Loving Myself Based on My Love Languages

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  • @evahappy2980
    @evahappy2980 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching this 3 years later, completely randomly, and tomorrow is Valentine's Day. CHILLS!! The timing cannot be coincidence. So inspired to love and celebrate myself tomorrow, and every day in small ways. Thank you Raya!!

  • @DexterMag-aso
    @DexterMag-aso ปีที่แล้ว

    Raya, your self-love journey, guided by love languages, is truly uplifting. Big thanks to my life coach Lisa Haisha for recommending your youtube channel during her recent retreat here in Philippines, your authenticity aligns seamlessly with her teachings, creating a meaningful exploration of self-discovery.

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a mum, I find all my love going to my kids. I need to make time for loving myself more. Thank you, I definitely found some inspiration in this video!

  • @GeojerrysAdventures
    @GeojerrysAdventures 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife and I studied that over 25 years ago and it truly helped our long-term relationship. Happily married over 25 years later. Cheers

  • @chrisphinney6430
    @chrisphinney6430 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a single person I never thought of doing this. Thanks for creating and sharing

  • @pamacs06
    @pamacs06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Uuhhh wow. The moment I saw the title clicked immediately, I was like wow I've never even considered to use this on myself, then you told the same. I love how basic things are true for all people: we are just meant to be love/d! 🥰

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So so true! ❤️❤️

  • @LJadeSummers
    @LJadeSummers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video made me realise that ive been saying words of affirmation to myself every day for years without even realising it 😅
    Everyday i sit at my dresser to either do my makeup/ hair/moisturise. And every morning I look myself in the mirror and say "hello you" and smile back at myself
    And i spend 5 minutes either putting on a facemask/ mascara or curl my hair
    And once i finish always looks at myself and say "beautiful" ,"fabulous" or blow a kiss to myself in the mirror 😅
    Its such a small little thing ive always done, so im now reccomending it to everyone, whenever you sit at your dresser, or check your hair in the mirror before you shoot out the door give youself a little wink or compliment ❤ it takes 2 seconds and it can instantly change the way you feel about yourself in that moment.
    Thank for for this video Raya ❤ youre vulnerability and willingness to share your journey is always so appreciated. Sending you love 😘

    • @lolsaXx
      @lolsaXx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is beautiful!

  • @BucketListTravellers
    @BucketListTravellers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great idea! We often focus so much on giving our love to others but don't make the time to nurture ourselves.
    I particularly liked your idea of writing to yourself and reflecting back on that when you need to lift yourself up. A friend of mine has a jar with things she's done that she's proud of or grateful for - she adds notes to it during the year and at the end of the year she reads through it and reflects on the great things that she's accomplished over the year. I think it's important to lift ourselves up with positivity as sometimes we can be our own worst critic.

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love that!! I often write down 3 things I’m grateful for and proud of myself in the evening and it’s life changing! ☺️❤️

  • @Evergreenforest33
    @Evergreenforest33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Love this so much I need to be more gentle with myself and I love the idea of using the love languages on myself!

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yay! So glad this video can help inspire some self love ❤️

    • @abhisheknair6056
      @abhisheknair6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Raya I love how you swim 🏊 in the pool

  • @WhisperingJaneASMR
    @WhisperingJaneASMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Physical touch and quality time are definitely my love languages, for sure! Thank you for this beautiful, uplifting and kind video dear Raya!

  • @kalyanisingh852
    @kalyanisingh852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this made me emotional :') i have recently been struggling with aligning my love language with my partner, and as a result been feeling taken for granted and unloved. i hope to bring it up again and also emphasize the need for both of us to make space for self-care (and not feel guilty for doing so)

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such an important conversation!! It truly saved our relationship. And yess definitely normalize taking time for self care. It will only make you both much better partners for each other!

  • @manifestandohoy9214
    @manifestandohoy9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loveeee your video. Thanks and blessings.

  • @naimawashere
    @naimawashere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this video! So many great ideas.

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Naima! (Love your name by the way) ❤️

    • @naimawashere
      @naimawashere 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RayaWasHere Thank you, that's so kind of you. ❤️

  • @paulabaum7178
    @paulabaum7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Raya, I just watched your dear younger me video from 5 years ago. It was so so great to hear and I had tears in my eyes! As an 18 year old who's about to graduate, the future seems a little overwhelming and creepy at times. But it really helped me be optimistic. You radiate so much positive energy! Thanks for existing

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Paula!! The biggest lesson I’ve learned in the last year especially is to have full trust. Everything always works out, even if in the moment it doesn’t feel like it will. I used to stress about it so so much and I’m so grateful I don’t anymore! Remember to trust because what is coming for you is even more beautiful than you can imagine ☺️❤️✨

    • @paulabaum7178
      @paulabaum7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RayaWasHere thank you so much for your amazing reply, this made my day ;) and gave me a lot of confidence for what's to come too! ❤️

  • @the_om_project
    @the_om_project 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Came here for the self love, leaving with that watercolor book!

  • @paulabaum7178
    @paulabaum7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love these ideas! Thanks for sharing

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a loving person!

  • @Muthrtung
    @Muthrtung 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just LOVE this! I fully understand the imperative need to love & respect, & honour ourselves, though it's taken me an AGE to acknowledge it... I still have a hard time looking in the mirror & speaking to myself lovingly, but am getting there. I so love the "love languages" thing, & doing that for ourselves is too inspired. shed a quick tear when you wrote yourself a love letter & THEN recorded it to remind yourself... THAT is a stunning genius act of self love to me so thank you for sharing this.

  • @relaxingwildsounds4178
    @relaxingwildsounds4178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great and lovely raya with beautiful flowers🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐 very good view !!👍🏾 Thanks lots for your beautiful sharing! Wishe you much success!💞🤝

  • @ashleykorthals7111
    @ashleykorthals7111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really needed this for myself and for my partner and I. This was SO helpful❤️✨

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh this makes me so happy to hear! ☺️✨

  • @evanneofficial
    @evanneofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this so so much!! Such a good idea ❤😍

  • @whereisangie
    @whereisangie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this video raya! i cant believe i never thought of practicing love languages with myself. its been eye opening to compare my love languages with how i treat myself😳 this is definitely an idea im going to keep reviewing and working on in my life. hope you have a beautiful day! ❤❤

  • @mammateus
    @mammateus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So lovely video💞 It really reminded me to take time for myself, subscribed!☀️

  • @martinav934
    @martinav934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very refreshing to watch, such a nice idea executed in some amazing ways!

  • @denisauhrinova8223
    @denisauhrinova8223 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohhhhh, thank you beautiful soul for such a great inspiration🙏🏻. When I saw the title I thought.. Sure, I knooow, I do it, don't I? ...And after watching this I know how wrong I was. We women treat others nicely so often and forget about ourselves.. I'll make a day to myself tomorrow. I can't wait. 🌹

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh this makes me so happy!! Did you take the day for yourself? How was it? Sometimes we need these little reminders, it’s easy to forget to show ourselves love ❤️

  • @SarahandMarek
    @SarahandMarek 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learning about love languages changes EVERYTHING for the better with relationships ❤️ thank you for sharing this ☺️ needed a reminder about this today

  • @Tumulenta
    @Tumulenta 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love to watch your vídeos! Greetings from México!!

  • @veesvoyages
    @veesvoyages 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this Raya, it was so insightful! My love language is quality time and I do notice if I apply this idea and I put time aside for myself I feel much better for it!

  • @kellyraeparker9172
    @kellyraeparker9172 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos are beautiful 💕

  • @thuriaramadan7336
    @thuriaramadan7336 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ❤language is massage 💆‍♀️ and gratitude 🙏 and breathing exercises

  • @xgofishing8699
    @xgofishing8699 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video thank for sharing

  • @DiscoverWithDima
    @DiscoverWithDima 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video Raya!

  • @RubyAliceHome
    @RubyAliceHome 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this Raya! Keep loving yourself 🥰

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! Hoping to inspire more self love ❤️

  • @andreas5508
    @andreas5508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have definetely loved this video!

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay I’m happy to hear that!

  • @mariaparamsukh
    @mariaparamsukh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this! Thank you Raya, it's something that I need to try! 😊❤ much love and light to you and to whoever reads this 😊🙌💚

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Maria! Love and light right back to you 💕✨

  • @helenwarner6140
    @helenwarner6140 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really miss your content💕 I hope your pregnancy is going well, much love from
    Ireland

  • @andmeve
    @andmeve 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This made me cry ❤️

  • @grellsutcliff2974
    @grellsutcliff2974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Raya, could you please keep us updated on how your watercolor painting is going? For example on instagram stories? I would LOVE to try it! Although, I have drawing/painting skills of a 8 year old, so I'm a bit worried that instead of picking up a relaxing hobby I would jest get frustrated at myself haha. Please let us know if this book is helpful at getting started

  • @sumitvarute
    @sumitvarute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy valentines day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @misterkingofvlogvikas9866
    @misterkingofvlogvikas9866 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very beautiful raya

  • @BonsaiHomegardening
    @BonsaiHomegardening 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Raya nice video.

  • @nino9172
    @nino9172 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video ❤️🙏

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome! So glad you like it ☺️❤️

  • @gingerbread18
    @gingerbread18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The journal thing I related to so much! I always buy them but only consistently use about two haha

  • @jhoetvs7869
    @jhoetvs7869 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOU raya

  • @whereisangie
    @whereisangie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ooooohhhh imagine watercolour painting the view from your treehouse in costa rica 😍😍😍😍

  • @mateeah
    @mateeah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Raya! I know you and Louis are strict vegans, and I'd love a video on if y'all take any supplements :)

  • @sanyogitasharma780
    @sanyogitasharma780 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    U r gorgeous.i never get bore watching ur vlogs...only thing I wanna know that what u do professionally. Loue is lucky to hv gf lyk u...ur very loving

  • @bobfrankkg
    @bobfrankkg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Goddess ❤️❤️❤️

  • @abhisheknair6056
    @abhisheknair6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Raya I love how you swim 🏊 in the pool 🏊

  • @piek359
    @piek359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woah I was just watching you and you posted 😂😂

  • @M_Ravinerakhalgot
    @M_Ravinerakhalgot 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its the opposite for me but im in usa so im most active at night now i used to watch yt vids during the day but that has changed now i watch yt vids at night so most of them are uploaded already so i can catch up at night

  • @navmoon22
    @navmoon22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    QUEEN xox

  • @rongaianthemz125
    @rongaianthemz125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls make another video of travel vlog in Kenya

  • @skkumarkumar4649
    @skkumarkumar4649 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't talk about your and our but I know only about you you are so pretty Priti and I love you

  • @robynesparza
    @robynesparza 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This vid is golden!!
    I just started a yt channel and I’m super stoked
    I’d love everyone’s support💕

  • @sumitvarute
    @sumitvarute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1 st comment ❤️🔥🔥🔥👍

  • @ugenegareth9339
    @ugenegareth9339 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    2 Esdras 2: 30 -100

  • @صداماحمد-ه1و
    @صداماحمد-ه1و 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You speak very fast
    But I like ideas thanks so much

  • @erari121
    @erari121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like
    Im from Indonesia Papua

  • @abdulrahmanabdullah6985
    @abdulrahmanabdullah6985 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hai raya good luck

  • @Ti_ace_
    @Ti_ace_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Raya
    Love from India . I really like listening to you

  • @rockyyalcin2581
    @rockyyalcin2581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your are soo Fresh and beautiful ❤️🐟

  • @AdivashiVlogerRanjeetMangi
    @AdivashiVlogerRanjeetMangi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hy

  • @skincarebymaheenzahid3754
    @skincarebymaheenzahid3754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *Why u stop upload vadios on TH-cam friend*

    • @alexabueno3806
      @alexabueno3806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can watch her on the channel with her husband called raya and louis

  • @Pauripabu
    @Pauripabu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    come to india