Yep, with that kind of severe trauma going on it’s easy to see why she’s ended up with such severe food issues. To her, food is comfort, it’s acceptance, it numbs the pain. Figuratively stuffing her pain back in via the food. I’m working through a compulsive binge eating disorder of my own and there’s no way I (or the vast majority of people) could do this without the skills of a therapist who knows exactly what they’re doing when it comes to food issues. It’s a long, difficult process. I really hope she can find a healthier way to process her trauma.
It happens🤷🏼♀️... Not absurd, seems over in the U.S., people don't receive mental health help, presumably because you have to pay for it in the U.S... it's called generational trauma for a reason. Just because you know you have generational trauma, doesn't mean you have the tools to change it. That's what mental health services are for and if the U.S. doesn't offer it (unless the user pays by being billed) then, it results in instances such as Candy. It's not hard to use your brain for a minute before making a comment.
my mother... except she chose what trauma she wanted to pass on, so how does that work? 🙄 just proves she can change the narrative if it suits her and if she wanted to. im a middle child and i was ignored and neglected my entire childhood. my family were wealthy but you wouldn't think so by looking at me. i never got any clothes or shoes. life was hell. yet my parents never went without. they haven't changed to this day.
@@lottiecashMy mom tried, I really believe that she did, although her resources and capacity to do so thoroughly were extremely limited. She knew that there was an underlying problem within her because of her childhood. And now I am that second generation of change and healing, and I do believe that I am and will continue to be successful in the complete breaking of my family curses. I can see the results of my work, in my incredible children ❤
@roaming725 👏👏👏 to this comment! Frankly I have zero sympathy for an adult that abandons their children for their own selfish narcissistic nature. Idgaf HOW much trauma you went through as a child, you suck it up and raise your OWN with love and kindness. She's had more money and opportunities then the majority of her "supporters". she knows exactly what she is doing, and yet even at this age when she could be there for her kids, she chooses to live a pretend big life in NV. Brags about how she's done adult content, making a living off fetishism but can't be bothered to be a mother? And don't say "she doesn't have the tools", that's an excuse. She could afford to have therapy in her own apartment or on ZOOM calls. Yet she spends all her money stuffing herself for views. pfft 🙄 telling everyone she was the product of a one time sexual encounter on a motorcycle....sure sure. You're special, you're a "star" alright. The truth is you're not that special, you're just another you tube wanna be, preying on people for sympathy & cash. A dime a dozen all supported by GOOGLE for ads and revenue. Move along folks, find something else to do with your $$.
Jesus it broke my heart when she was describing what she was like as a little kid, and how her grandparents had to nurse her back to health and her behaviour was “feral”, then saying she felt ashamed of that. It wasn’t her fault, the sheer neglect she suffered would’ve done that to any child. She wasn’t a ‘holy terror’ she was a sweet baby who was hurting beyond words
She's 45 already. When does one move tf on from trauma? Sometimes you gotta toughen up and say enough is enough. Everyone has trauma to deal with. Move tf on
@@Astral-up yes, everyone has trauma; but not everyone has the sheer level of trauma and neglect she did. Do you know that neglect changes the way a child’s brain develops on a very physical, real level? Did you know that it actually makes several areas of the brain never grow/develop to the size they’re meant to be? Coupled with the addiction that clearly runs in her family, of which scientists and doctors agree that *is* a disease - it’s not as simple as “it’s a choice” - every day is going to be a struggle for someone who’s been through all that. I’ve been through my fair share of childhood trauma, and while I would appear to function better than Candy in some ways the truth is that the ways I struggle to function just aren’t as obvious as hers. Yes we all need to pull our pants up and get on with our lives, but it isn’t as easy as you make it sound and the way you speak just lets me know you don’t understand trauma on the most basic scientific level tbh.
@@Ausgar-yc1ylno, she didn’t leave them alone in a trailer and starve them. She didn’t take care of them the way she should’ve no, but she at least gave them to someone who could. That’s actually quite a brave choice for a parent to make, and in a way far more selfless than keeping your kids and not being what they need. Her children’s grandparents didn’t find them alone half dead - that’s worlds away.
@@SideCharacter12303 She was a horrible mother, her kids want nothing to do with her. Food was more important to her. That is disgusting. We have 5 adult kids, two biological and 3 adopted, and nothing could ever come before our kids.
A common denominator for Candy, Nickacado Avocado, Amberlyn, & Chantal is that they were all failed by their parents/caregivers & passed off as someone else's responsibility in the prime of their lives when they were most vulnerable. Early childhood trauma literally rewires your brain development, which has lifelong consequences. *Edit:* Misspelling
Sorry--how does Chantal fit into that group? She didn't have a perfect home life? Goodness me! And here I didn't realize I and everyone I know could also be 410 pounds!
@tinywalnut6337 her mother was young and her grandmother raised her. She was sat in front of a TV because her grandmother was severely depressed and was in bed all day (all her words)
So many of us have been horribly abused. I have struggled with anorexia for years. But for my kids and because I’m dying of a disease but when I got help, my disease is better and my kids had an amazing life and still do. Get help. Man
@D-jj5dy I don’t care. I merely said she uses food as something that’s always gonna be there. She’s abusing food but it’s not gonna turn its back on her.
@D-jj5dy you're blaming her as a child who was so neglected she was left entirely alone in a trailer so malnourished her belly was distended, and describing her as entitled for being traumatised for that?? As a CHILD????
After kindergarten one day, drying the dishes for my Mother, I asked her what was the greatest thing she ever wished for. We had been told in class to ask our Mothers. She replied "I Wished that when I found out I was pregnant with you, that abortions were legal, because I would have got one with you." Many of us have traumas like this. I was in therapy that I chose to go to, for over 10 years. Today, at 75, I have finally went from 400 plus pounds to my current weight of 265. My goal is to get to 150, if God sees fit to let me. I have forgiven those in my past, but had to wait until I was 74 to start my final journey. My prayer, after Jen's passing, is that Candy, Chantal, Amberlynn Reid and ALL the overweight, unfit Gorls in GorlWorld, lose weight before 70 something. They have their whole lives ahead of them....
@@LisaW509 ...Lia, how my heart goes out to you. No child or adult should ever face hearing that. I just had my sister leave me in a huff, because I am seeing a psychiatrist to get off a pescribed Xanax given to me when I was married and only 27. My body flew into an anxiety state of panic attacks that landed me in the ER. I was prescribed that and have had a psychiatrist ever since. I live with an autistic partner, who I am learning all about living wit someone you love with autism. She has helped me a lot in the ast but this afternoon completely blamed me for everything in my life, even things she doesn't know about, but adored our Mother. She started undermining my partner and his are I am over. I nicely started telling her that Vincent & I am in the process of working together, and we are following a different path than what she thought should be happeneing. She is 70 and I am 75. I am in shock because she told me off and said fine, she's out of my life, and m partner can't ven talk. If you ever need to talk, my email is in my channel About page. Love and many hugs to you and your family. I'll pray for you...
Your story touched my heart, I am so sorry she inflicted those words upon you. Have you gathered memories, skills and experiences to smile at when you look back on your life when you are in your 90s? If not, go get some now, it is never too late. 🩵
I am sorry to hear that she had such a horrible childhood and understand why she is addicted to food. But that is no excuse to abandon her own children for porn and mukbangs. I hate when people use a bad childhood as an excuse to treat their own children bad.
Yes, I can have sympathy for Candy for what she went through, but when you have chiIdren, it's time to get over it, get heIp, whatever you have to so you don't do the same things that made you broken, to your own chiIdren. None of us is perfect, but we owe it to our offspring to do our best and never give up.
@@metalmamasue3680 People who have never been damaged by trauma always seem to think getting over it is always possible. We understand how people on welfare can't buy their kids nice cars for their sixteenth birthday but somehow neglected kids are supposed to pull a bunch of the love and nurturing energy out of thin air when they don't have it for themselves and never had it from others. And judgemental people like you are certainly not the exception to the toxic social environment these people grew up in.
I used to watch Nikocado Avocado at some point during the first few months of the pandemic. He's such a menace but he was truly sweet and kind to her whenever they were together. Such a difference in character to his usual videos.
@yunhoiswithmern I think he can see/understand that she's a really sensitive person who unlike alot of youtubers, isn't malicious. She doesn't put on a nice facade like amberlynn or Chantal.
@kosmicinclinations3333 agreed! Did you see one of his videos where he said he was going stop doing amberlynn impersonations and kind of went on a tangent about prioritizing his health? It was a while ago but I think he lost some weight to prove he meant it.
Snowflake, this is really well-done. I love the vintage vibe you achieved with the filters and clips. Reminds me of a very tragic Lana del Rey music video.
Yup. Generational trauma carried on and on. She would need to be self aware and not self absorbed to stop that with her daughter. Some people hold on to their trauma so much and then turn around and do the same thing.
Whoa, this one hit me so differently than ALR or Boogie. I did not know she was an Adult entertainer nor did I realize her childhood was so incredibly gut wrenching. I think she also has severe guilt over not participating in her children’s upbringing. This was so sad 😞
Candy abandoned her 2 very small children cause mentals. Never went and got help for said mentals. Instead she got into adult work and mukbangs. Hence her grown children have nothing to do with her. Dont let her fool you
This new series just has a very different feel to it than the series on Amberlynn or Jenn. Once again, I’m left wondering how I actually feel about Candy’s story. You really do evoke so many emotions and thoughts with your content, Snowflake, and that’s neither simple nor easy to do. Great work, as always. ♥️
Darn you @@MrSnowflake ! Can't you do ONE where they overcome their issues to live a happy/satisfying life? 🤔 maybe they don't show up on TH-cam and just live their lives. Food for thought. A begrudging thanks for the doc
Never knew a YT vid called “Hungry Fat Chick Living on Borrowed Time” could be so poignant, compassionate and striking. Good work Mr Snowflake. Good work.
I turn 45 on Monday, and my parents and all my grandparents have been deceased for years. Her speaking about her age, family being gone, as she looks as she does and eating a dozen donuts…..and the clock ticking… It was so ominous and morbid to hear. Her justification for her behavior is little more than lip service to herself. It’s not for us, it’s her trying to reconcile her own cognitive dissonance. Her life is unique and precious, just as every human life is. I wish I could make her believe that too. She needs intensive therapy so badly. It’s not too late if you are above ground. It’s not.
I feel so bad for Candy. She truly had a horrible childhood. I was surprised she had 2 children. I am also glad she has a relationship with her children. That's so important. I hope Candy can get healthy. She is over 50 yrs old now. She won't last much longer. You rarely see super morbidly obese people past 50. I truly hope she can lose weight and feel better about herself.
What’s super scary about men who fetishize big women is that it goes far beyond a sexual/romantic preference. I find it disturbing when any kind of toxic behavior is encouraged, and let’s be clear: we are not talking about men who happen to love big women. We are talking about men who are actively objectifying and exploiting women at the expense of their own health and lives for the men’s gratification and pleasure. That isn’t love, that’s just sick. I hope Candy is able to find peace. ❤️
Yep, feeders and anorexia fetishists are two sides of the same coin. They like to see women fat/skinny because it limits the women's ability to do things for themselves or be independent human beings ☹️
I understand she had a ton of trauma as a child but she then revisited that trauma on her own kids by abandoning them, so it’s pretty hard for me to find a lot of sympathy for her. I don’t blame the daughter for not speaking to her, and I hope both of them are in serious therapy.
No sympathy here either. With My Childhood trauma, I vowed never to allow My child to feel alone, unwanted, unloved, questioning her exsistance, etc. All this one did was repeat the cycle. Absolutely heartbreaking (for the children).
Beautiful editing Snowflake!! I have so much empathy for Candy, she seems like such a sweet person even though she was dealt just an awful hand in life 😢
@@twerktospecEmpathy means putting yourself in someone's shoes to see life from their perspective. Sympathy is feeling sorry for a person's situation. The two aren't necessarily mutually exclusive.
@@ohemdoublegee exactly. I said empathy because I also had a rough childhood so I can understand a bit of what she’s went through. Definitely not to that extent but I understand the abandonment and ab-e.
@@Jen-Chapin she lies, everything she says is made up, she said her mother has 9 abortions shes an addict they look for sympathy so they can continue with their addiction and be supported.
Okay, the way she talks about her kids is such a red flag for me. Singing the praises of her son while brushing off her daughter, saying negative things about herself as a child and then saying her daughter is just like she was. It’s giving golden child.
Agreed. It’s really creepy. A lot of times mothers see their daughters as extensions of their younger selves, and when you hate yourself, you likely won’t see your daughter well. Hope she can break the cycle regardless.
Lies never end with her. Past videos, she has said she has no relationship with her children. Great childhood with her grandparents. Then she reverts to poor me. Feel sorry for me. Ultimate narcissist.
She's had a really traumatic upbringing. When kids are abused their brains don't physically form correctly. Im not excusing her actions but it may be that she doesn't realise she's repeating the same things that were done to her. It's generational trauma in action and it's why abuse and addiction is more likely to run in families. Also she clearly does love both of her children, but her daughter doesn't want as much to do with her as her son. There's nothing wrong with that. She's aware she's done them wrong you can tell in her voice.
Good job putting this together Mr. Snowflake. I find Candy to be a very likable person and honestly a bit relatable. I had high hopes when she was eating better and losing weight and saddened that she has resorted back to unhealthy food.
This style of editing is honestly very moving. Hearing them tell their own morbid story and all the videos that they have published online, it just really shows how much people have put their lives out there on the internet. I absolutely binged in about a week the Jen and Amberlynn series, your content is a must watch when I see it posted. I hope this channel grows exponentially it really deserves it!
I used to live just behind the container park and would walk home from work past there on Fremont every night. It was my least favorite part of the whole walk. I was my thinnest as an adult during that time and I’d still cringe and worry someone would yell at me to get on the scale or say something rude as I walked by.
Man I started watching the ALR series cuz it was funny and snarky but each new doc you put out is better than the last. You're definitely one of the best on the platform!
I had to turn off life support for my baby sister who, at the age of 54 died after a quintuple bypass was unsuccessful. She wasn't THIS big, but between being overweight and not taking care of her diabetes (caused by her weight)- She went in for surgery and never woke up. I'm sorry she had a horrible childhood- lots of us did- she's now an adult and she knows what she's doing is wrong. I don't know how much sympathy I can have for someone who knows what they're doing and just doesn't care. She needs to wake up, before she never wakes up again.
The problem is that when you're "in the hole", the hole doesn’t seem like a hole, but home. Even if you don't like "your home", most people find it hard to "emigrate" once they find a certain level of comfort, unless they’re being assisted at gunpoint/threat of *imminent* death.
Not to spoil anything but she lost 60lbs over the Summer after a health scare. Of course, making videos of her buckling down and doing the right thing didn't generate enough revenue. So she's trying to do both now by limiting the binge eating to one meal a day so it doesn't exceed her calorie limitation. All fine and good but it's like any addict saying "I'll just do a little."
That shooting star analogy is absolutely soul crushing. I also had no idea about anything other than her muck content. This poor woman. Such a sweet soul, she deserves more.
I never knew all this about Candy, bless her heart, she's really had a tough life, the reason for her food addiction, it's not what she's eating, it's what's eating her, truly sad, excellent content as always, Mr. Snowflake!
This woman is wasting her life eating and dwelling on her past. I don’t understand why these women don’t see that their life is slipping away. It is sad..
The same thing that separates Candy from the rest of these people is the same thing that makes her downfall so horrible to watch. She is a good person. She is sweet, likable, and never says a bad word about anybody. Unfortunately, her traumatic past gets in her way just like the rest of them. I really can't dislike Candy. She is the product of bad luck, bad decisions, and bad coping skills. I really wish her the best. But just like all of them, our best wishes won't fix them They ultimately ha e to do it for themselves.
@D-jj5dy adult life sure but childhood was terrible. That kind of abuse affects how you act as a result. She is 100% the way she is because of her past, and because of the fact she hasn't found a productive way to heal from it.
Out of all the DeathFats, Candy has always struck a chord with me & I had a feeling her story was more sad than ALR’s or Chantal’s - I think she even surpasses the sadness of LifeByJenn. I actually think HFC is more complex because of her honesty & self awareness & the fact she takes accountability - she knows she’s eating her feelings, whereas ALR & Chantal are deeply unaware & hollow shells of humans in denial- Candy is altruistically self-aware & owns up to *all* responsibility - she knows she’s on borrowed time coming from a broken home soothing herself with food - she blames herself even when it was not her fault.
I recently came across your channel. I’m surprised you don’t have followers in the millions! The effort you put into your content is superb! Instead of being a grifter who commentates on others content/work for their own content (like many popular TH-camrs), you actually take the time to absorb your subjects to create unique high-quality content. Kudos!
The story of her childhood is hitting so incredibly close to home for me. I don’t work exclusively/specifically with high-trauma kids, but I serve the youth of a city that seems to be 80% trauma and just wants to destroy anything positive before it can even exist, and SEVERAL of my kids have been/are still the type of “feral” she describes. I’ve worked my current job for three years and have already had four kids who spent their entire lives locked in closets. Over 90% of the kids in this city don’t know when they’ll get to eat if they don’t have school. When you have these kids and know their situations, you can’t help but load them up with food and love any time you can. We work VERY hard to not use food as a reward or comfort measure, but you never know what associations their little malnourished brains will make. I never imagined any of my kids might grow up to feel guilty about putting a burden on the people who love them enough to take them in. This is a horrible revelation for me that I’m really going to have to think about. I’m so, so terribly sorry she feels that way, and I hope she can come to a place where she understands that they CHOSE to take her on because they loved her. Very few people continue to keep kids like that. They were clearly beautiful people, and regardless of her weight or trauma, the fact that she’s alive, speaking, and has the human empathy to feel guilty is a testament to how much care they put into her.
I actually had a bit of a cry and said out loud that "it was not your fault". Not the fact that she got feral or that she "took her grandparents' golden years". They decided to take her in. Heartbreaking.
The shame goes so bone deep it becomes part of your DNA, part of your every breath. I'm a lot better than I once was, but I still struggle. I'm a few decades older than Candy and my upbringing was similar but not the same. Cptsd is a real bitch and a half. I absolutely see the spark in Candy that, if she can find it, will lead her out of hell. Then again, I haven't seen part 3. Oh that Snowflake.
The cycle of abuse never ends if you don't do something about it. She seems like a lovely person. I had a horrific childhood as well. But i ended that cycle. I don't have kids ( my choice). Childhood trauma will mess you up. 😢 Thanks for being a decent human being . And sharing these videos with love and respect. 💙💙 Stay safe out there everyone . Be kind .
Candy is unlike Nick, Amber or Chantal, my heart breaks for her, she is a sweet, kind person, who is actively harming herself, I wish her nothing but happiness. I have to say, your username can be deceiving, as you manage to really speak about these people's stories with humanity and compassion, not to mention great filmography, and amazing editing skills.
Amazing work as always, @Mr Snowflake. See, this is what Big Amber doesn't understand. Sure, Candy has her detractors but in the main, people like her because she's honest and has a vulnerable and pleasant personality. It's not about her weight. I feel for Candy. I'm a slim woman and always have been, but I share many of her mental disorders and daily life is a struggle. Her coping mechanism just happens to be an unhealthy one, i.e. food.
I wish you many subscribers, you deserve them for the hard and great work you do, this is like watching a full documentary, thank you so much for this video
Life of Jen broke my heart but this one is really freaking killing me. You are gonna make me cry soon the way youre gathering and taking the time to piece together their stories.
Wow, when you see her weigh in at 404 lbs at the size she was, and you realize AmberLynn weighs almost 200 lbs MORE...that really puts it in perspective how difficult it would be to get that size
I’m being honest, but being an extremely abused, neglected child, I did all I could to protect my kids so they didn’t ever ever feel the way I did. How can she do this to her kids?? It makes me upset that so many are fighting for their lives who have diseases, cancer, etc….I have a disease called gastroparesis. My nutrition is thru a tube and TPN. But I have anorexia due to my past. But my kids needed me. So I got help and once that was better, my disease got better as well. Today, I have to keep that balance to stay alive for my kids. Get help. It’s a choice.
The style you went with on this one is genius! I (and the rest of your viewers, I am sure) appreciate you mixing it up and always keeping it original. A million thanks!!
@MR SNOWFLAKE your documentaries are so powerful. I just watched your life of jen one recently I didn't know who she was before that . But it is still playing in my mind. Thank you for making these .
Thank you Mr Snowflake for another great documentary series! You have been so productive lately, please take care of yourself and try to rest when you need to!
I agree with a previous comment about switching between different styles. From the vintage black and white film style to the different filters you used. I wanted to share my story in the hopes it will help Candy or someone else. I had gastric bypass surgery in 2009. I wanted to lose another 50, but didn’t get there. But I don’t regret it a bit and have managed to maintain my loss after all these years. Yo-yo dieting is how I gained so much weight. Once I decided not to diet anymore and just add more activity, I stopped gaining weight. After all this time after the surgery, I still can’t eat a whole chicken breast. I was really rooting for Candy in her weight loss and along with so many others, was disappointed. The surgery is not a cure, but a tool and you have to work with it. But someone who has as much to lose as Candy, my opinion is she could benefit from the surgery along with intensive counseling for past trauma. Good luck girl, and thank you Snowflake! Great job, just miss your sexy voice! ❄️❤️
i had to skip out on the life by jen episodes because they made me really sad for her and the fact she's gone. i'll definitely be waiting on these episodes for candy,because i can't understand why she does this to herself. i know she's been through a lot too,i just don't know the full story. so hopefully this can help me better understand why she does the things she does. thanks,snowflake. brilliant work as always.
Your documentaries are simply Top Knotch! I think it's the overall attention to sound design that does it for me. The right moods, the right subtle audial effects, the proper vocal balancing. Really, really superb!! 🙏 Thanks & Cheers! 🍺🍻🍺
Commenting for engagement. Your documentaries are amazing. Making sure I don't skip through the videos so you can get those coins. Keep up the amazing work.
couldn't stop crying when she was talking about her childhood. poor woman. she suffered so much at such a young age. despite all of that, she's still got a lovely smile and personality. 😢 i hope she gets the help she needs asap...
It's sad that her son encourages and enables her self-destructive lifestyle and I don't blame her daughter for distancing herself from this train wreck.
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Candy thinking her life doesn't matter because she was never supposed to be born has to be one of the most deeply saddening things I've heard.
Yeah it's rough. She will need extensive long term therapy to undo this mindset if ever. 💖
The shooting star analogy made me cry. Absolutely soul crushing. This poor woman.
Yep, with that kind of severe trauma going on it’s easy to see why she’s ended up with such severe food issues. To her, food is comfort, it’s acceptance, it numbs the pain. Figuratively stuffing her pain back in via the food. I’m working through a compulsive binge eating disorder of my own and there’s no way I (or the vast majority of people) could do this without the skills of a therapist who knows exactly what they’re doing when it comes to food issues. It’s a long, difficult process. I really hope she can find a healthier way to process her trauma.
No its not. It's just stupidity and feeling sorry for themselves.
@@cadavher what was the shooting star analogy? I watched the whole video but I might have missed that part
I can't comprehend parents that recognize generational trauma, complain about how much it hurt, and then go on to do it to their own kids. Absurd.
It happens🤷🏼♀️... Not absurd, seems over in the U.S., people don't receive mental health help, presumably because you have to pay for it in the U.S... it's called generational trauma for a reason. Just because you know you have generational trauma, doesn't mean you have the tools to change it. That's what mental health services are for and if the U.S. doesn't offer it (unless the user pays by being billed) then, it results in instances such as Candy.
It's not hard to use your brain for a minute before making a comment.
my mother... except she chose what trauma she wanted to pass on, so how does that work? 🙄 just proves she can change the narrative if it suits her and if she wanted to. im a middle child and i was ignored and neglected my entire childhood. my family were wealthy but you wouldn't think so by looking at me. i never got any clothes or shoes. life was hell. yet my parents never went without. they haven't changed to this day.
it usually takes about two generations - putting in effort - to remove generational trauma
@@lottiecashMy mom tried, I really believe that she did, although her resources and capacity to do so thoroughly were extremely limited. She knew that there was an underlying problem within her because of her childhood. And now I am that second generation of change and healing, and I do believe that I am and will continue to be successful in the complete breaking of my family curses. I can see the results of my work, in my incredible children ❤
@roaming725 👏👏👏 to this comment! Frankly I have zero sympathy for an adult that abandons their children for their own selfish narcissistic nature. Idgaf HOW much trauma you went through as a child, you suck it up and raise your OWN with love and kindness. She's had more money and opportunities then the majority of her "supporters". she knows exactly what she is doing, and yet even at this age when she could be there for her kids, she chooses to live a pretend big life in NV. Brags about how she's done adult content, making a living off fetishism but can't be bothered to be a mother? And don't say "she doesn't have the tools", that's an excuse. She could afford to have therapy in her own apartment or on ZOOM calls. Yet she spends all her money stuffing herself for views. pfft 🙄 telling everyone she was the product of a one time sexual encounter on a motorcycle....sure sure. You're special, you're a "star" alright. The truth is you're not that special, you're just another you tube wanna be, preying on people for sympathy & cash. A dime a dozen all supported by GOOGLE for ads and revenue. Move along folks, find something else to do with your $$.
Jesus it broke my heart when she was describing what she was like as a little kid, and how her grandparents had to nurse her back to health and her behaviour was “feral”, then saying she felt ashamed of that.
It wasn’t her fault, the sheer neglect she suffered would’ve done that to any child. She wasn’t a ‘holy terror’ she was a sweet baby who was hurting beyond words
She's 45 already. When does one move tf on from trauma? Sometimes you gotta toughen up and say enough is enough. Everyone has trauma to deal with. Move tf on
@@Astral-up yes, everyone has trauma; but not everyone has the sheer level of trauma and neglect she did. Do you know that neglect changes the way a child’s brain develops on a very physical, real level? Did you know that it actually makes several areas of the brain never grow/develop to the size they’re meant to be?
Coupled with the addiction that clearly runs in her family, of which scientists and doctors agree that *is* a disease - it’s not as simple as “it’s a choice” - every day is going to be a struggle for someone who’s been through all that.
I’ve been through my fair share of childhood trauma, and while I would appear to function better than Candy in some ways the truth is that the ways I struggle to function just aren’t as obvious as hers.
Yes we all need to pull our pants up and get on with our lives, but it isn’t as easy as you make it sound and the way you speak just lets me know you don’t understand trauma on the most basic scientific level tbh.
Yet Candy turned around and did the exact same thing to her two children.
@@Ausgar-yc1ylno, she didn’t leave them alone in a trailer and starve them. She didn’t take care of them the way she should’ve no, but she at least gave them to someone who could.
That’s actually quite a brave choice for a parent to make, and in a way far more selfless than keeping your kids and not being what they need. Her children’s grandparents didn’t find them alone half dead - that’s worlds away.
@@SideCharacter12303 She was a horrible mother, her kids want nothing to do with her. Food was more important to her. That is disgusting. We have 5 adult kids, two biological and 3 adopted, and nothing could ever come before our kids.
A common denominator for Candy, Nickacado Avocado, Amberlyn, & Chantal is that they were all failed by their parents/caregivers & passed off as someone else's responsibility in the prime of their lives when they were most vulnerable.
Early childhood trauma literally rewires your brain development, which has lifelong consequences.
*Edit:* Misspelling
I reckon if we looked at other people with different forms of addictions and EDs, we'd find something similar too
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Sorry--how does Chantal fit into that group? She didn't have a perfect home life? Goodness me! And here I didn't realize I and everyone I know could also be 410 pounds!
@@gokuxsephiroth4505soft white underbelly channel has story after story…..
@tinywalnut6337 her mother was young and her grandmother raised her. She was sat in front of a TV because her grandmother was severely depressed and was in bed all day (all her words)
Dude, I love the different styles you switch between. I really don't know who's doing it better on TH-cam with short form docs.
thissss right hes so creative! or whoever is doin ittt
Agreed
Nobody! Except maybe Jimmy!
I totally agree, Snowflake is a genius🏆
@@jamespaul6315jimmy who?
The neglect she came out of is horrifying. Food is always going to be there for her, unlike her parents.
I know this feeling :\
Parents have an incredible influence on the development of an ed. A lot of them (mine included) just refuse to admit it.
So many of us have been horribly abused. I have struggled with anorexia for years. But for my kids and because I’m dying of a disease but when I got help, my disease is better and my kids had an amazing life and still do. Get help. Man
@D-jj5dy I don’t care. I merely said she uses food as something that’s always gonna be there. She’s abusing food but it’s not gonna turn its back on her.
@D-jj5dy you're blaming her as a child who was so neglected she was left entirely alone in a trailer so malnourished her belly was distended, and describing her as entitled for being traumatised for that?? As a CHILD????
After kindergarten one day, drying the dishes for my Mother, I asked her what was the greatest thing she ever wished for. We had been told in class to ask our Mothers. She replied "I Wished that when I found out I was pregnant with you, that abortions were legal, because I would have got one with you."
Many of us have traumas like this. I was in therapy that I chose to go to, for over 10 years. Today, at 75, I have finally went from 400 plus pounds to my current weight of 265. My goal is to get to 150, if God sees fit to let me. I have forgiven those in my past, but had to wait until I was 74 to start my final journey.
My prayer, after Jen's passing, is that Candy, Chantal, Amberlynn Reid and ALL the overweight, unfit Gorls in GorlWorld, lose weight before 70 something. They have their whole lives ahead of them....
Mine told me one day when I was a teenager that she wished she’d believed in abortion. I found out later that I was actually her third pregnancy. 😑
@@LisaW509 ...Lia, how my heart goes out to you. No child or adult should ever face hearing that. I just had my sister leave me in a huff, because I am seeing a psychiatrist to get off a pescribed Xanax given to me when I was married and only 27. My body flew into an anxiety state of panic attacks that landed me in the ER. I was prescribed that and have had a psychiatrist ever since. I live with an autistic partner, who I am learning all about living wit someone you love with autism. She has helped me a lot in the ast but this afternoon completely blamed me for everything in my life, even things she doesn't know about, but adored our Mother. She started undermining my partner and his are I am over. I nicely started telling her that Vincent & I am in the process of working together, and we are following a different path than what she thought should be happeneing. She is 70 and I am 75. I am in shock because she told me off and said fine, she's out of my life, and m partner can't ven talk. If you ever need to talk, my email is in my channel About page. Love and many hugs to you and your family. I'll pray for you...
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That’s so horrible, I’m so sorry. I’m glad you’ve lost weight, you’re doing great ♥️
Your story touched my heart, I am so sorry she inflicted those words upon you. Have you gathered memories, skills and experiences to smile at when you look back on your life when you are in your 90s? If not, go get some now, it is never too late. 🩵
I am sorry to hear that she had such a horrible childhood and understand why she is addicted to food.
But that is no excuse to abandon her own children for porn and mukbangs.
I hate when people use a bad childhood as an excuse to treat their own children bad.
You can come back anytime
Exactly you’re supposed to break the cycle.
Yes, I can have sympathy for Candy for what she went through, but when you have chiIdren, it's time to get over it, get heIp, whatever you have to so you don't do the same things that made you broken, to your own chiIdren. None of us is perfect, but we owe it to our offspring to do our best and never give up.
@@metalmamasue3680 People who have never been damaged by trauma always seem to think getting over it is always possible. We understand how people on welfare can't buy their kids nice cars for their sixteenth birthday but somehow neglected kids are supposed to pull a bunch of the love and nurturing energy out of thin air when they don't have it for themselves and never had it from others. And judgemental people like you are certainly not the exception to the toxic social environment these people grew up in.
@@catherineblair550Well said.
I used to watch Nikocado Avocado at some point during the first few months of the pandemic. He's such a menace but he was truly sweet and kind to her whenever they were together. Such a difference in character to his usual videos.
yeah he's so nice to her, i wonder what's the difference? i've never seen him so nice than when he's with her
@yunhoiswithmern I think he can see/understand that she's a really sensitive person who unlike alot of youtubers, isn't malicious. She doesn't put on a nice facade like amberlynn or Chantal.
Nick is playing a character...he is actually a good person with a kind heart he is just caught up in active addiction
@kosmicinclinations3333 agreed! Did you see one of his videos where he said he was going stop doing amberlynn impersonations and kind of went on a tangent about prioritizing his health? It was a while ago but I think he lost some weight to prove he meant it.
@@wynonasbigbrownbeaver yeah i can see that! didnt think of that
Snowflake, this is really well-done. I love the vintage vibe you achieved with the filters and clips. Reminds me of a very tragic Lana del Rey music video.
Aww yeah I like learning. Getting better with the editing. Love a good filter making it look like I know what I’m doing
@@MrSnowflake The work you do really shows! Marvellous job.
Yes u nailed it !! Very 8mm 70s 60s vintage vibe aestetic
The way she talks about her daughter makes me sick, like she can't grasp why she doesn't want to talk to her after speaking badly of her to strangers.
Yup. Generational trauma carried on and on. She would need to be self aware and not self absorbed to stop that with her daughter. Some people hold on to their trauma so much and then turn around and do the same thing.
She always sounds like she's on the verge of crying
It’s annoying… even her voice is fried… deep fried!
She is a grifter and a scammer! SHe is a used car salesman!
Ironic muck-banging was much more destructive to her than her adult content
@@AmyraBatya Bahahahaha. Ain't that the truth. Lol.
Her adult content is a muckbang in its own way 😅
Whoa, this one hit me so differently than ALR or Boogie. I did not know she was an Adult entertainer nor did I realize her childhood was so incredibly gut wrenching. I think she also has severe guilt over not participating in her children’s upbringing. This was so sad 😞
She turned around and abused and abandoned her own kids.
@@Ausgar-yc1ylit's called a generational curse
@@kosmicinclinations3333 I guess so. Sad.
I thought life with Amy was disturbing as well. Being raped by her own father for years. So awful.
Candy abandoned her 2 very small children cause mentals. Never went and got help for said mentals. Instead she got into adult work and mukbangs. Hence her grown children have nothing to do with her. Dont let her fool you
This new series just has a very different feel to it than the series on Amberlynn or Jenn. Once again, I’m left wondering how I actually feel about Candy’s story. You really do evoke so many emotions and thoughts with your content, Snowflake, and that’s neither simple nor easy to do. Great work, as always. ♥️
Aw nice one. Don’t worry you’ll hate her by part 3 haha
@@MrSnowflakenaaaauuurrr not candy 😭
@@MrSnowflake oh no! Now I’m worried, I always felt bad for Candy and she’s always seemed sweet 😳
Darn you @@MrSnowflake ! Can't you do ONE where they overcome their issues to live a happy/satisfying life? 🤔 maybe they don't show up on TH-cam and just live their lives. Food for thought. A begrudging thanks for the doc
@@MrSnowflakeNOOOOOOO NOT CANDY😭😭😭😭😭damn damn damn
Never knew a YT vid called “Hungry Fat Chick Living on Borrowed Time” could be so poignant, compassionate and striking.
Good work Mr Snowflake. Good work.
I turn 45 on Monday, and my parents and all my grandparents have been deceased for years. Her speaking about her age, family being gone, as she looks as she does and eating a dozen donuts…..and the clock ticking… It was so ominous and morbid to hear. Her justification for her behavior is little more than lip service to herself. It’s not for us, it’s her trying to reconcile her own cognitive dissonance. Her life is unique and precious, just as every human life is. I wish I could make her believe that too. She needs intensive therapy so badly. It’s not too late if you are above ground. It’s not.
She has two children
she abandoned that do not have anything to do with her.
Yeah I also felt bad for her until I looked into what she did to her kids, I'm sure he'll include that somewhere
When you love your vices more than your children. 😔
@@Ausgar-yc1yl it’s extremely sad.
Your grammar is amazing!!. Good grammar is such a rarity nowadays.
I feel so bad for Candy. She truly had a horrible childhood. I was surprised she had 2 children. I am also glad she has a relationship with her children. That's so important.
I hope Candy can get healthy. She is over 50 yrs old now. She won't last much longer. You rarely see super morbidly obese people past 50.
I truly hope she can lose weight and feel better about herself.
And yet she could still outlive you.
@D-jj5dyshe speaks to them regularly she says as much in the video. She is in touch with them.
She said recently her kids don’t talk to her anymore or have anything to do with her….. I dont blame them..
she sadly chose food .
What’s super scary about men who fetishize big women is that it goes far beyond a sexual/romantic preference. I find it disturbing when any kind of toxic behavior is encouraged, and let’s be clear: we are not talking about men who happen to love big women. We are talking about men who are actively objectifying and exploiting women at the expense of their own health and lives for the men’s gratification and pleasure. That isn’t love, that’s just sick. I hope Candy is able to find peace. ❤️
Very nicely said indeed! 💯
Yep, feeders and anorexia fetishists are two sides of the same coin. They like to see women fat/skinny because it limits the women's ability to do things for themselves or be independent human beings ☹️
Speaking TRUTH.
I understand she had a ton of trauma as a child but she then revisited that trauma on her own kids by abandoning them, so it’s pretty hard for me to find a lot of sympathy for her. I don’t blame the daughter for not speaking to her, and I hope both of them are in serious therapy.
No sympathy here either. With My Childhood trauma, I vowed never to allow My child to feel alone, unwanted, unloved, questioning her exsistance, etc. All this one did was repeat the cycle. Absolutely heartbreaking (for the children).
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Candy couldn’t help that it took her so long to realize what she’d done wrong.
@@EYE_GOTCHA Doesn't matter. When she did she chose self indulgence anyways. By her own testimony.
Zero sympathy. These people are selfish, period
Beautiful editing Snowflake!! I have so much empathy for Candy, she seems like such a sweet person even though she was dealt just an awful hand in life 😢
@@twerktospecEmpathy means putting yourself in someone's shoes to see life from their perspective. Sympathy is feeling sorry for a person's situation. The two aren't necessarily mutually exclusive.
@@twerktospec ewwww why would anyone hit you up? especially after that comment lmao
@@ohemdoublegee exactly. I said empathy because I also had a rough childhood so I can understand a bit of what she’s went through. Definitely not to that extent but I understand the abandonment and ab-e.
@@Jen-Chapin she lies, everything she says is made up, she said her mother has 9 abortions shes an addict they look for sympathy so they can continue with their addiction and be supported.
I like how you gave this a 70's style! Very cool and engaging mini doc!
Yeh I liked the 70’s feel. Glad you liked it x
I have a feeling this will pack a harder punch than the Jen documentary did. Very well made Snowflake, bravo.
Okay, the way she talks about her kids is such a red flag for me. Singing the praises of her son while brushing off her daughter, saying negative things about herself as a child and then saying her daughter is just like she was. It’s giving golden child.
I noticed that, too and immediately felt sorry for the daughter.
Agreed. It’s really creepy. A lot of times mothers see their daughters as extensions of their younger selves, and when you hate yourself, you likely won’t see your daughter well. Hope she can break the cycle regardless.
Lies never end with her. Past videos, she has said she has no relationship with her children. Great childhood with her grandparents. Then she reverts to poor me. Feel sorry for me. Ultimate narcissist.
She's had a really traumatic upbringing. When kids are abused their brains don't physically form correctly. Im not excusing her actions but it may be that she doesn't realise she's repeating the same things that were done to her. It's generational trauma in action and it's why abuse and addiction is more likely to run in families.
Also she clearly does love both of her children, but her daughter doesn't want as much to do with her as her son. There's nothing wrong with that. She's aware she's done them wrong you can tell in her voice.
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Stories change like the wind
Good job putting this together Mr. Snowflake. I find Candy to be a very likable person and honestly a bit relatable. I had high hopes when she was eating better and losing weight and saddened that she has resorted back to unhealthy food.
likable noooo all the moaning its disfustibg
That nervous laughter is so awkward and uncomfortable to listen to. It is not the laugh of a happy person. 😞
This style of editing is honestly very moving. Hearing them tell their own morbid story and all the videos that they have published online, it just really shows how much people have put their lives out there on the internet. I absolutely binged in about a week the Jen and Amberlynn series, your content is a must watch when I see it posted. I hope this channel grows exponentially it really deserves it!
Your editing and story telling skills just keep improving and evolving and surprising me. You’re building quite the portfolio this year good on you.
The Heart Attack Grill is honestly fucking disturbing. Like, literally incentivizing obesity to make people MORE obese?? it’s deplorable.
I used to live just behind the container park and would walk home from work past there on Fremont every night. It was my least favorite part of the whole walk. I was my thinnest as an adult during that time and I’d still cringe and worry someone would yell at me to get on the scale or say something rude as I walked by.
I don’t think you understand the true meaning of that restaurant. It’s actually ingenious the idea behind that restaurant.
It should be shut down…
Great Job. I feel Candy's deep sadness, it's heartbreaking. I hope she can find some joy.
Man I started watching the ALR series cuz it was funny and snarky but each new doc you put out is better than the last. You're definitely one of the best on the platform!
Candy's story is the saddest one to me out of all the gorls. And weirdly enough, she's the one whose better future I wanna see the most
You’ve hit a whole new level of quality, and I’m so pleased for you. Your channel is about to explode. Well done!🎉
Now this is art. The old-timey tv aesthetic look and sound. Great video skills.
Even the thumb nail is giving VHS snuff quality 👀
I had to turn off life support for my baby sister who, at the age of 54 died after a quintuple bypass was unsuccessful. She wasn't THIS big, but between being overweight and not taking care of her diabetes (caused by her weight)- She went in for surgery and never woke up.
I'm sorry she had a horrible childhood- lots of us did- she's now an adult and she knows what she's doing is wrong. I don't know how much sympathy I can have for someone who knows what they're doing and just doesn't care. She needs to wake up, before she never wakes up again.
The problem is that when you're "in the hole", the hole doesn’t seem like a hole, but home. Even if you don't like "your home", most people find it hard to "emigrate" once they find a certain level of comfort, unless they’re being assisted at gunpoint/threat of *imminent* death.
Not to spoil anything but she lost 60lbs over the Summer after a health scare. Of course, making videos of her buckling down and doing the right thing didn't generate enough revenue. So she's trying to do both now by limiting the binge eating to one meal a day so it doesn't exceed her calorie limitation. All fine and good but it's like any addict saying "I'll just do a little."
@@hugostiglitz5186 Cool 👍 (The update). Haven't actually seen her for awhile, not since Niko collabs a few years ago.
I’m so sorry.
Knowing what you need to do and being capable of doing it, are very different things
That shooting star analogy is absolutely soul crushing. I also had no idea about anything other than her muck content. This poor woman. Such a sweet soul, she deserves more.
This was truly amazing. They way you edit and tell their story is incredible. ❤
The exact opposite of Eugenia Cooney but the same outcome in the end.
You're absolutely killing it with these series, Mr. S!! Thank you for your hard work and dedication!
That was SO good. Holy crap. 👏👏👏
Rollercoaster of emotions, the editing was insane. Can't wait for part 2 ❤
I never knew all this about Candy, bless her heart, she's really had a tough life, the reason for her food addiction, it's not what she's eating, it's what's eating her, truly sad, excellent content as always, Mr. Snowflake!
These videos are so well done!
Excellent job.
I don’t even know who these people are and I still can’t wait for you to drop another episode.
Aw I don’t know who they are really, well at first I don’t.
Man this is so sad. I’ve never known much about her. You’re docs are so amazing, keep up the amazing work dude!
This woman is wasting her life eating and dwelling on her past. I don’t understand why these women don’t see that their life is slipping away. It is sad..
The same thing that separates Candy from the rest of these people is the same thing that makes her downfall so horrible to watch. She is a good person. She is sweet, likable, and never says a bad word about anybody. Unfortunately, her traumatic past gets in her way just like the rest of them. I really can't dislike Candy. She is the product of bad luck, bad decisions, and bad coping skills. I really wish her the best. But just like all of them, our best wishes won't fix them They ultimately ha e to do it for themselves.
So well said, friend! 🖤✨
well put ♥️
@D-jj5dy adult life sure but childhood was terrible. That kind of abuse affects how you act as a result. She is 100% the way she is because of her past, and because of the fact she hasn't found a productive way to heal from it.
yeah a good person pits herself in front of her kids leaves them for a drug addict to go to fat porn
Out of all the DeathFats, Candy has always struck a chord with me & I had a feeling her story was more sad than ALR’s or Chantal’s - I think she even surpasses the sadness of LifeByJenn.
I actually think HFC is more complex because of her honesty & self awareness & the fact she takes accountability - she knows she’s eating her feelings, whereas ALR & Chantal are deeply unaware & hollow shells of humans in denial- Candy is altruistically self-aware & owns up to *all* responsibility - she knows she’s on borrowed time coming from a broken home soothing herself with food - she blames herself even when it was not her fault.
I recently came across your channel. I’m surprised you don’t have followers in the millions! The effort you put into your content is superb! Instead of being a grifter who commentates on others content/work for their own content (like many popular TH-camrs), you actually take the time to absorb your subjects to create unique high-quality content. Kudos!
The story of her childhood is hitting so incredibly close to home for me. I don’t work exclusively/specifically with high-trauma kids, but I serve the youth of a city that seems to be 80% trauma and just wants to destroy anything positive before it can even exist, and SEVERAL of my kids have been/are still the type of “feral” she describes. I’ve worked my current job for three years and have already had four kids who spent their entire lives locked in closets. Over 90% of the kids in this city don’t know when they’ll get to eat if they don’t have school. When you have these kids and know their situations, you can’t help but load them up with food and love any time you can. We work VERY hard to not use food as a reward or comfort measure, but you never know what associations their little malnourished brains will make. I never imagined any of my kids might grow up to feel guilty about putting a burden on the people who love them enough to take them in. This is a horrible revelation for me that I’m really going to have to think about. I’m so, so terribly sorry she feels that way, and I hope she can come to a place where she understands that they CHOSE to take her on because they loved her. Very few people continue to keep kids like that. They were clearly beautiful people, and regardless of her weight or trauma, the fact that she’s alive, speaking, and has the human empathy to feel guilty is a testament to how much care they put into her.
90% of the children in your city are starving? Where are you getting your data please.
I actually had a bit of a cry and said out loud that "it was not your fault". Not the fact that she got feral or that she "took her grandparents' golden years". They decided to take her in. Heartbreaking.
The shame goes so bone deep it becomes part of your DNA, part of your every breath. I'm a lot better than I once was, but I still struggle. I'm a few decades older than Candy and my upbringing was similar but not the same. Cptsd is a real bitch and a half. I absolutely see the spark in Candy that, if she can find it, will lead her out of hell. Then again, I haven't seen part 3. Oh that Snowflake.
Aww, thank you for doing what you do. People like you deserve the world ❤
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You are an incredible documentarian. So talented.
Honest it’s just a good filter and good music. I’m not that good but I’m fooling people ha
@@MrSnowflake
I couldn’t do it, Snowflake. I don’t know the first thing about creating videos other than just pointing the camera and filming. 😮
@@MrSnowflake ….and so humble.
I watch Candy as she seems such a lovely lady. I had no idea she had such a traumatic backstory. Heartbreaking video but really well done!
lovely really why she ;eave her kids?
Excellent job, beautiful job on the editing. I think you've captured her personality well.
“I’m so happy” can’t be with her kids, drug ads tied parents, worried she’ll die…but she’s happy. Press X to doubt.
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This was so damn good, one would think it was an original HBO Documentary... I love your storytelling/editing style.
It’s better than HBO!!!
letting her and others tell their stories has been such a unique perspective. Thank for what you do Mr snowflake ♥️
She was doing so well recently. It broke my heart when she went back to mukbangs. She’s truly such a sweet human. She deserves so much better.
why break your heart? she is doing what she wants, she doesnt care why should you?
We’re all born looking like our parents, we die looking like our choices.
Well said.
You're right and sometimes we die looking like our parents choices
Wow That s d e e p
@@matthewpitre8159 Can't blame parents forever.
#deep
The cycle of abuse never ends if you don't do something about it. She seems like a lovely person. I had a horrific childhood as well. But i ended that cycle. I don't have kids ( my choice). Childhood trauma will mess you up. 😢 Thanks for being a decent human being . And sharing these videos with love and respect. 💙💙 Stay safe out there everyone . Be kind .
God her laughter is devoid of any joy whatsoever 😭
All these new videos!! It’s like Christmas come early 🥰 Thank you for all of your hard work Mr Snowflake!
Mr Snowflake - no one is doing it like you right now. Amazing work as always!!
That Heart Attack grill place is revolting.
Candy is unlike Nick, Amber or Chantal, my heart breaks for her, she is a sweet, kind person, who is actively harming herself, I wish her nothing but happiness.
I have to say, your username can be deceiving, as you manage to really speak about these people's stories with humanity and compassion, not to mention great filmography, and amazing editing skills.
Amazing work as always, @Mr Snowflake.
See, this is what Big Amber doesn't understand. Sure, Candy has her detractors but in the main, people like her because she's honest and has a vulnerable and pleasant personality. It's not about her weight.
I feel for Candy. I'm a slim woman and always have been, but I share many of her mental disorders and daily life is a struggle. Her coping mechanism just happens to be an unhealthy one, i.e. food.
The quality of these videos have come such a long a way in such a short time, incredibly well done!
I wish you many subscribers, you deserve them for the hard and great work you do, this is like watching a full documentary, thank you so much for this video
holy cow i can see all the hard work you’re putting in, ❄️! the quality of this series is impeccable 👏🏻 keep up the great work!!
Life of Jen broke my heart but this one is really freaking killing me. You are gonna make me cry soon the way youre gathering and taking the time to piece together their stories.
Looking forward to seeing part 2. All your documentaries are excellent.
You didn’t have to turn your back on your children save your tears
Wow, when you see her weigh in at 404 lbs at the size she was, and you realize AmberLynn weighs almost 200 lbs MORE...that really puts it in perspective how difficult it would be to get that size
Holy shit what a childhood that is. Poor kid didn't stand a ghost of a chance.
I’m being honest, but being an extremely abused, neglected child, I did all I could to protect my kids so they didn’t ever ever feel the way I did. How can she do this to her kids??
It makes me upset that so many are fighting for their lives who have diseases, cancer, etc….I have a disease called gastroparesis. My nutrition is thru a tube and TPN. But I have anorexia due to my past. But my kids needed me. So I got help and once that was better, my disease got better as well. Today, I have to keep that balance to stay alive for my kids. Get help. It’s a choice.
Another cinematic masterpiece. Don’t know how you do it but don’t ever stop.
How can you take care of yourself when you don't feel worthy of even basic self care?
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Edit to say thank you to Mr ❄️
Aw just hope you enjoyed it
she feels worthy she only cares about herself, has 2 kids she left to do fat porn
The style you went with on this one is genius! I (and the rest of your viewers, I am sure) appreciate you mixing it up and always keeping it original. A million thanks!!
@MR SNOWFLAKE your documentaries are so powerful. I just watched your life of jen one recently I didn't know who she was before that . But it is still playing in my mind. Thank you for making these .
I will say this again. U deserve to be at least nominated for your documentaries. This was another great job. Thanks.
Thank you Mr Snowflake for another great documentary series! You have been so productive lately, please take care of yourself and try to rest when you need to!
I agree with a previous comment about switching between different styles. From the vintage black and white film style to the different filters you used. I wanted to share my story in the hopes it will help Candy or someone else. I had gastric bypass surgery in 2009. I wanted to lose another 50, but didn’t get there. But I don’t regret it a bit and have managed to maintain my loss after all these years. Yo-yo dieting is how I gained so much weight. Once I decided not to diet anymore and just add more activity, I stopped gaining weight. After all this time after the surgery, I still can’t eat a whole chicken breast. I was really rooting for Candy in her weight loss and along with so many others, was disappointed. The surgery is not a cure, but a tool and you have to work with it. But someone who has as much to lose as Candy, my opinion is she could benefit from the surgery along with intensive counseling for past trauma. Good luck girl, and thank you Snowflake! Great job, just miss your sexy voice! ❄️❤️
Same, sexy voice.
Beautifully done. Bravo.
I miss the voice over from Snowflake. His Voice is amazing 🎉
Proof Al is not disliked because of her weight. Candy is precious and just happens to be very big. Al is just a see you next Tuesday.
I was gonna comment something about that but you said it so perfectly that I don't even need to say anything.
I love Candy I pray she forgive herself so she can heal from this trauma
she never had a chance, man. its a miracle she turned out as kind and empathetic as she is
wither did the children she had and left
Now this is an exceptional quality content
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I the only one who does not feel bad for her. Throwing yourself a decades long pity party is not an excuse
i had to skip out on the life by jen episodes because they made me really sad for her and the fact she's gone. i'll definitely be waiting on these episodes for candy,because i can't understand why she does this to herself. i know she's been through a lot too,i just don't know the full story. so hopefully this can help me better understand why she does the things she does. thanks,snowflake. brilliant work as always.
Aw hope you can make it through this one. Gets sad
Of all the creators, your channel looks the most professional, and well done.
Awesome job. You really have a talent to tell people’s stories.
WOW this one came out get I can’t wait for part 2!!! You’re killing it Mr.Snowflake!!!
This sooo well done. I am excited to watch your other videos and see what new content you bring. Thanks
Your documentaries are simply Top Knotch!
I think it's the overall attention to sound design that does it for me. The right moods, the right subtle audial effects, the proper vocal balancing.
Really, really superb!!
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Thanks & Cheers!
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The fact that you’d rather spend your money stuffing your face instead of providing for your children is disgusting!
Commenting for engagement. Your documentaries are amazing. Making sure I don't skip through the videos so you can get those coins. Keep up the amazing work.
Another brilliant one my man. Great work as always :)
Your editing is EXEMPLARY! Omg. So glad I found your channel.
its kind of insane to see a skinny nikacado at the heart attack grill with hungry fat chick lol
couldn't stop crying when she was talking about her childhood. poor woman. she suffered so much at such a young age. despite all of that, she's still got a lovely smile and personality. 😢 i hope she gets the help she needs asap...
It's sad that her son encourages and enables her self-destructive lifestyle and I don't blame her daughter for distancing herself from this train wreck.
the amount of work put into this video is unbelievable. i love it