Indifference is huge in sales too! It's a very perennial soft skill that influences multiple facets of your life of which dating and relationships are no exceptions ;) No wonder assholes thrive in both 😜
As justice lord Batman would say: "If you want people to respect the big laws, you gotta enforce the small ones." Likewise, if you dont adress small disrespects, they will eventually snowball into big disrespects. If she gives you bad attitude, let her know immediately: "There's the door, you can leave anytime you want." Be ready to leave at any moment, and as cold and composed as possible. Don't let them see any weakness/vulnerability. If she oversteps your boundaries in a big way, or a small way but does not apologise, just matter-of-factly end it, send her stuff to her mom, change the keys, block her number and ghost her. Modern women are children, and children need to be taught responsibility and consequences to their actions. Remember, they have daddy issues, and you're not her father. Teach her her lesson, she needs it.
I'm so grateful I stopped giving the world a shit I stopped carrying a woman I stopped caring about Society I just stopped giving a rat's ass of a fucking everything it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me.
Paul, great to hear from you brother. Spot on. Sad it takes many of us as men to grow to this point. All part of the walk of life I suppose. Hope you are well out there in the world today my man.
This sounds like a fusion of a few different concepts that the OG, Patrice O'Neal used to talk about: In your heart of hearts, what would you miss if she left aside from her body and sex? Nothing, most likely. Knowing you're better than her because of all the work you've put into your life to get where you are and what you have. And, once she knows you will righteously leve she will righteously stay. This was a great video, man. Thanks
Rob, thanks so much for tuning in and adding some valuable perspective. I appreciate your presence here my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today. Mike
If being an asshole is NOT treating her badly and that’s not what you mean, why is it I’ve seen unemployed alcoholics who beat and cheat on their wives seem to have their absolute devotion and they won’t leave him for anything?
Divorce matters for women a lot Cuz their Age matters Society matters They get more negative emotions Not saying they shouldn’t leave , they should leave for better. But once someone is trapped like that, they need external help to guide them through.
It goes farther than that. Think about how hot they get for notorious criminals. The more heinous their crimes, the better. Hybristophilia is the name for it
1. Have options in women 2. Stick up for yourself and her. Don't be a push over. 3. Possess the ability to walk away and not be bothered. It's not about being an a-hole. It's about value of self worth
The weak minded simps that don't value, respect, stand up for themself, and are afraid to say "NO" (when needed) are those that say, "Man, how does an asshole like that get all the girls? I could never treat a girl like that." A woman wants to look UP to a man, gain his approval and respect, not the other way around. If you're always putting someone up on a pedestal, how can they look up to you and respect you? They can only look down on you as you're only putting them up and above you. Loving, respecting and valuing yourself shouldn't be perceived as being an asshole as this is a misconception among the beta simps. It's how every confident man should be. Being mean, disrespectful, and putting them down isn't the way to go even though it works on a good %age of women, especially if they're damaged.
NO ONE, male or female, likes a slavering dog looking for pats all day. Women don't want ''to look up to a man'' they want to be around people they respect-just as you do. A little more common sense and less RP memes.
As Clark Gable said in “Gone with The Wind “ Frankly I don’t give a damm My wife gave me pure misery off and on for over a year. Then she threaten to divorce me. I said “ok” she had a complete turn around.
Ah yes, the gone with the wind line. Is this not one of the greatest moments in cinema ever made? More importantly this is a depiction of this concept. So accurate. Thanks for tuning in my friend.
I agree my friend. A woman's beauty can only take her so far, with a strong minded man that is. Many of us cave to the kryptonite for a long time. Lord knows I'm guilty. Thanks so much for commenting brother. I hope you're well out there in the world today.
Thanks for this video. I worked in Bhutan for two years. Bhutan is also known as the land of peaceful thunder dragon. Not just any dragon but thunder dragon. It aligns with the idea that men should be monsters and know how to control it. You are dangerous, but benevolent. Only then you gain respect.
Hey Imdiyu, thanks so much for your comment brother. I really like this analogy. I always love to hear from other men from other cultures and other parts of the world to learn new things. I really appreciate you. Your channel looks great btw! You have a real creative talent. Follow that my man. I'm certain it will take you to amazing places. Best regards.. Mike
You can reverse the numbers, the woman a 5 and the man a 9, and her attitude will still be the same because women overrate themselves and underrate men. Most women say their minimum for a man is 6’ and $100k. If she can get that guy she’ll then go for the 6’2” millionaire and still not be happy, wanting the 6’4” billionaire. And standing up to women and enforcing boundaries doesn’t make a woman respect a man, it usually just pisses her off and she’ll drop him for another guy. The only ones women chase after are the bad boys who truly do treat them like crap and most good men refuse to lower themselves to do that.
Hang in there brother-surely we all learn from these sorts of situations and we add pieces to our lives that we can carry on and go forward with. Hard lessons though.
I don't care what anybody says when you meet a woman she will always first try to put you in friend zone!!! Dealing with her emotions taken her phone calls every minute of the day. being available too much. Fixing tires. Take care of this stage first before you move on to what this guy saying. And this guy makes sense.
Well, the fact that vvomen become abus!ve as soon as they think they "can," proves they are just not good people to begin with. I grew up in an abus!ve household, and the best advice I ever got from a fat Eurasian guy at school was "stick up for yourself." I realized he was right and changed my life over it. Definitely be the asshole.
Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)
It goes the same way back to women too. If I’m able to just leave and go whenever I want, how much respect you think I’m gonna have for her? Zero. I treated my ex like shit and came and went all the time cause SHE allowed it. The core of relationships are boundaries which are your personal rules for how you wish to be treated. Set strong boundaries and you set a strong relationship.
Indifference is key. Learnt that from Dad TL.
Indifference is huge in sales too! It's a very perennial soft skill that influences multiple facets of your life of which dating and relationships are no exceptions ;)
No wonder assholes thrive in both 😜
Wish my dad would have taught me some stuff
As justice lord Batman would say: "If you want people to respect the big laws, you gotta enforce the small ones."
Likewise, if you dont adress small disrespects, they will eventually snowball into big disrespects. If she gives you bad attitude, let her know immediately: "There's the door, you can leave anytime you want."
Be ready to leave at any moment, and as cold and composed as possible. Don't let them see any weakness/vulnerability.
If she oversteps your boundaries in a big way, or a small way but does not apologise, just matter-of-factly end it, send her stuff to her mom, change the keys, block her number and ghost her.
Modern women are children, and children need to be taught responsibility and consequences to their actions. Remember, they have daddy issues, and you're not her father. Teach her her lesson, she needs it.
Bro I want to be friends with you. You know your shit
Thanks dude! I needed this!
I'm so grateful I stopped giving the world a shit I stopped carrying a woman I stopped caring about Society I just stopped giving a rat's ass of a fucking everything it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me.
Hang in there brother!
So true brother never be scared to walk away from a toxic situation good vid.
Paul, great to hear from you brother. Spot on. Sad it takes many of us as men to grow to this point. All part of the walk of life I suppose. Hope you are well out there in the world today my man.
@@aboutthat5539 Sad but true that it has to come to this with dealing with women.
Yeah but you can’t complain of a toxic situation if it’s you who’s the asshole. Sounds like you’re the problem and toxic to be around.
This sounds like a fusion of a few different concepts that the OG, Patrice O'Neal used to talk about:
In your heart of hearts, what would you miss if she left aside from her body and sex? Nothing, most likely.
Knowing you're better than her because of all the work you've put into your life to get where you are and what you have.
And, once she knows you will righteously leve she will righteously stay.
This was a great video, man. Thanks
Rob, thanks so much for tuning in and adding some valuable perspective. I appreciate your presence here my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today. Mike
Nice way of saying you value nothing but sex-little wonder women are refusing to date or get married.
Seek out mutualistic relationships. Reject parasitic relationships.
I love this
If being an asshole is NOT treating her badly and that’s not what you mean, why is it I’ve seen unemployed alcoholics who beat and cheat on their wives seem to have their absolute devotion and they won’t leave him for anything?
Bitches be crazy
Divorce matters for women a lot
Cuz their Age matters
Society matters
They get more negative emotions
Not saying they shouldn’t leave , they should leave for better.
But once someone is trapped like that, they need external help to guide them through.
It goes farther than that. Think about how hot they get for notorious criminals. The more heinous their crimes, the better. Hybristophilia is the name for it
Attachment and fear of rejection.
That's not loyalty. It's a trauma bond.
Reminds of a book I read years ago by F.J. Shark "How to be The Jerk Women Love".
Good advice! Value yourself men 💪
Appreciate it! Thanks for checking in Joshua. Be good out there my man
1. Have options in women 2. Stick up for yourself and her. Don't be a push over. 3. Possess the ability to walk away and not be bothered. It's not about being an a-hole. It's about value of self worth
Great advice!!
The weak minded simps that don't value, respect, stand up for themself, and are afraid to say "NO" (when needed) are those that say, "Man, how does an asshole like that get all the girls? I could never treat a girl like that." A woman wants to look UP to a man, gain his approval and respect, not the other way around. If you're always putting someone up on a pedestal, how can they look up to you and respect you? They can only look down on you as you're only putting them up and above you. Loving, respecting and valuing yourself shouldn't be perceived as being an asshole as this is a misconception among the beta simps. It's how every confident man should be. Being mean, disrespectful, and putting them down isn't the way to go even though it works on a good %age of women, especially if they're damaged.
well put
Yeah. But a lot of the time they're going out with guys that are actual assholes.
@nelsonhibbert5267
Exactly bro.....and they Love, Worship, and Adore those guys and love every minute of being treated like Dried Dogg $hit.
@@nelsonhibbert5267only minority of women do
NO ONE, male or female, likes a slavering dog looking for pats all day. Women don't want ''to look up to a man'' they want to be around people they respect-just as you do. A little more common sense and less RP memes.
Thank you, sent this to my ex wife
As Clark Gable said in “Gone with The Wind “ Frankly I don’t give a damm
My wife gave me pure misery off and on for over a year. Then she threaten to divorce me. I said “ok” she had a complete turn around.
Ah yes, the gone with the wind line. Is this not one of the greatest moments in cinema ever made? More importantly this is a depiction of this concept. So accurate. Thanks for tuning in my friend.
If all she has in the cart is beauty, bail out ASAP. Nobody is doing you a favor except yourself.
I agree my friend. A woman's beauty can only take her so far, with a strong minded man that is. Many of us cave to the kryptonite for a long time. Lord knows I'm guilty. Thanks so much for commenting brother. I hope you're well out there in the world today.
Thanks for this video. I worked in Bhutan for two years. Bhutan is also known as the land of peaceful thunder dragon. Not just any dragon but thunder dragon. It aligns with the idea that men should be monsters and know how to control it. You are dangerous, but benevolent. Only then you gain respect.
Hey Imdiyu, thanks so much for your comment brother. I really like this analogy. I always love to hear from other men from other cultures and other parts of the world to learn new things. I really appreciate you. Your channel looks great btw! You have a real creative talent. Follow that my man. I'm certain it will take you to amazing places. Best regards.. Mike
@@aboutthat5539 I shall follow my dreams. Thanks man
What part of the world are you living in? I'm so fascinated by your film making
@@aboutthat5539 India
Jordan Peterson talks about that exact analogy. It is spot on.
Proof: A different TH-cam called The Insulting Librarian
They are sexually attracted to the dark Triad traits psychopathy machiavellianism neuroticism and one other I can't remember
Well said Tony, thanks for tuning in my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today.
Narcissism is the missing corner you’re looking for
Tom leykis explains it really good 😛👍
Hey Herbert, I like Tom, good call on that one. Hope you're well out there in the world today my friend.
He can be a bit krass though and rude but that's life
I agree!
1 step: You should be a man
2 step: check the result
You can reverse the numbers, the woman a 5 and the man a 9, and her attitude will still be the same because women overrate themselves and underrate men. Most women say their minimum for a man is 6’ and $100k. If she can get that guy she’ll then go for the 6’2” millionaire and still not be happy, wanting the 6’4” billionaire.
And standing up to women and enforcing boundaries doesn’t make a woman respect a man, it usually just pisses her off and she’ll drop him for another guy. The only ones women chase after are the bad boys who truly do treat them like crap and most good men refuse to lower themselves to do that.
Me idiot landed and stayed in the friend zone and let me be treated like shit thats the worst bcs u get nothing cant even eff her..
Hang in there brother-surely we all learn from these sorts of situations and we add pieces to our lives that we can carry on and go forward with. Hard lessons though.
Prat em . Fake rejection to increase desire. From the Days of Iceberg Slim.
Thanks for stopping by David. Hope you are well out there in the world today brother.
If you have a backbone… women run away to the next liar…
I don't care what anybody says when you meet a woman she will always first try to put you in friend zone!!!
Dealing with her emotions taken her phone calls every minute of the day. being available too much. Fixing tires. Take care of this stage first before you move on to what this guy saying. And this guy makes sense.
Well, the fact that vvomen become abus!ve as soon as they think they "can," proves they are just not good people to begin with. I grew up in an abus!ve household, and the best advice I ever got from a fat Eurasian guy at school was "stick up for yourself." I realized he was right and changed my life over it. Definitely be the asshole.
I ALREADY AM.IT JUST COMES NATURALLY!
Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)
Acting mean? Hahaha
as long as women have any power… you cannot win this stupid game…
Grow a pair!
@@johnaustin209 You mean… I need 4…?
Teasing.
Touch my bum......gently.
It goes the same way back to women too. If I’m able to just leave and go whenever I want, how much respect you think I’m gonna have for her? Zero. I treated my ex like shit and came and went all the time cause SHE allowed it. The core of relationships are boundaries which are your personal rules for how you wish to be treated. Set strong boundaries and you set a strong relationship.
Step 1: Don’t be a jerk to women , just be nice and be a gentlemen to her
Sure, and get walked over constantly like a doormat.
@@SantaAnaGeorgeJ ok not that , u also have to stand up for urself as well
Good luck with that one!