How to Evolve

Every human being on the planet has a unique energetic signature that connects them to specific energies and frequencies that are meant to support them on their path. Our signatures determine things like whether we are aligned to live in the city, or in nature; or if we do best working in solitude outside, or in an office with other people; or if we are inspired by creative pursuits over academic ones. If someone is meant to work with their hands, in nature, but instead they are hustling on Wall Street, they will suffer because they are making choices that are not aligned with their signature.
When we are aligned with our signatures, we connect with people, and opportunities, and experiences that are harmonic and supportive. But when we make choices that are shaped by other people’s ideas, opinions, or belief systems-as the vast majority of humans are currently doing-we betray our energetic signatures and craft lives for ourselves that are not aligned with who we authentically are, or what we really believe. The sad truth is that very few humans are living in alignment with their signatures.
Healthy relationships are created from the inside first. I have so many clients who come to me complaining about all the things they’re not getting from their spouse, or their friends, or their family, or their coworkers, while their soul is telling me that they aren’t giving these things to themselves. As if it’s anyone else’s responsibility to fulfill our needs for us. Please. When we carry around these expectations that it’s other people’s responsibility to make us feel good, or to make us feel loved, or to make us feel worthy, our relationships become transactional and codependent, and we get resentful. If you’re wanting people to honor your time, and your gifts, then you need to honor your time, and you need to honor your gifts.
If you’re yearning to feel loved, and to feel good, and to feel beautiful, and worthy, and amazing, then you need to start loving on yourself, and making yourself feel good, and beautiful, and worthy, and amazing. When we love ourselves, we learn to give ourselves these energies and these experiences instead of burdening the people in our lives with the responsibility of doing it for us.
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