How To Tie Baby On Your Back ! The Africa Style !DeJonahsFamily

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ม.ค. 2025
  • Step by step guide on how to tie your baby on your back. On this video my baby is one year old.
    First, you need africa cloth(wrapper) or scarf that is up to 2 yards and then your baby as young as 6 weeks old to as old as 3yrs old.
    OK here are the steps..
    First, Place your baby on your back- make sure your grips are strong, then bend a little for easy control and gentel cover your baby with your cloth or scarf then tuck in on both sides just like tying a towel.
    Then, slowly push your baby up so he can sit comfortably and then continue to secure him properly using the cloth.
    Note: baby hands can stay in or out- its your preference, but my tip is to tunk hands in if you want baby to fall asleep quickly.
    Finally, to get your baby out , NOTE if you are not used to this make sure you are standing by your bed or soft sofa incase you loss grip then baby can easy land on a safe place.
    And that is it, remember practice makes perfect.

ความคิดเห็น • 102

  • @dejonahsfamily1979
    @dejonahsfamily1979  4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hi there, I hope you enjoy this lovely video on how you can tie or wear your baby on the back.
    There are many benefits of wearing your baby on your back
    First, it increases bonding time with your baby.
    Second, it gives free hands to do other household chores or attend to your other kids.
    And last not the least, it decreases the risk of flat headed syndrome.
    Thank you for visiting my channel, please comment and like the video and importantly dont forget to subscribe. >3

    • @shoRtyglupi
      @shoRtyglupi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi! love this video! can i ask how big is the cloth you are using? what are the measurements? thank you so much dear! 🫶🏽🙏🏽

  • @missquinn861
    @missquinn861 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was walking around my local shopping centre recently. My area is predominantly white folk. A gorgeous African mother walked past me with her baby on her back, just like this. It was honestly one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen ❤

  • @bridgetoladipo
    @bridgetoladipo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My mom usually says tying baby to the back creates a bond between mother and child because of the warmth of the mother’s body. Thanks for promoting the African culture. Awww he’s already sleeping. New friend here to stay. FV2

  • @lovefaith1313
    @lovefaith1313 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I did this with both my boys, ESPECIALLY with them being 13 months apart. Im first gen American but of Ghanian descent. I grew up seeing this, from family and ladies in my church. So it came natural for me when I had my kids. It helps SO MUCH! Bc you are literally hands free! My boys would fall asleep in 5 minutes or less, EVERYTIME! So if do one at a time and put them both down for a nap. So I just went about cooking, laundry, cleaning. When done I’d put them to lay down and I would take a nap too lol. I miss those days!!!
    You did well, I love it!!

  • @leiathequeen
    @leiathequeen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this! There’s an African mama I always see at the grocery store wearing her baby on her back. She always looks peaceful and the baby is almost always asleep, while I am struggling around the store pushing a stroller while still holding my baby because inevitably she wants out of the stroller halfway through the shopping trip. So thank you for showing us! You and your baby are just beautiful ❤

  • @goddessqueen5673
    @goddessqueen5673 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this video. I had to use a bed sheet to wrap my daughter because i dont have a wrappper and she LOVES it. I really wish more american women would do it

  • @dayanabeaubrun2041
    @dayanabeaubrun2041 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this. This is handy for busy parents doing everything alone.

  • @conwaybarbour663
    @conwaybarbour663 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You literally just saved my whole sanity this morning. Thank you.❤

  • @bohemiansusan2897
    @bohemiansusan2897 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    When I was a child, Korean mothers also tied babies to their backs. There is so much more that I can do when the baby is on my back rather in front.

  • @JacobThomasRudd
    @JacobThomasRudd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a cute baby!! I have been wanting to learn this skill. I use a baby carrier but love the cloth feel, color options, cheap alternative, and easy to replace when worn. God bless you!! ❤

  • @flower-bomb-808
    @flower-bomb-808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for explaining and demonstrating so well how to wrap your baby! I'll give it a try

  • @ksierra4444
    @ksierra4444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a sweet sleepy boy! My 5 1/2 month old loves to be worn on my front in a carrier. I have short arms and want to wear her on my back soon so im watching all the videos! Thank you so much for this!

  • @myfavorites5747
    @myfavorites5747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! I can't wait to try with my grandbaby, since I didn't do this with my own babies. I'm looking forward to wearing her this way and getting more done when she's here.

  • @paymenomind1604
    @paymenomind1604 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how second nature this is to you that you kept tying it out of habit and untying it to show us

  • @kitchenthings2021
    @kitchenthings2021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your baby is so cute and I like the way you carry him

  • @katrinaosorio2134
    @katrinaosorio2134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful! Thank you for sharing this 🖤🖤 I wish my bub would stay asleep like this lol

  • @laurak7575
    @laurak7575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did this in a robe and it worked out so well.

  • @vickyrichardson7468
    @vickyrichardson7468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She has such a soothing accent. Its making me sleepy too

  • @Nadine6528
    @Nadine6528 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 😄that’s very nice for the baby 😄🌹🌹🌹

  • @cynthiaboateng431
    @cynthiaboateng431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww, he is so cute

  • @dusanpuskarov42
    @dusanpuskarov42 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this is beautiful
    we still have a lot to learn from Africans

  • @weslieonsando1124
    @weslieonsando1124 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the tutorial!

  • @feestor5660
    @feestor5660 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is how our nanny carried me and my brother and my mom said we were most contented when we were being looked after by our beloved Thandi.

  • @תמיטנדלר
    @תמיטנדלר 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My baby is 3 months, how do u do it when they are small?

    • @therichsibling3714
      @therichsibling3714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tie on the front, look up baby wearing. I wore my small baby on front

  • @Christabelsside01
    @Christabelsside01 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you made this to look so simple..I struggle to tie my little sister on my back because I used to see my mum do it.fv2

  • @augustinealesi3109
    @augustinealesi3109 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This looks beautifully done the baby is even asleep so cute f2

  • @hannahm4581
    @hannahm4581 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    where can i get one of these wraps?

    • @feestor5660
      @feestor5660 ปีที่แล้ว

      African ladies use whatever is available....towels were very popular in our area.

    • @RaquelVieira-ie7yj
      @RaquelVieira-ie7yj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Não são porta bebés, são capulanas, tecidos de algodão usados para varias coisas inclusive pôr bebes nas costas

  • @ladyneide88
    @ladyneide88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you forsharing, I really would like to try it.

  • @Faynabel
    @Faynabel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done Emma

  • @Agapy8888
    @Agapy8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What kind of cloth is it? Where do you buy it?

  • @barbie6391
    @barbie6391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m watching this to be ready when I have a baby and I have to clean the house, wash, etc 😅💕

  • @nyaropelizabeth2669
    @nyaropelizabeth2669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like this but at how old can I start tying mine? She is one month now is it ok to start tying her??

    • @therichsibling3714
      @therichsibling3714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I tied mine to the front when small. Even 4 days old. Look up baby wearing on youtube

  • @chancembiaoh1758
    @chancembiaoh1758 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i remember doing this with my dolls as a child and cannot wait to tie my kids like this and do stuff around the house. fv2

  • @LykiahsTouch
    @LykiahsTouch 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I place one side of the fabric on my shoulders .Now this is new and will try it out.

  • @dianegarcia7108
    @dianegarcia7108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can I do this with a 6 month old

  • @Sj-kr5wc
    @Sj-kr5wc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can a 2.5 year old fit in it? Lol I want one

  • @FemmeExtravagance
    @FemmeExtravagance ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear, thank you very much! At what age African moms start carrying their children on the back?

    • @rachelee1103
      @rachelee1103 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think as little as a few months as far as i've seen.

    • @cynthiatowers1038
      @cynthiatowers1038 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I heard someone said “as soon as they can support their own head.”

    • @muzo
      @muzo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Even a few weeks, if you’re a pro, my grandma did it, I can’t 😅

  • @merriammabuela2748
    @merriammabuela2748 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Carrying mine at the back as i am watching this 😅 He's two months 🙈

  • @Mindyzzzzz
    @Mindyzzzzz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @sharonngulube3437
    @sharonngulube3437 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Indeed,this is not only beautiful, but also important as the baby is comfortable as well. F2

  • @youknowwhatflav9916
    @youknowwhatflav9916 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So cute ❤

  • @mrs.valentines3156
    @mrs.valentines3156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about Neck Support his head is leaning is that safe for crooks

  • @Momvlogs-f3b
    @Momvlogs-f3b 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Africa Mama 😍

  • @tazzy6403
    @tazzy6403 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What age is this from?

  • @austinmccollum4168
    @austinmccollum4168 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cant get my little one on my back yet

  • @avasluxurysforlessmore2989
    @avasluxurysforlessmore2989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really simple #chillsaturday

  • @Merrla
    @Merrla ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ❤️

  • @dianegarcia7108
    @dianegarcia7108 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Today is my first tiMe I’m so scared

  • @CHEFCHINNYSKITCHEN
    @CHEFCHINNYSKITCHEN 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well well,this reminds me how my mum used to tied my girl on her back..fv2

  • @reginanyong1772
    @reginanyong1772 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this but i can't get my baby to stop sliding down my bum. He's 6 months old. How can i secure him, pls help! ❤❤

    • @Eaji10
      @Eaji10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You need to use another clothe/wrapper to secure the bottom. You will tie it half way between his mid back and his bottom and tie it on your belly

    • @reginanyong1772
      @reginanyong1772 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Eaji10 Thank you! I'll give it a try ❤️

  • @mosils5233
    @mosils5233 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woooow looks so simple, when I try this I fail miserably lool. My baby is always sliding down 🤣🤣

  • @حسبنااللهونعمالوكيل-ص7ب
    @حسبنااللهونعمالوكيل-ص7ب 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    الولد نام براحة 😂

  • @theashway8669
    @theashway8669 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    so simple #chillsat1

  • @simbamukandatsama6333
    @simbamukandatsama6333 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Áfrican way

  • @Honeypepper.
    @Honeypepper. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl, I'd be scared to death to back into something or sit down forgetting the baby is strapped to my back. I see why you do it when living in Nigeria, with the hustle and bustle in that country however, I don't see it very necessary in more laid back countries

    • @suelaamisandwich
      @suelaamisandwich 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It’s more about preference then necessity. I essentially replaces a stroller.

    • @samuelstephen6769
      @samuelstephen6769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I live in Germany (super laid back) and always see how western mums struggle pushing their kids on escalator blocking others and receiving crazy stares. Elevators in train stations are easily dysfunctional or busy, mums miss their train connections waiting for elevator to get to their floors.
      Train station escalators have a sign stopping strollers with kids from coming through.
      Solution? TIE YOUR BABY ON YOUR BACK IN THE SO CALLED LAID BACK COUNTRIES & YOU WON'T MISS YOUR TRAINS OR BREAK LAWS GOING ON ESCALATORS.

    • @alexus420
      @alexus420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samuelstephen6769😂right !

    • @daniellet9293
      @daniellet9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'm a Westerner and I think it's genius. Frees up your hands so you can actually get things done while also getting some healthy snuggle time in!

    • @dumbphonemom
      @dumbphonemom ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can actually do chores around the house with the baby on the back. This is useful for everyone.

  • @lydiasabba1870
    @lydiasabba1870 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahahaha poor boy
    I've tried this. But am not very good at it

  • @jazzyj9974
    @jazzyj9974 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He gone lol

  • @rosemarymoncrieffe592
    @rosemarymoncrieffe592 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Waste of time. I think it is careless to carry a child on your back. Your baby should always be visible in front of you. You don't have to do that in 2024. This is ultimate carelessness. I never understand why these women are so careless.

    • @georgettemua
      @georgettemua 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It is cultural and has been done in African countries for generations. If it's not for you, then you don't need to worry about others who benefit from our traditions.

    • @awesomepumashoes
      @awesomepumashoes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Please enlighten us on what else we “don’t have to do in 2024”

    • @maybaby1087
      @maybaby1087 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@awesomepumashoeslol!
      Not making this a racial issue, and I have no clue the race of the person behind that ignorant comment, nor does it matter, but I find it funny that white women are on trend with baby wearing/wrapping in 2024 and teaching others how to do this with the most complicated and expensive material, and here this mama has shown such a simple way traditionally per her culture. Beautiful that we're still into this in 2024 🎉

    • @jesusisendandmeans
      @jesusisendandmeans 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also, the traditional ways that African women have been wearing and comforting their babies for generations are now the standard in the west. Please check out Pediatrician Harvey Karp’s book The Happiest Baby on the Block.

    • @Betty-fe9ql
      @Betty-fe9ql 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We can do both wena haaii 🙄

  • @c0br41
    @c0br41 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would never put my baby om my back. You never know what can happen and you don't see it. Only cold people do this

    • @mohinisapra7697
      @mohinisapra7697 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Only cold people tell there kids to move out at age 18.

    • @c0br41
      @c0br41 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mohinisapra7697 I agree

    • @loladownz5117
      @loladownz5117 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're taking it to far kid

    • @amarlawalters1670
      @amarlawalters1670 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      How is it cold? Cold is putting your baby down and letting them cry because you are busy. I searched this because when I tied her to my front it was difficult to do tasks while she is against my chest so being on my back is easier for both of us as she is still close to me and I can still get things done around the house. This is a very ignorant comment, if you don’t understand the culture that’s fine but do not insult and called the technique cold

    • @Bodyhealthsoul
      @Bodyhealthsoul ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I grew up in Africa…I saw this daily lol. I guess they must be “cold”

  • @reckontonottobemoved
    @reckontonottobemoved ปีที่แล้ว

    Arican this African that

    • @Kingbasher69
      @Kingbasher69 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bro what?

    • @YingYue-v2y
      @YingYue-v2y ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@Kingbasher69frr lmaoo