I feel like Chioma didn’t blindside Paul with all of this information. He’s a narcissist so everything he hears he feels as though it is an attack and doesn’t give himself the chance to hear what she really has to say. I’m sure she’s brought up her issues overtime and he just refuses to listens and instead flips the script. During these therapy sessions she’s very vocal so I’m sure she speaks up for herself at home but good ole Paul is not trying to hear that shit 😂😂
Thank you!! Every time J and I say she needs to speak up, or she needs to know how to love herself so she can tell others how to love her, or she shouldn't blindside him with this stuff...he has actively been gaslighting her the entire time up until this point. It's obvious that she's not a quiet chick. She has probably been telling him all these things for a while now....these therapy sessions are not the first time he's heard any of this.
Yeah he's definitely a narcissist his sister is a saboteur she don't want him with anybody my sister had did the same thing to my brother and a previous previous relationship he was with she dropped off all her kids on him plus his eight kids that he had and the girl ended up leaving my brother the same day which was okay cuz my brother didn't like her anyway but that's what his sister is doing to their relationship and she's going to continue to do it because he doesn't want to see it for what it is
This guy is like a big ass kid. He has no BUSINESS being in an relationship until he gets his attitude, emotional intelligence, and maturity together. This is a problem with some of the roles women play in relationships, they baby their men as if they have no self control or ability to SEE what they’re saying when they can and very well do, they choose to act like they can’t. She needs to stop talking and start doing and set some real hard cold boundaries, for HERself
The kid situation is a massive manipulation. He makes her watch the kids to make him look good, but also control Chioma. If she sets boundaries “she hates kids” or she’s disrespectful to his family”. That’s incredibly messed up. Him saying you gotta watch how you talk about this when she didn’t insult the kids...this is what you call gaslighting. Why is Chioma still talking marriage?!!! I want to scream
First it all.To be a good driver you need to take driving lessons to be good at it.Same as parenting,it requires practise.You out here talking about manipulation.
No accountability, it's like kryptonite for women. Like "oohhhhhh, it was a narcissistic misogynistic" most likely all his fault. This is a two way street.
I’m really concerned….she said “we getting married” and he hasn’t even gave her a ring to prove that. The way he disregards and invalidates her feelings like he doesn’t take any accountability. Why would you want to marry him???
Rather than discussing and resolving an issue, Paul immediately brings up his qualms about how Chioma “words” something or something else trivial. Call it like I see it, he’s a narcissist.
Yes exactly. My ex was like this. It would no longer be about the point I was making but one specific word I decided to use for the next 20 min. It's a form of deflecting and distraction so that you forget about the main topic...AVOIDANCE. Crazy because in the same sitting he would accuse me of not "seeing the bigger picture".
@@praisebeme lol, my ex stayed telling me I "couldn't see the forest for the trees". Sir....can we solve this discussion like adults, please? So glad I left and watching this series brings back so many memories.
@@Shontay06 No accountability, it's like kryptonite for women. Like "oohhhhhh, it was a narcissistic misogynistic" most likely all his fault. This is a two way street.
I agree with you two. She needs to RUN! I don't understand why she keeps even bringing up marriage with someone like Paul. If she really thinks she "loves" him, I would love for her to articulate WHAT IT IS THAT SHE LOVES ABOUT HIM, RIGHT NOW. Not what he once was, but what he is now that's lovable.
I think she had to come to a public platform to get everything out and hear herself because imagine trying to have a discussion in private. He's probably done a number on her self esteem constantly moving the goalpost and trying to make everything a problem she needs to work on.
Paul: I’m sure Chioma didn’t even check Denise’s credentials before she booked a session 😳 Man, he takes every opportunity to insult Chioma. And we knew he didn’t respect Denise before, but now he’s just blatantly disrespecting her as well.
Most Nigerian men are like this(from my experience). Even my father is similar to Paul on many concerning levels. Unfortunately, in Nigeria, they value community over independence. Women are supposed to stay regardless of what the man does. It's toxic and weird. Chioma needs to leave and love herself. Because she will lose her sanity sooner than later. Paul, like most Nigerian men, is narcissistic and has a god complex. Paul is really similar to my father. It's sad.
I see it in some Ghanaian men too! I think it’s because of the way their mothers and African society raises them to believe that women are supposed to care for them no matter what 🤦🏾♀️
i don’t think it’s necessary wrong to bring up problems for the first time in therapy without telling your partner, because maybe this is the only opportunity the person gets to express that situation and they’ve already tried telling their partner but they never listened
And it seems like she tried to talk to him before too. I agree, I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing, but the situation is a little different because they are on camera
@@blueismylove3128 Completely agree and he was already averse to this entire therapy session with the cameras on. I think he's more shocked and looks attacked because she's airing out all of the things she's tried to say at home. Notice how when she brings these things up, she's looking at Denise. More than likely because she already knows how Paul is gonna react. And her body language towards Paul's responses just shows that she's anticipating how he'll react versus what she's been getting back at home
yes. or they might not know how to talk about it with them! maybe they're more passive, maybe the partner is abusive, etc. Therapy is meant to help you be more direct, & not be passive aggressive about your problems, so I think it's okay if some things come out that haven't come out at home yet... I think a good therapist would help moderate so the partner doesn't feel blindsided or attacked by new info... they would help talk them through it.
@@musiccheetahjudge don't wanna be a dream crusher but all this is fake and there is a video of them rehearsing the lines before the show. So now he is getting attack over stupidity of people to think its real.
@@davilsonpinhel4168 depends, did his sister behave like one? Because if you behave like and later called one don't be mad, isn't that why you behaved Ike that in the first place?
I truly hope she left him. I saw myself in her in this situation and I am even happier that I removed myself from that toxic situation. You set yourself up for failure, playing Wife before receiving a ring. But also you have to remember not to completely lose yourself within your relationship. His a prick but she knows that now...so she needs to take accountability for her contribution to the problems and move on. He will never change ...for her, Ever. He may very well change but not with her while she is enabling his immaturity.
Paul has not said one thing so far that indicates that he even like Chioma. He's always ready to start a fight with her, disagree with her, and put her down. So to me... he hates her! He sees her as his enemy! Ya'll right! She needs to RUN! She needs to get a degree change! SHE NEEDS A JOSH!!!
I feel like she's is putting out a point on what she doesn't like then he will deflect and bring up something else that makes her mad and she'll start going in on that but the point she just made was never acknowledged and therefore it was never solved and its probably been in a cycle like this for a while and this is why they can't solve anything he's also not listening to her because of his superiority complex that he feels he has over her and thats also why he is so disrespectful to the therapist.
Big superior complex. Misogyny at its finest. He comes from a culture that puts men at the top and women at the bottom. Like no joke. I’m Ghanaian and it’s very similar to Nigerian culture
@@garbrah180 stop talking rubbish don't bring culture into this he is just an overgrown baby don't bring culture and try to generalise everything that is slavery in the mind just the way your master wants you to thiNk
@@garbrah180 Well you maybe right about the culture being similar but I think over time Ghanaian men are changing.I mean ladies are getting more freedom and men listen now
I really don’t think the couples themselves are 100% acting. The way Paul acts on other platforms.. seems he has the same narcissistic behavior, also STILL have no idea what his actual job is lol
It's not acting they are an actual couple and their problems are real the only one acting is Denise the therapists IT WAS COMFIRMED FROM CHIOMA IN THE AFTERMATH EPISODE THAT HIS CLIENTS WAS ALL A LIE
She's holding on to the person she thought he was before they moved in together. Once she moved in, in his mind he's like ok she's mine now I can stop with all the extra. He said it too, he's like we live together what more do you want? She needs to realize that person she dated before they moved in together is not who he really is and get out.
Yes oh my gosh, the little snippets that they see you can tell that they're going through something DEEP but I'm trying to watch it with them and not skip ahead
He is the last one to suggest someone needs healing and to look within when he has not taken accountability for one thing yet. They're both too much on the defense like you said listening to respond. They honestly both look childish at this point because she may be valid in her concerns but she has no boundaries to let things get this far from the wifely duties to being the unpaid nanny, and he clearly believes this is his world and she is just trying everything to survive in it. She has a right to be angry but if she actually healed herself as he is suggesting, she would leave him. There's no way they can thrive at this point and it's clear this relationship is based on money and bedroom activities. He's been gaslighting her the entire time and not to reach but I doubt he is faithful because I'm getting strong narcissistic vibes...
Guys I cannot wait for you all to watch the rest, and then the aftermath. Both couples are super interesting and raise some valid conversations. Thank you for covering it on your channel
I dont believe that this is the first time she has said something. He acts like she is obligated to take care of his sister's children. i am a mother and i don't want anyone else's kids, sometimes i don't want mine lol.
Josh knew what he was saying when he said "Get u a Josh, stay away from Pauls." Isi u gotta admit it. 🤣🤣 This episode was a mess tho. Maybe I'm naive to say this but I thought men like these were only in movies, cause this man is a CHARACTER. Everything just slicked over his head fr fr.
Another thing I peeped is them talking about marriage saying " when we're married" or "as my wife " when Paul hasn't even proposed its as though Paul is holding that marriage title over her.
Wait till part 4 there is even more tea. Yes I’m guilty and watched ahead cause I wanted to form opinions and see if y’all had the same thoughts. I can’t wait for y’all thoughts on the next one ☕️
I love y’all’s relationship, you have helped me realize what I want, and to not settle. I love seeing you guys so happy together. I wish you both nothing but the best❤️ thank you guys for all the content you’ve been pushing out! I know it’s a lot of work, and it doesn’t go unnoticed💗
So not only is he toxic but his fam is toxic. Whyyyyyyyyy is she still with him?? As far as I can see, and I've been watching from the beginning, they are both very immature. Neither one of them know what they want or how to handle a relationship. He has too much pride that he is so blind to what he is doing wrong, and she can't even tell him how she wants to be loved. He is dismissive, and she is too submissive. There is no balance in this relationship and friendship isn't even a foundation to this relationship. It's always good to be friends first so you can get to know each other on a deeper level. She would've seen more of who he was and hopefully moved on, or just stayed friends. I don't know how old or new this vid is but I hope she has seen her self worth and realized she deserved better.
I feel like she loves the idea of loving him and she doesn’t want to leave because she’ll be alone. I could be wrong but that’s exactly how I was being treated and I didn’t have the balls to leave. Paul is literally a freaking child and just from my experience this is almost unbearable to watch
8:00 common guys it’s most likely that she has brought this up before therapy or at least tried to give him an hint can we really trust this guy. At that point it just sounded like he was making excuses and was just tryna make her out to be the bad guy for highlight that issue which is narcissist behaviour 🙄😒
As a Nigerian TH-camr I must say you’re doing a very fantastic job. Although my content is much different from yours. I admire your consistency. Makes me want to go harder as well. Keep up the good work ❤️
He said if your still bringing up stuff from the past yet he brought up her partying with her friends 😭 and another thing every time she says but I love this man I scream WHYYYYYYYY😭😭😭😭
but before she got into what she was talkin about she said that he didn’t understand her problem with it so that means she tried to talk to him about that right? so why is he actin like this his first time hearin this-
y'all are quite possibly the only yt couple i actually watch, talk about quality, constructive and very much educational content... loving it here, i just love how much i learn from you both, im 19 and i've been very intentional about growing in my singleness and individuality in general and you guys have deff taught me stuff i wouldnt be getting on a daily, so thank you from somebody's future wife 😂👌👌
Paul tripping like Chioma was pushed to the edge that's why she's reacting the way she is obviously she cares about them I think her word choice came out of anger at the situation not towards the kids
Isi looks so beautiful I'm loving the look from the hair,face and outfit Josh you look great too! the blankets matching 🥺❤Sending love for y'all and your families💚 We are all invested in this or what
I just want to say that from watching this channel and your individual channel’s it has helped me do a lot of self reflection on how communicate.Wanted to thank you guys for that❤️
I just finished watching all six parts and it is an emotional rollercoaster from beginning to end. At least they keep it interesting. You are hit with new things constantly. The whole time you are like is she going to leave or stay, and you kind of get an answer at the end
Imma need this man to stop talking at Denise like a child when he’s the child here
😭
these types of men refuse to accept that they’re not “alphas” that they think they are
@@queenbaudelaire3021 then they expose him for being broke. Apparently Chioma pays 60% of the bills. So much for a "provider"
You know shes not a real therapist right?
Davilson pinhel they’re all actors... his character is still talking to her character like she’s a child
I feel like Chioma didn’t blindside Paul with all of this information. He’s a narcissist so everything he hears he feels as though it is an attack and doesn’t give himself the chance to hear what she really has to say. I’m sure she’s brought up her issues overtime and he just refuses to listens and instead flips the script. During these therapy sessions she’s very vocal so I’m sure she speaks up for herself at home but good ole Paul is not trying to hear that shit 😂😂
!!!!!
No need to swear tho
Thank you!! Every time J and I say she needs to speak up, or she needs to know how to love herself so she can tell others how to love her, or she shouldn't blindside him with this stuff...he has actively been gaslighting her the entire time up until this point. It's obvious that she's not a quiet chick. She has probably been telling him all these things for a while now....these therapy sessions are not the first time he's heard any of this.
Girl shut up @sarah
Yeah he's definitely a narcissist his sister is a saboteur she don't want him with anybody my sister had did the same thing to my brother and a previous previous relationship he was with she dropped off all her kids on him plus his eight kids that he had and the girl ended up leaving my brother the same day which was okay cuz my brother didn't like her anyway but that's what his sister is doing to their relationship and she's going to continue to do it because he doesn't want to see it for what it is
Josh: Get you a Josh leave you a Paul
Me: Amen
Facttss!!! 😌 ✌🏽
Same lol
Lol😂
This guy is like a big ass kid. He has no BUSINESS being in an relationship until he gets his attitude, emotional intelligence, and maturity together. This is a problem with some of the roles women play in relationships, they baby their men as if they have no self control or ability to SEE what they’re saying when they can and very well do, they choose to act like they can’t. She needs to stop talking and start doing and set some real hard cold boundaries, for HERself
they broke up
@@ifyremmy damn why you gotta ruin it tho
@@ifyremmy Jeez why you spoilt it now..
@@HairByPierre sorry guys 😭
What do you expect like...ofc they gonna break up tf
“Get you a Josh, and leave you a Paul” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
On marble!!
Amen
AMEN. AMEN. AMEN.
Just tell me where! Lol
YES 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The kid situation is a massive manipulation. He makes her watch the kids to make him look good, but also control Chioma. If she sets boundaries “she hates kids” or she’s disrespectful to his family”. That’s incredibly messed up. Him saying you gotta watch how you talk about this when she didn’t insult the kids...this is what you call gaslighting. Why is Chioma still talking marriage?!!! I want to scream
Mad gaslighting
I think they’ve broken up now
@@beewilliams8447 lord I hope so. Because sis seems loony and blinded by most likely just the sex
@@beewilliams8447 I truly hope so... She deserves better than that baffoon!
First it all.To be a good driver you need to take driving lessons to be good at it.Same as parenting,it requires practise.You out here talking about manipulation.
This part was comedy central for me. I honestly wanted to slap the shit out of Paul face.
Me too girl🙄 Paul is not it
Same. If my partner was ANYTHING like Paul I would be out in a second
Slap his bald head *
Sitting here yelling at my phone, to try and get some of the anger this man brought into my life by just watching him speak 🤦🏽♀️
No accountability, it's like kryptonite for women. Like "oohhhhhh, it was a narcissistic misogynistic" most likely all his fault. This is a two way street.
I’m really concerned….she said “we getting married” and he hasn’t even gave her a ring to prove that. The way he disregards and invalidates her feelings like he doesn’t take any accountability. Why would you want to marry him???
There is something she is holding onto that I believe isn’t there or isn’t worth all the other negatives for that one thing
Sadly so many BW find this to be the norm
We need to know that we deserve a loving respectful partner
Its fake like damm, its getting tiring, there is a video of them rehearsing the lines before the show.
Rather than discussing and resolving an issue, Paul immediately brings up his qualms about how Chioma “words” something or something else trivial. Call it like I see it, he’s a narcissist.
Amennnn!!
Yes exactly. My ex was like this. It would no longer be about the point I was making but one specific word I decided to use for the next 20 min. It's a form of deflecting and distraction so that you forget about the main topic...AVOIDANCE. Crazy because in the same sitting he would accuse me of not "seeing the bigger picture".
@@praisebeme lol, my ex stayed telling me I "couldn't see the forest for the trees". Sir....can we solve this discussion like adults, please? So glad I left and watching this series brings back so many memories.
@@Shontay06 No accountability, it's like kryptonite for women. Like "oohhhhhh, it was a narcissistic misogynistic" most likely all his fault. This is a two way street.
@@davilsonpinhel4168 ...not even what was said or implied but I love your attempt at trying to prove a point.
I’m definitely invested in this series bc this has been a LOT 😂😭 and isi’s wig is LAID TO THE GAWDS 😍😍😍
Same
I was abt to say that abt the wig 😍😍😍 can't stop looking at it 🥰🥰
@@filipa8626 oo9o999p
It could be a headband wig reason her edges look so natural
i ain kno it was a wig till uu said sum 🥰
“Maybe she need to speak into his beard so it catch sumn”
- Josh THEE Criminal Mastermind
I agree with you two. She needs to RUN! I don't understand why she keeps even bringing up marriage with someone like Paul. If she really thinks she "loves" him, I would love for her to articulate WHAT IT IS THAT SHE LOVES ABOUT HIM, RIGHT NOW. Not what he once was, but what he is now that's lovable.
I think she had to come to a public platform to get everything out and hear herself because imagine trying to have a discussion in private. He's probably done a number on her self esteem constantly moving the goalpost and trying to make everything a problem she needs to work on.
This!
You know its fake right?
he was gaslighting her so bad!! oooh 😒 I see why she needed to get this mess documented on camera lol
@@davilsonpinhel4168 it’s not, that was a myth
She probably had to get this out so she dont feel crazy dealing with a narcissist can make u feel like ur the one who's crazy
Paul: I’m sure Chioma didn’t even check Denise’s credentials before she booked a session
😳 Man, he takes every opportunity to insult Chioma. And we knew he didn’t respect Denise before, but now he’s just blatantly disrespecting her as well.
Most Nigerian men are like this(from my experience). Even my father is similar to Paul on many concerning levels. Unfortunately, in Nigeria, they value community over independence. Women are supposed to stay regardless of what the man does. It's toxic and weird. Chioma needs to leave and love herself. Because she will lose her sanity sooner than later. Paul, like most Nigerian men, is narcissistic and has a god complex. Paul is really similar to my father. It's sad.
Same
I see it in some Ghanaian men too! I think it’s because of the way their mothers and African society raises them to believe that women are supposed to care for them no matter what 🤦🏾♀️
Sad to say I agree with you. And I’m Nigerian.
So true took it right out my mouth
This needs to be pinned. This is why we say watch out for Nigerian men.
i don’t think it’s necessary wrong to bring up problems for the first time in therapy without telling your partner, because maybe this is the only opportunity the person gets to express that situation and they’ve already tried telling their partner but they never listened
And it seems like she tried to talk to him before too. I agree, I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing, but the situation is a little different because they are on camera
@@blueismylove3128 Completely agree and he was already averse to this entire therapy session with the cameras on. I think he's more shocked and looks attacked because she's airing out all of the things she's tried to say at home. Notice how when she brings these things up, she's looking at Denise. More than likely because she already knows how Paul is gonna react. And her body language towards Paul's responses just shows that she's anticipating how he'll react versus what she's been getting back at home
yes. or they might not know how to talk about it with them! maybe they're more passive, maybe the partner is abusive, etc. Therapy is meant to help you be more direct, & not be passive aggressive about your problems, so I think it's okay if some things come out that haven't come out at home yet...
I think a good therapist would help moderate so the partner doesn't feel blindsided or attacked by new info... they would help talk them through it.
@@ambriaashley3383 Yeah Denise is an actress and it shows. I really don't think they should have done it on camera and went to a real therapist.
@@musiccheetahjudge don't wanna be a dream crusher but all this is fake and there is a video of them rehearsing the lines before the show. So now he is getting attack over stupidity of people to think its real.
I swear Chioma has so much restraint!!! She should have slapped him at least once,at least!!
You can see it on her face that she wanted To pop him 👏🏾😂
He should do the same to her, calling his sister a B***h, how dare she?
@@davilsonpinhel4168 no
@@davilsonpinhel4168 depends, did his sister behave like one? Because if you behave like and later called one don't be mad, isn't that why you behaved Ike that in the first place?
I truly hope she left him. I saw myself in her in this situation and I am even happier that I removed myself from that toxic situation. You set yourself up for failure, playing Wife before receiving a ring. But also you have to remember not to completely lose yourself within your relationship. His a prick but she knows that now...so she needs to take accountability for her contribution to the problems and move on. He will never change ...for her, Ever. He may very well change but not with her while she is enabling his immaturity.
Anybody else noticing josh and isi wearing colours that compliment their skin tones.
😍
Paul has not said one thing so far that indicates that he even like Chioma. He's always ready to start a fight with her, disagree with her, and put her down. So to me... he hates her! He sees her as his enemy! Ya'll right!
She needs to RUN!
She needs to get a degree change!
SHE NEEDS A JOSH!!!
I feel like she's is putting out a point on what she doesn't like then he will deflect and bring up something else that makes her mad and she'll start going in on that but the point she just made was never acknowledged and therefore it was never solved and its probably been in a cycle like this for a while and this is why they can't solve anything he's also not listening to her because of his superiority complex that he feels he has over her and thats also why he is so disrespectful to the therapist.
Big superior complex. Misogyny at its finest. He comes from a culture that puts men at the top and women at the bottom. Like no joke. I’m Ghanaian and it’s very similar to Nigerian culture
A master manipulator!
@Georgina Asante i hear you
@@garbrah180 stop talking rubbish don't bring culture into this he is just an overgrown baby don't bring culture and try to generalise everything that is slavery in the mind just the way your master wants you to thiNk
@@garbrah180 Well you maybe right about the culture being similar but I think over time Ghanaian men are changing.I mean ladies are getting more freedom and men listen now
Josh: “I couldnt deal with this for a whole episode” lmaoo i agree. I would have left paul the day i met him.
I’m a lil too invested in this series😭🤚🏾
same bro i came so early LMAo
👏🏾Me👏🏾Too. I’m literally hate watching right now! 🤦🏾♀️😂
Same
I really don’t think the couples themselves are 100% acting. The way Paul acts on other platforms.. seems he has the same narcissistic behavior, also STILL have no idea what his actual job is lol
Exactly, all we know is that he works with very "high-end clients"
He works with "affluent people" in the "business"!!!! Hahahahahahah isn't that a job?
It's not acting they are an actual couple and their problems are real the only one acting is Denise the therapists
IT WAS COMFIRMED FROM CHIOMA IN THE AFTERMATH EPISODE THAT HIS CLIENTS WAS ALL A LIE
@@shanellykendall7844 😂😂😂
@@barrim7681 Right! He’s full of it!
He’s disrespectful to the therapist because she’s a woman.
ooooh please that has nothing to do with it.
@@davilsonpinhel4168 that has everything to do with it, and the fact he lacks a relationship with Jesus. Be blessed
Oookkaayyy people we have the narcistic confirmation. HE'S MAKING HER FEEL LIKE SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH HER
She's holding on to the person she thought he was before they moved in together. Once she moved in, in his mind he's like ok she's mine now I can stop with all the extra. He said it too, he's like we live together what more do you want? She needs to realize that person she dated before they moved in together is not who he really is and get out.
What you said!
Listen, reacting to couples (preferably black) and discussing them while giving tips can be a permanent thing on the channel honestly.
My thoughts exactly!
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
I APPROOOOOVE
They need to watch ready to love and MAFS.
#CouplesReactingToCouples
If we make it a hash tag maybe they'll see it 💙💙
Paul didn’t hear or comprehend nothing sis said...He just wanted to argue and be right
#LeavePaulGetYouAJosh
Please also watch Jamel and Deborah's sessions after Chioma and Paul xx
Yes k want to see that so bad but I want an first time Experience
Yes soooo good
Yes oh my gosh, the little snippets that they see you can tell that they're going through something DEEP but I'm trying to watch it with them and not skip ahead
Josh- “you ain’t got your degree yet. You can still change majors” I’m rolling!! 😂😂😂 sis needs to transfer schools 😂😂
I NEED ME A JOSH
CHIOMA NEEDS A JOSH
EVERY WOMAN OUT THERE NEED A JOSH
I got a Josh. Tall dark and handsome, his name Tiron.🥵
@@tazzy989 i love that for u sis lol
The men is the real victim. Poor him.
@@davilsonpinhel4168 poor who??
He is the last one to suggest someone needs healing and to look within when he has not taken accountability for one thing yet. They're both too much on the defense like you said listening to respond. They honestly both look childish at this point because she may be valid in her concerns but she has no boundaries to let things get this far from the wifely duties to being the unpaid nanny, and he clearly believes this is his world and she is just trying everything to survive in it. She has a right to be angry but if she actually healed herself as he is suggesting, she would leave him. There's no way they can thrive at this point and it's clear this relationship is based on money and bedroom activities. He's been gaslighting her the entire time and not to reach but I doubt he is faithful because I'm getting strong narcissistic vibes...
spot on
Hey queen.... you dropped this 👑👑 because you're on it
the word babe is what is holding their relationship together
And the way they say that is faulty
When Josh said “everything is sliding right over his bald head” 😂💀 “maybe she need to speak it into his beard so he can catch something” lmfao 🤣
Guys I cannot wait for you all to watch the rest, and then the aftermath. Both couples are super interesting and raise some valid conversations. Thank you for covering it on your channel
josh had me weak when he said baby oil sliding over his bald head
I dont believe that this is the first time she has said something. He acts like she is obligated to take care of his sister's children. i am a mother and i don't want anyone else's kids, sometimes i don't want mine lol.
Josh knew what he was saying when he said "Get u a Josh, stay away from Pauls." Isi u gotta admit it. 🤣🤣
This episode was a mess tho. Maybe I'm naive to say this but I thought men like these were only in movies, cause this man is a CHARACTER. Everything just slicked over his head fr fr.
yeahh ikr I need me a Josh
I feel the same way. this is so crazy it doesn't feel real. I couldn't handle this....i don't get why she torturing herself staying with him
Y’all are so In tune with each other and it’s inspiring to see
Another thing I peeped is them talking about marriage saying " when we're married" or "as my wife " when Paul hasn't even proposed its as though Paul is holding that marriage title over her.
We love the consistency babes🥺
Paul is evil and manipulative especially with the kids topic 🤦🏾♀️
Wait till part 4 there is even more tea. Yes I’m guilty and watched ahead cause I wanted to form opinions and see if y’all had the same thoughts. I can’t wait for y’all thoughts on the next one ☕️
It gets more and more toxic with every episode 😭 why are they still together 😭
@@srishapakokelaotswe1880 I have no clue how they made it this long
Love really is blind😭😭
@@srishapakokelaotswe1880 honey what they got ain't love
That's just facts😭
“He just letting it slide over his bald head” LMAOOOOOOO BYE🤣
“ I’m about to tho” 😂😂I almost lost it
"SPEAK INTO HIS BEARD SO HE CAN CATCH SOMETHING!" I love it !!!!😂😂
1.Why is she with him?
2. He is FOR SURE cheating on her.
3. He is a narcissist.
4. Why is she with him?
The question is why is she trying to save this relationship or the lack there of 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 ?..because that’s clearly not love …
Prolly scared of being alone. Especially after years of being together but she’s better off that way until better comes along cuz sheeesshhh
I love y’all’s relationship, you have helped me realize what I want, and to not settle. I love seeing you guys so happy together. I wish you both nothing but the best❤️ thank you guys for all the content you’ve been pushing out! I know it’s a lot of work, and it doesn’t go unnoticed💗
Paul acting like a controlled freak
Do you know what controlling means?
@@davilsonpinhel4168 who said he was controlling? Enlighten me on what it is so I let you know which part of Paul "acting like a control freak"
I’m 16 and tbh I would’ve walked out from 10 minutes into ep. 1 ✋🏽 #getyouaJoshleaveyouaPaul
So not only is he toxic but his fam is toxic. Whyyyyyyyyy is she still with him?? As far as I can see, and I've been watching from the beginning, they are both very immature. Neither one of them know what they want or how to handle a relationship. He has too much pride that he is so blind to what he is doing wrong, and she can't even tell him how she wants to be loved. He is dismissive, and she is too submissive. There is no balance in this relationship and friendship isn't even a foundation to this relationship. It's always good to be friends first so you can get to know each other on a deeper level. She would've seen more of who he was and hopefully moved on, or just stayed friends. I don't know how old or new this vid is but I hope she has seen her self worth and realized she deserved better.
God please bless every *quality* woman with a Josh, and every *quality* man with an Isi. Amen! 🤣🙏🏾
I feel like she loves the idea of loving him and she doesn’t want to leave because she’ll be alone. I could be wrong but that’s exactly how I was being treated and I didn’t have the balls to leave. Paul is literally a freaking child and just from my experience this is almost unbearable to watch
I felt emotionally drained from watching Paul. He’s like a vampire that likes to suck your energy instead of your blood.
8:00 common guys it’s most likely that she has brought this up before therapy or at least tried to give him an hint can we really trust this guy. At that point it just sounded like he was making excuses and was just tryna make her out to be the bad guy for highlight that issue which is narcissist behaviour 🙄😒
Im actually so happy you guys posted because I wanted to continue watching the series but I was like no let me wait for Josh and Isi to react 😭😭
Me too.....me too.....me too!!!😂😂😂🤣
As a Nigerian TH-camr I must say you’re doing a very fantastic job. Although my content is much different from yours. I admire your consistency. Makes me want to go harder as well. Keep up the good work ❤️
He said if your still bringing up stuff from the past yet he brought up her partying with her friends 😭 and another thing every time she says but I love this man I scream WHYYYYYYYY😭😭😭😭
When Josh said it’s going clear over his bald head I DIED 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Bae bae bae bae You need healing"😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣screaming!
I feel like the therapist needs therapy after that therapy session
Yeah..he was so rude! I felt so bad for her..
but before she got into what she was talkin about she said that he didn’t understand her problem with it so that means she tried to talk to him about that right? so why is he actin like this his first time hearin this-
y'all are quite possibly the only yt couple i actually watch, talk about quality, constructive and very much educational content... loving it here, i just love how much i learn from you both, im 19 and i've been very intentional about growing in my singleness and individuality in general and you guys have deff taught me stuff i wouldnt be getting on a daily, so thank you from somebody's future wife 😂👌👌
‘Maybe she should speak into his beard so it can catch something’ JOSHHHH I CANT LMAOOOO
I am so invested in this series can’t wait to get to the other couple
I’ve never seen gaslighting like this! His sister doesn’t like her because he clearly doesn’t like her! And she can feel that
Wow! Good point..I never thought about it like that but that's so true
SO TRUE! He’s probably also speaking bad about her to his sister and isn’t talking about that
Paul tripping like Chioma was pushed to the edge that's why she's reacting the way she is obviously she cares about them I think her word choice came out of anger at the situation not towards the kids
I just got out of a marriage like this, I’m about to pull a while Ciara situation! I’m ready for my Russell!
This hair, this outfit! Yass sis!😍 slay this in the house casual yet serving looks lol I love it! 💕
He the type of dude where you just wanna burn his ish down like left eye 😡🔥🤣
I would’ve choked, slapped, screamed, all of the above. No woman in her right mind would deal with this
"Get you a Josh leave you a Paul"
~Josh 2021
Also
"I'm a one man kinda woman"
~Josh 2021
Lol imma never let this die
Isi looks so beautiful I'm loving the look from the hair,face and outfit Josh you look great too! the blankets matching 🥺❤Sending love for y'all and your families💚
We are all invested in this or what
Josh got me with the "I can see why you wanted the ring" that's right isi 👏 set your standards and don't ever lower them💯
Paul is THE KING of the AINT ISH community
Paul is so disrespectful...the way he treats the therapist is enough for me to leave
I’ve watched all but I love watching it with you guys 😂 it hits different
I just want to say that from watching this channel and your individual channel’s it has helped me do a lot of self reflection on how communicate.Wanted to thank you guys for that❤️
I’m new to y’all’s channel I love how loving you guys are it’s so nice to see
This is AGING my poor brother Josh!!😭🤣
He is TIED. Toward the end, his eyes got so low!!😩
I'm currently sick physically. Hearing Paul's misogynistic self makes me feel worse. Like I literally feel myself feeling more sick.
Isi's Hair Looks AMAZING😩❤
that’s merch “Getchu A Josh Leave Paul” 😂👏🏽
her hair always looks so pretty and different, you can tell she spends quality time on her hair love it!
Paul is manipulative. He takes some of the words being said and isolates them to make himself seem like the victim and gaslights you
Isi you were looking so good in this video, that hair looks so good on you 🥺❤
Isi looks soooo GOOODDD!! 😭😍😍
The Wig! The Skin! The colour of the shirt! 😍😍 So Beautiful!!
I JUST stumbled on you both from watching Part 1. And I canNOT 😂😂. Besides that, I really love your chemistry and respect for each other 💕💪🏾.
isi is giving goddess vibesss and i didnt forget you josh lool looking very handsome as well love u guys
I just finished watching all six parts and it is an emotional rollercoaster from beginning to end. At least they keep it interesting. You are hit with new things constantly. The whole time you are like is she going to leave or stay, and you kind of get an answer at the end
Paul is wicked. After watching episode 6 and hearing him say here he doesn’t think Chioma wants kids. That’s border line WICKEDNESS
Yessss I’m invested y’all 😹
these videos making my whole week tbh!!
"Get you a Josh, and stay away from Paul's." - Joshua 2021
Please do this more often, I already watched it but I love hearing y’all point of view.
Bae....Bae....no..no....Bae throughout the whole series
I am truly learning lots from this. And enjoying your reaction to this guys
I’ve watched the whole series already but imma still watch y’all
I’m so ready for y’all to get to the finale cause y’all are gonna be SHOOK