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@derekagard I said 1 week becuz I usually don’t hit girls up until I’m free to fit them in my schedule U ain’t gotta wait tho bro if u know u could fit her in. Ima make an updated video on that
6:30-7:02 was so real bro. I've had a couple instances where women take awhile to get back to me or they just dont see the message (which I personally find to be cap but I digress lol), but fellas I've said this in the comments in one of his other videos. I'd try 2 no more than 3 times to text her and if you still get nothing, CUT YOUR LOSSES.
Sometimes it is cap, sometimes it’s not cuz I find myself forgetting to reply - but it is always because I don’t view her as priority or interesting enough yet. (So I know it’s the same for women) & facts💯 shoot ur nicer than me cuz I rarely try again after they disappear but if I do it’s only once and she was prolly SUPER BAD . But yeah u can definitely smash from being persistent if u do it right without coming off desperate
Nah he should make a book about all his teachings called young and deciplined complete guide for directionless men it could be a international best seller
6:17 i used to do the finger emoji pointing to the last message lol. won't catch me dead doing that sh*t now though 😂 if a chick leave me on read, i'll "soft ghost" her. which means, I won't block or unfollow, but i'll just temporarily mute her on everything & won't reach out until she does first. if she reaches out, then i'll unmute her. only good behavior gets rewarded with attention. if she left me on read on purpose, she won't care. but if it was an accident & she was busy, didn't see the message, or whatever lame excuse she wants to come up with, she'll wonder why she hasn't heard from me in awhile & she'll have to check her chat to see who messaged last. then she'll see she left me on read & if she cares, she'll reach out & usually apologize for it on her own. if she doesn't care, then she won't. this is a good way to expose the women who care & separate them from the ones that have mid to low interest, so I can easily get rid of them. [EDIT] thats only for the first time she does it. if she leaves me on read twice, she's cooked. i won't unfollow or block, but she just gets her posts & stories permanently muted on social media so I forget she exists. at that point i'm just using her presence to fluff up the appearance of pre-selection on social media. its like if she won't cooperate on the most basic of levels, then okay cool. she can just be another pretty face on my followers list. a chick ain't "forget" she got that message & it went through. if she likes you she will remember & won't leave you on read. they trip over themselves for the guy they like & don't want to risk turning him off by doing something rude like leaving him on read. also, i'll be damn if I try & pull teeth to raise a chick interest. have you seen "Ep 3: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli" ? especially @ 18:00 all them chicks popped they balloon as soon as they seen the dude. girls know whether they like you or not within seconds of seeing you. sometimes you can come back from that with personality, but it will never be burning physical desire, which is what you want.
I don’t use the finger pointing emoji -it’s a bit sassy & sus for me. I just meant the “^”. And that’s a good approach if u want girls with high interest but guys don’t need help with girls who have high interest because they will make it easy for u- guys need help with the girls that have low to moderate interest so they can bag them and smash them too. It takes skill to know how to flipt the script, get the power & raise interest. #noA$$leftbehind my strategies teach how to f*** all of em
@@YoungandDisciplined "guys need help with the girls that have low to moderate interest so they can bag them and smash them too." --- yeah see... nah ion like dealing with mid/low interest women that have a take it or leave it attitude towards me. if they can't see my value off rip, they never going to see it until they see other women interested. so I might as well just deal with those other women & not her. "It takes skill to know how to flipt the script, get the power & raise interest." --- yeah it does. i'm not looking for a challenge, i'm looking for the girls that really want what I have to offer. I think those girls will be the best match in the long run. they'll put in the most effort to make things work. the thing about just smashing a bunch of chicks is, there's always gonna be that one that catches you off guard & gets you out of frame. personally I don't advise it.
@@YoungandDisciplined idk why my reply comments keep disappearing... "guys need help with the girls that have low to moderate interest so they can bag them and smash them too." --- yeah see... nah ion like dealing with mid/low interest women that have a take it or leave it attitude towards me. if they can't see my value off rip, they never going to see it until they see other women interested. so I might as well just deal with those other women & not her. "It takes skill to know how to flipt the script, get the power & raise interest." --- yeah it does. i'm not looking for a challenge, i'm looking for the girls that really want what I have to offer. I think those girls will be the best match in the long run. they'll put in the most effort to make things work. the thing about just smashing a bunch of chicks is, there's always gonna be that one that catches you off guard & gets you out of frame. personally I don't advise it.
I’m not knocking u for what’s best for u. I’m js tbh u don’t really need dating advice fr for high interest girls cuz once u learn the super basics you’ll never really fail no matter what ( in the early stages particularly) The issue tho is that usually the high interest girl doesn’t “see ur value” in the way you think. Usually they just have high s*xual attraction to you based off the physical or something superficial. This is evident because the girl doesn’t even kno u really. The problem here (if ur looking for long term) is once the novelty wears off , if u don’t have the skills to maintain interest (which are the same skills needed to raise a woman’s interest) you will lose her. You will fail her test, if she pulls back you’ll likely screw up, she may just lose interest anyway because your personality isn’t compatible. The thing about knowing how to raise a woman’s interest from low to high is these are usually best for long term. Because she wasn’t super attracted to you based off of superficial things , her interest was likely based off moderate physical attraction and ur personality aspects. Once u get her interest high , it’s BECAUSE she fell in love with your personality + you passed her sh** tests to look pre selected. This is why women test men, they don’t HAVE to see u with other women (although that is one way to raise interest) you just have to pass tests. Your behavior shows if u are pre selected and valuable to other women. Which is the purpose of my channel .
Now for me personally I never lose frame (I use to but never do now) and I’m not looking for love. It makes me no difference if the girls f*** me because they like my personality, my career, my potential, my appearance, my height, my swag or my braces. Idrc That said, I figured these strategies out by accident just by working hard being on my grind and always talking to multiple women . And I started to see I could raise low interest women. A lot of times low to moderate interest women are the very attractive women guys want or make mistakes with.
Me and my fumbled bag started talking a couple days ago. I suggested a link this weekend(we all know why) and now I've been on read for nearly a day. I don't really care. If she gets back to me, great. If not, her loss. We'll see. 1 chance but still solid advice
For most men on TH-cam yes. That’s why I made that video “the difference between chasing & pursuing. On TH-cam I’ve seen dating coaches teach almost everything is chasing . From approaching to asking on dates, doing a first date, reaching out again etc. it’s crazy lol
10:08 yeee Faxcts we step up as a leader first and then women will follow yo lead to work for you as well, so it goes both ways, they’re shy creatures, so we gotta isolate and be better and different than their other options
Y&D you lookin very fresh in this video, the facial hair the clothes keep it up. Slay those college baddies. I don't speak to girls that leave me on read intentionally btw. I give them one day.
Bro even when I am way hotter than them they all keep testing me. I always get mad because I know subconsciously they're playing a game. Now I finally get it.
Women regardless of age will play games until they find a guy that "checks all the boxes". Those boxes include "is he the best looking guy that's contacted me" that's it. Message them a few days after and if they still don't respond or seem interested, yeah cut your losses.
Y&D. Man I've been watching your videos for a while and I have a question. Should you ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend if you're starting to text her?
Had a girl leave me on unread 2 days ago after I responded to her “hi how are you message” lol makes no sense. Would you use the same approach as being left on read?
Personally this ain’t something I do anymore, it’s just something I have done in the past that has been successful. So my answer is: do it if you want to. It won’t hurt to try. But personally , these days I would not. But I’m also in a different position with women than a lot of guys are.
@@YoungandDisciplined All good she gave in and finally reached out today, it also helped in my instagram story that I was out eating with a girl 😅 so things are looking good now brother 🫡
I hav text a female I see you ain't get back with me I guess I'm not what you looking for! When I did text her that I waz dun with her because I know she got groupiez!
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@derekagard I said 1 week becuz I usually don’t hit girls up until I’m free to fit them in my schedule
U ain’t gotta wait tho bro if u know u could fit her in. Ima make an updated video on that
@@derekagard do 1-3 bro.
@derekagard look at my community posts to see. But I talk about everything .
No one is more busy than someone who isnt interested in you.
the cold harsh truth
6:30-7:02 was so real bro. I've had a couple instances where women take awhile to get back to me or they just dont see the message (which I personally find to be cap but I digress lol), but fellas I've said this in the comments in one of his other videos. I'd try 2 no more than 3 times to text her and if you still get nothing, CUT YOUR LOSSES.
Sometimes it is cap, sometimes it’s not cuz I find myself forgetting to reply - but it is always because I don’t view her as priority or interesting enough yet. (So I know it’s the same for women)
& facts💯 shoot ur nicer than me cuz I rarely try again after they disappear but if I do it’s only once and she was prolly SUPER BAD . But yeah u can definitely smash from being persistent if u do it right without coming off desperate
Y&D should release a book called "Act like a man, Think like a woman" 😂
That sound sus when u put it that way lol
Nah he should make a book about all his teachings called young and deciplined complete guide for directionless men it could be a international best seller
6:17 i used to do the finger emoji pointing to the last message lol. won't catch me dead doing that sh*t now though 😂 if a chick leave me on read, i'll "soft ghost" her. which means, I won't block or unfollow, but i'll just temporarily mute her on everything & won't reach out until she does first. if she reaches out, then i'll unmute her. only good behavior gets rewarded with attention.
if she left me on read on purpose, she won't care. but if it was an accident & she was busy, didn't see the message, or whatever lame excuse she wants to come up with, she'll wonder why she hasn't heard from me in awhile & she'll have to check her chat to see who messaged last. then she'll see she left me on read & if she cares, she'll reach out & usually apologize for it on her own. if she doesn't care, then she won't.
this is a good way to expose the women who care & separate them from the ones that have mid to low interest, so I can easily get rid of them.
[EDIT] thats only for the first time she does it. if she leaves me on read twice, she's cooked. i won't unfollow or block, but she just gets her posts & stories permanently muted on social media so I forget she exists.
at that point i'm just using her presence to fluff up the appearance of pre-selection on social media. its like if she won't cooperate on the most basic of levels, then okay cool. she can just be another pretty face on my followers list.
a chick ain't "forget" she got that message & it went through. if she likes you she will remember & won't leave you on read. they trip over themselves for the guy they like & don't want to risk turning him off by doing something rude like leaving him on read.
also, i'll be damn if I try & pull teeth to raise a chick interest. have you seen "Ep 3: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli" ? especially @ 18:00 all them chicks popped they balloon as soon as they seen the dude. girls know whether they like you or not within seconds of seeing you. sometimes you can come back from that with personality, but it will never be burning physical desire, which is what you want.
I don’t use the finger pointing emoji -it’s a bit sassy & sus for me. I just meant the “^”.
And that’s a good approach if u want girls with high interest but guys don’t need help with girls who have high interest because they will make it easy for u- guys need help with the girls that have low to moderate interest so they can bag them and smash them too.
It takes skill to know how to flipt the script, get the power & raise interest. #noA$$leftbehind my strategies teach how to f*** all of em
@@YoungandDisciplined "guys need help with the girls that have low to moderate interest so they can bag them and smash them too." --- yeah see... nah ion like dealing with mid/low interest women that have a take it or leave it attitude towards me. if they can't see my value off rip, they never going to see it until they see other women interested. so I might as well just deal with those other women & not her.
"It takes skill to know how to flipt the script, get the power & raise interest." --- yeah it does. i'm not looking for a challenge, i'm looking for the girls that really want what I have to offer. I think those girls will be the best match in the long run. they'll put in the most effort to make things work.
the thing about just smashing a bunch of chicks is, there's always gonna be that one that catches you off guard & gets you out of frame. personally I don't advise it.
@@YoungandDisciplined idk why my reply comments keep disappearing...
"guys need help with the girls that have low to moderate interest so they can bag them and smash them too." --- yeah see... nah ion like dealing with mid/low interest women that have a take it or leave it attitude towards me. if they can't see my value off rip, they never going to see it until they see other women interested. so I might as well just deal with those other women & not her.
"It takes skill to know how to flipt the script, get the power & raise interest." --- yeah it does. i'm not looking for a challenge, i'm looking for the girls that really want what I have to offer. I think those girls will be the best match in the long run. they'll put in the most effort to make things work.
the thing about just smashing a bunch of chicks is, there's always gonna be that one that catches you off guard & gets you out of frame. personally I don't advise it.
I’m not knocking u for what’s best for u. I’m js tbh u don’t really need dating advice fr for high interest girls cuz once u learn the super basics you’ll never really fail no matter what ( in the early stages particularly)
The issue tho is that usually the high interest girl doesn’t “see ur value” in the way you think. Usually they just have high s*xual attraction to you based off the physical or something superficial. This is evident because the girl doesn’t even kno u really. The problem here (if ur looking for long term) is once the novelty wears off , if u don’t have the skills to maintain interest (which are the same skills needed to raise a woman’s interest) you will lose her. You will fail her test, if she pulls back you’ll likely screw up, she may just lose interest anyway because your personality isn’t compatible.
The thing about knowing how to raise a woman’s interest from low to high is these are usually best for long term. Because she wasn’t super attracted to you based off of superficial things , her interest was likely based off moderate physical attraction and ur personality aspects. Once u get her interest high , it’s BECAUSE she fell in love with your personality + you passed her sh** tests to look pre selected.
This is why women test men, they don’t HAVE to see u with other women (although that is one way to raise interest) you just have to pass tests. Your behavior shows if u are pre selected and valuable to other women. Which is the purpose of my channel .
Now for me personally I never lose frame (I use to but never do now) and I’m not looking for love.
It makes me no difference if the girls f*** me because they like my personality, my career, my potential, my appearance, my height, my swag or my braces. Idrc
That said, I figured these strategies out by accident just by working hard being on my grind and always talking to multiple women . And I started to see I could raise low interest women.
A lot of times low to moderate interest women are the very attractive women guys want or make mistakes with.
You should make a video about dealing with girls who are “hot and cold” and “mixed signals.”
They are giving you mixed signals cause your not being bold and direct with them,
This could be true but not necessarily.
I’ll make a video on this because this can get deep
@@shadrackkiban4716I’m def bold and direct
@@YoungandDisciplined lookin forward to this
@@YoungandDisciplinedplease 🙏
Me and my fumbled bag started talking a couple days ago. I suggested a link this weekend(we all know why) and now I've been on read for nearly a day. I don't really care. If she gets back to me, great. If not, her loss. We'll see. 1 chance but still solid advice
How did it go?
@faizissa8617 She's in a relationship and I've accepted it and moved on bro
@@prin5855 Good 👍
The definition of Chasing is a problem for most men?
For most men on TH-cam yes. That’s why I made that video “the difference between chasing & pursuing.
On TH-cam I’ve seen dating coaches teach almost everything is chasing . From approaching to asking on dates, doing a first date, reaching out again etc. it’s crazy lol
10:08 yeee Faxcts we step up as a leader first and then women will follow yo lead to work for you as well, so it goes both ways, they’re shy creatures, so we gotta isolate and be better and different than their other options
Thinking like a man for a woman is to understand how we operate and vice versa
Thanks for laying this all out 🙌
Y&D you lookin very fresh in this video, the facial hair the clothes keep it up. Slay those college baddies.
I don't speak to girls that leave me on read intentionally btw. I give them one day.
Bro even when I am way hotter than them they all keep testing me. I always get mad because I know subconsciously they're playing a game. Now I finally get it.
Women regardless of age will play games until they find a guy that "checks all the boxes". Those boxes include "is he the best looking guy that's contacted me" that's it.
Message them a few days after and if they still don't respond or seem interested, yeah cut your losses.
This is the truth 💯
Yo love the knowledge, could u make a video on ways to escalate on a date
On the date or when yall at your place?
@@YoungandDisciplined on the date
Shii we need a video of when we’re at the place too
I left her on read for 4 days first tho
Good video, best I’ve seen
I'm too real for this shit
it's very simple if they want to they will
Y&D. Man I've been watching your videos for a while and I have a question. Should you ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend if you're starting to text her?
No
You a real nga
You know that !!!!
So you said tell her did you get that message ? Because i been having phone issues..
You right bro don’t correct yourself they also texts girls too bro.
How about if they know you can see they’ve seen the message bro?
Had a girl leave me on unread 2 days ago after I responded to her “hi how are you message” lol makes no sense. Would you use the same approach as being left on read?
Personally this ain’t something I do anymore, it’s just something I have done in the past that has been successful.
So my answer is: do it if you want to. It won’t hurt to try.
But personally , these days I would not. But I’m also in a different position with women than a lot of guys are.
@@YoungandDisciplined All good she gave in and finally reached out today, it also helped in my instagram story that I was out eating with a girl 😅 so things are looking good now brother 🫡
Hero
🙏🏾
Yup
I hav text a female I see you ain't get back with me I guess I'm not what you looking for! When I did text her that I waz dun with her because I know she got groupiez!
let her text you simple