LGBTQ people have to face so many battles. I mean the first is the internal one. Accepting themselves. Then coming out to the family. Then the bigger battle is to fight the societal prejudices all through their lives. I am straight but I really respect you guys. I sincerely hope that no Homophobic exists in this world. More power to you guys. God bless you.
There is a bit more to the story. There are gay kids who are more gender variant and they often are bullied and ostracized in childhood. I faced that. It's hell!
How did I ended up here! But I'm so glad I found a coming out video of a malayali guy. You r so brave bro and thank you for being you .And u r from palakkad😱 as a palakkadan I'm so proud of you bro nammade palakkatil openly gay avunath valya oru sambavama. Keep posting these kind of videos. it will give an awareness for the people who doesn't know about lgbtq+ community. I was homophobic until I knew more about lgbt peoples. We need more conversation like this . so much love to you bro.
Great to see Malayalis out here on TH-cam representing! I'm from the US but my parents are both from Kottayam. Keep the positive attitude and good luck on your journey.
Hi Gopu! Another Malayali gay guy here. I've lived all over the south and have never lived in any proper city and i turned out to be gay. Growing up without proper internet till college and having zero knowledge that being gay was normal( i thought i was transgender and was going to my deathbed with that secret), it took me to get to the age of 25 to admit that i was what is considered gay. It was pretty liberating coming out to a few friends in college and then my amma. It was very difficult but i had to come clean to amma when they started looking at girls for me(yuck). No we are living in the US but people don't seem to understand how difficult it is to come out to Malayali Christian parents and an extremely conservative brother. I was looking out for anybody who has similiar experiences as a malayali so i am really glad to have come across this video. Thank you for making me feel like i'm not alone in this. All the best for your future.
Thank you for sharing your experience :) For same reasons you mentioned above, exactly why we need to speak about things like these more often, without fear. It is high time that Indian society grew a pair, and speak about unspeakable things. :) You have a great day ahead.
@@glopuvlogs2399 hi sat Sri akal ji ver guru dev ke khan sab tuddaa ki Hal chal theek hai ji hannji parji tuddaa ki Hal chal or tussse daso ji sadda laal gup shp ji ab theek hai ji my name is chetan from England 🏴 I found your video very interesting and really cool 👌 plus you are getting people to come out of the closet which is really nice I am gay myself I came out two years ago my coming out story is horrible and nasty 🤢 ji hannji they is a saying we must accept ourselves before others accept us other saying is we must be out and proud of who and what we are I am very proud of being who I am ab ka pass boyfriend hai ji I haven’t got boyfriend yet I am coming to India 🇮🇳 in march we can perhaps meet up only if you’re comfortable otherwise I understand completely ji hannji no pressure or anything nice to meet you bhaiya ji may god bless you always
I am a gay too but for me the struggle is that I am more masculine and people don't believe me when I tell them that I am gay. They think that I am just kidding, so it's a different struggle for masculine gays but people are slowly changing their attitude specially in cities like Delhi and Mumbai. In my office everybody on my team knows that I am gay, and I am treated equal to them. We should do something about breaking stereotypes about gay people.
You should be glad in the sense that you don't get bullied for being feminine. Life being feminine is very horrible since childhood! 😥 I'm still in my adulthood, dealing with those consequences. I'm still traumatized.
My name is chetan from England 🏴 I am gay too how so exciting to know about you wow 🤩 I had such a horrible time I have been through horrible nasty things
i am a malayali gay teen. i remeber when i first came out to my mum at 13, i was not ready beause i had not accepted myself. so i was sat there not able to face my mothers reaction, with tears streaming down my face. the very next day i got sent to be converted from 'this sinful nature'. there i only hated myself more. both my mothers and my unacceptance almost destroyed of my family! only after self acceptance and coming out can you go anywhere with yourself. that dark place in my life lead me to be dignosed with depression and dissociation. but after telling my mother that i am , after one long year, proud of my sexuality and will not give her anymore false hope of changing it. that sense of freedom is AMAZING. thank you so much for making this video. india is so far from being a safe place to openly live in, despite all the people who are LGBTQ+ in it. only after we accept and defend our rights and freedom will anything ever be changed. love from thoughtfox
I really like ur video..i am 35 now when i was a kid there is no internet to explore or any news about lgbt .I used to dance like girls ,in girls cloth and makeup..at that time i was nit aware that i was different even my family take things very lightly..when i grow and realized that i m attracted to men instead of girls I dont know who to tell all these .Many of friends have taken advantage of it..Now its high time when i m facing marriage pressure still i cant tell my family the truth and simply denying to do marriage
Why don't u first become financially independent . Try and meet a Desi guy u like . Become a couple and start living together . And tell it family ur not interested in "marriage"
get a job outside of your hometown. You are aggarwal so I am guessing you're from the North, so search for some jobs in the South, like Mumbai or Bangalore most importantly get away from them
hey idk how I found you, but I am from Tirrupur. And even though I mostly grew up in Chennai, my parents are PRETTY orthodox. You must definitely be SUPER brave.
I am extremely happy that the community which is a so called 'taboo' in this bad society is blooming and people like ya'll are making it simpler for others to come out of closet by changing the mentality of orthodox Indians people.
You talked nicely. we LGBTQIA people must have to unite for our basic rights and it will happened when our community people's came out to society , very proudly. 💖
Really Eager to see u speak Tamil Bro. Bcoz ur voice is so sweet like u are. And all the things which u said is fantastic and I'm proud of u bro that u have come out in public about ur experience and sexuality. Good luck for ur future bro.
I love u soo much 😂😂and I love and respect every gay people and they are soo cute and care for each other 😂but indian people have to understand its not a weird things. 😂i respect u dear
Gopuuu!! Thank you so much for sharing this video here. I couldn't relate to the other coming out videos as much as I did to this. Because I'm a 23 year old Malayalee lesbian born in Bangalore whose parents are from Kerala and mum specifically from palakkad. It was so beautiful to hear you talk and you are so freaking *brave* and I'm super proud of you! Sending you lots of love!! ❤❤
Thanks ..I don't know how I ended up watching your video I was searching about view's of Indian people about homosexuality coz I'm confused about myself and I'm trying to figure it out.
Bro, I think we should work for the children(LGBTQ) with the help of schools. Bcz you and I know how ugly our childhood was, but I never want somebody to go through that phase. We can protect and aware the teens and small kids, who are bit different in behavior like us, with the help of the teachers. So that they won't regret like you and me are regretting about our childhood and memories. 🥺
Thank you for putting out your story. It can't be easy to be honest on the internet to strangers but thank you. You're helping a lot of young people hope that they can come out one day.
Wonderful video. Even I knew I was different from the time I was 8 or 9 years old. Fortunately, I was not bullied or asked for sexual favours. It is sad that you had to go through all that. You have turned out even stronger. Suicide rates are many times higher among LGBTQ youth. Now, 377 has been modified. Still, as you mention, the most important thing is ground reality and every day life for out LGBT people. I am seeing improvement in the attitudes of the current generation.
You are so right from 18:01 Till the day our school books will not have LGBTQ topics ( for awareness and also lgbtq stories and characters in lessons) we can’t call Indian society gender inclusive... and as you rightly said straight people don’t have lgbtq issues as their priority .... so we need many lgbtqai representatives in various areas like politics and education, to bring a widespread inclusion.
Sexual orientation and gender/sex are two separate things . The reason why LGBT+ is not in mainstream is like any other minority not in the mainstream . Because population /percent is lower. LGBT+ is like a less than 5% ratio. Some even say less than 1% . Just like in LGBT+ communities and pop culture within the community , straight culture is not really included . State of minority community within a state .
@@Tragic.Kingdom gay males with passive sexuality and gay females with dominant sexuality like me are pretty much of a vocal minority. dominant males with homosexual tendencies and passive females with homosexual tendencies are the silent queer majority
I m a future doctor I m interested in men for me it's really common it just variation among population how some people are black white thin fat short tall likewise preference is different. In medical science homosexuality is considered normal
Fabulous bro.. you put forth what exactly gay guys feel or face the challenges in life..in fact I am gay and being a gay I always keep myself apart from others. Because I always have a fear to be teased by others. Though our country legalized the gay relationships and all but still our society remains same, which should be grown up with a supportive mentality. But yeah you did really a great job..kudos to you love from Jeetu Odisha ♥️♥️🤟🤟
I soo relate to that, when I came out on my instagram I had so many fake people being like Woww, we totally support you and if u ever need to talk I’m here and all that stuff, I’m not even joking cause, I would talk to them here and there after school and a very stupid question would arise: “Are you still gay?” And I’m like yeahh. And they are like we support but not if ur like James Charles or if ur not a”hijda” and they somehow feel godlike to say stuff like that. These type of comments always kept me from coming out open Y Amd hiding my feminine side or tendencies cause I needed a support but the only support I got was for my masculine side. I’ve only recently came out of that trauma and started to love myslef my body but sadly I had to litterally be in an entirely different country to do that. I love how you never change yourself around other people, Ik I did am I hate it because I was told by people I loved and respected that how to look straight and how to sit, how to dress how to not move my hands while I talk and a lot of other stuff.
Thank you for the video! I went through the same process and experience as a child growing up in the southern US being naturally feminine (I'm a bisexual man but more into guys) and being a target for bullying from kids and adults. Question, how would I be looked at as a foreigner* gay man in India? Would I be popular? Would I be treated badly? *ethnically, I'm afro Dominican
Thank you for showing your vulnerabilities. Having dated an Indian man, working in the United States, I would like to hear more from you about how you connect with your fellow man , your actual life behaviors in an essentially homophobic society. I was so shocked to find out that your society is not all about love and peace and acceptance. Can you speak more about that for your audience. BTW, my Indian companion is totally closeted and now raising a family as prescribed by his family. It is a tragedy waiting to unfold!
Hey Shubham this side From Delhi I watching this video in 2020 This lockdown give me too much time to think about on my sexuality that's why i'm searching on these topics ❤
Lots of love dear brother.. Actually we don't need any sympathy-empathy, we don't need any kinda Consession.. We fight for our right.. I don't know who one's gay, straight, trans.. We are 'human being' that's the main point.. Please do more videos, I'm /we are awaiting for your videos.. Take care and love you brother,from Bengal.. Bye.. 😊💖👋🌹
I am also gay and I proud myself.pta nhi kab sabki socch badlagi hum bhi khul ke ji paengey .Kya hamara koi future nhi .we are natural it's genetic .ek gay ki life bhut stressful hoti h jiney ki eccha khutum hojati h .Kash humey koi samjh PTA😪😪😞
I grew up in San Francisco. I was 14 when Stonewall happened. Even growing up in San Francisco I was bullied and felt isolated. I remember teachers and scoutmasters telling me "stop acting like a sissy". I was sent to counselors and a psychiatrist who were similarly unsupportive and blamed me for the bullying. I learned otherwise only when I became politically active in the Democratic Party and met early gay rights activists. I eventuality met Harvey Milk and supported him in 4 campaigns. Harvey proved to San Francisco that it's ok to be gay and that coming out changes people's minds. 🌈
I had a lot of struggles when I was a kid growing up in calicut. I use to speak English and I only love English songs. All kids bullied me and I still struggle to live in this village
I'm really happy what I would be. We all are human that's it. Be proud to be gay. Have a great future a head all. Stay Happy Stay Healthy Stay Safe. God bless you all.
The shere lack of information and knowledge about alternate sexual orientation is bizzare. I know for myself, how much uncomfortable and traumatized i felt when class 10th biology was being introduced. I mean it wasn't for me... And i was traumatised by thinking that I would have to be this way... Those science books never reflected anything about lgbtq+ identity. It was in my college days that I came to know about lgbtq community. I was relieved then... Knowing that nothing is wrong with me...and there are people like me out in the world.
I saw the comments... & realised that.... Most of the pple can understand their sexuality, wt is it.... But no onecame out !!!...that what they r feeling it's a safe place to expose them self......
U have a great courage.. focus on your spiritual side, the common straight guys are void ... but you hould probably have great potential. ... do good take care we are born that way
RESPECTED SIR. I SAW ONLY FIRST 6:30 MINUTES OF YOUR VIDEO. CHILD I AM REALLY PAINED TO KNOW THE SEXUAL HORRORS YOU FACED FROM AGE 9. NO KID WETHER STRAIGHT OR GAY BOY OR GIRL, ANY KID MUST NOT GO THROUGH IT. THAT'S A FOOLS WISHING. BUT REALITY IS TOTALLY HARSH. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR TRAUMA. SIR I NOTICED YOU ARE NOT POSTING ANY VIDEOS. I HOPE YOU ARE WELL.
see.. it's depend person to person... kuch log bht supportive hote hai but some are against of it.. so everyone has their own perspective.. my request to those who against of this that please interrupt in someone's personal matter... ab gay or lesbian hona criminal nhi h
I,m a gay frm india this story is almost same as mine Sometimes I act like girl so people call me mitha chaka Or wht wht even the teacher of our school make fun of me in front of the class in this situation I don't even know how to react my face turns red because I feel shy in front of them No one can't understand us
To be honest It feel like life is testing me on every stage although I always follow my heart work and do good karma but this thing is really painful im not able to speak about this with family and friends always feel as i am pretending in my family 😢
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LGBTQ people have to face so many battles. I mean the first is the internal one. Accepting themselves. Then coming out to the family. Then the bigger battle is to fight the societal prejudices all through their lives. I am straight but I really respect you guys. I sincerely hope that no Homophobic exists in this world. More power to you guys. God bless you.
There is a bit more to the story. There are gay kids who are more gender variant and they often are bullied and ostracized in childhood. I faced that. It's hell!
I am 23 year old lesbian
I remembered when i was a kid i wrote a love letter to a girl😁
Omg😀😀😀
Oh sound ..... beautiful
How did I ended up here! But I'm so glad I found a coming out video of a malayali guy. You r so brave bro and thank you for being you .And u r from palakkad😱 as a palakkadan I'm so proud of you bro nammade palakkatil openly gay avunath valya oru sambavama.
Keep posting these kind of videos. it will give an awareness for the people who doesn't know about lgbtq+ community. I was homophobic until I knew more about lgbt peoples. We need more conversation like this . so much love to you bro.
Iam also from palakkad, great inspiration for me also
Awesome
Great to see Malayalis out here on TH-cam representing! I'm from the US but my parents are both from Kottayam. Keep the positive attitude and good luck on your journey.
Great insights - thank you, from a gay guy in Australia .
Hiiii
@@omnamashiva3592 hai
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Hi Gopu! Another Malayali gay guy here. I've lived all over the south and have never lived in any proper city and i turned out to be gay. Growing up without proper internet till college and having zero knowledge that being gay was normal( i thought i was transgender and was going to my deathbed with that secret), it took me to get to the age of 25 to admit that i was what is considered gay. It was pretty liberating coming out to a few friends in college and then my amma. It was very difficult but i had to come clean to amma when they started looking at girls for me(yuck).
No we are living in the US but people don't seem to understand how difficult it is to come out to Malayali Christian parents and an extremely conservative brother. I was looking out for anybody who has similiar experiences as a malayali so i am really glad to have come across this video. Thank you for making me feel like i'm not alone in this. All the best for your future.
Thank you for sharing your experience :)
For same reasons you mentioned above, exactly why we need to speak about things like these more often, without fear. It is high time that Indian society grew a pair, and speak about unspeakable things. :)
You have a great day ahead.
@@glopuvlogs2399 hi sat Sri akal ji ver guru dev ke khan sab tuddaa ki Hal chal theek hai ji hannji parji tuddaa ki Hal chal or tussse daso ji sadda laal gup shp ji ab theek hai ji my name is chetan from England 🏴 I found your video very interesting and really cool 👌 plus you are getting people to come out of the closet which is really nice I am gay myself I came out two years ago my coming out story is horrible and nasty 🤢 ji hannji they is a saying we must accept ourselves before others accept us other saying is we must be out and proud of who and what we are I am very proud of being who I am ab ka pass boyfriend hai ji I haven’t got boyfriend yet I am coming to India 🇮🇳 in march we can perhaps meet up only if you’re comfortable otherwise I understand completely ji hannji no pressure or anything nice to meet you bhaiya ji may god bless you always
Damn, you went through a lot . I'm a mallu gay too. Definitely proud of you. Haven't come out yet, but definitely inspiring.
I am also gay too I have come out to my parents and they will never ever except me my name is chetan from England 🏴
My name is chetan from England 🏴 I have been through hell it’s been very horrible and nasty 🤢 are you on WhatsApp I am
I am a gay too but for me the struggle is that I am more masculine and people don't believe me when I tell them that I am gay. They think that I am just kidding, so it's a different struggle for masculine gays but people are slowly changing their attitude specially in cities like Delhi and Mumbai. In my office everybody on my team knows that I am gay, and I am treated equal to them.
We should do something about breaking stereotypes about gay people.
That's so good dude. This holds for me too. However, I am 19 and I haven't told anyone except my mom.
You should be glad in the sense that you don't get bullied for being feminine. Life being feminine is very horrible since childhood! 😥 I'm still in my adulthood, dealing with those consequences. I'm still traumatized.
Hi
My name is chetan from England 🏴 I am gay too how so exciting to know about you wow 🤩 I had such a horrible time I have been through horrible nasty things
Hiii ur insta id
i am a malayali gay teen. i remeber when i first came out to my mum at 13, i was not ready beause i had not accepted myself. so i was sat there not able to face my mothers reaction, with tears streaming down my face. the very next day i got sent to be converted from 'this sinful nature'. there i only hated myself more. both my mothers and my unacceptance almost destroyed of my family! only after self acceptance and coming out can you go anywhere with yourself. that dark place in my life lead me to be dignosed with depression and dissociation. but after telling my mother that i am , after one long year, proud of my sexuality and will not give her anymore false hope of changing it. that sense of freedom is AMAZING. thank you so much for making this video. india is so far from being a safe place to openly live in, despite all the people who are LGBTQ+ in it. only after we accept and defend our rights and freedom will anything ever be changed. love from thoughtfox
I can sense your pain
I am a 43 year old malayali lesbian living in San Diego. Being lesbian is the biggest gift for me .
I like his accent😍
I really like ur video..i am 35 now when i was a kid there is no internet to explore or any news about lgbt .I used to dance like girls ,in girls cloth and makeup..at that time i was nit aware that i was different even my family take things very lightly..when i grow and realized that i m attracted to men instead of girls I dont know who to tell all these .Many of friends have taken advantage of it..Now its high time when i m facing marriage pressure still i cant tell my family the truth and simply denying to do marriage
Why don't u first become financially independent . Try and meet a Desi guy u like . Become a couple and start living together . And tell it family ur not interested in "marriage"
get a job outside of your hometown. You are aggarwal so I am guessing you're from the North, so search for some jobs in the South, like Mumbai or Bangalore most importantly get away from them
hey idk how I found you, but I am from Tirrupur. And even though I mostly grew up in Chennai, my parents are PRETTY orthodox. You must definitely be SUPER brave.
Don't worry! We'll support you!
hey gopu
I wish to hug the little you,kind of understand what you went through
I am extremely happy that the community which is a so called 'taboo' in this bad society is blooming and people like ya'll are making it simpler for others to come out of closet by changing the mentality of orthodox Indians people.
You talked nicely.
we LGBTQIA people must have to unite for our basic rights and it will happened when our community people's came out to society , very proudly. 💖
Really Eager to see u speak Tamil Bro. Bcoz ur voice is so sweet like u are. And all the things which u said is fantastic and I'm proud of u bro that u have come out in public about ur experience and sexuality. Good luck for ur future bro.
I love u soo much 😂😂and I love and respect every gay people and they are soo cute and care for each other 😂but indian people have to understand its not a weird things. 😂i respect u dear
R u too
No I'm not but I always respect every individual feeling 😂😂😂
@@dachenyangzom5632 so why u are laugh in ur all comments
Gopuuu!! Thank you so much for sharing this video here. I couldn't relate to the other coming out videos as much as I did to this. Because I'm a 23 year old Malayalee lesbian born in Bangalore whose parents are from Kerala and mum specifically from palakkad. It was so beautiful to hear you talk and you are so freaking *brave* and I'm super proud of you!
Sending you lots of love!! ❤❤
Sending you loves back! :)
Thanks ..I don't know how I ended up watching your video I was searching about view's of Indian people about homosexuality coz I'm confused about myself and I'm trying to figure it out.
Your so brave. There are so many south Indian man who are afraid to come out.. I'm just speechless.
Bro, I think we should work for the children(LGBTQ) with the help of schools. Bcz you and I know how ugly our childhood was, but I never want somebody to go through that phase. We can protect and aware the teens and small kids, who are bit different in behavior like us, with the help of the teachers. So that they won't regret like you and me are regretting about our childhood and memories. 🥺
Thank you for putting out your story. It can't be easy to be honest on the internet to strangers but thank you. You're helping a lot of young people hope that they can come out one day.
Thank you so much bhayia for talking about this, you’ve installed confidence in me!
Wonderful video. Even I knew I was different from the time I was 8 or 9 years old. Fortunately, I was not bullied or asked for sexual favours. It is sad that you had to go through all that. You have turned out even stronger. Suicide rates are many times higher among LGBTQ youth.
Now, 377 has been modified. Still, as you mention, the most important thing is ground reality and every day life for out LGBT people. I am seeing improvement in the attitudes of the current generation.
You are so right from 18:01
Till the day our school books will not have LGBTQ topics ( for awareness and also lgbtq stories and characters in lessons) we can’t call Indian society gender inclusive... and as you rightly said straight people don’t have lgbtq issues as their priority .... so we need many lgbtqai representatives in various areas like politics and education, to bring a widespread inclusion.
Sexual orientation and gender/sex are two separate things . The reason why LGBT+ is not in mainstream is like any other minority not in the mainstream . Because population /percent is lower. LGBT+ is like a less than 5% ratio. Some even say less than 1% . Just like in LGBT+ communities and pop culture within the community , straight culture is not really included . State of minority community within a state .
@@Tragic.Kingdom gay males with passive sexuality and gay females with dominant sexuality like me are pretty much of a vocal minority. dominant males with homosexual tendencies and passive females with homosexual tendencies are the silent queer majority
I m a future doctor I m interested in men for me it's really common it just variation among population how some people are black white thin fat short tall likewise preference is different. In medical science homosexuality is considered normal
Hiii i am future doctor u meet me plzzz reply now
Plzzz reply fast
I'm a future school director reply me from jharkhand
Fabulous bro.. you put forth what exactly gay guys feel or face the challenges in life..in fact I am gay and being a gay I always keep myself apart from others. Because I always have a fear to be teased by others. Though our country legalized the gay relationships and all but still our society remains same, which should be grown up with a supportive mentality. But yeah you did really a great job..kudos to you love from Jeetu Odisha ♥️♥️🤟🤟
What an amazing young man. You have been raised well. 🥰
I soo relate to that, when I came out on my instagram I had so many fake people being like Woww, we totally support you and if u ever need to talk I’m here and all that stuff, I’m not even joking cause, I would talk to them here and there after school and a very stupid question would arise: “Are you still gay?” And I’m like yeahh. And they are like we support but not if ur like James Charles or if ur not a”hijda” and they somehow feel godlike to say stuff like that. These type of comments always kept me from coming out open
Y Amd hiding my feminine side or tendencies cause I needed a support but the only support I got was for my masculine side. I’ve only recently came out of that trauma and started to love myslef my body but sadly I had to litterally be in an entirely different country to do that. I love how you never change yourself around other people, Ik I did am I hate it because I was told by people I loved and respected that how to look straight and how to sit, how to dress how to not move my hands while I talk and a lot of other stuff.
Love you. Keep posting, it inspires me.
Iam bi
Watching this on 2021..... Now iam not alone
Thank you for the video! I went through the same process and experience as a child growing up in the southern US being naturally feminine (I'm a bisexual man but more into guys) and being a target for bullying from kids and adults. Question, how would I be looked at as a foreigner* gay man in India? Would I be popular? Would I be treated badly?
*ethnically, I'm afro Dominican
Thank you for showing your vulnerabilities. Having dated an Indian man, working in the United States, I would like to hear more from you about how you connect with your fellow man , your actual life behaviors in an essentially homophobic society. I was so shocked to find out that your society is not all about love and peace and acceptance. Can you speak more about that for your audience. BTW, my Indian companion is totally closeted and now raising a family as prescribed by his family. It is a tragedy waiting to unfold!
You are such an innocent boy
Hey Shubham this side
From Delhi
I watching this video in 2020
This lockdown give me too much time to think about on my sexuality that's why i'm searching on these topics ❤
Ikr 🤔😌
Hlo ...can we have talk Shubham??
Lots of love dear brother.. Actually we don't need any sympathy-empathy, we don't need any kinda Consession.. We fight for our right.. I don't know who one's gay, straight, trans.. We are 'human being' that's the main point.. Please do more videos, I'm /we are awaiting for your videos.. Take care and love you brother,from Bengal.. Bye.. 😊💖👋🌹
Rajinikanth!!! I'm just so sorry for your childhood. Let your childhood RIP. 😇😇😇
You inspired me I still don't know what will I do 😭😭
Wtf at age of 9 you were exploited re BJ. Dude respect. Stay strong there are some messed up
People out there who should be put in a special place
Same story here... ഞാൻ എന്റെ childhood okke orthu🌈
I am also gay and I proud myself.pta nhi kab sabki socch badlagi hum bhi khul ke ji paengey .Kya hamara koi future nhi .we are natural it's genetic .ek gay ki life bhut stressful hoti h jiney ki eccha khutum hojati h .Kash humey koi samjh PTA😪😪😞
Hey how are you USA dude here
Hiii u from
Namaste! Beautiful Soul! Your kind words are so sincere.
Great.......your opportunity to tell the world well done. Enjoyed your story very brave of you.....
Brave man. Good luck to you and our gay brothers and sisters in India.
I grew up in San Francisco. I was 14 when Stonewall happened. Even growing up in San Francisco I was bullied and felt isolated. I remember teachers and scoutmasters telling me "stop acting like a sissy". I was sent to counselors and a psychiatrist who were similarly unsupportive and blamed me for the bullying. I learned otherwise only when I became politically active in the Democratic Party and met early gay rights activists. I eventuality met Harvey Milk and supported him in 4 campaigns. Harvey proved to San Francisco that it's ok to be gay and that coming out changes people's minds. 🌈
I had a lot of struggles when I was a kid growing up in calicut. I use to speak English and I only love English songs. All kids bullied me and I still struggle to live in this village
I'm really happy what I would be. We all are human that's it. Be proud to be gay. Have a great future a head all. Stay Happy Stay Healthy Stay Safe. God bless you all.
It will take time but yes I agree public needs to be sensitized
thanks for encouraging me
OMG I am in love with you, I am also from Palakkad and a lesbian and your video was very helpful.
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I am a simple boy but feel ur imotions
The shere lack of information and knowledge about alternate sexual orientation is bizzare. I know for myself, how much uncomfortable and traumatized i felt when class 10th biology was being introduced. I mean it wasn't for me... And i was traumatised by thinking that I would have to be this way... Those science books never reflected anything about lgbtq+ identity. It was in my college days that I came to know about lgbtq community. I was relieved then... Knowing that nothing is wrong with me...and there are people like me out in the world.
Thanks for sharing your experience and viewpoint.
You are just starting to fly, your Beautiful. From United States.
Really....admire Your courage
I saw the comments... & realised that.... Most of the pple can understand their sexuality, wt is it.... But no onecame out !!!...that what they r feeling it's a safe place to expose them self......
Thank you so much for sharing this!
You're doing a great job buddy 👍
Best of luck for future dude 😊
U have a great courage.. focus on your spiritual side, the common straight guys are void ... but you hould probably have great potential. ... do good take care we are born that way
You are so brave bro , love you
Thanks for the Video. I am proud of you
Thank you for your courage and sharing your story.
I am with you dear
RESPECTED SIR.
I SAW ONLY FIRST 6:30 MINUTES OF YOUR VIDEO.
CHILD I AM REALLY PAINED TO KNOW THE SEXUAL HORRORS YOU FACED FROM AGE 9.
NO KID WETHER STRAIGHT OR GAY BOY OR GIRL, ANY KID MUST NOT GO THROUGH IT.
THAT'S A FOOLS WISHING.
BUT REALITY IS TOTALLY HARSH.
I AM SORRY FOR YOUR TRAUMA.
SIR I NOTICED YOU ARE NOT POSTING ANY VIDEOS.
I HOPE YOU ARE WELL.
hi gopu i am 23 yr old gay i am happy of wt i am
Bravo for your bravery!
My condolences for this guy parents such a shame their progeny Ended with this guy
💓lots of love from me
Hey gopu, you resembles the malayali tech TH-camr Amal Gopal. Love you❤️❤️❤️
You are brave😍🌸🌺
Great video dear keep going like this u are the best 😊👍
see.. it's depend person to person... kuch log bht supportive hote hai but some are against of it.. so everyone has their own perspective.. my request to those who against of this that please interrupt in someone's personal matter... ab gay or lesbian hona criminal nhi h
Love u gopu❤😘
Thanks for sharing your viewpoints, I like your consent
Hi aman my name is chetan from England I am also gay too my parents will never ever except me for who or what I am
Thanks god im not leaving in india
I support you
I am not gay but I respect gay people
Nice joke
@@krishna37826 chodu
@@krishna37826 I think u are gay
i am gay too....but i can feel you
Me too
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We should unite*
Sometimes coming out is not so easy.
I,m a gay frm india this story is almost same as mine Sometimes I act like girl so people call me mitha chaka Or wht wht even the teacher of our school make fun of me in front of the class in this situation I don't even know how to react my face turns red because I feel shy in front of them No one can't understand us
To be honest
It feel like life is testing me on every stage although I always follow my heart work and do good karma but this thing is really painful im not able to speak about this with family and friends always feel as i am pretending in my family 😢
I love you guys
R u in India
Not Rajinikanth being your first crush🤣
In my defence, I was 3! :D xP
Great bro 👌👍
In future, i will put a video like this
Who's watching in 2021
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey how are you
You are so so so cute buddy
Oh god u r dam cute yaar...i really like u
Well done!
Good!
Hi
Very old video are you even active today?
Only tears and agony
im from tamilnadu i love your speaking english .pls tell about growing tamil
So sad story but for some reason I keep laughing crying and laughing 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣😎