A Psychologist's Thoughts On Love and Marriage (Part 3)-Sadia Khan

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  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +490

    Thank you for having me ❤

    • @westernpigeon
      @westernpigeon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      very nasty woman you are with fake qualifications. fake diplomas and fake certificates you have. you’ve already been exposed. i hope you’re letting Mark atleast pound you at least so he gets something out of these interviews. we all see right through you

    • @Gram820
      @Gram820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@sadiapsychology get over yourself, you fraud

    • @joyrn7663
      @joyrn7663 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I really appreciated your insight.

    • @holistic.health
      @holistic.health 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thanks for this... great interview, great information, ignore the haters!!!

    • @yomibrown
      @yomibrown 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You are knowledge, blunt, direct, intelligent, well spoken and beautiful and unapologetic about it. I feel your beauty does not define you, but I feel you don't deny or hate it. That is a good balance. Most beautiful women who are smart professionals tend to reduce their beauty somehow to be accepted as smart. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience.

  • @shyamlynn243
    @shyamlynn243 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    A lot of great gems were dropped here.
    This one can be rewatched many times.
    Thanks guys.

  • @waakdfms2576
    @waakdfms2576 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This conversation was so absolutely refreshing to me I can't tell you. The polarization and toxicity is over the top these days. Thanks for being real, shining light on the difficult stuff, and reminding us how to love each other, Mark and Sadia. Each person and couple is on a spectrum and needs to write their own story. Real love knows real love....we can do so much better my fellow humans.

  • @anuttaradenlay1178
    @anuttaradenlay1178 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I watched till the end. It was insightful, funny and refreshing. I’ll be sharing it. Thank you Sadia and Mark.

  • @lomotil3370
    @lomotil3370 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 *🎙️ Sadia Khan discusses the simplicity and difficulty of maintaining love and relationships.*
    01:07 *🌍 Sadia Khan addresses her focus on the top 1% in her therapy practice due to practical limitations and the criticism it attracts.*
    02:16 *📜 Sadia Khan defends her qualifications, emphasizing transparency about her credentials and the criticism she faces.*
    03:25 *💔 Sadia Khan reflects on the tendency of unhappy people to seek out content that triggers them, regardless of the source.*
    05:59 *💼 Sadia Khan highlights the importance of therapy for mental health and the flexibility of BetterHelp in providing professional support.*
    07:20 *🤔 Sadia Khan discusses the perception of her and Orion Talmay's content as triggering, attributing it to their neutral observation of human behavior.*
    09:15 *💬 Sadia Khan advocates for understanding and meeting your partner's true needs to maintain healthy relationships.*
    10:38 *🔄 Sadia Khan acknowledges the rarity of significant changes in clients and emphasizes the importance of compatibility from the start.*
    11:36 *💞 Sadia Khan distinguishes between love and attraction, emphasizing that love is a skill that requires removing ego and meeting your partner's needs.*
    13:16 *🗣️ Sadia Khan advises couples to improve communication by honestly expressing feelings and providing solutions rather than resorting to attack or avoidance.*
    16:04 *🎩 Sadia Khan shares insights into men's appreciation beyond sex, emphasizing the importance of feeling appreciated.*
    17:55 *💰 Sadia Khan discusses the dynamics of relationships within the top 1%, highlighting the focus on sexual gratification over traditional relationship values.*
    19:30 *🌟 Men's taste in women often changes as they become more successful, prioritizing surface-level qualities over deeper connections.*
    22:59 *🧠 Women tend to have a better understanding of men's behavior and motivations compared to men's understanding of women.*
    25:31 *💔 Identifying emotional disconnection and porn addiction has become more prominent in relationship coaching.*
    27:49 *🔄 Some individuals are attracted to inconsistency due to underlying self-esteem issues, but consistent love acts as an effective anti-depressant.*
    30:12 *⚖️ In a relationship, it's often beneficial for the woman to like the man more, as it tends to lead to longer-lasting relationships.*
    33:10 *🚀 Pursuing personal fulfillment outside of a romantic relationship can alleviate pressure and make one more attractive to their partner.*
    34:48 *💼 Entitlement in relationships should be reserved for a select few, as it's not universally effective and may not work for average individuals.*
    36:53 *💰 OnlyFans presents complex moral and psychological dilemmas, with subscribers being a more significant concern than content creators.*
    38:59 *🚫 Subscribers, not content creators, are often the real issue in society, especially regarding platforms like OnlyFans.*
    39:55 *📖 The abundance of choices in partners due to the internet can lead to unrealistic expectations and perpetual loneliness, particularly influenced by excessive pornography consumption.*
    41:16 *💔 Overreliance on pornography has led to men's self-isolation and distorted desires, contributing to dissatisfaction and loneliness in relationships.*
    44:45 *💭 Overanalyzing and victimizing oneself due to childhood trauma can hinder personal growth and progress in relationships.*
    48:29 *💑 Understanding and humanizing women beyond sexual relationships is crucial for healthy connections and avoiding objectification.*
    52:11 *🔄 Pornography has led to a distorted view of masculinity, encouraging behaviors like voyeurism and infidelity, ultimately damaging relationships.*
    55:56 *🤝 Taking pride in monogamy and fidelity can foster stronger, more fulfilling relationships, challenging societal norms that glorify promiscuity.*
    57:34 *🙌 Maintaining faithfulness despite external temptations demonstrates a deeper commitment and resilience in relationships, even amidst online exposure and fame.*
    58:17 *🎯 Remaining faithful and true to personal values, even amidst fame and exposure, is something to be deeply proud of.*
    58:59 *🌟 Finding pride in a simpler, more mundane life can be a reflection of personal growth and contentment.*
    59:55 *💡 Advice on relationships shouldn't solely come from married individuals; insights from observing various marriages at different stages offer a more comprehensive understanding.*
    01:00:22 *🔄 Recognizing cultural and religious similarities can foster understanding and compatibility in relationships.*
    01:01:05 *👩‍❤️‍👨 Mutual respect and boundaries are essential in any relationship, regardless of cultural or religious backgrounds.*
    Made with HARPA AI

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    I love hearing Mark talk about his parents. Especially his mom, you can tell he misses her.

    • @jennifercallens9872
      @jennifercallens9872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You can 100 hear the emotion and love for his mom
      In his voice. 🙏❤️

    • @alyzak.8997
      @alyzak.8997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awww

  • @_KMAC_
    @_KMAC_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Let's go Sadia is back! She had the best interviews on this channel.

  • @nnekadbp5730
    @nnekadbp5730 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    It is refreshing to hear a clear candid professional woman speak fluidity. These are the issues we go through daily thank you Sadia thank you Mark

    • @bingflosby
      @bingflosby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you added beautiful you would have all the reasons for why people hate her

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And yet she still would prefer to just have her cheeks clapped in a dive motel, after some burgers from checkers.

  • @janelle-westsideblonde
    @janelle-westsideblonde 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +249

    I like her. She’s opinionated and well spoken. I can imagine she gets hate because she’s so attractive and well put together and that angers some people.

    • @Plyggdddj
      @Plyggdddj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Yep, she's beauty and brains. She intimates men and women just by merely being herself.

    • @smegheadGOAT
      @smegheadGOAT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      HA HA HA HA AND NOT BECAUSE SHE IS A FAKER

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      There's truth to that, but it's not the entire story. She pushes for the trad wife life, but has a career. That's called being a hypocrite.

    • @voice88out
      @voice88out 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The hate cam from some women 😅/ feminist

    • @shirinspring1310
      @shirinspring1310 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I like her channel and content. She's on point!

  • @susannaschulten168
    @susannaschulten168 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    Dating seems to be dehumanizing. We become a commodity. Men are getting valued by Money and Power. Women are judged by youth, beauty and their sexiness. This is all so swallow and fleeting. Looks fade, money and power can be taken away. Mature Love is a choice for another human being. Kindness and Integrity are better values.

    • @daliasoto3685
      @daliasoto3685 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This is true for the majority of people. This woman clearly states that she is only talking about the one percent top earning men and top one percent beautiful woman.

    • @ruffrider2626
      @ruffrider2626 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That may be the worst, most dehumanizing perspective on dating. Total waste of time to spend time thinking about things like this.
      Dating is all about going out of your comfort zone and meeting people for who they are. Make a friend, see if you want to spend more time with them. Go from there.

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ruffrider2626
      Yes, for us regular people this may be a bad way to look at dating.
      At least for people over a certain age.
      However look at the younger generations.
      The boys and girls aged 18 and up to 25 in today's society are extremely about looks, status, money and power.
      Much due to social media, and TV series like Love Island and other dating shows where everyone is handsome and beautiful.

    • @JustDatBoi
      @JustDatBoi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Women still judge men on money and power, yet when they entered the workplace not as many men can have money and power.
      You can’t have it both ways.

    • @alyzak.8997
      @alyzak.8997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      marry me xD YESSSS 100% AGREE

  • @jeff1130
    @jeff1130 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I think the problem is we live in a stressful world and people have to learn to be more patient.My wife and I used to argue all the time.... I keep on telling myself be patient before you become a patient.

    • @nickrichards8516
      @nickrichards8516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      haha basically and everyone has to work harder and harder to have a normal life with inflation from a broken money. But then again the 1% dont really see or experience this.

    • @cubicqe
      @cubicqe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nickrichards8516 Totally agree on that.

  • @7mariepierre
    @7mariepierre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I always like it when she is invited. Thank you for putting words on what I believe too!

  • @maisenbrown196
    @maisenbrown196 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    "Create love by making partner happy" very true statement

    • @valentynkhaman7688
      @valentynkhaman7688 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about happy wife - happy life?

  • @RubyClementi
    @RubyClementi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    The truth hurts- and you can tell from these comments. I’ve gained a lot of perspective from Sadias insights, even the ones I don’t fully agree with. This understanding has helped my relationships. Thanks for having her again Mark.

    • @Liz-uj2ot
      @Liz-uj2ot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤I agree 💯 Nicely said. I also have learned from her experience,expertise and knowledge. I feel she is passionate about what she speaks about which also leads people to question her words. I personally appreciate this information from the interview!

    • @Trecesolotienesdos
      @Trecesolotienesdos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      is it? or is she being critically engaged? nobody is exempt from criticism and anybody who offers a viewpoint can have it critiqued.

  • @FeliAli
    @FeliAli 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I absolutely adore sadia, if you take the time to listen to a lot of her videos other than just on soft white underbelly you will understand a lot more on her point of view. The majority of people that are interviewed on soft white underbelly are the struggling 1% so when you see a beautiful woman who is talking about the top 1% and how those relationships function people are ready to throw themselves on the ground. But are so quick to enjoy watching a drug addict on meth falling over while being interviewed. I enjoy that mark has a range of content from people that are the struggling addicts or homeless or sex workers to people with a masters degree that can talk about THEIR experiences with THEIR clients. It’s crazy that out of everything she has said most of these comments are saying “basically go find a rich man”. It shows how absolutely ignorant some people can be.

    • @Trecesolotienesdos
      @Trecesolotienesdos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah, she just pushes her views and morals as clinical practice. people aren't really triggered by her overall, just she can't handle legitimate criticism of her views. which is what she should or anybody should expect when they offer viewpoints online.

  • @KacieLarson
    @KacieLarson 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Love Sadia and her knowledge and expertise on these topics. Thank you for sharing!

  • @JessieEmile
    @JessieEmile 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    I think people resent her because she's beautiful

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Beat me to it. She's clearly a trigger for some because 1) she's married and 2) they already decided a woman like this will never go for them so they try and discredit her statements or outright attack her personally.
      Get over yourselves. Life is short. You better enjoy it while you have one. Get out of your own head

    • @herebyhandcock3316
      @herebyhandcock3316 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She's gorgeous ❤❤

    • @EddyG0rdo
      @EddyG0rdo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I dunno…the whole Muslim thing but she wears tight clothing that shows off her curves is off putting. Beauty doesn’t have anything to do with it.

    • @alyzak.8997
      @alyzak.8997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perhaps. It is difficult to not feel like an ugly git as a woman when I see Sadia XD. But I do not assume it is because there is smth wrong with her so i do not resent her but I can definitely see some women being consumed by self-doubt to the point of extreme jealousy. I can also see men being intimidated by her beauty and rejecting her mentally before she can hypothetically reject them because they feel like she's too hot for them, ya know?

    • @alyzak.8997
      @alyzak.8997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@EddyG0rdo she's a liberal muslim. Not conservative. She's not being inconsisent in her religious views.

  • @RussellGardner-d8k
    @RussellGardner-d8k 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    She is a rare specimen. Just as smart and well-spoken as she is beautiful. The top .01% of the population in my estimation.

    • @BarredTrader
      @BarredTrader 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shes full of shit

    • @luigicorleone3034
      @luigicorleone3034 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think it’s not good to evaluate or judge in that way. So you put others on a pedestal and put yourself and others below them?

    • @kirk8545
      @kirk8545 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm, if we must map it onto a 1-dimentional scale, actually there are a lot of women on this level.

  • @kylekane5727
    @kylekane5727 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I know I've said it before but I would to see her and Orion together talking on these subjects. I love both of their views. Thank you Mark

  • @davidbanner9344
    @davidbanner9344 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I said it once and I'll say it a million times. This incredibly Gorgeous Woman (Sadia Khan) 💯 spot on, each and every time. I am completely shocked of how much hate she gets. Who cares if you're part of the one percent or not, if you are Human then you can understand and relate to what she is saying. I think if her haters stop focusing on her beauty, then they could actually hear what she is saying. Sadia you are absolutely brilliant and I thank you Mark for bringing her on again. I can never get enough of this Woman. Thank you both!!!

    • @shiningstar5919
      @shiningstar5919 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said. These folks are so insecure and jealous, and the same haters hate the only fans women too. Any gorgeous empowered woman is a massive threat. Great interview. Mark is getting better with every interview.

    • @davidbanner9344
      @davidbanner9344 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shiningstar5919 Exactly! Thank you!

    • @Swed813
      @Swed813 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh David... are you aware she's wearing a literal mask? Take away the nose job, the false eyelashes, the hair extensions, the extreme contouring, the foundation, the concealer, the setting spray, the lipstick etc. Without all of that you would never recognise her if you passed her in the street. She's also unmarried and has no kids - in the Islamic religion we are advised to never take advice from a person who has not walked the path they're advising on. She's literally wearing an image and contacting people to have her on their platforms. On Instagram she makes fun if people and bullies Muslim women who disagree with her. She a strong advocate for men having access to their kids with no safeguarding - so she disagrees with women who dont let fathers see the kids even in situations where the kids dad is a pedo or drug user or domestic abuser.

    • @kingmusa5516
      @kingmusa5516 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stop simping bro

    • @davidbanner9344
      @davidbanner9344 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kingmusa5516 You're lost and sad! God help you bro!🙏

  • @ahimsainthekitchen
    @ahimsainthekitchen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love her honesty. She is not wrong. I did not see part 1 and 2, I need to watch it. Very interesting.

  • @kc6384
    @kc6384 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love when you have Sadia on. Always an eye opener.

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Wow! Sadia Khan is hitting the nail on the head with this interview.

    • @BarredTrader
      @BarredTrader 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No she aint lmao, stop simping

    • @thepragmatist
      @thepragmatist 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BarredTrader Who, exactly, am I simping to? Sadia is not reading these comments. She has much better things to do with her time.

  • @richardcaines5372
    @richardcaines5372 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is brilliant and refreshingly honest. I have learned a tremendous amount in this session alone.

  • @nattsvart199
    @nattsvart199 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    So funny to read all the comments. She is right on so many things and people can’t stand to hear it.

  • @Cutebutnotpetable
    @Cutebutnotpetable 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I find great value in her content and Mark also adds insightful comments. Thank you both.

  • @DryEyesVideo
    @DryEyesVideo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    All the talk about hate in the beginning and everyone’s still hating!😭 She has so much experience based knowledge I wish people would just open up a little and listen, thanks for sharing Mark!

  • @56Spookdog
    @56Spookdog 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    I think she’s she’s right on initial attraction but I think many if not most have found a less attractive person more attractive given time.

    • @genesises
      @genesises 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      yes this happens non romantically too. and with literally every person you interact with. it's more noticeable with superficial relationships like at work etc, but we definitely change our perceptions of people given time. if anything this should serve as words of wisdom NOT to act on initial attraction, because that is not reliable. our minds are not 100% reliable, and our emotions definitely are not.

    • @samalsobrook6196
      @samalsobrook6196 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      falling in love with personality takes time but lasts longer. falling in love with looks is instant but can only last so long. deeply rooted emotions vs surface level.

    • @illmeeillmee9373
      @illmeeillmee9373 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@genesises You are a liar. To tell someone their emotions and minds are not reliable is gaslighting. You are basically invalidating someone because youre mad nobody friends you attractive.

    • @kellegeez
      @kellegeez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed!

    • @debbyshark1596
      @debbyshark1596 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@samalsobrook6196 so many ppl out there are just surface level people

  • @DaDaLFG
    @DaDaLFG 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Always good to see her back on this channel

  • @therhythmatic
    @therhythmatic 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This will need to be watched more than once. Too much good stuff in this conversation.

  • @marials9245
    @marials9245 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Well, I don’t know, but psychologists do not give advice or answer questions their patients may have. We help patients to make the changes they need to achieve a healthier state, we help them answer their own questions and to question themselves. She acts like a coach, maybe, but definitely not as a psychologist.

    • @petralea
      @petralea 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She is not a psychologist, maybe that would be a hint, i am not sure why they kept regarding her as one, she was a teacher of psychology but not a psychologist

    • @californiarams577
      @californiarams577 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I didn’t know she was an actual psychologist, Mark. I guess I can also put that title in my videos. You know what that mean?

  • @leviathania
    @leviathania 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    17 Minutes in I can confirm everything she says so far. I lived a lot of that what she experienced with people in therapy. I was a human stress relief and was becoming less and less treated like a human being with own needs and an inner life and he wasn't of the 1 % but worked his way up middle class.

  • @Laluzkeo
    @Laluzkeo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I LOVE HER!!!! IM SO GRATEFUL SHES HERE❤️

  • @theloniuspoon
    @theloniuspoon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I think part of Sadias credibility is also that she is an attractive woman herself so it almost gives her knowledge on how men view beautiful women etc and what it’s like to be treated a way cuz of the way you look

    • @Trecesolotienesdos
      @Trecesolotienesdos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      pretty women are scummy, so they bring it on themselves.

  • @boqueronsocarrao696
    @boqueronsocarrao696 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Guys, we basically have a conservative muslim who's lecturing people about what's best for them when it comes about dating and love life choices. She says exactly what anyone that's lived a little would expect: Get married (possibly after having earned a truckload of money), procreate, have a family, follow traditions, go to the temple every sacred day, avoid doing anything original/whimsical/off the beaten path because all the other ways of living are wrong and childish. And if something goes south it's always your fault.
    All of that while living the life, dressing and speaking however she pleases, without experimenting any of the grievances a regular (poor) muslim woman would go through in any repressive eastern religious dictatorship. I don't know you but I'm taking no advice from her.

    • @HippiePajon
      @HippiePajon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Word..

    • @alexatkins9515
      @alexatkins9515 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Ugh so true!

    • @Gram820
      @Gram820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Right on!!

    • @YesseniaMartinez_03
      @YesseniaMartinez_03 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your contradicting yourself first you say she’s a conservative Muslim then you go on to say she’s living , dressing and speaking however she wants 😂. Make it make sense.
      You don’t know what she has and has not been through , you don’t know her background or any of that so your comment has no justification . It just shows your a racist and thats about it .

    • @Flamingolif3
      @Flamingolif3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Easy, Bitter Spice.
      It's opinions like these that make it very difficult for people to speak honestly when there is so much judgement and rudeness.
      When you make shallow comments like that, with almost 0 facts about a person, makes it pretty obvious that you are unhappy about your own career, appearance or your spouse....maybe all of the above. I imagine you aren't living up to your potential, and for that I feel bad for you. I also imagine you aren't financially satisfied, and for that I can relate.
      I wish you well. I hope you achieve everything you deserve in life.
      Karma suggests putting people down for their circumstances or beliefs ...that you know virtually nothing about.... won't have a positive impact on your life (quite possibly the exact opposite).
      It's just not good for the soul to be bitter and resentful.
      Be well.

  • @rachelx230484x
    @rachelx230484x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I could listen to your chats together allday. It's fascinating and so interesting to me!

  • @boqueronsocarrao696
    @boqueronsocarrao696 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This interview is the perfect example of how important it is to express your opinions with self confidence and solid oratory. Many of the points of view she lays down have no solid foundation or coherence, but she does it with no hesitation whatsoever that being the reason why most people watching this behold her with awe and cheer. If they took ten minutes to break her discourse down thoroughly they'd find out they disagree on so many points.

    • @genesises
      @genesises 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      yes and it's almost terrifying how effective it is.

    • @nattturner
      @nattturner 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree and she also takes any nuanced arguments as “hate”

  • @Octombrie1
    @Octombrie1 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like listening to Sadia. I think she's inteligent, beautiful, and blunt. I think her bluntness is the irritating element for some people, but i like it. She doesn't sugar-coat anything. This is what I really like and respect about her style on analysing a situation.

  • @carolcanny4778
    @carolcanny4778 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hello,
    Sadia is extremely knowledgeable on relationships and just PEOPLE in general and she’s EXTREMELY honest and insightful and simplifies the complexity of male female mindset and BEHAVIORS.
    Thank you SHARING for the greater good of ALL people !!!
    You are AMAZING !!!
    Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @FitnessBitness
    @FitnessBitness 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I so enjoyed this one. Mark, you gave me hope that there are still men out there who are really looking for the one, beautiful inside and out, with values and intelligence. So many men just settle or are blinded by the shiny object 💜

  • @evelynbarton6349
    @evelynbarton6349 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Flowers for her, gorgeous, articulate & special insight. ❤

  • @ReggieWynn15
    @ReggieWynn15 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Absolutely love this woman. She’s spot on and speaking the truth.

  • @darrenXparker
    @darrenXparker 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Relationships are so complex and there are so many variables, it’s impossible to just paint a broad stroke and cover everything.

    • @sj122s
      @sj122s 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bam... You hit the nail on the head.

    • @rdrenth
      @rdrenth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bam. That why she said that herself too repeatedly

    • @shiningstar5919
      @shiningstar5919 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Guess you're one of those porn addicts hey bud?!

  • @LHChristopher
    @LHChristopher 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love Sadia... She knows her topic and is honest about it... Stay Gold!!

  • @RosaRodriguez-rl6rd
    @RosaRodriguez-rl6rd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m just a normal person my mother’s caregiver. I find Sadia very interesting in her professional advice. I respect her. She’s a gorgeous woman who have so many people who do not like her because of her beautiful being and her smarts. I say continue what your doing 💪

  • @hooligan2569
    @hooligan2569 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes!! I tell this to my male friends a lot. You must have boundaries.

  • @hopecollins3961
    @hopecollins3961 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hey Mark, just a suggestion, how about interview a relationship therapist that doesn’t serve the top 1 percent? People that work their asses off all day every day and still find themselves needing help and wanting to make it work. Like people that go to work in scrubs or steel toed boots. I’m sure the insights would be completely different and more relatable for most.

  • @donnahserra3087
    @donnahserra3087 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for uploading this content, this not only brought me peace & comfort as a woman but an eye opening experience in my own personal relationships with others and myself :)

  • @VeronicaNicole4778
    @VeronicaNicole4778 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I like her. Strong women aren’t intimidated by other strong women. I learn a lot from her insight.

    • @theageofgoddess
      @theageofgoddess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @sadiapsychology
      @sadiapsychology 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @joyrn7663
      @joyrn7663 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎯

    • @VAL702
      @VAL702 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @belvedear6007
    @belvedear6007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Im only 5 minutes in, but i think listening to someone you "hate" or disagree with can actually be pretty beneficial. I follow and watch content from people who have very different views than me. Also, podcasts are definitely entertaining enough to play in the background. A therapist accusing one person of having an affair in a couples therapy setting is crazy. I dont know how to feel about thia conversation but i enjoyed listening anyway.

  • @kylekane5727
    @kylekane5727 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    love her, she's such a great voice of reason ...

  • @voice88out
    @voice88out 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As always fascinating episode! What I like the most is Mark engegment with sadia 👏👏👏

  • @LisaPiza
    @LisaPiza 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    When she said she watched doctor Phil every weekend that explained a lot. 😐

  • @sheepnomore8063
    @sheepnomore8063 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love her and her wealth of knowledge. I find everything she says to be true when it comes to my experiences.

  • @ellenselin1664
    @ellenselin1664 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Besides sex and service in a marriage, what about sharing conversations and mutual interest? How about intellect and personality as part of your attraction to your mate?

    • @michaelregan427
      @michaelregan427 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She doesn't talk about any of that. I've had long term relationships (not married) to girls ranging a little bit in beauty. You just click better with some people than others.
      Sadia makes a comment about how a man needs to love his woman slightly less than she loves him....ehhh you can love her just as much just know how to play the game a but. You can absolutely show vulnerability but you need to look like someone who could thrive even without them there. If a girl thinks you can do better than her, she won't want to leave you.
      Suggestion for men is to have a few strong male friends who also have gfs and be willing to talk about life and your experiences and help each other. You can absolutely be vulnerable to your woman but there is a time and a place.
      I was a college athlete and all of my friends were fit, good looking athletes. Saw almost all of my male friends cry over a girl, but then go do something positive for yourself and get your strength back.

    • @MC-iz7xv
      @MC-iz7xv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As long as your spouse doesn’t let them selves go and gain 50+ lbs

  • @YagirlGGxoxo
    @YagirlGGxoxo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is literally mesmerising and love her outlook on life

  • @thetsummer
    @thetsummer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Didn’t know about her until she started showing up on your channel I like what she has to say! ✅

  • @Solitaire427
    @Solitaire427 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! Her explanation about the women liking the man more than he likes you was great. Such a great point as to why that works better. I always thought it was the other way around.

  • @ImranAnsari1234
    @ImranAnsari1234 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    She is all over the place, 5 of my best podcast shows hosted her in the last 6 days.

    • @sarahalderman3126
      @sarahalderman3126 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Gee, I wonder why🤣

    • @jw.posey71
      @jw.posey71 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She said at the beginning she was in the US to work. She’s probably going from show to show like meetings

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are you saying that like it's something negative?

    • @rachelrae860
      @rachelrae860 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@leneo1731 she's speaking way to fast and this is my opinion but anyone can spew what she's saying. She's all over the place

    • @Mr-Angelo0U812
      @Mr-Angelo0U812 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rachelrae860i very much agree

  • @Chief_KP
    @Chief_KP 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of the best interviews on this channel…Heavenly Father please protect this woman and her family by any and all means and measures! Amen!!

  • @CitizenChemical
    @CitizenChemical 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am not into islam or Dubai or whatever.. but she is SO spot on everytime! Knowing she is muslim but has this clear objective view of how the world works at a relationship level in 2024, everything she says is just the hard truth. I separated for the reasons a woman should separate. She confirmed that i did the right thing so my ex can at least find someone that fits better with him now. But my God how I don't want to get back into dating anymore in this decade 😕 I agree to focus on a career.

    • @MosmMAli
      @MosmMAli หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why not ponder and think and envision the wide wonderful world

  • @lauragibb6014
    @lauragibb6014 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm halfway through the video and I love Sadia. She's pretty spot on on most of what she says and I could look at her all day 😂

  • @sonyamason4303
    @sonyamason4303 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Love this woman! Thanks for having her again . ❤️ Great insight on human behavior.

  • @gelatosworld
    @gelatosworld 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love her perspective I can’t see why people hate her 🧐🤍❗️

  • @tt-redd
    @tt-redd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    What is with all the comments saying "she is talking too fast" "she talks to much?"
    Like she is in an interview for one. She is answering questions! Lol
    She is also listening and responding. Talking fast is also natural for alot of us women. Lol like some people just talk like that.. its not nefarious or evil... its just anxious energy and lots to say in a short period of time. I think ya'll are just used to strungout druggies falling asleep in interviews. Haha.
    She is def jaded but I actually like her overall and she had some very real, honest and good takes on things. Communication, honesty and compatability are very very important.

    • @theageofgoddess
      @theageofgoddess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She speaks just fine and is very on point, people are just jealous because she’s both hot and smart 😂

    • @Mr-Angelo0U812
      @Mr-Angelo0U812 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like 4x 🙃

    • @KareSmith433
      @KareSmith433 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @tt-redd Well said! I talk fast too & you explained it well. I think some people may need more time to process each word. All these negative comments, you can tell they pretty much enjoy it, & most likely is the only time they comment. I've been watching for 11 minutes & agree with everything she's said so far.

    • @Mr-Angelo0U812
      @Mr-Angelo0U812 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KareSmith433 boo boo bee doo. Have a decent weekend

  • @Forheavenssake1ify
    @Forheavenssake1ify 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So surprised you've found social media has a negativity bias! (the tendency to focus on negative information or aspects of a person, leading to harsher judgments and critical perceptions)

  • @Jdiggler100
    @Jdiggler100 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Sadia Khan is amazing with her sharing of knowledge and insights. Thanks for having her Mark.

    • @theageofgoddess
      @theageofgoddess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯🙏🏽🕊️

    • @Gram820
      @Gram820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅

  • @Luxuryfoodexpert
    @Luxuryfoodexpert 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    her husband is saudi, common now, shes literally speaking to clients who have done the same thing she hs done, bagged herself a wealthy guy.

    • @dainty3254
      @dainty3254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How do you know her husband?

    • @VAL702
      @VAL702 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You just proved her point! People that are intimidated or triggered by her will try to diminish her qualifications, her lifestyle, her appearance. Thank you for confirming her theory.😂

  • @atrainexpress0110
    @atrainexpress0110 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was a great interview. I’ve listened to it twice

  • @Spaceymusicusa
    @Spaceymusicusa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This woman is speaking nothing but facts
    People who disagree just lack knowledge and/or experience in dating wide ranges of people

  • @Jimmydawhite
    @Jimmydawhite 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can honestly say that no matter what, if you are not meant to be together, it becomes a one sided story, always trying and never happy

  • @rapanuiamerica
    @rapanuiamerica 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Hahaha...she is 💯 accurate. She's gorgeous, intelligent, witty, charming and probably rich. Of course she is threatening to those that are insercure.

    • @rapanuiamerica
      @rapanuiamerica 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been thinking on this and I've decided on the female front maybe more like 99% right..in my opinion 😁

    • @katherinenekrasov4209
      @katherinenekrasov4209 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Totally agree ! Most people feel better with messed up people but she’s well put together and gorgeous ! Good for her we need to see more of that as an example .

    • @shiningstar5919
      @shiningstar5919 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely 💯 spot on!! Humans are so insecure.

  • @VIP-ry6vv
    @VIP-ry6vv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like her. Glad the audio quality is better in part 3

  • @FirstLast-cd6vv
    @FirstLast-cd6vv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Regarding the criticism: she doesn't have a doctorate in psychology, period. Anyone without a doctorate can label themselves as a "therapist" or "psychotherapist", but they are almost never granted the title of "psychologist". It can also be argued that without this woman's looks, she wouldn't have any popularity at all.

    • @Liz-uj2ot
      @Liz-uj2ot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's semi correct. Every state is different. In NY if one has their master's degree in psychology someone can be licensed/practice as a psychologist. Many years of challenging, rather hard requirements and board certifications. Every year. 😊 Hope that helps

    • @VAL702
      @VAL702 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just admit that you’re jealous of her and move on😂😂😂

    • @dr.andmrs.phibes7454
      @dr.andmrs.phibes7454 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@VAL702 I think that she's beautiful and brilliant. I don't see a darn thing to hate on. However, the discussion about her credentials is both interesting and relevant.

  • @meganbotterill
    @meganbotterill 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this is a great interview! Shared it with my daughters.

  • @quandaharding2977
    @quandaharding2977 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Hello fellow 99%. She said she is talking about the 1 %. Thats not us. So shhhhhh 1%ers are talking. Just take notes and move on.

  • @Besua18643
    @Besua18643 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mind is in one place and one place only! Getting a partner is almost impossible, than staying true and faithful is under so much attack now, not fashionable even. Excellent talk, thank you very much.

  • @UserName-iq7uu
    @UserName-iq7uu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sadia is proof you can be beautiful and intelligent simultaneously. Very well said 💜

  • @matt_milack
    @matt_milack 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Man, what wouldn't I do to be that delusional to think that every time someone is disagreeing with me he/she is hurt and triggered by what I'm saying because everything I say is absolute truth.

    • @sarahalderman3126
      @sarahalderman3126 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So true! 😂 How convenient😉

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But here you are. So, did you spend the entire time listening to her? What are your credentials? Because you seem to think that she is delusional. I wonder what criterion you rely upon for your assessment.

    • @Fireproofwitchnz
      @Fireproofwitchnz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@joanofarcxxi you're her with a fake profile.

    • @matt_milack
      @matt_milack 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@joanofarcxxi Read my comment over and over again. Maybe you'll get it. Since, based on what you wrote, you didn't.

    • @smegheadGOAT
      @smegheadGOAT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1:49 to 1:54

  • @josheionjenkins2254
    @josheionjenkins2254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    AS A SUCCESSFUL 35 YEAR OLD MAN LIVING IN LOS ANGELES. SHE’S CORRECT ABOUT EVERYTHING. IDK WHY ALOT OF PEOPLE IN THE COMMENTS ARE IN DENIAL OR Delusional. MAYBE YOU ALL ARE NO SUCCESSFUL OR NOT GETTIN ANY SEX. BUT SHES RIGHT ABOUT IT ALLL

    • @nhlibra
      @nhlibra 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Haha. You're probably right. My son is one year younger than you and lives in So Cal with a successful career. TBH, the last place he would be is in this comment section. Not picking on you, hope you understand. His mother is here, after all!

    • @acstarr6609
      @acstarr6609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed, as a woman listening. She makes a lot of sense.

    • @OrlanduHolySwordsman
      @OrlanduHolySwordsman 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      99% of people are not in the 1% so no we cannot relate to most of shzt she's pushing.

    • @Gram820
      @Gram820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Why do you need to comment in all caps? What you said isn't important.

    • @nhlibra
      @nhlibra 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Gram820
      Some people have eyesight problems. Are you the TH-cam police or something? Or just a critical "old crusty".

  • @CharleneNagel
    @CharleneNagel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sadia is truly outstanding! I just wish she would slow down in her responses. She has so much valuable information to share.

  • @TaterTots380
    @TaterTots380 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    She is not a Psychologist by any means but a good content creator. It is quite misleading for her to conduct expensive "therapy" sessions with clients just because she can. This certainly borders practicing medicine/mental health without a license. Not sure how this is regulated in UAE but there is a reason she doesn't have a mainstream website. She is basically charging people for her opinion.
    She makes general claims on relationships “as a psychologist” without providing any sources or valid studies and tries to paint men and women in very black and white sense. No certified, practicing psychologist is allowed to do that.
    Her rhetoric is harmful. She should not be allowed to fake her credentials, isn’t that illegal?

  • @teresaspringer1105
    @teresaspringer1105 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another insightful interview! Thank you!

  • @michaelwhitaker5882
    @michaelwhitaker5882 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    apparently the "haters" do not like her exposing them for what they are.

    • @joyrn7663
      @joyrn7663 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @NasreenUS
    @NasreenUS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this ❤, makes sense with my journey and the inconsistencies I have experienced.

  • @smmv8672
    @smmv8672 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    what are these comments?? all i can say from this. THANK YOU FOR BRINGING HER. THANK YOU MARK FOR THIS.

  • @Saint_Darius
    @Saint_Darius 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Judging by what she said in the first 2 minutes, she’s basically trying to brand herself as female Kevin Samuels who only talks to rich people so she can get paid by rich people.

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And what's wrong with that?

    • @teniawhite3567
      @teniawhite3567 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So FREAKIN What ...🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@leneo1731who said there is anything wrong with it?

  • @missymason2377
    @missymason2377 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol lol I'm inspired. I'm listening ....amazing
    New Zealand 🇳🇿

  • @AnaFernandez-jp5uh
    @AnaFernandez-jp5uh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I agree with Sadia, men are more interested in a woman's physical attraction and are not paying attention to her qualities. And yes, overweight men think they can get a Barbie type woman. I have dealt with this personally and professionally. You have to ask, what are you bringing to the relationship minus money? Silence.

  • @Onnitfan1
    @Onnitfan1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another home run interview. Two guest suggestions: John Joseph McGowan and Mark Sisson.

  • @Gram72534
    @Gram72534 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    20:28 good Mark just called bs!!! Hopefully he realizes how wrong her theorys are!

  • @tinawilliams919
    @tinawilliams919 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's there not to trust ❤❤,here is a human being who speaks straight from the core ,truth, and honesty from a perspective that can be truly beneficial for one's needs and listen attentively .

  • @jujujouet7944
    @jujujouet7944 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I wish that I'd listened to a Joan Baez interview instead of wasting my time listening to her. She choses to focus on appearance and success instead of the beautiful world that we exist in. Joan Baez uplifts while Sadia's mundane view on love left me rather depressed and uninspired.

    • @Flamingolif3
      @Flamingolif3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ok
      I don't agree but I've been laughing for the last 20 minutes about Joan Baez.

    • @82dexy
      @82dexy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Reality bites

    • @champfisk5613
      @champfisk5613 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The thing we have to prove is that she is lying about Beauty. There is a window for it but is she lying?

    • @dr.andmrs.phibes7454
      @dr.andmrs.phibes7454 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw Joan Baez sing at Reverend Cecil Williams' memorial service in San Francisco a few months ago. You have just prompted me to go back to listen to some of her music.

  • @BlessedDivinely
    @BlessedDivinely 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    21:19 “I just make it clear that I am the best possible option in her life”. 👏👏👏👏👏 POP YOUR COLLAR MARK!!! 💯🥳

    • @joyrn7663
      @joyrn7663 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesss, I loved it!

  • @dinerosuave
    @dinerosuave 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She’s right. I delt with my fair share of women and from
    A sales background I could read people in a sec so I understand what she’s saying well. It all makes sense. Essentially the drake part the 1% really don’t care bout all that wife stuff. It’s the average people on salary which I’m in that position for now. Looking for a wife but honestly not no more it’s slowly fading becoming career focused

  • @bekahdoug5572
    @bekahdoug5572 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Does he REALLY have time to talk about her day, or what's been going on?"
    Ma'am......Hhhwhat??!!! A man should NOT be in a relationship if he has no time to bother providing his partner any emotional nutrition.
    I'm not a hater. I think she has some great insight, but I ALSO think that to say she's "jaded" by men and their actions is disingenuous considering she makes excuse after excuse for men and their actions in the same breath.
    Also; Why do women have to be bimbos JUST because they're beautiful, they dance/escort, or they (it happens) fall in love with a rich older man??

    • @ddz1375
      @ddz1375 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      'Excuses' can be converted to reasons. There is nothing wrong with a woman playing to their strengths and using their existing assets advantageously. Not everyone can be a boss botch.

    • @ddz1375
      @ddz1375 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sometimes 'excuses' are really reasons. A woman using her assets advantageously to advance themselves is just a survival tactic. Not everyone can be a boss bitch or a wifey. Play to your strengths

  • @sebestyenszaby
    @sebestyenszaby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It would be interesting to listen to her talking about the modern day relationships, terms like: situationship, swingers, poly, ...

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.197 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This gal is beautiful, intelligent, kind, and sweet by nature I feel

  • @tlaffs
    @tlaffs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow., your knowledge and honesty and TH-cam would have been of great asset 35 years ago. Could've saved myself a lot of stress and nonsense.. Great stuff..🌹

  • @MilahanPhilosophersCorner
    @MilahanPhilosophersCorner 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lots of great points.