Thank you James! Always up building listening to your videos ! Limit your exposure to toxic people, expect less,treat annoying people like toddlers, say ok to everything because not all fires need fuel and Be unavailable. Beautiful lessons!
Thank you for these videos, having just left 2 months ago a long toxic relationship and going through the process of healing. These have been very helpful as I did have to detach for a while and stay in a non reactive state for 2 months, now able to deal with all that had to be compartmentalize, the information here has shown me who I was dealing with, what I’m made of and I will use these practices even more !!! Save yourself, life is too short to live in misery because of someone else’s baggage. Love and respect yourself enough to empower you to be all you can be. ❤️
This video does an excellent job of demystifying Stoicism. It’s not about suppressing emotions but about understanding and mastering them. Thanks for shedding light on this important distinction!
Thank you, James for your videos. I spent 20 years in a toxic relationship. I finally Left it. I found your videos here and Stoicism. I am reading Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus. Your videos have given me a way to apply Stoic philosophy in my everyday life and to find a place to heal, also to become more anchored in the present. Thank you for these tools
I’m exactly the same had a toxic Mother then went into a toxic marriage been five years recovering the damage done to me found you’re Chanel it’s helping me so so much indeed thank you xx
I try to keep all toxic people out off my life limit time around them they make me very ill but there are so many off them these type people are everywhere !!!!!!!
this is so true people!! This is me :) This is your weapon, "Don't worry about other people, worry about yourself" Life is too short to understand everyone's problem/emotions :))
To those who are watching this video: May you and your loved ones be blessed with a peaceful and joyous Christmas season. May your hearts be filled with warmth, your homes with love, and your days with the blessings of good health and happiness. Merry Christmas! 🎄✨🎁
We live in a world that more and more this is the scenario. Someone always has drama and knows you cant stand it, but still always dump their problems on you. The kicker is they know what they need to do, but never do it and constantly complain about the same thing over and over. And when you just give yourself a bit of distance, they start gossiping about you. People will always reveal their true selves when you give your self space. They turn to others and then you become the topic of gossip. Pretty sad. These types of people are not people you should give your time to.
I needed to hear this right now, I've had a toxic sibling for years, and its now irreparable and out of control like forever and completely, this is just her and I value these advise so much. Thanks for the strategies to protect my mental health and to preserve myself. I need it💕
I also have a toxic sister that we part ways since 2013. She’s been toxic with all family members. She decided she wants nothing to do with the rest of us. It’s on her! I miss my nephew and my niece of course.
Toxic should be replaced with love and understanding and most of all acceptance and never from a directive. Unless from the heart it has no power. Love the stoic philosophy but changing behaviour or thought does not mean connections on other important levels.
This was informative, thank you. When someone asks me something inappropriate or it is just none of their business, I usually say " why do you ask ?", then when they give me the lame "Oh I was just wondering", I look at them and say "Oh" , and let the silence hang there. 😊
From your video I learn that: Protecting your mental peace is crucial; sometimes that means limiting exposure to toxic people, even if they're close to you. Lowering your expectations can also help you stay unbothered, as it gives you control over your emotions and prevents unnecessary disappointment. Thanks!
This video resonates deeply with me, especially the idea of detaching from external events to cultivate inner peace. It’s a powerful reminder that our emotions are within our control, and by practicing this, we can respond with clarity and wisdom in everyday life. Definitely a Stoic principle worth applying!
Wow, this was incredibly empowering and eye-opening! The way you broke down each step with personal insights and practical advice is truly inspiring. I love how you emphasized protecting your peace and setting boundaries without guilt. The humor strategy was such a unique and refreshing approach! Definitely bookmarking this for when I need to reclaim my energy. Thank you for this honest and motivational content!
Such a powerful lesson! Realizing that anger is a choice and that we can control our responses is life-changing. Stoicism has taught me to maintain peace by not letting others' behavior affect my inner state. Truly inspiring and practical advice
Wow, the part about treating annoying people like toddlers really hit home for me! 😂 It’s such a simple but brilliant perspective shift that instantly diffuses frustration. I tried it today, and it was hilarious how effective it was-I couldn’t stop smiling while staying calm. Thank you for this life-changing tip!
Totally brilliant idea , I grew up in 1960s Ireland and I am going to visualize those annoying people in 1960s clothes/ shoes/haircuts, I am looking forward to the first opportunity. Happy 2025 from the West of Ireland.
Thank you for your videos, James! I've learned a great deal from your teaching through this video of how to react to unnecessary ppls while keeping my inner peace in control & staying cool like a cucumber🥒😊❤🙏. Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to James & all the listeners here! ✨️🎄🎅 ✨️🎄🎅 ✨️
Practicing Stoic philosophy helps us realize that negative emotions arise from how we react to events, not the events themselves. By controlling our reactions and focusing on what is within our control, we can maintain inner peace and avoid being bothered by others. As Marcus Aurelius said, "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."
Peace lies in your control. Choose not to give others power over your emotions-stay grounded, focus on what truly matters, and let go of what you cannot control.
Because I need to change bags frequently for work, I chose them for attending important gatherings. The replica of kislux gave me more choices, and it completely held up the scene. Everyone praised it for looking good.
Oops, I’ve been the elephant in the room, that one who drains people, the scatty annoying, in your face, no boundaries, oops I had serious hormonal dysfunction that caused childhood through to adulthood issues, psychological and physical, had I been diagnosed with my birth defects, my abnormalities in my periods, i wouldn’t have had the cognitive, physical and mental disorders as bad and the labels that had caused the above, oops it was medical negligence. Oops mr stoic reader, maybe consider that children and adults don’t choose to be the way they are. Oops when you realise your behaviours are some of your family’s behaviours, as there’s are their parents, and you see them in your own children, your partner, and low and behold they also have the same disorders you do. I think the conclusion that if I didn’t know what was wrong with me and what caused stuff, how the hell do I judge someone else by their behaviour if I don’t like it, without knowing what’s going on internally for them. Diagnosis in the medical field is a joke, when you see abnormalities, symptoms, family histories being ignored, You realise again, even if you have to break up with people, you can have more compassion for them.
I like one word here, my peace is my power.
Thank you James! Always up building listening to your videos ! Limit your exposure to toxic people, expect less,treat annoying people like toddlers, say ok to everything because not all fires need fuel and Be unavailable. Beautiful lessons!
Thank you for these videos, having just left 2 months ago a long toxic relationship and going through the process of healing. These have been very helpful as I did have to detach for a while and stay in a non reactive state for 2 months, now able to deal with all that had to be compartmentalize, the information here has shown me who I was dealing with, what I’m made of and I will use these practices even more !!! Save yourself, life is too short to live in misery because of someone else’s baggage. Love and respect yourself enough to empower you to be all you can be. ❤️
This video does an excellent job of demystifying Stoicism. It’s not about suppressing emotions but about understanding and mastering them. Thanks for shedding light on this important distinction!
Thank you, James for your videos. I spent 20 years in a toxic relationship. I finally Left it. I found your videos here and Stoicism. I am reading Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus. Your videos have given me a way to apply Stoic philosophy in my everyday life and to find a place to heal, also to become more anchored in the present. Thank you for these tools
Thanks for watching my channel. And thanks for sharing you experience. Stay blessed and stay stoic 💯👌
I’m exactly the same had a toxic Mother then went into a toxic marriage been five years recovering the damage done to me found you’re Chanel it’s helping me so so much indeed thank you xx
I try to keep all toxic people out off my life limit time around them they make me very ill but there are so many off them these type people are everywhere !!!!!!!
this is so true people!! This is me :) This is your weapon, "Don't worry about other people, worry about yourself" Life is too short to understand everyone's problem/emotions :))
To those who are watching this video: May you and your loved ones be blessed with a peaceful and joyous Christmas season. May your hearts be filled with warmth, your homes with love, and your days with the blessings of good health and happiness. Merry Christmas! 🎄✨🎁
Thank you
If not….. then what ?
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great, thanks
We live in a world that more and more this is the scenario. Someone always has drama and knows you cant stand it, but still always dump their problems on you. The kicker is they know what they need to do, but never do it and constantly complain about the same thing over and over. And when you just give yourself a bit of distance, they start gossiping about you. People will always reveal their true selves when you give your self space. They turn to others and then you become the topic of gossip. Pretty sad. These types of people are not people you should give your time to.
I needed to hear this right now, I've had a toxic sibling for years, and its now irreparable and out of control like forever and completely, this is just her and I value these advise so much. Thanks for the strategies to protect my mental health and to preserve myself. I need it💕
I also have a toxic sister that we part ways since 2013. She’s been toxic with all family members. She decided she wants nothing to do with the rest of us. It’s on her! I miss my nephew and my niece of course.
so sad.
I have a toxic older sister who is hateful and always criticizing me "You're not obligated to stick around just because you share DNA" - I LOVE THIS.
Toxic should be replaced with love and understanding and most of all acceptance and never from a directive. Unless from the heart it has no power. Love the stoic philosophy but changing behaviour or thought does not mean connections on other important levels.
@@ellenorchid01💯 Correct.👌🏿
I love your bluntness, not that my opinion matters, but it hits home. Thank you!
This is just the kind of teaching I need
Thanks 👍
Much reflection for me. Many facets of this video were thought provoking. An excellent piiece worthy to those that care.
I loved the word my peace is priceless
Thanx so much for these lessons! I have learnt a lot. I always try to change other's behavior and negativity which is part of their nature.
This was informative, thank you.
When someone asks me something inappropriate or it is just none of their business, I usually say " why do you ask ?", then when they give me the lame "Oh I was just wondering", I look at them and say "Oh" , and let the silence hang there. 😊
👌👌thanks sharing your experience
From your video I learn that: Protecting your mental peace is crucial; sometimes that means limiting exposure to toxic people, even if they're close to you. Lowering your expectations can also help you stay unbothered, as it gives you control over your emotions and prevents unnecessary disappointment. Thanks!
This video resonates deeply with me, especially the idea of detaching from external events to cultivate inner peace. It’s a powerful reminder that our emotions are within our control, and by practicing this, we can respond with clarity and wisdom in everyday life. Definitely a Stoic principle worth applying!
thank you 34:18
Wow, this was incredibly empowering and eye-opening! The way you broke down each step with personal insights and practical advice is truly inspiring. I love how you emphasized protecting your peace and setting boundaries without guilt. The humor strategy was such a unique and refreshing approach! Definitely bookmarking this for when I need to reclaim my energy. Thank you for this honest and motivational content!
Great stoicism 😊😊😊
Such a powerful lesson! Realizing that anger is a choice and that we can control our responses is life-changing. Stoicism has taught me to maintain peace by not letting others' behavior affect my inner state. Truly inspiring and practical advice
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience. Will apply those invaluable tips to my life. I am presently trying to avoid a toxic person.
Amazing advises ❤❤
Thank you very much ❤
SO MUCH NEEDED ADVICE...TAKING IT TO HEART TO LEARN...THANK YOU!!! SO WELL SAID....😊
Wow, the part about treating annoying people like toddlers really hit home for me! 😂 It’s such a simple but brilliant perspective shift that instantly diffuses frustration. I tried it today, and it was hilarious how effective it was-I couldn’t stop smiling while staying calm. Thank you for this life-changing tip!
Totally brilliant idea , I grew up in 1960s Ireland and I am going to visualize those annoying people in 1960s clothes/ shoes/haircuts, I am looking forward to the first opportunity. Happy 2025 from the West of Ireland.
“OK” 🥰 I usually say : Okeeeey! 🤣😂 it works
Such like messages are a. Real service to humanity
What i learned from this video 29:41 Those who truly care will respect your boundaries, while others may adapt or fade away.
I love the way you are to the point… It’s making me laugh…❤ I want to send this to my cousin right now.
Very good one I have learned a lot from this ❤
This is brilliant Simply fantastic.
Very informative and life changing
Thank you ✨️🙏✨️
Happy New Year
Thank you for your videos, James! I've learned a great deal from your teaching through this video of how to react to unnecessary ppls while keeping my inner peace in control & staying cool like a cucumber🥒😊❤🙏.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to James & all the listeners here! ✨️🎄🎅 ✨️🎄🎅 ✨️
You a very nice person Michelle. Thanks for watching my channel we need more people like you Here . Stay blessed, MerryChristmas 🎄👌
This prepares one for real and problem free life
Thank you for the meaningful video, i will take in and learn more form this knowledge.
Very useful message
You are great. I like your wisdom. Keep up the good work
Wow great teaching
What a worthwhile message.I will practice it.Tankx
"To love only what happens, what was destined. No greater harmony."
- Marcus Aurelius
I ignore what people do or say quite a lot. I refuse to allow them to have any power over me.
30:15 ignore the immediate not very text call or email need an instant response: i like this sentence❤❤❤
Full year
Practicing Stoic philosophy helps us realize that negative emotions arise from how we react to events, not the events themselves. By controlling our reactions and focusing on what is within our control, we can maintain inner peace and avoid being bothered by others. As Marcus Aurelius said, "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."
Okay
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Peace lies in your control. Choose not to give others power over your emotions-stay grounded, focus on what truly matters, and let go of what you cannot control.
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What will a mother do if her son tells her he is not his son?
MY STORY
Like anger is something bad. Why don’t you just stop popping cause it smells bad. Ridiculous. Anger is valuable and natural emotion like any other.
Why is the expectation of improving warranted in order to be stoic while saying don’t have expectations because we are flawed, so lower the bar?
Today I have created my own channel and in 2025 I will become a successful TH-camr. 0:23
The son is 51 years old who made the statement..
Because I need to change bags frequently for work, I chose them for attending important gatherings. The replica of kislux gave me more choices, and it completely held up the scene. Everyone praised it for looking good.
Or your own…
Oops, I’ve been the elephant in the room, that one who drains people, the scatty annoying, in your face, no boundaries, oops I had serious hormonal dysfunction that caused childhood through to adulthood issues, psychological and physical, had I been diagnosed with my birth defects, my abnormalities in my periods, i wouldn’t have had the cognitive, physical and mental disorders as bad and the labels that had caused the above, oops it was medical negligence. Oops mr stoic reader, maybe consider that children and adults don’t choose to be the way they are. Oops when you realise your behaviours are some of your family’s behaviours, as there’s are their parents, and you see them in your own children, your partner, and low and behold they also have the same disorders you do. I think the conclusion that if I didn’t know what was wrong with me and what caused stuff, how the hell do I judge someone else by their behaviour if I don’t like it, without knowing what’s going on internally for them. Diagnosis in the medical field is a joke, when you see abnormalities, symptoms, family histories being ignored, You realise again, even if you have to break up with people, you can have more compassion for them.
Idont have aney contact but they are hack my account
they're are not my family no badey is my boyfriend but they are hant g from up and they didn't block majek iam tell you the truth
Listen. No one wants to listen for 30 minutes. Be concise.
Too much garbage of adds, disliked
Don't tell stories. Just cite principles. No one has time for side stories. This video should have been 5 minutes long. AI has made everyone lazy.
Can you say ...rude?
What’s a jeadi
Okay