad story

    • @neosibada5292
      @neosibada5292 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lov my children more than enything eish this story is soo sad

  • @c_farther5208
    @c_farther5208 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do all three have bipolarism or depression? Something like this would definitely give you profile of mommy dearest.

  • @duzntmatter5926
    @duzntmatter5926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would never want to find the idiots that left me there other than to punch them..People raised you and loved you let it go

  • @malaysianinukfoofoo4763
    @malaysianinukfoofoo4763 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    She should contact CC Bloom a renowned Investigative Geneologist

  • @elliebellie7816
    @elliebellie7816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    None of the DNA testing has yielded any results that would lead towards a parent? That certainly sounds strange in this day and age.

    • @sewcrazybaker
      @sewcrazybaker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her birth mother died.

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Huh? How would it lead towards a parent unless her mom also was searching and got DNA tested, and happened to list herself on the same database with this lady as someone who was open to finding relatives???

  • @drrifatalam7413
    @drrifatalam7413 ปีที่แล้ว

    So the mother is same and fathers are different. Please check the shelters, care homes or city information database and I am sure you will find your mother.

  • @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780
    @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ô my god iam crying ja et what a story

  • @MusicSeason22
    @MusicSeason22 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The is the 2nd woman to abandon 3 babies. ABC covered the story

  • @anijhashaw6746
    @anijhashaw6746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:41 does nobody else see a face

  • @lovewhitey2027
    @lovewhitey2027 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hopefully with Ancestry.com someone related to your parents will connect to you. Im 54 adopted and haven’t found mine either Never Ever Ever give up searching Gods Timing is always perfect 👌🏻 Ur Blessed with your fellow blue eyed siblings❤️

  • @bluesunstar5088
    @bluesunstar5088 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    EDIT: just saw there was a part 2 that answers the mystery.. about to watch it & hoping the truth is not horrific like i imagined.😬
    ••••••••••••••••••
    *and* over only a 39 month period?? yeah, on that alone, sounds like the mother is possibly in a very, *very* bad situation:
    half siblings these 3 are.. meaning same mother different fathers?? same father?? but with that repeated m.o. of how the baby is left at hospital, i'm worried for her, where it will lead.
    very close to Alaska, too. so, officially American? Canadian?
    no birth control? but 'pro-life' enough to leave the baby to be found and taken care of by medical professionals?? *but* then, twisted enough to leave a baby outside in the Canadian winter.. with not even so much as a homemade cloth diaper on.
    they should have saved the blankets. hope the police or the hospital did because maybe they could now test them for DNA.. something they should do anyway re: police or a genetics investigator, *who can be a buffer for them,* comparing the DNA of all 3 half siblings to the DNA profiles in every accessible data base available.
    poor thing, she really wants to know where she biologically came from..but i'm concerned the outcome won't be a happy one if they find what they're looking for. i 'have visions' of some vulnerable girl or young woman back then being imprisoned in a basement or attic somewhere - and being used and abused in the most horrific of ways.
    and did it all just stop? did something happen to this mother?? or the father(s)?.. or are there other incidents like it from back then..at other hospitals on either side of the border?
    my amateur detective skills are working overtime - but i'm also thinking that anyone who watches even a *fraction* of the number of *•true crime•* documentaries many of us have, can remember how investigators come up with even a basic, *initial* profile of various kinds of, so far, unidentified individuals.
    will be *at least* interesting to see where this young woman's journey has taken her since this story was aired.

  • @marlenebtagelman2451
    @marlenebtagelman2451 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Five years ago - is there anything new?

  • @princeedward9160
    @princeedward9160 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    im looking for the same kind of help

  • @edumation
    @edumation 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The sister has got similar eyes

  • @marcomacedo4515
    @marcomacedo4515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish you all good Sweetheart

  • @cf6282
    @cf6282 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    At least she found two half siblings. And so nice for all three to find each other. With all the DNA testing going on chances are relatives will take the test and thus narrow the search down. Hope you will find your parents.

  • @jagsingh5030
    @jagsingh5030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They got no emotion when they met. "Hey there nice to meet u"

  • @robingagan6288
    @robingagan6288 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about finding the fathers

  • @tammyhenze2680
    @tammyhenze2680 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    If this is the one I think it is. They found the mother.

  • @gimmesometruth9507
    @gimmesometruth9507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mom sure slept around

  • @jhcolebank
    @jhcolebank 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    There are more than just the mother that know about this .try 23 and me or one of those dna places.

  • @maozhang4129
    @maozhang4129 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    forgiven

  • @tahliah6691
    @tahliah6691 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doing ancestry DNA she will find her relatives....

  • @janetsavona7590
    @janetsavona7590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If I was raised by loving adopted people I wouldn't look for my biological parents

    • @elliesouza717
      @elliesouza717 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't know how you'd feel unless you are in that position

  • @Lee-fh2wj
    @Lee-fh2wj ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow take a dna test might be able to find relatives that way!

  • @RizztrainingOrder
    @RizztrainingOrder 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The abandonment by the parents didn’t send a firm enough message?

    • @elliesouza717
      @elliesouza717 ปีที่แล้ว

      People often aren't abandoning their child. They love them enough to give them up to people who can provide a life for them they can't give

  • @slinkiegirl2001
    @slinkiegirl2001 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    idiot mom gets pregnant and just abandons her kids here there and everywhere

  • @emeraldkimble7602
    @emeraldkimble7602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Western end of cn

  • @richardkuda321
    @richardkuda321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why search for irresponsible dogs.

  • @dmw4914
    @dmw4914 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are raised and loved by adoptive parents who work hard their entire life to give you a future. It doesn't feel right to me - this idea that you search for people who rejected you. In some ways you are rejecting the people who raised you. Leaves me thinking - don't know if I could adopt.

    • @elliesouza717
      @elliesouza717 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not rejecting them at all to want to know your roots and get some questions answered.

  • @swampfizz
    @swampfizz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    are the mothers all different..haha...seriously are the fathers all different..that should be a good clue..many people know her and if she hung around PR for at least 3 years more than 2 people have a clue...pregnant womanx3 she says they were all adopted out??? ect??..DNA has the probable ethnicicty of mother?? grandmother probs not in the picture because she would have questions??

  • @ashiba4024
    @ashiba4024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just found my dad's family after 52 years and though he is no longer on this earth I was able to get lots of answers from wonderful cousins, an aunt and half-sisters. My dad like hers' from Canada, and my dad's brother just lived miles from my mother's side of the family on Vancouver Island but he has been gone 18 years, sadly, I could have known him but it was not met to be, clearly. I am so grateful there is a seal on this part of my life and feel my life is complete and feel a whole.
    I understand your feeling there is a whole in your life of the not knowing. Try ancestry.com that is how I found my dad's incredible family and or 23 and Me the best to you in your search.

  • @randomvintagefilm273
    @randomvintagefilm273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I can't imagine seeing my birth certificate with no parents listed. Very sobering!

    • @LM-eu8yr
      @LM-eu8yr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Adoption is child trafficking. In California adoptive parents are allowed to be listed on a birth certificate. Even when they're not the real, natural parents who brought them into the world.
      Mothers who are drugged, exhausted, hormonal & who couldn't legally sign any other kind of contract are encouraged to sign away their babies just after birth.

    • @williamjackson5942
      @williamjackson5942 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LM-eu8yr What? There was no information so no names.... did you actually watch the video?

  • @transcendfalsehood
    @transcendfalsehood 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I was abandoned by my mother as a toddler, never developed a relationship with her until I was around 20 years old, lasted about 3 years, worst years of my life living with her. Some people it's better not to share a life with them.

    • @greenjewelrysparkle1940
      @greenjewelrysparkle1940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True!!!!....sorry for you tho❤❤❤

    • @slinkiegirl2001
      @slinkiegirl2001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      sometimes it is better not to know, people who where adopted but go searching for there biological parents, i ask why what could your mom possibly say to you, for me i would not go searching sorry is was a nightmare for you

    • @TheDogSheep
      @TheDogSheep 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I see it has affected you by reading your screen name. I'M not being mean spirited. Things effect people. Its about overcoming and beating the odds.

    • @MKpixelfan
      @MKpixelfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      just because someone gives birth, doesn't mean they could be good parents so perhaps she did the most loving thing by giving you up so someone else could raise you. Our imagination is always better than reality.

    • @scottcarey7725
      @scottcarey7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was adopted my biological mom was apparently young and a crackaddict any my biological father died somehow but when i was given my "mom" had a sheet of people willing to adopt and she picked my parents i have today and that when i was given to them my biological grandmother knitted a quiilt for me.. im now 33 years old, i dont want to look for any of my biological family period.. sure it would be nice to know about my real health issues in the family and see if i have anyother siblings and what kind of people they really are but im not that kind of person.. my parents have ALWAYS been a supporter of me and only wished for the best and gave me unconditional love, they did nothing but comfort me from my first girlfriend break up, they were there on my first day of school, they were there when i rode my first bike, my first everything.. the Biological Parents were not soo.. sure i guess and have imagination and all.. they just were never ever there, if they want to look for me thats fine but.. A solid NO for me 😀

  • @rachf9695
    @rachf9695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I could have been a sad or abusive situation that her mom May have shame around admitting to it but hopefully theses 3 beautiful people will find the answers that help close those holes in your heart cause they can weigh heavily on who you are! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @antoinettewatson1632
    @antoinettewatson1632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are so valuable to this world. So glad you came into it. We are so much better off for you having come this way. Look in other nearby towns. As the old people used say...."don't put all your eggs in one basket." I am praying you find the answers to everything you are looking for. Be Blessed.

  • @itsjustmyopinionbut1671
    @itsjustmyopinionbut1671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She’s a very beautiful woman!

    • @Sparrowdean
      @Sparrowdean 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's just my opinion but Not sure what you are seeing, take a good long look at her features.

  • @lovehappiness5628
    @lovehappiness5628 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I haven't seen my father in years we left and never turned back after a tragic family incident. Although the past has happened I still want to meet him and his side of my family I know his name and his last location. But I'm not sure how to find him

  • @peaceandlove544
    @peaceandlove544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So happy, you found your siblings, they look like you and nice people, all of you must had great adoptive parents and even good genes, thank God your birthparents left you were they knew you were going to be found, and most importantly that your birth mother took care well of you while she was pregnant and carried her pregnancies to good term and had good assistance at your births. Who knows what your mother's story, background, mental, economic, physical, etc health and state was and has now. It seems she made the right choice to not keep you so you would a much better chance in life than with her. God bless you and all your family and life. Good luck in finding your whole birth family story. Ancestry.com or BC/Canada DNA data banks might be a good start.

  • @Arclightraid
    @Arclightraid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wonderful story and really nice people - hope you find a happy ending!

  • @mjade1673
    @mjade1673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her childhood pics in the pink dress looks soo much like me 😇. I was a bit younger i think (5) when i had a similar dress too. That my great grandmother made 💖💖👏✌

  • @chrisanshaunagracie4217
    @chrisanshaunagracie4217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ipray you find your biological parents God did it for me I know he can do it for you.
    I was hoping you had found them already my heart breaks for u

  • @apt221bbakerst
    @apt221bbakerst 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From what I have seen on TH-cam, if you do a DNA on Ancestry.com, they link you to people who share your genetic line. I suggest you try that. You might find siblings or cousins who have the info you seek.

  • @gabrielmzomkunda4881
    @gabrielmzomkunda4881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your mum she must be very beautiful

  • @snowonder024
    @snowonder024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part 2 th-cam.com/video/8lcZ4PZd_Z0/w-d-xo.html

  • @susaneshleman7251
    @susaneshleman7251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Join DNA detectives on Facebook and connect with a search angel. In this group, you'll see adopted children find their parents every day and learn all of the techniques used to locate parents. Oftentimes someone experienced will volunteer to help you search.

  • @sacosta7842
    @sacosta7842 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think nowadays, babies should be given a DNA test when they are born, that way, this kind of situations won't happen again.

  • @judihardman321
    @judihardman321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Contact CeCe Moore and have her do a genetic study of your DNA. She will find who your parents are/were.

  • @dancooper3806
    @dancooper3806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I understand the searching, however if solved could result in big heart ache, very risky.

    • @rlb3726
      @rlb3726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The heartache happened already, I know what I am talking about, it would be a closure. The truth hurts (because surely her mother was and might not be in a good state in order to do so three times) but always sets free at the end.

  • @nancyhoward7005
    @nancyhoward7005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessings

  • @karla7225
    @karla7225 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did they find their mother..?

  • @allsorts4041
    @allsorts4041 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did she test with Ancestry? There will be biological matches there.

  • @garyshirinian
    @garyshirinian 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is a sad story and I can't imagine. Also I can't Judge anyone , who knows what they've been through however, there is a plus side that you found you other siblings.
    Good luck with your search.