SHE PLAYED THE LONG GAME.AND GOT EVERYTHING! HOUSE, TRUCK AND THE CASH
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- 3 Different boyfriends in 13 years and she got the House, 2 kids and a brand new Truck. Everyone is playing checkers and Mary is playing Chess. She built a house in the Philippines. Getting Child support in the Philippines. Living the Dream in the Philippines. @mikesphilippineretirement @Philippinelifewithjanet @DumagueteRentals
Join our channel to get access to perks:
/ @mikesphilippineretire...
Thank you for your support
BUY ME A COFFEE
buymeacoffee.c...
PAYPAL
paypal.me/Jane...
Looking for Health Insurance in the Philippines
Contact Michael Onstad
Michael Onstad's email address is
michael.onstad@loc-consultants.com
Michael Onstad's WhatsApp number is
0919 581 3100
Michael Onstad's Facebook Group
www.facebook.c...
HEIDI CAJES- C&G CONSULTING
VISA AND SRRV / 13A INFO
cgconsulting.p...
Safety Wing Nomad Insurance
Travel Health Insurance for Nomad and Travelers Alike
safetywing.com...
HOW TO GET YOUR MAIL BACK HOME CHECK OUT
iPostal1
The Complete Digital Mailbox
a href="ipostal1.com/?..." target="_blank"
Mike's website
mikesphilippin...
Link to Mikes Newsletter
`mikesphilippin...
HAVE A TH-cam CHANNEL CHECK OUT
TUBEBUDDY
www.tubebuddy....
WANT TO DO BETTER LIVE STREAMS TRY
STREAMYARD
streamyard.com...
AFFILIATE DISCLOSURE: Some of the links on this channel are affiliate links, meaning, at NO additional cost to you, I may earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase and/or subscribe
FACEBOOK
Check out my Facebook page Mikes Philippine Retirement
www.facebook.c...
EMAIL
MY E MAIL ADDRESS FOR YOUR QUESTIONS OR COMMENTS
mikesphilippineretirement@gmail.com
It sounds like she was faithful and respectful to her boyfriends. They got what they wanted until they didn't want it anymore, and chose to move on. So it's not like she was 'playing' or scamming them. Good for her.
My exact thoughts .
I agree with you. But what do you think about the fact that she didn't love them, and she went into it with an end game?
I thought that, too.
@wallydee8398 she only said that about the first guy. Did he love her? 🤷♂️ the "endgame" was Mike's framing, not her words, as far as we know. In any case, he also indicated that the guys had equally practical considerations - building a retirement house they could never afford in US on land they could never buy as a foreigner, and never pay rent again, while being with a hot, young woman. They were just wrong about the reality not making them as happy as they fantasized.
Nah, she bears some responsibility ... she could've maintained her body a bit better. Plus, she could've given more attention to Her Man, as opposed to her children, and her extended family (who were constantly knocking on the door, seeking money)
She got the gold mine
I got the shaft..
While she's living like a queen on alimony
I'm working two shifts eating boloney..
Song by Jerry Reed😊
I do like a good boloney sandwich
@@mikesphilippineretirement learning how to make a fried bologna sandwich is a deep south Louisiana right of passage.. I love it fried or unfried.. lots of times I will actually eat that for my lunch or supper and maybe even breakfast with a fried egg added.. who says poor people do not eat good gourmet food? hehe
As Robin Williams used to say about his alimony payments ... it stands for "all the money"
Jerry knew the deal
At 34, divorced, ex got everything plus controlled time with my daughter. I had an air mattress, few pots and ate noodles for a bit. This all happened in my anesthesiology residency. Fortunately, I have a good relationship with my daughter and son in law, and I’m a new g pa. Today, I have no desire to get involved with another Western woman. I don’t even want to waste time dating them. US women are way too masculine these days, and a big turn off.
yes divorce is tough in the states
@@RickMerryman-o7j You’ve been through a tough journey, and it’s clear you've got real strength. Going from rock bottom during your residency to building a good relationship with your daughter and now being a grandfather is huge. Not everyone gets through that kind of hardship with family ties still strong.
It's totally understandable that you’re not interested in dating or dealing with certain dynamics anymore, after what you’ve been through, you’ve earned the right to be picky about where you put your energy. You’ve built yourself back up before, and now you can focus on whatever really matters to you, whether it’s your family, your career, or just enjoying life on your terms.
You’ve already proven you can handle the hardest parts of life, and there’s no need to rush into anything you don’t feel is worth your time. Take pride in what you’ve accomplished and keep building a life that makes you feel fulfilled.
@mikesphilippineretirement I will definitely agree that divorce is definitely slotted against the men here in the U.S. Yet the women want to be considered equal for all reasons. I am almost finished with my divorce, and it couldn't happen faster. Never again will I marry or date an American woman. As the Italian people say Forget About It. Asian women are more about family and secure relationships. Most really want an honest man. Since I have been duped here, I have turned and found a woman that I may consider to be the last and forever partner. I have to rebuild my trust and confidence again.
I'm sorry what happened to you. Glad you have a good relationship with your daughter. There are some good western ladies . Best wishes to you.💜
Wow. That was quite a story. I enjoyed the pictures of the houses also. 💜
Every Man MUST presume their woman is playing the long game; and YOU are their game!
all women every country just some play it better
Exactly ... and as Mike says, it's no different in The States
It would be funny if you found a woman's formal "business plan" where all the steps were laid out along with estimated revenue, assets, etc. 😂
Don't forget the lady's assets, which she brings to the table (or under the table). The plan should include her asset wear-and-tear, depreciation ... and scrap value
So why even date women for with that mentality? Just date men.
It's foolish for these old men to think they'll go to a foreign country, meet a young beautiful woman, and expect her to fall head over heels with his old ass and live happily ever after. We are merely a means to an end. A money tree offering financial security for her and her family.
just foolish. Have you traveled at all
Yes... and no. I wrote a few books on this topic years ago but I think the basic premise is still relevant. What makes a man with one or more failed relationships with women from his own country and culture think it will all change miraculously by going across the world meeting a girl half his age or younger and he behaving exactly as he has all along? Yes, many men have 'peso-nality' and are a means to an end but not all. I don't blame the women for wanting a way out; caveat emptor after all.
Everyone in the world seems to know this fact but the horny old fools who keep marrying these hungry and desperate kids. The male ego is a joke and they end up getting just what they deserve. Everybody uses everybody.
Men are in love, women are in business.
hahaha is that what you think
@fudogwhisperer3590 And that's the truth
And never forget that 👍🏾
I have a similar situation to Jerry and Mary. Moved to Cambodia to be with my girlfriend. She already has a paid for house, so my only expenses are utilities, food, and transportation. And for context, our electric last month was $33, using the air con every night and some during the day, water was $5. Our very fast WiFi is $15. She shops at our local street market, 1/2 a block away, spends between $5-$15 a day. When she spends $15, that will last a couple of days. Always enjoy your videos, greetings from Phnom Penh
thanks for sharing
You living the life!
My ex-Filipina wife was not faithful to me, but she also has the house that I built in the Philippines. It was completely finished, except for the upstairs, which was a very big master bedroom, dressing, bathroom and balcony. She now married another foreigner and he probably finished that too. So whatever happens to her and her second husband: she now has a beautiful house that didn't cost her one hollow block. It's not how faithful they are to their partners, it's how well they play the game!
thanks for sharing
Man, that's a low blow ... I feel for you
Filipina is loving her children, then her parents, her siblings, her lola and lolo, her cousins - and relatives, her Pinay schoolmates, then she loves you
As long as you provide, and sometimes she is under tremendous pressure to give money to her brother for a motorcycle, but she will be afraid to tell you this .
But, in their minds they are honest, will not leave you, will bare your children, will happily care for you, will raise your and her's children, .... What else do you want. This is steady life 😂 with ❤ every day.
She did not have to lie. Men played their games, and she played hers. There were no victims here; they all made their own choices.
Yes.
@mannyc4224 wow! You are a story teller
she used the first guy .lol she even said it she want him gone so her family made sure of that.
The children are the victims!
Some people shouldn't speak, like you.
Hey Mike. I’ve been living here in the Ph on $953 per month. I live right down the street from Ayala mall thanks to your video about a year ago. My rent is 25K Php ($434 USD) per month. My electric bill 2,800 Php ($48USD) per month. I rarely use the AC. I use the fan 24/7. Cell phone 700php ($12 USD) per month. Food approx. 20K php ($350 USD) per month. Water, condo fees and internet are included in the rent. My Philippines health insurance is $109 USD per month.
This is basic living without a girlfriend or traveling. $434+ $48+ $12+ $350+ $109======== $953 per month, no BS……..
your just surviving not living. no gf no traveling. If you go eat at Chilis in the Mall you could not afford it
@@mikesphilippineretirement Hey Mike, I left my (realistic living expense) comment basically to let guys know that read it, it is possible. Of course, I didn’t mention my income, but I retired from UPS of 35 years with a LARGE lifetime pension. Plus my TH-cam channel has 94,000 subscribers and well over 25 million total views, which most months earns me equal to and sometimes more money than my UPS pension. Not bragging, just stating I’m doing so well money doesn’t matter.
Believe it or not, there are a few guys who live here in Solinea Towers where I stay who have no interest in having a girlfriend or traveling. Both have a lifetime pension around $3000 a month coming in. They’ve been here two and three years and says women are nothing but a headache. Personally, I think they’re just picking the wrong women, but they’re always by themselves and they’re content with it. They also said they hate traveling so they’re fine with just existing. They each have a Filipina they call every once in a while and pay her 1K pesos to come by and, well you know the rest.
I have a cousin who is 63 years old who is barely making it in the United States on a $1200 a month pension. And we already know there are a lot of men in the USA in the same financial predicament. He’s planning to move here middle of next year. He’s been asking me if my expenses have changed so he can monitor my lifestyle. After I showed him a video of Solinea Towers with a large swimming pool, workout gym and right down the street from the mall, he was sold. He also has no interest in dating a steady girlfriend or traveling. Some of these guys are just not adventurous. So I posted my original comment to state that a person can live off $1000 a month here without a girlfriend or traveling, if a guy is OK with that. And of course they could move to a cheaper place more towards the province area.
Personally, if I was a guy who only had $1000 - $1200 a month coming in living in the USA facing becoming homeless, I’d rather move here and have no girlfriend and not travel. Better than becoming homeless. And like my cousin told me when I asked him about a female companion, “ I could care less about the company of a woman, but if I need temporary female companion, that’s what bar girls are for“. He’s got a point Lol…. Love your videos.
You need to teach older men moving here that it’s just a contractual agreement dating in the Philippines NO young filipina loves you ever but only what you can provide for her and her family once you learn this use it to your advantage and live a happy life - it is what it is
thanks for sharing
@@mikesphilippineretirement Those pinoy guys who make babies and left the mamas and let the foreign guys take care of their babies they should be ashame
@@mikesphilippineretirement foreign men should know that when a Filipina marry you they want that good looking baby from u.
@@anneb3170
It happens more in the USA…at least the mother is taking care of the kids not grandma or worst the kid wind up in foster care or homeless!
Mary Got Talent 👏
she is not stupid
And then along comes Mary.
Good title
Bloody Mary
Everyone has their own game plan. Sounds like Mary tried to make the best of each situation, from the 3 different men in her life.
I can't fault her for that, she's surviving.
This latest guy is taking advantage of an opportunity, too. Most of the work was already done, with the house, and kids half raised. I don't know why he took a loan on the truck, though. If he's banking so much, by living so inexpensively, he could have saved for the remainder of the balance on the truck...
But who am I to judge?
Everyone can do their own thing, as long as it's not interfering with others.
Great story, Mike 👍
thanks Jerry
Agreed, they just moved on she did nothing wrong? The family is an issue but no is no. They left on their own accord. If facts are accurate adult decisions were made.
You call that an accomplishment?
I am a Malaysian..female. The first thing we think about after education is..Work!! Not find a Foreigner to marry.
I had a job at 18 and was a single mom at 20 to a son... raised by his paternal grandparents. With my first job, i qualified to get a loan for a small used Car. In the span of 10 years..i had upgraded my car 2 times to a better model and age. I was renting a room though..working in the city. But i wanted a better lifestyle. Working a 9 to 5 job with a fixed income was NOT going to get me there. So i quit and got a job in Sales. O..mannn..my income skyrocketted working on commission. By age 29, i was driving a brand new BMW..and a brand new house. And went on to stock investments to buying lands.
That's the difference between Filipino women and Malaysian women.
Congratulations. There is no substitution for hard, smart and honest work. You have set a good example for your children.
Nice. Invest your money.
No lady. You're being racist. How would you like it if I made a comment like yours which included your mother and grandmother as the whole Malaysian female population?: Your comment is absurd.
It's all depends on survival and/or education. I've dated Thai ladies and when I asked why they lie on what the money I gave them was for? Some said she needed it for the family. Some said they were desperate to survive. Some had gambling addictions.
I've dated a Malaysian female in GWU. She was always trying to convert me into Islam. After two years and meeting some of her close friends, One decided to tell me not to pursue her as she has an older boyfriend back in Malaysia paying for her education. Man! She was just using me to take her to expensive dinners, clubs, and doing the nasty!😮😢😂
My wife is playing the long game. 23 years, 6 kids. Waiting for her to show her true colours, hahahahaha Sometimes you get a keeper.
is she waiting because your worth more alive than dead?
23 years? That's commitment to a relationship. That's not playing the long game.
@@mikesphilippineretirement She has it all now; citizenship, houses, land, car, her own job. No need to wait. The secret is to pick well... and get lucky. When we were courting her father was in hospital with a major operation. I found out after the event and when I offered to help with the bill she refused any money, said it is her family's problem and they will deal with it. And that's coming from a pretty poor farmer's daughter. I made sure she had everything I could provide and if she stays she stays because she wants to, not because she has no other choice.
@@fatmanfaffing4116 She love long time?
Man, what a story! You had me on pins and needles.
I had an opinion before you started the tale, but then took turns left and right as you went on.
My take: Mary played the long game called endurance. A survivalist like a Filipinos but a million miles from a scammer.
David got young sex and then bailed. That’s on him.
Gary got young sex and started his dream before bailing. That’s on him.
She stayed honest and faithful. A patient and loyal good woman.
I don’t feel bad for Jerry at all. He is happy and has a happy wife. I wish them both the best ❤❤
Thanks Michael
I'm trying to understand how you say that Gary is such a "good man." While he takes care of his children financially, he still abandoned them and let's another man raise them.
To me he gave up his moral right to leave as soon as the first child was conceived.
so many just leave they are American citizens a great thing to be
Gary should have returned once his health recovered to raise his 2 kids. At that point it's about two American kids being abandoned by their father.
Good story telling Mike. I would say “First one in wins” and “she’ll accept anyone as long as they come with the funds”. Mary accomplished her mission with the income of 3 different men. I’m neutral on any judgement, it’s just what they do.
thanks for sharing JD
Marys honest answer re/David and "Love" is refreshing. Respect is far more important than "Love".
totally agree with that statement
I can tell you one thing you have a whole different idea love when you're 68 them when you're 38
@@Charles-y5d Amen to that brother, I am now 65 & been around the proverbial block.
Most filipinas don't love you but just love what you can provide for them. You're taking most of them out of poverty to the middle and upper classes. Sure, you can find a good one who will care for you in some capacity but don't ever delude yourself that money isn't the overwhelming factor. Suggest you split all the bills and expenses 50/50 and you'll quickly find out what the relationship is built on.
Thanks for sharing
She got it all paid for by fruits of his labor. It is the oldest game in town.
you don't think she really loved them?
DO YOU NOT think she paid him for all he gave her? just the sex part alone would cost him way more than what he paid! then maid service, laundry service, cook etc...your wife in america is the same situation!
@@steffybael1245 There is something seriously wrong with Asian extorting from vulnerable elderly western men. Just call like it is. She is a whore, and he is sucker into to thinking this is an actual beautiful love affair. It's all bullshit. And the whole family is in on it. It's the oldest profession in the world. And it seems the Philippines and Thailand is the biggest whore house in town.
I think stories like that must be pretty rare over there. Good for Mary! Good video!
Glad you enjoyed it I think it happens more than we think
Not so rare. Monkey-branching is quite popular.
At 35 My daughter was five years old Now I am my grandfather Priceless 😊
hmmmm
Mike, thanks for sharing all your experiences, they are invaluable, I add them to my kit bag, and they have helped me on my travels to the Philippines. I am glad and happy for Mary that she got the rewards of the long game. She absolutely deserves it. Amazing how she remained faithful after she was treated so badly by all of those guys. I have visited the Philippines multiple times and met many girls, with the end state of moving there and it is unbelievable the temptation that surrounds a guy there every day. I have met many girls in Philippines on many of my travels there, never ever online, that is how trouble begins. Definitely, it is important guys clear the fog of lust and look for a sounding board, before committing into a relationship with a Fillipina.
I remember seeing those comments!
Thanks for this crazy story. At 31 here in cebu I still tend to get sick as well. Breathing issues and irritable bowel syndrome with a few other fancy words.
I'll stick it out as long as I can. Leaving the army and coming here i can't complain outside of this now weak body can't handle the philippines sometimes.
thanks for sharing
Sounds like everyone got what they wanted in this story. It can be a tough game for a foreigner here. It’s by no means easy. I’ve been with my gf for 7 years and we have a daughter. My gf is living a life that most all province Filipinas dream about. I have a beautiful daughter and support her 100 percent. So I’m winning in the games as well. Plus, I love my gf very much. She’s the best. I could build a nice house anytime and anywhere here I want, but I’m in no hurry. The situation has to be perfect. I don’t get any pushiness from my gf at all. She’s happy with what she’s getting now and will be super happy once I move more forward with my plan.
Every woman here has every right to play the long game and so does the man. As long as there’s no bad intentions from either person.
thanks for sharing
'True, sincerity is key. Love is bliss
Mary kicked ass and took names! What a great story. Thanks for that one.
you're welcome
It sounds like she was straight up… only comment was that she wound up with older guys who she knew had the potential to bail on the relationship due to health or not liking the environment. Seems she didn’t seem to get a hold of a 40-50 something year old who was able to hang around. Hope the current guy manages to hang around there and with her for a few more years
not many guys 40-50 in the Philippines that want to settle down and also don't have a pension
She wasn't playing anyone, she is smart and just trying to survive. She is a good Filipina.
I agree
A gal's got to do what a gal's got to do.
yes she does
More fool him. My Filipina wife - of 10 years - definitely played the long-game. We met in person in HK - she was 36 while I was 48. She got pregnant, deliberately, definitely to ensnare me. However, we now live in the Philippines, we own residential and commercial properties and have business interests and a regular income . our property/finances are well-organised and legally secure. The kids and the family are sorted, in full-time education. As for health-care, maybe invest in health insurance. I am fully aware that I was the honey-pot but I don't really care.
Thanks for sharing Josh
@joshuarizalforeman816 How do you know she tried to get pregnant to ensnare you? My wife wanted to get pregnant also, whether I stayed with her or not, she wanted a mixed baby she told me and it didn't matter if I stayed with her she said.
@@jsully4064 reverse psychology ops :)
@@jsully4064 She told her friends, one of whom was married to a friend of mine, of her intentions. She saw in me an opportunity for a better life. I'm not casting any aspersions here. When she became pregnant, he told me what his wife had told him. I'm not complaining, I simply would have preferred a bit more honesty. We are happy, wealthy and settled in the Philippines so it's not an issue. I just would have preferred some prior notice.
Mike I met a girl on line from Camiguin island I visited her twice last year April for 3 weeks Oct for two weeks we got a fiancé visa she arrived in June and we married in July she’s 24 I’m 61 we have a 5 year plan maybe come back and retire maybe CDO we will see she’s the best 🙏🏻
sounds like a good plan
Yes you handsome young man you pay for everything including parents and siblings and also sick Buffalo 😂
You right she is the best .
Hey Mike, Mary has a good plan of her future. She just a very loyal girl that most men can be trusted even she found one after the other, but being loyal and honest to each of them is a good contribution for a very good plan through out for the future. You know when it comes to faith especially if you are a good catholic ,she was blessed for being honest and loyal to herself, she has a good reservation and loving herself first. You seldom find those kind of person nowadays, but I must salute to Mary for her blessed fortune.
Thanks for sharing Tim
The lady was, effectively, a faithful, serial widow.
That's a decent, moral life.
On the light side...
Remember Longhorn Leghorn and Widow Hen?
no i do not sorry
If anyone qualifies for Navy Federal Credit Union, get a membership only costs a $5 USD deposit to open. Any military veteran qualifies. They’re probably one of best financial institutions out there and security is top notch.
Thanks for the info Rick
Since 1987…when you actually had to be deployed overseas to qualify for membership 😊
The Philippines is poor so they get used cars from Japan and used men from the US. Used things can give great service but the owner must maintain them : fix the broken parts and treat them gently.
many many new cars and young men here
@@mikesphilippineretirement oh i didn't know. Are the young men marrying ? What socioeconomic class are they targeting ? Is this true outside of Dumaguette, like in the province ? Do average cute girls marry the young foreigners or are the foreigners only after the 9s ? Nevertheless, there's tons of pretty and poor women and a relatively small number of expats looking to settle down,,, I think. Thx for replying.
She was faithful and the guys made their own decisions. What's to say. Peace and Love, B Goat
no much but enjoy your life
Well good for Mary
I agree
Outstanding story jerry is very lucky
I think so Barry
Mike ... a great video and storytelling
Yes! great storytelling! My only question is, should we say that Mary played "the game" or "the long game"? I agree I don't know all the facts nor can I get inside Mary's mind but if this simply "happened" as part of life and she did not intentionally plan this, then is this a "game"? Whatever label we choose to put on it, she surely did win the ______ of life 😃Or is it just me attaching a negative connotation to the word "game"?!! 🙂
thank you Txtworld
Isn't life a game? She played it well and still playing
I believe that the idea that the 2nd man would rather have access to a better hospital even made him lose his wife , rather than having a young beautiful wife, with hospitals that are good enough for the hundred million Filipinos, has definitely made the wrong choice, so sad, but I guess it worked out good for the 3rd man
thanks for sharing
Yeah I agree, makes no sense to leave the young, hot mother of your kids, the whole bit about temptation was irrelevant.
Chess players always beat checkers players. Nice story Mike
Thank you Jimmy
Mike very good video, 👍 KUDOS to Mary and your children. 👍 Mary sounds like a smart caring young lady. Hopefully you can follow up with Mary to see how she is doing, interview her on video so your subscribers, members, can see her. We got a bonus on this video watching you explain Mary we also watched behind you, on the big screen, portions of Janet's video and you showing property. That was nice. do that more often. Thank you for another very good video.  Bye for Now.👍😊🙏
If Mike was going to interview Mary on video for everyone to see, he'd have done that already. Have a clue please...
Mary has a boyfriend and is doing great. thanks mike
@@mikesphilippineretirement Your welcome.
Love the shirt in the background GO BUCKS
off week then come back and kick some ass
Yes indeed , that was a tough loss last week we made to many mistakes
That’s called Wise !!!!
I learned something a long time ago that is important -
You can only be tempted by that which you desire.
Think about that and let it sink in.
Think of all the things that you are NOT tempted by
You don’t desire those things.
Thanks for sharing
The way I read this is men came into her life and while they were together were building their lives. The men chose to bail and left her with an uninhabitable structure. It was Mary who had the foresight to preserve the partially finished home and eventually finish it's construction.
thanks for sharing Mark
Seems all the men were getting what they wanted until they didn't want it anymore. The price we pay.
Great comment so true
Mary great woman! Congrats to Jerry and Mary!!
thanks
The one thing I agree with - with this story - is that both men and women use each other.
was she using them or living day by day getting things done
The one that I didn't hear was marriage. Every man bailed on her. Why? What was actually being done to these men causing them to leave? Her family had no boundaries and it seems like they were vultures seeking to nibble all the available funds of these men. It sounds like her whole family was in on the scams. As for the men, they, like most, went there for inexpensive sex, home, and no responsibility. All were duped by the filipina love web.
smart girls do not marry as the men leave and they are stuck in a marriage with no divorce
@mikesphilippineretirement So she is a player? Again, deceitful and naughty by nature.
Family told her "you either need to get a job or find a boyfriend", lol.
@ericjames7819 Her job was realing in the prey, and they will help devour the flesh (money).
@@mikesphilippineretirement - The same goes for smart/confident men. They do not marry either so that if the girl changes (fat or bad attitude) between 20s and 30s, they can walk away also.
Mary was good. She did not play any guy. They made their own choices and she was left to deal with the situation at hand- raising 4 kids alone. She's a survivor at this point. No other options available but to move on when these first 2 guys abandoned her drspite her faithfulness and loyalty.
Thanks for sharing
Please turn off the television behind you in future videos. It is very distracting
a lot of comments said they liked it
Let's face it, Jerry woke up. He probably realized the whole idea was not for him.
Jerry is still here and loving life with Mary
Hahaha, Officer and a Gentleman. She sounds more like Debra Winger than whoever will remember the other actress. "I want to marry a Naval Aviator." Can't blame someone for fishing in waters for the fish she wants. Sounds like she was honest and faithful. On the other note you can achieve that in the US, but a mobile home is the American nightmare. Well, technically nightmares are dreams.
The one with bodacious tah taahs?
Thanks for sharing Bill
I need this kind of mindset 😂 I need to put weeds in my house.
Great topic Mike!
Hi Ann how are you. We never get to see you anymore.
There are many that have a similar story with a house and children, but someday that child support will end.
At 40+ years old it's harder to find employment and a partner, so let's hope her children will be educated and disciplined to find good work.
Worst case scenario, sell the house and car.
Good luck Mary.
why would she sell the house? She needs someplace to live.
@@mikesphilippineretirement many people sell their house when they are desperate for money. Like I said, worst case scenario. Not all filipinas/Americans make the best decisions.
absolutely fair game
This got a giggle from Asawa ko
glad she is smiling
Checkmate Mary good for you be happy God Bless you and your family.
Thanks for sharing
I like Mary. She didn't cheated, scam, or deceived anybody. Everybody got what they wanted. The old guys had their fun. Mary used the money wisely by investing it into the house so that she and her kids will have a house to live on even if the old guys change their minds or leave her one day. She just used her brain and had a long term mind set. She is not like most girls. Most girls these days go for the easy and quick wins. Most girls would go for a young and handsome boy. She would get pregnant but the young handsome boy is broke and he still wants to have sex with more young pretty girls and he doesn't want his saga to end there so he will abandon her. She will now become a single mom. Mary is different, she used her youth to choose a man that can provide for her. Started investing in a house. When the first guy left, she met another guy and continued building the house. If the first guy didn't left, I can see that they would still be together with the house completed. Its not like she used the money for fun, do bad stuff, or other selfish things, it was money well spent for her and her kids so that they will have a simple roof over their head.
Kinda sounds like she was scamming, kept looking for a cashout everytime a guy bailed lol
tell me the scam?
I’m just gonna look at it from the guys point of view if she truly was faithful to these guys and she was willing to stay with them to the end, she didn’t cheat on him. She didn’t try to use them for their money then in my eyes no harm no foul more power to her. I can tell you at 35 I was married. I had two kids at home and I was working three jobs just to try and make ends meet.
so was I tough life sometimes
Yes good on you Mary I agree... it's a little thing called life and we all make do however we can, so long as nobody gets hurt, it's all good happy days)
Thanks for sharing
that is a great way to put it: the end game.
it is an old saying I heard it used a few years back
@@mikesphilippineretirement Hi Mike, I have been played....or used. The woman played chess, I played checkers...oh my! iT costed me too much., but yet I overcame and it was a great lesson. Do women play men and their egos. 100%, they are smart.
My bull$hit detector went off with: 1) he paid cash for the truck... but had a personal loan at home for the balance... and lives on $800 a month here - meaning not counting his loan payment.
Translation: he borrowed money for the truck and is not counting that in his living expenses. What else is he lying about? The girl.
This girl is an amateur. I played the long game and I'm a millionaire by being a good wife. 17 years married. I homeschooled two sons that were admitted to college on scholarships at age 13. We're having the court declare them "emancipated" at 16 so the child labor laws do not apply. We met with an oil company recruiter Wednesday night, he arranges the internships. Our boys will be making six figures as teenagers. The recruiter said there is a $100,000 bonus every five years for making their production goals. So these kids will have a $200,000 + year soon enough.
Our goals were all about our children.
Mary did it right amen. She should write a how-to book
i think we did in this video
Good on Mary
yes
I have no problems with Mary. She was faithful. The end. Life just bounced her way.
but first she got tired of him they all ran him off .lol
It's hard work being a mother in an affluent country especially if you have no relable partner, but in a poor country my heart goes out to these mothers who only want to do the best for their children and elderly parents. You can't let your heart rule your head though if you need sensible results and that's what you need where children are involved. That's what we've got here a workable solution.
Thanks for sharing
I was lucky enough to get divorced and lose my first house while in my 20's, so luckily, I still had ambition to buy another house for myself and start a new life. I was in a pretty good spot at age 35, financially and mentally but haven't had a long term girlfriend because they all want to move in and I'm not having it. 😅
thanks for sharing Matt
Smart move, "Patience is a virtue" otherwise its Out of the frying pan back into the fire ! Had only 1 marriage then divorce, child support, had to sell "Our" house, left with shirt on my back and rented a house room and just kept busy working then within a year bought #2 house as a fixer upper, kept a bedroom for my child's visits until I was forced to accept company relocation out of state then enduring years of mult-states temporary transfers, before buying #3 house another fixer upper and invited my Son who got married at 18 and his wife now having tough living conditions, of course while helping them move out of state, found out she was pregnant, all I could say ok now its plan C ! I became a Single-grandpa and Dad for both during this period, and my past ladies used to say I was selfish because I did not want to get married, some within a month of dating, did not live full time with any, weekend only either my or their place. I always said I was married with my company we had a love/hate relationship but they gave me a paycheck and pension. Later I moved back to my home state got house #4, so three of the 4 houses I had it was titled as Sole Baron ! Oh since property tax and home insurance is ridiculous high and the local western women are too expensive to maintain or even date, maybe by next year Jerry in PI will also leave and Mary will be available, so here comes Bob, like General Douglas MacArthur once said I shall return, so can I, except without the uniform, its been only 50 years ago.
Love your show mikey
Thanks do you enjoy the stories?
@@mikesphilippineretirement I want to learn from the mistakes of other men so I don’t fall into the same traps, especially regarding how women may try to separate them from their money. Understanding these dynamics can help me navigate relationships more wisely
@mikesphilippineretirement
What I like about your shows proves to me that a man with experience is never at the mercy of a man with an argument. Mike has lived it and I also learned many more things on life and relationships.
The medical, if it’s a small city with actual hospital and not clinics is actually great. I had a stroke 7 years ago. Moved to the Philippines 8 months ago my neurologist and therapists here in Angeles City are actually better than the US and an appointment is $30 or $1500 pesos. get online and make sure the town has a hospital before moving.
Thanks for sharing
Mary is being practical & prudent while not taking unnecessary advantage of the men. I take her at her word and Don't expect that she will leave her present husband if he chooses to stay and draw his last breath at Mary's side. Kudos to her and Thank God she has the dream pf a better life than she had .... coming true for her children ! Family is important, children must be taken care of , Mary and her Beau's are doing what's right for the children's future. . Nick , NavyBlueSmoke , LST-1195
thanks for sharing William
What a life 🫢🥲
got to love the story
I've had covid 2 time it sucks but I still worked through it. It's nothing but a bad cold.
everyone deals with problems differently
I try and explain yhis yo many women.. you can either chase short-term cash in hand.. or you can be right and long-term you'll make out way better.. nothing wrong with this at all. She's upfront, honest, and sincere.. hoping one day I'll find one like this..
thanks for sharing
Surprised seeing you popped while watching stuff in you tube! Good luck, is that you? The person i know?🎉 Congratulations!
Smart lady
I agree and cute
GOOD 4 HER. SHE WAS SMART AND SOMEONE WAS STUPID. 😂 🤣 😂 THEY LET THEIR LITTLE GUY TALK TO THEM MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.
Not stupid just gave up the dream
Liked that story
thank you
Hats off to Mary, She needs to start a YT channel or write a book .
Many like her quite and just living the life handed to them
@@philmcleod111 Mary is allergic to work and you want her to do something?
I don't see any problems with Mary's strategy. She was loyal to the guys. They got what they were after and so did she. Not her fault if the first two bailed on her, even if it was done honourably.
We never truly know if the one we love loves us back. All we have is faith they do.
Thanks for sharing Paul
She 4 the streets!
What are you talking about
Excellent video
thanks Jeff
Nice story. Seem like she was straight shooter.
yes I agree with that. The men gave up not her
@@mikesphilippineretirement first one she got tired of him so family got rid of him.
There's something about Mary 😉
yes for sure
Sounds pretty good! But, does the kids dad know another man is living there, or is she keeping it a secret, to get support? If she isn’t, it is pretty sweet deal for her…
he knows
Saying Mary is playing chess, is saying she was playing these men (which she wasn't). Mary has had relationships, which unfortunately ended early (of no fault of hers), and things worked out for her, where most generally they wouldn't have. Let's just say the universe had Mary's back, during troubled times. This happens when you're a good person, and it sounds like Mary was.
I disagree in a way as I think she knew what she wanted and as long as they are together she was going to keep moving forward with her goals and dreams. She did not play anyone but did keep moving the players to go forward and keep her dreams alive
There’s only 2 reasons Filipina marry a foreigner have a better life have good looking kids hoping they’ll become Miss Universe or movie stars in the Philippines.
really did not know that
@@mikesphilippineretirement I’ve seen this on Facebook every time a pinay see a half breed girl they always say oh she’s so pretty she can be a Miss Universe or a movie star
Good video
Glad you enjoyed
Nice video, Mike, and Go, Bucks!
Good luck! and thanks
Yes nice video, Go Bucks!
@@jeffreyevans2871 Right on, Jeffrey ... Ohio State grad here, living in the Philippines now. :)
Watch out Gerry - if it smells of almonds, don’t eat it 😄
hahaha
This is why, when you meet someone and fall in love with them, you shouldn't stay in their home country. Their legal system and financial system is set up to benefit them, the citizen of that country, while leaving you high and dry, out in the cold. If you marry her in her home country, make it plain and simple before you tie the knot that it is your intention to go and live some place else. Even better, move there and marry her there instead. It doesn't have to be your home country either. Move to a separate country that neither of you have connections to. This is what I did. I did live in her home country of Brazil for 2 years, just to get citizenship there. But once I received that, we were off (I had already purchased a place before we got married). Now we're living our dream life together. If she likes hot weather, pick a country where it's hot. If she likes something about her home country, pick a country that has that "one thing" she likes. But never EVER do you stay in her home country.
Thanks for sharing
You handsome man you pay for house and pay my family too😂
sure mike will do
The one woman that actually stuck it out, got what she deserved. If only more women would just see the outcome and realize what you could have if you stop and think what you want.
thanks for sharing
Sounds like she was faithful to all and let them all know about what was going on. And as long as it's like that, there is no problem . I would love to find a woman like that. But it's hard to find that in the state's. Just saying.
that is why many men are coming to Asia
I am happy for Mary , she was honest and everything worked for her .
thanks bigbuck
It sounds like she just lived life, just like the guys that came into her life lived their’s, based on what was stated in the clip! She must have been a good lady, if the guys that came into her live left amicably. Nobody van blame her for anything that the gained! Good for her and her kids! I’d probably do the same! 🤷♂️
Thanks for sharing Paul
Hay milke, when is the best and cheapest time to vacation there. I'm looking to visit before I retire to check it out. And where would a good place to rent for 2 week while I'm there. Would love to stay longer but still working. Looking to retire early in 6 years at age 62. Any help would be great.
March, April and May